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Tyler
 
Hey there, just running out to the gym!

You've probably noticed I've been releasing a lot of "vBlogs" lately, but just last night I cut 7 new Free Tour videos which are all really sick.

The first one is out today and I think you're going to get a kick out of it.  It's a super dickhead and opinionated video of what I'd do to lock down a hot successful guy if I were a pretty girl.

(Within it you're going to learn the MISTAKES that women make, and why these failings are something you want to learn from as well as far as not fucking up your life the way they do!)

Anyway I've also got a stack of programs on deck, including LOS ANGELES which the free event is TODAY (Thursday) at 7PM down town Sheraton!  Get on it!

Here's my schedule for the whole year...

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles.
September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I ought to mention this more on the frontpage, but we have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

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I really want to emphasize that while I'll always be involved in RSD, it won't always be the case that I'm available to run programs like this.

THIS SHOULD BE EXTREMELY OBVIOUS TO YOU. What you've been seeing here has been a wild "phase" of my life but I also have a lot to do. The other instructors are so damned good at what they do so it's all good, but if you want to learn from me personally BOOK IT NOW.

Anyway let's get into today's vids!

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So first video:  Secrets of wingmanship with Julien and I.

This is the final video we shot in the Napali Coast, literally AS THE BATTERY WAS DYING!

The camera lasted just long enough and we got it, so was psyched to get one last video from that amazing trip and be able to share it with you.

This is an important video for anyone who goes out with a wing, in terms of what we learned from PUSHING EACHOTHER while going out.


Hope you enjoyed this one, I think it's phenomenal.

Just in the sense that got two guys who REALLY DID THIS giving their opinion on going out for 2 years and what they learned.  This shit isn't "hypothetical" -- it's very literally exactly how we did what we did.

And what did we do?

I'd say Julien and I improved our game (and results in terms of fucking hot women...) by a good 10X over two years.  Neither of us were good like you see now back 2 years ago, although we were both very good.  The level both us are at today is completely insane, and we got there by exactly what we said in the vid.

PUSHING.

Next up is a video I shot during the Las Vegas World Summit.

And it's also related to the topic of pushing, but instead of being pushed by a wing (and pushing your wing) it's about PUSHING YOURSELF.

Motivation has been a topic hot on my mind lately, because I worked so damned hard to do the Hot Seat 2 launch and basically took it to a "next level" as far as work in the past year.

So the entire time I was thinking "Just get through all this and make it to Hawaii and Summit.  Hawaii and Summit, just make it that far.  You can do it.  Just make it to Hawaii and Summit."

Then finally Hawaii and Summit pass, and my life is so amazing right now, like I'm in incredible health and having so much sex it's insane.  RSD is doing awesome and life is good, so what's there left to make me work?

Well there's a process that you've gotta follow, and that involves SELF CRITICISM.  So while I was in Vegas I could see myself fucking up and realized that I needed to be more self critical, but not at any RESULTS I was getting since they're phenomenal, but rather by my failure to focus on the PROCESS.

Anyway here's the video and it's more applied to gaming girls, but I'm going to create something really deep on the topic of "Motivation" in the weeks to come.


I thought the water shooting off in the background was so bad ass btw, I keep looking at it over and over.

In real life it's pretty epic.

Anyway next up is my fav video today which is a crazy rant I do on the topic of what I'd do if I were a hot girl.

Basically I've been dating and fucking hot women for a looooong time, and what I personally see from most of them is a total TRAIN WRECK.

I'm huge on the topic of "failure models" -- I think a good failure model is equally important to me at this point than a "success model".

Look at the fucked up lives of people that you don't want to live, and it's a massive wakeup call of what you don't want to do.

Well what do I think is the CORE of what fucks women up?  They're surrounded by too much "acceptance" and "yes men".  Jeff and I were talking about this and it's a problem for US as well!  We spend so much time having sex that we instinctively just FEEL GOOD.

The problem with this is that it DESTROYS YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.  Literally just rips it apart, because you think everything is perfect but you're not laying the foundation to live a fun and fulfilling life later on -- the happy feeling of today deceives you to think you should just keep doing MORE AND MORE of what you're doing.

(To the point that being "worried" about anything would almost seem nerdy and uptight.)

Anyway you gotta check this out, AS HOW IT APPLIES TO WOMEN.  We can learn a lot of lessons from where they fuck up!


