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Hey there so it’s a nice 9AM here in Los Angeles – I’ve just got home from 3 weeks in Miami and a weekend in Las Vegas. I’ve been up all night as the day was busy preparing Julien to leave Los Angeles PERMANENTELY for his big Hot Seat 2 world tour!

San Francisco Free Tour, Hot Seat 2, and Bootcamp are this Thursday to Saturday!  Psyched to get over there and see the crew, run some killer programs, and rip carnage through the city.

Do you live in Northern California? GET YOUR ASS OUT TO THE SAN FRANCISCO EVENTS!

There’s space on all of them as I haven’t been promoting programs all month, so if you want to do an event with me and you’re in NorCal this would be the ideal weekend to get on board.

My next few events are in…

San Francisco: March 15 - 17
Phoenix: March 29 - 31
Las Vegas: April 12 - 14
Washington DC: April 26 - 28
Boston: May 3 - 5

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I’ll see you there!

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Alright so you probably noticed the frontpage being a lil bare this past week or two, and it’s because our guy who typically takes care of it has been dealing with a family tragedy. I was concurrently travelling so that made it difficult to get on top of someone else to do it.

Regardless I should’ve found a way to get it done.

The last few months (since last December) have been somewhat of a blur. The Hot Seat 2 launch ran around 16 – 20 hour days through January, then I was hitting up the East Coast tour and non stop Miami 5 day a week programs since then.

I’ve got 2 days off in Los Angeles to spend with my children, and then I’ll be off to San Francisco this weekend. After that?? TEN DAYS OFF!!

I’m not really sure what I’ll do with myself during that time. Most likely it just means I’ll work 8 hour days, which is really the same thing as a day off. Maybe I’ll shoot into Malibu to do a few hikes and check out a few Lakers games. I’ve also been thinking of checking out that new Blu Ray of the show “Game of Thrones” as I’ve been hearing nothing but good things about it.

The main purpose of time off is ultimately to get your brain working properly again, and get your body tuned up. I don’t like how I’ve had that low level adrenaline and cortisol flow in my bloodstream the past few months so I need to make sure I take advantage of the time off and get back into equilibrium.

In the meantime I’ve got a new video for you today.

If you like the Free Tour video series you’ve probably been in a bit of withdrawal after the big blitz the past months, and suddenly the drought has been in effect.

Well today’s Free Tour vid is pretty fucken sweet, as I experimented with lacing it up with infield footage bursts.

I’m not sure if this will be another case like that street game pull video, where the tiny burst format just pisses people off and gets them all angry and demanding for full Hot Seat videos posted online (uhhh, yeah sorry). But I wanted to experiment with it to see how you liked it, because I was thinking of making the upcoming newbie website like this where I just burst – burst – burst throughout the seminar so that people get that vibe of how fucken crazy this shit is.

(It's also a very field report focused video, which is unusual for me, so I thought it would be cool to have these lil bursts sort of alluding to the fun of the field...)

The video is on the topic of DAY GAME and begins with me teasing students who always ask me about the differences between picking up girls in the night versus the day.

Funny enough, after I shot the video I realized that some of my buddies in the PUA industry actually teach daygame programs.  I don’t really follow what other pickup companies do as I’m too in my own little bubble, and I was referring more to guys that were popular in like 2003 and would rip on nightgame because the girls they met in the day were supposedly “classier”.

(So if you’re one of my buddies in the industry who teaches daygame, no I haven’t had some weird grudge the entire time, I just forgot!)

Regardless it’s pretty fucken funny as I’m sort of venting, and then the video goes into the few different focuses that I DO find exist in daygame versus nightgame, as well as the various ways to deal with peer groups of hot girls, and all sorts of silly field reports.

CLICK THE VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN DAYGAME AND NIGHTGAME!


Fun stuff huh? Hope you enjoyed this one.

Something I also didn’t mention in this video about daygame – I’ve always felt that daygame is a place to USE the skills you’ve built, whereas nightgame is the place to BUILD them.

