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My next events are Las Vegas and Chicago, They'll be run by Brad and myself -- Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com.
Jeff's book "Get Laid Or Die Trying" is also quickly approaching. March 29 2010!! You can pick it up "pre-order" for friggin' 12 bucks!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451620896/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1?pf_rd_p=486539851&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B0044R96M8&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1HS3WJJQEQ4NWSD3G12H
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So I've just finished the first of two Miami bootcamps, and they exceeded expectations on all levels. Everything you an imagine about something like this happened.
Really, really incredible. I've barely slept 4 hours a night for the past five days as of writing this. Four students laid (some multiple) and my own adventures were the most intense they've ever been.
Anyway speaking of massive sleep deprivation, I have a video for you today which I recorded on the Sunday morning after the bootcamp I did in Phoenix two weeks ago.
I'm pretty much fucken trashed here, on about three days of four hours sleep a night. This often happens to me on program weekends -- it's crazy how I've learned to push through it and never get sick over the two past years.
But this is a very important video that I wanted to release as I was originally creating the material. I've since recorded a "Part 2" of this video in Los Angeles as I think the topic is one of the most important we've put out in a LONG time.
(This is going to be a hard hitting epiphany for you, which will alter the course of your life. It may not be apparent until the second part of the video, and I'm thinking of recording a THIRD here in Miami as it's THAT important!).
The topic is the "short term VS long term mating stragegy" components of your brain. CLICK HERE NOW TO SEE WHAT THIS IS ALL ABOUT.
Okay so this is like the intro into this topic. It's deep. Much deeper than you may now realize, because it involves everything about how your brain is processing it.
The main epiphany for now? Your brain is holding you back, literlaly afraid to go into state, because it's worried you'll just run off on a sex romp and never come out of it.
Notice also how as I imitiate myself when I'm in "short term" mode (with the "awesome" comments) it appears incongruent. The bootcamp is over and I'm gearing up for another week of work at this point.
Yet here I am two weeks later and it's back on FULL GEAR. Short term self is back in action, ready to roll. The key is being able to switch between the two.
Next week's video will contrast the two, and it will become screamingly appearent. :)
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Anyway yeah I've been here in South Beach and it's just been...............incredible.
I really do live a charmed life, and I feel right now like if I had my choice I'd just run bootcamps 350 days a year. Maybe a day off here or there, but if I had my choice this is all I'd ever do.
I love the game. It's my deepest love on this earth other than my son, next unborn child, the earth, and life itself. It's my fucken soul and my purpose for being alive.
This will sound weird but I often imagine I'll just vanish into thin air, like some weird black hole, and all I'll ever do for the rest of eternity is romp. Like endless night after night, with no days in between, the "dream" of real life faded away, and the reality of the awesomeness the only reality I ever have to know.
Women are an addiction, a soft subtle bunch of chemicals that captivate you endlessly. But even more intense is the person you become in order to get them. The person who they draw out of you in their presence.
GOD DAMN it just keeps getting better. The fun I'm having right now is beyond anything I thought the human brain was capable of experiencing. I think it's like the happiness that we're meant to experience, even as our "birth right" as cheesy as that sounds.
I think we're meant to feel like this all the time. The fact I do this SOBER is also what makes it more intense. Allows the neurochemicals we're born with to get all jacked up, instead of being depressed down by the liquid-estrongen (ie: booze).
We're meant to be on romps, to dominate, to be the absolute bomb. The brain wants to reward you for this. I feel sorry for each and every dude who isn't using this gift they've been born with (again cheesy -- whatever, still the way it is). Every poor fucker who sits at home reading about it and not living it -- so sad.
Live life. Love life. This shit is too damned good to pass up on. If shit is pissing you off, go out. Too simple to be true? GO DO IT.
Most of society walks around in a daze, never waking up to what's in front of them. The repetition and grind of day to day life saps them of their souls and they seek out "diversions" in order to escape it.
Feel yourself being drawn towards these diversions, how you resonate with them, and decide not to be sucked in. STOP RESONATING WITH THEM. Surround yourself with positive shit that uplifts you and makes you **WAKE UP**.
