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So I'm helping to cover the instructors by posting 2X this week, since they're very busy here at World Summit!

GOOD FOR YOU THOUGH!

Cause the video I'm posting up today is LEGIT and you're going to be getting it a week early. :)

The World Summit has been going amazing btw.  There's some pics up on my Instagram, check it out!

www.instagram.com/rsdtyler

I'd really urge you to take the leap and make it out next year, it's such an amazing event -- both experientially (one of the most FUN experiences you will have in your life) as well as educationally (the immersion of this event means you CHANGE so much as a person over the course of the experience).

This is not an event I promote very heavily because I like to keep people's short attention span on RSD's 3 main programs - Free Tour, Hot Seat and Bootcamp.

But it's a program that's easily on the same level as those 3, and by far the most FUN and IMMERSIVE of any program you will ever do.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

Anyway speaking of Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp, here's my upcoming schedule for the next few months!  Come see me if you're in da hood!

August 22, 2013: Seattle (with Julien)
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia (with Julien)
October 17, 2013: San Diego
October 31, 2013: Phoenix
December 12, 2013: Los Angeles
December 19, 2013: New York
January 2, 2014: Chicago
January 16, 2014: Salt Lake City
January 30, 2014: San Francisco

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

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TODAY'S NEW VID!

So today we're going to crack into what I believe is the MISSING PEICE for most guys!

The importance of SINCERITY in the game.

Soooooo many guys view women as these bizarre objects who they can EXPLOIT for their own validation or desire to improve themselves.

This would fine and all, as I personally am not sitting in bed awake at night worried for the WELFARE of stunning women who have their lives handed to them on a silver platter lol.

Rather the PROBLEM with this is that the insincerity BLOCKS *YOU* FROM FUCKING THEM. :)

What's so crazy is that I know several naturals and PUA's who use almost pure sincerity as their ENTIRE game.  Like literally, you could create a whole pickup company on the foundation of just being sincere.

As I explain in the video though, sincerity IMO is not about verbalizing the fact you want to fuck the girl, or that you're HONESTLY just a desperate little creeper who should be creditted and fucked for this since you're being honest about it.

(That's just using sincerity / honesty as an excuse to be lazy and not handle your own emotions.... Pathetic!)

Rather it's about shifting your awareness onto making the OTHER person feel good (not with bribes but by your PRESENCE) and then using this to OUT FRAME APPROACH ANXIETY and that creepy feeling of having an agenda.

So this video is going to address that for you, and provide some cool exercises I use on Bootcamp to maximize the strength of sincerity in your pickups.

(btw you'll see that the vid starts at the top of a hill leading into the famous Muir Woods forest, and then I drive INTO THE FOG to go into the woods.  The whole fog situation that day was one of the coolest things I've seen in my life, and the vid ends with a shot of the fog on the Golden Gate bridge.  I wanted to share it cause I've travelled the world and this was something that really stood out to me.)

SO YES,  CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER THE HIDDEN POWER OF SINCERITY IN GAME!



I'm really glad you watched this, because it is SO CRITICAL to creating create results in my students on Bootcamp.

And obviously consider BECOMING a student of mine on Bootcamp as well, because while I'm teaching these I'm really putting my ALL into them, and the results I'm able to get for you will be really great.

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GO DEEPER WITH THIS CLASSIC VID

I shot this video a year ago, it never became super popular but I think it will make a lot more sense after the video you just watched.

It's about the importance of "Honest Signals" except I've taken the idea of "honesty" and gone DEEPER than the socially conditioned way that it's normally understood, to reflect honesty about the issues the girl REALLY cares about.

This is very worth watchin after what you just watched above, and has a funny infield of me calling girls dogs as I found so amusing to post a lot in my clips last year, so check it out lol! :)



Good stuff!!

You're now VERY up to speed on this concept, and ready to go make use of it TONIGHT!

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MY FAV POST I READ SINCE 2 DAY AGO, CHECK THIS OUT!

DV8 just posted a very thorough article on THREESOMES that really matches up with my opinions as well.

Rather than reading a bunch of bullshit online, why don't you DO YOURSELF A FAVOR and READ THIS POST so that YOU can actually enjoy having multiiple women all fucking eachother with you.

