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(About to get KRUNK!! Atlanta "Free Tour" & "Hot Seat" are rolling through town this Thursday September 2nd & Saturday September 4th -- at The Westin Peachtree Plaza, 210 Peachtree St. There's a single space left on my bootcamp as well -- although likely filled shortly. This is my first time in Atlanta and I'm very psyched to see you there!! If you live in Atlanta or nearby immediately click over to www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com)
Okaaaay so I recorded a few videos in Honolulu over the past month, and I'm very psyched to be putting this out.
The paradise-like location is Makapu'u beach, where I used to body board a few times a times a week over the three years I lived in Hawaii.
(Was really a cool time in my life -- I was fully addicted and miss the islands everyday.)
Anyway the topic of this video is a CLASSIC and probably one of the most important in the entire game, but with a NEW AND IMMEDIATE-RESULTS-PRODUCING TWIST.
What is it?? You'll have to CLICK THIS VIDEO to find out. It's about YOU, WOMEN, and SEX. (Click. The. Damned. Video. NOW.)
Soooooo, how sick was that?? (Yuuuuuuuuuuuup.) And when you have this down, your life begins to take some interesting twists and turns -- uhhhh, "interesting" to say the least. ;)
As a newbie this is like the friggin' good news gospel (Whooooaaaa, NO WAY!!), and as a dude who is advanced, a lesson that continually needs to be re-affirmed (ideally it's re-affirmed through your RESULTS).
The key here is not the idea itself, but having it sink INTO YOUR SOUL. On a VERY deep level -- like where it eliminates that "inner noise" and "feeling that you need to be doing something" when you talk to a girl -- because you KNOW exactly what's on her mind.
Got it?? GOOD.
Anyway I'll now be making way for Ozzie's "The Physical Game" previews to leak their way to your computer (for your viewing pleasure) -- and would also love to hear about your experiences with this topic.
Let me know what insights you gained from watching the video, and anything else that's been on your mind!!
Thanks for reading / watching / and being my friend!! :)
Tyler
www.rsdfreetour.com
www.rsdhotseat.com
www.rsdbootcamp.com
PS: ATLANTA Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp run September 2nd to 4th.
Location: The Westin Peachtree Plaza, Atlanta
210 Peachtree St
Atlanta, Georgia 30303 United States
Phone: (404) 659-1400 Fax: (404) 589-7424
Okaaaay so I recorded a few videos in Honolulu over the past month, and I'm very psyched to be putting this out.
The paradise-like location is Makapu'u beach, where I used to body board a few times a times a week over the three years I lived in Hawaii.
(Was really a cool time in my life -- I was fully addicted and miss the islands everyday.)
Anyway the topic of this video is a CLASSIC and probably one of the most important in the entire game, but with a NEW AND IMMEDIATE-RESULTS-PRODUCING TWIST.
What is it?? You'll have to CLICK THIS VIDEO to find out. It's about YOU, WOMEN, and SEX. (Click. The. Damned. Video. NOW.)
Soooooo, how sick was that?? (Yuuuuuuuuuuuup.) And when you have this down, your life begins to take some interesting twists and turns -- uhhhh, "interesting" to say the least. ;)
As a newbie this is like the friggin' good news gospel (Whooooaaaa, NO WAY!!), and as a dude who is advanced, a lesson that continually needs to be re-affirmed (ideally it's re-affirmed through your RESULTS).
The key here is not the idea itself, but having it sink INTO YOUR SOUL. On a VERY deep level -- like where it eliminates that "inner noise" and "feeling that you need to be doing something" when you talk to a girl -- because you KNOW exactly what's on her mind.
Got it?? GOOD.
Anyway I'll now be making way for Ozzie's "The Physical Game" previews to leak their way to your computer (for your viewing pleasure) -- and would also love to hear about your experiences with this topic.
Let me know what insights you gained from watching the video, and anything else that's been on your mind!!
Thanks for reading / watching / and being my friend!! :)
Tyler
www.rsdfreetour.com
www.rsdhotseat.com
www.rsdbootcamp.com
PS: ATLANTA Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp run September 2nd to 4th.
Location: The Westin Peachtree Plaza, Atlanta
210 Peachtree St
Atlanta, Georgia 30303 United States
Phone: (404) 659-1400 Fax: (404) 589-7424
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Summit God~
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Join Date: 09/18/2009 | Posts: 833
On a side note, one thing I would like to see you elaborate on next year's Summit is the extreme narcissistic theme, and the shock humour/eccentricity theme. You skimmed the surface of each on this year's Summit, but I feel like there's potential there for some game changer/groundbreaking stuff, and I'd like to hear more of it.
