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Tyler
 
Hey there!

I've got a new Instagram account up and it's been rockin' over there, check it out!

www.instagram.com/rsdtyler

You need to have an account to see photos beyond the first page, so get logged on, there's some cool stuff in there.

Then SUBSCRIBE!

Anyway ya, just got back from a super intense 2 week trip to the East Coast.

Been recording and recording new stuff lately, challenging myself to step it up and seeing what I need to do in order to take it to a next level.

Stayed up all night cutting this one up for you -- a sick new vid shot on the Brooklyn Bridge.

I've got about 20 new vids shot and I'm psyched to sit in with my editor for like a week straight and get them all chopped up and ready to go, when I get a chance.

I'm also psyched to take my annual trip to HONOLULU HAWAII with Julien in the next few weeks.  We run a Bootcamp and Hot Seat out there every year that people travel in for, and it's out of this world.

Taking a program with Julien and I in Hawaii is one of the coolest things you can ever do, so consider getting on board!

Here's a list of my upcoming events I'd urge you to check out...

July 25, 2013: Honolulu (with Julien)
August 22, 2013: Seattle (with Julien)
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
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ASIA: +81345789305

We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!

COOL UPDATE ON SUMMIT: We've just upgraded it where anyone who signs up this year (starting this year if you pay to attend) are grandfathered into attend any RSD World Summit for LIFE!

FULL LIFETIME PASS! YOU CAN ATTEND AS LONG AS WE ARE RUNNING THE EVENT IN VEGAS FOR YEARS TO COME!!

I get it that this is pretty unexpected and intense, but I felt it was the least I could do for anyone who takes so much time off of work to attend the event, and everyone makes so many friends there so it's a perfect chance to meet up with buddies year after year and reinforce the new skills.

What is World Summit, if you're not in the know?

Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!

If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

Life is short. When an adventure like Summit is available, get on it..

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TODAY'S VID

So on my travels to New York I had a chance to tour around and visit some of my favourite spots.

Today's vid you see me up at the Brooklyn Bridge, and next few are all over the city and Central Park.

The topic?

How pickup can both enhance but also SCREW UP your professional life.

I've watched this for years as every major PUA company has had disputes and splits within their ownership, and been close to the cliff myself.

What did I learn?

That the same immature attitudes of "me me me" that work in pickup DO NOT work in the "real world".

That's the hard part about finding the right people for RSD.  They've got to be narcissistic enough to sleep with literally HUNDREDS of women, but also be really "professional" lol.

DO YOU REALIZE HOW HARD IT IS TO FIND THE RIGHT PEOPLE FOR THIS?

Very very tough.

The lessons that I hammer into my team are contained in this video however.  With these mindsets I've helped them not to implode as so many others in their situations have.

Check it out and enjoy...

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF BENEFITTING FROM PICKUP PROFESSIONALLY, WITHOUT BECOMING A MASSIVE ASSHOLE WHO FUCKS UP YOUR LIFE...



Fun stuff huh?

At the end where I walk into Free Tour -- you can see what a trip it is wake up and run around NYC recording all these vids, then hit up the big Free Tour, then off to Bootcamp til 6AM.

Loooooong day, lots of work, but a lot of fun.

(And rewarding...)

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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VID

I couldn't resist adding in the vid from the first time I ever went to Brooklyn Bridge, which I shot from the opposite direction during sunrise instead of sun set.

This one is facing Manhatten instead of Brooklyn, check it out!



Physical game!

Using NOT going physical to OWN the girl.

Interesting alternative perspective.

Cool shit.

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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK

Good 'ol Stephen Covey in the house again!

"Seek first to understand, then to be understood..."

Here's a fast summary of his "5 levels of listening"-- ABSOLUTELY WATCH.

Notice how in GAME you don't need to do this -- in fact you can just be highly "into yourself" and believe everything you're saying and doing is the shit.

But in PROFESSIONAL LIFE you need to be skilled as fuck with this.

To tell you the truth, without it, you are fucking doomed.

