Hey there so today marks the official launch of the Hot Seat 2 VIP Interest List page!!

The new page is *really* cool so take 5 seconds and click this link to check it out right now.

www.rsdhotseat.com

January 25th @ 12PM EST is the red hot official launch so be sure to get signed up.

Here is the first of five Hot Seat 2 previews that will be released Mon/Weds/Fri and then Mon/Weds between now and the big launch.

It features infield footage of what your "typical decent night out" looks like in the game.

Your typical night has you making out with a few girls on the way to the club to get warmed up, doing a few street sets and grabbing a few numbers, setting up options for later in the night, hitting it up inside the venue, and then meeting a girl you like and pulling her home.

I actually shot this over 2 nights while I was scrambling to get the promotional material together. The first night I jumped out at 2AM and shot the "Welcome to Hot Seat 2" page and then wound up meeting that lil girlie you see at the end of the compilation the same way I did in that other bearded romp video from last week.  The other segments I shot on my walk to a Bootcamp in San Diego the next day.

CLICK THIS LINK RIGHT NOW TO SEE THE UTTER HILARITY AND DEBAUCHERY OF A TYPICAL NIGHT OUT IN THE GAME. FOLLOWED BY THE START OF THE HOT SEAT 2 SEMINAR AND ENDING WITH AN EXAMPLE OF HOW TO OPEN MIXED SETS ON THE STREET.


Fun stuff huh?

btw I have other videos at Hot Seat where I show just ONE night out (and where I did a lot better...) but I liked that I had the same beard and clothing as I did in the seminar portion to make it congruent so I thought I'd just cut it up like this.  The element of the BEARDED mini romp makes it so funny to me just defying the typical assumptions that you have to look a certain way to do well with girls.

(Then again I guess the typical "pasty ginger on a romp" also defies the typical stereotype huh?  But IMO the beard makes it especially ridiculous -- even funnier is that when you see the proper long versions it makes you think "It must be the beard!!  Maybe I need to grow one too!!"  Funny how social conditioning works that way and we'll do anything to avoid internalizing the TRUE TRIGGERS that create attraction between guys and girls.)

Anyway this is a TINY PREVIEW of the Hot Seat 2, but there's still a few mini lessons you can see here.

1) Girls on the street are horny and will makeout with random guys (well duhhh, but if you're new you didn't know that).  Just say "You'll never see me again" or "No one will find out!" and they'll often do things you wouldn't believe.

2) Girls are as desperate to have sex as guys are and will make themselves available to you if they can tell YOU'RE THE TYPE OF GUY WHO WON'T DILLY DALLY AND ACTUALLY FUCK THEM and not waste their time (that's why that girl wanted to meet me later in the night -- honestly I did basically nothing).

3) Yes even the dime peices (third girl was really hot) may be into you if you have a ridiculous beard.

4) You don't always need to "befriend" the fat friends.  You can simply SCARE THEM AWAY.  Love how the girl tries twice and then just gives up.  If there's nothing else you learned in the whole video I hope it's that one thing cause for some weird reason it took me like a decade to figure it out.

5) Girls are obsessed with cock.  Their brothers may not be to thrilled about this.  Remain calm and bounce if he appears to be about to kill you.

6) Meeting girls on the street late at night and pulling them home is fun.  Be cool and indifferent to their silly objections about how you're a bad man.  Maintain a "this happens all the time..." type attitude.  Yes it's totally normal.  It's ALL good.

Well I guess these aren't exactly the deepest lessons. :)  But to be honest I remember back when I was new to all this and I would have taken a LOT even from just that lil clip.

How much the Hot Seat 2 itself would have cut my learning curve back then?  Insane.

I don't want to pull the "When I was a boy I used to walk to school in twenty feet of snow..." rap on you, but honestly back when I was new to this if I'd had access to an event like this it would've cut my learning curve by a few years easy.

It's also just fucken FUN.

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Anyway I'll be teaching the USA dates and Julien -- my wingman and co-instructor of nearly every Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp I've taught the past 2 years -- will be running the non USA events.

Julien has the best results in the game I've personally seen with my own eyes, and is trained from me bashing him over the head for 2 years to run events at the same high intensity and oversaturation of value that I do.

The bonus for signing up during the "launch" period is going to be a FULL FREE SECOND DAY of Hot Seat that will feature infield footage from Julien as well as the "Foundations: Reloaded" seminar.

