(Phoenix Free Tour, Hotseat, & Bootcamp running Feb 10 - 12.  My last time in Phoenix for at least a year, if not forever!  Brad will be onhand as well!  Click over to www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com.  Jeffy's major book release:  "Get Laid Or Die Trying" coming March 29 as well!!  http://www.amazon.com/Get-Laid-Die-Trying-Reports/dp/1451620896/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1295473291&sr=8-1)

Wooooo, that's my SECOND KID on the thumbnail.  IN HER TUMMY.  Gonna be a dad times 2 -- WEIRD HUH??

Anyway been up in San Diego, San Fran, NYC, and Denver of late.  It's been a LOT of fun.

I feel an intense empathy for anyone reading this sitting at home and not having as much fun.  I know it sucks not travelling, not being a gangster motherfucken pimp, and not having a team of cool-ass kids. ;)

(Oh yeah, and not having washboard abs.  Blaaaah!!)

But if you ARE one of the fortunate few living a lifestyle that you've purposely designed for yourself, and not just in reaction to your stifling circumstances, I fully SALUTE you.  PROPS. :)

Anyway aside from this semi-sarcastic attempt at motivating you -- I couldn't have had all this wicked fun without recording some videos to let YOU in on the action as well, right??

So here's the first video out of a few I shot during the recent excursion, which I think is one of the single most important views you'll ever have on RSD.  It's going to teach you how to live one of the most intense lifestyles on earth, without exploding your life like Lindsay Lohan or Brittany Spears.

CLICK IT NOW AND THE "IMPORTANCE" TO YOUR LIFE WILL BE INSTANTLY REVEALED...



Okay so what I wanted to get across in this video was how when I was doing my diet, I was oftentimes SHOCKED at how little I cared about sticking to it at the end of the night.

It was literally like a different person was “at the wheel” of my psychology.

“Oooooh no?? I can’t eat pizza?? How about you SUCK MY DICK!! HAHAHAHA!”

This same phenomenon, which as I explain is basically that a different “personality matrix” comes to the surface based on environmental/psychological stimulus, is pretty intense because the best personality matrix for picking up girls is the one that DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK!!

So whether it’s pounding down a Big Mac before bed, or banging a girl FULL RAW and busting inside her, your brain simply doesn’t care about the consequences. This is also why many naturals you’ve met in your life have probably tended to get themselves into trouble from time to time (like the great Kenny Powers – for fans of “Eastbound & Down”).

The solution to this, as I mentioned, is to make a deal with your “irreverent self”. You have to convince that personality matrix that it’s in its best interests to stick to the diet or use a condom or whatever else.

Something to note on that last one as well...

NOBODY USES CONDOMS, EVERYBODY THINKS THAT *EVERYONE ELSE* IS USING A CONDOM, AND THAT THEY CAN BE SNEAKY LITTLE WEASELS AND NOT TO HAVE TO USE THEM.

Going “raw” might work if everyone else wasn’t doing the same thing, but if you’re successful with women you’re probably aware that the more attracted the girl is towards you, the LESS likely she is to ask you to use a condom.

And guess what else that means?

Even if she’s only let guys fuck her raw two or three times, it’s probably been with other hardcore players who have been with a shitload of girls. OH YES. 

I “get it” that the average guy doesn’t want to use a condom because it’s a massive “vibe breaker” to have to stop everything you’re doing and put it on. And a major factor that a lot of guys get frustrated by with condoms: THE GIRLS SOMETIMES PENALIZE YOU FOR PUTTING IT ON.

If you’re both clothes-off and messing around, “dry humping” if you will, and it just goes in, the girl will be moaning and pulling you into her. But if you stop and put the condom on it breaks the romantic “it just magically happened” vibe and it’s suddenly all “premeditated” and whatnot.

Regardless: you didn’t get into the game to accumulate loads of STDs. You’re likely to have the odd problem even if you use condoms religiously, but without them you’re basically doomed. Even if you think you’re scott-free you may break out with various issues months after the fact, so don’t be delusionally confident on this one.

Anyway again, it’s one thing to realize this as your “conservative self” is at the surface while you read this. Any idiot can make a resolution and promise not to screw up again when there isn’t a beautiful naked girl on their bed who they can have sex with RIGHT NOW.

The key is to convince your “irreverent self” that it’s in its best interests to use the damned condom, even if it doesn’t give a shit. Maybe that means making it funny, like indulging in narcissistic thoughts about how every girl wants to hook her claws into you FOR LIFE by having your baby.  Anything to get you laughing as you use it, instead of annoyed at having to “play it safe”.

My main reason for bringing this all up is that I think guys often get into pickup with a set of core goals, and then lose sight of them. If I’d known that getting into it would have made me gain 65 pounds I probably would have thought twice about it. But as you get into a certain reality it becomes the norm and you simply REACT to what’s in front of you.

You’re out and you’re hungry, so you out. You’ve got a hot girl in your bed, so you slip your dick in her. Etc etc.

Pickup can be a bit of an extreme sport, and expose you to a lot of positive things you’d never have access to, but also a lot of negative. It’s like the club promoter who gets into it to meet girls but winds up addicted to snorting coke.

But it doesn’t have to be that way! So keep this video in mind, and hopefully it makes your experience a lot more beneficial overall. Have fun!

Tyler

PS:  Imagine walking through Barnes & Noble and seeing Simon & Schuster's hot new book release in the front shelves, called an obnoxious title like "Get Laid Or Die Trying:  The Field Reports"??

Well that's about to become your reality on March 29 2011, every damned time that you go to the store, forever and ever.  Check it out right now...:

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Laid-Die-Trying-Reports/dp/1451620896/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1295473291&sr=8-1

(And if you've never seen this video of Jeffy check it out now.  SUPER BIZARRE.  Gives you a vibe of what you can expect.)