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Hey there!!

The Alexander Free Tour has been RE-LAUNCHED this week and has some KILLER BONUSES!

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SO.....

I'm posting from my buddy's apartment overlooking South Beach, with a new video shot from the beach below.

Sleep has been hard to come by these past few weeks, but my game has hit new levels and videos have been smokin' hot lately as well.

Today I think you'll be really educated and entertained!

And in the meantime, here's my upcoming schedule for the next few months.  If you can get onto a program with me, absolutely do it!

April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu

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So I'm really psyched about today's video, which I think is my personal fav I've done up in a while.

It's on the topic of the "motivational see saw".

I brought this up in a recent video on the topic of rapid learning, and really this has been a fascination of mine as in recent years people have constantly asked me where I get my motivation and how I'm able to learn so much.

It's funny because I truly believe (and this isn't being humble AT ALL...) that I'm probably slightly BELOW AVERAGE intelligence, at least as far as Canadians go. :)

But what I've been able to do is amp my brain up with certain beliefs and ways of thinking that have allowed me to do pretty well.

So this video is sort of a continuation of that first video, which I'll post below as well!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER MY #1 SECRET TO EFFORTLESS MOTIVATION!



Anyway I hope you enjoyed that!

Here's the original video that I was talking about, which is sort of the prequel to this one!

It was probably my most well liked video blog of the year.

(And if you've seen it before I'd still urge you to watch it AGAIN from the new context of the Miami video...)



Nice!  Good job getting on that one!

My hope here is that you're now extremely well equipped with the way you want to set your mind up to get the most possible success!

Ultimately you have to have a vision that compels you, believe you can accomplish it, and move forward!

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So I'm off to the gym and then hopefully will grab a nap before tonight's program!

It's ULTRA Music Festival here this week, and the city is PACKED!!  It's a lot of fun though, been eating a ton of steaks at the kick ass restaurants here and having a great time.

Thanks so much for reading and I want you to have an AWESOME DAY!

I'll hit you back next week with a video on the topic of "process orientation" that I think is on some really next level shit!!

See you soon!

Tyler
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#1

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awesome
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Patrick.Bateman

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I love your dedication. When I´m about to give up I always think: What would Tyler do?

haha. awesome content.
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Tyler you totally need to do that video you were talking about called "what I was doing while you were doing what you were doing" because I think it would help a lot of this hit home even more for a lot of people.
-Jonathan
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How do you deal with having so many people on your dick all the time? I feel like it would mess with my head. 
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Haze~

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Fuck, that reality check was harsh but much needed.

It was hard to watch but you were spot on. Completely spot on.

I think this video is one of the best you've ever put out. Not only because it touched me on a deep level but I think the sincerity and energy behind it was amazing.

Thanks for this.

(For those wondering, he's talking about me in the video.)
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great video, the stuff about buy-in and small goals was really useful. implementing immediately.
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Tyler, this video means a lot to me as it's pretty much explains how I've accomplished everything I have so far in life.

I have a question though.... How do you get yourself to believe in a massive goal for yourself, when you actually DON'T know how you're going to get there? I mean sure we can go all Tony Robbins on this shit and be all "create an action plan, yay!" but sometimes you just don't know HOW exactly you're gonna do this shit the whole way through, and there are also times when your action plan fucks up or doesn't go the way you want it to . How do you maintain motivation when this happens to you? And, what steps would you take to get your action plan back on track?
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The Art of Consciousness

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BE A CLOSER, FUCK YES

WHOO!
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The Art of Consciousness

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Hey Owen,

What's up with the Hot Seat the Third?
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Lucien

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Hey man great video. Great doing bootcamp with you in Miami two weeks ago. 
I have a question though. How do you deal with working really hard and something, like working AS HARD AS YOU CAN, and still failing at it? For instance, i just took a big test that was really important to me. I put everything i had into this test. I did well, However, i still did way worse then I expected too. This is after doing all the preperation i possibly could. Now i feel like I have a reference experience for working as hard as I can at something and then it not working out. How do i deal with this in terms of using it to build my motivation to work on the next thing and assume it will be worth it?
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Owen, this video is one of the most important and best videos I watched in my entire fucking life. It was very emotional for me and 25 minutes of it flew in a second. I gonna download it and watch when shit gets tough.

This video is a type of "wake up call videos". It brings you back on track. You just slapped me and said "Wake up, Man, believe and trust in the process and you gonna see another better reality. Do not give up so easily and hit with all you've got. Just trust and let go to the process and you'll see it with your own eyes".

Thank you for helping me to move forward towards the reality I have a vision of creating.
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holy effing shitballs...

that cut pretty deep.

fuck, you've opened my eyes.

Thank you.
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I think this is definitely your best video this year. Got me to think about myself in many aspects of my life, not just pickup.

What would I be able to accomplish if I picke something and really stuck at it???

Definitely got me thinking about some stuff.
Thanks for the video Owen.
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#14

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Incredible.

'Unleash Genius' WAS my favorite video ever, now i have two.

ps... Karl Jung
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the CLICK in my head woke my roommate up.
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My god Tyler. What a video. You know what stuck out for me more than just the sterling content, the colors of the lifeguard station where you shot it. 

