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Tyler
 
Hey!  I've just flown into Chicago and preparing for tomorrow's Free Tour!

If you're in Chicago be sure to come hit me up!  I won't be back in town anytime soon, and the Free events are absolutely top notch!

The rest of my programs for 2012 are as follows...

September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring.  So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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Okay so shooting into today's 2 videos, I've got this first one that I posted only a few days ago on my Youtube channel and and already has 12,000 views and a ton of positive feedback.

I was really surprised because it was one of those videos where I very nearly didn't put it out just cause I thought the topic might not interest people -- was even the one time I've ever read a "negative review" of the Free Tour on RSDN. :)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/237789?

LOL so yeah I guess I figured it was more interesting to me than other people, but I decided to cut it and throw it out there anyway and I guess I'm glad I did.

The topic is on "how you talk to yourself" and basically explains the method I use not to take myself or life too seriously.


Now also remember that this is a paradox, because you SHOULD take your life seriously, and yet also keep a good perspective.

And that's what leads to the NEXT video which is on the topic of taking things VERY seriously. :)

I decided to throw videos of my kids into the video as well, to really hammer that as your life increases in responsibility, you'll need to work progressively to produce better results.

(IOW it's easy to be like "Yeah fuck everything, life is a big joke..." until you have kids who rely on you...)


Funny enough, for me having kids wasn't any big change in responsibility, because I already run a business.

But it increased the stakes as far as me NOT being allowed to fuck up.

I think many guys probably fear having kids for this reason, but it actually increases your happiness overall.  It's amazing how NOT HAVING A CHOICE but to produce results is actually EASIER than giving yourself the option not to, and then questioning yourself.

It's the same reason I go to the gym every day "come hell or high water, no matter what..." or that I post on RSDN every Wednesday no matter how busy I am.  By stripping myself of the option to NOT do it, it's actually EASIER.

I tend to think that having kids is a natural part of your evolution, and that if you deny yourself this there's a lot you will lose out on.  But then again if you didn't have kids, you could do other things that could substitute their role in your life.

Oh and P.S.. on this, the reason I often mention my kids are "accidents" is because almost everyone I know has had abortions at one point or other, so I like showing people that you DO have a choice if you want to keep the kid.  I hope by people seeing my kids they think a bit about their decisions.  I personally have zero judgement on what people do and don't care at all, but I like people to at least realize they have the option.

I was personally in massive financial debt (half a million) at the beginning of the 2008 recession and didn't see much option to keep Vincent at the time, but decided that I'd have to FIND A WAY to do it.  This lead to me creating the Hot Seat, Free Tour, Video Blogs, RSDN 2.0 that you read here, and World Summit.  If I hadn't decided to keep Vincent NONE OF THESE THINGS WOULD EXIST.

Now I'm sitting here in an opposite (and much more positive / relaxing) financial situation -- so keep that in mind when you think not taking on more responsibility is "fun".  Yeah it's more leisurely in the short term, but over the long term you lose out on a SATISFYING LIFE.

I don't even care about the kids aspect of this equation, but rather just as far as pushing yourself in general. :)

Anyway thought the 2 vids would make an interesting contrast in content and vibe, showing 2 sides of the same coin -- intent + freedom from outcome.

Video #1 is about freedom from outcome, video #2 is about execution of your intent!

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Okay I'm off to go shoot around Chicago, maybe record a few vids.

Please let me know what you thought of the "self talk" and "would and could" talks, and hit me back with your thoughts!  I want to know what you think!  Let me know!

I'll be back next week with 2 short clips from World Summit, and I'll see you soon!

Thanks for reading!  Have fun!

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey there!!

Just finished up the Los Angeles Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp events!!

Felt like I took them to a new level, especially the Hot Seat where I just sunk everything I had into it since it was possibly the final "Hot Seat 2" that I'll ever teach in LA.

Snuck the Bootcamp students into the hottest club in Hollywood on Thursday -- WHAT AN INTENSE NIGHT!!

Just getting through the door with all the guys was really tough but I screamed at the doorman until he was frightened into granting myself, Todd, and each of our 3 students into the club.

Keeping everyone "in state" in a crazy environment like that was like performing a precision surgery, but 11 years of teaching BC's made it possible.  You'd think I'd want to avoid clubs like this on BC cause it's more work, but my view of life is THE MORE VALUE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU GET BACK.

(You can probably sense my view on that from the rate at which I release these vids...)

"Outflow maximizes inflow.  You want more, give more.  No way around this shit."

Most people are always trying to find a sneaky way to minimize time and energy output, not realizing that the sneaky "loop hole" in the system is to just provide a TON of value, and then you wind up getting back 100X MORE for yourself anyway.

Give and give without any concern, and just the act of doing so you wind up becoming better at taking care of yourself, as well as just getting a lot back.

Doing this type of thing, everywhere I go people are coming up to me, offering me favors, buying me dinners, helping me to get into clubs, cause I've affected their lives in a positive way.  In any major city in the english speaking world.

I come into every weekend challenging myself to step it up a notch, and that's what keeps me going.  If I was just going through the motions I'd have becomeone of those lame 33 year olds by now, but continuing to go further and further means I'm continually renewed.  By the time I'm 50 I'll be a teacher like the world has never seen -- I'm really just scratching the surface with all this.

(But if you want to take a PICKUP program with me while I teach PICKUP -- DO IT NOW!!)

Speaking of programs, I've got one coming up in CHICAGO coming up -- so if you're in Chitown definitely get on top of it!!  Here's my schedule for the rest of the year as well.

September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

Lastly, have you seen Julien's TWITTER page??  You gotta get an account on Twitter and SUBSCRIBE immediately, cause the funny lines on here are priceless and reflect the deranged mind of a total genius at picking up girls.

Speaking of value -- he's really challenging himself to come up with witty pickup related tweets at an alarming rate, it's really solid so check it out right now!

www.twitter.com/rsdjulien

And his Facebook page has the Twitter quotes as well, have a look...

www.facebook.com/rsdjulien

Anyway let's get into today's vids!

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So I was in Denver about 2 months ago, and already released the video blogs from while I was there.  I also did a "Free Tour" and have a few choice clips of what was unique content from the event.

The first is on the topic of "possessiveness" with women.

I generally think that this is a HUGE STICKING POINT for most guys, because they have their egos invested into these young flighty girls and bash their heads against the wall when the girl doesn't initially want to be with them and only them.

USUALLY DOES NOT WORK.

The general rule is if you want a girlfriend, you've gotta be able to go out and fuck OTHER GIRLS LIKE HER consistently.  Then when you don't give a fuck, and she senses this, she may be more interested in a relationship with her.

What you DO NOT get to do is go out and get the ONE girl who is hotter than all the rest you could get, and LOCK HER DOWN.

Good luck with that one!!  Leads to massive headaches, rarely ever works.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN ALL ABOUT THIS, AND A SHIFT IN THINKING TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.


Interesting stuff, huh?

I always feel like the game gives me new insights, as well as the same insights but learned at a deeper level every year.