Again:  Watch.



THE MAN.

Hope you enjoyed it, and I'd urge you to regularly re-read his books.

(At least if you want to be happy and rich.)

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THANKS!

So I'm out, hope you enjoyed this....

HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ABOUT WHAT YOU LEARNED FROM THIS VID!!  I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT HOW PICK UP AND YOUR PROFESSIONAL LIFE INTERSECT!

I'll be back next week with more, thanks for reading and watching, and see you soon!

Tyler
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#1
Striver

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1st boom
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Rodrigo

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Owen, Learning pickup fucked up my professional life.. I don't feel motivated to study anymore since I have to do it at least 5 hours a day (from monday to friday), and it's so much more fun to pickup girls and fuck around being a wreck like Alex says. I think it has to do with short term vs long term strategy... anyway, that's something I'll have to work on for the next months.
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QueensBully

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 I saw myself at the free tour at the end. Cool vid.
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FridayNite

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I'm always glad when somebody other PUAS look up to say, what has to be said. Damn it's ridiculous if guys in your lair or whatnot think they gotta be all alpha wolf and egotistical idiots. Gaming their friends and shit. You can do that and see what you can learn from it, but bottom line: It's counter-productive.

You can do that in game, not in business, a serious relationship or friendship. Damn straight!
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#5

Rotundum

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I've battled a lot with this myself. I came from pick-up in to med-school and am now in my 5th year.
Man..I had to change, haha

As you describe it, success with girls doesn't go too well in business.
I changed my ways and learnt by reading many of the books you've recommended throughout the years.

For the longest time I compared my skills to yours Tyler.
And for the longest time I compared my body to people on steroids without being on steroids myself.
This is so stupid and outcome oriented I don't know why I did it.
The steroid guys or you don't have my skills, and I don't have yours. We are all on our own paths and all of them are attractive.   
If you're congruent with your path in life and living it with honesty and integrity you can have it all.

With that said, you can have body building and PU as hobbies but if you avoid your path in life and do pickup instead, you create problems for yourself. Give your path everything. Be a man. Be like Tyler. I must say that your path is a really cool one, one that you've carved out for yourself. But anyone can make their path great.
I think you should make a blog post about this as I think so many guys would benefit from finding their path in life instead of "wasting" 10 years of trying to become pick-up masters. They will never become as good as you because they are doing it as amateurs, not as pro's. It's a hobby for people, for you it's a job. I'd say, go in hard and do this for 2-3 years, learn how to handle girls, grow up and then move on.

I'm so ahead in life because of all the good recommendations you've done throughout the years Tyler
I have myself and RSD to thank for all of this.

Can't wait to follow you and your new self development company
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ambiguity

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First!

Tyler mate, welcome back.

I was starting to think the rsd crew was on a perma vaca.
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Blue x Light

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 ahahhhaa love it..... RSD IS THE SHIT... Thank you.
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sirius

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 I was thinking of this for a long time actually, it is really interesting how these things are totally opposite to each other. Most poeple have one or the other but having both is really hard work.

I didn't really follow RSD that much before but now it got much better. Awesome vid bro.
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#9

rdelrosa

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 Wow great videos brah, 
This is my first post, you became a big role model for me in such a short period of time.
Keep it up I can't wait for what you'll bring next!
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kartman10

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awesome topic about pickup vs profession!  i am traning manager and social skills massively helps me when i teaching co-workers! And also i pick up girls when i out !

love so much what you guys DOing!
No one self development company in world does so interesting fun and high quality material for free! will wait more RSD stuff, Tyler!
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KidCanada

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Cool vid Tyler, loving how you're really taking the time to cut in different clips; it makes me want to travel the world more seeing all this cool shit.

