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Hey there!

Happy Holidays, I hope Santa gave you all the presents and fun times you were hoping for!

Personally I own everything I could ever want -- if anything I'd like to unload more of my possessions -- I'm sort of a minimalist as far as "owning shit".

I like EXPERIENCES so went to Disney World / Universal in Orlando XMas eve, hit up the Christmas Day Lakers game against the Knicks, and had massive amounts of sex.

I'm also a big fan of KNOWLEDGE so was sure to read a few books on the plane -- most recently "Mastery" by Robert Greene and "The Willpower Instinct" by some hot Kelly professor chick.

I decided to wait til later in the day to post this up so that Julien's new Manifesto could stay first on the frontpage a bit longer -- HOPE YOU ENJOYED IT!

Good Xmas gift for you there from Julien -- MAKE USE OF IT, NO EXCUSES!

I've got a new "Free Tour" video for you today, and here's my upcoming programs for the next few months...

January 3, 2013: Los Angeles
January 17, 2013: Dallas (my first time in Dallas!)
February 7, 2013: Aspen, Colorado
February 14, 2013: Miami Model Season


www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
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Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring.  I believe there are just a few spaces left on the first week of the event -- the rest of the month is sold out!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

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So I haven't posted a new Free Tour video in a while, which is so crazy cause my last 2 Free Tours have been SO GOOD!

Sadly I lost the audio on both of them by coincidence -- which I attribute to poor time and sleep management on my part, which often causes me to make stupid mistakes (like not changing the microphone batteries in one case, or remembering the microphone in another...).

Gotta take the pain of the loss and absorb the lesson and move forward!

The video I have today I think is decent as far as Free Tour videos go -- for sure worth checking out -- but honestly pretty pale compared to the free events I've run recently.

Regardless I'm sure the upcoming Free Tours in Los Angeles and Dallas will be back up to par -- it's pretty difficult to just go in there with nothing in your head every time and let it rip, but that's the only way I've ever figured out as far as creating hours and hours of new content every month.

In the meantime I think there are some very worthwhile concepts in this video as far as how pickup takes you through an "odyssey of the mind" in terms of your entitlement with hot girls.

It's a really crazy topic that I'd like to continue to expand upon in future years, click the video and have a look!



The video also only uploaded in 360 for some reason, maybe Youtube will upgrade it later in the day I dunno.  I considered reuploading it but figured it wasn't really worthwhile for this vid.

To be honest, uploading a video that I think is decent but not up to par right now, it PISSES ME OFF and makes me psyched out of my mind to get into the next Free Tour LOL.

Whenever I don't accomplish what I set my mind out to accomplish it amps me into a psychotic rage, and I always get my mind FULLY ENGAGED and come back super hard.

(I think a lot of guys lack this competitiveness and it's super pathetic!  I don't care what my sons do with their lives, but the one thing I demand is that they have standards and be engaged!)

My goals for free events are pretty high this year, I think I'm going to rip it in ways I've never done.  Within 3 years from now I expect to be FULLY CRUSHING IT.

I'm never thinking 2X as good or 3X as good.  I'm always thinking "How can I make this 100X as good?  How can I make what I'm doing now irrelevant garbage?"

That's another reason I put everything out for free.  I view it like all this bullshit I'm doing is such clown shit compared to the vision I have for the future, I just put this out like a little kid doing arts and crafts.  I want to DOMINATE and CRUSH with this shit -- I don't give a fuck what anyone ELSE is doing, I'm thinking about WHAT'S POSSIBLE.

I have such a clear vision of what I can do with all this, but it's that matter of the decades and decades of consistency, and keeping my mind and body healthy so that I can keep producing.

This is also why I got good at game over the years.  I just want to go higher and higher with it.  I'm not like one of those little bitches crying in their basements trying to get validation from a girl -- I have way too much sex at all times, and the ONLY reason I do this is to CRUSH IT in the field.

The feeling of it is like flying -- like being in a lucid dream.  LOVE IT.

Me doing Free Tours is obviously a waste of money as far as the company goes, because I need to be RUNNING the business not doing a "Free Tour" -- but I love how the more of them I do, the better I get.  It's that growth and expansion that I love so much.

All week I try to build myself and build myself, so that I can go into events and rip them apart.