This was a lesson that I learned at a deeper level just from the girls I've been with in the past year who were so disgusted and turned off by otherwise very cool guys who were simply too possessive.

btw I read a few comments on the Youtube channel about how this differs from Julien's drama philosophy, where he gets the girls in love with him.  And basically it's just a different way of going about getting a girl hooked -- that's the whole point of having different teachers teaching different things.

I wouldn't say at all that one way is better than the other, it's more a matter of what best suits your personality and personal goals.  Personally I like girls who are "drama free" and allowing the casual sex to evolve into a relationship if we're honestly a good match, but there's also something to be said about proactively triggering the girls to become obsessed with you the way Julien does it.

Then again though, Julien is doing so from a FOUNDATION of not being needy AT ALL.  So he's got the foundation of the "positive emotional ecosystem" down pat, and then takes it to another level from that point.

(What he's doing wouldn't be so lethally effective if coming from a point where he was in scarcity and unhappy with his life.  So get this stuff down and take it to that level if you're inclined!)

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Next video is on a somewhat related topic, but different in the sense that I'm comparing and contrasting the 2 different models of attraction from the books "Selfish Gene" and "Sex At Dawn".

I only vaguely allude to the two books, but the general themes are covered in the vid.

It's basically the contrast between being THE MAN versus just realizing everyone's a part of the same tribe and WE CAN ALL FUCK EACHOTHER. :)

This sounds a bit bizarre, but it's a higher level realization that I've had as well as many of my best friends in the game.  You come into it with all these egoic desires but eventually realize that women love to fuck and make no big deal of it at all, and will FUCK ANYONE.

But then again, being "the man" helps that process along as well.  So it's a bit of BOTH views of the world.  VERY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND!!

CLICK HERE TO LOOK AT TWO CONFLICTING MODELS AND LEARN THE LATEST LAME PUA JARGON:  "BRADTOLLE" :)


I'm sure Brad Branson will be very tickled by this one.

(Check out his kick ass blog at www.bradbranson.com !!)

I also want to throw in this old video blog on the topic of "emotional ecosystems" and see if it helps you to understand the lesson from the first video a little better.  Have a second watching of it after having just watched these vids and see if it makes more sense.


I think this video has a lot of wisdom in it, but probably hasn't been fully understood.  So I'll expand on it in in the future!

It's pretty profound though, like something that was on my mind as far as my progress in the game for the past year -- building that "emotional ecosystem"!!

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Lastly I thought I'd include a very cool video I stumbled onto about Boston Celtics star Kevin Garnettt.

I REALLY RELATED TO THIS VIDEO.

My mindset is nearly identical to this guys', and I hadn't seen it before so I really recommend you strap in for a hour and check it out.  Highly recommended if you're into success.

(The first few mins just look like a random basketball video, but keep watching and it's a video about general success from a guy who isn't just "teaching success" but actually walks the path...)


Anyway hope you enjoyed that a lot.  Some quality viewing there, much more valuable than watching TV.

^^Julien be sure to check that one out for motivation for your tour!!  And Jeff watch it cause he's exactly your age!!

:)

KG also had an amazing post season this year, to see an older guy crushing it in the Playoffs like he did, really inspired me as a 33 year old dude to KEEP DOING IT.

I'd love to see more older athletes make the decision to keep going, rather than become old and lame and fat.  But overall I really loved this guys' general attitude, and I never knew about everything he'd been through to get to his position until I saw the vid.

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Okay so I'm out of here, I'll hit you back with the Honolulu Free Tour and a World Summit clip next week!

(The Summit video features a bunch of vids of my kids, with Vincent up on stage with me laughing his ass off...)

HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ON POSSESSIVENESS AND "BRADTOLLE"!! :)

I'll check em out and hit you back!!

Thanks for reading and have a fantastic day!!  If you're in Chicago, I'll see you for the events next week!  Peace!!

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey there, just running out to the gym!

You've probably noticed I've been releasing a lot of "vBlogs" lately, but just last night I cut 7 new Free Tour videos which are all really sick.

The first one is out today and I think you're going to get a kick out of it.  It's a super dickhead and opinionated video of what I'd do to lock down a hot successful guy if I were a pretty girl.

(Within it you're going to learn the MISTAKES that women make, and why these failings are something you want to learn from as well as far as not fucking up your life the way they do!)

Anyway I've also got a stack of programs on deck, including LOS ANGELES which the free event is TODAY (Thursday) at 7PM down town Sheraton!  Get on it!

Here's my schedule for the whole year...

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles.
September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I ought to mention this more on the frontpage, but we have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

I really want to emphasize that while I'll always be involved in RSD, it won't always be the case that I'm available to run programs like this.

THIS SHOULD BE EXTREMELY OBVIOUS TO YOU. What you've been seeing here has been a wild "phase" of my life but I also have a lot to do. The other instructors are so damned good at what they do so it's all good, but if you want to learn from me personally BOOK IT NOW.

Anyway let's get into today's vids!

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So first video:  Secrets of wingmanship with Julien and I.

This is the final video we shot in the Napali Coast, literally AS THE BATTERY WAS DYING!

The camera lasted just long enough and we got it, so was psyched to get one last video from that amazing trip and be able to share it with you.

This is an important video for anyone who goes out with a wing, in terms of what we learned from PUSHING EACHOTHER while going out.


Hope you enjoyed this one, I think it's phenomenal.

Just in the sense that got two guys who REALLY DID THIS giving their opinion on going out for 2 years and what they learned.  This shit isn't "hypothetical" -- it's very literally exactly how we did what we did.

And what did we do?

I'd say Julien and I improved our game (and results in terms of fucking hot women...) by a good 10X over two years.  Neither of us were good like you see now back 2 years ago, although we were both very good.  The level both us are at today is completely insane, and we got there by exactly what we said in the vid.

PUSHING.

Next up is a video I shot during the Las Vegas World Summit.

And it's also related to the topic of pushing, but instead of being pushed by a wing (and pushing your wing) it's about PUSHING YOURSELF.

Motivation has been a topic hot on my mind lately, because I worked so damned hard to do the Hot Seat 2 launch and basically took it to a "next level" as far as work in the past year.

So the entire time I was thinking "Just get through all this and make it to Hawaii and Summit.  Hawaii and Summit, just make it that far.  You can do it.  Just make it to Hawaii and Summit."

Then finally Hawaii and Summit pass, and my life is so amazing right now, like I'm in incredible health and having so much sex it's insane.  RSD is doing awesome and life is good, so what's there left to make me work?

Well there's a process that you've gotta follow, and that involves SELF CRITICISM.  So while I was in Vegas I could see myself fucking up and realized that I needed to be more self critical, but not at any RESULTS I was getting since they're phenomenal, but rather by my failure to focus on the PROCESS.

Anyway here's the video and it's more applied to gaming girls, but I'm going to create something really deep on the topic of "Motivation" in the weeks to come.


I thought the water shooting off in the background was so bad ass btw, I keep looking at it over and over.

In real life it's pretty epic.

