Tyler's Blog
Hey there!
Just got back from Las Vegas.
I had a blast, and am exhausted to say the least. Luckily I shot 2 videos while in Vegas to share the experience with you -- and this week's will be covering the #1 sticking point in the game...
HOW TO TALK FOREVER AND EVER!
I've just purchased a new studio to film all the content for RSD's new self development company, so if I'm gonna evolve my primary focus on pickup to the new shit over the next few years I gotta put a smile on my face and create these things -- I'm GETTING IT DONE!
(I'll also be doing this extensively in the "newbie site" but I want to make a few videos about the most important concepts as well.)
I'd say I did a great job and will entertain the shit out of you like I always do, so I know you're going to love it.
I also had to do this one to debunk the bizarre belief that Jeff and I somehow "benefitted" from the years we were taught to use canned openers and routines to get good with girls.
All the other RSD guys who were taught "natural game" skyrocketed past Jeff and I for several years by building their game on the best foundation possible. Meanwhile Jeff and I had to "unwire" all the autopilot behaviour we'd built in and stop feeling so weird about having regular conversations with girls.
On the good side, both Jeff and I are KILLER story tellers from the years of doing that, so we benefitted as public speakers in that regard. But unless you're trying to be a public speaker I'd really just learn how to go natural from day 1.
That said, can you go use the same stories or jokes again and again even if you're "natural" -- for sure.
It's just that you say it when YOU want to do so, to build the vibe, and when it happens to "arise".
You may go several months without saying the same story or joke again, or you may be suddenly amused by it and say it over and over throughout the night. Then you get bored of it and forget about it, like any normal human being, and move on.
You're improvising whatever FEELS GOOD in the moment, and then by the "law of state transferrence" she feels the amazing way you're feeling in her "mirror neurons" and gets good emotions from you as well.
(I'll post up a video on this topic from Daniel Goleman below...)
Anyway I've got some great programs coming up, including 2 new ones I added to the schedule in Southern California with Julien. This is one of the last times I'll be teaching Bootcamps with Julien this year so if you want to take a Bootcamp with both of us at the same time GET ON THE DAMNED TRAIN!
All my events will be ultra life changing of course, and here's the list coming up...
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
April 18, 2013: Los Angeles (BC with Julien!)
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
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THIS WEEK'S VIDEO
Alright so let's get into this video on how to talk and talk...
Hopefully this sorts this out for you PERMANENTELY as there's NEVER an excuse not to be able to TALK lol.
These are secrets that have allowed me to keep my mouth moving whenever I want -- beyond just with girls, but also on Free Tours where I go in with no idea what I'm going to say!
People are often baffled at my ability to do this, and this video will reveal ALL! :)
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER MY 5 SECRETS FOR TALKING AND TALKING.....FOREVER!
Psyched you watched this!
Hopefully now the issue is solved. :)
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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VIDS!
This video is mandatory viewing if you enjoyed the one above.
It's going to explain specific exercises for "becoming like Lil Wayne" and I'd urge you to watch it immediately.
Good job adding to your knowledge base here.
I'd say try out that exercise and if you want to do more come hit me up at a Hot Seat event as well!
I also can't resist adding my first ever video blog, which was on the topic of state transference, and crack you up a bit with how far it's come.
You'll learn good stuff as well, check it out...
LOL how awesome was THAT? :)
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POSTS OF THE WEEK
We spotted 2 really good threads this week you'd definitely want to check out...
TeflonDon187: Projecting A Sexual Vibe
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/400395
TheDuve: Pushing For Results IS A Part Of The Process
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/402871/forum
Thanks guys for making the forum kick ass!
And to everyone who posted as well, I really appreciate all the input so much!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
Given that "natural game" is all about the "law of state transference" I thought I'd include none other than an interview with Daniel Goleman.
He's the author of "Emotional Intelligence" and "Social Intelligence".
The guy isn't gonna have the same type of swagger you're accustomed to from an RSD instructor, but I absolutely love how he's drawn so much attention in the mainstream to the concept of emotional and social intelligence.
You'd definitely do well to check this out to be introduced to his work...
So now that you have this as a focus, try to keep it in your head over the coming weeks and see how you improve.
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Okay I'm out!
