Hey!

I've been working all day to slam out the next several months worth of videos and have to wrap this one quick, but I wanted to maintain the streak of releasing frontpage content on Wednesday's.

So we'll keep this one short and to the point.  But I think you'll love it.

Before cracking into it my upcoming LIFE CHANGING programs are...

May 17, 2012: Austin (taught with Julien)
May 31, 2012: Atlanta
June 14, 2012: Seattle
June 28, 2012: Philadelphia
July 12, 2012: Denver
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Julien)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com ./ www.rsdbootcamp.com

If you're considering doing Austin in order to learn from both myself and Julien on Hot Seat or Bootcamp, I highly recommend it as it will be one of the rare times we teach together this year.

Here's a story from last weekend's Boston BC we did together which reveals a lot of what it's like...

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/225006/forum

And here's a third party rundown of what goes on at a Tyler/Julien Hot Seat, emphasizing what it's like to have us both there as well.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/220509/forum

These are programs we've put years of polish and effort into making value loaded powerhouses for you.  If you're in Texas or feel like visiting Austin DO IT FOR SURE!

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Alright so today's video is super short.

It's on the topic of  what to do if you're a hard case newbie.

What is a "hard case" newbie?  It usually means you have one of the following issues.

1- Depression

2- Severely low self esteem

3- Ongoing low level (or high level) social anxiety

4- Betaness / meakness to the point no girl could view you sexually

5- Being so "stuck in your head" that you weird people out

Growing up I had ALL OF THESE to the point that it defined my life.

And there was one key understanding I had which allowed me to rise above all of it.

That's right.  There was one single insight I "got" that 99% of other "hard cases" fail to understand, that made the difference between me going on to gain success where most others like me miserably failed.

CLICK THE VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER WHAT IT IS.........


Surprised that that was the secret?  Admitting that you SUCK SHIT??

LOL well that's honestly what it was.

Today's hard case newbies are typically (not always, but typically) a spoiled bunch.

They read success stories from relatively "normal" guys and think they're going to gain similar success at a similarly fast rate.

They're not.

Being a hard case newbie is like being a hard gainer in the gym.  If you start out at 110 pounds and think you're gonna get jacked easily, you're delusional.  It's going to take a higher degree of effort and willingness to apply yourself to get the results that you want.

Is this a big deal?  FUCK NO.

Frankly if you're a hard case newbie you should take this as a sign that you need to work hard at this for BIGGER REASONS than just getting laid.  The fact that it's hard to put your dick in even an ugly girl should be the ""canary in the mineshaft" that you need to get it crackin' hard fucken core.

As a newbie I always expected absolutely nothing.  So I was ALWAYS IN A GREAT EMOTIONAL STATE and fired up about every little cool result I ever got.

A short convo with a cute girl?  I was psyched.  A phone number that flaked?  I was blown away I got any number at all!

I had a student in Vegas recently who had a hard time even so much as crossing from one side of a hallway to another.  He was stuck in his head and submissive to the point that even walking was confusing for him.  Then as far as opening conversations he'd be twitching from social anxiety as well.

He was getting down on himself as if he was expecting more.

I asked him:  WHY??!  WHY WOULD YOU EXPECT MORE?!?!

DID YOU THINK YOU COULD HAVE THESE ISSUES AND JUST COME IN AND GET LAID??

He'd been on a BC a few years ago but gotten too busy to follow up.  Irrelevent, this shit is a muscle, gotta keep going.  He had fully regressed.

I persuaded him to admit he sucked and realize that every little progression is a victory.  And to be HAPPY about it.  He did a great job of following this and would report to me the small things that were going well in every set.

And guess what??

HE GOT LAID.

(Quoted from this recent review just to hammer the point: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/218418/forum)

"My Vegas Bootcamp highlights>>>>>

- Making out with random chicks in top Vegas clubs
- Trying Tylers ‘no talking’ approaches which led to me dry humping with a chick against a wall without saying a word to her
- Fingering a girl on the dance floor
- Pulling two sisters back to their hotel room and fucking one while her sister was laying right next to her "

Why did this happen for him?

Because he was no longer IN RESISTANCE to being a "hard case".  He simply accepted it which allowed him to be excited about anything cool, and then BUILD UPON THAT SUCCESS.

Rather than sabotaging himself by being a CRY BABY who whinges and moans about why it's not getting instant results, he found happiness even in short convos and then built upon that success.

HE CHANGED HIS FOCUS.

So his emotions were building and building, instead of getting more and more frustrated at not being some super pimp, and eventually he became loose and cool like any NATURAL COOL GUY.

If you're a hard case newbie.....allow yourself to DO THE SAME!!

Anyway I'm out of here and I hope you enjoyed the short video and article.  In the pipeline I have...

-Tyler and Alex vBlog outside the Washington Monument (40 mins long!)
-Phoenix Free Tour (finding your strengths)
-Vegas Free Tour (advanced ideas about stimulation and validation)
-Washington Free Tour (how yesterday's paradigm shift becomes today's gimmick)
-Boston Free Tour (Julien and myself up on stage at the same time talking massive shit -- hilarious!)
-Boston vBlog on how to grow up and come into your own

(They're all cut and ready to go.  Simply gotta get them uploaded as they take like a day or so respectively, due to the resolution and size of the files.)

I'll also be shooting videos with Julien while he's here in Los Angeles and then a few more videos in Austin in 2 weeks.  Which btw if you're in Austin I'll see you at the tour!

Thanks for reading and have fun!!

Tyler