I look forward to seeing your lasting impact on this earth 
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What ive taken away from this video, is that i need to organize my goals in life. Im a very motivated person when it comes to things i enjoy but i lack discipline when it comes to planning. I make very intense bursts of effort in areas of my life like, fittness, reading, the game, and finances but they are simply bursts. Some bursts are longer than others, and some more intense than others. For example, ive spent more hours reading in the last four days than i have ever spent reading in the first twenty years of my life. The idea that "lots of littles add up" keeps popping up in my reading and everyday life, setting baby goals and following through with them until you complete the big goal. 

But what i related to the most in your blog was when you told the story of how you helped Julian get off the stimulants and helped give his brain proof that he would be rewarded for dealing with the uncomfort of going without them. You talked about Miami every day, and did the perfection challenge. That kind of shit gives people like me hope man. Ive always experienced some optimistic motivation to shit thats out of the ordinary. Ive always found if difficult to stay in the zone with my goals, simply because of distractions and negativity of the people around me. The shit you talked about in your blog today gave me some emotional leverage.

Ill see you in Chicago.
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I literally have no words....every time you come to Miami you make the most amazing videos. This is some of the most profound shit I've ever seen in my life, and one day I will personally thank you for all the positive change you inspire in me. I can only wonder what kind of ideas you'll be teaching in the next 10 years. You truly are a great man
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Thank you Owen
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I fckin LOVE the determination you had to get that lay in that story, very inspiring!

I think a big part of what stops people putting in real persistance and effort in things in general is the fact that when you do it anyone that sees you doing it just doesnt get it and tells you shouldnt be doing it.

But funny thing is when you ignore them and then eventually get the results they just make up some excuse as to why you got the results, they refuse to see that hard work and persistance leads to results and they usually come up with some mystical reason that you are lucky or talented or god wanted it or something.

So many people just dont want to hear that it was about actually putting in the work. No doubt because they dont want to feel bad about not putting in the effort themselves, which to be fair is understandable when you look at the incredible amount of work it actually takes to acheive things you choose to do. It can make it difficult not to feel bad about working hard but personally it beats the alternative.
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Yea... I went out for 3 months non-stop after breaking up with my girlfriend IN ORDER TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON AND REALLY LEARN THIS GAME.

Didn't kiss even one girl until the end of the 3rd month. Not ONE, while I knew my ex bought new underwear and went to south beach. But I never gave up, some days I would go from bar to bar to club and I approached over 50 girls per night. Why?

1: I didn't have a choice. I could also become a valuesucking pussy-slave in a relationship - but that's not an option for me. I think I'd rather be single forever or just die, than be like that. 
2: I've accomplished everything I've ever set out to do in life, just by sticking to it. Figure out the best way to go at it from your current perspective, and just do it. 
Somehow girls are a harder knot to untie than anything I've ever done before though. 

So thanks tyler, for the stuff you put out. I go out and try EVERYTHING. I did physical game like crazy when I started out again, because that was what you were posting at the time. Man that was hit or miss for sure ;)
Last week I got as far as the girl asking me if I had a condom, on the beach, until I in some way fucked the vibe up. Guess I'm half a year+ in the game again now after breaking up. Guess about 3-4 year total though.
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That ego boost after a make out in the club ahhh i'm addicted that high.
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That ego boost after a make out in the club ahhh i'm addicted that high.
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Lucien wrote:
Hey man great video. Great doing bootcamp with you in Miami two weeks ago. 
I have a question though. How do you deal with working really hard and something, like working AS HARD AS YOU CAN, and still failing at it? For instance, i just took a big test that was really important to me. I put everything i had into this test. I did well, However, i still did way worse then I expected too. This is after doing all the preperation i possibly could. Now i feel like I have a reference experience for working as hard as I can at something and then it not working out. How do i deal with this in terms of using it to build my motivation to work on the next thing and assume it will be worth it?

I had to do a hardcore test in order to get into medschool. I failed 3 times. It takes about 5 hours to make that test, and I would make at least one of them everyday, for practise, working a salesmans job part-time, and spending the rest of the time learning every word in the dictionary from A and forwards, because one of the parts required word-knowlage.

I don't think I even noticed when I failed. "I will do better next time". While I was doing that, I was also working on getting my grades really stellar - another way go get into medschool. In the long term - I knew I was gonna get it. Just thinking about this one test isn't long term enough.
Your work DID amount to something. You LEARNED something by doing that hard work. Just because that test didn't go in your favour, doesn't mean that you didn't learn anything, and you didn't accomplish anything.
You're already halfway there - solidify what you already learned, and then tackle what you missed out on and have another go.

In the end I got in by combining my grades, the test results and I scored decently on an interview as well. Day before the interview, I had to sleep in a public toilet, because I couldn't afford a room. It was very humbling putting my head down on the ground where other people piss when they can't hit the ring.

