Hey back up in here.  Just got off of a month long tour with Jeffy through San Francisco, Los Angeles, Chicago, and New York.

Then I hit up the Eckhart Tolle event in Maui for a week to relax.

Voice is shot up to hell.  The Austin and Atlanta events leading into the USA tour and then the corporate events stacked on the weekdays between was WAY OVERKILL.

Regardless I learned that 1) I can pickup girls with nearly no voice, 2) I can pickup girls with a ridiculous beard.

Like you read the reports of me doing my thing in the BC reviews and this is VOICELESS.  Totally insane.  I don't make excuses I just go go go.  Hit the club and see the hottest girl -- get up in her face even if I can barely talk.

Irrelevent.  No excuses.  Take the blowout or get the girl.  Whatever, the students learn regardless.  I did some pretty crazy shit.  Crazy how girls will get down with a dood with no voice and a ridiculous beard.

Cool stuff.  I recorded a video during the midst of all this right before the voice crapped out.  I actually woke up early to catch the sunrise because the lighting would shoot into my friend's apartment and looked amazing on camera.

BUT.  I missed the sunrise.  Like an idiot.  Failure to execute.  Excuses are excuses, but at the end of the day the video looks a lil weird.  Oh well.  Something is always better than nothing.

The video content itself is............TOP NOTCH.

I doubt most people who watch it really see the subtleties in it.  They're probably like "Oh cool..." or whatever.  But if you actualy follow what you see in here, your results with girls will change pretty drastically.  This shit took me years to figure it and it's as potent as anything I've ever put out.

(It's on the topic of the 20 minute lockin period, the secret reason that congruent communication gets you laid, and how to cultivate the strengths in your personality.)

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW AND ALL WILL BE REVEALED.  WATCH THIS A FEW TIMES IF YOU GO OUT REGULARLY BECAUSE IT'S AN IMPORTANT ONE.



I actually considered re-recording the video with proper lighting in a different environment, as I tend to be a perfectionist.  I actually scrap about 2 videos out of every 3 that I record.

Then I realized that there was something unique in here.  In the video you can actually see me "warming up" from the 7AM that I'm woken up on the 2 hours sleep to around 7:20 when the video is done.

Initially you see me struggling to think of what to say.  Then as I keep talking and talking I ease into it.  This is pretty similar to how I look in the field except that it's over 4 hours and it just gets better and better.

YOU can do the same.  TRUST IN THE PROCESS THAT YOU WILL BECOME SOCIAL.  It'll happen for you.

Total self trust.

Oh and btw....  Brad Branson has just created a brand new article on his blog which comments on this video.  Check it out soon as you're done reading this one...

http://www.bradbranson.com/how-to-be-congruent-explanation-examples-and-action-plan/

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Funny enough you'll tend to come back to concepts in circles as you progress in this shit.  It was only when I thought about it that I realized I'd stumbled onto a similar epiphany on the last massive rampage in South Beach earlier this year.

Check this out...

This video watched in tandem with the previous is a siiiick one two punch to hammer this in.  And this video is pretty epic (and properly lit LOL).



Interesting that it's a similar idea but from a different angle.  I'm focusing on how just going in with "freedom of outcome" in the initial warmup helps you later in the night.  But in the Chicago video I'm calling it a "20 minute lockin period".

They both accomplish the same thing, but I have so many game ideas as I hammer it out everynight I can't remember them all, and so wind up reinventing shit by accident from other angles. :)

Regardless I think they add onto eachother nicely.  I also like the focus on emphasizing your strengths in the Chicago vid.  Try all this and let me know what you think!

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Anyway the brain is still a lil broken since getting back.  Even the week in Hawaii hasn't totally recuperated it after the 7 weeks on the road.

It's funny because most people work hard so they can take a week in Hawaii.  I take a week in Hawaii so I can come back and work with a clear mind.  It usually takes about 2 weeks with a lightened workload to see the return of complex thoughts -- until that point I just sort of have regular thoughts.

All I really like doing is RSD and spending time with my kids.  Everything is really centered around RSD.  The reading, the meditation, the gym, the diet and anti-aging, the 7 nights a week pimping, the meeting of high quality people, etc.  It's so I can be in that one moment up in front of a Free Tour or Hot Seat or Bootcamp and just KILL IT.

Everything else is boring to me because it's like the volume is turned down.  I live for the peak experience of fucken killing it.  What can I say?  This is my passion and love.

Look at Kobe Bryant up in this video.....



Do you think this man gives a fuck about taking a week in Hawaii?

The shit is irrelevent.  He wants to be streamlining his craft, ripping it, dunking on fools, winning championships and being the shit.

Kobe has pros and cons in his game and can be a ballhog.  But dood's "RAS" is attuned to victory and victory only.  I copied this from him in life and in game.

It's crazy because as you get older you get everything you want and your life looks like a rap video.  I got it all basically and I'm nearly numb to external stimulation.  It's crazy how people spend their lives chasing this shit because it's really only temporarily gratifying.

But hey, go get it.  I did.  You should too.

It's not really that hard.  Just focus and work non stop for like 5 years and you get everything.  If you use your head and continually strategize and have no fear.  I think you should really have no fear, even no fear of dying for what you believe in because death is inevitable and better to go down hard then go down as a lil bitch.

Definitely you should have no fear of hard work.  Just do it smart though, just because you're working hard doesn't mean you're getting ahead.  I'm pretty smart about all this and shit think about it constantly.  I actually think it's funny that people think I'm motivated because it's not in my reality that anyone is any different.

(Watch this for sure if you haven't seen it......Tim forwarded me this the other day, it's bomb and explains what I'm saying perfectly.)