Anyway next up is my fav video today which is a crazy rant I do on the topic of what I'd do if I were a hot girl.

Basically I've been dating and fucking hot women for a looooong time, and what I personally see from most of them is a total TRAIN WRECK.

I'm huge on the topic of "failure models" -- I think a good failure model is equally important to me at this point than a "success model".

Look at the fucked up lives of people that you don't want to live, and it's a massive wakeup call of what you don't want to do.

Well what do I think is the CORE of what fucks women up?  They're surrounded by too much "acceptance" and "yes men".  Jeff and I were talking about this and it's a problem for US as well!  We spend so much time having sex that we instinctively just FEEL GOOD.

The problem with this is that it DESTROYS YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.  Literally just rips it apart, because you think everything is perfect but you're not laying the foundation to live a fun and fulfilling life later on -- the happy feeling of today deceives you to think you should just keep doing MORE AND MORE of what you're doing.

(To the point that being "worried" about anything would almost seem nerdy and uptight.)

Anyway you gotta check this out, AS HOW IT APPLIES TO WOMEN.  We can learn a lot of lessons from where they fuck up!


What's funny is I originally just sort of blurted this out and had planned on NOT putting it out.  I figured it was too dickhead and opinionated, to be honest. :)

But I had a bunch of Philadelphia Free Tour attendees ask me about it, and sounding disappointed I wasn't releasing it, so I thought about it and figured actually I really like it and put it out.

I'm also planning on sending this to my female friends, ex's, and the girls I've been fucking over the past year.

Another main key to why women get hooked on booze that I didn't bring up in this video cause I hadn't thought about it at the time, is that I think booze and all that is genuinely a part of women's PERSONAL ECOSYSTEM OF HAPPINESS.

Like this sounds funny to say, but I think for a lot of girls drugs and alcohol make them genuinely happy.

To tell them to stop using it would be like saying to rip down their unicorn poster or photos of themselves and their dead grandmother who they loved.  Like they REALLY LOVE the effect that the booze has on them, it makes them feel amazing and free and let's them dance and have fun.

But it's like:  GIRL.  Do you want to have a happy life for a LONG TIME?  Or just RIGHT NOW?

Cause that shit is not SUSTAINABLE.

Personally I have gone to great lengths to remove any behaviour / food / substance / habit from my life that is not sustainable.

In other words, I actually like the taste of a Big Mac quite a bit, but because I can't sustain eating it regularly I'd rather just not bother eating it at all and switch up my taste buds to prefering grass fed steak and spinach salads with pomegranate and blueberries and dark chocolate and kombucha.

Make sense?  Like I actually like the Big Mac, but the shit can't be sustained so I'd rather just REMOVE IT FROM MY PERSONAL ECOSYSTEM.

So it's not even in my reality... AT ALL!

This massively simplifies my life, cause I just forget about it and can't remember what it's like anymore.  Like I used to drink in high school and a bit in college and it was fun, but cause I don't do it anymore I literally can't remember what it's like.

Then I see my guy and girlfriends all hung over, or angry when they get drunk, or sloppy like losing good pulls out of drunkenness, and I'm like "Wow I can't even remember what it's like to be that way anymore, my life is so SIMPLE by comparison..."

And it's crazy too cause I really feel that LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH AS IT IS.

WITHOUT *YOU* THROWING UP OBSTACLES IN YOUR OWN DAMNED WAY!!

Like there's enough bullshit that's gonnna happen to you, you gotta at least make it so it's EXTERNAL and not of your own making!  LOL. :)

But yeah I hope you enjoyed that video a lot and had some good laughs and insights out of it.  There's a lot more good stuff to come!

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Anyway I'm off to hit up back and biceps in the gym have fun!

Please let me know what you thought of 1) winging, 2) self criticism, and especially 3) what you've learned from the failings of girls! :) 

I'll be sure to check the comments and hit you back!

Thanks very much for reading and I'll talk to you soon. :)

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey there!

Uploaded a lot of new video content so took a while, but just finished up and I'm ready to post!  I shot 4 new videos while in the Napali Coast of Kauai with Julien, and will release 3 of them TODAY.

Including the long awaited "Meditation" video that I've been long promising.

Then on Friday I'm off to the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT in Las Vegas, which will be the movie "The Hangover" played out in life, but significantly more extreme.

August 19 - 25 -- World Summit, Las Vegas!

www.rsdworldsummit.com

If you haven't signed up yet, consider doing this event.  It's something that will not only be the most fun you will have the entire year (pretty much EVERYONE who goes agrees that there is no more fun to be had than Summit) but also a learning event that will pile drive you towards your goals all year long.

Again I really want to emphasize how FUN this event is, like the WILDEST week of your entire life.  And the learning you gain from it is PRICELESS.  Do it.

I've also got the rest of my Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp dates lined up for the rest of 2012.

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles.
September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I ought to mention this more on the frontpage, but we have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

I also really want to emphasize that while I'll always be involved in RSD, it won't always be the case that I'm available to run programs like this.

THIS SHOULD BE EXTREMELY OBVIOUS TO YOU. What you've been seeing here has been a wild "phase" of my life but I also have a lot to do. The other instructors are so damned good at what they do so it's all good, but if you want to learn from me personally BOOK IT NOW.

Anyway let's get into today's vids!

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So I'm back in Los Angeles after a week long trip into the Napali Coast.

Some people will take boats into this thing, but for those who are a little more daring, you can do an 11 mile hike along the sides of trecherous cliffs and through backbreaking switchbacks of valleys that go up and down.

LOVE IT.

Then we camp out there for a week and enjoy the area, which is IME the most beautiful in the world.

I've been doing this every summer since 2006 and always thought it would be mad cool to bring out the video cameras.  The packs are brutally heavy on the steep parts of the trail so for a long time I resisted it, but last year my buddy Aron brought out a camera and we shot a video which people absolutely loved.

So this year Julien recommended we bring out our own cam and (as Aron would say...) "shoot the shit out of it". :)

I think it was Jeff or someone who was saying it would be crazy to do a video blog on the side of the cliff, so I did a few of them and put it together as like a "full journey video blog".  I actually talk WHILE walking along a cliff where I'd plunge to my death if I missed a step, but I figured it was worth it to get a "cool looking shot" LOL.

I'm always trying to do something different with these, so you can let me know what you think.  I feel like the points I'm trying to make in the video really get HAMMERED on well by the fact I'm hiking and the environment -- you can also really tell I'm "in the zone" as far as pushing myself while I talk.

The video covers the topics of "Pushing through pain, earned breaks, focusing on what you want, and finishing what you start."  Have a look!

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO WATCH TYLER ROAM AROUND THE NAPALI COAST AND RANT ON IMPORTANT TOPICS ABOUT SUCCESS


Fun stuff huh?

That pack had all the camping gear and a week's worth of food so murdered my back, but luckily my chiropractor is pretty bomb. :)  Just a few days back in Los Angeles and feeling good as new!

btw if you found this one interesting, pass it along to a friend.  It covers a lot more than pickup so they may gain value out of it.

