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Hey there!
Today's Dallas Free Tour video needed a few upload attempts today, so gave me a really hard time! That's why it's up a bit later in the day.
Lesson: Always be prepared in advanced. Usually I like to have a few vids uploaded in the cue, but this time failed to execute.
Anyway it's up now, and is a Free Tour expansion on the 6 steps I presented to you last week. I've also included an example of a low key pull into the vid.
(Short bursts as per usual -- and this will be the last for a long time, so if you want to see complete vids and breakdowns along with doing exercises, come to a Hot Seat event!)
I'm off to Miami later in the week btw! Will be there teaching for 5 straight weeks non stop!!!
Here's my upcoming schedule beyond that as well...
February 21, 2013: Miami
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
I've also got that 5th week opening for Miami's Model Season Bootcamp.
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I've now decided to stay a 5th week for Ultra / WMC.
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So today we're going to crack into a new Free Tour video that expands on last week's 6 steps.
I wanted to hammer on this because it's so effective, and the video offers additional insights and reinforcements.
It also begins with an example of how I go from set to set. This is actually somewhat of a bad example in the sense that I'm normally having EVEN MORE FUN in between interactions, but it shows how I'm talking to a hypocritical fat girl who brags of fucking a guy 10 years younger but spazzes out when she finds out I'm doing the same.
The negative energy has no impact (as any negative energy that comes my way in life) and I keep it moving for the pull.
I keep it low key cause it's bar industry chicks who don't tend to respond well to aggressive physical escalation off the bat since they get it all night. Just chat and keep it low key, they'll come and fuck regardless cause they're bored.
Anyway here's the vid, so lay back and enjoy...
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN ABOUT THE 6 STEPS TO A CONSISTENT NIGHT...
Nice. Glad you enjoyed it. :)
I'm now about to fully immerse in recording infield footage with Julien being with me the next 5 weeks, so things should be getting pretty insane.
These clips you've been seeing has been me just screwing around with the new camera team a bit, so I thought I'd throw them out to you as throw away clips. But shit is about to get REAL for anyone attending the Hot Seat.
www.rsdhotseat.com
The Hot Seat is RSD's most raved about event, and it's extremely inexpensive and has a crazy 30 day guarantee, so you really owe it to yourself to get in the loop on this.
Anyway the 6 steps are pretty killer, and like I said in the video, they're well suited to people who find them helpful.
OTOH if you have YOUR OWN system, DO THAT!!!
My system is just that.... MY FUCKING SYSTEM.
You need to take it as an example that may or may not work for you, and most importantly, as an example of a guy who proactively went out and found what worked for him.
If it works for you, absolutely awesome. And if it doesn't, use the same proactiveness and figure out something to your own liking.
Let's be honest: it's not rocket science. Just go out and lot and get it done! :)
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Alright I'm off to the gym, and looking forward to seeing you back next week!
I'll probably do a bunch of vblogs the next few weeks, as I'll record them here in Los Angeles before I leave for Miami. Then hit you back with the Miami vids when I return to LA.
But I'm not sure, we'll see.
PLEASE HIT ME WITH COMMENTS ON YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THE 6 STEPS! WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS? I'LL HIT YOU BACK!!
Thanks for reading and have fun.
I'll talk to you soon!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
Today's Dallas Free Tour video needed a few upload attempts today, so gave me a really hard time! That's why it's up a bit later in the day.
Lesson: Always be prepared in advanced. Usually I like to have a few vids uploaded in the cue, but this time failed to execute.
Anyway it's up now, and is a Free Tour expansion on the 6 steps I presented to you last week. I've also included an example of a low key pull into the vid.
(Short bursts as per usual -- and this will be the last for a long time, so if you want to see complete vids and breakdowns along with doing exercises, come to a Hot Seat event!)
I'm off to Miami later in the week btw! Will be there teaching for 5 straight weeks non stop!!!
