Brad and I are off to LAS VEGAS this weekend for Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp. CHICAGO is April 7 – 9 and will feature Brad and myself as well.

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

Jeff has just released his new author’s page for the upcoming mega-release of “Get Laid Or Die Trying”. Take 5 seconds and have a look at the freshly minted new site right now. This is the beta version so there’s a few updates that still need to be done on it, however it’ll be fully functional by tomorrow morning.

www.jlaix.com

There will be a full-fledged book tour for this as well. Check this out: Jeff will be travelling to a new city for 10 straight days so he can meet you personally. Talk about intense, huh?

(I mean imagine doing a new city every single day for a week and a half. A lot of driving and flying involved in a short period of time, summoning the energy to put on a great show day after day.)

Luckily Jeff is a highly trained professional. Every event on his book tour will be a drug-like extravaganza of absurd glory. He’s going to put on a show for you you’ll never forget, and more importantly, he’ll reveal secrets about pick up and dating that have taken him nearly a decade on a demented sex-romp to discover.

If you live in (or near) any of the following cities, take advantage of this rare opportunity to see Jeff at a peak moment in his career.

March 29, 2011: SAN FRANCISCO
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location: Le Meridien Hotel, 333 Battery Street, San Francisco, California 94111

MARCH 30, 2011: SEATTLE
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location: Hotel Deca, 4507 Brooklyn Avenue NE, Seattle, Washington, WA 98105

MARCH 31, 2011: LOS ANGELES
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location: SLS Hotel, 465 S. La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90048

APRIL 1, 2011: SAN DIEGO
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location: Empress Hotel, 7766 Fay Avenue, La Jolla, CA 92037

APRIL 2, 2011: LAS VEGAS
Book Signing: 7pm-8pm
Location: Barnes & Noble, 567 North Stephanie, Henderson, NV 89014

APRIL 2, 2011: LAS VEGAS
Seminar: 9pm-11pm
Location: SpringHill Suites, 1481 Paseo Verde Pkwy, Henderson, NV 89012

APRIL 3, 2011: PHOENIX
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location: Dobson Ranch, 1666 S. Dobson Road, Mesa, AZ 85202

APRIL 4, 2011: CHICAGO
Book Signing: 7pm-8pm
Location: Barnes & Noble, 1441 West Webster Avenue, Chicago, IL 60614

APRIL 4, 2011: CHICAGO
Seminar: 9pm-11pm
Location: Omni Hotel, 676 North Michigan Avenue, Chicago, Illinois 60611

APRIL 5, 2011: NEW YORK
Book Signing: 6pm-7pm
Location: Bookmark Shoppe, 8413 3rd Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11206

APRIL 5, 2011: NEW YORK
Seminar: 8pm-10:30pm
Location: Bestwestern Gregory, 8315 4th Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11209-4412

APRIL 6, 2011: BOSTON
Book Signing & Seminar: 6pm-8pm
Location:Bestwestern Tria, 220 Alewife Brook Pkwy, Cambridge, MA 02138-1102

APRIL 7, 2011: WASHINGTON DC
Book Signing: 6pm-7pm
Location: GW University Bookstore, 2110 I Street NW, Washington DC 20052

APRIL 7, 2011: WASHINGTON DC
Seminar: 9pm-11pm
Location: One Washington Circle Hotel, One Washington Circle, N.W. Washington, DC 20037

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Hey there, I wasn’t expecting to post this up today, but Jeff is scrambling to put together the 6 new video previews from “Jeffy Show 2” and brand new articles for the Jeffy front-page takeover.

(Remember: As a bribe for picking up “Get Laid Or Die Trying” for only $12 pre-release, or $24 if you stupidly wait until after March 29, he’s created an entirely new video product to give you FOR FREE. You just have to get it before April 6 because that’s the cut-off for the NY Times first week sales.)

That being the case Jeff will start it up for you this Thursday, and today I’ve dug up one last video that I recently shot in Miami South Beach.

This one was also after a long night out. You know when you’re shooting a video at 10AM you’ve had a fun night.

The topic for today? How to become ENTITLED with very hot women.

This is something I get asked about constantly, and generally my answer is that it’s based in “inner game” – ie: stop playing these stupid mind-games with yourself, and accept that hot women enjoy sex with cool / normal / fun guys who approach them with a high sense of deservedness.

The problem of course is that inner game and outer game are two sides of the same coin, so what can you do on an OUTER LEVEL in terms of your BEHAVIOURS to generate this surge of brain neurotransmitters that make you feel high status, funny, relaxed, calm, happy, centered, etc.