Keep up the great work!
james_NZ
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Join Date: 08/25/2010 | Posts: 4
That's awesome. I struggle with this. I had a girl around last night and I was playing the LMR game eg. doing freeze outs and what not. Is there a time when you get so comfortable with yourself and the girl gets so comfortable that you can meet a new girl and she doesn't give you LMR on the first time?
seonsoo
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Join Date: 04/25/2009 | Posts: 134
I've heard the idea quite a few times, but I've only understood it logically till watching this video.
I don't know if it's sinked into my soul yet, but it definitely clicked me on a deeper level than before.
incy
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Join Date: 12/01/2007 | Posts: 436
On my way to implementing this belief, which I think I really need.
Twice as much? Ten? wow.
Again, thanks, RSD. You rock.
Blom10
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Join Date: 03/27/2010 | Posts: 246
I think that belief might be one of the missing pieces in the puzzle for me,
cheers.
PimpBoy
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Join Date: 09/24/2009 | Posts: 164
TapArtist
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Join Date: 06/25/2010 | Posts: 362
Don't you think that even when a women is completely "comfortable" with you, she will still play the game because she does not want to give up her sex that easily, even though she wants it more than the male in many instances.
I have run into this a few times, where a girl will be soo into me and into "it" and then its like she thinks, "wait, I cant let this guy have me this easily, because then he will take me for granted, and think that I give up sex easily to other guys as well"
Now you may say, the solution to that is to get completely in her head and get her to be fully comfortable etc etc. But no matter how comfortable they are, they ARE NOT MALES and will always doubt us, especially when you are new to them.
This seems to happen more often with me with the hotter girls. The decent/fuckable ones are just straight up easy once you "get it." But my 10 still eludes me.
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
The understanding may lead to crazy/wild experiences (MORE of them, and more often), but it doesn't mean every girl on the planet is going to sleep with you -- or that you'll never again (for the rest of your days) bump into a little game-playing here and there. It just stacks the odds very much in your benefit.
The main lesson is that just your presence creates attraction. That's foundation of everything -- that women like you JUST for YOU. And when they see that you "get" this (by a combination of your no-need-to-impress attitude, and sort of amusing undertone that you "know the deal" and are "at ease" with it), many women will feel more inclined to put down the walls, and "be themselves". Make sense??
Don't you think that even when a women is completely "comfortable" with you, she will still play the game because she does not want to give up her sex that easily, even though she wants it more than the male in many instances.
I have run into this a few times, where a girl will be soo into me and into "it" and then its like she thinks, "wait, I cant let this guy have me this easily, because then he will take me for granted, and think that I give up sex easily to other guys as well"
Now you may say, the solution to that is to get completely in her head and get her to be fully comfortable etc etc. But no matter how comfortable they are, they ARE NOT MALES and will always doubt us, especially when you are new to them.
This seems to happen more often with me with the hotter girls. The decent/fuckable ones are just straight up easy once you "get it." But my 10 still eludes me.
The Duck ✘
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Join Date: 12/02/2006 | Posts: 1370
TapArtist
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Join Date: 06/25/2010 | Posts: 362
The understanding may lead to crazy/wild experiences (MORE of them, and more often), but it doesn't mean every girl on the planet is going to sleep with you -- or that you'll never again (for the rest of your days) bump into a little game-playing here and there. It just stacks the odds very much in your benefit.
The main lesson is that just your presence creates attraction. That's foundation of everything -- that women like you JUST for YOU. And when they see that you "get" this (by a combination of your no-need-to-impress attitude, and sort of amusing undertone that you "know the deal" and are "at ease" with it), many women will feel more inclined to put down the walls, and "be themselves". Make sense??
Marshen
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Join Date: 04/10/2010 | Posts: 256
there are also alot of girls and social conditioning that pump it into me that I need to be doing something.
I believe I can, through alot of reference experience and opening my eyes to seeing the intensity of it, get to a level it is IN MY SOUL as you say and it doesnt leave.
thanks Tyler, I love it when you talk about those little glitches in the game that I am thinking about too but never express cause I feel they are too deep for people to understand, do you feel the same?
