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Hey there!

So today we've got a bad ass video that includes me coaching in the field and pulling a new girl (as usual) shot in front of a scenic city lookout point (also as usual...). :)

And as I'm writing this I've just returned from San Diego where Julien and I showed our first ever version of the Hot Seat 3!!!!!

We've been working so hard on this... In such a state of momentum with it... That we'd worked ourselves into a mode of IT'S NEVER GOOD ENOUGH!!

So we've been shooting and shooting, getting sicker and sicker shit -- from threesomes to compilations of 3 minute pull after 3 minute pull to daytime model game -- all sorts of crazy shit you've never seen.

And when we finally showed it in San Diego we kiinda realized...

"Uhhhh okay this is pretty amazing, this is a damned good working version of Hot Seat 3!"

Regardless we're going to keep shooting and shooting.  The hardest part of getting infield footage is MENTALLY ACCLIMATING TO BEING CONSTANTLY FOLLOWED AROUND.

You get the creepiest feeling in the world from it, knowing that at any time you can be thrown out of a club or have the girl freak out.  But with the high level of value we can deliver for very cheap with a Hot Seat event, it's simply too good to pass up. 

Anyway I'm obviously very excited about it and here is the first review from a dude whose been to all the previous events.

I'm really psyched about it so wanted to share it here and urge you to check it out.

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FIRST REVIEW OF HOT SEAT 3

Before I start, I want to mention that I've been to almost every single major hotseat event. I've been to several hotseat 1 and 2 events since 2011, a couple of Julien's bonus hotseat events, I've seen many infields of Jeffy hotseat during last year's world summit, and Alex's hotseat in DC and san Francisco.

The new footage of hotseat is INSANE. I cannot contain my excitement of how much Julien's game has improved since just a YEAR ago so I must write about it first. While talking to Julien last year during the summit, I was mentioning how flashy and insane his infield footage was. Julien said "I don't think a lot of my longer infield footage is flashy at all. That's just what I normally do. Anyways, dude, if you check out my game right now, the old footage is nothing. I've improved so much since then. If I ever get to shoot footage again, it'll be insane."

YES IT IS.

Day 1 was all of Tyler's new stuff. A lot of the new footage that Owen shows is stuff when his state is at rock bottom. No flashiness, not a lot of crazy humor; just pure confidence in himself and the belief of "there is no reason I am not enough" as Alex teaches.

Honestly, a lot of the footage from the past was very flashy because RSD wanted to show people what was possible when you push boundaries. Many of the community members I've talked to have gone to talk about how they like Alex's hotseat better because he doesn't do a lot of insane stuff and seems very normal. But from what I've seen, Alex's verbal game has always been one of the best among instructors, not in a sense of funny humor (although he can be extremely funny), but his strong point is in emotional expressions where he can create small spikes of conveying positive and negative emotions and make the conversation so much more dynamic.

Tyler's new footage is even more normal than that, and I think that is precisely what he wanted to show this time to people who are new to the community. "Don't be intimidated that you're not saying anything interesting. You can say the most boring shit ever but believe there is no reason why you're not enough. Relax and just stick in there. Then state will transfer on that you are interested in what you're saying and they'll get interested too". All of Alex's principles applies but in a more toned down level. Personally, it helped me much more than the previous footages because some of the conversation Owen was having with others was the most normal, boring stuff but he STILL MANAGES TO PULL because he's confident that the interaction is going well, and he sticks in there. And a lot of the pulls were made possible just because he stuck in there. It's like minimalistic game.

Though I say a lot of his stuff is normal, of course, he still has many footages where he is fully in state, pulling within minutes of meeting girls like a true G;)

Julien's game is the best among all instructors I've ever seen. He's not a guy who became insanely good at game just because his mentality and humor is different anymore; what I mean by this is a lot of RSD members believe that Julien's game is unreplicateable for most people because of his personality traits only works for him. But now Tyler and Julien have extensively broken down his game where they can explain step by step on what he is doing and what its making the girls feel.

Julien is a master of game, a true puppeteer. He's Neo from the matrix who sees the patterns of the matrix better than anybody else and toys with it. Hanging out with him in field, I've never seen Julien get blown out from an interaction. Of course, he still gets ignored by girls every now and then, but once he starts a conversation, even the very first interaction he has during the night, they can't leave him. He is extremely self-amused. He can talk to a 55 year old woman for 2 hours, get fully into state, then pull the hottest girl right after. He TRULY doesn't care who he's talking to.

These two are the biggest improvements I've noticed from Julien's game.