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Next up is a video I shot on the topic of making decisions in the face of vagueness / ambiguity.

This is a really important topic to me personally, cause it's a part of my day to day LIFE.  The reason I'm constantly reading, talking to people, brainstorming, trying new things, etc, is NOBODY TELLS ME HOW TO DO MY JOB!!

Papa and I basically invented the BC industry out of nothing (although Mystery and Juggler had done small programs on occassion before Nick and I came along) so we always had to figure out how to grow this thing just by taking EDUCATED GUESSES.

This is a skillset of entrepreneurship that SHOCKS me when I see people lacking it.  Why the fuck don't people constantly read, constantly try new things, constantly educate themselves?

OR CONSTANTLY BE WILLING TO FAIL!!

Look here's the reality.

The game is fucking tough.  Hell yeah you'll be fucking cute girls within the first year, but the reality is that when you're not sitting behind a keyboard, and actually out there in the meatgrinder with your elbows in the mud, there's an endless array of little "fuck her or don't fuck her" decision points happening IN REAL TIME.

Guys will always try to say this isn't a case, and that getting laid is easy.  And again, IT IS.  But to play at OUR level the game is taken to a much higher level than that, which is what high paying clients want to see from us, and we always overdeliver by continually pushing ourselves to improve.

The big skillset that's helped me over the years?  Making split second decisions that aren't always clear.  And the better I've gotten at it, the more often I've gotten laid, and by hotter girls.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT I MEAN!


I LOVE THE GAME.

It is fucking insane, being out there night after night, in the PIT OF INSANITY and pulling the hottest girls. Fucken crazy shit, like being in a movie of complete mayhem. The shit I pull off it NUTS and I often either win or fail with split second decisions that may or may not be the right move.

After years of doing it, you learn that there's moves that MAXIMIZE your ability to pull and fuck the girl, but that ultimately you can't ever fully be in control. You'll always have tons upon tons of fuckups and blowouts, and this is what makes the game FUN!

The day I have it mastered, I'M DONE!  Will never happen though, cause every layer of the onion you peel is just bringing you closer to the centre of an onion that has....NOTHING. :)

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Finally I'm happy to finally be posting up the long awaited "Meditation video" today -- which has been the most highly requested video topic I've had all year.

Basically the SINGLE HABIT that I had outside of going out a lot that gets me laid the most is this:  MEDITATION.

This improves my results around 5X to 10X -- to the point that when I slack on meditation, my results after a few weeks will crash so hard (compared to the epic results I typically get) that I get all confused and can't figure out why, until I remember "Oh yeah I forgot to meditate again.  Woops."

Now that probably sounds strange, but again the results I've had this year -- CRUSHED IT.

Like just PULL PULL PULL banging out everything in sight, REALLY hot women this past year too it's been really time consuming have sex this much and fucken insane.

So to go from that to.....pulling here and there?  LAME.

DO MEDITATION.  How many times do I have to tell people this?  I guess many people just LIKE wasting their time by going out 4 - 7 nights a week (16 - 28 hours a week spent on going out) to not gain the fullest possible benefits, since they're too dumb to do the 20 minute little habit a day.

Of course the fact this also makes you happier, smarter, sharper, wittier, HEALTHIER and RARELY SICK, etc, should be reason enough I think.  BUT NO, all this PLUS the ENDLESS SEX WITH HOT GIRLS is still not enough to get guys doing it.

So I figured....why not make a video to encourage people?  Since maybe all that plus a cool looking video might put people over the top to implement this god damned habit. ;)

Enjoy the vid.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN THE ONE OTHER THING I DO THAN GOING OUT ALL THE TIME THAT GETS ME LAID CONSTANTLY BY EXTREMELY HOT WOMEN, TO THE POINT I SPEND TOO MUCH TIME ON SEX AND NEED TO STOP


btw this video was a tough one to shoot.

Partway through the camera filled up as the hard drive was loaded with important files, so I had to keep checking it out of the corner of my eye to see if it had shut off.

Then I had BUGS crawling on me while I did the meditation, but you can't see this in the vid, so had to concentrate a lot LOL.

There's a lot I'd do to improve the video, but overall it works as a first draft and I hope I've got you intrigued.

DO IT!

Start now.

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Okay that's it for me today, I'm getting ready for World Summit and crashing out!

I hope you enjoyed the videos and I'll have one FINAL video from the Napali Coast next week with Julien and I talking about WINGMANSHIP!

Of course I ideally you'll be watching this from the RSD World Summit while having the time of your life.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

And to everyone who isn't going to be at Summit, well sucks to be you, but I'll be sure to bangit out for you and pour some Ol' E in your honor (or something...). :)

(Seriously though, if you can't make it this year, plan DEAD SET to be in Vegas with us next year.  The crew WANTS you to come attend!  WOLFPACK!)

PLEASE LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE 3 VIDEOS -- PUSHING THROUGH PAIN FOR SUCCESS, BEING DECISIVE IN UNCLEAR SITUATIONS, AND MEDITATION!!

I'll get back to you on comments as I've been doing and appreciate them a lot!

Thank you for reading this, and have an amazing week!  I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey I've just gotten back into Los Angeles after the last few weeks in Hawaii -- both Oahu and an 11 mile hike along the cliffs of the Napali Coast of Kauai where we spent the week with no internet or phones!

I shot what I think are some of the best videos of my life over the trip and you'll be seeing them RIGHT NOW and next week as well.

Today's vids will be...
-Why game after being 10 years in?
-How rising above depression / social anxiety / negativity is like crawling out of a pit (compared to "Dark Knight Rises")
-Amping up the macromomentum to stay out of autopilot and fuel your adventurous self

Then next week will probably be (not sure yet)...
-Meditation vblog (around 40 minutes and answers all the questions from RSDN)
-Dealing with vague / ambigous situations
-A compilation of various lessons in the game
-Wingmanship (shot with Julien)

I've also got upcoming programs that are going to be absolutely insane.

The most obvious is the Real Social Dynamics World Summit which is coming up SOON in Las Vegas August 19 - 25.

This will be a week of non stop insanity with every instructor in the company in Las Vegas. If you attend this promises to be the most insane and educational week of your year -- don't hesitate to pull the trigger on this.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

I've had countless people who attended this break down in tears by the end in gratitude, the event is inexpensive and there's ways to keep down costs. I strongly urge you to say "Fuck it!" and get on the damned train, it's an experience you will benefit from for the rest of your life.

(You've got plenty of time to get "work done" -- this is something that will totally blow you away, and it's experiences like these that make life worth living. People go abslutely nuts for this event -- GET ON IT!)

Next up is my list of upcoming Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamps for the rest of 2012.

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles.
September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I also ought to mention this more, but we have a 3 person team that handles all questions about our events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
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I also really want to emphasize that while I'll always be involved in RSD, it won't always be the case that I'm available to run programs like this.

THIS SHOULD BE EXTREMELY OBVIOUS TO YOU. What you've been seeing here has been a wild "phase" of my life but I also have a lot to do.  The other instructors are so damned good at what they do so it's all good, but if you want to learn from me personally BOOK IT NOW.

