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Hey!!

Just caught a lucky layover in San Jose on my way to DENVER for this weekend's events!  That means POSTING TIME! :)

Here's my upcoming schedule.

July 12, 2012: Denver (first time in Colorado in Summer -- psyched!)
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (come hit up Hawaii with Julien and myself -- great vacay idea!!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

btw I can't recommend highly enough MAKING THE TRIP TO HAWAII to hit up the events with myself and Julien.  They're gonna be soooooo GOOD!!

From there we're gonna be shooting over to the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!

August 19 - 25 2012: Las Fucking Vegas (YES!!)

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. It's a week in Las Vegas with every instructor in the crew, hitting it up, and TOTAL MAYHEM.

I'll see you there!!

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Okay so first video today is on HOW SHIT REALLY IS.

It basically goes into how the media portrays this pretty picture that most people buy into, when they don't want to know the reality of sex or success.

I know you're going to love this one so have a look.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN THE BIZARRE TRUTH ABOUT THE MAINSTREAMS PRETTY PICTURE OF SEX AND SUCCESS, AND A MORE ACCURATE WAY OF SEEING IT.


Anyway this was a really fun one for me, and the Austin crowd was really great.

btw the best book I could recommend to go deeper on this topic is "A Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. He seems to have an amazingly intuitive understanding of how certain people can only handle certain ideas and whatnot.

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Next up is ANOTHER video, which if you clicked onto this post earlier you may not have noticed, because I just added it.  I was actually boarding the plane on a layover from San Jose to Denver as I first posted this, so now I'm posting this second one as well.

This one is a follow up to the "Wakeup Call For Hardcase Newbies" video blog that I did in Boston, done in the Free Tour format.

To tell you the truth, this was an EPIC talk that I did on this topic that lasted 90 minutes.  And the fucking camera went out and we only captured 30 minutes of it.  Bummer because it was truly the best shit I could've ever done on this.

Nonetheless the 30 minutes is more than worth watching so check it out!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE A HARDCASE NEWBIE WHO IS SOCIALLY RETARDED, OVERLY PASSIVE, DEPRESSED AND WEIRD.


I hope you enjoyed this as a follow up, and someday I'll try to recapture the magic of this amazing speach.

What you saw here was AFTER I found out the camera was fucking up and was SOOOO SAD that we'd lost such an amazing gem of a talk.

I think when you lose something like this it's like losing one of your babies, and you have to FORGET about how amazing it was for a few months before trying to cover it again.

Otherwise all you can think about as you're speaking is "This doesn't have the magic of the original I did..." and get stuck in your head.

This last bit I was sad and just tried to hammer through the last half hour without letting it bug me too much, and thought I concluded it fairly well.  Hopefully you got some good ideas out of it if you're a hardcase newb, and I hope I come back with something really amazing on this topic in the future.

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btw if you never saw the ORIGINAL 3 minute video blog on hardcase newbies here it is.


(Again just in case you didn't know the original video that inspired the one above.)

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I'm off to bed now and waking up to go find some cool video blog locations to shoot in Denver, hopefully in the Rockie mountains but we'll see.

Hit me up with your thoughts on this and also I've been in the main forum so you can hit me up there too!

VERY PSYCHED for both the upcoming Hawaii programs and World Summit.  YES!!

Next week I have an hour and 10 minute video from Seattle that I'm very psyched for you to see and I think will do amazing things for everyone who checks it out!

Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon.  

Tyler

PS: 
 I'd originally only uploaded the video with the green tee shirt for the first few hours before updating this post with the hardcase newbie video, so that's why the first 20 odd comments here are ONLY about the "Society can't handle the truth" video.

But please let me know what you think about the hardcase newbie video as well if you got anything out of it or have experience you'd like to share!  I just updated it because I have a pretty good backlog of material and wanted to get it out ASAP.

PPS:  Listening to this Avicii right now, love that shot of the Brooklyn Bridge at the start.  I think this is better than "Levels" actually but funny how certain songs catch on more than others.


PPPS:  Thanks to iRyan below for digging up the Diddy video I mentioned in the Austin vid!

