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So just saw Julien's Hot Seat bonus day for the first time this weekend in Los Angeles. W - O - W!!
Best shit I've ever seen. SHOCKINGLY GOOD.
SO PSYCHED!! --> The Hot Seat 2 is launching this Wednesday -- January 25 @ 12PM EST.
Your bonus for signing up during the launch is a FULL EXTRA DAY of Julien's infield footage and the "Foudations: Reloaded" seminar. Makes it a Saturday + Sunday event, instead of just Saturday as I've been doing it the past 2 years (which was still overflowing with obnoxious levels of value...).
I wanted to create a truly kick ass bonus for people who conquer their procrastinating monkey brains and get signed up DURING the actual launch this Wednesday. The bonus day with the most insane advanced game you've ever seen was the best idea I could come up with for you. Take advantage on January 25th.
www.rsdhotseat.com
Okay so today I'm cracking out a short video that shows how we do the "Interactive Exercises" at the Hot Seat 2. The exercises build on eachother and hammer down on ideas like "How to talk and talk" or "How to vibe without being logical" or "How to use your voice" or "How to pass shit tests without having an emotional reaction to interfering obstacles or the girl".
There's a bunch of them and the first builds upon the next and builds upon the next.
This video shows the first simple exercise just to give you an idea of how it works when you attend. You'll learn something valuable from it, which is that to "talk and talk..." (ie: never run out of things to say) you simply need to DIVORCE THE EMOTIONS FROM THE CONTENT.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN THE "LIL WAYNE PRINCIPLE" THAT GIVES YOU THE "MILLION DOLLAR MOUTHPIECE" SO YOU NEVER OUT OF THINGS TO SAY...
Okay so the "Lil Wayne" principle as well as seeing me breaking down the student briefly on speaking in a way where he expects to be LISTENED TO (as opposed to assuming if he doesn't stimulate her enough she'll walk away) are the main lessons I wanted you to gain out of this.
The exercises are pretty damned cool because I invented them over the previous years I was teaching Bootcamp. It's funny because I'm usually the last person who wants to do exercises since I prefer to just hit the field, but I found that my verbal game and other aspects of my game got better and better when I started doing them.
It sounds funny, but it's almost like there's a certain way you "flex your brain" when you're in that endless talking, vibey, no thinking ahead, non logical type of mode. And the exercises help you to become consciously aware of how to SLIDE into the mode.
I love them. But of course, they're a supplement to seeing how game is done properly, and GOING OUT!!
Hot Seat 2 is so effective because we combine the hidden camera footage showing every aspect of the game played at a high level, then the continual breakdown of the footage, and then the exercises to "hammer it home".
Hopefully this gave you a bit more clarity on how it works -- with all the previews this week, that was the goal.
<>=============================================<>
I also wanted to crack out a quick video from Julien while I'm at it from the San Diego Free Tour.
This Wednesday we'll be putting out the PROPER Julien promotion, which will have even better speaking as well as infield footage that will blow your fucking mind.
I liked this video though because it makes an important point about persistence and FINDING A SOLUTION NO MATTER WHAT.
CLICK THIS RIGHT NOW TO HEAR A REALLY QUICK, ENTERTAINING, AND VERY EDUCATIONAL STORY ABOUT JULIEN AND I IN MIAMI SOUTH BEACH...
That week we spent in South Beach he was talking about was very educational. So many lessons hammered home that week. Learned a lot.
This Wednesday's video with Julien will be so compelling because we cut it to make him come across as the ultimate scumbag who swindles women out of their dreams. :)
That's really only one aspect of Julien's personality, and you can probably see he's a good guy, but I wanted to create something that messed with people's heads a lil bit. I wanted people to QUESTION the way they play the game -- so we cut it really over the top.
Check back shortly and you'll see what I mean!! Hope you're looking forward to it cause you're going to have your eyes opened on many things in pickup and be highly entertained!
