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Hey!!
Just caught a lucky layover in San Jose on my way to DENVER for this weekend's events! That means POSTING TIME! :)
Here's my upcoming schedule.
July 12, 2012: Denver (first time in Colorado in Summer -- psyched!)
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (come hit up Hawaii with Julien and myself -- great vacay idea!!)
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
btw I can't recommend highly enough MAKING THE TRIP TO HAWAII to hit up the events with myself and Julien. They're gonna be soooooo GOOD!!
From there we're gonna be shooting over to the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!
August 19 - 25 2012: Las Fucking Vegas (YES!!)
www.rsdworldsummit.com
The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. It's a week in Las Vegas with every instructor in the crew, hitting it up, and TOTAL MAYHEM.
I'll see you there!!
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Okay so first video today is on HOW SHIT REALLY IS.
It basically goes into how the media portrays this pretty picture that most people buy into, when they don't want to know the reality of sex or success.
I know you're going to love this one so have a look.
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN THE BIZARRE TRUTH ABOUT THE MAINSTREAMS PRETTY PICTURE OF SEX AND SUCCESS, AND A MORE ACCURATE WAY OF SEEING IT.
Anyway this was a really fun one for me, and the Austin crowd was really great.
btw the best book I could recommend to go deeper on this topic is "A Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. He seems to have an amazingly intuitive understanding of how certain people can only handle certain ideas and whatnot.
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Next up is ANOTHER video, which if you clicked onto this post earlier you may not have noticed, because I just added it. I was actually boarding the plane on a layover from San Jose to Denver as I first posted this, so now I'm posting this second one as well.
This one is a follow up to the "Wakeup Call For Hardcase Newbies" video blog that I did in Boston, done in the Free Tour format.
To tell you the truth, this was an EPIC talk that I did on this topic that lasted 90 minutes. And the fucking camera went out and we only captured 30 minutes of it. Bummer because it was truly the best shit I could've ever done on this.
Nonetheless the 30 minutes is more than worth watching so check it out!
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE A HARDCASE NEWBIE WHO IS SOCIALLY RETARDED, OVERLY PASSIVE, DEPRESSED AND WEIRD.
I hope you enjoyed this as a follow up, and someday I'll try to recapture the magic of this amazing speach.
What you saw here was AFTER I found out the camera was fucking up and was SOOOO SAD that we'd lost such an amazing gem of a talk.
I think when you lose something like this it's like losing one of your babies, and you have to FORGET about how amazing it was for a few months before trying to cover it again.
Otherwise all you can think about as you're speaking is "This doesn't have the magic of the original I did..." and get stuck in your head.
This last bit I was sad and just tried to hammer through the last half hour without letting it bug me too much, and thought I concluded it fairly well. Hopefully you got some good ideas out of it if you're a hardcase newb, and I hope I come back with something really amazing on this topic in the future.
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btw if you never saw the ORIGINAL 3 minute video blog on hardcase newbies here it is.
(Again just in case you didn't know the original video that inspired the one above.)
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I'm off to bed now and waking up to go find some cool video blog locations to shoot in Denver, hopefully in the Rockie mountains but we'll see.
Hit me up with your thoughts on this and also I've been in the main forum so you can hit me up there too!
VERY PSYCHED for both the upcoming Hawaii programs and World Summit. YES!!
Next week I have an hour and 10 minute video from Seattle that I'm very psyched for you to see and I think will do amazing things for everyone who checks it out!
Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon.
Tyler
PS: I'd originally only uploaded the video with the green tee shirt for the first few hours before updating this post with the hardcase newbie video, so that's why the first 20 odd comments here are ONLY about the "Society can't handle the truth" video.
But please let me know what you think about the hardcase newbie video as well if you got anything out of it or have experience you'd like to share! I just updated it because I have a pretty good backlog of material and wanted to get it out ASAP.
PPS: Listening to this Avicii right now, love that shot of the Brooklyn Bridge at the start. I think this is better than "Levels" actually but funny how certain songs catch on more than others.
PPPS: Thanks to iRyan below for digging up the Diddy video I mentioned in the Austin vid!
Just caught a lucky layover in San Jose on my way to DENVER for this weekend's events! That means POSTING TIME! :)
Here's my upcoming schedule.
July 12, 2012: Denver (first time in Colorado in Summer -- psyched!)
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (come hit up Hawaii with Julien and myself -- great vacay idea!!)
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
btw I can't recommend highly enough MAKING THE TRIP TO HAWAII to hit up the events with myself and Julien. They're gonna be soooooo GOOD!!