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#1

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first, i love avicii especially that song silhouettes.
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lol have a safe flight dear.
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Awesome !
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 Great.
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 Great talk, makes me think about all the haters in society. Haters gunna hate

Everyone needs to remember to be careful not to get addicted to pain as Owen said in a older vid though. Remember to reflect on your successes and failures to learn and grow from them, but hey, you aren't going to get any pain when you are sitting behind your keyboard just thinking about this shit living vicariously through other people. 

GO OUT
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 Sweet another Tyler video popped up!

I'm gonna watch it right now even though it is 7 in the morning over here and I've been up all night making beats after getting home from the bar, life is good
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8th bitches
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Great video, falls good for the stuff I was reading today. Discovered the PUA hate forums thing and was reading all about RSD. Bunch of dumb shit was being said and after looking at it for a while you start to fall into their chode mindsets. This will take me right out though. They just can't accept it. They are like "all those rsd guys do is get ugly chicks, no good looking girl will fall for it" , "they just get drunk party girls", etc.  Its too much for them to accept that little sally is getting fucked by little Tyler
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 That was great man, telling it how it is, this journey is rewiring my brain

Now I gotta sleep
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Nice haircut man. Looking good.
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Hahahahahahahahahaha FAT STEVE!! This is probably the funniest Tyler video I've ever seen. And I find myself deeply trusting his opinion on Edwards and Tiger because of his own work ethic and microcelebrity status.
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Sexy.
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 one of the best videos i have seen on this page. very motivational. thanks for sharing!
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iRyan

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Possibly the best best vid of them all..

I would love you to do a vlog maybe on your RSDTyler channel and go into this topic even deeper about how society doesn't want you to step up and be a champ! :)
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duenher wrote:
first
What a troll.

ANyway great video tyler, keep up the amazing work!
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 what is the site he says at the end?

thanks!
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#19

Johnathan Sampson

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Wow Tyler. Being honest here, one of the best vids. Love the shirt , the colours, your look, the energy behind it.

Of course the best part was the message. LOVE the struggle, love the pain, expand, get the depth. Be cool with how you look, your finaicial situation, where you are now, deal with what life has given you, make the best of it. Not just a feel good message, but it just seems so real.

It's not that I just like it because the message is awesome and amazing, it's like I'm really starting to feel what you mean. Like I am actually really finally coming to the right place. It's really all about self acceptance and the the journey. Fuck while i've been  doing the latter part alot: the journey, I have really never felt the first, love your situation, love who you are, love yourself, accept your situation. But when you look at your life situation objectively, and you look at your thoughts and all the ballshit. And really you are just blessed to be breathing. I hardly ever think about it like that, I hope this magic feeling keeps coming more and more. I am finally letting go of what I think I am, and becoming who I really am, and being cool with my descions, life is cool just taking taking on whatever happens and accepting whatever happens.

It's like part echart tolle, but it seems more real when you say it in these videos. Like it's not a spiritual guru telling us, but a person who is on our level telling us, expressing what we were already experiencing.

It's like I feel more relaxed now, relaxed with who I am.

You gotta be relaxed at your core. Then the flow (the journey) will be more calm.
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The Duck ✘

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Owen,
1. LOVE that color on you (full homo)
2. How do you put together your information diet? (Books, Sites, People etc.)
3. Besides cold approaching, what have been your personal best activities for getting outside of your comfort zone? (Public speaking, martial arts, business hustle etc.)
4. Looking forward to the next article.. Thanks.
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 I think it's pretty great the hardcase newbie one. Both actually. With the hardcase,the main thing is how do you create awareness in someone that is, and how do you effect behavor change. It's like losing weight, that's no miracle, everyone has a basic idea what to do even if there is a TON of bad diet advice out there. But how to get the emotional leverage. That's the thing, it's really not until things are at a point of rock bototm. If then...

I guess as you say it's sort of  constant process, you have to stay on top of things, and stay on top of your self.
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Hardcase stuff is exactly what I need. Looking forward to more on this subject.
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#24

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I  always put myself in new challenging situationssmile, like even the weirdest, because it makes life worth living. Having three 8 hour jobs at once, another time I tried living like a homeless while studying university level health care - and I kept it to myself, no-one in my class EVER found out. Clean shaven every day, smelled like roses.