Here's my upcoming schedule beyond that as well...
February 21, 2013: Miami
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
I've also got that 5th week opening for Miami's Model Season Bootcamp.
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I've now decided to stay a 5th week for Ultra / WMC.
<>===================================<>
So today we're going to crack into a new Free Tour video that expands on last week's 6 steps.
I wanted to hammer on this because it's so effective, and the video offers additional insights and reinforcements.
It also begins with an example of how I go from set to set. This is actually somewhat of a bad example in the sense that I'm normally having EVEN MORE FUN in between interactions, but it shows how I'm talking to a hypocritical fat girl who brags of fucking a guy 10 years younger but spazzes out when she finds out I'm doing the same.
The negative energy has no impact (as any negative energy that comes my way in life) and I keep it moving for the pull.
I keep it low key cause it's bar industry chicks who don't tend to respond well to aggressive physical escalation off the bat since they get it all night. Just chat and keep it low key, they'll come and fuck regardless cause they're bored.
Anyway here's the vid, so lay back and enjoy...
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN ABOUT THE 6 STEPS TO A CONSISTENT NIGHT...
Nice. Glad you enjoyed it. :)
I'm now about to fully immerse in recording infield footage with Julien being with me the next 5 weeks, so things should be getting pretty insane.
These clips you've been seeing has been me just screwing around with the new camera team a bit, so I thought I'd throw them out to you as throw away clips. But shit is about to get REAL for anyone attending the Hot Seat.
www.rsdhotseat.com
The Hot Seat is RSD's most raved about event, and it's extremely inexpensive and has a crazy 30 day guarantee, so you really owe it to yourself to get in the loop on this.
Anyway the 6 steps are pretty killer, and like I said in the video, they're well suited to people who find them helpful.
OTOH if you have YOUR OWN system, DO THAT!!!
My system is just that.... MY FUCKING SYSTEM.
You need to take it as an example that may or may not work for you, and most importantly, as an example of a guy who proactively went out and found what worked for him.
If it works for you, absolutely awesome. And if it doesn't, use the same proactiveness and figure out something to your own liking.
Let's be honest: it's not rocket science. Just go out and lot and get it done! :)
<>===================<>
Alright I'm off to the gym, and looking forward to seeing you back next week!
I'll probably do a bunch of vblogs the next few weeks, as I'll record them here in Los Angeles before I leave for Miami. Then hit you back with the Miami vids when I return to LA.
But I'm not sure, we'll see.
PLEASE HIT ME WITH COMMENTS ON YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THE 6 STEPS! WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS? I'LL HIT YOU BACK!!
Thanks for reading and have fun.
I'll talk to you soon!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
Comments
Extrasauce
Junior Member
Join Date: 10/08/2011 | Posts: 21
I will be applying this 6 step process tonight.
some key quotes i took from this...
"APPROACH ALL"
"you don't have the rights to the fruits of the result, you just have the right to the action itself. THE JOY IS IN THE ACTION"
"The more you learn about yourself, the more freedom you have in your life to accomplish what you want to accomplish, and you can get what you want out of life.
Zer0.Point
Respected Member
Join Date: 02/06/2012 | Posts: 356
This is my process every night I'm out. This shit is hilarious.
1. Perception isn't reality.
2. I like having fun.
3. The social context isn't a real threat.
4. I have fun, by default.
Your method works great if two really good wings go out with each other. If someone goes out solo and fails to draw himself out of a shitty state, there is NO WAY IN HELL he is gonna see anything funny about getting continuously blown out. So there needs to be that external pressure to snap the guy out and remind him "hey, this is funny." And if you see going out solo as funny - then you're winning all around. =D
Gabrielv10
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Join Date: 06/11/2012 | Posts: 177
Curtis.Slone
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Join Date: 01/23/2013 | Posts: 353
Learn to dilate your pupils on command.