1. Extreme self-amusement; his verbal game has improved 1000%; whatever comes out of his mouth is exciting, even when he's talking about the most boring stuff; you feel it, and the girl feels it. His masculine polarity, challenging attitude draws them in immediately.

2. Extreme awareness of what the girl is feeling at the moment. His empathy level is ridiculous that he knows exactly what the girl is feeling at the moment to the tee. This way he can calibrate even before the girl knows what's going on. Many times the girls verbalize this: "What's going on right now?". They can't believe the interaction is going so fast. As Jeffy puts it, they're on a water slide just getting swooped away.

With the two combined above, none of his sets are boring at all.

My favorite video is when Julien goes in for the first time in the venue, he's all out of state, and he talks to one girl just for the hell of it. He says something like "I suck. I'm really lame right now." during the interaction and he tells the girl to stay because he needs to loosen up. The girl DOES kind of want to leave him because he's not hooked that well yet. His stuff is still good enough for the girl to stay, but in a venue as busy as that, there needs to be more stimuli for her to keep being engaged.

About 3 minutes into the interaction, you see Julien's mind clicking. He loosens up; he's getting in the zone. The girl immediately gives him feedback. She tells him that he was kind of OK at first but now she's so engaged that she can't leave him now. As the interaction progresses, Julien's personality just shines with ridiculous humor and self-amusement. He leaves the girl, talks to the next girl and hooks immediately. And as the night goes by, this girl can't leave him. He pulls.

He pulls the hottest girls and only the hottest. Girls who fend off anything that comes their way can't resist Julien.

In another set, Julien gets a super hot girl to get down on her knees and beg for his affection, fingers her, all in the middle of the venue where everybody can see; He pulls her to an alley way within an hour. The girl had no chance. To her eyes, Julien is God. Julien knows this and teases her to an extent where she is so helpless that she just wants to jump on him.

Oh day game, day game, day game. Yes, there is a lot of day game in the new hotseat where the sun is shining brightly on everybody in the middle of an open mall district in South Beach, Miami. Julien's game is no different. At one point, he talks to the first hot girl outside Starbucks, hooks immediately, hooks her friend who is inside Starbucks separately, stops a model who's a total stranger walking down the street alone and merges the sets, and number closes. The club promoter who was in the mixed set thinks Julien is the coolest guy he's ever seen and wants him to come to his club. He's no doubt the coolest guy in the area and everybody's attention is on him because they're having so much fun.  He pulls a stripper during day game in the street. All his number closes are solid.

He breaks down all his interactions like a strategist and conveys it so you can understand it and apply it yourself.

This is what true game looks like. Julien has the best game among all the RSD instructors I've ever seen. Even his facial expressions are hypnotizing that you can't take your eyes away from him while he's in field. The song quote: "You are a cinema" was meant for this guy, not a girl. LOL. His little comments, back handed compliments, masculine polarity, his body language and self-amusement; I don't think anyone has a better understanding of the vibe of interactions than Julien does. He is also a ridiculously effective instructor where he pin points your issues and snipes at your weak points and extensively explains it.

No company has a product that exceeds the monetary or educational values of the new RSD hotseat.

P.S. These guys are STILL taking infield footage so I believe their material will be continuously updated from now on.

Unacat
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/426293/forum

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Thanks man!!

I wanted to share this as it's been the project we've hammered away on for several years now.

My biggest intention in going out 7 days a week these past few years straight has been in preparation to record the Hot Seat 3, and so this is kind of a big deal for me to see it finally come together!

Anyway here's a list of my upcoming events if you want to check it out...

May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
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We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!

Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!

If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

Life is short. When an adventure like Summit is available, do it.

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TODAY'S VID

So oftentimes when I'm really underslept I'll be in a new city and HAVE to do a vBlog because it's a personal standard that I set for myself that any time I'm in a new city I'll record something.

This standard is extremely important, because I've learned that without it I'll make excuse after excuse to not record anything new.

I've often said that I try to deliberately add in a sense of scarcity about opportunities into my brain, and I do so in order to push myself to get things done.

Anyway when I'm tired I'll often tackle easier / simpler topics because I won't mentally trip all over myself.  And in this case, I've covered whether or not pickup is a numbers game.

I'm really happy with my treatment of the topic and think it's well worth watching, but ironically I didn't avoid tripping all over myself by DELAYING AN ENTIRE FERRY BOAT FROM DOCKING while I recorded.