In other words, I personally find it weird to just WANDER AROUND looking for women with no other reason to be out, with like 5 or 10 minutes of walking in between each conversation, and then approaching.

But if I’m out going about my day and I'm not overly tired, hell yeah I hit up girls ALL THE TIME.

I like it because if I’m just going through my day, enjoying being outside or having a bite to eat, etc, I feel like I’m acting in my own intentions and having my own fun. So it’s very natural to start chatting and move things forward.

But as a grown adult to be walking around randomly hoping to meet a girl, with nothing else going on, I get pretty sketched out.  Like in Los Angeles even the better daytime venues like Santa Monica or The Grove or the Beverly Center (or hell, even the various Farmer’s Market’s…) aren’t going to have the abundance of super hot women where you can go there for no other reason than to chat.  Yes there’s a few and I’ll meet them when I see them, but it’s not the BANG BANG BANG type of vibe that I like to TRAIN with.

When I’m going out to bang the guns, I want to be able to roll out of one conversation and into another, so I can just mess around and get into rhythm and play around with different shit.

So for me, daygame is a place to USE the skills I’ve built, whereas nightgame is the place to BUILD them.

**OTOH you have cities like NYC and London.

Those are different altogether. In cities like NYC you can go to a Whole Foods and it’s superior to a nightclub. I’ve seen days in Manhatten where you can hit up more stunners on the street than 1Oak or any of the top clubs.

London has some pretty good spots as well. And then Vegas has the daytime pool parties, so there’s always a few exceptions to the rule.

Again: go out to hit up lots of girls at night, meet girls using the skills you learned during the day.

Wash, rinse, repeat, until you get married and bang out kids. Then stop unless your wifey is cool with it. :)

Ultimately pickup is about BEING that guy who women are attracted to. So it applies DAY OR NIGHT. There’s a few opening and closing things that can be different I suppose (although notice that streetgame open at night in the video is identical to how you do streetgame IN THE DAY…) but overall it’s about BEING that guy.

As I said in the video, if you’re having trouble with momentum or feeling like a different guy in the night versus the day, work on your baseline sense of being a happy person. It’s not a magic pill but it works.

Lastly, remember that the DEFAULT of all pickup is just being “friendly and cool”.

Call it FRIENDLY AND COOL METHOD if that makes you feel better. Frankly it’s how I do the majority of my pickups. The crazy stunting is more to show you what’s possible, but most women are going to be attracted to you with this straightforward approach.

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Anyway I’ve been off in Miami for the past month, and did I learn a lot?  HELL YES.

And did I do things I've never done??  OH YELL YES.  Vegas was absolute carnage.  Amazing.  Miami prepared me for a major breakthrough, and in Vegas I did things I've never done in my life.

In fact I learned so much it’s hard for me to express right now as I want to go to sleep, so I’m going to save it for a future post.

Definitely breaking new ground, doing things I’ve never seen done, and enjoying the fruits of the effort.

Game has been blowing up, and feeling closer to realizing the vision I had in this shit back in the day. My love for the game has deepened every year of my life, and this year is no different. It’s everything to me. Still love it to death.

Hope your month has been good as well!  Let me know your thoughts on daygame, and I’ll check back later to see what’s up. I’ll also promise to get back on the COMMENTS this time, as I’ve been unable to in the past few articles despite that I read them and appreciate them!

SO LET ME KNOW WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND!

I’ll see you soon. Great things to come, I promise. Wait til you see this shit. Have fun!

Tyler

PS:


Again if you haven't yet got your spot for my Free Tour, Hot Seat 2, and Bootcamp events....

San Francisco: March 15 - 17
Phoenix: March 29 - 31
Las Vegas: April 12 - 14
Washington DC: April 26 - 28
Boston: May 3 - 5

...do it now!!

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
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#1

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Thanks!

I'm into a convo in any almost situation within seconds, so zero interest in online game.  Jeff has done well with it though -- possibly as a manifestation of his interest in trolling the internet. :)  I'd ask him to post an article if he hasn't already.
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Tyler, I never hear you talk about online game. Why's that?
Great video btw!
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Awesome and hilarous stuff as usual. Can't wait to see the success videos though.
Owen, do you have any other words on solo game except "it's the same"? I just started it and I feel so weird.
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Damn, so close!