Hamilton
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Join Date: 11/12/2012 | Posts: 137
Question: Do you think the feeling of it all just being funny and no big deal has come purely from going out a lot, hammering away determinedly and being desensitized?
Or does it also come from having bigger stuff in one's life?
Maybe for you, the fact that you have a long-term relationship and kids, and that you have had a near death experience makes any going out issues seem petty, so you can ignore any possible issues and just enjoy it more?
I don't know if this question is actually useful to know the answer to, but I think it is a very interesting subject.
Cheers!
rOrO_thugin
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Join Date: 12/29/2007 | Posts: 637
i just noticed i do go for that self image validation a lot
i get externally validated alot because i have dope ass style and am a good looking dude as well
im deff going to keep an eye on that because i dont want to need something external to control my state
my nights normally start off the same i go talk to chicks and lil by little the self comes through
i get blown out or the sets are just lame but then they get better and better
i still need to work on approaching as soon as i get it in i notice i wait too long !
i know if i start my night early the more chance i have to build social momentum and pull
over all loved it
PeligrosoPoP
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Join Date: 01/25/2013 | Posts: 2
King Pinetar
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Join Date: 03/20/2012 | Posts: 4
TedRex
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Join Date: 11/07/2012 | Posts: 34
My plan is to have fun and take joy out of taking action. Also to make fun of myself, this should help me to keep things light and easy, like saying,"I don't want to talk to them" in a funny voice. That should bring a smile to my face and help me get/stay in a better mood.
I take Alex's approach when out with girl friends and non-pickup pals. I enjoy conversation with them, joke around, drink, and talk to random girls. Being social just flows. However, if I'm out specifically to practice pick-up solo or with a wing it's more of a challenge. I drink a lot less or not at all, plus it often feels (to me) like I'm bothering people, and I feel fake. Not all the time, but I've noticed that headspace creeps in while out. I'm getting better at cutting the negative thoughts, but using a specific social warm-up like you mentioned should be a great help.
1. Open all
2. Minimize time between interaction
3. Never judge myself
4. Have fun
5. Short and sweet early; burn it to the ground later
6. Build on each interaction
Thanks!!
Haze~
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Join Date: 09/19/2007 | Posts: 3536
Vulpess
Junior Member
Join Date: 01/25/2013 | Posts: 4
You said that thing about Alex- that he can just sit at the bar and eventually, he will open out of boredom.
I have the very same thing in a day game. We go out with guys and lately i keep saying to myself "Allright. This time I'll just watch you guys" and every single day it ends up the way that I open some girl just for a laugh, then another, then another and then I realise i am fully on, opening like mad and having tons of fun.
The opposite is in the clubs. Theres too much pressure for me to act cool there. To do similar as in day. So i open a lot, get blown a lot and then I'm just pissed and ready to go home :P I know it sucks and its all about my mindset- one time i tried to prove a friend that chicks in clubs just act like fucking queens, opposing to daygame. So i approach and...i get possitive reaction. I approach more and they still smile and interact. So I'm like determined to get blown and i just can't. It was hilarious but it showed me one thing- its all in my head.
RSD changed an awful lot in my game. I never had so much fun doing so little, coming totally unprepared to a girl, even getting blown is funny for me now. I am doing really sick shit (sick in my oppinion that is, shit you do is just unreal :P) and that a lot thanks to videos of you and Julien. Awesome job guys.
And by the way. I am still waiting to see Poland on your world-tour map!
Regards,
Vulpes
power_level_over9000
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Join Date: 09/04/2010 | Posts: 831
Fuck_taxis
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Join Date: 02/07/2013 | Posts: 27
Falc
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Join Date: 11/26/2011 | Posts: 820
What's really cool about your material and Alex's is that it's different outer game for the same inner game results, they work differently for different people. Where I disagree with you is that your stuff is for introverts and Alex's stuff is from extroverts, I think that's an over-simplification and can even be a limiting belief in the sense that introverts feel that they have to approach in rapid succession to feel conversational. I definitely know a few introverts (myself included) that find the minimize time between and open all rules too stressful in terms of the pressure required to continually take that level of action, and I find that if I set it up as a "rule" (ie. get mad at myself when I don't follow through) it's such a mood killer it's ridiculous.