Anyway let's get into today's vids!

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So first video today is on why you'd stay in the game after 10 years.

It's funny to me that most guys who talk to me about it will do so as like a "heightened version" of what they'd personally want to get out of it.

Like "You must get MORE sex.... MORE social skills... MORE validation...."

Which of course is cool.  I like sex.  Then again I usually like sex best with a girl I love fucking and have been fucking for a little while, so it gets really good.

So if I already have GF's in most cities I visit, as well as a girlfriend and rotation in Los Angeles, why would I KEEP going out night after night to play the game?

Pretty weird huh?

Well the answer is right here...

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT WHY I HAVE SO MUCH PASSION FOR THE GAME 10 YEARS DEEP...


Really enjoyed recording this one.

Julien's camera is pretty sick but doesn't have good audio, so we recorded the audio onto my regular camera which we pointed at me during the shot.

I liked the grafitti covered wall I was talking against, it reminded me of South America.

Anyway hopefully this gave you some context of what you might get out of continuing with this for a long period of time.  Personally I've had more fun every single year, and it's just gotten more and more sick.

Sometimes I bump into guys out from back in the day and they're SHOCKED that I still go out so often.  I bet they probably think my life has stalled out or something, but nothing could be further from the case.

LOVE IT!

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Next up is a video I shot on my old favourite body boarding beach from when I lived in Honolulu, Makapu Beach.

It's on the topic of how rising out from the haze of depression / social anxiety / negativity is like crawling out of a pit.  I was inspired to create it after watching "Dark Knight Rises" so if you've seen it you'll probably think it's really cool.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO SEE A VIDEO FOR HARDCASE NEWBIES CRAWLING OUT OF DEPRESSION...


It's a bit weird to get all emo on camera, but my view is "FUCK IT! SOUNDS LIKE A COOL EXPERIMENT, SO LET'S GET ON WITH IT!"

The way my brain works is "Decided to make an emo video cause it's new and different, DO IT!"  No questioning myself, I just GET IT DONE.  Load up the camera and let the fucken thing rip.

(Same way I do game btw... See the girl I'm intimidated by -- OH WELL -- go in and HIT HER UP!  No questioning myself or getting all second guessing myself.  DO IT!  Used the same skills to record this vid -- whatever I'm gonna do I just fucken GET ON WITH IT!)

I've been trying to just make the videos as DIFFERENT as possible -- new environments, new topics, new emotions, etc.  Try to match up the emotions with the environment and topic. With this one I took the orange shirt and balanced it with the blue ocean and then took a totally opposing topic of escaping from depression.

I liked matching this up with the enviornment and color scheme because it shows me having reached paradise (I actually lived here and surfed this beach a few times a week for 3 years...) having come from the pits of depression.  I could have easily made myself cry in it but figured it was cooler sort of "hinting" at it -- maybe in the future I'll do like a FULL MENTAL BREAKDOWN on camera so people can see how real it is the place that Icame from.

It's sometimes funny to me how people will analyze my shit and say "Well this seems a bit off about him..." and it's like NO SHIT DUMMY I came from some of the darkest shit you'd ever want to see (actually NEVER want to see...) and lived to survive the tale.

Anyway I just want to keep pushing the envelope and seeing what I'm capable of as far as the "video blog" medium.  I want to keep amping it up, challenging myself to experiment try new things.  Someday I'd love to take what I've learned and create a movie type video out of it, I have it all outlined in my head.

I was also really touched by the response on this btw, especially the people who planned to pass it onto a friend.  OTOH I realize that if you haven't been through something like this it would be really hard to relate to it, but hopefully it gave you some insight about what people you know may be going through, or maybe insight if you've been in this zone for even a small period of time in your life.

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Finally in this last video I take you on a FULL ON ROMP THROUGH HAWAII.

It was such a to record this due to getting lost in the bush, but then I realized...... Why not include it in the vid?

Again, just wanting to try new things and make it different.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT MACRO MOMENTUM AND FUELING YOUR ADVENTUROUS SELF

 
The ending makes me look a lil crazy, walking along a cliff while looking into the video and shooting.  As I was doing it I thought "Man it would be dumb if I fell down while looking into a camera and not the path" -- but overall I'm not really afraid of that shit cause I have good "situational awareness" and do so much risky shit all the time.

This topic is also really personal to me -- I've watched so many of my best friends over the years become such / losers and it's totally depressing to watch.  It sometimes feels like they're dead, or maybe partially in a coma.  Usually when it happens the relationship is done.

Personally I'm going to be a gangster with all this until the day that I die. I'm going out doing some sort of crazy shit -- gonna push the limits and it is what it is. :)

It's pretty crazy though how the human brain is wired to just do as LITTLE AS POSSIBLE and CONSERVE ENERGY as much as it can.

Yeah we'll live life to the fullest -- but when we get whatever money or resources or girls we need to scrape by, suddenly we just want to "chill".  Which is fun until it becomes a PERMANENT RUT and we're FUCKED! ;)

Use the general ideas in the vid, or at least your own version of them, and you should be good to go!

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Okay so I'm out of here and really hope you enjoyed these.  I put a lot into them and plan to keep putting out more for the next little while.

I'll see you back next week with the videos from the Napali Coast, which are really breath taking, and will be prepping my game to stunt in everyone's faces at World Summit.

Pimping ain't easy, but what can I say, I love sex and can't stop.  Plan to put it down hard in Vegas -- will be a MASSACRE.

HIT ME WITH COMMENTS / QUESTIONS ON THE TOPICS OF YOUR PASSION FOR THE GAME, CRAWLING OUT OF THE CAVE, AND KEEPING YOUR BRAIN IN IT'S "ADVENTUROUS SELF!!"

I want to know your experiences, connundrums, and what's on your mind!


See you soon, hit me back!  Thanks for reading and there's more to come!

Tyler

PS: 
 World Summit is coming up VERY SOON!  August 19 - 25 is approaching fast.

Honestly it's NOT that big of a deal to just COME DOWN and experience this.  You will learn soooo much and the experience is second to none.  This is the type of adventurous shit you will never forget, GET ON IT NOW!

www.rsdworldsummit.com
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Tyler
 
Hey!

Just got back from the past week of camping and hiking out on the Napali Coast of Kauai.  I'm in Honolulu right now preparing for tonight's Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.

Gonna go grab a fish spinach salad and acai bowl up the street for breakfast and probably rest up the remainder of the day.

I managed to shoot some AMAZING content up Napali btw, here's a preview of the types of vids that Julien and I shot for you while we were there...


I did up tons of them up there but will have to choose which ones I want to release.  The one that's coming out for sure will be a 40 minute instructional video on meditation that everyone's been asking me for. :)

In the meantime I'm also getting psyched for Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!!

It's GOING THE F#$K OFF in Las Vegas August 19 - 25!!  FIGURE OUT A WAY TO GET DOWN THERE!

RSD World Summit is the most fun you will have in your damned life, and everyone who goes rants and raves about it for years afterwards.  I seriously can't say enough about this event.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

I've also got Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp coming up in.....