Well this video reveals one of 2 different exercises I’ve come up with that have helped students in the field significantly.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW and experiment with what you learn tonight. If you apply the lesson in this video you’ll likely find that your consistency jumps about 5X to 10X its current level within the week.

(Sound unrealistic? I’d think so too. Click the video and implement it immediately!)



Okay so as you’ve probably guessed on your own, this is one of the most important videos I’ll release on the topic of dating. Not because it’s complicated, but because it’s so damned effective.

If you apply what you learned in this video, you will literally frighten yourself by the results you’ll get. You may have trouble sleeping afterwards as the results will be beyond what your brain is able to process.

Note as well that this SOUNDS very melodramatic, but it’s basically just the truth. DO NOT form an opinion about the video until you’ve tried it. Resist making comments about what you “think” would happen (as a way of deflecting taking action) and simply go make use of what you learned.

Re-watch it a few times, as needed.

(Oh yes and btw, slamming GUYS with self help concepts at 10AM is obviously a different vibe than how you talk to girls.  In case you were wondering -- don't replicate my behaviour in the video here.)

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Now if you’re very intuitive, you’ve also noticed that what the exercise essentially accomplishes is gaining the effects of “meditation” but in the field while picking up girls.

I think people often get the impress that I recommend doing meditation because I’m into new-agey happy land stuff, which couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact I tend to be hyper logical and I have a hard time getting along with new-agey people because their willingness to put happiness over truth makes it hard for us to communicate.

(Nonetheless I surround myself with people of all opinions and beliefs, to challenge myself.)

The reason that a simple 20 minutes of meditation a day is so powerful is that it anchors you “in your own movie” so to speak.

It kills off that need to get into the other person’s movie, like a needy little bitch. Instead you learn to feel the more subtle sensations in your own body and ground your emotions in them, so you don’t rely on others in order to feel good.

The challenge (ie: nice way of saying SHITTY BULLSHIT!!) of being low status your entire life is that your head is usually all over the place. Your neurochemistry is constantly trying to make you think and think, shoving you inside your head, to find ways to fix your situation.

People of high status tend to be more calm and relaxed, yet also feel deserved to do whatever the fuck they want, whenever the fuck they feel like it. And yes, of course, we could find literally a million counter-examples, but this is just for the sake of simplicity.

That being the case, meditation is probably the single exercise you can do to take on the more relaxed mindsets of a person of high status……..even if you don’t have high status!

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But Houston, we have a problem.

Tyler has told everyone to go “meditate” – and now all the chodes looking for excuses not to go out and meet girls are using as an excuse not to leave their parents basements!! OH NO!

Well that’s obviously not what I’m saying at all. Doing that would be like taking creatine and protein supplements and then never going to the gym.

(Completely stupid.)

I’m fascinated by Eastern Philosophy and meditation because they offer concepts of “inner game” that have been refined over thousands of years. Many people who run powerful companies are into it, many top athletes, etc, for that same reason.

But if you’re going to talk about “re-incarnating yourself” or “becoming enlightened” (which is a fantasy of the ego) you’ve gone too far down the eastern philosophy circle jerk.

You’re not going to re-incarnate. You’re not going to become enlightened, at least in the ego fantasy sense of the word. Sorry. :)

What you CAN do however is become “centered in yourself”.

You can become happy no matter what the circumstances, and present to the moment that’s in front of you, without the pathetic neediness and state problems that most guys in the game experience.

You can also become more attuned to your surroundings, your speaking can improve, the state you transfer onto other people will be more “awesome”, and you can become more powerful as a person. Your energy will project outward more easily, because you’ll be less self conscious.

So yeah, there’s tons of benefits to becoming centered as a man. That’s pretty obvious.

I’m not nearly as centered as a person as many of the guys I look up to, but I’ve improved every year over the past decade and that’s something I’m happy about. I’m willing to let it take as long as it takes, as long as I’m moving in the right direction.

(Unlike many newbies who want results RIGHT NOW I’m cool to enjoy the journey.)

Anyway one of my favorite ideas in the video is the correlation between how when you do NOT feel entitled to a girl you’re thinking of approaching, your brain literally FLOODS with excuses not to approach.

And then likewise when you do not feel entitled to the ATTENTION of a girl who you’re talking to, your brain takes on a similar behavior, except instead of coming up with reasons not to approach it comes up with various nonsense you can use to “convey value” to the girl.