From there we're gonna be shooting over to the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!
August 19 - 25 2012: Las Fucking Vegas (YES!!)
www.rsdworldsummit.com
The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. It's a week in Las Vegas with every instructor in the crew, hitting it up, and TOTAL MAYHEM.
I'll see you there!!
<>======================<>
Okay so first video today is on HOW SHIT REALLY IS.
It basically goes into how the media portrays this pretty picture that most people buy into, when they don't want to know the reality of sex or success.
I know you're going to love this one so have a look.
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN THE BIZARRE TRUTH ABOUT THE MAINSTREAMS PRETTY PICTURE OF SEX AND SUCCESS, AND A MORE ACCURATE WAY OF SEEING IT.
Anyway this was a really fun one for me, and the Austin crowd was really great.
btw the best book I could recommend to go deeper on this topic is "A Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. He seems to have an amazingly intuitive understanding of how certain people can only handle certain ideas and whatnot.
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Next up is ANOTHER video, which if you clicked onto this post earlier you may not have noticed, because I just added it. I was actually boarding the plane on a layover from San Jose to Denver as I first posted this, so now I'm posting this second one as well.
This one is a follow up to the "Wakeup Call For Hardcase Newbies" video blog that I did in Boston, done in the Free Tour format.
To tell you the truth, this was an EPIC talk that I did on this topic that lasted 90 minutes. And the fucking camera went out and we only captured 30 minutes of it. Bummer because it was truly the best shit I could've ever done on this.
Nonetheless the 30 minutes is more than worth watching so check it out!
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN ABOUT WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE A HARDCASE NEWBIE WHO IS SOCIALLY RETARDED, OVERLY PASSIVE, DEPRESSED AND WEIRD.
I hope you enjoyed this as a follow up, and someday I'll try to recapture the magic of this amazing speach.
What you saw here was AFTER I found out the camera was fucking up and was SOOOO SAD that we'd lost such an amazing gem of a talk.
I think when you lose something like this it's like losing one of your babies, and you have to FORGET about how amazing it was for a few months before trying to cover it again.
Otherwise all you can think about as you're speaking is "This doesn't have the magic of the original I did..." and get stuck in your head.
This last bit I was sad and just tried to hammer through the last half hour without letting it bug me too much, and thought I concluded it fairly well. Hopefully you got some good ideas out of it if you're a hardcase newb, and I hope I come back with something really amazing on this topic in the future.
<>=====================<>
btw if you never saw the ORIGINAL 3 minute video blog on hardcase newbies here it is.
(Again just in case you didn't know the original video that inspired the one above.)
<>============================<>
I'm off to bed now and waking up to go find some cool video blog locations to shoot in Denver, hopefully in the Rockie mountains but we'll see.
Hit me up with your thoughts on this and also I've been in the main forum so you can hit me up there too!
VERY PSYCHED for both the upcoming Hawaii programs and World Summit. YES!!
Next week I have an hour and 10 minute video from Seattle that I'm very psyched for you to see and I think will do amazing things for everyone who checks it out!
Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon.
Tyler
PS: I'd originally only uploaded the video with the green tee shirt for the first few hours before updating this post with the hardcase newbie video, so that's why the first 20 odd comments here are ONLY about the "Society can't handle the truth" video.
But please let me know what you think about the hardcase newbie video as well if you got anything out of it or have experience you'd like to share! I just updated it because I have a pretty good backlog of material and wanted to get it out ASAP.
PPS: Listening to this Avicii right now, love that shot of the Brooklyn Bridge at the start. I think this is better than "Levels" actually but funny how certain songs catch on more than others.
PPPS: Thanks to iRyan below for digging up the Diddy video I mentioned in the Austin vid!
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Everyone needs to remember to be careful not to get addicted to pain as Owen said in a older vid though. Remember to reflect on your successes and failures to learn and grow from them, but hey, you aren't going to get any pain when you are sitting behind your keyboard just thinking about this shit living vicariously through other people.
GO OUT
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I'm gonna watch it right now even though it is 7 in the morning over here and I've been up all night making beats after getting home from the bar, life is good
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Now I gotta sleep
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I would love you to do a vlog maybe on your RSDTyler channel and go into this topic even deeper about how society doesn't want you to step up and be a champ! :)
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ANyway great video tyler, keep up the amazing work!
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thanks!