GOING back its cool when I watch the vid of you now vs the "classic vid", I definitely see differences and similarities. I think now, you look like a big pimp, more confident, better voice, and I wouldn't wana fuck with you in a bar if I didn't know you lol! Vs. the Tyler of old, was certainly sure of himself and I know you pimped it but you were more of an "alternative" and a bit further out there kind of guy. It looks like guys used to tool you, but NOW you tool guys. The BIG SIMILARITY though that is AWESOME to see, is that you are ignoring the outside world and kind of have an attitude that what you have to say is super important and you're blocking out everything around you and almost just pumping your own state: saying the shit you wana say. It comes off boss and I see this now AND before.

I found a cool vid from the CEO of Mandalay Entertainment--> search "The Art of Purposeful Storytelling" - Harvardbusiness" on youtube. Although he probably doesn't know about pickup, he still mentions state" and I think what he has to say is super relatable to what you teach. Ultimately, everything comes from inside you, its never about managing an impression.

Enjoy your stuff man! 
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aDANis

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  Great topic.

Can't say say I agree whole-heartedly though.

Maintaining relationships, yes. You cannot be the independent asshole. If you disagree, you'll learn the hard way (losing girls and friends without a clue why).

Being independent is good for building attraction, not so much for keeping. Little doses maybe.

As for relating to business, I like what Oren Klaff talks about with his "Pitch Anything" material.

If you go 4 min 5 sec into the youtube video where Chase Jarvis interviews him, he gives an interesting aspect.

Interesting aspect
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#13

ClawFrankDog

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I have the most crucifying auto piloted job in America. Lol

I sit people to their seats in a high status restaurant and I see a lot of the same girls with different guys come in and out. I have to make my work ethic professional, a friendly and cool impression. I mean, I don't have to and most of the time I don't. I just use the soul to talk. The soul captures ones heart of spirit and transfers over. There doesn't need to be any physicality or logic. It's all funny. Being the soul of one is an autopilot factor where I enhance my game by using the fundamentals of game. I use strategies that I remember but most of the day people are stuck in autopilot and I banish that glazed look and give them the time of their day sometimes maybe their life by just talking instinctively.

Tyler I'm trying to stay out of autopilot during my day by reading a lot before work. I used to go out a lot before work but my self development was just crashing. I would never read before work and never would work out. I do brads workout method he explained a while back. But I do see an amazing lecture of professional work you've done but it doesn't help in my case at all.

I attract every single girl that has a boyfriend/husband/daughter/infinity but I never push enough because my autopilot is to do what's right.

I'm trying to fix something though... My work dealing with people 24-7 is becoming so autopilot that I feel like I'm pushing enough but at the same time I know I'm not. Usually it comes off as just a gay guy but I'm in need of a better direction in my professionalism work ethic to still pay bills while trying to go to college. I'm going out don't get me wrong I am. But for me to pay my bills effortlessly is to become A SERVER at the restaurant. But my motivation lacks job professionalism, if serving just pays the bills and I see so many guys with girls I attract from a heartbeat frequency just by polarizing from a second alpha male eye glance... My motivation is lacking I feel as if that's the problem I'm facing for my game to improve massively. I believe in my self.

What if you were in my shoes and had to see so many people without any action other than opening doors and joking around but no direction to push a set? I mean tonality, looking into the soul of a girl in 3 seconds of meeting her but they have to go because their boyfriend or family is auto piloting through the door to get a table. I know you can help me. I would love to do bootcamps and ect. But I'm payin the bills with so much effort but barely making my mom pay a little bit so I can get by. My dad yells 24-7 at me to be like this and to do whatever it takes to make money but I feel stuck and I'm only 20. If you could do a vid that says what pushed you through college/good friends/early work/going out balancing it all to achieve what you've wanted. Cuz I feel in being pushed around doing stuff I don't want but I am very confident in my abilities to do what I want anytime my want tells me to. I just feel blocked by time.

What did you do 15-20 years old my good soul? Lol. Btw amazing vid. I'll keep watching it a few more times. Have an amazing day and kudos to making it this week!!
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Noronha

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 That´s such a new topic, you need to go deeper in this one 
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#15

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TELL ME HOW TO LIVE TYLER!

