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Happy New Year's 2014!!! :)

I've just spent the past few days in freezing CHICAGO and shot a brand new New Year's Eve special for you which you'll find in the vids below!

The Chicago Free Tour is at 7PM today (Thursday) at the Chicago Marriott Downtown Magnificient Mile, 540 North Michigan Avenue!

And I'll be running the Hot Seat there on the Saturday and Sunday as well!

(As a sidenote, if you live in Toronto Canada and want to attend a Hot Seat with me, this is the closest I'll be coming any time this year.  Get a few buddies to drive down and I'll find you people to crash with while you're here!)

Anyway this week has been mind numbingly cold but Chicago is a stunning city, and I've taken a few pictures for Instagram as well.

www.instagram.com/rsdtyler

(Follow me if you aren't already, I update it all the time!)

The programs I have coming up are going to be absolutely stellar, and as I always mention please please please get off your ass and attend one with me while I'm still frequently doing these.  The end will come sooner than you think, and while I'm getting a little old for this crazy grind, I'm still on the tail end of my prime in the game and much to teach.

Here's a list of my coming events...

January 2, 2014: Chicago (with Todd)
January 30, 2014: San Francisco
February 27, 2014: Miami (with Julien)
April 3, 2014: Las Vegas (with Julien)
April 17, 2014: Orlando
May 1, 2014: Denver
May 14, 2014: Dallas


www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

You can also reach my homeboys on the phone who will answer any questions you have about events and save you the time from even clicking these buttons.  They're young guys who go hard in the game and know their stuff, and will be happy to sort you out.

NORTH AMERICA: 1 888 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: 81345789305


I'm also psyched to announce the alumni-only 5 day "Miami Model Season" Bootcamp" that Julien, Jeff and myself will be running the weeks of February 18 to March 4.

Imagine a FULL FIVE DAY ROMP through the most exclusive scene in the world at that time of year, rampaging with the RSD crew?

You owe it to yourself to check out this site right now, while it's hot on your mind.  It's my favourite Bootcamp event of the year.

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

Lastly, there's also a killer special "Holiday Special" on DVDs that Papa just released today, which you can find at...

www.rsdholidayspecial.com

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TODAY'S VIDEO:

Okay so let's crack into today's New Year's Eve special.

This was pretty tricky to shoot, it was shockingly cold, getting a prime spot on the Chicago Navy Pier was difficult, and I timed the video to end JUST as the fireworks started exploding lol. :)

It's on the topic of HOW TO WARM UP.

I've read soooo many posts in the forum with absolute cry baby whingers who simply cannot figure out why they can't get laid, and consistently I'd size it up to...

1) Failing to ACTUALLY warm up.

And by that I mean ACTUALLY FUCKING WARM UP.  Since practically NOBODY does this properly, and 99% of people are complete wimps when it comes to warming up.

(Frankly I associate 50% of my results to the fact I'm so good with this one area...)

2) Failing to FUCKING CLOSE.

And by that I mean guys are just so fucking sad when it comes to closing, they often have more attraction from the girl than I'd personally need to sleep with her, but they give up way too easily.

(As you can guess, I associate the other 50% of my results to the fact I'm insanely gangster about this other area as well...)

But anyway today's video will be on the FIRST of these two critical areas.

The theme of this video is outlining how different personalities affect the way you should warm up, how different lifestyles affect it, and exercises you can use to spike yourself up.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE CHICAGO ON NEW YEAR'S EVE, AND DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF *PROPERLY* WARMING UP!!



So glad you watched this!!

Now go apply TONIGHT!!  Get on it!!

And happy New Year's 2014!!!

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GO DEEP ON THIS!


I also wanted to shoot into one of my fav classic vids on this.

Click this video to see girls cheating on their husbands and getting pulled for threesomes, AND to see my very critical "6 steps" for warming up!



Perfect.

Between the concepts in these two videos, you are absolutely ready to go!!

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RSDN FORUM POSTS OF THE WEEK


I saw 2 great posts this week.

First is by Boilerbroom on the delusion of meeting the perfect girl (great read!!)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/488099

Second is by TheRebellion on keys to basically social competence, also an excellent quick read!