The reason I chose to be obnoxiously generous with the bonus this time (2X the value...) for people who sign up during the launch is that Julien said he wanted to show his footage and keep working on his teaching, and I wanted to work on the new Foundations seminar.

The Hot Seat 1 has only been a ONE day event for the past two years so this is a RARE situation where we're re-inventing it into a TWO DAY EVENT to reward people who sign up during the launch, just because both Julien and I are in a mode where we want to WORK MORE in order to improve our teaching skills.  I strongly recommend you take advantage of this and sign up.

Hot Seat 2 is frighteningly inexpensive and contains decades worth of insights into success with women, social dynamics, and self actualization.  The new event has all new footage and all new themes that you've never seen.  It will absolutely make your head spin by how much you learn and how much it changes your day to day life.

www.rsdhotseat.com

Here are the dates that are currently being planned out...

United States
January 21, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
February 4, 2012: Chicago, IL, USA
February 11, 2012: New York, NY, USA
February 26, 2012: Miami, FL, USA
March 17, 2012: San Francisco, CA, USA
March 31, 2012: Phoenix, AZ, USA
April 14, 2012: Las Vegas, NV, USA
April 28, 2012: Washington DC
May 5, 2012: Boston, MA, USA
May 19, 2012: Austin, TX, USA
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA

Europe
March 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
April 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
April 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark
September 22, 2012: Paris, France
September 29, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 6, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 20, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
December 8, 2012: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 9, 2012: Melbourne, Australia

Canada
July 7, 2012: Montreal, Canada
July 14, 2012: Toronto, Canada
July 21, 2012: Vancouver, Canada

Asia & South America & Middle East
March 15, 2012: Hong Kong
March 22, 2012: Singapore, Singapore
March 29, 2012: Tokyo, Japan
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
November 10, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

GET ON THIS!!

Sign up for the VIP Interest List page and be sure to sign up for that free second day on the January 25 12PM EST red hot official launch.

www.rsdhotseat.com

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Anyway on the topic of infield footage, there was a really popular short article I wrote a while back on the topic of how to best learn from watching guys who are highly experienced “in the field”.

I think you're going to like it, check this out...

SOCIAL INTUITION EXPLAINED -- HOW TO LEARN FROM WATCHING GUYS WHO ARE GOOD WITH GIRLS

Okaaaaay SO.

The big realization I’ve had from teaching several thousand students "live in the field" is that you can look at someone and immediately size up…:

1) What types of emotions they’re feeling

2) What types of thoughts they’re thinking

3) How their self image is made up in their heads

…and

4) How much energy they’re projecting outwards to the people they’re talking to.

Now this probably sounds crazy, and honestly if I’d read that ten years ago I would have thought the same thing.

However it’s not about being psychic or some nonsense like that – actually many hypnotists and psychologists have the ability to see the same things, simply from the reference experiences of working with so many people and getting into their heads.

(I live in this weird world where every weekend I’m getting to know three different people on a really deep level, so I get to be familiar with the psychological makeup of people who exhibit similar characteristics.)

What’s interesting about human beings is that while we’re all unique and special snowflakes, we also tend to share more SIMILARITIES than differences.

The way you tell the four characteristics is the following…:

1) If you’re “fully present” without being lost in your own thoughts and judgments and interpretations, you can generally get a feel what another person is feeling by YOUR OWN emotions.

Basically if they’re feeling happy, you’ll feel happy, and if they’re feeling sad, you’ll feel sad. This isn’t about cultivating some crazy empathetic ability as much as it is getting out of your own head and allowing your natural emotional intuition to do the job it’s designed for.

Obviously this leads to the question “Shouldn’t you be happy regardless of whether or not another person is happy?” And as a bootcamp instructor that is probably one of your most important jobs (a great instructor has to be able to “hold the frame” if a student becomes distraught in order to pull him out of it – and this requires a lot of emotional muscle NOT to rely on other people at all).

The answer is basically that you can choose to either allow another person’s emotions IN, or you can choose to just draw your own state from within yourself. It’s a choice you make in the moment at all times -- like "YEAH this is fun to synergistically feed off of each other's emotions, or NOPE none of this bullshit, I'm having my own fun.".

2) Now as far as what people are thinking, I think this comes from reference experiences. Generally as you move through life, you can become a student of human psychology. If you talk to people and dig deep into their real purposes and opinions on things, you can derive all sorts of patterns.