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles
September 20, 2012: San Diego
October 4, 2012: New York
October 18, 2012: Chicago
November 3, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas

You'll notice that funny New Mexico date on there, which is probably going to be a really small program, so I hope that if you live near there you'll come check it out!

(I just wanted to check it out so figured I'd offer an event while I was in town, probably the only one I'll ever do, but I just think it looks like a cool place.  Maybe you want to come check it out if you're from out of town as well!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

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Okay so today I've got a video that has had a really great response, which I think is because it ties in "universal principles of life" with the "journey" aspects of the game.

I think your PASSION for the game is really going to be re-grounded after watching this, and I know you'll absolutely love it for sure.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN "THE PASSION OF THE GAME"!!


The audience was fantastic btw, and the guy who dances in it (strangely...) turned out to be a super cool dude and got laid (or maybe his dick sucked or something...) the same day he applied the principles in the vid!

I may also release another cut from Philly Free Tour but I'll decide later, as I have a lot of content currently in the pipeline.

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Anyway I'm gonna shoot off for breakfast, and btw the last thing I thought I'd mention is that BRAD has been really stepping it up lately...

He's got a product he's been putting together that looks really phenomenal, and his latest video content has really blown me away.  I'll be talking to him at the upcoming Summit to figure out what we wanna do with all this, and some amazing things should be on the horizon.

In the meantime you can check out his blog at...

www.bradbranson.com

Also be sure to let me know what insights you gained from the video, and hit me back with any thoughts on your mind!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey there!

I'm in Honolulu with Julien, we've just been shooting videos and getting a bit of work done.

We're off to hike in 11 miles and camp for the week on the Napali Coast, which has no email or phone reception, check it...

https://www.google.com/search?num=10&hl=pt-BR&site=imghp&tbm=isch&source=hp&biw=1140&bih=522&q=napali+coast+kauai&oq=napali+coast+kauai&gs_l=img.3...120.3090.0.3263.15.8.0.0.0.0.239.239.2-1.1.0...0.0...1ac.dgJT9qe8GgM

Should be sick.

Then we'll be back for the HONOLULU Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp on August 2 2012.

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

These are going to be top gun high value learning events, and you owe it to yourself to get on board!

Highly recommend flying in for them as they're taught by both Julien and myself.  Honolulu is absolutely jaw dropping -- when you see the video blogs coming from here later you're gonna see why you gotta come!

From there the RSD World Summit is coming...

Real Social Dynamics World Summit -- August 19 - 25 2012 -- Las Fucking Vegas

People go absolutely nuts about the Summit, because you have every instructor in the company together in Vegas sharing their best secrets of the year at the Venetian Hotel.

Then the entire group goes out at night for FULL MAYHEM in Las Vegas. It's like being in the movie "The Hangover" but LITERALLY better. This is the type of experience you will carry with you for the rest of your life.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. Get on it and II'll see you there!!

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So I'm gonna crack into four new videos today that I recorded in Honolulu and Denver the past few days.

I realize this is EXCESSIVE -- even to the point of devaluing them to an extent -- but it's been my goal to create a sort of "subworld" of videos so I've been focusing on this and cranking them out lately.

In the future I may not be doing these anymore -- as I'll have more complex productions on the go -- so for the time being enjoy them!

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Alright so the following videos can be used as a sort of funny crash course on the topic of "inner game".

I recommend you lay back and go through them one by one, probably a few times over the next few days so they really sink in.

The first video is on the topic of your insecurities.

We are ALL insecure about something or other.  If not that means we're insane.

But regardless of those insecurities, if we're gonna decide to do something, the best thing to is SHUT THE FUCK UP, AND GET ON WITH IT!

It's like these "Do looks matter?" threads on see every month on the forums.....

Yes, we're ALL insecure about our looks, even the best looking guy on earth.  Woooo WOOPY SHIT!!  But if we're gonna DO THIS SHIT, then it's best to just SHUT THE FUCK UP AND DO IT!!

I really tried to bring out my own "insecure side" in this and go into my insecurities, and even trudge up the EMOTIONS that I feel with my own insecurities, to hammer the point that I just DO IT ANYWAY.

And doing this, sure I get rejected a lot, but I also I fuck hot women ALL THE DAMNED TIME.  Even if the pick up is a bit messy and imperfect -- cause I just SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET ON WITH IT!!

I've shot this in Honolulu on a beautiful beach to contrast the intense vibe, and then even yelled loudly so people would get annoyed to hammer the point that if you're gonna get ahead you've gotta GET OVER IT and just GET IT DONE.

CLICK HERE TO SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET ON WITH IT...


Guessing you noticed the funny microcosm of common human behaviour...

Cute girl is intrigued, fat girl gets insecure and walks off with the towel covering herself, fat guy complains and grumbles from the corner like an internet troll.

Gotta love it. :)

From here on out, if someone posts a question about their looks on the forum, feel free to post this video.

Rather than saying "Looks don't matter" (which their inexperienced brains can't process...) I figure the easier solution is to say "Well either way homie, assuming you wanna get laid, SHUT THE FUCK UP AND LET'S GET ON WITH IT!!"

;)

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Next is on creating an ecosystem of abundant positive emotions.

This keeps you at ease even when any one situation goes wrong, and is very important as far as pulling hot women who are on an equal emotional playing field.

CLICK HERE TO LEARN ABOUT CREATING AN ECOSYSTEM OF ABUNDANT POSITIVE EMOTIONS...


This is a really deep topic that I'm going to cover extensively in future years.

Hope you enjoyed the introduction to it.  Try to think it over and let it gel for a while, and we'll follow up with more down the stretch.

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Next is a video on the topic of not allowing the external environment hypnotize you.

This is important because our minds are so often inclined to want to "harmonize" with the people around us, when that won't lead us towards being the dominant social influence and pulling the hottest girl.

You may want to turn down your speakers for the first second of this video btw. :)

CLICK HERE TO LEARN ABOUT TRANSCENDING ENVIRONMENTAL HYPNOSIS...


This environmental hypnosis thing has plagued me for years, but finally I feel like the past while I've been a lot less suseptible to it.

Awareness of it is the starting point, proving to yourself you can blow past it again and again is the key. :)

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And lastly is a video for you if you're "advanced" in the game, on the topic of whether you should doubt yourself or further entrench yourself into self certainty.

This is really relevant because both "advanced PUA's" as well as "naturals" tend to fall into this weird zone where they no longer improve, because they're afraid of sacrificing the sense of certainty they've built up over many years.

Frankly with a lot of naturals or advanced PUAs half the time you spend communicating with them is just dealig with their "frame" and everything feeding into their ideal zone, so it's a topic worth looking into.

CLICK HERE TO LEARN ABOUT WHETHER YOU SHOULD MAINTAIN YOUR SENSE OF CERTIANTY OR INDULGE IN SELF DOUBT AT AN ADVANCED LEVEL IN THE GAME


Hope you enjoyed these!