Lol so I thought I'd run this by you Tyler as you are a man of the world. Well, your video at the start got me to thinking of getting good with logistics. Because I'm 23 and I've selling warranties on household appliances for 9 weeks. You basically have to get good at objection handling and getting your energy on the right level.

The job does take up a lot of time and energy but I went out a couple of weeks ago for daygame and my energy got me a couple of day 2's which is good for me.

Anyway, I actually start another job at a shares registrar company on Monday. It's close to home and my thinking was I would have inside information on shares for big companies and if I kept my ear to the ground I could make a packet.

I have the option to stay or go. Tyler I could do with a word of advice man. What are your views lol! Greats vids btw.
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Zer0.Point

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The Hawk wrote:
TELL ME HOW TO LIVE TYLER!
that sucks
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Rosco

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Tyler workin that rock star shit strollin into free tour, cool
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Ryan

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Your coaching clips are bomb, dude.
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#19

DiegoRSD

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Excellent video, with this one Tyler is actually whispering in your ear to read the book: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
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#20

AlexV

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 WOW Owen,

Excellent vid! Super useful for all of us haha
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Tyler

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Rodrigo did you check out the vids I created on this?
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#22

taipan

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this video is so simple but yet important for those people out there that are complete idiots haha. just kidding. haha but yeah don't be an asshole, narcissitic and call your friends and business partners dogs haha.

If we are talking business I am more interested in learning how the confidence you get from success with women can be applied to confidence in achiving your goals, determining logistics, and pushing hard to close and get your business started and how you can build a career with those principles.
Never give up until you get what you want, type thing.


nevertheless good distinction game and mainting a working relationship is definitely not the same.


Peace
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#23
ODonovan

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"You want to create drama and make your girlfriend cry and stuff so you can have hot make up sex". Really? Sounds interesting, I'll try it out! Also loved the Covey vid
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Tyler wrote:
Rodrigo did you check out the vids I created on this?
I'm using my cell, and I've found 2 vblogs about it! Are those ones you're talking about? I'm gonna check them out right now, thanks Owen!
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puacloud

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 Thanks Tyler-- I think I asked you about this question too at the SF Hotseat towards the end of day 2-- I think you elaborated about your own relationship with Papa / having to have a mediator for business meetings, etc.. all that is really helpful because my own questions are how to work with other people-- especially in pickup; find good wings.   I guess you have a ton of recruiting experience so I always wondered what you look for in people and how you know if they're a good fit.

In any case, I'll listen to the videos now and offer my feedback again later..  :)

Cloud
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Xandercage

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wanted to share another 'external resource' elliot hulse turned me onto! related to going to the gym-


really wanted to share it with you guys.

i like owen's vid. a lot. i think its important to note that once i get into either pickup or professional mode if i wanna switch back to the other one i gotta put in INTENSE effort. i think my personality develops inertia and my brain resists the change from pickup guy to work guy just because it doesnt like changing realities frequently. it wants everything to be the same as much as possible!
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 The information, combined with the infield footage, footage of the environment, free tour at the end... Awesome man!!!! 
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Gulisos

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It's another Tyler post that come out exactly when I need it.
I intuitively know that game and professional life aren't always going the same way, but here I have logical explanation of it.

The main diffrence tfor me is the same that Tyler point. Game is emotional, self centered, narcisitc. Content doesn't matter, what important is vibe. It's your way or highway, and ultimately fun. Work (in the sense of working with people) is more logical, you have to understand others very well. Content is importnat. Structure is importnat etc.

These are major diffrences. I work in sales, and single most importnat skill is listening - I find that NLP Meta Model is very usefull in getting precise information from client. In pick up it doesn't really matter - you just focus on yourself and your emotion and girsl will be all over you.

Tyler thanks for this video!!
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timeruns

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owen you are the shit!
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Noe

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Really clear concepts in a dense and inspiring format. Thanks Owen!
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awesome
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 Tyler maaan, my whole life I had a deep limiting belief that I couldn't become good with girls until I got out of High School. Because of the whole "pick up industry" I thought I could only become good with girls in FUCKING CLUBS. So around my senior year in high school is when I really got deep into your shit because I could sense you were speaking the fucking TRUTH.

