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Sooo much drama getting today's video rendered.  Tried it countless times until we figured out how to do it.  Sorry for the delay.

On the plus side...

It's the highest quality Free Tour video I've ever put out.  I made it similar to a product, properly structured with notes and all the bells and whistles.

Basically I cover "social calibration" pretty comprehensively (well you could really do DAYS on this topic, but it's a solid 90 minute coverage of the topic that's nicely structured) so you'll walk away from this with a LOT of knowledge.

If you enjoy this style of video, you'll be both happy and sad to learn I plan on doing this for several other topics in PUA (warming up, closing, humor, sex, and several others), as part of me finishing up my full time focus on pickup.

Basically the way I'm motivating myself to stay fully engaged with this is that I know the end is near, so I'm more locked and loaded than ever to run the CRAZIEST live programs and put out the most high quality free content I've ever put out.

I absolutely LOVE pickup and it's my greatest passion, so I want to leave behind the most amazing videos while I'm still so focused on it.  I'm going to include more infield, coaching, high quality concepts, comprehensive coverages, and basically throw my entire effort into this.

So you'll see a huge spike in quality and then.... lol well it's DONE. :)

btw when I say "focused" on pickup, what i mean is that I still go out a shit ton, I'm still out there pulling and improving my game.  And teaching tons of Free Tours, Hot Seats, and Bootcamps.

In the future I'll still teach pickup and put out some vids on it, but whereas now you can EASILY get onto one of my programs and for a cheap price, in the future it will be more difficult and less frequent.  So if you're thinking of learning from me, DO IT NOW.

Here's a list of my upcoming events btw...

April 3, 2014: Las Vegas (with Julien)
April 17, 2014: Orlando
May 1, 2014: Denver
May 14, 2014: Dallas (with Julien)
June 12. 2014: New York
June 26, 2014: Chicago
July 17, 2014: Los Angeles
August 21, 2014: San Francisco


www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

You can also reach my homeboys on the phone who will answer any questions you have about events and save you the time from even clicking these buttons.  They're young guys who go hard in the game and know their stuff, and will be happy to sort you out.

NORTH AMERICA: 1 888 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: 81345789305
 

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TODAY'S VIDEOS!


Alright so let's crack into today's video, and as promised, it's a STRUCTURED COVERAGE of "social calibration and emotional intelligence".

This is a huge topic for me because it caused massive amounts of stress growing up.

I often wonder if I had aspergers or light autism growing up, since social intelligence was so difficult for me and I always struggled with "fitting in".

The way my brain works is I'm constantly thinking about deep ideas and creating connections, and seeing the world in huge taspestries where everything connects and I can see it all at once.

So I have trouble following why people make "light conversation" and aren't communicating on that type of level to eachother.

As a result of this, I can weird people out and come across poorly when we first meet, which is funny cause then as people get to know me properly they always come back and say "I couldn't relate to you at first but now that I understand you, I fully get it..."

But it just takes time for people to really get to know me, because my brain works differently and is pretty weird to most people.

So in order to get around this, I had to METHODICALLY teach myself "social intelligence" and basically how to chit chat with people and relate to them on their level.

That included things like figuring out when I was talking too long (my biggest bad habit) or putting out weird energy or not grasping sarcasm or joking around.

Over time I've gotten to the point where it's like a standard car VS an automatic car - I have to work HARDER to do this stuff (like basically constantly monitoring it instead of doing it naturally) but when I'm out in a nightclub of hot women, I also have the ability to often be the most social dude in the damned club and take home the hottest girl.

"The enemy of the best is the good..."

The fact that it came hard for me has forced me to stay on top of it, and excel.

So for me, social intelligence (including pickup) was the single hardest thing I've ever learned, but also the most rewarding.  I feel blessed to have found the pick up community that encouraged me to go out and talk to tons of people instead of staying isolated in my little bubble, and figuring all this stuff out.

The result?

THIS VIDEO THAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO WATCH!!

It covers everything I learned pretty extensively.  And maybe some day I'll put out like a 10 hour video on the topic, but I feel like this covers the "essence" of it really well.

