have you ever been on a really fast rollercoaster? you know that feeling where you are about to hit the fast speed of the ride. its like a moment right before you descend and accelerate your like holy shit...ahhhhh...well thats how i feel when i see that girl whos scary hot. its like yo! im going to be cool. im not going to die. im looking forward to this rush. i view the girls as a fun entertaining amusement ride. i can look that girl right in the eye and brace myself for that rush and woooooo! what a rush it is! go out and try feeling that anxiety and reframe it into something thats fun and exciting. take the ride!