I'm enjoying teaching pickup stuff for now, but I can feel that it'll come to an end in the next few years.  I'm still loving it because my sex drive has gotten so high (all the weight lifting and healthy eating) but I think as I cross into my later 30's I won't want sex as much and so I won't want to do pickup as much either.

At that point I'll shift my focus to building the best self development content I can build, which I've been accumulating in "the vault" for several years now.  Got a TON of original and amazing stuff -- but as I build RSD and myself more successful, there will be a better "buy in" from the audience as they're able to see what's possible.

I'd encourage you while reading this to consider YOUR OWN goals as far as what motivates you.

The whole paradigm of being a little sad man and focusing on "getting out of pain" is just pathetic.  I know cause I've been there and done that in my early twenties.  Super wack.

Focus instead of massive pleasure -- in my case the extreme pleasure of continuing to grow, have sex with the girls I want to have sex with, and crush it in all respects.

Life is short.  What is pleasure FOR YOU??

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Anyway the upcoming weeks I'm planning to knock out a few of the more advanced video blogs that I've been sort of putting off creating.

A few of them are difficult content (subject matter) to explain properly so I've sort of been putting them off.

But I think I need to get them fully out of my system to move forward and allow the space in my mind to receive the next volley of content.  So gotta get it done!

I've got videos from Maui coming out next week -- on the topic of "Using money and prostitutes to get laid" (for some weird reason I was inspired to record this -- it sounds basic but pretty sick vid) and "Why I've had so many novel experiences" (again another basic vid but the way I explain it is very necessary).

The following week I go into relationships live from Papa's wedding, and talk massive amounts of shit at Disney World while shocked parents cover their children's ears!

HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ON WHAT YOU LEARNED ABOUT ENTITLEMENT FROM THIS VIDEO, AND I'LL HIT YOU BACK!  THANKS!

Appreciate you reading this, and have a great XMas!  I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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#1

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Yay! A freetour clip!
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 Awesome
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 The first 10 seconds was enough for me to pause the video and spend about 5-10 minutes thinking about that. 
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 So, I'm probably younger than most of the guys on here (21) and I'm having a little troubled with the idea of being engaged. I've ran into a block because I'm still too young to have my own business due to the fact that I just applied to Dental School in the summer and am still waiting for responses from some schools to decide where I am going to attend. At the time, I was engaged in studying hard and getting good grades to get into dental school. Now that I have applied, all I really have is the gym and reading books. What piece of advice would you advise a young guy to do to add more things to be engaged in? I'm pretty into the pickup side of things. I had started following it about 6 months ago and slowly started to integrate it into my everyday life. I just turned 21 3 weeks ago and I went to Vegas the first weekend of December and actually got my first lay. I've went out 2-3 times after that trip to bars around in Hollywood and just been doing some approaches, but been denied for the most part. As the new year rolls around, I will be going out even more, but still as a young guy I feel like I should be engaged in more things. Any advice, thanks!

Vinny
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Really enjoyed that video I've noticed it over the last few years how my brain feels like it's rewiring it's self, it's almost like I'm moving upto higher levels of development as weird as that sounds, when I look back at myself 5 years ago it's as if that wasn't really me cause I'm a completely different person now.
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Great video Tyler! And Hahahhaha Jeffy in the background just chillin rofl. I love that man.
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Awesome dude! What I'm really loving about your recent videos is that you take time to summarize everything at the end. It really helps me know the purpose of the video and remind myself of those main points over the next few days so that I can start to slowly internalize them.

Also hope you had fun and learned a lot from Tony's Date with Destiny program. I went to his UPW in NY in April and that really opened up my mind to knowing what I want to do with my life and triage out the things that do not fit it. Would love to hear what the big things you took out of this program were.

Faisal.
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#8

bingobango

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Holy crap ty that "please god i've had enough!" moment came about 2 years ago for me.

It was the final straw and began the journey of finding out why I was getting these painful
endings with girls. Looks like it was the emotional neediness that made me the chode that girls
eventually figured out i was.
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 woah! amazing state of flow at the end of the video, great content-wise, definitely motivated to make game one of the cornestones of my life for the coming coming years. 
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Tyler,

Whenever I watch your videos, they LITERALLY SNAP ME OUT OF DEPRESSION, and I go and accomplish things in life (non-pickup related).
Thank you so much, you have changed my life. You probably hear this all the time, but you have LITERALLY. CHANGED. MY LIFE. from following the stupid med-schoo path to being free.
Please keep making videos, no matter how small, they really do help as a constant snap-back out of the matrix.