Gift
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Man it became really fun watching your videos ...

just make something to eat and watch some of Tyler :)

and yeah, keep the little infield videos, they are good, showing what's possible and the vibe while outside 
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Nice timing, Tyler. This thread just popped up yesterday.

Japan Crew tears up the streets in daygame. Personally I do think it`s different. Not terribly, but with some adjustments way easier. The beach or festivals are more like a club, but not bookstore or wherever where people are around and watching in close proximity.

In Japan there are hot girls in the big cities everywhere. You can`t walk 10 feet without seeing one, so momentum is no problem here.
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 20 hour work days, wtf thats 4 hours of sleep + irregular sleeping patterns = like shit quality 

Dude your a fucking animal.
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 Fucking Hilarious Man! Really love your vibe in this video!
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 Talking about IDENTITY LEVEL CHANGE.

You seem extremely solid in the video. When you shift from chode to cool guy, shit like how to open, what to do if she looks you ugly , where to fuck her or what to do if she doesn´t like your haircut (XD) respond themselves.

new frame + reference experiences = new beliefs > new identity

thanks for the video
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startale wrote:
Awesome and hilarous stuff as usual. Can't wait to see the success videos though.
Owen, do you have any other words on solo game except "it's the same"? I just started it and I feel so weird.
i can say something: just keep moving. when you´re not really comfortable being by yourself, just get in front of the next girl/group. don´t give yourself room to start thinking too much or self-doubt. make those time-spaces from one set to the other shorter. move, move, move!

cheers
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70% of my results have been from daygame, I honestly believe Ive learnt the most doing daygame, and applied it to the night, opposite of you. I think I did this because nightclubs intimidated me, and I was under 19 when i got into this shit. Daygame is a matter of state, yourspot on with that. Living your life is key, and putting in the experience gets you ready when you see that cutie in starbucks. 

Awesome video Tyler.

Peace.
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my wing approaches girls in daytime with a super creepy look ..like full creepy.. highfive, no words, ..maybe says 10 -15 words and then 2 minutes later starts making out..he holds their hands and doesn't let them walk away untill they really get creeped out..then he grabs their asses and tries to pull...doesn't always work but failry consistent.

tried the water thing for fun. Poured it on a fat chick in a limo cuz i was bored . Never said sorry and kept bumping into her 4 diff occassions. Eventually her female friend punched me in the face and I apologized.lol. This was in my early days though.
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Awesome video Tyler!

Quick question, how about those situations where you are at a coffee shop, a class in college or walking around campus, or gym? Don't you calibrate to the environment in these situations by opening differently by maybe indirectly make an observation comment about them.... or its all in my fucking head and open the same way and say I love your style, I wanted to come and say hi because its very unique.
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awesome rad stuff owen, thanks so much.
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 I think bookstores are the best daygame place. And whole foods lol. Daygame is cool because at least I can mix it up every once in a while instead of night game with no breaks. And it sometimes helps to do daygame and have that momentum carry over into the nightgame later on. I think it's easier to be less logical/out of my head in nightgame,  I am more logical in daygame. 
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 Where is the San Fran free-tour taking place this year? 
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what is your state while working at home or wherever?
- you say you love it etc..

what is your state when you are driving or doing daily tasks
- satisfied? sitting there with a grin? wtf?

does your state set point apply to these areas?
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Hey, I watched your hot seat previews right before going out and it completely changed my night. I watched them with a friend of mine who is already fair with girls but never knew anything about pickup at all before seeing those vids.

Those vids really changed him and hes become completely and impressively unreactive. I learned a big lesson that half the shit a girl does or says you can completely ignore and move on to the next suject, that changes everything!

Anyway im convinced that I need to come to your free tour and hot seat in DC and he wants to check out the free tour. I cant wait to sign up for both around the beggining of april.
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I find it helpful just to KEEP APPROACHING.