I also added on some bells and whistles to make it easier to follow and more engaging, so strap in for a crazy 90 minute ride and soak this up!

It will change your life for the better, and you will be very entertained.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER SECRETS OF SOCIAL CALIBRATION!



NICE, glad you made it through this.

Hope you found it to be very rewarding, and that you'll internalize and implement TONIGHT!!

I also thought I'd throw in the video I mentioned by Elliott Hulse, which I'd urge you to watch and also SUBSCRIBE to his Youtube channel as it is personally one of my favs.



Glad you enjoyed this.

And just to reiterate, subscribe to Elliott's channel, as this will keep pumping your mind with POSITIVE and HIGHER THINKING ideas - as opposed to the hot garbage you're bombarded with every time you leave the house or check your phone lol.

It's also highly entertaining, so if you like being entertained while learning and "raising your level of thinking" then subscribe yourself so you'll be reminded to stay on top of it and benefit!

Do it now!

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MOTIVATION OF THE WEEK!!!


I've been hearing that this is people's all time fav RSD motivation vid!!

Hot off the press, check this out!!



Lol nice, I never get over hearing myself on these.

Great team cooking them up!

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THANKS!


So I'll see you back on Wednesday with a new video, most likely the "3 P's - presence, process orientation, and positive life" vid on how to become self sufficient and non needy.

It's a great coverage of the topic that includes infield coaching and pickups.

Or if I don't finish editing that one up, I'll post another one of the new Free Tours, which have all been absolutely off the chains.

(San Fran and Miami were totally wild!)

Thanks for reading and watching, and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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#1
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Awesome video, glad it finally rendered haha
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Saw the first two minutes, already love it. My brain pretty much functions the exact same way yours does Owen, so I'm sure this video is gonna have a lot of meaning to me. I'll edit this later after I watch it.
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almost first..... one day.
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finally! love you owen :D

have to go out now but will watch afterwards!
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Dude , you are like a father to me. I love you owen. You see the world as it is, and no BS about what would you liket it ti be more like. You will probably not changes taht manys peoples world in your lifetime. BUt you changed mine and also my friends.

Peace  and love  from VEnezuela, so many beautiful womens and so many self-conciens chodes. Mann there are so many it makes it so easy for guys how know is retarded.

 Pd : Im not even taht drunk. 
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Man, all the free content over the years... So great.
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Hahahah I died during the intro. Loved the video man, that audience was huge.

Also, your idea of vibing to test the waters before an interview is brilliant; definitely gonna start doing that.
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Love it. you're like the older brother I didn't have.
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You can point out about soon toning down your activity in the pick up community as much as you want, when it happens we're just not gonna be prepared for it neither way :'(.
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Best video best intro best best best!!!!! <3
 
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Great Vid!
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Words can't describe how grateful I am to have discovered your advice. You have been a great mentor in becoming the best version I can possibly be. I owe you everything I have and more.

Now it's up to me to actually take fucking action and do the shit I'm supposed to do. I cannot and will not let you down Owen. You have my word on this. 

Simon
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Loved this stuff!

Really great Owen.. you the man!! 
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Wow, I learned so much from this. Feels like a part of a paid program like (blueprint 2.0 - social callibration section), but free, thanks Owen! I always had to go by instinct in regards with this topic, because I knew it was obviously important in any interactions, but now that you've given logical explanations and examples it becomes more clear.
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Intro to video... "FAP FAP FAP" thats the internet sound for clapping right? 
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Worth the wait. Power Social Queues Tyler. If the graphics were what slowed down the release, perhaps a pre release without the graphics would've been better before the actual release. Thanks for all the content! ROCKING!!!
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Worth the wait. Power Social Queues Tyler. If the graphics were what slowed down the release, perhaps a pre release without the graphics would've been better before the actual release. Thanks for all the content! ROCKING!!!
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One piece that was real useful to me - Awareness of what triggers attraction in a girl. Think I've been fuckin up of late thinking, oh, this is my game all girls should be loving this. When in reality one girl likes dominance, one girl likes sweetness, one girl likes when you're an asshole. Being CONSCIOUS of this is what will lead to the close or not. Good to be reminded of this. 
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Blueprint 2.