Abower
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Join Date: 08/26/2007 | Posts: 1857
supermaster
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Join Date: 03/12/2009 | Posts: 16
So if you are a guy who isn't a social outsider and have alot of friends who are girls. You'll hear alot about good sex. Obsession about penis sizes, stamina and so on. Which makes guys with little to no experience very nervous about sex. And if your frustration grows or your experience lacks in relation to expected skills based on your age (which is true for alot of members on this site) your nerves about sex will also grow.
The good news is that alot of guys who get laid alot really suck in bed and fail to be good sex partners. So alot of girls don't even have that good reference experiences to start with and won't think you are a total retard if you fumble. By even being here and reading articles you probably know more about what really makes girls go crazy on a theoretical level than alot of guys ever will.
DoggyStylz
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Join Date: 07/23/2010 | Posts: 15
Obelizk
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Join Date: 03/29/2010 | Posts: 110
This was a great one for me, thanks!
Steve-0!
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Haze~
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The understanding may lead to crazy/wild experiences (MORE of them, and more often), but it doesn't mean every girl on the planet is going to sleep with you -- or that you'll never again (for the rest of your days) bump into a little game-playing here and there. It just stacks the odds very much in your benefit.
The main lesson is that just your presence creates attraction. That's foundation of everything -- that women like you JUST for YOU. And when they see that you "get" this (by a combination of your no-need-to-impress attitude, and sort of amusing undertone that you "know the deal" and are "at ease" with it), many women will feel more inclined to put down the walls, and "be themselves". Make sense??
Don't you think that even when a women is completely "comfortable" with you, she will still play the game because she does not want to give up her sex that easily, even though she wants it more than the male in many instances.
I have run into this a few times, where a girl will be soo into me and into "it" and then its like she thinks, "wait, I cant let this guy have me this easily, because then he will take me for granted, and think that I give up sex easily to other guys as well"
Now you may say, the solution to that is to get completely in her head and get her to be fully comfortable etc etc. But no matter how comfortable they are, they ARE NOT MALES and will always doubt us, especially when you are new to them.
This seems to happen more often with me with the hotter girls. The decent/fuckable ones are just straight up easy once you "get it." But my 10 still eludes me.
MasterSword
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Join Date: 08/06/2009 | Posts: 210
Good stuff Owen.
lance135
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Join Date: 04/21/2008 | Posts: 86
I've been trying to remove ALL judgments from my life - to stop judging myself and others about anything, not just sexuality.
Jesus said "Judge not, lest you be judged". This has made a huge difference in my outlook on life and made me a happier person.
Lawrence.
subx
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Join Date: 09/18/2008 | Posts: 1227
ambiguity
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If you know what a woman is thinking, what kind of sex she wants, when, etc. you hold a ton of power.
As for my experiences, I find girls need to weed out guys & play games to refrain from being hurt. It is being weeded out more so now then ever before. I think if she just wants to fuck, you face little to no resistance but, the sec she really likes you, you face a shit ton of resistance as I have the past week from a girl. All ended well but, you need to pull away and tease, get her going.
Push/pull = challenge. This is dynomite. I love it. I basically push it into the realm of this is what she wants. She chooses to like me. I noticed the sec I tried to finger blast or cup a feel, she would put up resistance particularly discomfort and that, we were in public. This was a very new interaction. Moving forward, when she was horny enough, she would put my hands on her tits around her pussy. Now, if I went from it, she would repell me after I got worked up. What worked for me was that, I would pull away from her and she would want it even more. I would start over again only, I would pull away as soon as she started liking it. Before you know it, I am humping her brains out, fucking like wild animals. Life is good.
I just assume attraction as it is said. I know she wants my dick in and around her mouth. It is just a matter of time.
subx
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Join Date: 09/18/2008 | Posts: 1227
If you know what a woman is thinking, what kind of sex she wants, when, etc. you hold a ton of power.
As for my experiences, I find girls need to weed out guys & play games to refrain from being hurt. It is being weeded out more so now then ever before. I think if she just wants to fuck, you face little to no resistance but, the sec she really likes you, you face a shit ton of resistance as I have the past week from a girl. All ended well but, you need to pull away and tease, get her going.
Push/pull = challenge. This is dynomite. I love it. I basically push it into the realm of this is what she wants. She chooses to like me. I noticed the sec I tried to finger blast or cup a feel, she would put up resistance particularly discomfort and that, we were in public. This was a very new interaction. Moving forward, when she was horny enough, she would put my hands on her tits around her pussy. Now, if I went from it, she would repell me after I got worked up. What worked for me was that, I would pull away from her and she would want it even more. I would start over again only, I would pull away as soon as she started liking it. Before you know it, I am humping her brains out, fucking like wild animals. Life is good.
