Mirror neurones and sexual sub communication.
Disclaimer: First of all I'm not a scientist I don't own a White coat,this is just some shit that I have observed from the field. If you disagree that's cool i dont usually post blog stuff on the main forum because ultimately im writing this for myself tho hopefully some of you guys get something from it.
If you follow rsd you will have heard certain instructors say that the words you say are irrelevant.Tho I don't totally agree with this what I do think is that the place were they are coming from is far more important than what you are saying.The tone,vibe and energy can dramatically change the way a simple sentence is interpreted.women judge men on the behaviour rather than looks which makes me believe that they are more sensitive to external energy.
The phrase what you feel she feels perfectly sums up this mirror neuron phenomenon.... So what are mirror neurones?
Also part 2
Those videos could break it down far better than bonney could . In short, through empathy we can understanding and enter into another's feelings.
Ok so now we know how mirror neurones work we can begin to apply it to our game.Our aim is to inspire sexual arousal in the girl so what must we do to achieve this? Yeah you got it inspire sexual arousal in our selves first.
The first most important thing is to be able to relax in a high energy social setting,even a slight un-easiness will not allow you to be relaxed enough to achieve pure sexual arousal it would be like getting a pint if pure spring water and putting a single drop of oil into it,almost pure but you wouldn't drink it.
Long term ways to achieve pure social relaxation are destroy approach anxiety by doing lots of approaches over time.
Another thing I mentioned in another blog entry is that the ability to fight will allow you to feel more relaxed because our primitive chimpanzee brains are still very much wired to avoid confrontation. So your brain for the most part will simply not allow you to feel totally relaxed because it feels like at any moment brock lesber could come along dump you on your head and rain elbows down on your face lol.So some sort of self defence or combat training will help you with this. There is a stigma around Mma so I wont suggest that whoops just did.
Short term way to feel relaxed is night momentum just do enough approaches in a night until your brain realises there is nothing to be un-easy about. This is ok but your brain will pretty much forget every time you go out so you will have to start over every night.
If you combine the short term and long term methods you will be a oozing sexyness from the bat :-)
The next thing that you need to achieve this is level of competence when talking to girls. Basic knowledge of game,how to open,attract,insolation,rapport,venue change,extract and close.... Get this stuff down.
Now you have pure relaxation and competence when talking to girls you can now be in a sexual state. Some of the ways I like to get in a sexual state are.
Talking to girls and feeling there feminine energy
There tone of voice
There body's,face is huge for me,tits,ass and I confess I have a foot and ankle fetish lol there is something about thin ankles in high heels that makes me horny as fuck,when your in the club that's all I see so it's not hard for me to get aroused.
Physical escalation, throughout the night I build sexual arousal through touching girl lol sounds kinda creepy. Hugs,waist holding,makeouts,rubbing.
Now that you are there you have to convey it to the girl,this cannot be forced if she feels it cool,if not I continue anyway,ultimately you are only in control of you own state but if you can infect others with your positive vibe wicked.Through eye contact is the main way that I convey my sexual state to the girl the deep look of arousal which comes from my core masculine energy is by far the most effective way I have done this.like we always say eye contact is important and it is, but what's also important Is the substance behind the eye contact it should be coming from arousal..... Eye contact is a state transfer tool.
Relaxed body language and intimate kino can transfer your sexual state also tone and the speed at which you speak when I'm Horney I speak extra slow for some reason I dont know I just feel it.
Sexual state transfer is basically being relaxed and ready to fuck and you transfer that feeling to the girl through mirror neurones.I could go on but that's pretty much the jist of it.
Happy hunting my fellow rsd'ers