Off to the gym and gonna continue to work work work.
Next week's vid is gonna be pretty exciting stuff on selective focus, it's got a lot of funny moments in it I'm sure you're gonna enjoy.
I'd be psyched!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT GOING NATURAL, YOUR EXPERIENCES TALKING AND TALKING, AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
I READ THE COMMENTS AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!
Thanks so much for reading and have an amazing day!
I'll see you soon!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
Just got back from Las Vegas.
I had a blast, and am exhausted to say the least. Luckily I shot 2 videos while in Vegas to share the experience with you -- and this week's will be covering the #1 sticking point in the game...
HOW TO TALK FOREVER AND EVER!
I've just purchased a new studio to film all the content for RSD's new self development company, so if I'm gonna evolve my primary focus on pickup to the new shit over the next few years I gotta put a smile on my face and create these things -- I'm GETTING IT DONE!
(I'll also be doing this extensively in the "newbie site" but I want to make a few videos about the most important concepts as well.)
I'd say I did a great job and will entertain the shit out of you like I always do, so I know you're going to love it.
I also had to do this one to debunk the bizarre belief that Jeff and I somehow "benefitted" from the years we were taught to use canned openers and routines to get good with girls.
All the other RSD guys who were taught "natural game" skyrocketed past Jeff and I for several years by building their game on the best foundation possible. Meanwhile Jeff and I had to "unwire" all the autopilot behaviour we'd built in and stop feeling so weird about having regular conversations with girls.
On the good side, both Jeff and I are KILLER story tellers from the years of doing that, so we benefitted as public speakers in that regard. But unless you're trying to be a public speaker I'd really just learn how to go natural from day 1.
That said, can you go use the same stories or jokes again and again even if you're "natural" -- for sure.
It's just that you say it when YOU want to do so, to build the vibe, and when it happens to "arise".
You may go several months without saying the same story or joke again, or you may be suddenly amused by it and say it over and over throughout the night. Then you get bored of it and forget about it, like any normal human being, and move on.
You're improvising whatever FEELS GOOD in the moment, and then by the "law of state transferrence" she feels the amazing way you're feeling in her "mirror neurons" and gets good emotions from you as well.
(I'll post up a video on this topic from Daniel Goleman below...)
Anyway I've got some great programs coming up, including 2 new ones I added to the schedule in Southern California with Julien. This is one of the last times I'll be teaching Bootcamps with Julien this year so if you want to take a Bootcamp with both of us at the same time GET ON THE DAMNED TRAIN!
All my events will be ultra life changing of course, and here's the list coming up...
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
April 18, 2013: Los Angeles (BC with Julien!)
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
<>================================================<>
THIS WEEK'S VIDEO
Alright so let's get into this video on how to talk and talk...
Hopefully this sorts this out for you PERMANENTELY as there's NEVER an excuse not to be able to TALK lol.
These are secrets that have allowed me to keep my mouth moving whenever I want -- beyond just with girls, but also on Free Tours where I go in with no idea what I'm going to say!
People are often baffled at my ability to do this, and this video will reveal ALL! :)
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER MY 5 SECRETS FOR TALKING AND TALKING.....FOREVER!
Psyched you watched this!
Hopefully now the issue is solved. :)
<>===================================<>
GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VIDS!
This video is mandatory viewing if you enjoyed the one above.
It's going to explain specific exercises for "becoming like Lil Wayne" and I'd urge you to watch it immediately.
Good job adding to your knowledge base here.
I'd say try out that exercise and if you want to do more come hit me up at a Hot Seat event as well!
I also can't resist adding my first ever video blog, which was on the topic of state transference, and crack you up a bit with how far it's come.
You'll learn good stuff as well, check it out...
LOL how awesome was THAT? :)
<>============================================<>
POSTS OF THE WEEK
We spotted 2 really good threads this week you'd definitely want to check out...
TeflonDon187: Projecting A Sexual Vibe
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/400395
TheDuve: Pushing For Results IS A Part Of The Process
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/402871/forum
Thanks guys for making the forum kick ass!
And to everyone who posted as well, I really appreciate all the input so much!
<>==========================================<>
EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
Given that "natural game" is all about the "law of state transference" I thought I'd include none other than an interview with Daniel Goleman.
