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YO!

Been in South Beach nearly a month now, off to LIV to run another night of Bootcamp.

Miami has delivered the goods once again and has been my biggest chance to improve my game in the past year.

I'm just getting back into recording again and I'm sure this is going to be BIG for me -- and consequently for YOU if you're planning to attend any Hot Seat events.

In the meantime I have a NEW video today shot on Jungle Island overlooking downtown Miami, on the topic of what I feel will be YOUR biggest chance to improve your game this year -- a breakup!

You'll really enjoy it.

In the meantime here's my upcoming schedule for after Miami, which has some of my fav cities in the world!

If I'm coming to your city, be SURE to come hang out!

April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

I've also got that 5th week opening for Miami's Model Season Bootcamp.

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I've now decided to stay a 5th week for Ultra / WMC.

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So today's video is pretty self explanatory:  How to survive a BREAKUP.

I personally feel that breakups have been my biggest chance to improve my game over my entire pick up career.

This video will explain how YOU can do the same.  Here is EXACTLY what I've gotten out of it, and what I did to move forward.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER YOUR BEST CHANCE TO GET AMAZING AT GAME!



So hope you enjoyed this!

I really want to emphasize:  A breakup is what provides the EMOTIONAL LEVERAGE to get REALLY FUCKING GOOD!!!

After breakups I got PERFECT with meditation (the biggest booster to my game other than going out and gaming) as well as gym and diet and having a great life.

I also got PERFECT with going out 7 nights a week, and improved at game more rapidly than any time of my life.

All the hottest girls I got:  The result of a breakup.

The best NEW GIRLFRIENDS I got:  Usually around 4 - 6 months after a really nasty breakup, from doing the activities I described.

If you're going through a breakup:  JEALOUS!!!  HAVE FUN!! :)

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FURTHER LEARNING...

If you enjoyed the above new video, I have 2 that I'd also urge you to check out while your head is open to this zone.

The first is a classic that I shot in Chicago on the topic of "How to get out of scarcity".



People really enjoyed that one, and here's another to go even further while your head is in this spot.



Fun stuff!

Now that you've watched this, you are FULLY EQUIPPED more than any other dude to pass through scarcity and come out of a breakup KILLING IT!

SO ENJOY!

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Okay so I'm shooting off to the club RIGHT NOW! :)

Been doing shorter articles while here in Miami, but you'll be benefitting from the video content that will come out of it in the coming weeks.

(Next week's video that I'm now uploading is one of my best... It's on the topic of "The Motivational See Saw".)

HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ON WHAT YOU LEARNED FROM THIS VIDEO!  HAVE YOU BEEN THROUGH BAD BREAKUPS?  WHAT DID YOU LEARN?  HOW WILL YOU DO IT DIFFERENTLY AFTER THIS VID?

Thanks for checking this out, and I'll talk to you soon!

Peace!!

Tyler
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#1
Kid_Ink

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Fuck yes First!!!

Now that I achieved first comment, I just wanted to say thank you for providing me with the tools to improve my life so drasticly these last few months.  On top of pick up, my confidence has gone through the roof and my GPA has reached a 3.8.

Everytime you make a video or article just remeber the positive effects you have on people livess.. 

peace dawg
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gamer69

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hey man good vid love your content
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atmo_7

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Wow. Amazing video. Never ceases to amaze me the quality of your videos Owen. Some seriously good shit.
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razorlicious

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Timing of this & Jeff's last vid were spot on for me. Thanks d00ds.
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CLove89

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About to dig into the video, i like that you're putting out these relationship videos lately
i'd like to see more
Liv is fucking dope
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Achilles~

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Really like the vids and the idea of asking urself "would this effect me if i did 20mins of quality meditation?"
and re-centering. evolving. forcing you to become better.

Going through one-itis at the moment too.

EXACTLY like you said in the video. other girls wanting to be my g/f, NOPE. but i WANT THIS ONE GIRL."she is so special and unique". Ive been banging my head against the wall caz i KNOW that i shouldnt be feeling like this for her yet and she is starting to flake. So i went out last weekend and pulled a different girl and met up with my primary. but i can still feel the neediness for her.

The second vid really cleared some things up.

Thanks mate!
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Xandercage

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be 16
read about RSD
owen's my hero
fuck those bitches
become a player
fuck 37 girls
get std
hiv
fuckme.jpg
cry
"at least im a man now"
cry moar
soldier to RSDN to comfort me
mfw my hero wears hipster glasses

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justindark

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awesome vid. i'll start asking the meditation question whenever i face difficulties in the future. Another question i asked myself (got it from steve jobs) is will i be bothered by the bullshit when i'm old and about to die, if not, then i'll just keep moving on. most things that frustrate me seems so insignicant in the face of death. i don't want to die with regrets.
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furyx

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What shirt is that?? haha
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#10

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Ohh man i feel exactly the same about break ups..I THRIVE off that shit! Even after my break up, all that pain..i got back into it with the same girl, in the back on my mind KNOWING i will get fucked even worse..went along with it and did get fucked up even more (really really sucks to have those feelings)..but I love what grows out of it! now its been over 6 months and game is better than its EVER been! feel way more centered. its funny, i too kinda look forward to more break up shit and pain to see how much further i can take my Game + Life!
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Great stuff! my hot ass girlfriend who I thought was the girl of my dreams (and she was at one time) broke up with me about 4 months ago for being a total chode and its the best thing that every happend to me! It forced me to realize why she left me, what i want and don't want, it slaped me in the face and woke me up! ths truth is I was not living up to my full potential! 