Eben Pagan (aka David DeAngelo) has told me that he’s a big fan of the Myer’s Briggs personality test. I haven’t studied it myself, but generally I’ve found that people’s thought loops are fairly predictable. If they’re feeling a certain emotion, they’re probably thinking a predictable CORRESPONDING type of thought.

As humans we love to think we’re so deep and unique, but generally our thoughts go like this: whatever emotional state we access the most, we’re ADDICTED to those emotional chemicals. That being the case, let's say for example we’re addicted to a negative type of emotional state, we’ll tend to be thinking thoughts along the lines of 1) something that was frustrating, 2) how someone screwed us over, 3) how someone or something isn’t “all that” and really sucks, and 4) how some event we anticipate in the future will be total crap

(And if we're more addicted to positive and funny emotions, we'll be thinking the opposite -- 1) how things are amusing and cool, 2) hilarious nonsense we've had with people we hang out with, 3) how there's this cool stuff we're into, and 4) how there's some awesome shit we're hoping to do in the future if things go well.)

Just as important is what someone’s primary motivator is. So if someone’s motivation is approval seeking, they’ll be thinking about ways to get approval. If someone’s motivation is laughing and having fun, they’ll be thinking about nonsense that cracks them up. Etc etc.

3) Alright now as far as people’s self image is concerned, generally the two factors I look for are 1) if it’s empowering or disempowering, BUT ALSO, 2) if it’s STRUCTURE in terms of what it’s “attached” to in order to sustain itself is rigid and dense or fairly fluid and adaptable.

This is interesting because while on one level you want a self image that’s empowering, you also don’t want it attached to too many external sources, because then you’re constantly clasping to maintain them (and this creates neediness, frustration, anxiety, etc.)

You can generally see how much “space” there is in someone’s mind for their natural “presence” to come through, as opposed to how much of the space is taken up by mental noise and blocking their natural awesomeness.

Likewise you can see someone’s self image by the beliefs they have in themselves, what they think they can accomplish, etc. One thing I think is REALLY intense is that people generally have beliefs about themselves and the world that are based in what their unconscious mind believes they have the mental/physical/emotional resources to be capable of. This is a really, really deep topic and would warrant an entire article -- like I've had some pretty scary realizations about this that I need to get out at some point.

4) Lastly, as far as the energy that people are projecting outwardly towards other people, I’m generally looking for 1) how “self contained” or “unreactive” they are in terms of being happy in their own reality without “socially pinging” other people to rely on “group think”, and 2) the way they project their energy outwards and draw attention on themselves.

Interestingly I find that many people focus ONLY on the first one, and not on the second, as they feel that it’s approval seeking and not "being themselves".

In my experience the people who put out the best energy have a LETHAL COMBINATION of being unreactive and irreverent, as well as having cultivated all sorts of funny / interesting / attention-grabbing elements in their personality and way of seeing the world that gets compels people to take notice.

(Real life “pimps” generally possess a cartoon like exaggerated version of this with a lot of “turns of phrase” and crazy clothing – and certain girls gravitate towards it like moths to a flame.)

Essentially it’s about living your own life without seeking approval, BUT ALSO about cultivating your own cool way of seeing the world (and carrying yourself in the world) that keeps you amused.

Anyway from these basic factors, you can generally get a good idea of what to look for when you’re watching another person in the field. Ask yourself...:

“Are they feeling the emotional state of a guy who attracts women?”

“Are they thinking the types of thoughts that women see as being empowering and confident?”

“Are they simultaneously high self esteem but self forgetting and not seeking validation for a self image that needs continual reinforcement from outside sources?”

“Are they unreactive and just doing their own thing, while also having a cool worldview and things about themselves that stand out and project their energy out towards other people?”

**From there it's basically just seeing if they have a good understanding of how to strike up a conversation with a people they've never met and move it forward through all the obstacles between "open and close".

Anyway thought I’d share that short lesson—I have a LOT more to say on the topic, but I thought it would be a fitting introduction given the release of the upcoming Hot Seat 2 event.

Be sure to check out the video if you haven’t yet -- and hit up the Hot Seat VIP page to be kept in the loop on what’s up between now and the JANUARY 25 @ 12PM EST official launch.

Have fun!!  Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon!!

Tyler

PS:

I've been cutting together the 5 previews like a madman and you're going to LOVE them.  They're all absolutely awesome and will teach you things that will blow your mind.

This is gonna be a big week on the RSDN frontpage.  Hope you're psyched.

PPS:

If you haven't, absolutely immediately hit up: www.rsdhotseat.com