"Thank you" does not begin to cover it :)
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LOL... Everytime I watch one of your vids it's like being kicked in the face by a horse!! Then I wake up and it's like..... Okay time to get a fucking move on!
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Tyler

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Everyone is different.

I've been a dominator since I was 9 years old -- making 1K/mo doing several news paper routes.

I always had a hustle, always wanted to be the shit, always wanted to achieve freedom and my personal best.

More important, I always HATED the bullshit life that I had set in front of me by the social norm.  FUCKING HATED IT.

I'd have rather died than do that shit.

So for me, I'd never have to ask what to do.  I can barely sit still.  I want to CRUSH IT.

But if you're a chill guy, then CHILL.

Don't be  like me, be like YOU.  I'd never look at a chill guy whose doing well and want to be chill.  But for him, IT'S THE SHIT.

BE YOU!

Tyler
xgetcrunk wrote:
 So, I'm probably younger than most of the guys on here (21) and I'm having a little troubled with the idea of being engaged. I've ran into a block because I'm still too young to have my own business due to the fact that I just applied to Dental School in the summer and am still waiting for responses from some schools to decide where I am going to attend. At the time, I was engaged in studying hard and getting good grades to get into dental school. Now that I have applied, all I really have is the gym and reading books. What piece of advice would you advise a young guy to do to add more things to be engaged in? I'm pretty into the pickup side of things. I had started following it about 6 months ago and slowly started to integrate it into my everyday life. I just turned 21 3 weeks ago and I went to Vegas the first weekend of December and actually got my first lay. I've went out 2-3 times after that trip to bars around in Hollywood and just been doing some approaches, but been denied for the most part. As the new year rolls around, I will be going out even more, but still as a young guy I feel like I should be engaged in more things. Any advice, thanks!

Vinny
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Tyler

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Makes sense bro.  It's expected.

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iRyan wrote:
Really enjoyed that video I've noticed it over the last few years how my brain feels like it's rewiring it's self, it's almost like I'm moving upto higher levels of development as weird as that sounds, when I look back at myself 5 years ago it's as if that wasn't really me cause I'm a completely different person now.
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Outstanding.  You're getting it.  Go out and attempt to implement.  Go out constantly.

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 The first 10 seconds was enough for me to pause the video and spend about 5-10 minutes thinking about that. 
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Nice thanks, good to hear from you man!!

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Awesome dude! What I'm really loving about your recent videos is that you take time to summarize everything at the end. It really helps me know the purpose of the video and remind myself of those main points over the next few days so that I can start to slowly internalize them.

Also hope you had fun and learned a lot from Tony's Date with Destiny program. I went to his UPW in NY in April and that really opened up my mind to knowing what I want to do with my life and triage out the things that do not fit it. Would love to hear what the big things you took out of this program were.

Faisal.
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We do that intentionally.  May as well keep all instructors' in people's minds.

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The.Rly.Nice.Guy wrote:
Great video Tyler! And Hahahhaha Jeffy in the background just chillin rofl. I love that man.
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Awesome.

Surrender is the key.

I'm not even motivated as much as I am "in a state of surrender".  I FULLY GET IT that not just DOING THE SHIT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DO will result in boredom, entropy, pain, and bullshit.

OTOH if you do the right now, everything goes awesome.

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bingobango wrote:
Holy crap ty that "please god i've had enough!" moment came about 2 years ago for me.

It was the final straw and began the journey of finding out why I was getting these painful
endings with girls. Looks like it was the emotional neediness that made me the chode that girls
eventually figured out i was.
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Nice thanks!

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goldenbird wrote:
 woah! amazing state of flow at the end of the video, great content-wise, definitely motivated to make game one of the cornestones of my life for the coming coming years. 
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Nice bro, and thanks!

If you were considering med school I'm guessing you're a smart and motivated guy.

Be sure to USE THAT INTELLIGENCE AND MOTIVATION to do something else that's really satisfying to you, and gets you the success and resources to do whatever you want to do.