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/316269?#comment-1174761

Thanks to you guys and everyone else for posting in the forum.

Remember that the secret to a great forum is RESPONDING TO THREADS THAT HAVE VALUE....

And COMPLETELY IGNORING the people who waste their time with bullshit.

Remember that if someone has no value for their own time, you shouldn't either, and simply ignore what they have to say.  This motivates them to improve and it's better all round. :)

**Reward great posts if you want a great forum, by engaging with them!

Thanks!

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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK


I was just looking through a bunch of Simple Pickup's latest videos, and I'm pretty psyched with what they've been up to this year.

These dudes walk a super fine line between making themselves accessible to a huge audience and staying true to the game.

This is really crazy because they have over a million subscribers on www.youtube.com/simplepickup (you should subscribe as well!)

And yet they deal with the ever present harrassment of the mainstream, who shit on them for even offering to donate a ton of cash for breast cancer awareness lol.

(They also had a huge petition against them to stop street harrassment lol WTF!!!)

So basically as a result of their success in building a big audience, they've been limited to keeping their content palatable to such a huge set of eye balls, while at the same time finding OTHER WAYS to make their material edgy and fun.

It's pretty smart how they've gone about doing it.

Anyway I've had tons of fans come from Simple Pickup, so I wanted to send whatever (small by comparison) set of eye balls over to their work that I could, and I recommend you check out their other vids.

Here's a link to THEIR New Year's special, and be sure to check out their other vids.



Have fun, and again, happy New Year's 2014!!

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THANKS!!


So I'm out of here.

Super psyched for Chicago Free Tour tomorrow!!!

PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH YOUR THOUGHTS ON WARMING UP!!!  WHAT DID YOU LEARN, AND WHAT WILL YOU DO STARTING TODAY??!!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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#1
power_level_over9000

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First!

I found the nip/tuck vid you mentioned last week.




I am taking on a darker approach to pickup. Something more Christian Troy-like. Annihilate pedestal and female entitlement. Julian drama on droids. Depict insecurities and give the fairytale. Pretty much going the extra mile with giving "the fairytale" saying whatever she wants to get her worked up enough to let her darkest inhibitions loose.
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power_level_over9000

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Chicago is awesome for cold approach pickup.

I pulled a chick who had a studio apparent right next to the W hotel which is a stone throw away from Navy Pier. I also had great success at bulls, bears, and Blackhawk games. I am noticing that pickup is a numbers game and location is key. Navy Pier is ridiculous for pickup. Harlem station stop is terrible and a great spot to get robbed.

Happy 2014 man.
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Matrim

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Liked that you did take up the root system problem, seems like that has been my curent problem right now. Working with exeptance with being at a low state.

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Fox19

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Just what I needed at this MOMENT.... THANKS!!!

IN TYLER WE TRUST
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BadMonkey

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Amazing video! Happy New Year, Tyler!
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FrameWave

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Hey Tyler,
Good Video, I especially like the "rock bottom" excercise, I do it all the time.
haha, but seriously you've read my mind, I just wanted to post something about that topic, then I saw your vid, so I'm gonna post it here/ask what you think as it's not yet clear in my head.
Two things I got in mind, the first one is process orientation, the second is a "moment of belief"
I think there is a trap with excercise like the gun to the head or ozzies fear tech.
You can get stuck in a cycle of negative motivation. resistance. If you focus all the time on what you "need" to do to improve you are still operating from a place of LACK. Best example is procastination, you focus on all the stuff you "NEED to get done" and all this pressure you bestow upon yourself creates so much cognitiv dissonance, so you don't do anything at all.
Way more effective to learn from a place of fun. Of course you can outframe these excercises so they actually are fun, and it always comes down to Presence and Process orientation.
I do think I'm still not at the bottom of this however.
The second thing is a Phenomenon I experience which I will call "moment of belief"
So it would happen to me for example, that there is this hot-ass girl in the club, straight behind the dj set on top of a table so everyone could see her, and I didn't even think of approaching.
But then I played the "tell me which girl to open game" with my friend and he pointed her out,
and this somehow outframed all fear because suddenly I had a "higher!?" Purpose to the action. Or whatever, sometimes I just have some stupid Line in my mind and it's like that Line now somehow gives me the "right" to do anything that I normally wouldn't have done....
Maybe i'm just weird^^, but what do you think about that?

