For many guys, a monogamous relationship is the right thing, and for many it isn't - however, most guys will never conciously know which one is true for them...

No wonder some of your students are too dumb to handle your girls - I guess that comes with the topic you teach. So the solution would be to leave the girl at home... 

Looking forward to the rest of the video. Your clips got also great entertainment value for me!

HOW CAN I BE INTENSE LIKE U??? IS IT ALL GENETICS OR IS IT MIND?

Great video! i completely agree.

Get fucked in the ass and your good to go.

Hell ya. This video got me so siked. Totally enaged for the whole hour. I cant begin to describe how nice it feels to know that it is okay to be who I am. Ever since i hit puberty everyone(friends familly)were telling me that my feelings were not okay to have. As being non monogomous was always natural for me. Feels great after everyone was telling me to do something not natural to know its ight to be a player haha

I didn't watch this yet, but I already no its going to be fire.. Thanks!!

Looove itt. This is how one changes the world.........................

This is a very interesting topic, thank you for bringing this up Tyler. 

Question, though (I am not arguing, I am genuinely interested to hear the opinion from someone with your expertise on this):

Let's say you are the high-T dude, and you have a high sex drive. But what if your wife's sex drive is on par with yours? Does being that 5% high-T dude mean that you will, regardless of that fact, still want to have sex with OTHER women? 

lol

this was funny as well inspirational and educational at the same time... would love to see move videos on relationships....

For me a thought of a good relationship disappears, when my girlfriend does something i dont like... especially if she repeats it again after i told her that....

i have been married once and all the best experience came with that woman was before the marriage....

i want a good relationship but i thiink its all about finding the right girl... and now i am single again, i am greatful for it and for RSD helping me to be the man who can do just that....

No more false promesses  in order to keep fucking a girl you like. 

This was not a very good video. I think it was pretty bad, actually. You did not make me angry, or anything (which you should have, you did not spike any emotion at all, to be honoust. Something I am not used to watching a video of you). You where all over the place. That's normal with you, but normally you get to a certain point where I am like: Ahh, that's where he was going with this. I didn't have that as strongly as normally, which made it kind of disapointing. At times, you didn't finish your story or your thought process. It's an hour long so you have to check it yourself again to see what I mean. I also thought it was a bit weak to say you are just fucking around several times at the end. It almost felt like you where defending yourself for having an opinion on relationships. Also something I am not very used to with you. 

Still, you made some good points about setting your standard at the beginning of the relationship. I think that was the overall message, but because of all the sidetracks, it was hard to stay focussed on that message. 

good candidate for a marriage partner is someone who makes u stronger and not weaker.... neutral doesnt cut it either..... this can be figured out fast... 

Tyler I want to ask if you can develop your sex drive over the years. Right know I don't have fuckbodys and I am  having smiles  from irregular ONSs. I think it's becouse of my youth (I am 21, always using condom) but during sex I sometimes finish very fast, sometimes not at all. Sometimes its ok. Is there any hope that someday I will be a sex addict  like you?

Your new voice is hilarious lol. This video was captivating like a book I couldn't up down. I had to force myself to just go to sleep

Great stuff as always.

Good to hear Tyler admit that marriage is ok...at least sometimes, for some people. The community rhetoric often seems to be, "Marriage is for chumps, if you don't become a player you will inevitably be cheated on and divorced, etc." The truth of course is that sometimes that stuff happens...and sometimes it doesn't.

There is tons of evidence suggesting that married people tend to be happier than non-married people. Of course, it's hard to say what is cause and what is effect. It could be that being an inherently happier person makes you more attractive, so you're more likely to get married earlier. Or marriage could make you happier than you would be if you were not married. Or it could be both, or something else entirely.

Whatever the case, it's obvious that monogamy works pretty well for a lot of people. There may be truth to the idea that what is usually called love is actually neediness, which they then backwards-rationalize. But even if that's the case, it doesn't mean that they can't end up being genuinely happy with the outcome.

On the other hand, it's not for everyone. And it might be right for someone at a certain point in their life and not at another point in their life.

It's funny how liberal feministy-types who are so adamant that it's wrong to judge people for being gay will judge the shit out of you, especially if you're a guy, for having a non-monogamous sexual orientation. Even if you make no secret about what you are, and you only have consensual sex with girls who want to have sex with you. Still, you're presumably doing evil manipulative things, because they can't wrap their heads around the idea of girls being down for that... Or, failing that, you're still "shallow" and "immature" because it's supposedly bad to be attracted to attractive women, and because you just haven't yet realized how "deep" and magical committed relationships are. And of course, being a "player" is assumed to be antithetical to ever having any kind real connection with a women.

