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Happy Monday morning! :)

Julien was gonna hit up a new article today but he just wrapped his big series of events in London (his first time in the biggest Euro city for RSD) so I figured I'd wake up early and crack something up for you to give the guy a break.

(He'll be back with new content within the week...)

That being the case, I've got another video from the Miami Free Tour you saw last week, which is a brand new topic.  We'll get to that in a sec, but in case you didn't know, my upcoming program dates are the following...:

April 26, 2012: Washington DC (with Alexander)
May 3, 2012: Boston (with Julien)
May 17, 2012: Austin (with Julien)
May 31, 2012: Atlanta (with Alexander)
June 14, 2012: Seattle (with Alexander)


www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

(You can also hit up the team any time at 1-888-546-7286)


The Washington DC Free Tour is THIS THURSDAY so if you're in the area, GET ON IT!

My Bootcamp in DC is full but there's space on the Hot Seat, which I highly recommend, and there's also one remaining spot on the Boston Bootcamp as well.

Julien will also be teaching with me in Austin so if you're in Texas I couldn't recommend that program highly enough, and urge you to get on it!

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So last week's video was pretty intense I guess. :)

Thanks so much for all the feedback on that, and it confirms once again that it was a good idea to put it out.

You really can't imagine what's coming in the next 10 years on those topics, which I know is going to be insane.  I'm a pretty creative fellow and the content I have in my mind is (and that I've applied successfully) is the best I've personally seen.

With the momentum I've built as far as work ethic and execution goes, things should get pretty interesting. :)

As I mentioned in the first "Truth About Success" video I've always viewed RSD as "preparation for the big show" -- basically this amazing opportunity I have to cultivate my abilities in my youth so that I can hit the ground running when the time comes.

(The added street cred of building a business and lifestyle doesn't exactly hurt either...)

I also think people will be surprised how I spin what would typically be perceived as negatives into positives (or at least attention grabbers), as far as my involvement in PUA goes.  It'll take time and won't happen over night.  But I have a strong eye for coming trends and know exactly what to do.

The core lessons that I learn while both building my game and running RSD are what will comprise the content.  This is why I push myself, so that I can enjoy both successes and mistakes, and then build a base of knowledge for what it takes to step up and live life on the edge.

So have fun and watch the show!

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In the meantime I believe in putting all your eggs in one basket and guarding it really fucking closely, so we'll get back to the core topic of Real Social Dynamics which is how to pick up hot girls and have sex with them.

And one distinction I've found to be EXTREMELY valuable in this fine pursuit has been the difference between holding a girls' attention with entertainment VS your core presence as a man.

This is huge huge huge.  Fucking huge.  A massive difference between the lonely newbie and the oversexed seasoned veteran, so make sure you take it on board!

I'll crack into the video right now and then discuss...

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE THE SECRET OF HOLDING WOMEN WITH THE ENERGY YOU PUT IN HER FACE AS OPPOSED TO DELIBERATELY HOLDING HER ATTENTION...


Interesting stuff huh? :)

Let me also add a past video that may not have seen yet, that covered a similar topic and will help hammer all this home.  It's from about a year ago and on the topic of "Attracting women by doing LESS..."

Also very important stuff!


Okay so as you saw in the first video, I also tried to mention a few key distinctions here...

1) Just because you don't need to attract with entertainment, DO NOT GET HUNG UP ON THIS!

In other words, you bet your ass that if I sense I need to entertain a girl I'm interested in to grab her attention away from the distracting environment, I'M GOING TO FUCKING DO IT!

There is no harm in entertaining the girl, and it's stupid not to be ENGAGING out of some ego that you're above putting in any effort.

It's just that you can ALSO oftentimes attract women by doing very little, and when this is a possibility, GO FOR IT! :)

The point is to understand how it works, why it's a self fulfilling prophecy, and the core energy that you have as a man that attracts girls.

2) There is no method that always works.

You can be fully settled into your core as a man, and still many girls will blow you off.  You will always have girls reject or ignore you at times, the point is to habituate yourself to a zone that's really good.

What newbies have a hard time getting is that EVERYONE gets blown out, so a rejection is no indication that you did anything wrong.

On the other hand it might be. :)

So you learn the fundamentals of success with women, and from there you can judge where you're going right or wrong.