 
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LethalLex

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Happy New Years errybody!

With awesome free info like this, everyone should be killing it in 2014
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ViggoStokholm

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Loved the Vid. Gonna Go Sodini!!
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roki363

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I love how Tyler gives every point of view, compared to the most instructors who give only their take  on the topic
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#10

ShanghaiTime

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It's funny, when I wasn't going out, all these videos were random and I just watched them to pump my state.

Since my BC and a dedication to going out every night, every video or piece of information I read has 100 times more relavence than before! This is exactly what I needed to see right now.

I loved how chill you were being you, while being socially savvy and not getting weird when other people were coming into your video shot or distracting you.  It got everyone 'on your team' so to speak.

Happy New Year!
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#11

Leviathan

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This is, in my opinion, the best video you've shot! The topic is great, the delivery is awesome and the locations are absolutely amazing! The misty night backdrop of Chicago(?) at around the 3.20 mark is absolutely stunning!

As always thank you and keep up the good work!

 
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maxaj

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I love that you expounded the types of warming up, in which we can try which what we think best fits us.
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Luckness

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WADDUP BROTHERS

I am taking a more enlightened approach to pickup. Something more holy noble action taking monk-like. Fully give my masculine gift with nothing held back. Insane presense and surrended to the moment. Non judgemental and fully open. Trying to feel "through" the girl to experience the eternal Oneness of the now and acting purely through my own intentions in an absolue flurry of positivity. Let her open and give her radiant feminine gift so that we may dissolve the physical barriers and soar into eternal Being.

HAPPY NEW YEARS
 
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Popinjay

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Yo!

I remember those new years resolution vids you used to do like in 2007 and 2008, you were like "I'm gonna finish the Blueprint this year, its gonna rock!" ...   Timeless

 
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July

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shits about to get real this year
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#16

ansh1337

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Tyler, you saved my life.. Thanks.. Happy New Year!!
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#17
Matt281

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Awesome vid.

Great seeing you guys in NY. 

Happy 2014!
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Waffler

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Tyler, I know you love the feeback, so just wanted to let ya know that the last ~two months of videos have been incredible (with the exception of two girls love sex videos within two weeks). This week's was really applicable and the exercise of proactively hitting rock bottom set off all kinds of lightbulbs in my head. Great stuff
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Gulisos

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Great Video,

What I like is the sentences at the top of video.
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#20

'Jonathan'

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Yio Tyler get a fucking Canada Goose jacket twice as warm and displays more status cuz its a fucking 800 $ coat. You will feel more like a boss with one of those get a red one or a blue one. 
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#21

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Good vid btw. Warming up is key
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Aaron

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When our foreign friend makes an appearance at the twelve-minute mark, I thought he was about to peform "Berserker" from the original Clerks: 


Great video Tyler; much appreciated! I had hoped to come out to Chicago for the Hot Seat this weekend, but I am stuck in NY due to the storm. I'll plan to be there in June! 

Aaron
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#23

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Hey Tyler I'm pretty good with daygame and going in state really fast on warmups even in daytime and recently I saw this study and i was thinking to go full daygame.
Can't post the link here cause I'm bad on comments but it's a study done by Uppsala universty google:''sleep deprivation uppsala study''

Just 15 lads there but hey..



I'm a guy who went out actually 123 days consecutive for several hr a night but that was kinda intens got awesome results though

I think Iwanna be a caveman when the sun was up he was up janking some girls that appeared in his way while in the night he was fucking and passing out.

Let's follow the natural rythms of life.

No wonder Evil Stiffler's 85% laycount comes from daygame he's a real natural he goes out the fucking door at 8 in the morning roaming through artschools and cafes and probably goes to bed early as a newly hatched chicken

The quality of the women in daytime in the city I live in is not that great but hey I'm gettin plenty

 
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#24

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Awesome post, everyone needs a warm up.

That guy in the background is from LAHWF?
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#25
VinnyMac07

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Sick, including the city shots. Damn.
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#26

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Very good vibe you have going tyler.  I watch your videos mainly to absorb the vibe.  The content doesn't fuss me too much.  I know all that stuff anyway.