Awesome.
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I was wondering why this hadn't been uploaded yet, and now I know! 90 minutes well spent
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What the point of the intro? 
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I was thinking the other day how delving deeper into pickup and mastering various aspects of it is like learning multiple languages. And here's what I mean. When you learn a new language it's pretty difficult if you're older. But as you become proficient with it and learn other languages, they gradualy become easier to learn because you get the structure of language itself.

I had some epiphanies about pickup the other day and I thought to myself "Jesus, how can a newbie understand this stuff? There's SO MUCH to learn, and every time you learn something, you open another door to even more learning." Well, essentially you take it step by step. And it just gets deeper, and deeper, and deeper. With more complex insights, learning becomes exponentially increased.
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Fan-fucking-tastic. Wow man, what a freetour, absolutely amazing, thank you sou much!!!
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wow dicusting... couldn't even watch the whole video because of this opening ''scene''.. its cheap and pitifull... I think I'll drop RSD for a while..

Its okay to have a deep understanding, and draw good references from it... but its not just in pickup, you can do that with everything... 

I mean I get it, Tyler needs to do it, I guess otherwise he would feel a big emptiness not having any purpose ... and thats okay, but this way of conveying content... pathetic..

PS: that just shitty ''love makin'' music

I mean SMH... talking about pickup like its fukcin quantum mechanics 
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This was exactly what I needed to hear. I've been way too aggressive for years now, but almost all of the pickup material out there says to be more aggressive, so I didn't think I was doing anything wrong. Thanks for setting me straight, Owen.
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da beginnin was hot as fuck wit dat "Stranger" song in da back n the beard......thanks....enjoyed da vid.....can u do a deep vid on traveling n the effects of it mentally
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DAMNN dudee you fucking killed this shit!!! You busted out shit that takes AGESSS to figure out like HOLY FKKK if people aren't getting laid after this video, they might as well cut their dick off
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DAMNN dudee you fucking killed this shit!!! You busted out shit that takes AGESSS to figure out like HOLY FKKK if people aren't getting laid after this video, they might as well cut their dick off
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DAMNN dudee you fucking killed this shit!!! You busted out shit that takes AGESSS to figure out like HOLY FKKK if people aren't getting laid after this video, they might as well cut their dick off
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Can you release another 90 minute video but only with content from the beginning of this video? Would be coo. Jus sayin'.
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Very lovely video Owen, made a bunch of notes! I realized how I became oblivious and lost my spidey sense of feeling of those around me. Thanks

The blueprint slides made my heart jump haha

And...! Regarding Elliott, as everyone, he is not always right (+this is funny channel haha)
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I actually went to this free tour and it was amazing, Tyler is still my fav
 
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Holly..., the bolding ginger killed it. Man, first time I see Tyler toying someone's emotions like that. 

Amazing Tyler, got me off guard for a minute.

She wanted the D, so that was a torture to question her on phylosophy. 
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But, Hody Jones has apoint though. I had been disapointed with the amount of videos being posted on this forum. Had watched Sasha's Daygame fundamentals to months ago and though: "that's all I need... that's it". At some point, there is no point in watching thse videos. I like to come over and watch Tyler's stuff for self help, but now that it gets very far, I think I should pull off not to get too much into my head on pickup.
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damn don't mean to be negative,but are the rumors true that elliott is/or was on roids. 
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amazing video, owen! great deal of lessons learned as social calibration has been the focus of my game for the past couple years (i've never been naturally good at it so i've been intentionally trying to improve it). as you say, you're like a scientist, breaking this shit down to a micro level.

lol this really was a product level video. other companies could/would have released it as a product. and the editing... holy... 
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Thank you! Awesome video!
 
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Tyler, I gotta say man, I love this talk. Notice how at the start you were like "sorry I am not my usual fun self" or something to that measure and by the end of it you were still cracking jokes whilst taking that more assertive, down to business, let's get through these points kind of attitude.
Really did appreciate it because it is nice to have something a bit more structured from time to tiem.