<>===========================================<>
Anyway I'm basically passing out on my keyboard right now as all the preparations I've made for this Wednesday's BIG LAUNCH have run me into the ground.
The weekend's final Hot Seat 2 beta test went off absolutely amazing and blew my expectations away 1000%. We've really taken it to another level with this event, kept it inexpensive so it's accessible to anyone, and created something that's truly transformational that you'll take with you for the the rest of your life.
If you want to check out the dates of these once in a lifetime events, hopefully you find something that works for you. And if you aren't based out of one of these cities I highly recommend you pick one you've wanted to visit and make a crazy weekend of experiencing the event and going out at night with the other people who attend!
United States
January 21, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
February 4, 2012: Chicago, IL, USA
February 11, 2012: New York, NY, USA
February 26, 2012: Miami, FL, USA
March 17, 2012: San Francisco, CA, USA
March 31, 2012: Phoenix, AZ, USA
April 14, 2012: Las Vegas, NV, USA
April 28, 2012: Washington DC
May 5, 2012: Boston, MA, USA
May 19, 2012: Austin, TX, USA
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA
Europe
March 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
April 7, 2012: Berlin, Germany
April 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
April 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark
September 22, 2012: Paris, France
September 29, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 6, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 20, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
November 24, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
December 8, 2012: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 9, 2012: Melbourne, Australia
Canada
July 7, 2012: Montreal, Canada
July 14, 2012: Toronto, Canada
July 21, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
Asia & South America
March 17, 2012: Hong Kong
March 24, 2012: Singapore, Singapore
March 31, 2012: Tokyo, Japan
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
November 10, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
btw we're also getting in TONS of emails about various cities who want this event, so we may shift around this schedule a bit to accomodate them. The FINAL schedule will be out on the Wednesday official launch based on all the feedback we've had -- but the one above here is pretty good and gives the basic idea.
www.rsdhotseat.com
REMEMBER TO GET ON IT FOR THE BONUS DAY THIS WEDNESDAY!! SEE YOU THERE!!
<>==========================================<>
Okay so this Wednesday's video is my fav out of all the bunch, and I hope you're psyched to check it out!
It's going to really mess up your concept of what works and what doesn't in the game. And give you a taste of the adventures we've been having while going out 7 nights a week the past many years!
Let me know your thoughts on either of the topics in the videos -- Julien's stories about persistence, or the lessons you took from how to talk and talk.
Hope you've been enjoying the extra posts that have been going up as a result of the launch, and this Wednesday's will be the best yet! Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon! :)
Tyler
www.rsdhotseat.com
PS:
"Hot Seat 2 -- All Questions Answered" thread right here, ask anything you want...
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/210068/forum
Best shit I've ever seen. SHOCKINGLY GOOD.
SO PSYCHED!! --> The Hot Seat 2 is launching this Wednesday -- January 25 @ 12PM EST.
Your bonus for signing up during the launch is a FULL EXTRA DAY of Julien's infield footage and the "Foudations: Reloaded" seminar. Makes it a Saturday + Sunday event, instead of just Saturday as I've been doing it the past 2 years (which was still overflowing with obnoxious levels of value...).
I wanted to create a truly kick ass bonus for people who conquer their procrastinating monkey brains and get signed up DURING the actual launch this Wednesday. The bonus day with the most insane advanced game you've ever seen was the best idea I could come up with for you. Take advantage on January 25th.
www.rsdhotseat.com
Okay so today I'm cracking out a short video that shows how we do the "Interactive Exercises" at the Hot Seat 2. The exercises build on eachother and hammer down on ideas like "How to talk and talk" or "How to vibe without being logical" or "How to use your voice" or "How to pass shit tests without having an emotional reaction to interfering obstacles or the girl".
There's a bunch of them and the first builds upon the next and builds upon the next.