As an experiment, I'd like to see you do a video where you just tell a funny story.  I think the effect would be the same for me.  Just a straight transmission of energy, no pick up content.
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#27
Dr Destruction

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LOL at all them chodes looking at you in the background, I'm going to take some of that Gun 2 The Head and Rock Bottom from the RSD Weapons Department...

Rock Bottom! Rock Bottom!
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#28

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TYLER...SO MANY PEOPLE AROUND YOU IN ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS ARE ALWAYS FASCINATED BY WHAT YOUR DOING. YOUR CLOTHING SHOULD ALWAYS BE BRANDED SO THEY CAN GO AND LOOK UP RSDNATION.
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#29

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Right in front of the cops!!! = MAD PROPS!!!!!
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#30

SebastianValmont

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You're the man.

I think it's awesome that you recommend videos of other dudes especially other pick up dudes. Simple Pick Up guys are fucking hilarious and that video had me cracking up. 

Seb
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#31
originalrudeboy

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There needs to be an in depth video tutorial on how Tyler gets some of these sick opens to work . The ones where he basically immediately hugs or kisses the girls, quick escalation, etc.
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#32
Bruce

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Tyler -- one of your best OUTERGAME videos in a while...love that you talke about different Exercises because with game its hard to tell what you're working on, whats improving, what needs more work etc so having some kind of structure almost like a homework assignement or goal when out really helps to know what you're working on or what part of your game might be rusty.  

one thing that concerns me, and i think youve addressed this is that when you take on more alpha behaviors as a result of getting validation from hitting up lots of sets and girls is that you're confident based on the dirty high not your actual core confidence and self acceptance so my brain thinks that my value is in having those in state behaviours so when im out of state i feel like my value isn't there and i'm not enough /not enough value to talk to the girls like im sucking value...so the congruence exercise will help with that hopefully.  

its interesting but i went through months or even years when i learned about hitting up sets hard girl after girl and trying to go for the pull instantly to the point where i wasnt gettngi good results but i was till pulling here and there just because i was hitting it up so hard that i got hooked on the easyness/brainlessness/adrenaline rush/validation of it all as a semi newbie that i let it destroy my progess for a long time so i really caution anyone who learns about it to keep a level head because you will get really good results really fast but if you stay with it for too long it will hurt you because your game will become very one dimensional and mechanical to where you think doing things like that is like a routine and is your only value and way of relating to others. 

if you could make a post listing all of the exercises youve ever created and different ways to work on your game or structure things almost like a syllubus that would be helpful because for a lot of us logical guys its nice to have some sort of structured long term game plan like that since game can appear so esoteric and non measurable sometimes. Happy new year and thanks again. 

 
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#33

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originalrudeboy Wrote:
There needs to be an in depth video tutorial on how Tyler gets some of these sick opens to work . The ones where he basically immediately hugs or kisses the girls, quick escalation, etc.


I think they call it Bootcamp or Hot Seat.
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#34

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very cool video, spreading the festive joy! 
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#35
domguru

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Great vid Tyler! Definitely looking forward to your bootcamp in Denver.
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#36
will212

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Nice Vid tyler.... don't get too identified with the whole "I'm getting a little old for this crazy grind, I'm still on the tail end of my prime in the game" thing. though

Many people, probably including himself, thought Kelly Slater was at his prime in his thirties when he was the best surfer in the world. Now he's 42 and still by far and away the best surfer in the world and the best surfer of all time.

Kelly says: "it's hard to go throughout life and not just get stuck in pattens
when your minds not expanding and staying open is when you really
age physically"

Kelly destroyed any previous notions that competitive surfers should retire in their thirties

As long as you are staying open to new possibilities and improvements there's still a long way to go until your prime

4.00 - 4.20
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Me9fZ3wvsJA

(I shouldn't have written this though because I havent been out in over a month)

Peace out
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bartoon

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We are gonna kill it!
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#38

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Do a day in the life video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Nikola the Strong

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Great content, Oven. taking notes here. :-)  It;s also very nice that you've sumed up everything at the end, thanks. Have a happy new year and keep going strong.
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Can someone make a video on the importance of writing field reports? Im not sure if there is one.
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