Very entertaining and highly enjoyable!

Regards,
JC
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Girl's implants: 4 out of 10
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Owen, bless your heart, you motherfucking monster. Jesus Christ. Thank you thank you thank you. 
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Excellent video!!! (note to self, be abit more carefull when watching rsd videos at work :P)
 
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Social Calibration
- Awareness of yourself
- Awareness of the other person
- Awareness of social cues
- Awareness of their social image and peer group situation
- Awareness of her compliance level and how highly she values you
- Awareness of what triggers attraction in the girl

Vibing
- Non logical, no logical "point", non outcome dependent
- Amp up feelings and bond with people
- Very rejuvenating... A night of socializing makes everything feel okay. [therapeutic]
- Shows each other that you're mentally healthy and self reliant.
- Shows you can just enjoy a conversation and relate with people.
- shows that you're not needy, weird. It's useful for figuring out people instead of just being logical.
thats why people do that
- Shows you dont get into deep conversations with just anybody.
You can get deeper as the convo goes on, if it's appropriate.
- Shows you have positive emotions ecosystem, and help build it with other people
-Shows you live in a mental version of the universe that is happy, so if the girls succumbs to your frame of reality she'll enjoy it.
-Basic attraction is just amping up emotions and not trying to "get something" from eachother.

1. Awareness of yourself
-what emotional energy are you putting out to people's mirror neurons?
-are u self fulfilled?
-are you being congruent?
2. Awareness of the other person
- What are their goals for their day or night?
- What type of guy would they want to talk to?
- What type of conversation would they be open to at the time?
- What emotions is she curently feeling and how can you enhance or shift the direction of them?
3. Awareness of social cues
- what do big eyes mean?
-what does facing you mean?
- what does social pinging mean?
- what does coming back mean?
-what does grabbing your hands mean?
-what effect does contributing to convo or being silent create?
4. Awareness of their social image and peer group situation
- is she the leader of her group or will she crack from interruption?
-What will her friends think of her? Does she care?
-Will her self image increase or decrease by hanging out with you?
-Would she feel her social value go up or down? IS it better for instant pull or day2?
-What emotions would she feel if she makes out with you or sleeps with you?
5. Awareness of her compliance level and how highly she values you
- Are you high value enough that she will be compliant, or resist?
- what is she willing to do with you?
- Would she likely return a text or call?
- Talk, move around, casual touching, kissing, instant date, sex?
6. Awareness of what triggers attraction in the girl
-Does she light up when you're nice and friendly, or an asshole?
-Does she like it when she has to fight for your attention, or when you're aggressive?
-Should you talk a lot or get her qualifying herself to you?

Opening calibration tutorial
- hard stop vs slow play
-direct vs indirect
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Thank you. Loved it!
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Funny detail how at 1:03:14 the camera zooms out while screaming lol!!
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#46

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Did we really watch this video for free ? I am feel like stealing money from someone. Great video, Thank You
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#47

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Yes, I agree with T_Boum. This is Blueprint quality stuff in very high quality audio and video that you just put out for free.

I find it kind of advanced for myself - nice to keep in mind - but difficult to implement.

For me, the main lesson is to just be more aware of how I affect others' emotions. I want people to have a good experience around me. Not that I should care what people think of me, but I definitely care what emotions they are experiencing in my presence - I try have empathy. In general, I want to make people feel comfortable, relaxed and having a great time. For a woman that I'm interested in, she should be turned on, as well. Nice to have a "blueprint" of how to calibrate to make it better and personalized for different personality types.
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#48

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Lol tyler I know all this.. Its sooo obvious, my flaw always was that I am overly aware of the social cues and signs. Still working on not paying attention to them, and focus on my self.
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I have a lot of trouble with this kind of talks because unfortunately the successful guys that I keep meeting are especially whiny, and tend to complain a lot.
The higher in the hierarchy, the more tense and and sort of "enemy-maker" the man/woman is.
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thank you Owen 
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