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I'm on vacay so don't wanna get into too long an articlce here, but wanted to post these up.  This is my version of a "vacation" from RSD so I figure it's not too bad.:)

I've got at least 2 phenomenal videos already uploaded into Youtube -- the Philadelphia Free Tour and a video shot here in Honolulu -- so you'll be good to go in the coming weeks!

Let me know your thoughts on any of these three topics, I always love to get comments and ideas!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!  Have fun!

Tyler
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Tyler
 
Hey there!

I'm just chilling here on this nice Tuesday night to have the Wednesday article out for you, which is going to be an hour and ten minute long video from the Seattle Free Tour.

I've also got some cool LIVE EVENTS coming up that I highly recommend you get onto.

The first is the HONOLULU Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.

August 2, 2012: Honolulu

Currently the Free Tour has about 20 people, the Hot Seat has around 10, and the Bootcamp has 4 (with a 5th apparently a day away from signing up).  I'm pretty psyched about this cause it's the smallest market in RSD and the hardest to fill. :)  Not bad at all.

And you know what?  I'd recommend that YOU take a flight  out to Honolulu to attend the program as well.

Here's why.

1- It's a RARE event taught with myself and JULIEN at the same time (he's teaching his Sunday day of Hot Seat personally...)

2- When we teach together it is fucking EPIC.  Seriously.

3- Honolulu is WILDLY fucking fun.  SOOOOO GOOD.  If you've never been to Hawaii, you owe it to yourself to do this, and it's a great excuse to make it happen.

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

From there another event that's absolutely worth considering......

Real Social Dynamics World Summit --
August 19 - 25 2012 -- Las Fucking Vegas

People go absolutely nuts about the Summit, because you have every instructor in the company together in Vegas sharing their best secrets of the year at the Venetian Hotel.

Then the entire group goes out at night for FULL MAYHEM in Las Vegas.  It's like being in the movie "The Hangover" but LITERALLY better.  This is the type of experience you will carry with you for the rest of your life.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason.  Get on it and II'll see you there!!

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Okay so I've obviously got a pretty amazing month coming up, and obviously WILDLY PSYCHED.

And I'm also wildly psyched to release this video today, because I think it's one of my best.  It's on a variety of topics that surround the idea of how popularity is an upwards or downwards spiral of abundance.

What I love about this video is my absolute BLUNTLESS and the way I sort of captured the general vibe of my REAL OPINION about all these issues.

It's probably somewhat difficult to digest for a lot of people, but it's me just being honest and raw.  I hope you get into it, because there's a lot of subtle ideas going on in here.

This is the type of video that would've saved me a lot of confusion back in the day, so I've created it to help YOU to understand many of the issues that used to confuse me.  It's like a letter to my old self.

If nothing else you'll appreciate that I craft the entire seminar OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD with nothing prepared, furnishing it with stories and examples to drill the points home.  The skill to create stuff like this "off the dome" has taken me a few years, and I really like how it's coming together.

Anyway.....

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO BE WHISKED AWAY ON A WILD RIDE OF ALL SORTS OF TOPICS RELATED TO RSD AND UPWARDS VS DOWNWARDS SPIRALS IN YOUR LIFE...


So yeah hope you really got into this.

I'd say the one downside of the video is how the audio is "peaking" on the high ends, which happened because it was a new microphone and I failed to double check the sensitivity.

(How did this affect your experience of the vid btw?  I think it would've been more impactful if the resonance of my voice would've been coming through in the audio, but I loved the content and wanted to release regardless.  All my upcoming videos have perfect audio as I've now taken to using headphones to double check at every event!)

I've also got some realy sick stuff coming out from Philadelphia Free Tour and Denver Free Tour, as well as 3 new video blogs I recorded in Denver this past weekend that are great.

I'm sure Julien and I will record some really sick stuff in Honolulu and the Napali Coast as well!  Should be a lot to look forward to!

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btw I thought I'd make one last analogy on this idea of being an "ecosystem of abundant positive emotions".

I was out with a girl I met during the Bootcamp this weekend, and it was funny how our chemistry would get other girls to want to join in.

One of the hottest girls out that night was a tall blonde girl making out with a big jacked guy, and it was hilarious how I was hugging my girl and opened her (dude was like WTF??) and she suddenly kept re-opening us the rest of the night and trying to hang with us.

She could FEEL that we were having a great time together and wanted absolutely nothing from her.  It was sexy and she wanted to get in on it.

Why does this happen?  I don't get the impression she was bi-sexual at all (although I could be mistaken...).  I think what she felt was just the pure positivity and fun coming from us and she was drawn towards it whether she realized it or not.

This is how a lot of 3somes go down actually, where it's just the PURE VALUE of positive emotions and zero neediness whatsoever -- it's like a magnet as opposed to something that repels the girl away.

I try to think about this even as I physically escalate on the girl, like just dancing with her or moving her around, and generating and generating more and more of my own positive emotions....NEEDING NOTHING FROM HER AT ALL.

It heats up and heats up, the tension is out of control, and she NEEDS to relieve it with sex.  It just has to happen.  It feels too damned good.

Something to consider anyway. :)

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And btw here's an old video that talks about getting out of negative bullshit and into positivity, so check if out if you never have.

It's actually the first video that also relates to the "hard case newbie" topic of last week, and gave me the idea to expand on the topic

Gotta love Rockerfeller Centre it's sick!


It's funny how this video became pretty popular, I actually thought people would be into it so that was really fun to see.

Cool stuff.

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Okay so hope you're rockin' and good to go with this video and I'll see you back next week.

Julien and I are off to Honolulu for our only pure vacay per year, and then another week in Napali Coast.  We'll be cracking out the Acai bowls and eating in fly restaurants, hitting up the ocean and surf, and Julien will probably be squirming at the site of frightening fish.

Absolutely LET ME KNOW what you thought of this video and the topic of cyclces of abundance!!  I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!!  Appreciate all the comments in the last post btw!

Thanks for reading and watching, and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler

PS:  My current plan for while I'm on vacay is to have the video content prepared and possibly pre-write the articles, or else have someone else post them for me while I'm off in the rainforest of the Napali Coast that has no cell receptIon or internet.

I'll figure it out this week, but if anything is unusual that's why!
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Tyler
 
Hey!!

Just caught a lucky layover in San Jose on my way to DENVER for this weekend's events!  That means POSTING TIME! :)

Here's my upcoming schedule.

July 12, 2012: Denver (first time in Colorado in Summer -- psyched!)
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (come hit up Hawaii with Julien and myself -- great vacay idea!!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

btw I can't recommend highly enough MAKING THE TRIP TO HAWAII to hit up the events with myself and Julien.  They're gonna be soooooo GOOD!!

From there we're gonna be shooting over to the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!

August 19 - 25 2012: Las Fucking Vegas (YES!!)

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. It's a week in Las Vegas with every instructor in the crew, hitting it up, and TOTAL MAYHEM.

I'll see you there!!

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Okay so first video today is on HOW SHIT REALLY IS.

It basically goes into how the media portrays this pretty picture that most people buy into, when they don't want to know the reality of sex or success.