She has been a bitch to me, a changed person! I don't miss her I miss what she was and what we had, memories, good memories but the past doesn't exsist and she isnt the same person, nor am I. 

p.s tyler I'm your next instructor lol you heard it here first 
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Bruce

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several things:

love the shirt with your glasses...glasses make you look like mehow though ;)

so glad you talked about approaching when completley fucked up and out of state...i love those times and usually end up pulling because I got nothing to lose and it teaches me to take right action

breakups really are great when you are in a relationship too long you feel too content and tend to stagnate in life..like instead of going out you're like fuck it im gonna cuddle tonight with her and watch a movie then next thing you know youre games gone and you dont have that some confidence and integrity .. .

great video thanks!
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#13

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Interesting video. Tyler basically just described everything I went through in my last breakup. Though I still don't feel that my game has gotten better per say. Maybe i'll understand it better one of these days.
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Queen of Hearts

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Your delivery on that video is the best I've ever seen in MONTHS. I sent it to a friend who just broke up with this model chick a few days ago, he's a fucking pimp but hasn't left his house in literally 2 weeks lol, I'm sure this will help. Never been in a relationship myself, but 2 of my current fuck buddies have hinted to me in the past that they would love to be in a serious relationship with me. I had always avoided it because I was afraid of my inner chode coming back to life, ruining the relationship and leaving me all fucked up, but this video has made me reconsider. Btw, I just came back from Arkadia....What a bad decision, how was your night?
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Matt281

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These videos are like my weekly reminder to stay on point. Love it.
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MakeItHappen

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Great shit! Works not only with breakups, but whenever you got emotionally too invested into a girl and screwed over as a result! You can always grow from that

Complementary footage on this topic by Tyler:

Click 12:58 , Dude asks "how do you take away my pain?"

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#17

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meditation and breathing exercise works wonders for me as a newbo, I gain so much insight into my thoughts and feelings and how I can best deal with them (special thanks to ORGAZM for his advice,gr8 value)Bro! I didn't use the bottle of wine though lol! I'm Arab - alchohol is the forbidden fruit haha!. I got her a tiara instead, and made her my naughty little prom queen (she really took to that role) & the frame was so.I felt that rewarding feeling of being able to relax and be funny, eventhough mommy was also home. I need help here, at some point while we were making out (her mom went shopping), I stopped and asked her "what are you feeling" (masculine tonality - thanx Julien) she says "what I'm feeling is going to take us to a bad place - sex",MAKE OUT CONT... I wanted to sex her,but I DIDN'T know how to get her to agree and go against her ASD. HOW do I get her past that point please?
Owen will you ever come to Cape Town South Africa to run bootcamps or do you or RSD have any connections here?
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Fortunato

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So hard to take you seriously with that graphic tee on!
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Matrim

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Good stuff man.

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FridayNite

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I'm in a LTR right now and I do notice my eco-system of positive emotions, if you will, being tested on a weekly basis. Sometimes even more often. Even when things go good I notice being way more watchful of her well-being than myself's (And she's one of the most trustworthy, caring and intelligent women I've ever known). This topic, and what you said about getting back on track with your eco-system of good emotions after a break-up is something I have to remind myself during a relationship as well. You can only bring happiness into the lives of others (over the long run!) if you are content yourself. Especially in a relationship. I constantly am noticing this "Would I be mad if I had meditated right now?" and it brings me back on track regularly.

On an off-note: I'm sitting on the crapper while typing this up.
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player1975

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Very ture, lots of common sense
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Snakeeye

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i know what you talking about, after my x break up with me i feel dead in side, and i start with game for 5 months a go,
the last 2 weeks have 3 quality girls flake for day 2s, ( because they say they was nervous ) the last time it happen  was yesterday, she was just standing around the corner, when i standing on the street and waiting for her, she tell me that later, so whats have happen to me is i more or less expect girls to flake, so shit like that dont even make me agry, but its really hard to keep a positive state,

so i really need learn to draw state from with in, so i can keep doing this,
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Tyler, unbelievable work ethic you have! Thanks for constantly providing us tools to help us become better men