HOWEVER - this does not translate into sex. It does translate into attraction however. I have done the woo! party makeout several times, but the real deal sexual tension one... don't happen.

Could you make a video describing how you nailed your intent? There were girls leaving the club yesterday as I tried to get makeouts. But it seems it's not about DOING it's about BEING, and I have a hard time BEING sexually arousing when I'm not. 

To do any other thing in life - you just have to do the right actions. JUST APPROACH. But after girl number 30 runs away, my intent is at an all time low instead of a high. On the other hand, when I chill out with a chick in daygame, she get's attracted, but looses interest if I don't act, and IF I act, she runs away.
A few girls I nailed by just kissing them up hard, in isolation, coming from nowhere and unsmooth, before the girl has had time to realize that *I'm* not actually horney. If they give in, I get horney, and it's on. If they don't give in they run away ofc.

Could you please lay out the process to getting through this? A set of actions that I can take consistantly so that I get a vibe which warms the chick up, instead of cooling her down?

It would put my soul to rest at least knowing I'm on the right path - and not just screwing up my brain.
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Yo Tyler, great vids. Thanks for the good work.

What would you recommend for someone getting into meditation - ie. what books or audio to read/listen?
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im so depressed as fuck that i t can't handle a girl say no to me! therefore i can't approach.
i obsess over it like a sick person.
i can't get over this shit. fuk
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#27

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Awesome videos Tyler, like many before them they will be on regular rotation for me whilst I'm working out, doing housework etc.

I find your take on life and the kind of healthy mind/body lifestyle you advocate to be really motivating. I'm definitely still a newbie at this, and have a ways to claw myself out of my own spiral but I think I have at least stopped the descent now and have found a ledge to hang on to.

Your personal develoment/call to action vids are my favourites of all and I love the practical approaches and advice you give to self imrpove.

I've bought the Ultramind Solution and 150 healthiest foods, am am working through changing my diet right now. I'm only reading and watching inspiring uplifiting stuff and tomorrow I've got an interview with a local voluntary organisation to help me find some volunteer work where I can hopefully help other people less fortunate than me, maybe work with people with brain damage, homeless etc, as I feel I need it to get a perspective on my own life and recognise what I have, and also because I now feel the need to contribute to society and give rather than suck value.

This is a direct result of watching your videos so I thank you sincerely for continuing to inspire me, in life generally, not just pick up.
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Tyler, what is your opinion on taking medication to fix social anxiety/ depressive thought patterns?
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attractosaurus wrote:
Tyler, what is your opinion on taking medication to fix social anxiety/ depressive thought patterns?


i've taken ZOLOFT and it's side effects are EXTREMELY IRRITATING. I COULDN'T even masturbate.
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God damn that first video was hilarious; gotta be your funniest one yet.

PS: I like your neon V, looks dope!
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#31

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 Tyler, you are carrying on the enlightenment quest dude!!!! Thanks :) WTF, thought you were a bit evil, but then I rationalized it by the fact that it's a free world and people are responsible in the end no matter what... lol But you're more like a shot of evil in people's butt, the kind that's like the vaccacine... You're fucken genius... 
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#32

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 Speaking of putting girls on a pedestal
Asian chick turning into Angelina Jolie 
http://youtu.be/gsqahGYl21w
than in Jessica Alba
http://youtu.be/YjDqWJfu92w
than in Adriana Lima
http://youtu.be/x6TPIV9vkwQ

I feel insecure
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thanks man, totally get what you're saying
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 The hard case newbie video was great, thank you so much for it. I hope for more on that topic in the future. 
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in the second video everyone in the audience is wearing purple lol
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Hahaha!!! Imagine if Tiger said that shit at his press conference. Holy shit!!! Second video was awesome too. I really like how you relate willpower to go to the gym to working on your game. Its ridiculous how related both activities are. Great videos!!
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Standza

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Great videos man,especially 2nd one,hilarious:)

but that girl in first video was definitely drunk  ;)))
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attractosaurus wrote:
Tyler, what is your opinion on taking medication to fix social anxiety/ depressive thought patterns?
why taking medication to fix social anxiety,
there is a tea that arises your charm,and if you drink a cup or two of that tea,women are beging you to  fuck them!you wouldnt beleve it,really great tea
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#39

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 The second video is art!
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#40

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The second video, along with your Truth About Success series are some of the best I've ever seen. To the degree at which they literally make me think about life and approach it in a completely different way. You say for people to claw themselevs out of a rut, lol no need, just watch this and I'm out off that mode already. Really appreciate it big time. 
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Hey Owen,

Just wanted to thank you for everything you're doing. You're always growing and improving, regardless of the muck and mire you deal with everyday.

