Good morning!

I just finished up a phenomenal program in Washington D.C. with Alexander~ and a hot new female wingman who looks like an anime character, and have just arrived in BOSTON where I'm crashing at Papa's house with Julien and Todd.

We just got back from a bomb breakfast of eggs and veggies and berries and tea in Harvard square, and I'm slamming this out before checking out a movie this afternoon.

If you're in BOSTON this is the rare time that I'm here, and I may never do a PUA related event here again (who knows?) so be sure to hit up the FREE TOUR!  And if you're in one of the local pickup groups SPREAD THE WORD as well!  It's this Thursday at 7PM and will feature myself and Julien and Alexander, so it's gonna be really really good.

The other events in the pipeline also promise to be outstanding so check out the dates in case one of them applies to you...

May 3, 2012: Boston (with Julien)
May 17, 2012: Austin (with Julien)
May 31, 2012: Atlanta
June 14, 2012: Seattle

The two events with Julien will be the last Tyler/Julien programs for a long time, with the exception of the one we'll be doing in Honolulu over the summer.  Austin has 2 BC slots left so definitely hit it up if you want to visit down there!

Hot Seat 2 has also been going absolutely amazing, and I'm happy to see that the intense value of this life changing event is starting to spread around and it's getting crazy popular.  The crowds have just been getting bigger and bigger, and the event is just off the chains.

Anyway I've just been fully rocking it lately and loving the lifestyle of teaching while I still can, so hopefully if you want to do an event with me on the topic of picking up girls you'll get on board!

There's a lot I have to teach in my lifetime, but pickup is my first love and taking an event with me while I'm still going out 7 nights a week and teaching every other weekend is something you'll never forget!  I'm sure I'll always teach it but right now it's literally the sole focus of my life, so I don't think the quality will ever be better than they are RIGHT NOW.  This is the peak!

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

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Okay so I've got a few ideas on my mind, but first up let's crack right into the latest video in the Free Tour series that I shot a month ago in San Francisco.

You may remember the intro from the "Truth About Success 2" video where I talked about how I was totally wrecked from a 2 month launch, followed by months of consecutive programs in Chicago, NY, Miami, and San Fran.

This was the FINAL program of that sequence, as I'd done 3 straight weeks of nonstop alumni BC's in Miami and had only 2 days at home before shooting to San Francisco for the final of the endless events.

I arrived in San Francisco on 90 minutes sleep and went right into it.  I think I pushed it a bit over the edge on that one because I was experiencing "micro sleep" during the talk and would see little black dots in my eyes and start having 2 second dreams that I'd wake up from in the middle of the talk.  Jeff had to sit behind me and get me back on track as I'd meander into various nonsense.

Luckily Jeff did most of the Free Tour himself which kept it going really well, and there was definitely some interesting content in my talk as well.

Even better though?  In my haze I tend to be pretty loopy.  So when someone asked me what "techniques" I could teach them about how to internalize the concepts I was talking about, I shared with them the most powerful secret technique I've ever developed.

THE RISING PHOENIX!

This is a technique so powerful that it allows you NOT to have to go out all the time and make gradual progress to build a base of experience and get good results.  Instead you just do this one secret that I've been holding back from you and get to SKIP all that silly bullshit, and go straight to the POT OF GOLD!

You probably always intuitively knew this, but the REAL way that all the guys who get great results with girls did it was by stumbling onto this technique that "they" don't want you to know about.  Then they blab on and on about how you have to "put in the time" and "be patient" while THEY are getting all the sex with cute girls for themselves by knowing this secret trick.

Intrigued?

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN ABOUT "FRIENDLY AND COOL" METHOD AND HOW TO USE THE RISING PHOENIX TECHNIQUE TO IMMEDIATELY GET RESULTS AND SKIP ALL THE NONSENSE OF GRADUAL CHANGE...


So yeah, I tried to keep that one hidden but just couldn't keep the secret any longer.

My fav part about the video is actually how my face turns BEAT RED as I'm squat down, because I'm speaking too long without taking a breathe.

I threw myself to the ground because as I jumped up I started seeing more black dots on my eyes and realized I was going to faint from lack of oxygene, so figured I'd make it more dramatic by passing out as the rising phoenix transformed me into a super pimp. :)

(Seriously it was weird though.  I was so into it that I ran out of breathe as I was speaking, and didn't want to break the energy by pausing to take a breathe.  So in the moment I chose to lie down so the blood could return to my head, then I got back up quickly and kept talking even though I couldn't remember what I was saying anymore.  Fun stuff!)

LOL anyway the video is off the wall but I put these out because I like to keep track of all my speaking over the years, so it's more a ledger of how I progressed to become the guy I'll be in the future than anything else.  I want people to see all the different silly bullshit I played around with on the way to the top -- Julien's recent video where he summons the ghost of Tony Robbins into his body is the same. :)


Basically we're just screwing around. :)

Then YOU get to enjoy it as well, and the overdramatized points help sink them into your brain.