Looking forward to more Hotseat material from you and Julien! The last one I went to was amazing, and one thing I can definitely say is however it is that you "get in state" you looked like you were having the fucking time of your life in basically every clip.
Falc
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Join Date: 11/26/2011 | Posts: 820
What's really cool about your material and Alex's is that it's different outer game for the same inner game results, they work differently for different people. Where I disagree with you is that your stuff is for introverts and Alex's stuff is from extroverts, I think that's an over-simplification and can even be a limiting belief in the sense that introverts feel that they have to approach in rapid succession to feel conversational. I definitely know a few introverts (myself included) that find the minimize time between and open all rules too stressful in terms of the pressure required to continually take that level of action, and I find that if I set it up as a "rule" (ie. get mad at myself when I don't follow through) it's such a mood killer it's ridiculous.
Looking forward to more Hotseat material from you and Julien! The last one I went to was amazing, and one thing I can definitely say is however it is that you "get in state" you looked like you were having the fucking time of your life in basically every clip.
choochoodetrain
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Join Date: 08/09/2012 | Posts: 29
ary
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Join Date: 11/18/2010 | Posts: 7
your the first person that helped my inner game issues ..
from blueprint decoded and since than i watched you r video always
thanks for what you did
aram
myrwy
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Join Date: 11/03/2012 | Posts: 25
This video comes at the right time for me, thanks.
tommy_7up
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Join Date: 11/06/2011 | Posts: 23
what the fuck is up with me ? im burning with jealousy watching stupid guys pick up girls.
bingobango
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Join Date: 08/27/2012 | Posts: 257
i can relate to all of it.
when i piece together all your concepts and realize how you internalized all this shit
to where its ingrained in your core, i cant help but think, wow, this guy tyler must live a pretty
kick ass life. not because of money, or sex or the tangible things (as those just follow as a result), but solid inner foundation you've managed to build. thats pretty kick ass. the ability to walk through life like a boss, regardless of the circumstances.
ps. i got girl, yeah! oh no, now i fear losing her. (lol, man i sure can relate to that shit, its disgusting)
Graham28292
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Join Date: 11/15/2012 | Posts: 19
Ronn Paul
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learnRSD
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d3tale1
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Join Date: 01/13/2011 | Posts: 34
Great seeing you at the W. Fucking epic to see a so-called "sick" guy be as "on" as you were.
Lately you and the rest of the boys have really been getting closer and closer to becoming more "natural."
More often than not it felt like all the stuff I was implementing before was just "gamey" tactic-style stuff.
... come to think of it, maybe I'M just becoming more natural at this... thoughts to ponder.
I'm sure you knew this but saying "go talk to those 4 girls and just be social" was subtle but VERY powerful in driving that message home. I'm sure you can be harsher and more critical with n00bs though what I got from you that night was just very nurturing.
See you around ginger-molerat.
Ideastools
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Join Date: 12/19/2012 | Posts: 20
Vulpess
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Join Date: 01/25/2013 | Posts: 4
I went to clubs tonigh, met a guy i knew from pu forums. All i wanted was tho watch him. No opens, nothing. So i sat there, watching and...i got bored! So i said hi. And it started :P I couldnt stop. Opening like mad. Talking girl into sex, dancing, trying to make out, making chicks kiss each other, calling them drunk and pushing away from me. It was insane lol. I love it! I didnt have a single close this night, i didnt take a single number but i kept pushing it like mad andi had an awsome, awesome night! Even girls that blew me away, made me laugh and in return, i made them laugh by saying like "Oh you can be more rude, i know! Yeah! Thats it. Now hit me! Insult me!" And after a while she just couldnt hold poker face and burst laughter :P
Man, RSD is insane. It blows my mind how simple a pickup can be and...how damn fun it is! I just walk around having fun and it all goes well, no matter what happens, im in such a mood that i can twist the shit and get even more positive.
