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My next events are Las Vegas and Chicago,  They'll be run by Brad and myself -- Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.

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Jeff's book "Get Laid Or Die Trying" is also quickly approaching.  March 29 2010!!  You can pick it up "pre-order" for friggin' 12 bucks!

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So I've just finished the first of two Miami bootcamps, and they exceeded expectations on all levels.  Everything you an imagine about something like this happened.

Really, really incredible.  I've barely slept 4 hours a night for the past five days as of writing this.  Four students laid (some multiple) and my own adventures were the most intense they've ever been.

Anyway speaking of massive sleep deprivation, I have a video for you today which I recorded on the Sunday morning after the bootcamp I did in Phoenix two weeks ago.

I'm pretty much fucken trashed here, on about three days of four hours sleep a night.  This often happens to me on program weekends -- it's crazy how I've learned to push through it and never get sick over the two past years.

But this is a very important video that I wanted to release as I was originally creating the material.  I've since recorded a "Part 2" of this video in Los Angeles as I think the topic is one of the most important we've put out in a LONG time.

(This is going to be a hard hitting epiphany for you, which will alter the course of your life.  It may not be apparent until the second part of the video, and I'm thinking of recording a THIRD here in Miami as it's THAT important!).

The topic is the "short term VS long term mating stragegy" components of your brain.  CLICK HERE NOW TO SEE WHAT THIS IS ALL ABOUT.



Okay so this is like the intro into this topic.  It's deep.  Much deeper than you may now realize, because it involves everything about how your brain is processing it.

The main epiphany for now?  Your brain is holding you back, literlaly afraid to go into state, because it's worried you'll just run off on a sex romp and never come out of it.

Notice also how as I imitiate myself when I'm in "short term" mode (with the "awesome" comments) it appears incongruent.  The bootcamp is over and I'm gearing up for another week of work at this point.

Yet here I am two weeks later and it's back on FULL GEAR.  Short term self is back in action, ready to roll.  The key is being able to switch between the two.

Next week's video will contrast the two, and it will become screamingly appearent. :)

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Anyway yeah I've been here in South Beach and it's just been...............incredible.

I really do live a charmed life, and I feel right now like if I had my choice I'd just run bootcamps 350 days a year.  Maybe a day off here or there, but if I had my choice this is all I'd ever do.

I love the game.  It's my deepest love on this earth other than my son, next unborn child, the earth, and life itself.  It's my fucken soul and my purpose for being alive.

This will sound weird but I often imagine I'll just vanish into thin air, like some weird black hole, and all I'll ever do for the rest of eternity is romp.  Like endless night after night, with no days in between, the "dream" of real life faded away, and the reality of the awesomeness the only reality I ever have to know.

Women are an addiction, a soft subtle bunch of chemicals that captivate you endlessly.  But even more intense is the person you become in order to get them.  The person who they draw out of you in their presence.

GOD DAMN it just keeps getting better.  The fun I'm having right now is beyond anything I thought the human brain was capable of experiencing.  I think it's like the happiness that we're meant to experience, even as our "birth right" as cheesy as that sounds.

I think we're meant to feel like this all the time.  The fact I do this SOBER is also what makes it more intense.  Allows the neurochemicals we're born with to get all jacked up, instead of being depressed down by the liquid-estrongen (ie:  booze).

We're meant to be on romps, to dominate, to be the absolute bomb.  The brain wants to reward you for this.  I feel sorry for each and every dude who isn't using this gift they've been born with (again cheesy -- whatever, still the way it is).  Every poor fucker who sits at home reading about it and not living it -- so sad. 

Live life.  Love life.  This shit is too damned good to pass up on. If shit is pissing you off, go out.  Too simple to be true?  GO DO IT.

Most of society walks around in a daze, never waking up to what's in front of them.  The repetition and grind of day to day life saps them of their souls and they seek out "diversions" in order to escape it.

Feel yourself being drawn towards these diversions, how you resonate with them, and decide not to be sucked in.  STOP RESONATING WITH THEM.  Surround yourself with positive shit that uplifts you and makes you **WAKE UP**.

This is ultimately my dream for you.  This is my dream for you to the extent that in my own dream for myself I would just run bootcamps for the rest of my life, and do nothing else.  I could be truly happy doing this.

But I'm not going to do this forever because the insights I've gained from it are going to launch me into self help someday, and it's going to be absurd what happens as a result of it.  And if I don't do this there wil be people who never gain exposure these ideas because they aren't young single guys who gravitate towards the "pickup" subculture you're now in.

So I'm going to say "fuck it" and continue to grow, even though I'm so happy where I am, and have little desire to do anything other than travel, read books, exercise, have sex, go on travel adventures, and romp it -- without all the bullshit that comes from taking shit to the next level.