Just dropping out of med school isn't an accomplishment in and of itself, it's what you DO WITH THE TIME that you've gained! :)

Lemme know how it goes!!

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Tritium wrote:
Tyler,

Whenever I watch your videos, they LITERALLY SNAP ME OUT OF DEPRESSION, and I go and accomplish things in life (non-pickup related).
Thank you so much, you have changed my life. You probably hear this all the time, but you have LITERALLY. CHANGED. MY LIFE. from following the stupid med-schoo path to being free.
Please keep making videos, no matter how small, they really do help as a constant snap-back out of the matrix.

"Thank you" does not begin to cover it :)
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Tyler, I just wanted to say thanks for everything.

My parents got devorced when I was three and I ended up living in a negative unconsious reality until my sophmore year of highschool when I read the game.

This is going to sound mushy but you were the father figure that I never had. If you never started RSD I'd probably be a community college playing xbox and smoking weed.

I'm a freshman at an Ivy league school. You inspired me to kill all these years man. You also inspired a whole generation of young men to be the best they could be in every way. You woke us all up and made us realize that we really are the top 1%.

Olivier
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Yusss!! If you haven't read The Book of Not Knowing by Peter Ralston HIT THAT UP!!! =D

Your videos - hands down - are the shit. Was at a free tour recently when you said that rsd nation is the best website in the world. At the time I was like "wtf no way I love xvids" now I'm like "oh i c"

LOL Live life! Love it.
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#22

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 THAT WAS FUCKING AMAZING!! 'Below par'.. Haha. I LOVED the bit about surrender. I notice I keep having things crop up in my life I would get obessed about, normally resulting in having my mind getting caught in a loop and/or being depressed. It could be worrying about an injury or something on the news etc. Eventually I LET GO and relish the freedom, my results increase rapidly and I become more productive. I believe each one is teaching me to LET GO again and again, until I get it. I've got something else that bothers me but I can see myself, my logical self addressing this tendency like a little child. There is more distance between it and me. I retain productivity regardless. I am becoming more icy towards it. I would love you to address this concept more, as more as for me my results do not follow a linear trend. My trend in game has gone from having a bathroom pull and solo travelling world to not getting laid for awhile and becoming very needy to the girlfriend I would have at the time (dependant on if my mind was free or 'hooked' on something). 
I wonder if this is simply a symptom of not going out enough (I do tend to get 'hooked' on concerns when I find I am not pushing myself, as a way of entertaining my mind negatively, or whether there is a deeper lesson containe within. Regardless. Inspirational. I also think I will stop drinking coke haha.
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#23
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I thought it was good I also liked "buy in's" just your brain fucks with you because of status and history and all that. You keep making me out to be something I'm not, and worst of all I keep believing it - lol.
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Tyler do you reach deeper level of inner happiness when you push yourself? You become more grounded in that self-esteem?

I'm noticing that I reach high level of self-acceptance and self-esteem, then I kindove lose it and become a bit needy again.

Does the more I push and challenge myself and become who I want to be, the more I get that self-acceptance happiness grounded? Or is it that you push yourself only for that added pleasure you wrote about.
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Tyler: Sick video! This came at a great time in my life. Thanks.

On the topic of you thinking humans are hierchical.. I think we have the capacity to be both hierarchical and egalitarian.
Looking at American Societies vs. Scanadanvian society is a perfect example.

I believe it's based on the CIRCUMSTANCES we are put under, we express certain attributes (hierarchical or egalitarian). Think of it kindof like gene expression being effected by your habits..

If you look at Scandanavian countries, they tend to be the happiest (based on a scale that random scientist man has made - except the logic behind is solid). Obviously, this is baed on averages. But, they tend to be more eglaitarian.

I think two books I HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend to you (that inter-relate and can explain this topic further), which you may have read:
1. Our Inner Ape by Frans De Waals
2. Collapse by Jared Diamond.

I usually HATE arguing or posting this kindof shit, but I feel I have to make this recommendation because you will actually have an impact. Check them out... we will be more egalitarian, when we have a common enemy. "us vs. them" but the them has to be not humans. Other factors as well!