You may have sophisticated ways of doing this, like complex “game tricks” to qualify yourself in a way that doesn’t seem to be insecure. But ultimately this is violating the “buyer / seller dynamic” between you and the girl: her emotional system is aware that she’s above you, even if she finds you entertaining.

The solution obviously isn’t to NOT TALK AT ALL, although you can do funny openers like the “no talk opener”.

Rather it’s to put your focus on getting centered in your own energy, getting your awareness into YOUR MOVIE rather than trying to worm your way into hers, and then talking when YOU feel like it, saying what YOU want to say.

Ultimately this results in you ACTING THE MOST NORMAL YOU’VE EVER ACTED. And yet it’s not what most people consider to be “normal” because they haven’t been acting normal their entire lives.

Catch my drift. :)

Zero effort. None. Don’t try, and especially do NOT try NOT TO TRY.

Simply be yourself. But your most entitled, highly deserving self. Which really isn’t what most guys view as themselves, so the “be yourself” analogy is garbage.

But again, you catch my drift. :)

Yelling a girl over from across the street IS normal. Making out with her two seconds after meeting IS normal. And long as it’s NORMAL TO YOU.

Do this in a way that’s normal, because it’s coming from an internally centered place where you want or need nothing, and it’s FUN to her. It offers value. It’s not weird and creepy like all those creepy fucks who slime all over her on a nightly basis.

With you it’s “different” because you’re…………………..SPECIAL. :)

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In the meantime, how does this exercise incorporate the benefits of meditation into your pickups, and then convert it into “entitlement”?

Basically it allows you to become present as you warm-up, rather than trying to convey more value, convey more value, convey more value.

As women begin to respond favorably, your brain gains references that women “like you just for you”. This is the most powerful realization that your brain can have: it is the ultimate self-fulfilling prophecy.

Realizing that girls like you just for you is INTENSE.

Ignore the way people throw the realization around casually, as most people only partially have it. When you really have this fully, you feel so good internally you can barely summon the energy to preach it at other people. All you want to do is sit around and be awesome.

(As funny as that sounds.)

The reason this is hard for your brain to process is that so much of your life-energy is put indirectly into getting sex, and therefore reproducing.

You may THINK you like certain styles, or THINK you like certain modes of life, but this is oftentimes your unconscious mind guiding you towards what it thinks is in your best interest towards “survival & reproduction” (as they say in evolutionary psychology).

Of course as you become more “conscious” you begin to come more into alignment with YOUR OWN intentions in life. This has definitely happened to me lately, as in the past year I’ve been experiencing these really intense dreams where I see how all my energy is being pumped into animating this character that my brain thinks will help me gain more success, get more girls, pump out more kids, etc.

The process is a lot like peeling away the layers of an onion, and I believe that it goes on life-long.

Realizing that girls like you for you, however, makes you realize that you basically don’t need to do shit. You just sit there being awesome (What is being awesome? Just realizing you’re awesome on an emotional level.) and then walking up to girls and allowing the “law of state transference” to do most of the pickup for you.

Of course the fact that you approach her with a FULL ASSUMPTION OF POSITIVE RESPONSE is the other side of the coin.

Just sitting there being awesome without approaching………not very helpful.

(Although I find that the more I get into state, the more often I get approached.)

There’s another exercise that I have for this, which is the OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN of entitlement, which I’ll create a video about in the future.

I used this exercise with a student the day after he had a meltdown from lack of progress, and he got laid that night. The review of that program is right here!

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/181686

Anyway I’ll hit you back later. I feel like I’m on a roll as far as coming up with new content lately, and so I’ll keep the videos coming for a little while longer.

I want to hammer out the “10 years deep” realizations while I’m still focused on picking up girls, and then I’ll be expanding these ideas into bigger social concepts and going into 13 billion dollar a year “Self Help Industry” over the next few years.

(And if you think I pissed a lot of people off with RSD, wait until you see how many people I’ll piss off with my new shit. OH MY GOD!)

In the meantime, enjoy the ride. Use what I spoke about in this article immediately. This shit will change your life as it did mine, and as it did my students in South Beach.

Then let me know what you think. I’ll see you soon!

Tyler

PS:  Get onto the "Get Laid Or Die Trying" right now while it's hot on your mind.  It's 12 bucks on pre-order so you save a big fat twelve by not ordering after it comes out.

Then again if you gotta wait til it comes out that's not bad either at 24 bucks, for a hardcover book.  But grab it now on Amazon -- much simpler.  Then you can lay back and anticipate it in the mail, patting yourself on the back for beating those procrasting demons and owning shit. :)

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