Now lets focus on closing :P
Love yours and Juliens stuff. Its insane, changed my life :)
Vulpes
Tyc
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Join Date: 03/31/2012 | Posts: 23
Good follow up video and I liked the funny bootcamp anecdotes.
Nj
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Leonidasrx
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casablancas_is_back
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mistermgmt
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Join Date: 07/30/2012 | Posts: 99
Oh, that thing you said in the end: "Self-knowledge and noticed your behavior patterns. Seen the failures and succeses, you learn about yourself. The more you learn about yourself the more freedom you have".
I would love to hear more about that.
ace01
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Join Date: 01/14/2013 | Posts: 23
UtternKlas
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Join Date: 08/03/2012 | Posts: 3
Awsome content too for that matter.
Your energy in the video really makes the content feel real, asthough you'r really living what you are talking about.
Nice one!
Been thinking about going to LA latley, hope to see you live if I do :)
BILLION
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Join Date: 05/12/2011 | Posts: 13
ouiNapoleon
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Join Date: 02/18/2011 | Posts: 58
Have to say, WORKS FOR ME.
And the biggest benefit is this: I enjoyed the night so frikken much. And it just kept getting better.
As I was working the entire day, right until half an hour before hitting the club, I was in NO way in a social mood.
Started talking to people, just acting as I felt, and without the anxiety of any outcome, I could just ease in to my more social charismatic self.
At one point I started to make out with a girl (<1 minute) in such a fun, free, careless way. No ego, no outcome, just WOOSH.
I felt that - FOR ME - it was key to really just go with what you feel:
Instead of "don't judge yourself", I felt it was more like "accept every feeling, soak it up". Which I guess is pretty much the same thing.
I didn't think much of your steps at first, but damn, THANKS FOR THIS :D
Makes going out that much more of a pleasure.
Gonna keep on following these steps for at least a month. Will be fun!
Frans
TheDuve
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Join Date: 07/22/2012 | Posts: 75
Have you dropped unstifling at the start of the night from your process?
I found it helpful for not delaying the first opens.
Thanks
Jmo8
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Jmo8
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major10
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alamarish
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blokeman
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This seems to me to contradict what both you and Julian teach in other videos. You yourself teach that we should not rely on "external stimulus" or "titillation" for state, but instead, should learn to draw our state from within -- from being the man we want to be, living the kind of life we want, and through practising meditation. Similarly, Julian says that we should "addict ourselves to a lower level of stimulus," so that we can amuse ourselves with anything -- so that we can find anything funny and, thus, become able to utilize the simplest and most mundane things as sources of state. In accordance with these teachings, I'm inclined to view music as "titillation" -- as relatively high-level stimulus that we should NOT rely upon for good emotion. I view it as entertainment, as auditory titillation, as something that could easily become a crutch that we rely upon for state, losing our productivity in life as a side effect. That is why I tend to heavily limit my own indulgence in music. It's not like I don't have plenty of productive activities through which to better my life rather than sitting back and titillating my brain with music. And I'm sure the same is true for a man like yourself.
However, I do allow myself music at times. One example is during my breaks from studying -- I use David DeAngelo's "50min-on-10-min-off" work rhythm, and during the breaks I often use music to disconnect my brain from study mode. I also sometimes binge on music on the weekly day off that I often take. But I am indecisive on whether this is recommendable or not, and whether it wouldn't be better to practice something like meditation (in addition to my habitual daily 21 minutes) or some useful flow-state activity different from work/studying, rather than the auditory titillation of music, in order to unwind.
I would love to hear your thoughts, or those of other advanced guys, on this.
WalkingPimpness
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Join Date: 03/01/2013 | Posts: 11