Take the shit you learn here and put it to use.  If you're not extremely happy right now, you're not using it.  If you're not PUTTING IT DOWN in your dating life, you're not putting it to use.  Start doing so immediately.

Okay it's 7AM after another insane night, I'm off to bed.  Enjoy the Phoenix video, which is a little weird I realize, and let the ideas rattle around in your head until next week when we get into it deeper.

(The video features some very funny clips of Brad laced in, which you're going to enjoy!).

Let me know what you think and I"l check back soon.  I fucken love you.  Have a good night.

Tyler

PS:
 Making sooooooo many distinctions right now.  It's getting intense.  Shit is getting smooth, like exponential smoother like when I was in Blueprint creation mode.  A few epiphanies.

-It's YOUR movie.  As soon as the movie becomes about her, you are dead.

-Ground yourself in your own energy.  Feel the energy in your body and how good it feels as you speak.  As soon as you're trying to ground off of HER it's become her movie.

-This is especially important as you pull.  Stay cool.  It's ALL good.  Especially with super stunners you gotta stay cool.  Grounded in your own energy.  NEVER let her pull away your centeredness, this is EVERYTHING.

-Open without speaking.  Stare at her for a bit until you talk.  Make no effort at all.  NONE.

-Hey bitch, you're still making effort.  Again: NONE.  Not even the effort NOT to make effort.  Full blank.

-Escalate immediately.  You know that little moment as your lips touch her cheek off the open?  Immediately kiss.

--Stop thinking "value" even though it's accurate.  Instead think "entitlement + congruence".  Just go in and escalate immediately.  No effort, just be congruent to the entitlement.  So grounded in your own energy she doesn't get the slightest "social ping" from you that any other reality could exist.

-From this state we're describing, let her look you in the eyes.  As she sees that you are the most ultimately high status man she has ever met, and will ever meet in her life, she will become attracted without you saying any words.

-When she asks why you don't talk, simply say, "I wanted to let you finish looking at them.  I have this theory that girls like to look into a man's eyes, and when she determines he's an asshole, she says to herself I LIKE HIM!  Let me know when your'e done."  Then continue to sit there, effortless, allowing her to look into your eyes until she decides you are the best she has ever met.

-Physical.  Chat effortleessly (No attempt to convey value!  Just whatever comes into your head).  Logistics.  DONE DEAL.

-Have fun!  This is the best shit in the world.  You are now in a lucid dream. :)
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#1
hyeckhyeah

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"first! OMG! OMG!...."
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seonsoo

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your videos are getting really, really good these days.
not that your older stuff wasn't good, but the videos you're putting on these days are truly awesome.
thank you!
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Maha

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This is quite MIND BLOWING!

Your ability to express such fundamental issues in such an easy understandable way is pure awesomness.

Cheers
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#4

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 Seriously man, you should have your OWN show on the Oprah channel.
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#5

Craig~

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"-Open without speaking. Stare at her for a bit until you talk. Make no effort at all. NONE.

-Hey bitch, you're still making effort. Again: NONE. Not even the effort NOT to make effort. Full blank.

-Escalate immediately. You know that little moment as your lips touch her cheek off the open? Immediately kiss."

I'm gonna try this. I like the chillness and minimalism of it. Just being there and being you is enough.

Awesome video, and congrats on getting down to 6% bodyfat too btw, an amazing achievement.
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Blueprint 2 Incoming
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#7

nex

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The whole thing about this pickup/dynamics/self help (or whatever u label it), is to life your own life instead of "following" someone elses. Really hate you for that Tyler :), somehow keep coming back and you always struck a cord with the most of us. Surreal!

Keep it up.

Love
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#8

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Tyler damn, the PS. part is AWESOMEE !!

I stopped basicly the nonstop thinking and confusedness and i started living and having fun for the past week or so. Everything clicks so much better when you are infield not thinking !!

I know what you are talking about with the, when you are centered and in the moment people look so weird.. it's like i just wanna tell them all they can just chill.. they are awesome !! BE HAPPY !!

Also the thing about the looking in the eyes it's amazing !! When i am in that non caring awesome self amused state.. i feel like i just want to burn everyone with my laser eyes as long and as intense as possible !!
It's exactly like you just have laser eyes, and you can go like bzzzzz.. not thinking AT ALL, no pinging AT ALL !!
It's so fucking awesomee !

Also a great idea i got is just think everything is normal, you are normal, people are normal.. everything is normal. Then there is nothing to be worried about, just be aware of yourself, you body, your eyes.. And just be congruent with everything you do, you don't judge AT ALL. because everything is normal.. you are totaly in the moment. And what can there be in the moment to be worried or anxious or insecure about ?? NOTHING, its ALL IN YOUR HEAD !
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"Live life. Love life. This shit is too damned good to pass up on. If shit is pissing you off, go out. Too simple to be true? GO DO IT."