This is ultimately my dream for you. This is my dream for you to the extent that in my own dream for myself I would just run bootcamps for the rest of my life, and do nothing else. I could be truly happy doing this.
But I'm not going to do this forever because the insights I've gained from it are going to launch me into self help someday, and it's going to be absurd what happens as a result of it. And if I don't do this there wil be people who never gain exposure these ideas because they aren't young single guys who gravitate towards the "pickup" subculture you're now in.
So I'm going to say "fuck it" and continue to grow, even though I'm so happy where I am, and have little desire to do anything other than travel, read books, exercise, have sex, go on travel adventures, and romp it -- without all the bullshit that comes from taking shit to the next level.
Take the shit you learn here and put it to use. If you're not extremely happy right now, you're not using it. If you're not PUTTING IT DOWN in your dating life, you're not putting it to use. Start doing so immediately.
Okay it's 7AM after another insane night, I'm off to bed. Enjoy the Phoenix video, which is a little weird I realize, and let the ideas rattle around in your head until next week when we get into it deeper.
(The video features some very funny clips of Brad laced in, which you're going to enjoy!).
Let me know what you think and I"l check back soon. I fucken love you. Have a good night.
Tyler
PS: Making sooooooo many distinctions right now. It's getting intense. Shit is getting smooth, like exponential smoother like when I was in Blueprint creation mode. A few epiphanies.
-It's YOUR movie. As soon as the movie becomes about her, you are dead.
-Ground yourself in your own energy. Feel the energy in your body and how good it feels as you speak. As soon as you're trying to ground off of HER it's become her movie.
-This is especially important as you pull. Stay cool. It's ALL good. Especially with super stunners you gotta stay cool. Grounded in your own energy. NEVER let her pull away your centeredness, this is EVERYTHING.
-Open without speaking. Stare at her for a bit until you talk. Make no effort at all. NONE.
-Hey bitch, you're still making effort. Again: NONE. Not even the effort NOT to make effort. Full blank.
-Escalate immediately. You know that little moment as your lips touch her cheek off the open? Immediately kiss.
--Stop thinking "value" even though it's accurate. Instead think "entitlement + congruence". Just go in and escalate immediately. No effort, just be congruent to the entitlement. So grounded in your own energy she doesn't get the slightest "social ping" from you that any other reality could exist.
-From this state we're describing, let her look you in the eyes. As she sees that you are the most ultimately high status man she has ever met, and will ever meet in her life, she will become attracted without you saying any words.
-When she asks why you don't talk, simply say, "I wanted to let you finish looking at them. I have this theory that girls like to look into a man's eyes, and when she determines he's an asshole, she says to herself I LIKE HIM! Let me know when your'e done." Then continue to sit there, effortless, allowing her to look into your eyes until she decides you are the best she has ever met.
-Physical. Chat effortleessly (No attempt to convey value! Just whatever comes into your head). Logistics. DONE DEAL.
-Have fun! This is the best shit in the world. You are now in a lucid dream. :)
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com.
Jeff's book "Get Laid Or Die Trying" is also quickly approaching. March 29 2010!! You can pick it up "pre-order" for friggin' 12 bucks!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451620896/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1?pf_rd_p=486539851&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B0044R96M8&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1HS3WJJQEQ4NWSD3G12H
You can also subscribe to my new Twitter account, where I'm posting up funny lines and openers I use in the moment while I'm out in the field.
www.twitter.com/TylerRSD
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So I've just finished the first of two Miami bootcamps, and they exceeded expectations on all levels. Everything you an imagine about something like this happened.
Really, really incredible. I've barely slept 4 hours a night for the past five days as of writing this. Four students laid (some multiple) and my own adventures were the most intense they've ever been.
Anyway speaking of massive sleep deprivation, I have a video for you today which I recorded on the Sunday morning after the bootcamp I did in Phoenix two weeks ago.
I'm pretty much fucken trashed here, on about three days of four hours sleep a night. This often happens to me on program weekends -- it's crazy how I've learned to push through it and never get sick over the two past years.