There's more of an inclination to get stuck in your head cause there's nobody to joke with between blowouts or whatever.  Just stay in motion and you're good. 
startale wrote:
Awesome and hilarous stuff as usual. Can't wait to see the success videos though.
Owen, do you have any other words on solo game except "it's the same"? I just started it and I feel so weird.
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Sweet yeah I think it could be mad cool for the newbie site.
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Man it became really fun watching your videos ...

just make something to eat and watch some of Tyler :)

and yeah, keep the little infield videos, they are good, showing what's possible and the vibe while outside 
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Nice yeah I've seen pictures of Tokyo with girls running around in various bizarre Sailor Moon outfits.  That's basically how I imagine it.
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Nice timing, Tyler. This thread just popped up yesterday.

Japan Crew tears up the streets in daygame. Personally I do think it`s different. Not terribly, but with some adjustments way easier. The beach or festivals are more like a club, but not bookstore or wherever where people are around and watching in close proximity.

In Japan there are hot girls in the big cities everywhere. You can`t walk 10 feet without seeing one, so momentum is no problem here.

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My ideal is a 12 hour workday with 8 hours sleep.  I always want to be as well rested as possible.

Sometimes events transpire where unexpected deadlines come up, like Papa deciding he wanted Julien on for the non USA events in this case.  When that happens I'm down to LIVE in a task oriented mode until the job is done.

I'm cool with it for now because I'm still young and my immune system can handle the tax I'm putting on it.  In the future I'll wake up at 40 or 45 and no longer have the ability, so will have to be a lot more careful in how I do things.

I like that I proved to myself what's possible over the past few years, but on the downside I also found that it's like a credit card where when you first get it  you only use it when you need it, and later it becomes "the norm".  So I've had to back off and realize that it isn't normal and not go that route any more than needed.

The company is in fantastic shape right now so I want to just keep working consistently and keep it doing well.  We'll see what happens, you never know these days.
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 20 hour work days, wtf thats 4 hours of sleep + irregular sleeping patterns = like shit quality 

Dude your a fucking animal.
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Ahahahahah I'll use that one tomorrow, thanks.
Bruce wrote:
my wing approaches girls in daytime with a super creepy look ..like full creepy.. highfive, no words, ..maybe says 10 -15 words and then 2 minutes later starts making out..he holds their hands and doesn't let them walk away untill they really get creeped out..then he grabs their asses and tries to pull...doesn't always work but failry consistent.

tried the water thing for fun. Poured it on a fat chick in a limo cuz i was bored . Never said sorry and kept bumping into her 4 diff occassions. Eventually her female friend punched me in the face and I apologized.lol. This was in my early days though.
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Just do whatever... seriously.

At the end of the day you can't make every girl like you.  Just go chat and see what happens.  From there do the regular shit that works -- be yourself, self amused, lead, escalate when the window opens, screen for logistics, close, etc.
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Awesome video Tyler!

Quick question, how about those situations where you are at a coffee shop, a class in college or walking around campus, or gym? Don't you calibrate to the environment in these situations by opening differently by maybe indirectly make an observation comment about them.... or its all in my fucking head and open the same way and say I love your style, I wanted to come and say hi because its very unique.
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Le Meridian hotel this Thursday.  Should be BOMB.
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 Where is the San Fran free-tour taking place this year? 
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Yeah exactly.

As for me personally, I'm like anyone else.  If I'm overworked I'm accepting of it but probably not thrilled.  Still I'm appreciative that I have something productive to do in a world where many people don't, so it's okay.

If I'm in a good zone then I'm generally happy.  Just depends.  Nothing out of the ordinary here.  I've read up on a lot of books on happiness and how food and exercise helps and all that.  Meditation is good.  Recommended to anyone who wants to improve.
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what is your state while working at home or wherever?
- you say you love it etc..

what is your state when you are driving or doing daily tasks
- satisfied? sitting there with a grin? wtf?

does your state set point apply to these areas?
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Hey that's fantastic man, thanks!  I love doing programs in DC and this will be my third in three years.  I'll tell Stu to hit you up regarding the events.
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Hey, I watched your hot seat previews right before going out and it completely changed my night. I watched them with a friend of mine who is already fair with girls but never knew anything about pickup at all before seeing those vids.