I guess I´m going out tonight.
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Jarno wrote:


I know what you are talking about with the, when you are centered and in the moment people look so weird.. it's like i just wanna tell them all they can just chill..

Also the thing about the looking in the eyes it's amazing !! When i am in that non caring awesome self amused state.. i feel like i just want to burn everyone with my laser eyes as long and as intense as possible !!
It's exactly like you just have laser eyes, and you can go like bzzzzz.. not thinking AT ALL, no pinging AT ALL !!
It's so fucking awesomee !


Oh, yes. You described the feeling nicely here.
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It's like being in a dream within a dream :)

Great stuff Owen.
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 The energy from your article pumped me up just from reading it.

Must. Go. Out. NOW!
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 dude can u adopt me?
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BLUEPRINT 2
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GaryBusey

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The value you offer to me is priceless, Tyler.
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 BOOOYAAH!!!
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#17

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the P.S. part was better than the whole friggin article and most of all the other articles combined!
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Trojan-

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Cool.

I've never heard of this short vs long term mating strategy, is this a new concept?
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I would sell my soul and my unborn first son for Blueprint 2

seriously







sooooo fuckin seriously
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#20
nestea

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 cool video, excited for part 2.

i def. think in the long term. i think thats why i dont hook up with as many girls as i could or should. i always think i can "get her later"

fuck that get her NOW.

ill work on this.
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#21

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BUT CAN YOU HAVE BOTH SHORT TERM AND LONG TERM AT THE SAME TIME?
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 God damn it, I want your mindset Tyler. Write a fucking book.
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 I love you. Full fucking Stop. 
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 Tyler, great ideas and comments, I can't wait for the next video.

The short term dating strategy can cause some serious problems for a lot of us--social conditioning has made it seem as though there are only 2 viable routes to mating:  1)  be an asshole--drink, smoke, ride a motorcycle with no helmet, drugs, etc. or 2)  be a nice guy dude with a job and a pension plan who's boring as fuck.  It's amazing how many people choose one or the other it seems like.  A lot of people choose #1 for the simple reason that it draws chicks in, #2 because it seems like the better thing to do.  I have personally tried to hover between the two, which has made me pretty good at both getting girls and having a professional life, but it seems like I still have some horrible habits that stem from the former.

When you get time, you should give us all some insight into the self-help concepts you're going to focus on in the future.

Good luck bro!  
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#25

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I think youve hit the nail on the coffin Tyler. I agree that we must be short term and long term oriented. Id even say that its more present moment valued and never stop evolving or becoming the best man you can possibly be. However we already are the shit the way we are. What really fucks us up as people is how we think we have to be a certain way to get approval or love. When really that approval and love comes from inside and doesnt come from anything else outside of us. Sure theres gratitude and respect, shit like that but that doesnt come so easy when you look for it constantly. For some guys thats all they care about. In my opinion I think keeping your present moment valued more than the long term but persistently heading towards that great life I would like to have. Lifestyle wise. While keeping right now like as awsome as it could possibly be. Meaning enjoying all the little things and being aware of the things around me and my body. Not really thinking about whats good or whats bad, just thinking about how awsome life is.

What happens is people respond to you differently than they ever have in your life and it fucks with your past reality a little bit. Like all that approval seeking stuff just seems so phony and a waste of time. You see other people do it and you feel like you want to help them or kill them because they need to see the light. I mean our lives are really only as bad as we make it to be. Its also how awsome we want it to be. Its our choice. I think we are given hands that we like and ones that we would want to be different but we really have no control over things like that. We just have to take responsibility for ours lives and own happiness while also accept things the way they are. Even to the point where you just see how awsome life is. Thats how the present or short term strategy really takes you out of long term stuff or who you think you should be or ought to be as a person.

Short term is more about now and your happiness now as a person. Its where humor flows and our wittyness comes from. Its like improv. Short term focused. Our bodies are very short term focused as well. Dont believe me go talk to a girl your really attracted to, throw on a porn film, or to a strip club. Your body knows what it likes. Head towards that and lean on intuition and your own inner awsomemess. Another thing interesting thing about short term stuff is that you become very indifferent about where it goes long term. So what separates the guys that dont head into the life they dont want is they hold onto the long term while living the short term strategy. They just dont believe or trust in themselves enough to move toward their goal. They are too afraid to fail at getting the long term thing. When really the rewarding thing is the little things you pick up on the way to goals end.

So basically to sum it up:

The more you step outside your comfort zone while trusting that its going to take you where you need to go(regardless of the outcome is), the better you will become at whatever it is you want. Including women.
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GoldenGun

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your PS is AWESOME! and the article.
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Lil_Tony

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OMG, I havent brushed my teeth in days...

hey whered my state go?