But this is a very important video that I wanted to release as I was originally creating the material. I've since recorded a "Part 2" of this video in Los Angeles as I think the topic is one of the most important we've put out in a LONG time.
(This is going to be a hard hitting epiphany for you, which will alter the course of your life. It may not be apparent until the second part of the video, and I'm thinking of recording a THIRD here in Miami as it's THAT important!).
The topic is the "short term VS long term mating stragegy" components of your brain. CLICK HERE NOW TO SEE WHAT THIS IS ALL ABOUT.
Okay so this is like the intro into this topic. It's deep. Much deeper than you may now realize, because it involves everything about how your brain is processing it.
The main epiphany for now? Your brain is holding you back, literlaly afraid to go into state, because it's worried you'll just run off on a sex romp and never come out of it.
Notice also how as I imitiate myself when I'm in "short term" mode (with the "awesome" comments) it appears incongruent. The bootcamp is over and I'm gearing up for another week of work at this point.
Yet here I am two weeks later and it's back on FULL GEAR. Short term self is back in action, ready to roll. The key is being able to switch between the two.
Next week's video will contrast the two, and it will become screamingly appearent. :)
=========
Anyway yeah I've been here in South Beach and it's just been...............incredible.
I really do live a charmed life, and I feel right now like if I had my choice I'd just run bootcamps 350 days a year. Maybe a day off here or there, but if I had my choice this is all I'd ever do.
I love the game. It's my deepest love on this earth other than my son, next unborn child, the earth, and life itself. It's my fucken soul and my purpose for being alive.
This will sound weird but I often imagine I'll just vanish into thin air, like some weird black hole, and all I'll ever do for the rest of eternity is romp. Like endless night after night, with no days in between, the "dream" of real life faded away, and the reality of the awesomeness the only reality I ever have to know.
Women are an addiction, a soft subtle bunch of chemicals that captivate you endlessly. But even more intense is the person you become in order to get them. The person who they draw out of you in their presence.
GOD DAMN it just keeps getting better. The fun I'm having right now is beyond anything I thought the human brain was capable of experiencing. I think it's like the happiness that we're meant to experience, even as our "birth right" as cheesy as that sounds.
I think we're meant to feel like this all the time. The fact I do this SOBER is also what makes it more intense. Allows the neurochemicals we're born with to get all jacked up, instead of being depressed down by the liquid-estrongen (ie: booze).
We're meant to be on romps, to dominate, to be the absolute bomb. The brain wants to reward you for this. I feel sorry for each and every dude who isn't using this gift they've been born with (again cheesy -- whatever, still the way it is). Every poor fucker who sits at home reading about it and not living it -- so sad.
Live life. Love life. This shit is too damned good to pass up on. If shit is pissing you off, go out. Too simple to be true? GO DO IT.
Most of society walks around in a daze, never waking up to what's in front of them. The repetition and grind of day to day life saps them of their souls and they seek out "diversions" in order to escape it.
Feel yourself being drawn towards these diversions, how you resonate with them, and decide not to be sucked in. STOP RESONATING WITH THEM. Surround yourself with positive shit that uplifts you and makes you **WAKE UP**.
This is ultimately my dream for you. This is my dream for you to the extent that in my own dream for myself I would just run bootcamps for the rest of my life, and do nothing else. I could be truly happy doing this.
But I'm not going to do this forever because the insights I've gained from it are going to launch me into self help someday, and it's going to be absurd what happens as a result of it. And if I don't do this there wil be people who never gain exposure these ideas because they aren't young single guys who gravitate towards the "pickup" subculture you're now in.
So I'm going to say "fuck it" and continue to grow, even though I'm so happy where I am, and have little desire to do anything other than travel, read books, exercise, have sex, go on travel adventures, and romp it -- without all the bullshit that comes from taking shit to the next level.
Take the shit you learn here and put it to use. If you're not extremely happy right now, you're not using it. If you're not PUTTING IT DOWN in your dating life, you're not putting it to use. Start doing so immediately.
Okay it's 7AM after another insane night, I'm off to bed. Enjoy the Phoenix video, which is a little weird I realize, and let the ideas rattle around in your head until next week when we get into it deeper.