Calavera
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Great vid tyler, having fun is the reason why we should pick up women. here is a funny vid i found being a chode for self amusement
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-WvvFQ_x9M
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Hey Owen,

I continue to learn from your material that massive action is needed to live to your potential, but after really slamming down the work for a period of time, I being to lose the 'buy-in' to your words, and come up feeling like I was sold a bridge.  So, I wish you would say how long this generally takes a person to step up.  Its frustrating to 'buy in' to feeling entitled as much as you possibly can, and at some point wind up in disbelief.  I wonder if its happening for other guys, and I wonder if I don't have the right goals for me, or have not chosen something that really motivates me.

-Jay
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#28

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 Beautiful video! I can't understand why Tyler degraded it so much in the text. I loved it!
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Legend , cant wait to see your next moves in self development ! Life changer
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I'm surpised you rated this video as average, because it was personally one of my favorites that you've put out.

Totally resonated with the ending, where you delved into your passion for not only the game, but life itself.  
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#31
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LOL thanks, yeah it's more that the last 2 Free Tours were on another level -- this one I felt was really solid, but "more of the same".

I'm always on instructors that if they're not visibly improving, they need to ask themselves WHY?

For example I'll see Julien posting consistently, and be super happy that he's fully consistent, but if I don't see him GROWING in both his delivery and content at a steady rate (which like with game includes "dips" where it gets worse -- but the OVERALL arc should be improving) then I'll be on him about it -- because I know he's CAPABLE of more.

Suddenly you see yesterday, dude has an entire manifesto out for everyone!  Content is super streamlined and delivery is on point.  That's the result of his continual desire and URGENCY to improve!

Likewise if I don't see visible improvements in myself over time, I keep playing with what I'm doing until it gets better.  I've gotten better, but stupidly failed to get it recorded in vid due to microphone fuckups.

This video I think was on point for 2 months ago standard, but where I'm at now it's not representative.  Gotta keep moving forward and building it.

And yeah, this is the EXACT attitude that I've taken for over 11 years in pickup!  That's why I'm where I'm at! :)

Thanks again for the feedback though!!  I see what you're saying, and super psyched you resonated with the vid!  I like the video as well, and overexaggerated my issues with it in the haste of me shooting up the article earlier today!

Tyler
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 Beautiful video! I can't understand why Tyler degraded it so much in the text. I loved it!
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I think in general, for guys coming from a pretty solid background of happiness and friends, improving is pretty steady and fun.

OTOH for guys like myself, who come from depression and isolation, improving is FUCKING HARD AS HELL and you gotta BEAT THE ODDS!

So it depends where you're at.

For me there's no question:  WHATEVER IT TAKES!

But that's for one simple reason -- I DESPISE the norm and find it boring and not remotely enough to get me out of bed.

If I LIKED the "baseball and bar b q's" lifestyle, I wouldn't be the way I am.  I think a lot of people really enjoy it, and I think that's cool as fuck.  For me it's not the case, so I tend to be more intensely focused on doing crazy shit like banging tons of girls and all that!

Ultimately you gotta do what you love!  Figure out what it is, and be willing to do what it takes to get there.  If you're easily satisfied, BE HAPPY and ENJOY that you've got an easy criterieon to meet!  OTOH if you want more out of life, accept this as a gift as well, and go get it!

Tyler
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Hey Owen,

I continue to learn from your material that massive action is needed to live to your potential, but after really slamming down the work for a period of time, I being to lose the 'buy-in' to your words, and come up feeling like I was sold a bridge.  So, I wish you would say how long this generally takes a person to step up.  Its frustrating to 'buy in' to feeling entitled as much as you possibly can, and at some point wind up in disbelief.  I wonder if its happening for other guys, and I wonder if I don't have the right goals for me, or have not chosen something that really motivates me.

-Jay
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#33
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Merry fuckin christmas, put the girl I pulled to bed and logged on to see a NEW FREE TOUR VIDEO! That was moment was comparable to sex forsure, I thought it'd be a way longer wait until the free tour videos came back. 

I thought this video kicked ass, one of the better ones forsure, what i personally like is that it seems like more and more you are starting to hammer down the fundamentals of what being an attractive guy is while acknowledging the particularities of how different guys learn and come into congruence with that. Which is why RSD is so cool, different guys will find the pieces of the puzzle they need in different instructors and ways of processing themselves/the world. 