I just assume attraction as it is said. I know she wants my dick in and around her mouth. It is just a matter of time.
ninja08
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Join Date: 06/21/2008 | Posts: 606
1 understand women are sexually frustrated
2 create a reality where she feels comfortable.
1a. Ok, simply believing in this and letting my RAS with time reinforce it to where I know it deeply is simple enough
2a. How do I do this?!
hasjob21
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Join Date: 08/26/2010 | Posts: 4
One lil disagreement though, i do lots of clubbing on thursday nights in melbourne and i dont believe that this applies to the majority of girls i meet on these nights. Fair enough for all the 25yo's on saturdays who have had a few expirences but i get the feel that 18yo's who still havent explored themselves sexually don't feel the same way.
Any thoughts?
PS: getting it is huge for natural game, so smooth.[/SIZE]
Shandy
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TheBear
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Porsche
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Beautiful scenery man... really looks like paradise.
Maha
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Wired
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During my bootcamp I really feel like I experienced the emotional state of "I am enough" and this of course lead to some great results. Unfortunately, I've rarely accessed that state after the bootcamp. I feel like I go out a lot (and I do), but I have a lot of those nights were it feels like I'm banging my head against the wall. Watching this video brought that state back, hopefully things are going to start working again.
What I'm talking about here is that in order to be successful at performance based training, you need to go through the kind of emotional/physical/psychological states that allow you to have success. Felt shifts basically (check out Feldenkrais if you want to learn more). I feel like I've fallen out of congruence with the "I'm enough" identity, and I'm not sure how to get it back. The bootcamp was great, but maybe I just have so much bad programming that the knowledge wasn't hard-wired as deeply as I would have hoped.
I haven't believed that women want sex. I guess I need to trust in this foreign set of bearings and keep Tyler's words in my mind when I'm talking to women. Thank you again.
Hamlet
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Join Date: 12/08/2008 | Posts: 610
During my bootcamp I really feel like I experienced the emotional state of "I am enough" and this of course lead to some great results. Unfortunately, I've rarely accessed that state after the bootcamp. I feel like I go out a lot (and I do), but I have a lot of those nights were it feels like I'm banging my head against the wall. Watching this video brought that state back, hopefully things are going to start working again.
What I'm talking about here is that in order to be successful at performance based training, you need to go through the kind of emotional/physical/psychological states that allow you to have success. Felt shifts basically (check out Feldenkrais if you want to learn more). I feel like I've fallen out of congruence with the "I'm enough" identity, and I'm not sure how to get it back. The bootcamp was great, but maybe I just have so much bad programming that the knowledge wasn't hard-wired as deeply as I would have hoped.
I haven't believed that women want sex. I guess I need to trust in this foreign set of bearings and keep Tyler's words in my mind when I'm talking to women. Thank you again.
I suggest meditation to really cement the feeling of "I am enough". That, and looking into some theory on masculine and feminine polarity. That will give your mind a reason to understand WHY you are enough. It's because you're a man, basically. This needs to be reiterated again and again in order to be internalised. By going out frequently and by doing inner work, such as meditation, contemplation, writing, whatever works for you.
Wired
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Join Date: 01/24/2010 | Posts: 32
Apart from what you mentioned, I think that RSD should have some form of feedback going on between Bootcamp alumni and the instructors. Hard to do, yes, but it would help out a lot.
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
In order to keep down costs, one of the decisions we made was not to force students to "opt in" to phone coaching afterwards -- because many find that they don't require it. However in the case that students DO feel they'd benefit, both Brad and Jeffy are willing to do a FULL YEAR of follow-up coaching for only an extra $300.
It sounds like you're someone who would benefit from this -- if you're interested you can get in on it at -- www.rsdphonecoaching.com.
Apart from what you mentioned, I think that RSD should have some form of feedback going on between Bootcamp alumni and the instructors. Hard to do, yes, but it would help out a lot.
Tempest_3X
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dzdevil®
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My set back is I tie my work habits and skills into an identity, so when I am not stepping up I am in a pissy mood.
On one hand I guess it is incentive to be relentless in the things that I do, on the other I need to balance it out bc their is no "perfect path" where no obstacles exist. You also talk about gratitude being a balancing factor.
Man I cant explain how much value u have brought to my life just personally, thanks for everything!
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