(The video features some very funny clips of Brad laced in, which you're going to enjoy!).
Let me know what you think and I"l check back soon. I fucken love you. Have a good night.
Tyler
PS: Making sooooooo many distinctions right now. It's getting intense. Shit is getting smooth, like exponential smoother like when I was in Blueprint creation mode. A few epiphanies.
-It's YOUR movie. As soon as the movie becomes about her, you are dead.
-Ground yourself in your own energy. Feel the energy in your body and how good it feels as you speak. As soon as you're trying to ground off of HER it's become her movie.
-This is especially important as you pull. Stay cool. It's ALL good. Especially with super stunners you gotta stay cool. Grounded in your own energy. NEVER let her pull away your centeredness, this is EVERYTHING.
-Open without speaking. Stare at her for a bit until you talk. Make no effort at all. NONE.
-Hey bitch, you're still making effort. Again: NONE. Not even the effort NOT to make effort. Full blank.
-Escalate immediately. You know that little moment as your lips touch her cheek off the open? Immediately kiss.
--Stop thinking "value" even though it's accurate. Instead think "entitlement + congruence". Just go in and escalate immediately. No effort, just be congruent to the entitlement. So grounded in your own energy she doesn't get the slightest "social ping" from you that any other reality could exist.
-From this state we're describing, let her look you in the eyes. As she sees that you are the most ultimately high status man she has ever met, and will ever meet in her life, she will become attracted without you saying any words.
-When she asks why you don't talk, simply say, "I wanted to let you finish looking at them. I have this theory that girls like to look into a man's eyes, and when she determines he's an asshole, she says to herself I LIKE HIM! Let me know when your'e done." Then continue to sit there, effortless, allowing her to look into your eyes until she decides you are the best she has ever met.
-Physical. Chat effortleessly (No attempt to convey value! Just whatever comes into your head). Logistics. DONE DEAL.
-Have fun! This is the best shit in the world. You are now in a lucid dream. :)
Comments
Kuz
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Join Date: 09/05/2006 | Posts: 2661
This the magic of dopamine. Ask any meth-head (Jeffy will back this up). Obviously your Ultramind Solution protocol for managine your neurotransmitters seems to be very effective.
Excuse me while i deconstruct your post from a neuro-chemical perspective as i have a keen interest in "psychonautics". I manipulate my own with much "harder" chemicals such as carbidopa/levodop, selegiline, roprinole, buprion and various other psycho-memetics as they used to be called. I'm all like "I'm awesome! This is aweomse! I'm so good at this BAM BAM BAM, unstoppable force of nature yo!! THIS is what i was born to do!" - i'm tipping the scale of psychosis though, i'm well aware of this
Ofcourse you can become very obnoxious with this if you go too far in that one direction. Like most coke-heads.
But without the proper dopmaniergic processes, you'd be all lethargic and feeling sht like no "reward " mechanism lighting up your limbic system, and be all l ike "what's the point? this sucks :("
Mizu
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Join Date: 08/28/2007 | Posts: 546
You've got my money. :)
Johnny G
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Join Date: 01/25/2011 | Posts: 8
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
But then I catalogued the amount of new material I have in my head right now, and it's probably enough for a 2 day seminar. So I may do that next year.
I'll start cataloguing it into notes as I create it with the intention of doing that, and we'll see if it happens. The reason I hadn't thought to do it was that I have a lot of tidbits that are somewhat "advanced" (as they say) and I didn't see enough connecting of the dots to create a seminar out of it, but in retrospect yeah if it was an "advanced" seminar then I could just cram it all into one program and try to tie it together on the idea that it's based in esoteric ideas.
It wouldn't be "Blueprint 2" but rather just a continuation of what I've learned from the past 2 years of going out, with a similar style of presentatoin. What I think would be interesting about it is that for years you hear about "advanced" programs but they're usually a semi rehash of previous programs with a few new ideas, whereas this would be something that confuses and angers newbies.
So if I think there's enough demand for something like that, yeah I'll try to put it together.
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btw with the dopamine thing (re: Kuz) yeah that's right, and I was aware as I was writing it and wanted to communicate it.