What I really like is how your personality tends towards the "CRUSH IT, KILL SHIT, GET ER DONE" mentality whereas you got the more "life is detention" frame from Alex, and how depending on where you're at in your life you can just tune into the different content and feed into the frame you feel like you need at that moment. I go through phases forsure, sometimes i need that highly motivated type A edge and sometims I need that care free relaxed touch to stop taking what I'm doing so seriously. 

Love RSD, love the game, and love Tyler Durden freetour videos.
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 Sick!
Good points in the video.
since i started gaming 3 months ago, i have lost a lot of weight and started meditation. Thanks Game!
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 Hahaha so funny! "You go out so you can see you suck shit".

Totally motivating video!

I feel that so much in the social world is trying to stop you from doing what you want like traveling, taking risks and hooking up with gorgeous girls so I really appreciate this positive influence you guys have :-) 

The journey has definitely lead me in similar patterns like finding out that your job sucks and the absurd amount of possibilities. Like in girls for sure and lately been spreading to other areas like job, friends and traveling. 

Thanks for the awesome amount of value! 
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RobbieTeutonic

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Join Date: 04/24/2012 | Posts: 201

 How does someone develop this competitive drive? Like I know I should want to strive for more, and there's so much I want to do, but there's some things I'm not that engaged with when I know I should be.
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martin_ine

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Join Date: 12/27/2012 | Posts: 1

Tyler, you are awesome bro! I accidentally stumbled  upon your youtube videos a few years ago. Thanks to you and the rest of the guys I have improved my life situation /better job, staying fit, reading a lot/. Keep it up, man! I permanently deleted my fb account, finally and I feel that sense of urgency that you have been talking about in previous videos. 
If you guys ever come to my part of the world, I would love to buy you all lunch.
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#38

rsdvasco

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Join Date: 10/03/2012 | Posts: 100

"Where is the proof of the brain re-wiring itself?"
http://www.ted.com/talks/michael_merzenich_on_the_elastic_brain.html
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#39

tsugau

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Join Date: 12/27/2012 | Posts: 9

 "Me doing Free Tours is obviously a waste of money as far as the company goes, because I need to be RUNNING the business not doing a "Free Tour" -- but I love how the more of them I do, the better I get.  It's that growth and expansion that I love so much."

But you do the Free Tour to get more people to attend the event, and possible get them to buy Hot Seat or Bootcamp?

Nothing wrong with that. Just say it as it is.

And btw, is it a FREE tour? I attended a free tour by Julien in Oslo, and the email said we should meet up 15 minutes before for the register, but Julien was exactly 15 minutes late, and no one else did register us. And when the event was over, Julien said he would _ONLY_ answer questions about the Hot Seat. So it was impossible to register. :)

Do you do this at every event?

No big deal. it was worth the deposit. Just be honest.
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#40
Socialist

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Join Date: 12/11/2012 | Posts: 18

 OH SHIT! Another Tyler video! Your videos are incredible man, you always seem to pinpoint whatever my sticking point (in life!) is in the moment. The other instructors are awesome for game, but your videos integrate the very best of self help/self actualization to improve yourSELF.
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#41

lupin3

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Join Date: 10/11/2010 | Posts: 2

Really great video, watching this video and hearing you talk made me realize that a big part of my life I'm always trying to convey value to the people I come across and that it has ruined so many relationships and potential relations with people I come across. It's really sad as well if this insiduous nature becomes wired into your head, you'll turn into a fucken troll who can never feel enough to just relax and be himself.

For that reason I'm going to try and behave more deserving from now on with the sets that I approach (and to the people in my life) which to me I imagine would roughly translate to lots of anger, venting, frustration and enjoying the fuck out of myself. It's a headtrip just thinking about it but it's also exciting and beats the hell out of being such a pretty nice boy all the time.