LOL woops. :)

The video also includes clips of me coaching and pulling from a really fun night!  I tried to make the little pull clip related to the coaching I was doing about "not asking for permission" -- you also see me on a fucking bicycle cab with the girl which I think is pretty fun.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER THE TRUTH ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT PICKUP IS A NUMBERS GAME AND SEE ME DOING MORE OF MY REGULAR PULLING IN THE FIELD!



Nice!

I really hope you enjoyed this, but most importantly, I recorded the video to REALLY PUT IT IN PERSPECTIVE why it's so important to be approaching girls ALL THE TIME!

Like I said you don't have to spend the rest of your life doing this, so don't freak out! :)

Just assume to be doing it until you have the sex life that you want, and GF that you want if that's your thing.

Get it done!!

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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VID ON THIS TOPIC TO HAMMER HOME THE POINT

I also wanted to go further on your education in this by drawing your attention to a video where I talk about the importance of actually enjoying talking to lots of girls.

It's a pretty nutty vid from back when I had the FULL BEARD going!  Check it out!



Good shit doubling up on the concept, now is the time to put it into use!!

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KICK ASS EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK!

I recently stumbled onto this video from Elliot Hulse where he talks about the importance of building your brain.

This is absolutely critical and he explains it in a VERY smart way.

I've read every book that he describes in the video and I'd urge you to watch it and subscribe to his channel on www.youtube.com/strengthcamp



I hope you enjoyed this and will take the advice to heart.

VERY VERY critical.

What he's said about using audio books to absorb informtion while you're walking or driving is absolutely on point.

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KILLER FORUM POST OF THE WEEK

Rocknrollpua: How You Evolve Through The Process

Super sharp article on HOW YOU IMPROVE by going out by a guy who has run the race!

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/427321/forum

Thanks to everyone for the contributions this week!

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THANKS!

So I'm out, and have some very cool things planned for NEXT WEEK'S articles.  I hope you're very psyched!

AND PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ON THE TOPIC OF THE NUMBERS GAME!  LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK AND WHAT YOUR EXPERIENCES HAVE BEEN!

I appreciate you reading this and I'll see you soon!  Have fun!

Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
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 literally just that 30 second clip put it in perspective how fucking valuable a fucking 3 day bootcamp would be. Holy Shit.
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smack_attack wrote:
 literally just that 30 second clip put it in perspective how fucking valuable a fucking 3 day bootcamp would be. Holy Shit.
My thoughts exactly man. I'd love to have Tyler yelling at my ear the whole night and giving me INSTANT feedback, my learning curve would get cut in half. I never pictured a bootcamp like that. Fuckk
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 Great video and great hotseat man. 

As much as I love your videos I'm honestly a little weirded out being in one of them. 

I'll keep in mind to look out for video cameras next time I attend a hotseat. But it would probably be a good idea to let people know about the potential for filming before the event. 

If there's anyway you could edit the last section of the video, maybe a bit narrower range of view, I would really appreciate it. 
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 So was that dude in in-field footage in the beginning a journalist that you took out? 

Luke
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same. didn't realize T-dawg was so hands on
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 literally just that 30 second clip put it in perspective how fucking valuable a fucking 3 day bootcamp would be. Holy Shit.
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Hey Tyler,

Great vid, I love how raw and passionate your videos are even when your tired!

This video has inspired me to get going with the cold approach again.

Thanks.
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Big Pimpin
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Waiting for the vblog on SEX (what you have learned about laying many many girls).....
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 I'm loving the variety you're bringing into RSD's Content lately!

Now go get some sleep ;)
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Great video as always Tyler! 

I'm also an avid reader, and I agree with what Elliot is saying in this vid. I've seen a lot of Elliot's other videos as well and most of them are great, however many of his suggestions for losing weight and tarining are pure bro-science. Having said that I still think he's one of the best sources on YouTube and great for newbs. Anyway, for anyone listening to Elliot, just be skeptical of some of the stuff he recommends and try to verify his claims with some other sources first. 

By the way the Bootcamp looks so insanely awesome. Seeing that little bit of footage is really encouraging me to take one. 

Thanks Tyler
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 I actually found my self in awe watching this video, because I have never taken the time to actually picture this strange 5,7 ginger man, shorter than most girls, having two girls on his arm, having them makeout and brining them home for a threesome. ACTUALLY think about it, I would laughhh if I saw this in person, not because I think its about looks but just because it would be so funny seeing this small man, be so dominant :P 

I am pumped for some more self help videos! also a video on moral responsiblity would be cool and tied in with cheating vs not cheating etc.

awesome, awesome, awesome stuff. Thanks.
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Letting yourself go to be free do the process, hitting it out withholding judgment or giving any value to how many it took or how many so far.