Sound good?  Read this post.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/490699/forum

Read and RESPOND to GOOD CONTENT RICH posts that can help your life!

Not bullshit little distraction posts, that are garbage and I only have moderators leave up since I don't want to be overly controlling.

Reward people and give them incentive to post good stuff by participation, even if it's just "sick post bro".

That's how you get a forum that kicks ass.

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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE..... PAST 2 DAYS :)

I liked this little video by Andrew Cohen, which talks about why narcissism fucks you up.

Now this is interesting because at RSD we are always like "Narcissm is the shit!!"

Well this is a case where you need to be an intelligent and critically thinking person, able to hold 2 conflicting ideas in your head at the same time.

When we talk about narcissism we are saying it AS A JOKE first and foremost, and referring to how women respond to assholish dudes who are more in love with themselves than the girl.

This works because you're so into yourself that you're the ONE GUY who is not INTO HER, and triggers her to CHASE YOU FOR VALIDATION.

(Never, ever underestimate how many hot women will fuck men for validation.  It is such a powerful force, you'd be well off to spend the next half decade contemplating it while you play the game.)

Conversely however, the self obsession that I'm talking about dropping in the Sincerity video, as well as Andrew Cohen here in this short clip, is the type of self obsession that HURTS you.

This type of self obsession doesn't make women chase your validation for sex, but rather makes YOU chase THEIR validation.  The cycle of self obsession isn't making you feel BETTER about yourself, but rather VERY NEEDY and fucking lame.

(Since it makes you so focused on yourself you wind up feeling all bad...)

Anyway check out this short lil clip related to today's themes.  I'd suggest replacing the word "narcissism" (as he's using it) with simply "self obsession" that blocks you from being in the moment and contributing value.



Alrighty!  Now fully versed on this, and ready to go!

I haven't read much of this dude's materials but he has a lot of books and vids (and apparently a lot of controversy around him, but whatevz...) and I'd like to check it out.

And like I said, don't fall into the TRAP of thinking that being a "nice guy" who is soooo caring about other people will get you laid.  You've probably already tried that, and found it didn't work.

Rather SINCERITY is about being a guy who SHIFTS HIS AWARENESS to an OUTFLOW OF GOOD EMOTIONS which in turn MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD and gets you LAID.

Use your brain on this, it's a paradoxical issue that if you can resolve between being a bad ass who is ALSO sincere, you will CRUSH when it comes to girls.

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THANKS!

So like I said the World Summit has been absolutely amazing, and I wish you were here!

But hopefully the past few vids have been a good way to make you feel better about not making it, and I'll see you here in a year!

Make it a goal to make it, cause a week in Vegas rolling with RSD is an experience you will never forget.

HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ABOUT TODAY'S SINCERITY VIDEO!  I WANT TO KNOW YOUR EXPEREINCES AND STICKING POINTS WITH THIS!  I APPRECIATE HEARING BACK!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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#1

breakbot

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Russell Brand is a good example of sincerity!
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AlexV

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 2 posts in a week, i'm getting dizzy
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#3
Ryan

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 Really dug the forest background; one of my favourites.  I find you some times pan the camera too quickly in your scenery clips; can't really take in the beauty.

I'm happy you did an in-depth video on sincerity.  IME, sincerity has been the defining factor in almost all of my successful same-night lays.

I know EXACTLY what you mean about the eye twitching.  When I have an agenda my lips quiver uncontrollably.
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Kid_Ink

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 never too much tyler ;)
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SAMwalton2764

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It sounds to me like SINCERITY is about the same thing as having freedom from outcome which enables you to speak your mind. 

Let me know if i sound crazy haha.
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Crunch4Lunch

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 Double Tyler for the week, must be rsd Christmas...aka world summit. 
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taipan

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it is more interesting to me to go through an internal process of getting myself into a feel good mood and then passing that to her ;  rather than
focusing on her to feel good because I can.

The thing that makes you feel good about participating in charity is also what is fucked up about charity.
A lot of people passively give money to charity in order to "feel good" and thus they can go on with their life and not concentrate on the Real problems that are creating the "charity cases" to begin with.  Organized Charity in a way is like a sedative. But giving your charity to girls is different, that is Some player shit!
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Solstice

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 14:05  "Why are you taking instructions from him'!!?? HAHAHA
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Dr Destruction

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This one hit home hard.

