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Hey there!

Just got back from my first time in Dallas, had a BLAST!  Thanks to everyone who came out and made it an amazing experience!

I've had a lot of requests to get a new Free Tour video up, and today is the day!

The video opens with a really ridiculous infield burst where I try just saying "Fur!  Fur!" to random girls, the first one's fat friend calls me a creep and then the second is like "Fur?  Fuuuur....." as she's all into it.

Your takeaway here -- EMBRACE THE DEGREE OF RANDOMNESS, TAKE NOTHING PERSONALLY!

EVER.

Then it breaks into all out chaos at the Free Tour!  You're going to love it.

In the meantime I'd also like to keep you in the loop of my upcoming programs.

February 21, 2013: Miami
March 21, 2013: San Diego
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

I'm also considering adding a FIFTH week to the Miami "Model Season" 5 day alumni-only Bootcamp. It's 50/50 as of now but I'm considering opening it up so if you're interested here's the website.

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I'm on the fence about staying for Ultra / Winter Music Conference in the 5th week.

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Alright so like I mentioned, this is a video about embracing randomness and taking nothing personally with girls.

I have a litlte secret I need to reveal to you here...

I've personally always found it UTTERLY PATHETIC and BIZARRE how personally msot guys I know take a simple blow off from a girl.

IMO it reflects a total disrespect for the fact that she may have other things to do, or simply not want to have sex with you at the time.

OH MY GOD!!  POOR YOU!!

The point is that there are also always a few girls who DO want to talk to you and DO want you to take them home.

KEEP FUCKING APPROACHING UNTIL YOU MEET THEM!

Why do guys give up so easily?

Personally I always knew since I was a kid I'd have to work hard to get what I want out of life.  I knew this as long as I could remember, maybe because nothing ever came easy for me.

So when I got into the game, it was so simple and easy to keep going because I always knew that nobody is cut from a different cloth and I could get the same girls as any other guy if I was willing to keep putting myself out there.

In this video i really GO OFF on the topic!  It's a hell of a ride so buckle up.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF TAKING NOTHING PERSONALLY, AND HOW TO KEEP GOING WHEN A GIRL SHUTS YOU DOWN!



Fun stuff huh?

I rarely add infield footage into my vids and don't plan to in the future (if you're interested consider joining me on the inexpensive and amazing Hot Seat event -- it's STACKED!).

(Let me be serious here, if you haven't seen this page go check it out, the video previews are amazing in and of themselves -- www.rsdhotseat.com)

But I've been back recording lately, and thought that example wasn't quite good enough for Hot Seat but a HILARIOUS example of the randomness in the game.

The fact the first fat girl is like "Creep!" and the second is like "Fur?  Fuuuur...." I somehow found really hilarious.

Funny enough though, the upcoming vid I'll have out in a week will have more infield footage from Dallas, and the shit is utterly hilarious as well.

My instinct is to add in shots that I wouldn't use for Hot Seat but are funny additiions to the videos.  Just the random funny shit that happens in the field.

This Free Tour video here I really enjoyed, just for the fact the energy was really great at the event and there was a lot of funny nonsense going on.

I hope you enjoyed it as well, not just for the content, but the sort of "transmission" of the mental headspace that I've embraced as far as being okay with randomness with girls.

My goal for you is to adopt the headspace as well -- it's a  LOT  more fun on the other side!

Like a lot of themes in my videos, the key here is to LET GO OF YOUR EGO!

A big ego that needs everyone to respond to you in a certain way is a sign of weakness, and while you have to be extremely competitive and aggressive to get what you want out of life, the fuel to get there isn't a fragile ego that needs constant validation to feel okay. :)

Stay on it!  Good luck!

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If you also want to go deeper on this topic....

This is a video I shot a while back in front of the newly built Freedom Tower in NYC, talking about "Not taking things personally".

Take a second to re-watch it, now that you've just freshly seen today's Free Tour video -- you'll get a new level of awareness from it this time!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO HAMMER THE "TAKE NOTHING PERSONALLY" CONCEPT DEEPER INTO YOUR HEAD.



Good hammering of the concept there, and I'd say that at this point you're good to go!

Again -- nothing is ever personal! -- keep going til you succeed!

