Hey!

Just woke up on this fine Wednesday morning.  Sort of groggy.  Been catching up on some sleep.

Phoenix this past weekend was............FUCKING AWESOME.

The snobby suburb in Phoenix is called "Scottsdale" and it is the absolute shit for what we do.  Was up in Mint and Scottsdale W which were both teaming with stunners, then cranking prime rib at the Scottsdale Saddle Ranch every day and did a bit of shopping during my time off.

I also recorded a video overlooking Scottsdale which you'll see below -- if you like the desert, the view is really good.  In the meantime I also thought I'd mention that I have programs coming up with Alexander~ and Julien that are coming up in April and May.

This is a pretty rare opportunity for USA people to learn from both Alex and myself at the same event, as Alex hasn't done programs in the USA in several years and won't be doing them again here any time soon.  And obviously having Julien on board for Boston and Austin will also be the shit.

The upcoming dates are the following, and I've listed my co-instructors beside them as well...

April 12, 2012: Las Vegas (with Alexander~)
April 26, 2012: Washington DC (with Alexander~)
May 3, 2012: Boston (with Julien)
May 17, 2012: Austin (with Julien)
May 31, 2012: Atlanta (with Alexander~)

Whether you're interested in the Free Tour, Hot Seat, or Bootcamp, you can click on the following links...

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

You can probably guess that this will be my last big tour for a while, so if you want to do these events with me personally and take advantage of having Alexander and Julien on board as well, NOW IS THE TIME!

These are programs are YOU.  They're built to get YOU to YOUR GOALS.  Think about what you're trying to accomplish, and what vision you have for yourself, and if you think we can help them get on the damned train.

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Alright so I'm actually about to run out the door to catch the Lakers game, so we'll make this quick.

I've seen a lot of confusion over the issue of how to approach "learning to pickup girls" from the angle of...

1- Should you just approach, approach, approach?

2- How do you replicate this during the day?  Or "build momentum" during the day?

3- Is it better to go out with friends and meet girls in a more natural way?  Is just gunning the approaches somewhat "forced"?

Etc etc...

These are all good questions.  Here's the answer!

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE ME 2 DAYS AGO UP IN PHOENIX, REVEALING THE TRUTH ABOUT THE GAME FROM THE MOUNTAINTOP :)


Okay so as you can see I haven't offered a "simple answer" to this one, but rather just tried to explain the ins and outs.

Basically I think that success in the game comes down to that clarity of intent -- where your thoughts, words, and actions are aligned...

As as well the accumulation of positive emotions in your body -- where as the day or night progresses, you're just having more and more fun that transfers onto the girls.

You may remember Tim's "Flawless Natural" program where he calls this "Intent + Woo" which is a great way of explaining it.

(Tim has a great new blog on the topic of "Freedom Businesses" btw over at www.freedombusinessblog.com -- check it out!  He'll be at World Summit 2012 this year in Vegas as well!)

So in my case I spent the past 2 years really hammering on that clarity of intent aspect.

For me this was important because as I shed my final remnants of the more indirect approach style, it was difficult to wrap my head around the idea of approaching dead-on and creating attraction through intent as opposed to playing hard to get.

(Both are awesome approaches btw, but I prefer attracting via intent because I don't have the whole issue of LMR once the girl gets validated when I escalate.  Also I just found it that it grounded me in a more masculine energy -- since I'm kinda dainty as it is -- as opposed to playing hard to get like a chick.  Again though both can be really good, it's just personal preference based on my goals.)

Anyway it took a few years of going out constantly to get to a point where it expended nearly zero "willpower" to do even the scariest of approaches.  I'm to the point where it's probably easier to approach than not to, at least most of the time.

From there though I've tried to turn my attention more towards the "accumulation of positive emotions" in my body when I go out.

I feel that this is equally important, and I haven't given it as much attention in the past.

Realistically I was just building positive emotions by approaching a lot, which as I got better and better I found that it gave me positive emotions anyway.  And obviously when you're chatting with girls you get positive emotions from it, and also as they rub up against you or you get a few easy makeouts and whatnot.

But more recently I've tried to make it equally important to create processes of building positive emotions, because I've found that if I can just approach and be fully "self amused" that the girls will feel that I don't need them and become immediately attracted and chase me like crazy.

You can probably guess that I've known ALL of this for a while -- like probably 5 years easily -- but the game is really learned in cycles where you learn and RE-learn lessons over and over....AT DEEPER LEVELS.

So even though I've known that self amusement is important for a long time, I've spent the past few years just hammering and hammering on my "momentum building" processes, and gotten them down to the point that I'm basically the envy of the community in terms of that one particular aspect of my game.

Like I get phone calls from the crew and my natural buddies all the time asking me about it, just cause I have this one area down really fucking well.  I especialy get a lot of question about it from buddies quitting alcohol for pickup, as well entrepreneurs and busy professionals who get stuck in their heads -- but I just get tons of questions about it in general.

(As a sidenote, here's the 2 videos I recommend for guys who want to learn this from me, if you haven't seen them...)


...and


From there though I look at guys like Alexander~ who have the self amusement aspect down so well, and you see it integrated into their personalities in terms of how they live their day to day life -- it's really amazing.

Like look at the way this guy goes through life, it's fucken crazy, I'm very psyched to be teaching with him for the next few events.....


So if you look at me personally, my strength is obviously in "execution".  I'm good at getting shit done, knowing what's the right course of action and walking it, etc.

But my sticking point is I've often done so at the EXPENSE of positive emotions, since I'm strong headed and will just do whatever it takes.

Now that I've reached a point where I've nearly maxed that out however, my instinct to "do the right thing" tells me it's time to focus more on building those processes of accumulating positive emotions.

Not to say I'm not doing it really well already.  It's been like a 500% improvement over the past 2 years.

But the execution of intent aspect has been like a fucken 10,000% improvement, so I desperately need to catch this up. :)

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As a sidenote, I also wanted to mention that I've only come at the issue of "willpower" from ONE angle in this video and article.

But actually aside from just building up the willpower muscles in your brain in general, the other angle is impoving your SELF CONCEPT and INNER GAME.

Because obviously if you feel really good about yourself, and that the girl is benefitting from her meeting you, it requires a lot less "willpower burn" to make yourself do an approach.

So you realistically can come at this challenge from multiple angles, and I've just covered one of them here. It's a different topic than is mentioned here, but thought I'd reference it as well just so any newbies reading this realize there's many angles of attack to make improvements at this.

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Anyway that's a lil bit about what I've been up to, and obviously you would have YOUR OWN areas that you need to improve in.

If you're a newbie, then it's ALL of them! :)

And if you've been in this a while, then like me, you'll probably keep coming back to the same principles in cycles over and over, getting closer and closer to the CORE of what will make you the best you can be.

Wish I had time to write a lil more here, but I'm shooting out of so I'll see you soon.  Obviously with anything you get here, IMPLEMENT IMMEDIATELY!

Thanks for reading, and let me know what you think!  Have fun!

Tyler