What's funny is I originally just sort of blurted this out and had planned on NOT putting it out.  I figured it was too dickhead and opinionated, to be honest. :)

But I had a bunch of Philadelphia Free Tour attendees ask me about it, and sounding disappointed I wasn't releasing it, so I thought about it and figured actually I really like it and put it out.

I'm also planning on sending this to my female friends, ex's, and the girls I've been fucking over the past year.

Another main key to why women get hooked on booze that I didn't bring up in this video cause I hadn't thought about it at the time, is that I think booze and all that is genuinely a part of women's PERSONAL ECOSYSTEM OF HAPPINESS.

Like this sounds funny to say, but I think for a lot of girls drugs and alcohol make them genuinely happy.

To tell them to stop using it would be like saying to rip down their unicorn poster or photos of themselves and their dead grandmother who they loved.  Like they REALLY LOVE the effect that the booze has on them, it makes them feel amazing and free and let's them dance and have fun.

But it's like:  GIRL.  Do you want to have a happy life for a LONG TIME?  Or just RIGHT NOW?

Cause that shit is not SUSTAINABLE.

Personally I have gone to great lengths to remove any behaviour / food / substance / habit from my life that is not sustainable.

In other words, I actually like the taste of a Big Mac quite a bit, but because I can't sustain eating it regularly I'd rather just not bother eating it at all and switch up my taste buds to prefering grass fed steak and spinach salads with pomegranate and blueberries and dark chocolate and kombucha.

Make sense?  Like I actually like the Big Mac, but the shit can't be sustained so I'd rather just REMOVE IT FROM MY PERSONAL ECOSYSTEM.

So it's not even in my reality... AT ALL!

This massively simplifies my life, cause I just forget about it and can't remember what it's like anymore.  Like I used to drink in high school and a bit in college and it was fun, but cause I don't do it anymore I literally can't remember what it's like.

Then I see my guy and girlfriends all hung over, or angry when they get drunk, or sloppy like losing good pulls out of drunkenness, and I'm like "Wow I can't even remember what it's like to be that way anymore, my life is so SIMPLE by comparison..."

And it's crazy too cause I really feel that LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH AS IT IS.

WITHOUT *YOU* THROWING UP OBSTACLES IN YOUR OWN DAMNED WAY!!

Like there's enough bullshit that's gonnna happen to you, you gotta at least make it so it's EXTERNAL and not of your own making!  LOL. :)

But yeah I hope you enjoyed that video a lot and had some good laughs and insights out of it.  There's a lot more good stuff to come!

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Anyway I'm off to hit up back and biceps in the gym have fun!

Please let me know what you thought of 1) winging, 2) self criticism, and especially 3) what you've learned from the failings of girls! :) 

I'll be sure to check the comments and hit you back!

Thanks very much for reading and I'll talk to you soon. :)

Tyler
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#1

Katalyst

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 I've been waiting for this one.!

Uno.
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 Wow epic rant on the freetour video Tyler. I may be wrong but it seems like you're a lot more aggressive (perhaps in a good way), you have very little tolerance and patience for BS it seems. I think you expect people to be more real and straight to the point. Which can be a bad thing since we all start as chodes and getting to your level of reality is more of a journey. 
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Yea that Philly Free Tour was amazing. I'm the dude in the white on the left haha. But yeah that part of the speech basically gives you an awesome screening system to rely on as far as choosing chicks that are worthy of getting into a relationship with (take care of themselves, good values). It also boosts your entitlement because you see these chicks that are hot but dont take care of themselves and it really hammers into your head that YOU ARE THE PRIZE (as a constantly improving individual) not them. I see this process of slow decay all the time. I see girls I used to hit on facebook posting pictures of themselves getting fucked up and then writing posts wondering why they haven't met the right guy.
 
Tyler- Thanks again for working with me on the Philly BC. That shit was epic!! Def coming to Orlando in December.
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Was about to ask about the wingmanship video!!! Thanks Tyler, date time but I'm stoked to check these out.

The value you guys provide for free is RETARDEDLY AWESOME.
-Cat
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 Ive missed your posts sir. Hope you had an awesome week in vegas
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Like the first video. I love solo'ing, because it's you, no excuses, you're responsible for everyone and the feeling and knowing that you've improved (and won't stop the fight to keep improving) is a truly great feeling, but I sure do miss the fun of having my two old wingmen with me. Those were amoung the most 'fun' times I've every had.