I love the constant inspiring posts and authenticity you share with us.

Thank you,

Magnificent.
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Hate that the camera went out, same thing happened during the last NY Free Tour : /
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A DMX song that talks to this issue:::::::::::::::::

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08wsEQnQtb0

Tyler, this is for you bro :) I predict you're going to love it, check it out.... TRUST ME :) lol

It's called "Have you Eva"

Chorous: Have you eva been UP! Eva been down!!!?!?!? eva been lostttttt, then came around!?!??!?!! Eva been through it!?!?!? Then came out of it!!!!! never had it, then got a lot of itttttt!!!!
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Anddddd a funny ass song by DMX with a meaningful chorous LMFAO it's called Gonna Get Mine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usgaDGBlWZA&feature=related 
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 Yoo Tyler,  the hard case newby video is best video I've seen so far! Probably cause I am / was pretty fucked up. I just love the insight about transforming your thoughtpatterns or rise above it by being present. You ever got that feeling you're really close to some sort of an epiphany.. i felt that the last couple of days. But you just nailed it with that statement! Slamming it in my face. Thanks man! 
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Thats so deep.  I know that these video are especially for newbes but I think that this can be applied to everyone, even advanced guys. 
btw, I really enjoyed, and I think you could talk a little bit more about Expansion and Contraction because this topic it is for very, very, very advanced guys.

Tyler, I aways get in this paradox 

Society wil tell you that you must tell the girl you like her, sure that in a needy way like movies and television show us. 

But is this really necessary show the girl that at least you have a conection with her? How important is that? 
Cuz, back in oldschool, we would never get close to tell that just cuz of a value problem. 


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 Thats deep. I feel like have these moments where I make progress and have bad ass game. Then out of nowhere, I revert to the old habits of being "the hard case newbie". Maintaining the consistency is my biggest challenge. Changing is fucking hard, but I'm going to try out the things you had suggested in these videos. Appreciate it Tyler.
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#47

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 Love this shit. Really inspiring. You've got such passion with everything you say.

Gotta say, pretty invalid, about the Tiger Woods thing. In fairness, the only reason that was a big deal, is because he was married. Pretty sure, even taking primal impulses and harsh realities into account, cheating on your wife is fairly bad form.

If he was just going around being charlie shean, without a wife, nobody would have given a shit.

The point just struck me as a bit off.

Still, these posts are gangsta!!! 
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#48

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Thanks for providing great free content on a regular basis.

s.
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Sick-Cunt wrote:
Great video, falls good for the stuff I was reading today. Discovered the PUA hate forums thing and was reading all about RSD. Bunch of dumb shit was being said and after looking at it for a while you start to fall into their chode mindsets. This will take me right out though. They just can't accept it. They are like "all those rsd guys do is get ugly chicks, no good looking girl will fall for it" , "they just get drunk party girls", etc.  Its too much for them to accept that little sally is getting fucked by little Tyler
Yep. same thing with "how the world really works" like tyler was saying was being presented in "brave new world" most people read that shit and think its fiction. When hard evidence is put in their face about eugenics and the psycho-social, chemical, biological & electro-magnetic manipulation of human consciousness, they dismiss it and call it "conspiracy theory" like little bitches instead of changing their lives and doing something about it. Oh and tyler: I'd rather have these "sheeple that shouldn't know" wake up and have to deal with their false reality being shattered than to continue to sit on jury's, putting good people away in jails that have commited no crime. remember: NO VICTIM, NO CRIME
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#50

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 I can't stop laughing at Tyler's blowjob impression at 13:33. Keep rewinding that shit. 'Huw haw haw haw.'

Epic moment.

Might even be better than Sacha Baron Cohen's BJ impression in Bruno.



Starts at 1:05.
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