I know you're going to love this one so have a look.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN THE BIZARRE TRUTH ABOUT THE MAINSTREAMS PRETTY PICTURE OF SEX AND SUCCESS, AND A MORE ACCURATE WAY OF SEEING IT.


Anyway this was a really fun one for me, and the Austin crowd was really great.

btw the best book I could recommend to go deeper on this topic is "A Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. He seems to have an amazingly intuitive understanding of how certain people can only handle certain ideas and whatnot.

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Next up is ANOTHER video, which if you clicked onto this post earlier you may not have noticed, because I just added it.  I was actually boarding the plane on a layover from San Jose to Denver as I first posted this, so now I'm posting this second one as well.

This one is a follow up to the "Wakeup Call For Hardcase Newbies" video blog that I did in Boston, done in the Free Tour format.

To tell you the truth, this was an EPIC talk that I did on this topic that lasted 90 minutes.  And the fucking camera went out and we only captured 30 minutes of it.  Bummer because it was truly the best shit I could've ever done on this.

Nonetheless the 30 minutes is more than worth watching so check it out!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE A HARDCASE NEWBIE WHO IS SOCIALLY RETARDED, OVERLY PASSIVE, DEPRESSED AND WEIRD.


I hope you enjoyed this as a follow up, and someday I'll try to recapture the magic of this amazing speach.

What you saw here was AFTER I found out the camera was fucking up and was SOOOO SAD that we'd lost such an amazing gem of a talk.

I think when you lose something like this it's like losing one of your babies, and you have to FORGET about how amazing it was for a few months before trying to cover it again.

Otherwise all you can think about as you're speaking is "This doesn't have the magic of the original I did..." and get stuck in your head.

This last bit I was sad and just tried to hammer through the last half hour without letting it bug me too much, and thought I concluded it fairly well.  Hopefully you got some good ideas out of it if you're a hardcase newb, and I hope I come back with something really amazing on this topic in the future.

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btw if you never saw the ORIGINAL 3 minute video blog on hardcase newbies here it is.


(Again just in case you didn't know the original video that inspired the one above.)

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I'm off to bed now and waking up to go find some cool video blog locations to shoot in Denver, hopefully in the Rockie mountains but we'll see.

Hit me up with your thoughts on this and also I've been in the main forum so you can hit me up there too!

VERY PSYCHED for both the upcoming Hawaii programs and World Summit.  YES!!

Next week I have an hour and 10 minute video from Seattle that I'm very psyched for you to see and I think will do amazing things for everyone who checks it out!

Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon.  

Tyler

PS: 
 I'd originally only uploaded the video with the green tee shirt for the first few hours before updating this post with the hardcase newbie video, so that's why the first 20 odd comments here are ONLY about the "Society can't handle the truth" video.

But please let me know what you think about the hardcase newbie video as well if you got anything out of it or have experience you'd like to share!  I just updated it because I have a pretty good backlog of material and wanted to get it out ASAP.

PPS:  Listening to this Avicii right now, love that shot of the Brooklyn Bridge at the start.  I think this is better than "Levels" actually but funny how certain songs catch on more than others.


PPPS:  Thanks to iRyan below for digging up the Diddy video I mentioned in the Austin vid!

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HAPPY JULY 4TH!!

Just got back from my first ever trip to Philadelphia and had a BLAST!!

Clubbing outdoors by the river, overlooking the Ben Franklin Bridge and art museum (ala "Rocky stairs" where he cheers), eating at a sick natural food restaurant called "Fuel" every meal, and having a super sweet program for all involved! Was a freakishly good time!

Now I'm back in Los Angeles and home at 7AM after a wild night out, and about to shoot out to the gym and go to bed -- so gonna nail this out quick!

My upcoming programs are...

July 12, 2012: Denver (first time in Colorado in Summer -- psyched!)
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (come hit up Hawaii with Julien and myself -- great vacay idea!!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

And of course the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT is coming as well...

August 19 - 25 2012: Las Fucking Vegas (YES!!)

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. It's a week in Las Vegas with every instructor in the crew, hitting it up, and TOTAL MAYHEM.

Girls getting pulled left and right, comraderie and hilarity in full effect. Tons of new lessons learned, it's the MECCA of the game and the best conference of the year bar none.

And held in a great hotel and very reasonably priced. Local hotels are cheap too. Call up RSD for info on how to get this done, we'll walk you through the process no prob at all -- 1-888-546-7286.

See you there!!

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Okay so we'll crack out 2 quick videos today and get you on your way!

The first is on the topic of "Hammering it out til the bitter end!"

Til every last damned skag has been hit up, and you go home having left a PEICE OF YOUR SOUL behind at the damned club!

LOVE THIS!

There's good reason why. On ideal nights when you're doing well, you want to be fun and positive and relaxed. But sometimes it doesn't work out like that, and for whatever reason you just can't seem to get the girls to hook.

When this happens you have two choices.

1) To go home is pathetic sorrow.

2) To HAMMER IT THE FUCK OUT TIL THE BITTER FUCKING END!!

This video is on how to do #2. Check it out!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN HOW TO HAMMER IT OUT TIL THE BITTER FUCKING END, PULL FOR ULTIMATE GLORY, AND BECOME A MAN MADE OF STEAL!!


Hope you enjoyed this.

Was amusing to run up the famed "Rocky Stairs" and pretend I'm that great man. Ummm okay, kinda dumb, but all self help junkies love the Rocky movies and I'm not exception.

The lessons I talked about here are easy to think about IN THEORY but much harder to EXECUTE when you're in the haze of that brutal night.

Challenge yourself to execute them regardless. You'll be glad that you did!

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Anyway this next video is on the topic of "social narratives".

It was inspired by the Philadelphia Love Park as well as July 4th being currently upon us -- since both LOVE and INDEPENDENCE are such an important part of our social narrative.

So what IS a "social narrative"?

And why is it oftentimes good, but simultaneously in many cases an OVERSIMPLIFICATION that cause MASSIVE CHAOS IN YOUR LIFE?

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO FIND OUT THE HIDDEN TRUTHS OF THE SOCIAL NARRATIVES IN YOUR LIFE!


I thought it was funny to put my head behind the sun beside the mist, how cool is that? Playing around with photographic effects with the cam, fun times.

btw I think marriage can be a good thing, and that wars can be necessary.

The issue is they often become an OVERSIMPLIFICATION -- and that people assume that because they're following the narrative that's so close to them, things will naturally work out.

But in reality someone can think they're defending their country when they're just getting tied up in some government ideology or corporate interests, and get married because they think "true love lasts forever" and "love conquers all" when in fact there are many TOOLS that someone needs to grasp to make a relationship last that long.

So these things aren't inherently bad, but rather the social narrative is often an oversimplification of a bigger picture. You need to look deeper and think for yourself!

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Okay so I'm gonna crack off to the gym, self punishment for not getting it done earlier.  Yay!

Please absolutely let me know your thoughts on hammering it out til the bitter end, and your experiences with this!

Likewise let me know your thoughts on "social narratives" and how you feel about them at this point in your life!


Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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