3) It's hard to attract women by doing less if you're new to it, and it often becomes "gimmicky" instead of real.

That being the case just try it when you feel it.  No need to force the issue.  Whatever.

Expect that as a newbie most of what you do sucks.  Expect that you're going to be a try-hard lamo and get rejected by girls.  It still happens to me ALL THE TIME.

(And yes, it also happens to every pickup teacher who ACTUALLY goes out and doesn't just write about stuff from "back in the day" or with a biased memory of his results.)

The point is if you presevere, you also pull super gorgeous women, sleep with them, date them, and get them into relationships.  And then YOU change as you're doing it.  So it's worth all the tears and whatnot. :)

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Here's some music I'm listening to as I write this...


Anyway I've been out 7 nights a week for a looooong time lately, and it's crazy how much I've been gaining from it.

There's so many lessons I have on deck as far as this goes, and really I'm just enjoying doing this WHILE I STILL CAN.

The lifestyle is pretty insane and justifying the endless travel and bizarre lifestyle it to my family isn't easy.  But I've commited to continue going out and gaining insights for the next little while so enjoy them while they're still rolling out.

My understanding has gotten to be pretty advanced and my goal within the coming year is to release both a lot of free newbie content as well as a proper ebook and video series on the fundamentals, as well as one last advanced program on pickup and hopefully record some more of myself infield.

I think more than anything, the commitment to becoming awesome at pickup has just forced me to step it up in so many areas.  Particularly how much it's forced me to be consistent in meditation and gym and overall time management have probably been my favorite of all.

(The meditation is so key.  It's one of those things you keep hearing about forever and ignore it cause it seems to weird, but when you finally do it it's like "HOLY FUCK HOW WAS I NOT DOING THIS MY ENTIRE LIFE??  WHAT A WASTE!!"  Especially after the first month as you become a full on gangster with women and your results fucking explode.)

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I'd say that the key has been a commitment to the game above all else.  Making it my biggest love and passion.  It's become everything to me.

No matter what fucked up challenges come my way, or what bullshit gets rubbed in my face, the game is always there for me.  As long as I have the game, everything will be okay.

As you grow and expand your ROOTS must grow deeper into the ground to hold you afloat.  The game is my roots.  As I expand and things get more hectic, it's the game (and meditation) that normalize my life and re-ground me in doing what I love.

The game for me is an active meditation essentially.  Yes I'm one of those high sex drive guys who loves jerking off and fucking girls as much as possible, and I like sexual variety as much as any guy, but what I get out of it is much deeper than that.

The endless dynamic scenarios that are rubbed in my face again and again, forcing me to get out of my head and respond.  I love how people on Bootcamps are wow'ed at my execution of the process, my balls to throw myself into crazy situations, and my lightening reflexes to everything that comes up.

It's the ultimate rush for me.  I just keep pushing and pushing the envelope.  I do it just to do it.  There's no point to any of it, I'm going to die anyway.  My social circle in LA is to the point I'd never have to cold approach to get laid again.  But I do it just to do it.  There's nothing else I could do than the game.  I feel that this is what I'm born to do and loving every step of the way.

Every night I go out, I feel like I'm honoring what I'm put on the planet to do.  The good and the bad, it's totally irrelevent to me.  I love every night.  I feel blessed to have a bad night.  I feel blessed to have ANY NIGHT AT ALL.

I know that the time I put into the game, the game pays me back ten fold.  You give your time to the game first, expect nothing, and be grateful that you're even BLESSED to be allowed to know about it and play it at all.  Keep pushing.  Trust the process.  Then it pays you back.

And OH MY FUCKING GOD does it pay you back!

The lifestyle?  Insane.  It's one of the few things in life that OVER DELIVERS.

But most people lack the mental toughness and tenacity to stick in it.  They're weak and give up and look for excuses that something like this could NEVER help their confidence or social skills or get them laid! :)

That's all good.  Not everyone in the world gets to wear the big boy pants.  Maybe the world even needs whiners and self pity to make it go round, who are we to judge? :)

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(More random music by the same guy...)


But yeah, I think I reached a point where "stimulation" no longer has much meaning to me.

I've had so much stimulation, which is basically what the modern economy sells you as entertainment and whatnot.

I know I'm dying.  For some reason my brain sees "cause and effect" really clearly, which is also why it's easy for me to work hard or take care of my body since I see the most likely long term results of most decisions as I make them in real time.