- V
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#25

Astore

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Break ups, nice topic! After a bad break up all seem as a fucked up situation, cause is a special sadness that invade us, but sadness is just an emotion...and it's ok to feel it once in a while, make us human. But then you begin to realize that the situation is a blessing in disguise, it's a great opportunity to step up, to grow our character, and be centered again, going back and work out better on your personal things, and as you meet other womens you will probably don't want to be with your ex anymore, until you find another woman, feel confortable again, go back to chode mode and the cycle is repeated, it's a viciuos cycle that we should stop at some point. Also very nice to watch the older vids!
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#26

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Breakups are definitely the catalyst.  There are 2 breakups that totally changed my life and I thank God for them.  One breakup was the reason I got into cold approach.  The second breakup is the reason I started goin out 7 nights a week nonstop.  Without those 2 breakups, I would still be a total loser.  If the 2010 version of me could watch me now, his brain would melt.  I'm doing stuff now I never thought was even possible.  I learned 2 things from these breakups: 

1. I'm not going to get another girl like this unless I make it happen on my own.  I was alone for many years before I got this girl.  I must go out and game or be alone forever.  I accept this as FACT. 

2.  This girl is having tons of sex with other guys and having the time of her life, while I'm sitting home alone wathcing TV.  I need to go out every night and at least try to get another girl.  I feel better if I at least try.  This must be done every night becuase if i stay home even one night, I will feel like shit becuase she is probably having sex while I'm a loser sitting home alone.


MKC

Bootcamp alumni - 2012 - Boston - Tyler, Julien.
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#27

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you cant discredit or discount that one or 2 girls that you were really into for whatever reason.

like you said, of course you love her to death even though she may have this or that problem, its beside
the point, she still had an impact more so than a ton of other girls.

all you can do is accept the reality of that which is life, or meditate. 
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#28

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Well... I kinda agree. But only if you have the time, and opportunity for selfdevelopment. If you're stuck in a smalltown hell, where you have to be because of studies or whatever, that your monkey girl swings to the next branch in 2 seconds is fucking depressing as fuck, especially if you have to see her around. 

Which is why I got the fuck out, and now I'm having a blast ^^, but it doesn't change that I have to get back to get my career on again later.
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tyler...i like the shirt... that boy kinda looks like u...:)
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LOL douchebag hispster
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Tyler, this takes me back. I've been single almost a year now, I've made leaps in progress, and I continue to improve. I am headed for a date soon. Its far from where I once was with the break up. I found it frustrating to see how easy women got it for getting dick. Its not even fair to compare my kills in contrast to her but, factor in where I am career wise, income, promotions, certified in a few months meaning more generated income and promotions, fine tuning cold approach, martial arts, working out, currently on month 5 day 3 for my diet log, and then some. I have did well for myself. I continue to aim higher.
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#32

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Well I was dumped one hour ago, nice timing buddy.
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How beautiful LEVERAGE can be.  

To me, leverage is the single-most useful tool life can bring someone.  As long as you have good awareness in your life, leverage can be the fuel for personal progression.  Words cannot describe, as it is pure feeling.

Look at all the people who are distinguished.  What do they have in common?  Leverage.
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Awesome material as always!!
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#35

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That's really great, great video.

I like the concept that if you do practice something in low state, when you will be in good state you will totally dominate.
 
I like how RSD evolve. Tyler and Julien are more and more about how to create this super centered, resistant guy, while Alexander teach easy to implement low risk game for istant results.
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#36

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No dude, what Tyler means - the hardest it is, the stronger you become.
Analogy with the girls. When they break up, there is supporting system for them. They go to parties with friends, easily hook up with other guy and somehow forget. For guy it's so much harder BUT for that exact reason he will become much stronger in the process while she won't. I know it sounds easier than it's done, but building yourself isn't easy process.
Ice000 wrote:
Well... I kinda agree. But only if you have the time, and opportunity for selfdevelopment. If you're stuck in a smalltown hell, where you have to be because of studies or whatever, that your monkey girl swings to the next branch in 2 seconds is fucking depressing as fuck, especially if you have to see her around. 

Which is why I got the fuck out, and now I'm having a blast ^^, but it doesn't change that I have to get back to get my career on again later.
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Dude, sweet V-Neck with the baby on it. Where's it from?
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It's cool how you have a positive attitude and outlook on positive and negative things that can happen. Then you're guaranteed to win. 
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Tiki D

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Great way to view a break up and its just so true. Shit like this is why I still check out rsdnation. Was insightful like reading the old blogspot back in the day. 
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awesome new video, i feel backstabbed by a friend and i recently broke up with a girl...my state sunk massively, but this video hits the nail on the head, ive been working on pulling myself back to me and not care. i have bigger goals than what ive lost, its a minore bumb. thanks maan
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#41
nestea

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generally not a fan of the vblogs (by anyone not just you. the free tour clips spoil me)

but damnnnn this was a great one. and i havent even broken up with a girl recently. 
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#42

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Tyler,  Really hoping to take a bootcamp with you in the future .

Thank You , nick
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I could listen to Tyler videos all day - they always calm me down in my times of need!!
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gugarutz

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exactly what i needed currently ! soo helpful
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