Fast forward 2 years.

For the first time ever, after all my efforts, I feel like I can enjoy life again. I feel like I've reached "normalcy" as Ozzie puts it. Last night I couldn't sleep despite me being tired af. I felt the burden in my heart. All the bad experiences that happened in my childhood were haunting me my whole life. And I was carrying that burden. One by one I layed down and felt all of them come back to me, one scene at a time, and then slowly float away. My heart is a little lighter now. 

I might not have overcome those had I not heard you say when you go through pain, your body at night rewires itself. I wondered last night if I could have ever escaped the past had I not heard you talk about that. I might have just gotten upset that I couldn't sleep and tossed and turned and beat off and went to sleep salty.

Life is good ~

Dammit tyler I can't really put this into words, but you used my weakness of being a pervert and turned me good again, I feel like a kid again. I found jesus.
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#33

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for an illutration of my point look above me you ARE JESUS !!  rofl   how much further are you willing to go?
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Blom10

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 a VERY common sticking point among (successful) guys in the community. Great vid. Love that you adress it
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#35

LongLive

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calling all puas in CAPE TOWN SA... INTERESTED IN STARTING A GANG?
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#36

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Tyler, I would love to know what you have to say about being spontaneaous versus planning stuff in work situations.

I've come from a very non-spontaneous mindset, and learning success with women motivated me to go to the other extreme. At first, It brought me real bad consequences at work, but as I get more and more experiences and maturity, it's awesome to get the best of these two worlds.

There's another concept very appliable to both women and business situations that I found very powerful after balancing it: That thing of "Go strong and calibrate after the fact" versus taking short and safe steps.
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 Holy shit!!! Wish I watched this yesterday. Basically, I got the sack today(no lie) from my new telesales job for being too aggressive on the phones. They told me they wanted people who could softsell. This shit is real and I have to learn from it. You guys better be mindful too....Your pick up persona can fuck you up at work especially with female bosses and collegues. Real talk Owen,  
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#38

tristam15

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 Yo, I felt the title was a little confusing. Professional kind of felt like u were referring to someone who's a professional Pua. 

After watching the video, it was clear. 
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hawky

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And you call yourself 'The Hawk' ?
Please change your name asap..
regards, Hawk~ 
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TELL ME HOW TO LIVE TYLER!
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jaxx89d

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Rodrigo, the more you spend time with pick up, the more you fuck up. I exactly know what you are talking about. I stopped letting go because I didn't accept myself anymore when girls still accepted me. Realize that you want to be smart, sharp, hard working, doing what's right, for YOU, for YOUR life. Girls are always there.
Lessen your pick up times for now, and increase the times you use your brain. It's okay if you come back like you were, but now you know that you are attractive, with or without your looks, with or without your job.. You do it for YOU, to care about what you want to care about.

BTW I think we really could use another detailed video on the topic. Ways to find that balance, and to be able work your brain outside pick up.

Meditation for me was very bad, it didn't help me control my thoughts, it just made me unattached and indifferent. What is making me control and choose my thoughts again is experience. The same way I developped my values before, I am re strengthening them right now, it's taking time, to back up what I let go, but hopefully I will be able to get back to how I WANT (which is 90% of how I was) and more.
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Owen, Learning pickup fucked up my professional life.. I don't feel motivated to study anymore since I have to do it at least 5 hours a day (from monday to friday), and it's so much more fun to pickup girls and fuck around being a wreck like Alex says. I think it has to do with short term vs long term strategy... anyway, that's something I'll have to work on for the next months.
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#41

VGAlan

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 I remember the advice on "the side effects of game" would just not be there; period, which is fine is fine..

To see now that these side-effects are being adressed is awesome, they caused a lot of problems for me and I'm guessing for others aswell... Keep evolving!

Alan
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