Those vids really changed him and hes become completely and impressively unreactive. I learned a big lesson that half the shit a girl does or says you can completely ignore and move on to the next suject, that changes everything!

Anyway im convinced that I need to come to your free tour and hot seat in DC and he wants to check out the free tour. I cant wait to sign up for both around the beggining of april.
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Hey Tyler, you said you read up on a lot of books on eating and happiness. You should post them.
I miss the book club talk you had going on in your old blogspot. What have you been reading
Lately?
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shit was fuckin sweet

but tyler you gota put out that free tour vid from when you were last here in NYC

that had to have been the best shit i have ever heard you speak like ever and ive seen like almost everything you put out lol 



PLEASE PUT IT UP!  
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Tyler cool stuff and solid content as always !

A quick thing on daygame: I think that having cool buddies that has an optimistic and fun mentality helps a lot in the day game because you can do stupid shit and games during the 5-10 minutes between sets, that way you can maintein the state when you open the girls

A quick opinion, man try to not be so rude with the "newbie jokes". I am a newbie(been "all in" in the game for 3 months) and I laugh a lot and have so much fun with the jokes, but in some videos I get a feeling like "damn a have to work a LOT to be a cool motherfucker" because a focus on many of the jokes of a newbie been an idiot, try to change the speech on the newbie thing to "Yes we can" like Obama, fuck yeah !! haha. I know I'm here to learn not to give advice, but it's just a humble opinion :)
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tyler follows the "be congruent to whatever you feel at the moment" and "get momentum" principles. this is why his POV is that daygame and nightgame is the same.

people who ask that question actually want to know if you can be the same loud physical mr not giving a fuck guy. the answer is.. yes you can. but what for really?

daygame is beautiful because minimum effort is more than enough. simple casual shit works. there's so little i have to do to make good impression and make a girl focused on me (if she's interested in meeting someone at the time of course).

i've learned the entire game in daytime and my style is chill talkative & flirty, maybe that's why that's my POV
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Hey Tyler fucking hilarious bro you had me in stitches at one stage 

Was missing your videos
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i'd be completly fucked if you would ever stop making videos. seriously!
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I really appreciate day-game topic here. Sometimes guys meet a perfect girl daytime and it's hard to take action, because there's no party, no momentum, so they simply not ready to do the usual thing. It's still hard for me sometimes to make a move, just like you said in vid - it's about not giving myself permission. But with this vid I identified the problem, and I'm not worried, cause I will get more reference experiences in future to move myself to comfort zone with daytime pick-up.
Really enjoy the part about dealing with friends. It's hilarious and very important. Last week I lost a girl, cause I let her friend take her away (two-set). Shit. We had nice connection, real chemistry and lot of fun. Who the fuck cares if the sad bitch can't find her own fun. What you said is completely insane but real. The old befriending to friends concept sometimes can't work. Some people gonna hate you whatever you do.  And your girl stay quiet and simply look what's gonna happened, can you win her over her friends, who's frame gonna win. Thanks a lot, man.
Small pieces of infield footage are good idea. Let them stay.
I'm also looking forward to see work ethic vids you've promised to share.
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sweet.. went out and bumped into you last night, i mentioned about reading the 1st half of this article and bumped into you again and you were doing the silent opener right in front of me.  priceless !! hahaha thanks for that, the girl wouldn't go for the make out, but she was lovin it..

also saw you chase down the girl across the street that was funny
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I don't know, I don't see a big deal about walking around randomly looking for girls to approach, yep, it is WEIRD in a sense, probably even weirder than approaching in the night, but for most people even night club approaching is weird.
It's all good, it has many additional benefits too, gets you to exercise and soak in vitamin D at the same time as working on cold approaching, and I've never been to London or NYC but from what I've seen any bigger city in Europe is great for day game, especially in summer, with tourists and everything going on, you can find shitloads of targets to work with.
Like even in my province city, and it's still cold here, but there are already many hot girls swirling around in all kinds of sexy outfits, from April and on streets get crazy hot.