I get more "high" from the game while sober than most people get under the influence. That's the power of being in a damned orgy called the club. The endless self amusement, drawing state from within, female validation and physical contact pump the neurotransmitters to levels very high.
Some of my druggie friends say that many drugs just make the brain pump out the chemicals it has already (as opposed to introducing some new chemical to the system). They say the drugs work because the brain has the receptors to receive the chemicals or something like that (ie: DMT is the chemical that makes us dream, but the drug just elicits it).
I'm not sure if this is accurate or not, and don't care as I hate all drugs and wish they didn't exist (because then I wouldn't have had so many friends over the years ruin their lives with them).
But I think it's interesting that our brains have the ability to have these neurotransmitters jacked up, and that I've somehow cultivated the ability to do this from years of public speaking and game. It makes me sad to see people drinking and using drugs because they're not as happy as they could be: the easy way is rarely as rewarding in life, that's just how it works.
Snorting a bunch of coke will probably get you momentarily higher than a sober person will ever get, but it's not a stable high that lasts for many hours a day and actually HELPS your brain to feel it more and more -- rather it burns out hte brain and makes it more sad when it's not on the drug.
I learned all this because I grew up so depressed. Happiness doesn't come easy for me like most people because of my background of abuse, isolation, etc. So I learned the pathways to control my emotions -- makes me more manic than other people, but at the same time I've taken responsibility for my emotional state and stopped blaming others for it.
This is really par for the course for many "creative types". Many comedians I know in Los Angeles are actually depressesd mofo's and learned comedy as a way of spiking their neurotransmitters into normalcy. The reason we love watching them is that the drug of humor they use to feel normal is like crack cocaine for regular folks.
Funny enough when people see these idiosyncracies and it say it seems weird I take it as a compliment. It means I seem "NORMAL" enough that to be a little manic would seem "weird". In the past people just thought I was as weird as a homeless person -- like fully disconnected from reality. So the fact that certain behaviours just seem a bit weird now means I've become normal enough that they notice a contrast. :)
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GF thing? As mentioned in the previous post, we've had boundaries for years, they're obviously more liberal. This is nothing new.
I can't really teach any of this because unless you run a company that helps thousands of people and does millions a year in revenues by YOU helping them, the situation is too different from mine. Obviously it would be selfish of a girl to to ask her man not to share that with the students, staff, readers, etc, right? So this is a separate personal life issue that I can't really help other people with, I really have little advice for someone not in that unique situation.
The point is to be respectful, like answering the questions I get here sometimes would be disrespectful. My relationship is highly important to me as my GF is one of the few people who cares about me for the person I ACTUALLY AM as opposed to what I can do for her.
Unlike many friends she didn't bail when we went in debt after "the book" initially slowed us to hundreds of thousands in cashflow deficits -- she watched me crawl out of that depression while living in a $400/month apartment for the first year. I respect her 100% and respect our boundaries 100%. It's about helping other people when the situation calls for it, keeping the sword sharp, and not being uptight or possessive -- not me ansewring phone calls for day 2s while I'm out with my kids, getting crushes on other girls so I'm distracted, getting some other girl pregnant and having her garnish half our wages, etc.
It's also always been understood I'm doing self help shit in the future. This is a temporary situation. It's about helping the most people possible -- that's why I have no advice, since for most people it's about improving their own lifestyle.
Kuz
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Join Date: 09/05/2006 | Posts: 2661
thanks for the response.
tigno323
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sabster
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Cointreau
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Working full-time steers you toward the long term strategy/mindset. Switching between the two is hard, but it's what you have to do when full-time work is a necessity and you want to pick up girls regularly. Personally, I'm making changes. I can finally afford it so I'm leaving my job in two months to travel, re-connect with friends, game it up, re-educate and then switch careers to something more compatible with my social nature.
Anton_K
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Join Date: 01/23/2009 | Posts: 23
I think that everyone deserves to live their life in an enlightened mode, it's quite a shame that very few of us actually do so. It's amazing how much development has happened since the "discover" of social conditioning, now everything seems even clearer and more refined.