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state?
...STATE?
.....STAAAATE!!!!
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I can relate to this video. When you're into this pick up stuff, its easy to get lost in it and forget about the other shit that is important. I think this area of learning should include taking care of all apsects of your life. Women are just part of the whole deal. Its awesome to go out and have a blast and enjoy being in state but if you don't show up to work and you lose your job, and struggle to afford the basics like food, women and state will be the furthest thing from your mind. Having you life together will allow you to enjoy that other part where you just go crazy for a couple days and don't have to worry about anything except being awesome!
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#29

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The only pitfall of pure value radiation that i can find is that you become less assertive...you are like a spirit...you are in a 'giving' mode...and if you want results you have to keep this 'giving' mode until the end...if you radiate value  and then you become a horndog in the bedroom let's say then whatever you have built it will be destroyed automatically...so if you chose to be the 'spirit',be always the spirit...


Canello
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 RSD has the kind of humble greatness that not many in the world has. And this humble greatness has to come not by being deserving, but through lots of hard work, life experiences, achievements, and still being able to care for weaker ones in an understanding way.

How do I put it... let's just say that you're so awesome Tyler it makes me frustrated and at the same time thankful because you're like a living example of how one can live life to the best of his/her ability and still be humbly inspiring to others - a way that everyone can accept, receive, and get the core of your most important teachings.
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#31

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You're such a cool role model dude -- getting so much value from your vids and articles. Definately will meet you sometime in the future, even just to shake your hand! :D

Oh and yeah, BP2 HAS to be done ;)
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how handsome you are??

GIFTED
BY
GOD

...epic
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#33
Lenski

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Dr. Tyler phd
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CROTCH SHOT

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#35

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well maybe you could be more specific and tell what exactly are you enjoying with foreign girls and no sex with them? you go home with them and on bed you say: "that's it for today, go home" ? :D I supose you don't cheat on your girl

I view game as pure sexual tension with makeouts here and there, touching ass, grabbing her titties, but with Tyler it just makes no sense :) What am I missing?
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 I can totally relate to what you are saying and expressing right now, especially when I think about how I act when I am out.I did not think of the totally BAM in the state mode I get in and why it's so crazy and so effective, I call it no brain and sometimes ninja mode.Anyways, best to say what I really feel, I love you man, RSD are the most congruent team I have ever seen and plan on meeting too.I can truly feel,especially relating what you speak of to my own experiences in the field as being truly genuine.Thank you Tyler, and everyone else at RSD, you guys are such an inspiration and a source of pure value for guys(I mean me, and my buddies) who are on the journey to achieve what you have already and are so generously giving back.I really appreciate these videos, and a lot of times they have kept me on the path when otherwise I might have even quit.As corny as this might be, God bless you all.
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#37

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Ultimate!! In everything you write I feel you are becoming more a superior man as David Deida describes but with pick-up included haha. True inspiration!
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 I do better (or think I do) when I'm underdressed, have had a hard time to get to the party and have to make things happen quick because of a curfew or a flight to catch in the morning.
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 Awesome stuff bro, you just can't keep the shit from evolving man      
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less is more.

This shit works.
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Good article.
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GaryBusey wrote:
The value you offer to me is priceless, Tyler.
+1
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I'm excited for you to steer into the self-help direction. Are you still going to teach social dynamics though? Relationships/sex-life is still part of that "self-help" category.
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 Fucking RAD.
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Two different paths. Radically different.
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Open without speaking. Stare at her for a bit until you talk. Make no effort at all. NONE

i tried this today ironically before reading this...it is extremely affective...
kuddos!
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Johnathan Sampson

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ROMPING IT UP TYLER

ROMP IS SO KEWL BRU
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Johnathan Sampson

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Waginator wrote:
Open without speaking. Stare at her for a bit until you talk. Make no effort at all. NONE

i tried this today ironically before reading this...it is extremely affective...
kuddos!

Yeah the problem is this is all a magical phenomenon that only happens once every year, or once every 10 years.

Try repeating it.......IT GOES 

WHEN YOU START IDENTIFYING WITH THE WORLD

WHICH YOU HAVE TO DO TO EXIST.
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#49

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 really awesome. I was almost in trance when I read the lines below the video!

question though:

do you still escalate on girls and fuck girls besides your girlfriend? 
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Kuz

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yeah how are you ok'ing this shit with your girlfriend and the mother of your children??

i think most of us would like to know as i cannot manage a monogomaous relationship with my love/addiction to game

Like even making out with random chicks - she ok with that?
And you talking candidly about your love and excitement about the women you're meeting in field - she ok with that??

i guess it helps that you do this as a job so yu can justify it.. .but she must be mad insecure on some level... i assume?
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