At 32 I've spent a lifetime of watching people so locked up in their petty concerns and emotional addictions.   IT'S LIKE LOOKING AT SOFT COTTAGE CHEESE.  And you poke the cheese and the cheese starts talking to you like "Stop poking meeee!!!"

I've watched myself get all butt hurt and spun out over my petty little life, I barely give a fuck about it anymore.  Repetitive.  Boring.  Too soft.

Like the same damned movie over and over again.  So and so is pissed he doesn't have a girl, or no money, or people don't respect him.  He wants this and that.  Blah blah.

Maybe "so and so" is ME.  Or maybe someone else is the star of the movie, playing the complaining cottage cheese.  We're all these little creatures, caught up in ourselves and petty wants and needs.

There's nothing wrong with that, and pursuing your selfish interests is typically what PRODUCES THE VALUE that empowers other people.  I would personally never ask anyone to do ANYTHING for me that I can't show them would benefit them personally either immediately or in the long term....EVER.

(And anyone who asks for a hand out is an idiot...If you want something, produce the value and get it.)

But living from the paradigm of petty concerns is just boring after a while.  It's like groundhog day.  There's something just base level and pathetic about it, that I have a hard time really putting into words.  When I think about it I feel nauseous, like a blurry fucked up trance I can't wake up from.

I have dreams about it constantly.  Weird dreams where I see people's petty concerns, my own concerns, like this endless wheel of bullshit.  And then the tethers of reality start breaking away, all the emotional anchours that make the experience seem so real to everyone dissolving, and I'm able to fully let go.

....and from that foundation, I can finally make decisions and take actions based on something real.

Every time I make the right decisions in my life, I feel like I'm waking up.  Shifting power away from autopilot conditioning and into "conscious will".  It's not always easy.  Sometimes it feels like nails against a chalkboard to force yourself to step up.  But it's the nature of growth and worth it a thousand fold.

What I ask for is the strength and moral willpower to do the right thing.  I wake up every day and view it as a battle against my lower nature to make the right choices.  I love the feeling of my conscious willpower expanding, my ability to be at the cause and not the effect continuing to grow.

If I had one wish it would be strength to do the right thing.  The game is what I'm here to do right now, because that builds the value that I offer to others.  It's what I'm doing NOW.  Whaever I'm doing later is what I'm doing later.  I focus on what's in front of me, and have faith that what I'm learning is laying the platform for whatever is to come.

Good or bad, I know I'm having the experiences that I'm meant to have.  So I love them all.

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Okay so with this article cranked out I can catch a few more hours of sleep, but hope you enjoyed it on this fine Monday morning!

For some reason I always feel like that Monday article is the most important for the front page of RSDN, to start the week off right.

I've got the Pheonix and Vegas Free Tour videos already recorded, and I think they have some pretty good stuff in them that you'll love.  They're on the topics of specializing yourself into your niche and the all pervasive force of validation in human interactions.  Stay tuned for that.

We're also getting more articles in from Julien, Brad, and Alex, so I may be expanding the frontpage to include 3 rows or 4 articles or something like that in order to make space.  Our main programmer who I worked with to create this site has just come to work after losing his mother to cancer (he's been through a lot), but on the positive side there should be some cool improvements in the next while.

Let me know what you thought of the video and article!  I read and appreciate all feedback on these!D

Have fun, thanks for reading, and I'll see you soon!

Tyler 
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1st
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i got the bronze. 

solid, brother. See u in 3 days!
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I´m grateful on a very deep level for your work.
Just letting you know :)
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5.... Getting closer, broke into top 5
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My man! 
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This makes it sound like Tyler is leaving in a year. Hopefully not!
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there is so much value in this, my head is about to explode right now!
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 Hey, my condolences to your programmer...and thanks for the insights in the article and video.
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Love this guy, every single fucking word that comes out of his mouth resonates with me in a deep way. Seriously considering flying over to LA in September and doing the freetour,bootcamp & hotseat, LA's somewhere I've wanted to visit for a long time and to do a bootcamp as well would be awesome.