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So hope you enjoyed this week's edition, and I'll see you back next week with my adventures from Dallas.

LET ME KNOW YOUR COMMENTS ON EMBRACING RANDOMNESS AND TAKING NOTHING PERSONALLY!  DO YOU HAVE IT DOWN OR ARE YOU STRUGGLING!  I WANT TO KNOW!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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 First
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Woh. So epic, so epic! You're really enjoying yourself.
Loving the lighthearted vibe man.
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 I REALLY like this video. Good job man.
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hey, your free tour videos blow my mind, and i lmao, thanks for posting them,
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LOL all the time while I was watching it! hahaha I like how you explained better the way you build momentum, always looking to have fun. I do it that way too and never realized.

PS: Owen, don't forget the newbie website, please
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Owen what a great lesson in less than 30 seconds of video.
good job and thanks.
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HAHAHHAHAHAHahhahahahahahhahah

AHHHHHHHHhhhhhh fuuuck last two videos utterly hilarious

Damn

I love how the content is solid but you could literally just learn comedy principles from this video alone.

As a side note re:content -- I think this distinction of "letting go of needing every girl to like you" is what has gotten me the most consistent nights throughout my journey.  Bad nights are simply nights where you take this shit personally as if its somehow meaningful that, randomly, the first 5 girls you talk to don't like you.  Having had enough of those nights... and still pulling at the end of the night... I've kinda just gotten over it.  

Hard to teach this lesson except through experience but the concept is ultra solid.  Great for all relationships in general.  Finding this esp. pertinent to who I do business with these days.  

Cheers 
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 Damn bro.. you keep improving, its nuts 
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funny shit. i find myself saying..

"its wrong!! its wroooooong!" 

a lot. haha.
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This shit is so fucking awesome. Ive been following content and going out consistantly. A lot of instructors are getting old it makes me wonder when you guys will start to look for young talent to take over the company. Even if its a little ways off. Pickup is such a calling to me Im determined to join the team
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 In this world if you don't learn to swim --you're bound to drizound (haha)


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 Thanks for the video Owen. When you talk about jumping into the water it reminds me of last year when I attended the Miami free tour (truth about success speech). I was so fucking inspired by that speech that I took complete control of my fucking life. Now, almost a year later I'm a completely different person. No longer a virgin, doing really well in college and hitting the gym 3x a week. I literally said FUCK THIS SHIT and JUMPED into the water expecting nothing. The power of the mind is truly great. Just a simple shift in mindset from hearing you talk. 

  Also, I REALLY recommend you go to ULTRA you really don't know what your missing....watch some videos online.
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 It so true, I dont know how you could be good at game without this concpet. You just sort of naturally learn it as you go through the motions. I use to get so but hurt over it when a girl would cherp me or something but now its all good. I even have a fan club of girls that all hate on me. its beautiful but at the end of the day you know there are people that love you and its all good.
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If i wouldn´t know rsd i would believe the infield video is a fake! :D
So fucking awesome! :D
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 I FUCKIN LOVE IT!
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Hilarious!!!
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First non manifesto video I've really loved infield was amazing as well. Btw I second the idea that you go to ultra while in Miami shit is insane.
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 on the fence about staying for Ultra? wtf man, I'd give my right arm to be there that weekend. 
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 that first clip of you talking to chicks is how my night normally goes

but then i keep talking to different ones and lil by lil i get that groove

by the end of the night i usually gota chick 

loved it


i normally start cracking up when a girl tells me to fuck off or ignores me 

but its dope how you stayed icey 
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These little in-field bursts are just BOMB.

It's like the "buy in" stuff that Tyler talked about recently. Just watching that little 10 second clip of footage gives the seminar part of the video 100 times more credibility and makes you want to hang onto every word.

It's just that "little damn proof" that motivates you to really pay attention to what he has to say.

Tyler I recommend you use this more.

Like it's crazy how fast forum users will instantly click on the article when the preview pic shows infield stuff.