Or maybe I'm just not a grown up adult :D
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Oh, and yeah, other from that, all post and video is fucken A_W_E_S_O_M_E_ !
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Osom video :) Tyler, what you like more day or night game? :)
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 Hey man, 

Great vid!  I have a question though - At your current level, on average, how many sets does it usually take to build momentum?  The reason I ask  is I can see myself rationalizing in the field like "oh man, shes so hot but it's my first set of the night, I'll never get her, not enough momentum  etc"  So once you get a decent amount of reference experiences, what is the typical amount of sets before one sticks?
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 Actually momentum is easy during daygame. It´s just a limiting belief that during daygame it´s harder than in clubs.

You just will need to:
-Lower your bar for approaching (approaching even average girls, big sets)
-You have to be willing to do anything for that approach (that means running up to girls if they are far away)
-Find a good spot (I prefer streets of city center)

It´s doable.

ChinaBoy
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DIRECT day game is where it's at. Indirect feels so wussy and lame now.

A good anology for me is: night game = bloody infested shark water. Day game = crystal blue water to swim all day in bab-eh. AWWW SHIEEET!
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VGAlan

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Join Date: 12/23/2010 | Posts: 227

 Awesome stuff about daygame, we didn't do any daygame at BC because Brad's jacket got stolen in Dublin in December and I've always been looking up against it.This whole momentum stuff starts to really make more sense. Also funny that the way a see myself is as intermediate and when you talk about your game and show the vids on handeling the GF's I feel like a fucking pussy again. Loads to work on still, cheers!
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Anton Pieck

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Join Date: 10/10/2011 | Posts: 19

I think the mode one direct aproach is the best aproach during the day time !!  ;)

Daygame is fucking awesome !!! 

Peace out from Utrecht !! 
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#45
jlaix

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8082

 one thing that resonates with me about this video is how after years you just mature in the game and start to command more RESPECT from people. You also begin to understand that you have to give it to get it. Younger students I notice often will tolerate shocking levels of disrespect from people in the club, girls not even LOOKING at them as they speak to her etc. Although I must admit this new style of "FUCK OFF, SHE'S MINE" "GO SUCK A PENGUINS DICK" etc was fairly off-putting at first, now I just think it's hilarious and surprisingly effective when you get the hang of it, get the tone right, etc. 
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#46
szaka67

szaka67

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Join Date: 03/02/2009 | Posts: 82

Hey Tyler,
I like the video. One thing I disagree with though, is having your own business and working for so many hours.
I'm a business owner and I employ people to work for me. It was super hard the first 6 months but now  all I do is manage the business for 3-4 hours per day and pay money to my emploees at the end of the month. I have a lot fo time for travelling, cooking and doing the things I enjoy. Imagine you do not have to answer to anyone and you are creating income and lifestyle for yourself? i think it changes a man on a fundamental level.
I think you work so much because you have a pathological relationship to your job lol, i'm kidding, but you get my point.
Great vid, as always
Love
szaka
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#47
yearbook

yearbook

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Join Date: 01/13/2012 | Posts: 64

 
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#48
Doni

Doni

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Join Date: 01/26/2012 | Posts: 6

Really nice Jeffy mix  ;D RESPECT THE COCK!!!
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#49
Jamsey L

Jamsey L

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Join Date: 06/01/2011 | Posts: 15

Tyler I love your posts they are inspiring! They make so much more sense when your going out hitting up girls. Just one question I have.

In your videos you talk about alignment in your thoughts words and actions and being congruent to your current emotion. Ive also heard stuff about state ‘pumping’ and changing your physiology to get into state eg. Unstifling, shouting, ‘woo’ etc. Is this just another one of many paradoxes in game, or two entirely different ways to approach the situation?
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#50
Intel

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Join Date: 08/06/2008 | Posts: 45

 Tyler! Awesome article, you really hit home with thing about low level adrenaline... I think I've had that going on for years. 

Can you do an article or post a video about BEACH GAME please??? 

Thanks!
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