American chicks love Irish guys.... right?? :)
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yeah, this is almost...too good for free content, kinda feels like illegal downloading :)

The article was amazing as per usual, i'm 18 man and i can't thank you and the RSD crowd enough for the positive influence you've had on me. What a fucking legend...
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13th - BOOM!
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 so greatful... 
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In case anyone is interested this video is very relevant to the question posed in this thread:

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/218857/forum

In a nutshell: you can't walk up to a set and expect to get results by offering no value (i.e., not engaging the set at SOME level -- even if that engagement is minimal and still from a self-entitled frame as opposed to the dancing monkey frame).  Walking up and being 100% "chill" can creep a lot of girls out if you don't engage them at all!
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 Sick Post Ty!
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 Tyler, 
You had me giggling like a little school girl this whole video. All those stories about how girls fuck you up and the game can be rough. Ive been there too. Its been on my mind recently. I guess thats just part of playing the game.
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Tyler, imagine the reverse. You have some chick chasing you, texting a lot and you just can feel that she's needing you and your response. Almost suffocating you.

What you mentioned happened to me. I was hitting it off with some chick (or so I thought) and then I get too needy and she's all FUCK OFF. 

A couple weeks later the reverse dynamic happens with me and another chick and SUDDENLY I realise what the fuck had happened with the previous one. I wasn't overly impressed with this new girl but I was enjoying sexing so it was alright. But then came the texts. And with each text the feeling "fuuuck this girl is contacting me all the time how do I get rid of her she's all up in my grill".

Now what would've worked FOR HER in order to win back me (this is interesting because this is what would also help me in the reverse case) would probably be if she chilled the fuck out and went on with her life I'd probably contact her when I was lusting for her nice ass again. 

Coming back to how I would apply this with girls I'm seemingly "hitting it off" with would be to DEFINITELY MEET OTHER GIRLS AT THE SAME TIME. As soon as I can feel the neediness seeping into the interaction from my part. 
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 Owen, I feel you man. Time is running out fast. Gotta execute more and see the bigger picture. Thank you man. You literally changed my life. 
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 "For some reason I always feel like that Monday article is the most important for the front page of RSDN, to start the week off right."

Great feeling
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synergist'12 wrote:
This makes it sound like Tyler is leaving in a year. Hopefully not!
Yeah - I don't like it when he talks like this!

; )
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Excellent videos as always - Julian was exceptional at the London Hotseat, he did good!

Learned a lot - I am still Mr. Cottage Cheese myself but now I have seen what pick-up is; there's nothing else to see.

Ozzie's presentation made me understand the bootcamp I did with him 2 years ago on a much more lucid level!

Thanks Tyler...

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PS - what has happened to Jeffy? Why is he not posting anymore? I miss his contribution.
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I've been leeching aroung RSD Nation for quite a bit time now, but I had to register just to let you know how much your passion for your work and life inspires me. Amazing article+video, as usual. Greetings from Brasil! :) 
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Honestly i wish i could teleport this video to myself last year. It took me months to figure out on my own why girls would love me for state pumping but once i did it a little too much turn cold. 

It would almost piss me off to see all this so easily explained when i had so much trouble with it then if it wasnt for all your  other recent videos that have just been hammering away at improving my life. Stopped watching TV lately after watching the last couple of videos you posted and either reading books you recommended or listening to your free content on my ipod. 20 something years of feeling like a loser.. i was sort of content cause then I at least i knew i didnt really have any options.. I didnt know what to do about it. You have given me the pain of knowing what to do... It feels horrible to wake up and watch tv for hours... eat shitty fast food... not go out cause im too lazy, not read a book cause it takes too much conentration.. and for that thanks. A lot of what i've been searching for my WHOLE life i find for free on this website thanks... 

oh yeah also really great to see brad and alexander post back to back. Feel like im getting a lot of perspective. 
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 OWEN HOLY SHIT THAT PHENOMENON HAS HAPPEN SOOOO MANY TIMES....CREEP ASS SHIT..that being said I dont think one can just stop their needieness like a lightswtich.  Only through your experiences of getting fucked over, can you stop that neediness.  I really do feel we are almost on autopiliot throughout our lives so i say just sit back and accept it (that doesnt mean not taking action).
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I enjoyed this article in a much more 'chill' way than the last one.  It must have been the state you were in when you wrote it and recorded the miami vid (tired much?).

I really like that you provide a consistent model for us to seek.  It is one thing to read a post of yours and feel inspired, but another thing to do it for two years every week, and a completely different thing to live it (as you mentioned).  So, the consistency is much appreciated.