I don't know if this will be a permant thing (probably not) but I'm definately glad I watched this video because it made this distinction for me and for that reason I'm happy.
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#42
MonkeyMind

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Join Date: 03/04/2011 | Posts: 169

I think we're due a Truth About Success Part 3! :)
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#43
Anthony John

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Join Date: 05/20/2011 | Posts: 132

 I am enough!  I am the man.  Very motivational video, man.  You give a vibrant, strong approach in this one.  Like - Shut the Fuck Up and go Fucking Do It - approach.  I have replaced watching Tv and Movies with you and your fellow instructor's videos and book referrals.
This material and information is making me become the best man I can be.
'Bright or bleak, vibrant or mundane, your life is what you make of it.' - Dr. Lou Holtz
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#44
Ideastools

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Join Date: 12/19/2012 | Posts: 20

 Well,  the intresting part of the video is ''You are emotional toxic little worm'' fantastic video owen love your content always ! :)
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#45
Leo-~

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Join Date: 03/19/2008 | Posts: 244

Hey Tyler, why not make a video on the TOP FUNDAMENTALS you always use these days when you go out and kill it?
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#46
WhiteHeat

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Join Date: 05/23/2012 | Posts: 12

Awesome video, Owen! Fuck all I need is your free tour videos when I need a shot of motivation.

Entitlement is a funny thing. I fucking love it too cause it reminds me that I need to appreciate the little things and have persistance long-term

Last time I was going through a pretty strong succes streak I didn't have sleepless nights but had WEIRD sensations inside like as if there was a tug-a-war in my chest. I mean my overally life entitlement for having sex with attractive women and feeling good went up but because I wasn't 'suppose to have that and feel good about myself it created tension. It wasn't part of my 'life script.' So those good feelings didn't last long, eventually my brain kicked back to equilibrium and those old 'how I should be feelings' It's kinda funny if that isn't prove that you are your own worst enemy in this I don't know what is...

I come from a background of bullshit like a lot of guys constantly being told I was nothing special and useless growing up so unfortunately these self beliefs are chiseled in fucking deep, two and a half decades deep. So when I push and push to do better I get the the tug-a-war feelings, and everytime I get that it humbles me and reminds me just HOW MUCH work needs to be done and forces me over and over to accept it's a process and just enjoy the ride
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#47

Knoxville

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Join Date: 05/19/2011 | Posts: 540

 I always pick up something from your articles that I can directly apply whether its related to pick up or not. You mentioned something along the lines of getting out of unhappiness vs focusing on pleasure. This definitely has been very true for me over the past year. I shifted my focus from "why am I unhappy" to simply gravitating towards and engaging the things that made me happy and eliminated the tangible things that made me unhappy. I remember using the Eckhart Tolle forums and webwanderer mentioned not putting focus and energy on eliminating what makes me unhappy, but simply having an awareness of it. Made a huge difference.

P.S. Would be cool if the text box feature kept any content I have already typed even when I press backspace by accident. 
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#48
Tyler

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Other instructors do same numbers and conversions!

Follow the instructions on the website to get deposit back!!  Read website!  Thanks for coming!

Tyler
tsugau wrote:
 "Me doing Free Tours is obviously a waste of money as far as the company goes, because I need to be RUNNING the business not doing a "Free Tour" -- but I love how the more of them I do, the better I get.  It's that growth and expansion that I love so much."

But you do the Free Tour to get more people to attend the event, and possible get them to buy Hot Seat or Bootcamp?

Nothing wrong with that. Just say it as it is.

And btw, is it a FREE tour? I attended a free tour by Julien in Oslo, and the email said we should meet up 15 minutes before for the register, but Julien was exactly 15 minutes late, and no one else did register us. And when the event was over, Julien said he would _ONLY_ answer questions about the Hot Seat. So it was impossible to register. :)

Do you do this at every event?

No big deal. it was worth the deposit. Just be honest.
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#49
broccoli

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Join Date: 04/29/2012 | Posts: 107

Tyler, you're a winner man. This was a great video. I really think it's more geared to people who know what you're referring to once you have achieved some success and entitlement and you go into Boss Mode or Beast Mode and game is NOT EVEN IN YOUR MIND at all. You're just feeling like a boss, and the girls melt in your presence. Good stuff.
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#50
babylonAD

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Join Date: 04/10/2012 | Posts: 520

 This was cool. From reading the comments though I realized that the way I like to learn and improve is more similar to the way Brad does as compared to you.  I have values and goals in my life and everytime I make steady progression towards those goals I feel amped as opposed to Tyler who has a ravishing need to beat the odds and fuck shit up. Both ways are cool and both lead to vast amounts of success but I like Brad;s mindset because in his paradigm of the world he is both always content and always striving for more.
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