Coming from a place of scarcity, I've always viewed (especially the hottest girls) as beasts to be conquered. It's almost like I feel animosity towards them because they've alluded me for the majority of my life, so it's like prey that you have to catch...

Very pathetic mindset, usually occurs when I'm sleep deprived or negative. Your video def helps me get outta this frame.
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CoolWingDude

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yep Good video, I love that, It's much more enjoyable to reinforce this Sincere Frame instead of being narcississtic even if you get laid sometimes. For me it's harder to be Sincere than Narcississtic, but it's much more worth it, after you completely enjoy the emotions during the interaction, this is Fckin good.
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Chulo

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Keep spamming those updates, Tyler. thumbs up
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stevenadrien

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 Again, thank you so much Tyler. YOu have no idea how far your work will go...simply noooooooo idea

RSD BluePrint Decoded will change the World. Believe it ;)
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pringles

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good vid tyler

this compliments it perfectly and has a bit more depth



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FridayNite

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Had sex with two women yesterday. when you feel abundant, sincerity tends to not be too big of an issue.

Girl 2 did not want to stay the night. i broke that lmr through sincerity. i legit enjoy cuddling a lot, so when i say i don't want to sleep with you, they can trust me.

from then on it's babystepping. make her horny, pull back. repeat.

truly the power of KNOWING sincerity works, gives you the advantage to not be pushy and eventually... she can't resist. she never can.
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FridayNite

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BTW I went skydiving a few weeks ago and we FELL through a cloud! Have you done it yet? You definitely should, if you haven't yet! :-)
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Ideastools

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 This one change my whole prospective of game and also you said some basic examples of human interaction which hits my brain direct 

Big thanks to you and love your family
-peace 
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allenkv

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GOTTA FOCUS ON HOW TO MAKE HER HAPPY, NOT BY KISSING HER ASS BUT BY HAVING A GOOD TIME
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Cool fog.
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gogl~

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hey tyler,

thanks for that sick vid.

it's been my main lesson in miami in you BC, so you helped me let it think in on a deeper level, so thanks ;)

have fun in vegas
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Jatbas

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Im my humble opinion, SINCERITY is the summary of what you guys "teach" were at RSD. After watching almost everything, I was very please with this video, because it's just a perfect "ending" and a good match to all my thoughts. Thanks for this.

Everything you guys teach is a sum of being sincere with the girl by letting her know from the start your intentions, while keeping a loose and "normal" behaviour and just knowing what to expect from her (references) and deal with her "actions"... plus a few ninja moves haha.

If we see the big picture like this, it becomes pretty simple... but the path is hard... but fucking funny :D

Greetings from Portugal :)
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Tru_Natural

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 HAHAHA 2 weeks ago I approached some girls at the beach and my eyes were twitching the exact way you described. Was not good lol.
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MakeItHappen

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i got the message of the importance of sincerity.

nevertheless: in the infield-snippets i only see highly-agressive dancefloor game. what is the point you are trying to make with these clips?
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Flaming0.O

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Very good vid. Thanks Tyler!

This could be indeed one of my sticking points.. gotta test it.

Sincerity test!
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Mr. Matthews

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Yeah, I think this is one of my sticky points too. But I have to figure out how to not end up coming off as needy but still not seeming like I treating her like a charity event. Any ideas?
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UtopiaFive

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Hey, actually really good video.  Realizing that I never visited any of that shit you were seeing in SF, made me realize I should get up and check out some parks and hiking out here in Seattle instead of reading and laying around all day :D

Also...good content in the video besides the woods haha.  Basically the same shit Alex told me back in November at his Hotseat, which was super potent *the girls are here to have a good time, go and show them a good time*
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#26

AMS

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Excellent use honest emotions is always good.
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ViggoStokholm

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Owen Cook radiates. He has fully entered my psyche.
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el8ivate

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 This should have probably been the first  video to have come out of rsdnation.
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Paraskaltsas

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I don't like the video about honest signals 
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Paraskaltsas

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 CRAAAAzzyyyy videooo!
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jumbomonkey

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Wow, very impressed. Looks like I'll watch it again and again to internalize this one!

Your a lifeline of sanity in an insane world Mr Cook ;-)
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