My job as a response to your vid is to come up with specific ways to implement these ideas into my life.  Speed implementation always feels good (when you nail down some new skill in 30 days).  I gotta keep pressing forward with self amusement and trusting that I am offering value when I am in state and/or congruent.  That's for me.  I hope other guys take the time to think of the people they work with, the people they go to school with, and come up with ways they could have implemented a concept, and how they will next time.  With a little bit of visualization, your mind will pop into presence next time that situation comes up, and you will have the best opportunity to take that leap of faith into higher consciousness -> A BETTER FUCKING LIFE :D
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 I hope you don't mind me asking but how do you balance delay of gratification and living in the present? I believe a balance is crucial, but I'm curious to hear your insights on this. 


One thing I've noticed from reading your articles is that you are obssessed with hardwork and being perceived as hardworking. When I say "obssessed", imo it doesn't carry a negative connotation but rather an overal positive one. From reading a lot of biographies of top athletes it's pretty obvious that one characteristic that makes the best, the best, is delay of gratification. The general trend I have noticed is that top athletes are never happy and never satisfied and this is what makes them so good. They are constantly striving to reach new goals and new peaks. 


Imo you never seem satisified with your game, but at the same time you study happiness. So I'm interested to hear how you balance these too, and enjoy life while still moving forward. One thing I've always wandered is if one is internally validated and overal happy then why would one constantly work hard. It seems like hard work is an escape or a defense from a current state. The idea that things will "get there" in the future is a belief that prevents one from living in the present.  
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 Tyler you're a fucking legend. Keep pushing you inspire me more than any athlete ever could. Never say fucking die and plow plow plow mutherfucker!!
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 and wtf would I do if tyler stoped posting videos??? you said you got into this to make a diffrence/help, iv gone through some amazing changes the last few years and am working on a huge work ethic one right now.. cant believe what value you give away for free.
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 Hello Owen,

My feed-back is quite simple : I posted the same thing you noticed on the board of the Boston lair about Swingers and this strange phenomenon a week ago.

I feel the same about letting go mentally about the attachment to a relationship with a girl or even when I was in a conflict with my sister.

As soon as I do that, mentally let go, these people start to contact me again in the hour(s) following this. It's very strange and I have no explanation.

For me, it's an emotional thing, it happens inside my chest, it's like releasing a tension. It's like I'm saying to the universe : "It's alright, I know I'm just a dust in the wind, I'm letting go of this now". I know it sounds strange, however that's the process I did about 10 times in the last year when this strange thing happened.

Looking forward to the hotseat and the free tour in Boston.

Peace !

Amerok, swiss guy from Lausanne Lair
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hey man
the content from the miami free tour is just as, if not more, awesome than the vid's from the LA tour. you explain these critical topics so well, i bookmark'd a bunch of the vids and every time i rewatch pieces of them i learn something new.

i like it that much more because you are so exhausted but still pump almost egregious value into the shit which makes it soo bomb :)

any other videos of you teaching while sleep deprived / exhausted / in a coma / dead i want to see!

i admire all the hard work man, keep it up!
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 Another great vid cant wait for the hotseat and free tour down in dc this week, I am making the drive down from long island
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bahaha nice ending
DURRRR
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amazing video, amazing article
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There is a beautiful prayer from Paramahansa Yogananda which reminds me of what you wrote TD, "Heavenly Father, I will reason, I will will, I will act; but guide Thou my reason, my will and activity to the right thing that I should do." He came to the US in the early 1900's and established two awesome places in LA that i recommend u or anyone else that meditates check out. One is in pacific palisades called Lake Shrine and the other is the Church of All Religions in Hollywood. 

Another thing i want to recommend TD as I know you're really into reading about success is the book Wooden by John Wooden, the most successful college basketball coach in history. He writes all his life lessons and attitudes beautifully. the book has a really high vibration to it.

peace and love TD,
Jason
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dont say this
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Tyler - I wouldn't have a clue where to start with Meditation.