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What makes me the happiest is to be the best that I can be. And I thank everyone from the very bottom of my heart for all the help theyve given me. Ive learned so much from RSD and RSdnation and yall have helped me so much. Girls including hot girls have always hit me up. Tellin me "Im hot". "Youre so lucky you're so cute". "papi chulo", "you can have anything you want sexy",etc,etc I've had strangers who come where I used to work and offer me to go out with their nieces,etc.
LOOKS DONT MATTER!!
One of my ex girlfriends who was a hot blonde first hit me up at the gym. Easily someones' 9. She was like "is so and so..." I just said "Yeah" and I walked away and left her standing there. Why???? Because I was an academic machine. Nobody ever taught me anything. ANYTHING! I've talked about my upbringing. I help my parensts change but , especially my dad, they are "sick and sadistic". Its in their nature to inflict physical and mental pain, negativity, anguish,and other stuff that is unbelievable like addictions,etc. The strangest thing is that they do it to their own family. Its their nature. They gave that EVERYDAY for more than 18 years. EVERYDAY. I must've had less than 10 normal conversations with them before I left my whole life. Crazy shit since I was 1 yrs old.
Then by chance I met that girl from the gym again and that day her friend told me she liked me alot and how much she talks about me to people. So it was too easy to get with her because I had a house and car as well so it was too easy. I've had other 9's like me too. I couldve never seen that blonde girl ever again and me ignoring her at the gym wouldve been the end of our story. Because noone ever taught me anything. I was an academic machine almost like no other.
If I wouldve known what I've learned from RSD today then things wouldve gone differently in the gym with her. We wouldve vibed,etc. Our relationship wouldve been diff too. Although I hate what ifs because what if a gym weight would've fallen on my foot while vibing with her and I had to go to the hospital LOL. "What ifs" suck.
Some girl from work aint a big deal to me.
Social conditioning is bullshit. LOOKS DONT MATTER! My goals are what make me the happiest that's why I was an academic machine. My senior year in High School I went for a 5.0 GPA. I beat everyone. I was the poor ghetto kid that beat the russians and the japanese and everyone in school like every other school. I also got skipped a grade. I'm all about my goals and Rsdnation is part of the reason for the sucess I'll have in the future and I'm grateful.
At the ending of my senior year I was told that there was no way I could go to an university. I had universities offering me trips all over the world. All that was taken from me. Its all good. Etc etc etc etc.Dont get me wrong Im not saying im the smartest guy in the world or anything though. It would be stupid to believe that. I've always wanted to help the needy whatever way I could. I plan to go to university in the future now that I can.
Looks dont matter. Im glad alot of guys on the forum are realizing that social conditioning is bullshit. I never think of girls as sluts or that theyre dumb or anything like that. Nahh. That aint me. All I ever wanted to do since I was little is to help all people.
But forealz it wasnt even like that at work.
Girl in Vid can say what she wanna say but she knows that I didnt care from the start even before vid came out. It's no big deal. I was also going out and meeting girls which I posted about because a girl from work is no big deal to me. I also focused on my goals and overcoming. Which I did overcome ALOT and so many other things thanks to everyone on RSDnation.
George Leonard said and many other people that have written books say that you can reach Mastery at any age. And if you dont believe that: You can argue with him not me.
I got love for people and the world. Including people at work. Some of them probably read the front page and thats cool. Rsdnation#1! Thanks sir for all the value.RSDnation and RSD and PUA comm has helped take my life to new levels. I've learned so much. Believe or not.
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Of course the best part was the message. LOVE the struggle, love the pain, expand, get the depth. Be cool with how you look, your finaicial situation, where you are now, deal with what life has given you, make the best of it. Not just a feel good message, but it just seems so real.
It's not that I just like it because the message is awesome and amazing, it's like I'm really starting to feel what you mean. Like I am actually really finally coming to the right place. It's really all about self acceptance and the the journey. Fuck while i've been doing the latter part alot: the journey, I have really never felt the first, love your situation, love who you are, love yourself, accept your situation. But when you look at your life situation objectively, and you look at your thoughts and all the ballshit. And really you are just blessed to be breathing. I hardly ever think about it like that, I hope this magic feeling keeps coming more and more. I am finally letting go of what I think I am, and becoming who I really am, and being cool with my descions, life is cool just taking taking on whatever happens and accepting whatever happens.
It's like part echart tolle, but it seems more real when you say it in these videos. Like it's not a spiritual guru telling us, but a person who is on our level telling us, expressing what we were already experiencing.
It's like I feel more relaxed now, relaxed with who I am.
You gotta be relaxed at your core. Then the flow (the journey) will be more calm.