So yeah maybe once or twice a year I spend time around people who aren't like this, and I think they're kidding.  Like I'm growing this ridiculous beard right now as a joke and I'm kidding.  I think they're doing it as a joke like imitating people who are sleeping through their lives.  It's weird that people are actually like this but I don't judge it at all, because I was blessed with a lot of impediments which helped motivate and shape me into a focused dood.

The focused get more focused, the unfocused become dead to life.  My focus is good but I think it's maybe 5% of what it could be.  I think I'm actually a pretty big clown and eat shit compared to the vision of where I know I could be at, but I'm doing good for 32.  I thank God every day for the courage to go after my dreams and not be a full on lil bitch, and the strength not to succumb to instant gratification or short term pleasures.  All I want to do is the right thing.

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(Here's what I'm listening to as I type this btw.....)



So talking about leveraging your natural strengths, I've been thinking a lot about what type of business I want to run in the next few decades.

I have a good structure for a 100 million dollar business and think I could do it pretty straightforward, but it involves crossing into the mainstream.  I realize this sounds a lil over the top but I know the self development industry inside and out, like as well as I know pickup -- it's a 13 billion dollar a year industry and I grasp the subtleties and levers of what makes it work as wel as anyone in the world.

The mainstream is REALLY ANNOYING though.  I actually put out material that's a lil deliberately confusing because I like to screen my students.  I love this shit for the genuine transformations, and that takes a certain type of individual.

Going into mainstream media means having to frame things in a way the masses can understand.  Yeah I know how to do it but it's not really my passion.  I don't really relate with the masses anymore because they choose to stay plugged into "group think" at the expense of the quality of their lives (and the lives of their families and friends, society, etc).

My real interest is living a life that's in alignment with my core purpose -- whatever God wants me to do.  If God hasn't instilled in me the desire to teach the mainstream then maybe I should just keep doing what I'm doing, cultivate it further, and maybe the material will be better understood after I'm dead.  I'd be absolutely fine with that -- especially because I'll go pretty big regardless, just not crazy huge like I know how to do.

Or if I want to do media just do it in my own way and be unapologetic about it.  This would result in people really misinterpreting what I have to say but the people who are ready to see it would see it no problem.  That's likely the best solution although again it messes up my privacy which makes it harder to pimp.  All I really like doing at this point in my life is game and teaching game so this is so hard to imagine right now, but my views on it may change as I get older similar to how a kid no longer wants to play with toys.

My love for game could eventually translate into teaching huge audiences, so I could maybe get the fix I need from that.  Then I could go to South America to game as the odd vacation here and there, where people don't know me.

I think a lot about all this because if you don't have a gameplan your mind will put up success barriers.  I'm in this for the long haul and to the death, so I'll probably just take my time and keep hitting up the RSD thing til around 35 or so and then spend from 35 to 55 or so hammering on the next biz.  Probably expect to hit the first big peaks around age 45 and then really hammer hard on it around 55 or 60.

You can probably see I'm tired out of my mind as I'm typing this.  I use this blog as a personal journal because I hammer so much content in the videos regardless, so just noting down where my head is at at 32 years old.

Do you find any of this a lil crazy?  All good.  It'll make it more interesting to watch.  Self made individuals who have a lot of success do tend to think like this though, sorry to tell you. ;)

(You've also gotta understand the sheer exhaustion of what I do, when your cortisol is that high and you feel like you have nothing left you have to find ways to stay focused.  You need to see a bigger picture that's aligning you to do what you need to do.)

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Funny enough the dreams I have aren't really about commercial success at all, although I know more extreme levels of it come as a secondary result of what I love.

What I love is the feeling of all your efforts streamlining into a single moment.  I love how the repetition, doing the same thing over and over, kicks in as you go "into state" and just LET IT RIP.

The game is such an amazing outlet of this for me which is why I'm addicted to it.  I also have a pretty high sex drive after all these years so that feeds into it as well, it's a hobby that's satisfying on multiple levels.

I have dreams of creating the programs I know I'm capable of, and communicating them in such a way that the people who want to see them are affected in very profound ways.

Beyond that, I have dreams of discovering the actual insights that I want to teach.  I have so much in the cannon right now in terms of self development -- but I know that I need to keep learning more and more.

I wonder if I could stay true to who I am and draw people into it?  It's challenging because from the average person's perspective who I am is pretty insane.  Years in the game has made me irreverent as all hell and I just don't give a fuck anymore -- I've lost the ability to emotionally care of people like what I'm doing or not as long as I think it's cool.  But I come from a good place and want to help people, and I think that to anyone reasonable this obviously comes across.

Maybe I'll decide to become more practical and change.  Or maybe I'll start to enjoy other aspects of life, relaxing more, seeing the world, etc, and lose the desire to push myself.  I'm not sure.

I figure be open to whatever comes.  It's all good.  Life is short - it's a cliche, but actually very accurate.  This is important to keep in mind.

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I'm out of here for now.  What did you gain from the videos?  I posted the Chicago video earlier this week in the forum so I've already had a lot of comments, including where people had trouble interpreting it.

Let me know what you think!

Tyler

PS:  Got several months worth of video content that I'm editing down right now.  Gonna be a doozy of an edit to prep all this stuff.  But definitely the best material I've ever released -- stay tuned.


PPS:  My wingman Julien is travelling Europe right now.  He's the guy who has taught Bootcamp with me the past 2 years.  He's in the top 5 in the game for sure -- it's a privilege to learn from this guy.  If you live in Europe and want to see him do a free talk he's going to be offering them in quite a few cities as he travelling, just email julien@realsocialdynamics.com with your city IN THE SUBJECT LINE and he'll let you know if he's rolling through.