Any pointers for resources or books?
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Tyler! You and the RSD concepts are and have changed my life in such profound ways, I can't even imagine what the internalization process will bring in the future. While this may sound kind of fan-boyish, I have to thank you for your words and actions, they are a source of inspiration.  
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"....and from that foundation, I can finally make decisions and take actions based on something real.[/]

[=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, 'Bitstream Vera Sans', sans-serif]Every time I make the right decisions in my life, I feel like I'm waking up.  Shifting power away from autopilot conditioning and into "conscious will".  It's not always easy.  Sometimes it feels like nails against a chalkboard to force yourself to step up.  But it's the nature of growth and worth it a thousand fold.[/]

[=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, 'Bitstream Vera Sans', sans-serif]What I ask for is the strength and moral willpower to do the right thing.  I wake up every day and view it as a battle against my lower nature to make the right choices.  I love the feeling of my conscious willpower expanding, my ability to be at the cause and not the effect continuing to grow."


From being a wall flower to blossoming from my core essence, what a life :D. Finally, I feel like the creator and not the victim, I wake up every morning and see the world laying at my feet, waiting to be conquered. 

Thanks once again!

Greetings from the Netherlands

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Did anyone else notice the related video 'Twin Flames and Soul Mates Part 1'.. lol
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Blom10

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 and awesome article btw, didnt expect anything less :)
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my name is Fake Tyler and I approve of this article.

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#40

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 Owen i swear by the PUA community  that after 5 minutes i finished watching this video I received a text from my ex asking me how much we had RAW sex.. just for getting my attention. Because she can't be pregnant because she already had her period like 3 weeks ago. And i developed this feeling of disinterest towards her after this weekend ( because of the abundance that i got from going out last weekend ;) . 

Cheers mate,

PS: Whats your opinion on AFC Adam? He talks like he can get all the women in the universe, i dont really buy that crap, BUT he sure has one HOT girlfriend.
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 Great article!
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thats awesome.....ur and other instructors articles are very enthusiastic and radiates good vibe...
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Hi Tyler!


I just have to finish some work here and I always found reading your work-related texts for little breaks helpful and refreshing. I loved reading the posts on your old blog, the texts with nice pictures in it, for the same purpose :)


You make me realize over and over again that nearly anything can be accomplished when focusing on the right things.


Somehow staying focused is the hardest part and just reading your texts makes me want to get back to my stuff and get things done (as opposed to watching tv or surfing facebook which distract my thoughts and kill all inspiration)
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 Fucking mint. I love game.
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#45

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 OMG! Best video till now :D Btw, I also have exactly the same sleep problems the last few weeks because I improved a lot (for my own standards) and my dreams are literally a lot different then in the past and more like flashes after going out! I also believe that it's rewiring because of all those new experiences and new thoughts!!! And man, I always have those text stuff at moments when I am not needy at all as well.

You are not 1 step ahead of other 'dating/pickup companies', but I think like a million miles. This goes insane to higher levels :D
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#46

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 Honestly, one of the must fundamental things I got from RSD is that it's goddamn OK (it really is!) to have seflish desires and act upon them. Great vid, great bit.
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#47

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 ha how to get from intermediate to advanced in one 30 min video....tooooo much value

I can really relate to the feeling your brain rewiring shit....i was saying it to all the guys when i was in vegas last year annd the year before and i couldn't sleep for shit...it usually happens when i go in to pimp mode for a long bit of time
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Got back from the Hotseat program yesterday, really enjoyed it! Recently I had to take a few weeks out to study for a professional exam I had Friday, which I passed, so with that out the way I feel the program really kicked off my summer in style!

The biggest thing I personally got from the program is how normal all the interactions were. There wasn't much effort put in on either yours or Julians part and the girls really responded to it. This is of course what your talking about in your video, being unreactive, having that polarity and constantly reminding yourself that any deviation from that state of mind will hurt your game.

I'll write a review on the Hotseat program when I get some time.
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again a ton of value, thx Tyler for contributing! 

my sleep is not that stable as it used to be since my Munich weekend with BC and HS and the actions I took since then. like you said it looks like my brain is constantly adapting beliefs and reviewing old situations and visualizing future situations based on that. 

PS: your youtube tracks are from TATW (trance around the world) by Above and Beyond. there is a weekly 2hour podcast from them on Itunes. this is the absolute shit and my favorite podcast by far! check it out! 

PPS: when you hear the first few seconds of every podacast they say "Seen the Blueprint? Better than that!" - they know about RSD!? WTF ;-)
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How old do you have to be to go to the hotseat in Canada? Anyone...
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