Hey so I'm flying to Philadelphia right now, gonna post this as soon as I land. I've got 2 new videos today I just shot in Seattle I know you're going to love.

If you're in Philly you'll definitely want to make it out to my first ever PHILADELPHIA FREE TOUR event at 7PM later today (Thursday) as it's gonna be THA M'FKEN BOMB!

Todd will be with me as well and we'll be dropping a ton of high level knowledge on everything we've been up to as far as picking up girls, developing yourself, and social dynamics in general. It's gonna be an EPIC JOLLY time!

The other dates I have coming up are as follows...

June 28, 2012: Philadelphia
July 12, 2012: Denver
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Julien -- come out to this and chill in Hawaii!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

Definitely make it out to these events if you're able to as they've just been getting better and better, and my BIG TOUR of the states and doing live event is soon COMING TO AN END.

Get on it!

I'll also be shooting over to Las Vegas from August 19 to August 25th for the once a year Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!

It's gonna be as absolutely incredible as it's been every year, and pretty much everyone who goes says it's the best thing they ever did. Imagine killing it in Vegas with the whole crew -- everyone's partying, pulling hot women, and learning a ton.

(Imagine a full on ALTERNATE REALITY that lasta a FULL WEEK! It's an intense immersion you will carry with you for the rest of your life.)

www.rsdworldsummit.com

I'll see you there!

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Okay so I had a pretty epic weekend in Seattle and learned soooo much about game as has been often the case this year, and i figured I'd drop some knowledge on you today about one of my major focuses while I was out there......

BUILDING MOMENTUM THE "RIGHT WAY" AS OPPOSED TO THE "WRONG" WAY.

(btw as I write this the sun is rising in the East Coast over the clouds. It's pretty beautiful sitting here in the window seat at 5AM.)

So most people think about "building social momentum" as far as putting themselves "into state".

They go around wanting girls to be NICE to them and run around on a VALIDATION FREE-FOR-ALL hoping to suck enough good emotions from various groups to sponge up a positive vibe, and THEN they'll be able to pick up and sleep with a hot girl.

This approach is obviously pretty messed up an ineffective, and this video explains why.

The idea I'm talking about here was something that Julien really hammered into me, so I give him a lot of props in it and include a lil burst of infield footage of me and him winging in Los Angeles to hammer home the point.

CLICK RIGHT HERE TO BE WHISKED AWAY TO BREATHTAKING SEATTLE AND WATCH TYLER AND JULIEN BUILD MOMENTUM IN THE FIELD FOR ABOUT 3 SECONDS, AND THEN BE WHISKED AWAY TO SEATTLE YET AGAIN...


(btw for you guys at the Hot Seat bonus day who saw me literally run out of the room for 20 minutes while that last video played, this was what I shot!)

Anyway I hope that that cleared up a LOT for you.

I think that if you maintain this focus, and put your energy towards LOVING the process of TAKING ACTION that you're going to see a massive surge in your reesults.

Now when I say a focus on this, I mean that exactly.....spend some time putting some FOCUS onto it!

That weekend in Seattle I made it my focus and was pulling every night. The students had wanted to see what "ONS game" looks like so I basically showed them (even brought them to the girls house the first night -- super weird, and yet SO FUN! And didn't cause problems at all. Fun demo times!)

The analogy I mentioned at the end of the video as well, about watching how GIRLS DANCE, I think that that's extremely valuable.

Take a good look at how the girls are taking so much enjoyment at THEIR OWN ACTION.

They're completely taking responsibility for their own good emotions, just drawing it from the music and the way they move.

Sure, sure, they also get a lot of validation, so it's a little easier for them than us. BUT THEY'RE GIRLS.

You're a GUY.

You have a lot more testosterone and ability to go balls to the wall, so take responsibility for BUILDING YOUR OWN GOOD EMOTIONS and don't go around wanting the girls to offer you anything. Simply take enjoyment IN THE ACTION ITSELF.

Going around and hitting it up IS TAKING ACTION. Therefore it's fucken sweet. LOVE IT.

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So I also tend to shoot at least 2 video blogs in any city in case I don't like one of them, since I know I may not have the chance to go back.

Recently in Atlanta I posted both of them, and this week I figured I'd do the same, since this art gallery where I shot it was pretty cool.

The topic is "Pattern recognition and learning from EVERY night you go out!"

This has been on my mind since reading the book "The Talent Code" by Daniel Coyle, which talks about the process by which people learn. It's in the same vein as "Mastery" by George Leonard but has it's own amazing angles, and I highly recommend you check it out.

Anyway I'd been on quite the rampage lately, and yet in spite of that, it's had a lot of both failures along with the success. And I can HONESTLY say that with both each failur eand success, I've learned a TON.

It's all about RECOGNIZING THE PATTERNS. Realizing what's going on, and making the correct decision in the moment.

Recording this was a lot harder than it looks btw, although I hope I make it look easy. I'm dodging past security who will likely kick me out if they see the camera by keeping it low to my body, then later making up excuses on the fly about looking for my girlfriend when the building is about to close. All the while talking while I grab my bags.

For some reasosn I find it like a fun hobby to do this, which sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. In this case it worked and the video came out pretty cool, and has some good topical content, so check it out!

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER THE WAY I LIKE TO BREAKDOWN THE DIFFERENT "PATTERNS" I'M SEEING ON ANY GIVEN NIGHT, AND LEARN FROM THEM SO I CAN EXPONENTIALLY BUILD ON MY SUCCESS IN THE FUTURE.


Cool so I hope what you got from this is that EVERYTHING is a learning experience.

When I'm always hammering on "go out a lot!" it doesn't mean to just blithely go out and bash your head against a wall that won't break.

Rather it means to go out and at then AT THE END OF THE NIGHT (not during game time!) look back and analyze what happened through the lens of what you learn here at RSD! :)

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Alright I'm out!

Hope you enjoyed these and let me know what you think about the PROPER way to build social momentum, and what experiences and how you've learned from them!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Have fun!

Tyler

PS:  You know what I'm going to say here....RESIST THE NEED TO BE "1ST!!"  Or "2nd!  Or 3rd!"  You've been doing so good!  Keep it going, I know it's hard! :)