This video shows the first simple exercise just to give you an idea of how it works when you attend. You'll learn something valuable from it, which is that to "talk and talk..." (ie: never run out of things to say) you simply need to DIVORCE THE EMOTIONS FROM THE CONTENT.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN THE "LIL WAYNE PRINCIPLE" THAT GIVES YOU THE "MILLION DOLLAR MOUTHPIECE" SO YOU NEVER OUT OF THINGS TO SAY...
Okay so the "Lil Wayne" principle as well as seeing me breaking down the student briefly on speaking in a way where he expects to be LISTENED TO (as opposed to assuming if he doesn't stimulate her enough she'll walk away) are the main lessons I wanted you to gain out of this.
The exercises are pretty damned cool because I invented them over the previous years I was teaching Bootcamp. It's funny because I'm usually the last person who wants to do exercises since I prefer to just hit the field, but I found that my verbal game and other aspects of my game got better and better when I started doing them.
It sounds funny, but it's almost like there's a certain way you "flex your brain" when you're in that endless talking, vibey, no thinking ahead, non logical type of mode. And the exercises help you to become consciously aware of how to SLIDE into the mode.
I love them. But of course, they're a supplement to seeing how game is done properly, and GOING OUT!!
Hot Seat 2 is so effective because we combine the hidden camera footage showing every aspect of the game played at a high level, then the continual breakdown of the footage, and then the exercises to "hammer it home".
Hopefully this gave you a bit more clarity on how it works -- with all the previews this week, that was the goal.
<>=============================================<>
I also wanted to crack out a quick video from Julien while I'm at it from the San Diego Free Tour.
This Wednesday we'll be putting out the PROPER Julien promotion, which will have even better speaking as well as infield footage that will blow your fucking mind.
I liked this video though because it makes an important point about persistence and FINDING A SOLUTION NO MATTER WHAT.
CLICK THIS RIGHT NOW TO HEAR A REALLY QUICK, ENTERTAINING, AND VERY EDUCATIONAL STORY ABOUT JULIEN AND I IN MIAMI SOUTH BEACH...
That week we spent in South Beach he was talking about was very educational. So many lessons hammered home that week. Learned a lot.
This Wednesday's video with Julien will be so compelling because we cut it to make him come across as the ultimate scumbag who swindles women out of their dreams. :)
That's really only one aspect of Julien's personality, and you can probably see he's a good guy, but I wanted to create something that messed with people's heads a lil bit. I wanted people to QUESTION the way they play the game -- so we cut it really over the top.
Check back shortly and you'll see what I mean!! Hope you're looking forward to it cause you're going to have your eyes opened on many things in pickup and be highly entertained!
<>===========================================<>
Anyway I'm basically passing out on my keyboard right now as all the preparations I've made for this Wednesday's BIG LAUNCH have run me into the ground.
The weekend's final Hot Seat 2 beta test went off absolutely amazing and blew my expectations away 1000%. We've really taken it to another level with this event, kept it inexpensive so it's accessible to anyone, and created something that's truly transformational that you'll take with you for the the rest of your life.
If you want to check out the dates of these once in a lifetime events, hopefully you find something that works for you. And if you aren't based out of one of these cities I highly recommend you pick one you've wanted to visit and make a crazy weekend of experiencing the event and going out at night with the other people who attend!
United States
January 21, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
February 4, 2012: Chicago, IL, USA
February 11, 2012: New York, NY, USA
February 26, 2012: Miami, FL, USA
March 17, 2012: San Francisco, CA, USA
March 31, 2012: Phoenix, AZ, USA
April 14, 2012: Las Vegas, NV, USA
April 28, 2012: Washington DC
May 5, 2012: Boston, MA, USA
May 19, 2012: Austin, TX, USA
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA
Europe
March 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
April 7, 2012: Berlin, Germany
April 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
April 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark
September 22, 2012: Paris, France
September 29, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 6, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 20, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
November 24, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
December 8, 2012: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 9, 2012: Melbourne, Australia
Canada
July 7, 2012: Montreal, Canada
July 14, 2012: Toronto, Canada
July 21, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
Asia & South America
March 17, 2012: Hong Kong
March 24, 2012: Singapore, Singapore
March 31, 2012: Tokyo, Japan
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
November 10, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
btw we're also getting in TONS of emails about various cities who want this event, so we may shift around this schedule a bit to accomodate them. The FINAL schedule will be out on the Wednesday official launch based on all the feedback we've had -- but the one above here is pretty good and gives the basic idea.
www.rsdhotseat.com
REMEMBER TO GET ON IT FOR THE BONUS DAY THIS WEDNESDAY!! SEE YOU THERE!!