He's the author of "Emotional Intelligence" and "Social Intelligence".
The guy isn't gonna have the same type of swagger you're accustomed to from an RSD instructor, but I absolutely love how he's drawn so much attention in the mainstream to the concept of emotional and social intelligence.
You'd definitely do well to check this out to be introduced to his work...
So now that you have this as a focus, try to keep it in your head over the coming weeks and see how you improve.
<>==============================<>
Okay I'm out!
Off to the gym and gonna continue to work work work.
Next week's vid is gonna be pretty exciting stuff on selective focus, it's got a lot of funny moments in it I'm sure you're gonna enjoy.
I'd be psyched!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT GOING NATURAL, YOUR EXPERIENCES TALKING AND TALKING, AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
I READ THE COMMENTS AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!
Thanks so much for reading and have an amazing day!
I'll see you soon!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
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VinnyMac07
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Keep up the good work
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Keep it up bro!!
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crazy.
thanks.
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Now that i think about it though the sexual energy that i had before ceased when i started talking about things i actually wanted to talk about lol. I wanted the girls to engage me in an "intelectual" conversation about whatever it was that was on my mind and although i was interested in it there was no sexual energy behind it.
so maybe #6- always be pimping... ?
WhiteHeat
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Emotional Intelligence and the ability to talk more easily is a funny topic. It's HILARIOUS, I've noticed even ever since I've gotten into self-development that when I don't socialize a substantial amount (atleast a couple hours a day) for a few days the ability to converse in the simplest way becomes difficult. Like making a little eye contact with some random, average jane, and it's funny to see how socially awkward I can be and then five days later be pretty switched on. I'm a little more introverted than extroverted so that shit atrophies, fast! On the flip side, when I'm socilaizing regularly I notice, BOOM, the words and just as importantly the listening comes back.
A key thing that you may want to bring up on this topic if you haven't already is active listening( listening with giving proof youve heard what they said making them feel understood). Very textbook psychology, but it's great tool for guys who have trouble staying in the moment or are more introverted dudes. When you focus on listening, talking is easy! I know it's not practical in all situations(like the club) but in quieter locations I've noticed it's definitely an asset and immediately solves the problem of thinking what to say. The obvious pitfall would be falling into the friends frame if you're only listening as that can lack masculine polarity and seem feminine...
Cheers from Winnipeg!
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Bushido1
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So fucking hilariuos!! Especially the last half xd
Watched 3 times in a row ^^
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aka
approach
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good post btw :)
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Could you make a post or a video about nutrition?
Not just theory about nutrition, but could you give us an example of your weekly dinners etc?
Regards Tsu
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But there are other times where I am completely genuine in some agressive sexual joke I say and she runs away, but in those situations I dont care if she doesnt like it coz I will stil laugh my ass off at what I said.
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Also loving your inclusion of external resources every week. Thanks!
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It is easy to talk to strangers, because everything is new. But how about friends, girlfriends, family? They usually don't want to hear about pickup or personal development in general, they already know what you do for a living, all places you have been to etc. They already know you. You have already told them every story you have, and you already know everything about them too. How do you proceed from there? Telling them about when you did the dishes yesterday?
Sitting down with your friends, feeling that no one has anything to say, you just say something random, some weird stuff you think is fun. You have the energy, and you believe in what you say. But still... No one else thinks it's fun, and people just wonder "what is his problem"?
And what do you do when someone is a real bore? Do you have a two hour long monologue, still enjoying yourself? Lol! ;)
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when the newbie product will come out?
my experience of going natural vs routines (3yr field)
for me using routines what great inspiration to start then gratitude about that. it was part of the process. as being overlycreppy physical was part of the process . and fucking the warmup was part of the process.
good side: storytelling skills ... being comfortable being the center of attention, non verbal stuff
the bad side of routines: the belief of needing to demonstrate higher value (i can''t unwire that one totally yet)
anyway back to a more "natural" style of game (i'm enough) .. i started to naturally become more chill and the main point of the cold approach became BEING GOOD AT BUYING MYSELF SOME TIME ... and if in the begginning being an attention was a sticking point... now getting the attention of the girl is not so bad as a skill ... i know i'm good for her... but i only need to earn 1 minute to unblock her bydefault resistance, routines are good doing that because are desinged to mess up with the attention of girls... routines help me to earn some time in difficult situations (but at the core i know that when i will be alone with the girl i'll be comfortable with my true self) ...