We can and should stack everythink in our availability to your favour but this doesn't remove you from doing the work to get there or stay there.
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 ferry boat agrees. haha.

love the mention of Leo cause his most recent ex is one of the most gorgeous chicks I've ever seen - Erin Heatherton:

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would like to ask about something completely unrelated Owen.

recently - in a comment on one of Alex~'s blog posts, specifically, you mentioned that you had this period of your life where you to work 16h/day workweeks and the situation was not gonna get better in the future, and you had to find a new routine.

I would love if you could develop more on this because I'm currently in that situation. I've been pretty fucking amazing with girls these past years but I'm creating my own startup and I need to work all fucking day and most nights, and I just don't have time to go out. and that's bad, cause, well, I love boobies. and the problem is that in these next few years I don't see the fucking situation get better. at all.

on one hand I know what common sense tells me - just learn to work more efficiently and still go out - but I would love to know if you have specific tips of strategies that have worked for you. thanks !
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 I like the randomness in the video and that you continued recording instead of redoing it after the boat made the noise. It made the video even better I think!
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I can't believe that you actually walk around behind the guy telling him what to do in real time.. That's so fucking funny and creepy at the same time:D
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Sick man! Didn't get to see you at the free tour, but Julien killed it!

I don't get too much new info that hits home with me at the level I'm at, but the free tour had some good content that helped make a little tweak. And this video hit home on why I need to approach a bit more that I do now.

Here's my personal connection / review of this new video, check it out:

may30daychallenge.com/new-tyler-video-hit-home/
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SebastianValmont wrote:
 So was that dude in in-field footage in the beginning a journalist that you took out? 

Luke
not a journalist. that's infield footage of Owen coaching during bootcamp in San Diego just this weekend. I can't believe how fast he edited that footage! thanks for the awesome video, man!
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That's a sweet jacket.
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Tyler, when you read, how do you enjoy the process and not think
/ feel the book is a means to an end, as Tolle says. I love reading too, but sometimes I get anxiety when I have thoughts about finishing and going on to the next book. Do you read one book at a time? Or skip around between a few?

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Very energetic video in all of its parts, I like! Although I'm by now familiar with most of the content of most of your videos, I still love to watch them to soak up your vibe and maybe little details (eyecontact on moving her...).

Ferry boat agrees, and ferry boat always wins!
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LOL!  Owen I've watched your stuff for a number of years , that ferry boat thing was hilarious.  Ohhh my gosh.  That is by far the most you have looked like a dumbass on any video :)  Nice to see you down to earth brotha
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Personally, it helped me much more than the previous footages because some of the conversation Owen was having with others was the most normal, boring stuff but he STILL MANAGES TO PULL because he's confident that the interaction is going well, and he sticks in there. And a lot of the pulls were made possible just because he stuck in there. It's like minimalistic game.


I think this is key. Watching what's possible 10 years in the game isn't in my reality right now. It's like learning to play basketball by watching Kobe Bryant. It's great to see what's possible and how women behave but I just cannot see myself walking outside tonight and doing what Julien does - it's about as far from congruent as I could imagine.
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 Content rich videos, Tyler keepin' real!
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I just wondered if the next decade a BC will be with google glasses where you'll get live instructions electronically instead of owen standing behind you.
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 Classic Vid was just what I needed! I fucking love you Tyler!
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Hey Tyler, thanks for all the great free content you've been publishing.

I just have a question about the game:
When you approach the girl and she is not attracted to you yet, how do you get her hooked so that she's eating from the palm of your hands and you control the frame.

I think game is about doing just this because over 80% of the time the girl you approach will not be into you and will not be turned off by you, but she will not be investing. So how do you get a girl to INVEST into you? Could you explain what it is you do to get girls to invest?
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Great video.

Loved the funnell analogy, good to cover this topic as so many anti-pua people go on about the numbers game, but anyone who thinks they can learn some tricks to get every girl they want clearly hasnt got much social experience. Itsgood you are honest about this as apposed to the old days in the industry where the marketing was more like 'learn secret tactics to get any girl garunteed'!

That jacket is sick, I want one.

Respect.
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Tyler, are you (or one of your minions) rolling out Hotseat 3 in Australia this November?
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 Just go and have fun with it.  Don't care. Just Let Go!
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 Thanks for introducing us to Elliott Husle Tyler. He's awsome resource.
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