<>==========================================<>
Okay so this Wednesday's video is my fav out of all the bunch, and I hope you're psyched to check it out!
It's going to really mess up your concept of what works and what doesn't in the game. And give you a taste of the adventures we've been having while going out 7 nights a week the past many years!
Let me know your thoughts on either of the topics in the videos -- Julien's stories about persistence, or the lessons you took from how to talk and talk.
Hope you've been enjoying the extra posts that have been going up as a result of the launch, and this Wednesday's will be the best yet! Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon! :)
Tyler
www.rsdhotseat.com
PS:
"Hot Seat 2 -- All Questions Answered" thread right here, ask anything you want...
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/210068/forum
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steppino
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John Kennedy
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Loved his speech on the second day after Jeffy's hotseat program in LA. Some of his ideas come across as basic but they really address advanced issues that come up in game, like his video here.
I think dudes going to be putting out some rad shit in the future.
beerbelly52
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You the man tyler keep up the hardwork/ cant wait for hotseat 2.
Tyler
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Tyler
Loved his speech on the second day after Jeffy's hotseat program in LA. Some of his ideas come across as basic but they really address advanced issues that come up in game, like his video here.
I think dudes going to be putting out some rad shit in the future.
yearbook
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I'M ASKING FOR THE THIRD TIME
IS THERE GOING TO BE HOT SEAT 3?
UtopiaFive
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Jeffy still has the best one. The knife exercise.
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Mirek1988
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i noticed when i talk to poeple in a hightend state/high energy about lame stuff they listen to me as if i am obama declaring war on some ass oil country. vice verca i can talk about how my cat startet to poo gold recently and noone would give a shit.
now i know why lol. thisis$$$
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i missed the LA hotseat so im going to drive up to the san francisco event
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steppino
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It was a good try homie keep working hard maybe next time
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Tyler
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Outside USA = Julien Shows Tyler footage day 1, Julien shows Julien footage day 2.
**HOWEVER for the first 3 events in the USA (Chicago, New York, Miami...) Julien will still be on USA soil and will do his own footage. Then he leaves and it'll be on me.
Tyler
It's funny how watching these videos you can see Tim in Tyler and Ozzy in Tyler then Tyler in Julian, and a little of Jeffy in everybody and how everybody has each others mannerisms.... it's cute :-)
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Rocco Siffredi
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I've been to Jeff's Hot Seat in London and it was the dogs bollocks. Easily the best program I've ever seen/attended. Mainly thanks to Jeff.
Some doubts about Julien creaping in this time tbh. Not sure if he's got experience with an event of this magnitude (def doesn't have 10 years plus of public speaking behind his belt like Tyler/Jeff) But appart from these two, who else could handle two consecutive 8h seminars? I haven't seen enough of Julien to be able to tell but I'm hoping to be pleasantly surprised. So of course I'm signing up!!! I just wish I could see Tyler but there's no way I'm able to fly to the US this spring. Hopefully I'll see one of his events one day... before he 'retires' from pick up...
blah, that doesn't sound like a fanatic fan at all
Outside USA = Julien Shows Tyler footage day 1, Julien shows Julien footage day 2.
Tyler
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Check the next video.
Tyler
I've been to Jeff's Hot Seat in London and it was the dogs bollocks. Easily the best program I've ever seen/attended. Mainly thanks to Jeff.