i also like routines once in a while because they are fun and when i'm scared to approach in the beginning of the night (in clubs i go natural in the beginning of the night but in my city most the venues are restaurants/wine bars/terraces and the group situation needs some locking-in work - not as DHV but to bypass initial barriers)
i don't know at what point is negative to use routines as a "earning some time" strategy (like time constraints) once you're more advanced
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thanks alot tyler.
i was always silent as i was growing up ,because my dad was always stressed and when i talk he hushed me and command me not to talk.
But from now on NO EXCUSE .
fuck chigivura fuck all the hereos ,Tyler all the way.
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P.s. I think you should release a RSD condom pack, each condom has the face of a Rsd intructor on it, just putting it out there.
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"Tunechi in this bitch, e’rybody should be worried
Them niggas be purring, bitches be digging me I feel buried
And if she make this dick hard, she woke up a sleeping giant
Man your speak in tongues every time we speak in private
Hope your barber shop open cause we got hair triggers
Smoke so much that Smokey the Bear, have to bear with us
And that Jeep with the doors off that means that sleek
All these bitches think they’re the shit, I sent them up shits creek
You see Tunechi right here, give me brain ideas
It’s ok if you turn up just don’t turn off my light years"
-Lil Wayne
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Improvisational_theatre
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I'll be meeting up with you in LA on the 18 for the BC. See you soon.
Nice posting your first video. I was actually just wondering what your first video must have looked like.
I was thinking it would be funny to put together a video of the most epic rejections kinda in the style of the skate board nut slam videos. That shit would be hilarious man!
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Tyler, please make more videos like the ones on learning and motivations :S
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
Given that "natural game" is all about the "law of state transference" I thought I'd include none other than an interview with Daniel Goleman.
He's the author of "Emotional Intelligence" and "Social Intelligence".
The guy isn't gonna have the same type of swagger you're accustomed to from an RSD instructor, but I absolutely love how he's drawn so much attention in the mainstream to the concept of emotional and social intelligence.
You'd definitely do well to check this out to be introduced to his work...
So now that you have this as a focus, try to keep it in your head over the coming weeks and see how you improve.
[/b]Anyone have recommendations for courses/materials to actually get better at Daniel Goleman's stuff? I find it so nebulous.
But I figure I need it because even though some people love me, other's fkn hate me (with like a passion lol) and I'd like to be able manage that for work purposes.
Jeffy?
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great shit bro brogan
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Owen, I don't usually comment on your updates but this was one of the most interesting enjoyable ones I've ever seen! Thankyou!
Something that didn't sit that well with me with Emotional Intelligence though was how much importance Goleman placed on early years and childhood. I think it can put the idea in peoples heads that change is impossible or very very difficult. Did anyone else notice this?
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I would have never read the forums...
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Kool Kane
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I like this old saying from Juggler that you should be able to tell a thrilling story about your grocery list. It's not about the content. It's the way about how you convey it largley. Whatever you might think that women are buying into, they buying something else. They don't buy your content, they buying you. They buy your vibe. They like it when you get excited about a topic, because that's how they get to know the real you. And the faster she will get to know the real you the faster she will sleep with you. Don't hold back, not even in bed. Let it all out. She will feel closer to you.
Regarding your Rap analogy, you're right about Lil Wayne. I don't like his music that much (besides the Carter II) and he's a weird drug addict. BTW: LOL! On how you suggest that Baby Birdman was hooking him on Sizzurp. Could be possible... it's all about the benjamins for this guy I guess^^
However, he quit writing a couple years ago. He just spits his rhymes out the top of his head in the studio. Jay-Z do the same, but he's the better lyricist (and the better musician IMO). But not everybody can be Jigga. If you try to be Jigga you start to worry about the things that you say. So, be Lil Wayne instead. Forget the content just have fun and suck the girl in your reality. If you want to pay attention on something in the field interacting with women, than pay attention on the flow instead of the lyrics. I mean by that: express yourself freely
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