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Tyler
 
Hey there!

Just got into Las Vegas yesterday for WORLD SUMMIT!

We've got a great turnout this year, and if you didn't make it I'd urge you to do what it takes to come in future years.

I really should do a proper set of videos about Summit at some point, because it's really the "event of the year" in RSD and people come in from all around the world to experience it.

Regardless I'm having an AMAZING time here and am subb'ing in for JULIEN this Monday as he's the most heavily featured speaker at the event.

He'll likely be posting Wednesday on my usual day, but head's up Julien is shouldering a monster workload right now, so we'll see. I'll push him to get something up though! ;)

(IMO he should sneak in a cam and record something in XS -- one of the best clubs for game in the world.)

Today's vid is really off the wall and you will learn a TON btw.

It's my solution for approach anxiety that's worked WONDERS for me -- I'm psyched for you to see it.

In the meantime I've got events coming up in some of my fav cities, and if you're in the area I'd love for you to come hit me up!

August 22, 2013: Seattle (with Julien)
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia (with Julien)
October 17, 2013: San Diego
October 31, 2013: Phoenix
December 12, 2013: Los Angeles
December 19, 2013: New York
January 2, 2014: Chicago
January 16, 2014: Salt Lake City
January 30, 2014: San Francisco

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
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TODAY'S NEW VID!

So I absolutely love today's vid which emphasizes one of the most critical core strengths in my game.

How to NEVER feel approach anxiety or frustration about rejection, EVER AGAIN! :)

Fully serious, I have very little problem with approach anxiety at all at this point. I get approach "laziness" like anybody, where I'm not not inclined to spend a few hours talking to a girl I see out to get her in bed.

But as far as actually CARING about a girl's reaction to me, that's pretty much non-existant.

This is so much integrated into my game I often FORGET that this is in the minority, and most people who say they CARE about the girls' reaction to them are actually SERIOUS.

I often PRETEND and MAKE JOKES about how I care about the girls' reaction, so I assume guys who get all self defeated are kidding as well.

BUT THEY'RE NOT!! THEY ACTUALLY CARE LOL!!

Sooooo crazy, but I guess it makes sense when you haven't been in the game over a decade like myself, right?

So today I reveal the secret I use to truly not giving a fuck, and how to amp up your emotions with every social interaction.

CLICK the vid and enjoy.



You can see I really hammered hard on the ridiculousness of caring about the girls' reaction in this vid, which I did to burn it into your memory.

As a teacher I'm willing to go to any length to smash the learnings into your head, so this is just one tool of many, aside from razor sharp content and good delivery.

This next video is also critical to absorbing the info so I recommend that you watch it...............

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GO DEEPER ON THIS CONCEPT - CLASSIC VID!

This was another short video where I went on a similar amped up rant, on the topic I mentioned about sex above... "Letting GO!"

Absolutely watch this, it's highly entertaining and features some cool infield footage of a pull of a cutie.



GOOD STUFF! You are now officially GOOD TO GO!!

I also stumbled onto an old Blueprint Decoded video on this topic on Youtube you may want to re-examine.



Apply TONIGHT!!

(Oh ya I forgot, it's Monday since I'm posting on Julien's day. But if there's anywhere to go on Monday in your city, put this into use!)

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RSDN FORUM POSTS OF THE WEEK!

What I learned from RSD (Summary of core concepts -- READ!!)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/490317/forum

Insights after returning after a long bout with cancer, talks an alternative perspective to "losing" ego

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/489909/forum

Thanks guys, and everyone who contributed ACTUAL CONTENT to the forum. :)

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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK

I just stumbled onto a few old Foundations remixes today that I think you'll love. Check these out!!!



LOL I recall another Foundations remix that was pretty sick, but couldn't find it. This one was great though.

I've been working a lot on the newbie site so it's been on my mind. I've been re-watching Foundations in it's entirety as well.

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THANKS!

So I'm back off to Summit to catch up with the crew, and I'll see you soon!

HIT ME BACK WITH FEEDBACK ON THE VIDEO ABOUT YOUR EMOTIONS GOING UP WITH EACH APPROACH! LET ME KNOW HOW IT'S BEEN FOR YOU AND WHAT YOU THINK!!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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Snakeeye

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i get the point, thanks,
great stuff   hahahaha,,,,
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chosen1

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Tyler, please answer my Message to you! :D
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pringles

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 are you taking responsibility for your emotions or are you letting the environment dictate them to you?
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Mario~

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Amazing post like always!

The fact that your state depends on the way you perceive this in the field is genius.
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Dr Destruction

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Love this dumbed down version of the 6 steps, hard for me to memorize that stuff in the field but easy for me to visualize this in real time...

Seattle we up next, and we gonna fucking bring it!
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Jeff Allens Son

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Anyone else crack up at 8:35? LMFAO
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This video was retarded and educational all at once.  I christen this video "edutarded".  (and hilarious, btw. XD)
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Matcha green tea helps me approach
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WardLord

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The girl peeing part was awesome lol .
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 LOL it looks like you did some cocaine right before the video.
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CLove89

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Why does self amusement become more difficult after you've been in relationships a long time?  How do you overcome it?

In my experience girls are always trying to make you stop being so self amused they don't play into it as much as when you first got together.

Any thoughts?
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In the begininng you remind me of the villain in Dirty Harry, maybe it's just the location though ;)
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LongLive

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New note to self... Shut the hell up infield. Get gangster and do Zombie style dance...
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Dr Feelgood

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The main reason you don't give a fuck is because you are going out pretty much non-stop. It's amazing what a 30-day-challenge, or even just going out 10 days in a row can do.

With me, the point where I absolutely don't care anymore in whatever situation, comes around day 15. That's when I will approach the hot chicks standing next to their muscular, tattooed boyfriends, because anything else just seems boring.

Just gotta follow the process: Go out and approach, the everything you described will kick in automatically!
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 hahahah yeah.. awesome Tyler
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 Great video Tyler. When does the ego and a narcissistic way of being cross this line? Does it come to true
awareness mixed with self amusement and having fun?
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CoolWingDude

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hey yey, the beginning reminds me a crazy doctor that doing stuff in his laboratory

See you at the Atlanta Bootcamp, it's gonna be my first and fckin crazy
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 Good stuff man! 

Thanks.
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 Man I thought I had this down but I had to relearn it this weekend. Thx for the vid!
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nondual

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I totally did that "call me" thing with a chick who lives across the street, BEFORE I had seen this video. I did it out of pure intuition...her friend was cursing me off and I was just like "[girl's name]" and she's like "what??" and I'm like "....CALL ME!! :)"
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The Mad Scientist did it again. I want you in Manila Tyler
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originalrudeboy

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Great advice as usual :) I think you should do a video about how to develop awesome improvisational skills since you're really good at coming up with funny things on the fly.
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Lately it's been scaring me that you guys are giving out more and more on point content that's gonna make more dudes better and better, which I feel may be a bad thing (for whatever reason).

But I think I've come to realize that its because of the reference experiences that allows me to filter out the most important aspects. And what applies to me. For instance, the past few months I've been working on having massive amounts of fun. This vid is helping to really hammer it in.

No matter what content is put out, the strong will get stronger and weak will get weaker. Smh..
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That Foundations video>>
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Colt

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 TYLER --


 what the meaning of the title, and what does it have to do with your video ? 
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 I'm a huge chode please help 
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moarrr

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The gangsta approach is outdated, I prefer the nice guy approach... :)
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