Genius.
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 tyler should have a cameo in the next tarantino movie
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 respect.
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Tyler you help me a lot ;) Especially the second video was great. I often heard being skinny as fuck when I was a teenager. In the last few years I didn't take any compliment serious. These days when I get compliments I really appreciate them and give the person credit for it. smile
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my brain thinks, whatever it thinks
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best street game i have ever seen, when i have been in deep state, i have some times open with a make out,
but never on the street, i really like your Tyler's Street Game Revealed video,

one question, is that any chance you guys gonna do some thing with Evil Stifler, i hear him say, 85% of the girl he get, is from street game,

just curious,
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 this is great.  when your videos are so funny tend to remember them better
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 This is awesome mate. Hilarious. Best video to date x
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tyler
cops watching is a bad sign
it may seem benign, but cops are always on their job
just be careful bro

other than that, great video
learned a lot
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+1 for solid content.
+1 for Krang reference.
+1 for talking to the camera while picking up.
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 FUCKING FAT CHICKS BE ALWAYS FUCKING UP SETSS!!!!


HAHAH  sweet vids man.... I love the infield videos... Personally, I think by adding MORE free infield videos it''ll probably pique peoples interest into attending hotseat even more.  Just my opinion!!
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Great vibe Tyler! Ive been waiting for your next video like clockwork bro.
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 Digging it...Sweet. Also cute girl. :)
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Amazing!
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its fuckn briliant ! 
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 Haha taking things personally was definitely a struggle, but I've learned to not be so sensitive in the last couple years AND not take things personally. Through having so much shit thrown at me I've shifted to understanding why this should not fuck with my swagger (your hotseat) and at the same time realizing how it wasn't worth it because it prevented me from meeting girls who were down to meet a guy that night as you mentioned in the videos. Alex's "there's no reason why you're not enough" has been huge in the last couple months. Also kind of having the attitude that she should like me for me. Its not like fuck her if she doesn't like me, its more like "that's cool." Be indifferent. Its part of the process. 
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 great stuff I actually just had the realization today that the reason I was having so much trouble going out and getting over my approach anxiety was because I was depressed lol. I no longer am Its so much easier to game when you're in a pleasant state of mind. There are no more barriers to cross.
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 Krang!!!!... just thinking of that guy got me cracking up for like 5 minutes lol
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Great video! I laughed a bunch, starting with your Krang reference. 

I'm going to try the funny sound effects to improve my mood when grumpy.

Thanks! 
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 Dam Tyler. You've done it again. The pool analogy is so fucking $. I will def have that analogy in mind when beginning my nights from now on because I can see how that can really motivate me to just KEEP SWIMMING.

You are such a huge inspiration for me brotha I appreciate all this amazing work and value you show us for free. Call me crazy, but to me you seem like a modern Socrates or Plato, especially in the realm of pick up. Your just on a whole 'nother level consciously. What a blessing. I also love how many of these principles you share apply to so many other facets of life in general. 

A little idea I like to play with (I think you def resonate with) when working on my craft in art, music, or pickup around other people, is the idea that "WHERE YOU ARE IS NEVER WHO YOU ARE".

People often can only see where you are on your journey, and see where you are as your destination.

For example, on your journey in pick up, there have been hundreds/thousands of times you've been blown out in front of a bunch of people, and they laugh and judge you in that moment...But they don't see the bigger picture of your journey. They only see specific moments in time in the journey you are on. They often percieve "where you are" as "who you are". But that is not the case. They don't see the WHOLE PERSPECTIVE. They are just getting a snippet of the journey. They are only seeing one of your stepping stones. They may judge and laugh at you based on that. So be it. OF WELL. Fuck what they think. Only you know your journey, and with that internal knowing, it motivates you to to keep embracing the randomness and stop giving a fuck of what others think, because inside YOU KNOW. They don't. 

Just some thoughts I felt like getting out. 

Anyways man, thank you. Words could never express my gratitude for what you provide us all :)

Quick question, you have any book recommendations on the concept of 'not giving a fuck'?
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 Krang is pure Alpha, His manerisms and body language says it all.

Notice he doesnt ask for permission.  Subtle yet profound.

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Thanks yeah I absolutely love public speaking! It's tiring and challenging, but extremely rewarding when you get it right.

I try to make the vibe of every talk different.  Some chill and positive, others angry and psycho, others manic and funny, etc etc.

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Thoma5 wrote:
Woh. So epic, so epic! You're really enjoying yourself.
Loving the lighthearted vibe man.