Like the quote: "A brickwall in front of your face is there for a reason. It's there to stop OTHER people."
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Powerful video, reality check! Thanks. 
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fucking hell he did it again
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I've been studying pickup since I was 13 and have had very mild success. But the middle video just clicked.
I feel like Einstein when he discovered Relativity. I've always thought that pickup is effortless, so I would never push. But now I realize that it's like having success in any area. You have to work hard even in the set. Not just on your life. Thank you Tyler. You're one of my biggest heroes. 
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leonardo da vinci has returned to earth..

except for the fact the leonardo actully couldnt finish his work..
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ah, friendship. :)

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I get it, I really do.
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CARL JUNG
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one of the top five best videos ever. U made me realized i've wasted dozens of amazing opportunities not pushing for the close because i didn't think it was possible. I'm pissed off  man I wasted so many hours and just to give up near the close. Thanks for pointing out my number one biggest sticking point ( and most guys in my opinion). Hearing everything you went through to get that girl makes me realize I have no excuses. Greatly appreciate the video. =)
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#33

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best field report i ever heard owen ;)

i'm taking this mindset, i give up WAY too fast
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Real nice video of the pain/pleassure principle. Reframe, reframe, reframe into excitment and you can acomplish anything. I had always been a big believer of that principle.

Owen forgot to mention how this applies to the high value mindset as well. It is so easy for us to have the thoughts of a low value person, to not feel the responsability to be alert and present to take the lead in the event of any chaotic circumstance within or around you, and to pretty much lend that reality onto others. Others are going to do it, not me, that's as low value as it can get.

If you can see the payoff of keeping the high value mindset for long enough, you will have enough time to allow your brain to adjust to this new habit of working hard to be an example to others, to lead in that way.

When you see that other people are looking after you, you are going to do those push ups, you are going to not just read but think about the message in those books, you are going to remind yourself to be in the moment, and to think of alternatives for solutions when no no one else is thinking, you know even if your solution is shit, it is better than no solution at all.

That even when everyones is down, you are centered, grownded in your own energy and self-amused, that you can control your body when it asks you to do things that are counter-productive to your goals, etc..
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Awesome shit Tyler! Your content not only helps us in pick-up, but in every other area of our lives. Thanks a lot!

- V
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Don't we love when Tyler references a porn site that we know of?
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Exactly the stuff I needed!!
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Damn, this was so well explained, and damn I can relate. My sticking point was explained in this video better than I could do it my self. Appreciated :)
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Probably the best video ever of you, Tyler.
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Message of the video: coffee is for closers only
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Simply amazing video.  I think that's got to be my favorite.
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#42

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Great videos! Very enlightening about knowing what you want and going after it, being a man of action and not just creating excuses. Thanks!
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Just did 20 min of meditation under the snow! 


Duo team up strategie :

I wish I could meet  a""""" rsd dude"""""  in the south of france to team up and push life game  hard, follow the process      .                          If you can do that , do it wherever you are in the world , a duo team is effective.

But no... no one do or know that type of stuff   here in my city, I ve already asked .        I gat to do that solo in another language , that s psycho sometimes            gaming in french , never talk about it with french people,  reporting and thinking in english on rsd nation parallel world.  


                  The duo team up strategie, well ajusted can skyrock life  results for sure.  If someone in the south of France reads this and really work on life with a motivated dude :  let me know.



the story  :

hardcore barreers passed, 
the "10 sense" of enlightment access
and really enjoy sex after this 

 that s call closing  ,            respect ,           inspirationnal     :     your brain is lock down unconsciously  in that" close close close close 10 10 10 10" head space!                       you won that access by your work.

I deserve to win the access of that zone BECAUSE I ve been working on it , I m working on it, and I will work on it 

I thought about one eckart tolle concept today.

' what you don t get in life, is exactly what you don t give  "        


  I would take a bootcamp if I had the finance to do so without hesitation right now.


Allright . keep pushing! show us the way lol.



                    
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Beast Von Gandi

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Such an important point -- across the board for anything.

There's a surface level of buy-in and then there's a deep internalized buy-in.
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#45

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Seconded, I would love to hear an answer to this also.
RezznT! wrote:

Tyler, this video means a lot to me as it's pretty much explains how I've accomplished everything I have so far in life.

I have a question though.... How do you get yourself to believe in a massive goal for yourself, when you actually DON'T know how you're going to get there? I mean sure we can go all Tony Robbins on this shit and be all "create an action plan, yay!" but sometimes you just don't know HOW exactly you're gonna do this shit the whole way through, and there are also times when your action plan fucks up or doesn't go the way you want it to . How do you maintain motivation when this happens to you? And, what steps would you take to get your action plan back on track?
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#46
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God dayum!! Look at that motivation and that fucken drive
While you tell the story!!! Haha

Dude so sick man!

Props!!

Keep it up!!
-Alfredo
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Breaking Report? what is it?
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Story about you training Julian like some weird Jedi damn near brought tears to my eyes.
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amazing!
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Fantastic. This video motivated me to actually join RSD Nation after an extended period of just watching the videos. This content provides a template for addressing almost every life problem that might undermine someone in the Game. Thanks Tyler.
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