So many false assumptions in the mainstream mindset...so many truths most people can't handle...

The useful and practical part here is about framing...about how what kind of guy you appear to be at the beginning of the relationship sets the tone for the relationship. This is what people don't get, and it's the problem newbs have when they start hooking up with girls, and then they automatically go into provider bf mode, even though they want to be player... And that's when they deceive and hurt girls. But of course, that is entirely unnecessary.

Two of the girls I was most recently with...I was sort of dating both of them at the same time for several weeks...not at exactly the same time, but there was overlap. They both told me basically, "Whatever, it's cool...you never did anything wrong. I knew you were seeing other girls, I heard you were a huge manwhore, and I decided to be with you anyway...you never lied about anything or tried to pretend it was anything other than what it was."

That's what people need to understand if they think PUAs are evil manipulators...and it's what guys who are learning need to understand both in order to have more success, and to not cause drama and hurt feelings when they don't need to.

lol. I've wondred the same thing.


I think most of the guys have said what I would say in reply to this already. But just to be clear...

Owen, this is MONEY! *PLEASE* make more content relating to game & relationships and possible ways of integrating or relating to having both in life. I'm sure you already sense that there's a HUGE market for this. In many ways, it may be THE question that most community (and non-community) guys want answered.

Also wanted to say, it seemed like a few weeks ago you guys were running out of content (maybe I'm wrong) and BAM you guys came out with a lot more new super cool shit. Winner. 

My favorite was the short infield clip. Girl brags about being 30 dating a 26yr old. Tyler says he is dating 33 & 18-22yr olds and the bitch freaks out. Talk about female logic!

By the way, if we look at the statistics, marriage actually benefits guys way more than it does women.
- Women, statistically speaking, still do most of housework. In Canada, women in double-income households spend 72% more time on childcare alone than men in those households (this is from Merav Michaeli at TED). 
- And women do 30 additional minutes a day of paid and unpaid work compared to men upon getting married. This adds up to 5 weeks of full-time work over the year.
- The earning potential of guys goes UP after they get married, that of women goes down. Perhaps because they are so busy doing the unpaid labour of housework? (Yes, this also maybe just because women get lazy, but the above statistics suggest otherwise)

Further,consider one of Tyler's main arguments against marriage is that the girl will take half your money and screw you over if you cheat on her. Actually, that's a very small percentage of all couples. Even the 50% divorce statistic is actually mostly coming from the lower socioeconomic status strata. Middle class folks (which is probably you) divorce rate is MUCH lower (not sure the exact number). 

Finally, according to research cited in this TED talk (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8u42OjH0ss)
- married people make more money
- are healthier physically and emotionally
- produce happier kids
- actually have MORE sex than signle friends
- MARRIED people LIVE LONGER
And yes, you can dispute the science on this (i.e., correlation vs. causation), but still..

So, in most cases, you are actually going to have a pretty sweet deal when you marry.

Marriage is a mutual cop out. Sack up and die alone. 

Good post

1- I confess I was always curious about tyler's deal with his girlfriend allowing him to fuck girls around, but I would never talk shit with his girlfriend if I met her in person. These morons people have shit instead of brains!

2- While watching this I could not stop thinking in some friends of mine who got girlfriends and got married because they 'cannot get anything better' than their actual girlfriends/wifes. I really feel this is not for me because I feel my potential in life is so huge, I wanna do so many things and fuck so many women that having a monogamous relationship would not allow.

3- This video was also very inspiring to me to be a better man, to get my shit together and become a pimp in my own way! Thankyou for that!

the is fucking genious but i have school in the morning fuck

Good shit in this video! So many valid points and expressed very well.

I would add that there is that other group think narrative that is fueled by advertising and the media that pushes onto men that its glamorous and validating to live the Player lifestyle. Shows like Entourage, books about Rock Stars and even the PUA community are large forces in our culture that tell men that the barometer for success in life is how good you are with women.  not to mention we get bombarded with images of hot women all the time.  A guy thats been married for a long time is often viewed as a pussy-whipped chump, in a lot of cases its true but traditionally a man that gets married is a positive thing because he has that part of his life taken care of.

So there's stigmas for both sides, you'll never please everyone and people will always have their opinions. I suppose there is no right answer to this area of life because there are sooooo many people on this earth now and shit just keeps getting more complicated. I think if just need to trust our biology and be sensitive to others needs, even if they fall into the Group Think frame.