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As an interesting sidenote, thank God my sleep god to improve after that crazy series of events.

Sometimes people read about me foregoing sleep in order to get things done and think they should get used to operating on low sleep as well.  Good intentions there, but DUMB IDEA!

I always aim for a good 8 hours of solid sleep in a dark room whenever I can.  Sleep makes you work better and more efficiently, oftentimes SAVING you the hours that would have gained if you worked on less.

It's similar to the gym or meditation where the time you invest in them you wind up getting back in increased abilities and efficiency.

The reason I sometimes go on low sleep is I'm a young go-getter who is UNDER THE GUN to deliver specific results and improve fast so I can do big things.  I walk a tight-rope and even the slightest misuse of time can cause massive ripples of chaos into my life.  Whenever that happens, I'm forced to give up SOMETHING in order to make up the time I've lost, and that's oftentimes sleep.

I fucking hate being on low sleep, but being forced into it over the past few years has also taught me that I'm capable of literally anything and that your willpower can carry you to any extreme.

When I think of all the Hot Seat events I did over the past 2 years where I'd been running Bootcamps until 7AM, then woke up at 10AM to setup the room for Hot Seat, and then would be sitting in the back shaking and convulsing as the videos played between my commentary.....DAMN!

It was pretty shitty, but it taught me to just stay present to it and never let anyone see.  Nobody can ever tell if I'm well slept or not because my view is that if I had a gun to my head I'd be able to get the job done, so there's no reason I can't do it now.

Sounds messed up, but it's not something that's SUSTAINABLE.  Just something that a lot of young people have to master on their way to the top.  I view my ability to do this IF I HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE as a building block in my foundation of confidence more than any lifestyle I'd want to sustain.

(That would suck!)

I compensate for the lack of sleep by eating a LITERALLY perfect diet along with meditation and extensive supplementation.  As a result I never (as in never...) get sick if I'm strict to this routine.

It's cool to learn all this while I'm young and it won't give me cancer or kill me.  There's no way I'd do it past 35 as that would not be good for my health at all.

So hopefully this clears up any questions anyone had about that!

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Anyway it's always interesting to wrap up a crazy launch and tour like that one.

Of course I'm STILL on an extensive tour, having just finished DC and being in Boston right now, and then off to Austin Texas shortly thereafter.  But at least it's manageable and I can take the time out to enjoy breakfast or go watch a movie.

What I really learned from it though is "this too shall pass..."

You can be in the middle of basically anything and feel at ease in the knowledge that it's just temporary.

The same goes for sex with a girl who turns you on.  You're intimate with her and it's good, but you know it's going to end.  Good or bad -- EVERTHING is going to end someday -- and that day is coming very soon.

So just take it for what it is.

Life is a mystery for you to unravel and everything you experience is teaching you something.  Where it's leading you?  WHO THE FUCK KNOWS??

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Aside from that I've got some great projects for RSD on the go.

The newbie website is one of them.  Getting the DVDs put onto streaming video is another, which will allow us to create new video programs from guys like Alex and Brad and Julien who have expressed a lot of interest in doing so.  We've also got RSDUnderground about to come out now that our programmer is back to work!

Then I'm working on a cheap newbie product that includes an ebook and recurring videos, which we can offer to the big affiliates who want to work with us (if you're a big affiliate PM me and we can talk...).  I expect it to be pretty popular as I've had a lot of comments from big affiliate marketers that they wish RSD would create something like this so they could earn money on something they believe in, as opposed to whatever nonsense happens to convert.

I'm also doing up a new homepage for www.realsocialdynamics.com (it was pretty cool....6 years ago!) and an update of this RSDN frontpage so that we can make space for the higher volume of new articles.  And I want to create a proper set of Bootcamp infomercial type vids like I did for Hot Seat as well.

Lastly I want to keep hammering away at improving my game with the end goal of recording more infield footage for future Hot Seats (even if I'm not teaching them) and do up a final advanced pickup related program (but not until I have the newbie stuff hammered out, since I don't need more newbies getting all confused that it's the "missing peice").

All this should keep me busy for a good 18 months, between running all the programs and keeping the front page full and going out 7 nights a week and being a dad.  So I've got a lot going on!

Hopefully you've got a lot that's keeping you engaged as well!

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Woop!  So I'm out of here.  Hope you enjoyed the videos and I'll see you soon!

Let me know what you thought about the idea of "FRIENDLY AND COOL" in pickup, and how you've applied it in your own life.  I want to know!

I'll be back in a week with a LOOOONG video on identifying your strengths in pickup and honing in on them.  It's gonna be good!

Thanks for reading and have a great day!

Tyler