Reading one of Ozzie's favourite at the moment (Mastery by George Lenard), the second video was very interesting, in sense 'learning to love the process' -- If you like the social commentary Lenard has in his book then you'd probably enjoy some Noam Chomsky too.

[ 10 years from now will RSD be running university-sytled courses with required reading lists like "Mastery", "The Power of Now", etc. ?... ; ) ]
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Tyler,

Loved the Videos dude!  Cool to see you post up something dedicated to the female mindset. Its like how you've mentioned in previous vids about seeing multiple sides, and opposing points. I gained a great deal of knowledge in the vid actually, and truthfully its of of my favorites that i've watched, in a while.
Keep up the solid work. Everything that you put out is much appreciated, and adds value to me as an individual.

P.S.
You touched on the subject of marriage, what is your opinion of it. Especially as it relates to prenups. The way you brought up girls having a certain mindset of increasing their lives 10,000% by having the mindset of marrying the 10Mil net worth guy gets me sort of weary...
(im only 24 and not looking for anything even resembling marriage right now) But I was just wondering what your opinions may be.

P.P.S.
If I ever wanted to really see if I made the right choice with a girl, as to one I could settle down with and marry after we had been dating for year(s) would be to have her go out with her girls, tell Julien where shes at, give him a picture of her, and see if she would fuck him or not. Lol;)

Much Love.
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#8

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the 2nd and 3rd videos ESPECIALLY, just hammer shit into me. fucking jogs my brain. makes me reflect and reevaluate. fucking love dat shit
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Be interesting to see how many women give a 'posative' feedback to the 3rd video.

I don't know it's a limiting belief or something on my part, but I constantly get this feeling that once a woman gets past 28, there's almost this hint of desperation about them. Like they're constantly aware, at some level, that the vague life goals of: BF => Husband => Babies,  hasn't just magically happend and they have to do 'something' about it.
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Resmat wrote:
 Wow epic rant on the freetour video Tyler. I may be wrong but it seems like you're a lot more aggressive (perhaps in a good way), you have very little tolerance and patience for BS it seems. I think you expect people to be more real and straight to the point. Which can be a bad thing since we all start as chodes and getting to your level of reality is more of a journey. 
If all you are is open, honest and friendly, is the persons reaction a reflection on you, or them ?

If the person's reaction is negative, is that useful feedback to you, about that persons personality (and if they're the type of person you want to spend your time with) ?

What percentage of conversations are just pointless questionaires, or general fluff. What percentage of conversations do you have, which have depth or meaning ?

Can you find the kind of woman you're looking for (in terms of personality) by having generic conversations ?
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Don't judge others. Learn from others. Rather than saying "I'm so good they're so bad" say "oh look at the effect that their bahvaior is having on them. How can I learn from them?"
Really helpful! Can't wait for the vid on motivation!
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 1) I find that having at least a few really dependable wings who are relatively positive and reinforcing is extremely valuable. Like the kinds of wings who will come out at night when they're not planning on it just to wing me when I'm out solo.

2) Self-criticism is super underrated b/c when I fuck up a habit such as not reading anything for a few days or not meditating for a few days, I get super pissed and those negative emotions don't really go away until a few days later when I get back into the habit again. So it's not an easy process to go through healthy self criticism, but I guess I will get better at enjoying it. 

3) I've met a lady recently who goes with me to vegan restaurants and to whole foods and we eat organic food together and drink kombucha all day long. Talk about my kind of woman! On the other hand, there was a girl I used to like on summer back when I was more chode several years ago. She was really cute and skinny then. But she kept doing coke and being so unaware of her health that in a few quick yrs she became pretty fat and ugly and undesireable. It's just ASTONISHING to think what she could be like instead if she had a really healthy lifestyle, then she would be adorable. But in fact it's the opposite. 