Some doubts about Julien creaping in this time tbh. Not sure if he's got experience with an event of this magnitude (def doesn't have 10 years plus of public speaking behind his belt like Tyler/Jeff) But appart from these two, who else could handle two consecutive 8h seminars? I haven't seen enough of Julien to be able to tell but I'm hoping to be pleasantly surprised. So of course I'm signing up!!! I just wish I could see Tyler but there's no way I'm able to fly to the US this spring. Hopefully I'll see one of his events one day... before he 'retires' from pick up...
blah, that doesn't sound like a fanatic fan at all
Outside USA = Julien Shows Tyler footage day 1, Julien shows Julien footage day 2.
Professor Hughes~
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I don't even think you need to act or pretend like what you are saying is that cool or interesting, I've found it's more that you DON'T feel like whatever you are saying is NOT cool or NOT interesting. I used to get all self conscious and awkward whenever I felt like I didn't have anything interesting enough to say (not just with girls, in all social situations). Now, I usually just don't care, even if I'm talking about the most boring shit ever. Most girls will still respond to that relaxed/non-self conscious vibe no matter what you are talking about. If they call you out on it (they don't usually), it's just an opportunity to pass a test.
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El_Diego
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To get me in that mode i just focus on escalating the situation until the girls is either loving me or running away from me.
FrankHaro1goal
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Ok 1st things 1st, Julien's speech's are fucking amazing so fuck that one hater "john kennedy"...
I just attend the free LA tour plus both days of "hot seat" & Fuck it was amazing.. Owen & julians are both fucking amazing no matter what.. They fucking raise the bar for everyone out there!!!
Iam looking forward already to chicago, new york & who knows what other tours & hot seats!! It so worth it by fucking 10fold=)))
Imma say from a guy to another guy! Dont eat out, save money & these events are worth it cause at the end its gonna be worth not eating out for a few weeks in what you get in return=)
Thanks Rsd crew,
Frank Haro
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Maha
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Positive Downsides of your videos.
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I don't even think you need to act or pretend like what you are saying is that cool or interesting, I've found it's more that you DON'T feel like whatever you are saying is NOT cool or NOT interesting. I used to get all self conscious and awkward whenever I felt like I didn't have anything interesting enough to say (not just with girls, in all social situations). Now, I usually just don't care, even if I'm talking about the most boring shit ever. Most girls will still respond to that relaxed/non-self conscious vibe no matter what you are talking about. If they call you out on it (they don't usually), it's just an opportunity to pass a test.
André Jr.
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"Here is what the mind does in relation to pickup (the opposite of outcome oriented):
P.s you get to read an exact snapshot of my inner dialogue here:
Wow im in a club… woooo!… high five my friend…. lets chat to my friend… i like my friend… ohhh awesome look at that chair ahhahha what a silly looking chair… sorry now back to my friend…. cool… ohhh this is fun… wow my shoes are brown that is funny…. “hmmm i was wondering about sea creatures the other day - there is some WEIRD SHIT going on in the sea”… i like lizards too… oh wait ! damn LOOK AT THAT GIRL SHE IS FUCKING HOT…. YESSSSSS…. GO FOLLOW THE GIRL… MUST TALK TO HER…. YUM… “Hey i just had to come meet you i’m Tim!”… “you like sea creatures dont you hahahahah”…. “come here love… kiss me”…..”hahahahah”… this is weird she wont kiss me yet ahhhh well soon enough… “so back to you and me…what was your name again?”
My head is like a MAGIC EIGHT BALL. I shake it and whatever floats to the surface I do. I trust that somewhere in the void of my mind something cool will float to the surface.
Something cool to say, or do, or whatever in that exact event or situation."