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Yeah I'm now recording infield footage that I'll be using little snippets of to create it!

This particular video was one of the ones I plan to use -- as an example of taking nothing personally in game.  Great lesson for newbs!

Tyler
Rodrigo wrote:
LOL all the time while I was watching it! hahaha I like how you explained better the way you build momentum, always looking to have fun. I do it that way too and never realized.

PS: Owen, don't forget the newbie website, please
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Thanks Cat, always psyched to hear about your continued adventures!  I have NO DOUBT you're killing it if you're applying yourself -- or at anything you apply yourself towards.

Tyler
Cat wrote:
HAHAHHAHAHAHahhahahahahahhahah

AHHHHHHHHhhhhhh fuuuck last two videos utterly hilarious

Damn

I love how the content is solid but you could literally just learn comedy principles from this video alone.

As a side note re:content -- I think this distinction of "letting go of needing every girl to like you" is what has gotten me the most consistent nights throughout my journey.  Bad nights are simply nights where you take this shit personally as if its somehow meaningful that, randomly, the first 5 girls you talk to don't like you.  Having had enough of those nights... and still pulling at the end of the night... I've kinda just gotten over it.  

Hard to teach this lesson except through experience but the concept is ultra solid.  Great for all relationships in general.  Finding this esp. pertinent to who I do business with these days.  

Cheers 
-Cat
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Thanks!  I hope to be one of the best.  I'm willing to put in the work.

Tyler
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 Damn bro.. you keep improving, its nuts 
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Haha well they're not THAT old LOL.

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This shit is so fucking awesome. Ive been following content and going out consistantly. A lot of instructors are getting old it makes me wonder when you guys will start to look for young talent to take over the company. Even if its a little ways off. Pickup is such a calling to me Im determined to join the team
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That's the coolest thing I've heard all day man, thanks for letting me know!  So sick!!

See you in Miami again next month!  Ultra sounds bomb, I'm in!

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Queen of Hearts wrote:
 Thanks for the video Owen. When you talk about jumping into the water it reminds me of last year when I attended the Miami free tour (truth about success speech). I was so fucking inspired by that speech that I took complete control of my fucking life. Now, almost a year later I'm a completely different person. No longer a virgin, doing really well in college and hitting the gym 3x a week. I literally said FUCK THIS SHIT and JUMPED into the water expecting nothing. The power of the mind is truly great. Just a simple shift in mindset from hearing you talk. 

  Also, I REALLY recommend you go to ULTRA you really don't know what your missing....watch some videos online.
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Haha I was just thinking the same thing the other night.  That's what I love about the clip, it's like a CARTOON VERSION of not taking anything seriously.

One girl is like "Go away CREEP!" then the next is "Fur?  Fuuurrrr....." and makeout.l

I sort of sensed it was a funny moment that really showed newbies the concept of taking nothing personally, so  I seminared while pimping the girl to use it for newbie site.

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If i wouldn´t know rsd i would believe the infield video is a fake! :D
So fucking awesome! :D
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Haha I'm glad you caught into that "buy in" concept.  I've been thinking about it ever since the Robbins event as well!

Tyler
Leo-~ wrote:
These little in-field bursts are just BOMB.

It's like the "buy in" stuff that Tyler talked about recently. Just watching that little 10 second clip of footage gives the seminar part of the video 100 times more credibility and makes you want to hang onto every word.

It's just that "little damn proof" that motivates you to really pay attention to what he has to say.

Tyler I recommend you use this more.

Like it's crazy how fast forum users will instantly click on the article when the preview pic shows infield stuff.

Genius.
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Haha bro thanks so much!

To tell you the truth, this ain't SHIT compared to what I'm capable of / have done.

I makeout with girls while I walk down the street all the time, but some of the stunting I've done of the years has been NUTS.

My street game has always been a big highlight of my game --  I learned it when I was early in the game and crush with it.

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Snakeeye wrote:
best street game i have ever seen, when i have been in deep state, i have some times open with a make out,
but never on the street, i really like your Tyler's Street Game Revealed video,

one question, is that any chance you guys gonna do some thing with Evil Stifler, i hear him say, 85% of the girl he get, is from street game,

just curious,

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