*I liked the sailboat vs motorboat analogy, and the fact that you rep'd kombucha, nice. 
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Falc wrote:
Great stuff dude. One q about beating yourself up...Especially with pickup I find negative leverage just builds up a toxic energy in me that I carry into game, and its like subsequent approaches come from a place of trying to meet my success criteria instead of wanting to extend a fun vibe to a cute girl. Woudln't it be wiser to figure out how to make changes in your life without beating yourself up? It seems like the butt end of leverage forms, like a "use it if you absolutely have to" thing.
Positive reframe. In other words, feedback not failure. Example tyler uses is how baby's try to learn to walk. They fail 100's of times but instead of crying about it, they laugh it off and try again. Stay positive! Everything happens for a reason. Aslong as you're learning from every experience your good to go. Watch Brads anecdote on how he majorly fucked up, but ultimately learned from his mistakes http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_NQSTMEDmQ
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Tyler-

How do you eat healthy, go to the gym, and not drink when you are constantly around people who do the exact opposite?   You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with most...  But yet, you hang out with all kinds of different types of people who drink/smoke/do drugs/eat unhealthy, yet you somehow manage to still, "do you," without seemingly being affected by those around you....  So my question is... HOW do you do that?  I must know... Because its my biggest sticking point in life.

Your never going to find the perfect group of people to hang out with nor would I want to because, what fun would that be?... But my trouble is how to live my life exactly the way I want to, REGARDLESS of who I am with or what anyone around me is doing.   I guess that is the true definition of leadership...  But HOW on EARTH do you do it?

Thanks so much for the GREAT vids tyler, They have changed my life....

-Anthony
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AnthonyLC wrote:
Tyler-

How do you eat healthy, go to the gym, and not drink when you are constantly around people who do the exact opposite?   You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with most...  But you hang out with all kinds of different types of people yet you somehow manage to still do you without seemingly being affected by those around you....  HOW do you do that?  I need to know lol!

Anthony
You are the average of your 5 best friends - correct. Read this: http://www.bradbranson.com/five-closest-friends/

To answer your question, hanging out with people who are different to you can streghthen your identity by reaffirming what you are not e.g. your friends may be drunks, but if you're someone who values good-health, then choosing not to conform to drinking will only reinforce that you're a fitness fanatic.
During times of conflict you often question your identity. The analogy I like to use is when you a flying an aeroplane. Your flying and a cloud comes along, you can't see what's up or down, that's the same situation you get when other people make you question your values. If your values are good health, but your friends are clouding your judement and making you question your values. So what happens when you're in the airoplane, you have your instrument gauges (i.e life values e.g. good health) so what you have to do in that situation is hone in your gauges to pick out where the horizons at. During this situation, you have a weird vertigo feeling where you don't know what is up or down. You feel as if your flying upside down, but you have to trust you're gagues 100%.
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Hey thanks man!

That is a GREAT analogy and way of looking at it...  It is so tough when practically EVERYONE you either kick it with, or know, or even are related to and live with does bad shit, aka (wrong action) like all the damn time...  I find it so hard to live my life on my own personal straight and narrow but your analogy is something that I am going to have to keep in mind next time I have the choice of whether or not to follow my own values, or break down like a little biatch and cave in to what everyone else around me is doing.

Thanks alot man!

Anthony
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AnthonyLC wrote:
Tyler-

How do you eat healthy, go to the gym, and not drink when you are constantly around people who do the exact opposite?   You are the average of the 5 people you hang out with most...  But you hang out with all kinds of different types of people yet you somehow manage to still do you without seemingly being affected by those around you....  HOW do you do that?  I need to know lol!

Anthony
You are the average of your 5 best friends - correct. Read this: http://www.bradbranson.com/five-closest-friends/

To answer your question, hanging out with people who are different to you can streghthen your identity by reaffirming what you are not e.g. your friends may be drunks, but if you're someone who values good-health, then choosing not to conform to drinking will only reinforce that you're a fitness fanatic.
During times of conflict you often question your identity. The analogy I like to use is when you a flying an aeroplane. Your flying and a cloud comes along, you can't see what's up or down, that's the same situation you get when other people make you question your values. If your values are good health, but your friends are clouding your judement and making you question your values. So what happens when you're in the airoplane, you have your instrument gauges (i.e life values e.g. good health) so what you have to do in that situation is hone in your gauges to pick out where the horizons at. During this situation, you have a weird vertigo feeling where you don't know what is up or down. You feel as if your flying upside down, but you have to trust you're gagues 100%.

