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You broke up with your lover or spouse? You probably feel very miserable and lost right about now. We are going to talk about saving a relationship, or how to fix things, if possible, and get your ex back. No tools are needed, at least not in the usual sense. What I want to share with you today are new ways of thinking, a new approach to the age-old problem of getting him or her back.

There are different ways to go about it, of course, because relationships, like us, are complicated. If it was easy, everybody would be living happily ever after, wouldn't they? You have only to look around you to see this is not so. I have been called a romantic, but in my humble opinion, there are way too many single, lonely people in this world!

The first step to getting your ex back is to realize something few others will tell you: it is going to take some time and patience, as well as a bit of effort on your part. Why is this? Simply because you surely want to do things properly, and get your mate back forever. You certainly do not want to go through this heartache again, do you?

I didn't think so, and I really hope you do not. A good place to start, then, is to admit to yourself what you did wrong, and where your relationship went off the rails. I do not just mean things you did, like cheating, or physical or mental abuse. It also includes things you did not do, like paying attention to your mate, helping with the housework or communicating effectively.

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To properly learn what saving a relationship really means and what you have to do, take a long, hard, honest look at yourself. If you do not entirely like what you see, change it. Starting now. Make a series of small improvements, like being more alert, responsive, loving and talking more about your true feelings.

One of the ways to have a good, close relationship with someone is to be open and clear about yourself, your thoughts and your feelings. Yes, this is risky, you will sometimes get hurt. But you will also greatly increase your chance of relationship success, either with your ex or someone new, later on.

Next on our list of how to get your partner back: Tell him or her! Let your ex know that you accept your share of responsibility for what happened. Explain what you are doing to change your behavior, so that it will not happen again. Show regret and humility, if you really did something wrong or hurt your partner.

If you did not, just explain that you are sorry the two of you broke up. But not too sorry or humble. She wants you to be strong and manly. This may sound a bit confusing, but that is the way it is in the great game of saving a relationship, or how to win him/her back. Most of us just stumble through, one way or another. You are now better equipped than most to find the ways to get your ex back.

With this basic foundation established, you will soon see whether you have a chance to actually get your ex back. Most relationships can be saved; few situations are truly hopeless. Talk honestly to your former mate, and find out where things stand right now. Do not hide your feelings. It is time for a little passion and love to show through!

Of course, if your ex has absolutely decided to call it quits and move on, there is nothing you can do about it, for now. Stay in touch, and remain good friends. However, few things in life are really as absolute and final as that. You never know what the future may hold for the two of you. And it may not be the too distant future either, so do not give up hope of reuniting with your lover.

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Getting back together with you Ex after a breakup can be difficult. Even if you are feeling bad and sad, remember with a good plan it can be done. Just stay positive and work you plan and soon you will be back with you Ex.

Getting back together with someone who broke up with you, broke your heart, or even broke your stuff can be hard. For some reason, this person no longer wanted to try and work together with you on your relationship, but instead, they just wanted it to end.

Knowing this, you still can get back together with your Ex. The most important aspect to remember is that you must be sure that you want to get back together 100%. Don't do it because it is "the right thing to do" or because you Dad said that you belong together. Do it for yourself!

A second aspect you must remember is that sometimes relationships work and sometimes they don't. Some couples can recapture the magic of the relationship that they had, while others cannot. Even if you don't succeed, you will know that you did your best to try and get back with your Ex.

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So what to do? Try these three tips to get back the magic in your relationships today:

1. Get a grip on your feelings--No one wants to deal with someone who is angry/yelling or sad/weepy. The worst thing you can do is call and cry or yell on the phone!

2. Don't let the breakup bother you- at least don't let that show! Keep up with your usual activities, hang out with your friends and show your Ex that this breakup did not you.

3. Be Mysterious-If you are staying busy and hanging out with friends, and not calling your Ex, this mysterious behavior will start to make your Ex curious about you and soon your Ex will call.

Your Ex will call, so just use your plan, and keep it brief and tell you Ex how busy you are. Make plans to get together but make sure to stay cool and take it slow. Remember to look your best, as this will help you to feel your best and most positive!

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Having the right relationship mindset is a key factor to improve the relationship you are currently in; and in the worst case, right after a breakup. Here we will discuss the right mindset you need to have after a breakup if you are serious about getting your relationship back again.

The first thing you will need to do is clear your head of all anger and blame. Why? What has happened has happened. If you cannot change the events of a breakup, why let it fester inside of you? This will be counterproductive when planning a strategy to get your ex back.

Acquiring the right mindset will give you the necessary wisdom you will need in getting your relationship back, and it will keep it healthy and strong once you do get it back.

Focus on solutions only. This one is easy because if you start to replay all of the confusion since the breakup, you aren't focusing on a solution-you are focusing on a problem. Ever notice that the people who focus on negative things always seem to have more problems? Being solution driven will put you way ahead of the game in relationships.

Be supportive of your partner. Even though you have broken up, you are putting yourself above those who would only criticize and blame in this situation. This quality will eventually draw your partner back to you. Bitterness and condemning will only push them away.

Nobody's perfect. We all forget this one especially after a breakup. Realizing that we all have imperfections will give you a better perspective on accepting your partner. They may not be able to change some of their traits, so stop trying to change them. However, don't confuse serious issues like drug addiction or violence as a personality trait.

Give each other space. Right after a breakup, emotionally charged people do not need to be around each other. This leads to saying things that we will regret, things that can cause even more harm. It's been suggested to give each other at least a month away from one another after a breakup. This isn't impossible if you are really serious about getting your relationship back again.

What can you do to get your ex back? Is it possible to make your ex miss you like crazy?

To learn the killer, advanced strategies to get your ex back, simply Click Here!

If Criss Angel is such a good magician, how come he can't hypnotize girls into staying with him? Perhaps he hasn't read these tips but you can and rest assured that we'll never tell anyone your secret psychological tricks that helped you get your ex back.

Step 1: Who?: Even though you have a 20 minute makeout session with their picture every morning, pretend your ex doesn't exist when you pass them in the street. It's nice to say hello but to plant confusion in their brain, proceed along like they're just another stranger in town.

Step 2: So Happy For You: If your ex has started a new relationship, avoid the urge to slash their tires and instead tell them how happy you are for them. Your ex is expecting confrontation but when they're met with adoration, their whole world will be turned upside-down.

Step 3: I'm Single For A Little Bit: When your ex asks what your relationship status is, tell them you're just going to stay single for a little while. This exerts confidence and that you're able to function without needing a boyfriend or girlfriend constantly in your life.

Step 4: A Slice Of Humble Pie: Tell your ex that the breakup really kind of caught you off guard and that you were humbled by it. That being said, tell them you're doing good and just working every day so that your next relationship ends better. This presents to your ex that you have closure and that you're acknowledging the split.

Step 5: Buy A Friend Gift: Instead of a diamond ring or a bouquet of flowers, buy your ex a present that could come from a friend. You'll really get your ex thinking when you say, "Me and some friends went to a baseball game and I thought this Cubs hat would be really cool. You don't even have to pay me back."

Step 6: Hold Your Ground: Even though the end result you desire is to get back with your ex, stand your ground if they start to weaken and welcome you back. You'll have more pull in the relationship if it actually appears that you need to think about taking them back instead of instantly moving their stuff back in your apartment.

Step 7: Work The Love Pace: Pulling a rabbit out of a hat is sometimes easier than making a relationship work after a breakup. Pretend you're starting over and go at a slow pace otherwise you'll just end up sawing your new partnership in half in a trick gone horribly wrong.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to visit the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here
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