Halla backk
Professor Hughes~
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I don't even think you need to act or pretend like what you are saying is that cool or interesting, I've found it's more that you DON'T feel like whatever you are saying is NOT cool or NOT interesting. I used to get all self conscious and awkward whenever I felt like I didn't have anything interesting enough to say (not just with girls, in all social situations). Now, I usually just don't care, even if I'm talking about the most boring shit ever. Most girls will still respond to that relaxed/non-self conscious vibe no matter what you are talking about. If they call you out on it (they don't usually), it's just an opportunity to pass a test.
I agree and disagree.
Agree in the sense that "everything you say is cool because it is coming from you." I think that most naturals and guys that become good at natural game will probably have that mindset.
However, for newer guys, trying to say cool stuff is going to make them run out of things to say (especially if they set the bar high for what qualifies as "cool"). A better idea is for them to just say whatever comes to mind and then learn to stay relaxed and positive even if they think what they're talking about is boring. Like Tyler says in the video, the girls are going to respond to the guy's vibe, not the words. Eventually a newbie will gain enough experiences of girls liking him despite his "boring" conversation that he will develop the belief that everything he says is cool.
Frank Simpson
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Just curious.
RonPaul
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I have been listening to Wayne since 2007 and I am a raving fan. I was never able to put into words why people love his music. Sometimes he will say something that's very simple on paper but people will rave over it.
It is the emotion behind the words. Because Wayne believes his words are the best, other people start believing it too.
Tyler Durden is a motherfuckin genius.
AlexV
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met a club promoter on the street and he started talking.... and talking.... and talking...... he didn't stop... Talking
and i realized oh my fucking god, this would work so well on girls, he actually was getting me into state, whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat
anyway, works AWESOME
tomorrow i'm testing it on a date
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TheKing
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I don't even think you need to act or pretend like what you are saying is that cool or interesting, I've found it's more that you DON'T feel like whatever you are saying is NOT cool or NOT interesting. I used to get all self conscious and awkward whenever I felt like I didn't have anything interesting enough to say (not just with girls, in all social situations). Now, I usually just don't care, even if I'm talking about the most boring shit ever. Most girls will still respond to that relaxed/non-self conscious vibe no matter what you are talking about. If they call you out on it (they don't usually), it's just an opportunity to pass a test.
I agree and disagree.
Agree in the sense that "everything you say is cool because it is coming from you." I think that most naturals and guys that become good at natural game will probably have that mindset.
However, for newer guys, trying to say cool stuff is going to make them run out of things to say (especially if they set the bar high for what qualifies as "cool"). A better idea is for them to just say whatever comes to mind and then learn to stay relaxed and positive even if they think what they're talking about is boring. Like Tyler says in the video, the girls are going to respond to the guy's vibe, not the words. Eventually a newbie will gain enough experiences of girls liking him despite his "boring" conversation that he will develop the belief that everything he says is cool.
Lateralus
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Aces92
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Now that I've finally started going out and approaching, I see the benefit of these infield videos so muhc more because now it's like, "well, I've approached girls in the club like this. that looks cool, next time I'll do that and have some fun with it. Yeah.. I can see myself doing that now I've got some reference experiences."
Julien seems like a real cool guy and refreshing to have a new instructor come in and give some insights in his own style. Will be mad to meet him in person in Aus.
Yer budday
Falsetto
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So keep in mind, you don't just talk to talk, you talk to show your personality and make her fall in love with who you are, not with what you have to say.
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Fredrik
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Just a thought for your future self help company Owen.
Aud usd
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currency, and the US dollar as the 'counter' or 'quote' currency.
Trading the AUD USD currency pair
is also known as trading the 'Aussie'. The AUD/USD exchange rate is
actually a comparison of the value of one currency in relation to
the other.
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AUD/USD's rally extended further to as high as 1.0687 last week. Further rise is expected with 1.0444 support intact and AUD/USD should target 1.0752 next. Break there will be the first sign of up trend resumption and should target a test on 1.1079 high. However, AUD/USD is still bounded in range of 0.9387/1.1079. Break of 1.0525 support will argue that rebound from 0.9663 is finished and another falling leg inside the consolidation pattern could have started for the lower side of the range.