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"It is so tough when practically EVERYONE you either kick it with, or know, or even are related to and live with does bad shit"
I know right. I see their bad shit, and it makes me want to judge them. This just creates a whole bunch of negative emotions and gets you in wierd headspaces. Luckily with the positive reframe, instead of scolding others ("I'm so good, they're so bad"), you should learn from their failures ("oh look at the effect that their behavior is having on them. How can I learn from them?") This creates positve emotions because your constantly learning from other people!
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I feel ya man...  But when I say "It is so tough when practically EVERYONE you either kick it with, or know, or even are related to and live with does bad shit"  I'm not saying it from a place of "I'm so good, they're so bad".  What I am saying is that it's tough to keep a focus on the right action when everyone around you is taking wrong action...  An excerpt from Brad's article that you gave me illustrates my point,


"If all you hear about is how bad the economy is, how shitty someone’s girlfriend is, how your friend is only living paycheck to paycheck, how hard someone finds it to lose weight, how there is never any extra time or money to take an educational program, pay for a gym membership, or travel to a new city; you are going to unconsciously start to pick up similar beliefs."

That is all I meant by that statement.

Thanks for all your help tho! I appreciate it!

Anthony
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ABUNDANCE! You gotta cultivate positve emotions within yourself (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1od-xp8MfmE&feature=player_embedded) When you get good at this, you become just like the Sun. Your no longer affected by the environment. You've got an abundance of positvie emotions going for you, so you effortlessly infect others with your positive energy!
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Dude, the last two videos were SO GOOD. It's really insperational man. I've been beating myself up WAY to much, and the last video really put things into perspective. Awesome as always.
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watch this video before boling the frog
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 Is that true tyler? 

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#23

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I had to laugh so hard tears are still running down my face.

Tyler being a little pissed and the answer is "not no... fuck no" made me crack up big time.
I think it´s the honesty and the ridiculousness of those facts.

I love you Tyler and I love you too funny dancing dude on the left.

peace smile
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Can't wait to watch!
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Nice!

In the last part of the 1st vid, is Julien just joking or actually showing real emotions..

Gonna send that vid about girls to some female friends. They're gonna fuckin hate you ;0)
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If a girl gets the content in the 3rd video, she´s 10 times ahead of the average.

I tried to communicate stuff like that to a bunch of girls myself and it´s like no matter how skillfully I phrased it they find a way to ignore what I said and be offended instead.
And I have some crazy verbal skills.

Girls really have a hard time with this.
BUT it´s not really their fault.
That´s a huge point to remember.
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i hope its a joke, smh
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 The third video is very valuable.

Though you argue that all women need to do is go to the gym, build a nice lifestyle and marry a rich guy. I thought it was deeply reductive. (so am I about your video maybe ;)).

I was kind of relieved when at the very end you say that, some hot women, as well as men, go to college, make money and don't give a shit about marrying a lame rich man. Most of my hot female friends, in their twenties, are already like that. But I guess Hollywood and Manhattan are very unique places.

I love your videos by the way.
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#29

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The third video was a weird rant, i thought.

I know owen used to be fat and i just feel like everybody goes through their own pace in life for a
variety of reasons and it doesn't matter what you think or say.

I just found it all fairly irrelevant. Eckhart tolle would not be proud. lol.
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#30

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Thanks, Tyler.
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#31

Kjaye777

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Very good as always, loved the third video on women, your self help motivational and cautionary tale type vids are my sbsolute favourites.  Inspiring as always.
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#32

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are you wearing the same jeans in every video?...ha
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 I think the third video could relate to people in GENERAL, not just women.

But Great stuff man :)
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Damn it!!
I was going to show this (What I'd Do To Lock Down A Successful Guy If I Was A Woman) to my sister until 25:25...
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 Third vid, GREAT!! 

Thank you!
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Thank you!
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#37

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This shit is what everyone already knows yet needs to be reinforced.
Your a fucking winner man.
Im not even 20 yet so this info is gonna so help me in the next decade !
Video 3 is fuckin unreal.
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#38

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 tyler, your ideas such as beating yourself up for not doing in a certain way, i disagree with. I know you've probably read 'a new earth' a lot. But you seem to be doing orientated, rather than being.

When you just be, you're not going to be able to beat yourself up, its impossible.

Currently all you're 'beating up' is your ego. You're trying to tell you're ego to get better. Rather than just being your bedrock self without putting a model in your way of what would improve youre ego/doing.