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1. LOVE that color on you (full homo)
2. How do you put together your information diet? (Books, Sites, People etc.)
3. Besides cold approaching, what have been your personal best activities for getting outside of your comfort zone? (Public speaking, martial arts, business hustle etc.)
4. Looking forward to the next article.. Thanks.
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I guess as you say it's sort of constant process, you have to stay on top of things, and stay on top of your self.
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HOWEVER - this does not translate into sex. It does translate into attraction however. I have done the woo! party makeout several times, but the real deal sexual tension one... don't happen.
Could you make a video describing how you nailed your intent? There were girls leaving the club yesterday as I tried to get makeouts. But it seems it's not about DOING it's about BEING, and I have a hard time BEING sexually arousing when I'm not.
To do any other thing in life - you just have to do the right actions. JUST APPROACH. But after girl number 30 runs away, my intent is at an all time low instead of a high. On the other hand, when I chill out with a chick in daygame, she get's attracted, but looses interest if I don't act, and IF I act, she runs away.
A few girls I nailed by just kissing them up hard, in isolation, coming from nowhere and unsmooth, before the girl has had time to realize that *I'm* not actually horney. If they give in, I get horney, and it's on. If they don't give in they run away ofc.
Could you please lay out the process to getting through this? A set of actions that I can take consistantly so that I get a vibe which warms the chick up, instead of cooling her down?
It would put my soul to rest at least knowing I'm on the right path - and not just screwing up my brain.
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What would you recommend for someone getting into meditation - ie. what books or audio to read/listen?
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i obsess over it like a sick person.
i can't get over this shit. fuk
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I find your take on life and the kind of healthy mind/body lifestyle you advocate to be really motivating. I'm definitely still a newbie at this, and have a ways to claw myself out of my own spiral but I think I have at least stopped the descent now and have found a ledge to hang on to.
Your personal develoment/call to action vids are my favourites of all and I love the practical approaches and advice you give to self imrpove.
I've bought the Ultramind Solution and 150 healthiest foods, am am working through changing my diet right now. I'm only reading and watching inspiring uplifiting stuff and tomorrow I've got an interview with a local voluntary organisation to help me find some volunteer work where I can hopefully help other people less fortunate than me, maybe work with people with brain damage, homeless etc, as I feel I need it to get a perspective on my own life and recognise what I have, and also because I now feel the need to contribute to society and give rather than suck value.
This is a direct result of watching your videos so I thank you sincerely for continuing to inspire me, in life generally, not just pick up.
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i've taken ZOLOFT and it's side effects are EXTREMELY IRRITATING. I COULDN'T even masturbate.
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PS: I like your neon V, looks dope!
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Asian chick turning into Angelina Jolie
http://youtu.be/gsqahGYl21w
than in Jessica Alba
http://youtu.be/YjDqWJfu92w
than in Adriana Lima
http://youtu.be/x6TPIV9vkwQ
I feel insecure
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but that girl in first video was definitely drunk ;)))
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there is a tea that arises your charm,and if you drink a cup or two of that tea,women are beging you to fuck them!you wouldnt beleve it,really great tea
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Just wanted to thank you for everything you're doing. You're always growing and improving, regardless of the muck and mire you deal with everyday.
I love the constant inspiring posts and authenticity you share with us.
Thank you,
Magnificent.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08wsEQnQtb0
Tyler, this is for you bro :) I predict you're going to love it, check it out.... TRUST ME :) lol
It's called "Have you Eva"
Chorous: Have you eva been UP! Eva been down!!!?!?!? eva been lostttttt, then came around!?!??!?!! Eva been through it!?!?!? Then came out of it!!!!! never had it, then got a lot of itttttt!!!!
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Anddddd a funny ass song by DMX with a meaningful chorous LMFAO it's called Gonna Get Mine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usgaDGBlWZA&feature=related
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btw, I really enjoyed, and I think you could talk a little bit more about Expansion and Contraction because this topic it is for very, very, very advanced guys.
Tyler, I aways get in this paradox
Society wil tell you that you must tell the girl you like her, sure that in a needy way like movies and television show us.
But is this really necessary show the girl that at least you have a conection with her? How important is that?
Cuz, back in oldschool, we would never get close to tell that just cuz of a value problem.
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Gotta say, pretty invalid, about the Tiger Woods thing. In fairness, the only reason that was a big deal, is because he was married. Pretty sure, even taking primal impulses and harsh realities into account, cheating on your wife is fairly bad form.
If he was just going around being charlie shean, without a wife, nobody would have given a shit.
The point just struck me as a bit off.
Still, these posts are gangsta!!!