Once you can truly accept the moment and everything you do being perfect in the monent, itll be peaceful instead of waging war upon yourself to 'do' something in order to 'be' a better person.

Having said that your games insanely good
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mi1ooo98

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Join Date: 01/27/2012 | Posts: 31

 tyler, your ideas such as beating yourself up for not doing in a certain way, i disagree with. I know you've probably read 'a new earth' a lot. But you seem to be doing orientated, rather than being.

When you just be, you're not going to be able to beat yourself up, its impossible.

Currently all you're 'beating up' is your ego. You're trying to tell you're ego to get better. Rather than just being your bedrock self without putting a model in your way of what would improve youre ego/doing.

Once you can truly accept the moment and everything you do being perfect in the monent, itll be peaceful instead of waging war upon yourself to 'do' something in order to 'be' a better person.

Having said that your games insanely good
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shoed

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Join Date: 07/25/2012 | Posts: 27

Thanks for the knowledge tyler.  I showed a couple of your videos to my college sexual development teacher (hardballing feminist) and I think a couple of your key points in some of your past videos hit a chord in her.  She probably wants to fuck you now.

I have a serious question though, are feminist women harder to game?  They seem more into the traditional route whereby the male courts the woman through dates and all that gay shit.  However, they seem to lust for the dominance of a male in their life...  So they want traditional courting processes yet they lust to be man handled by an alpha.  How would one pull a hardcore girl like that in one night?
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#41
nestea

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tyler, really liked the third video. great stuff haha.

maybe u could do more videos on shit from a girls perspective and stuff like that?


your information really inspires me man
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#42

ToRqC

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Join Date: 01/25/2011 | Posts: 28

mi1ooo98 wrote:
 tyler, your ideas such as beating yourself up for not doing in a certain way, i disagree with. I know you've probably read 'a new earth' a lot. But you seem to be doing orientated, rather than being.

When you just be, you're not going to be able to beat yourself up, its impossible.

Currently all you're 'beating up' is your ego. You're trying to tell you're ego to get better. Rather than just being your bedrock self without putting a model in your way of what would improve youre ego/doing.

Once you can truly accept the moment and everything you do being perfect in the monent, itll be peaceful instead of waging war upon yourself to 'do' something in order to 'be' a better person.

Having said that your games insanely good
yeah but thats only half, taking action is where "beating yourself up" comes into play. It's a healthy mix
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besserwisser

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REACTION of a girl friend to 3rd video:

"I know, I will become fat like my parents are. Eeveryone in our family was super skinny in their early 20s and then became fat. THAT MEANS I HAVE TO USE THE TIME WISELY NOW AND EAT AS MUCH FASTFOOD AND ALCOHOL WHILE I STILL CAN."

Facepalm forever.
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#44

M. Shooter

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Join Date: 11/22/2011 | Posts: 7

Really great and profound stuff like allways Owen! 
1)
Great insights on wingmanship. It's allways good to see you and Julien together, as it seems like you are using each others ideas and treads to spike your own creativity even more.
I think the power of having a good wing is invaluable, because when you're on the same path you both seem to be able to go much further on it.
I 'm going to be looking for an actual wingman here in Copenhagen, which means someone who is already in the game, and has some kind of bagground with cold approach pick up.
I have great friends that I go out with all the time, but they're just regular, non-pua dudes, which means that cold approach pickup is allmost out of their reality. For me that means that I often get stuck with the social circle girls and just sitting at the table all night with the people that I allready know a lot of the times and the proceeding to an afterparty with mainly girls that I've allready been with or my friends exes etc. Not Great.

The best nights actually come when going two guys to some venue where we know no one. I did that on monday, with one of my buddys. We started out in spectator mode, but then I said fuck and started hitting the girls up really hard. After a couple of approches I seemed tovget warm, and because there was no of my girlfriends there I just went beast. So long story short, we ended up with 4 chicks in their appartment on top of a church in inner Copenhagen, where closing was no problem.

2)
Great great video on self-critic and beating yourself up in the right manner. If there's one thing that you really master as a teacher it self-actualization and inner game. This was really good, as it can help in every area of life. I used for a basketball game last night, and I ended up scoring 21 p and 10 reb, from just going with the processes that I know works instead of thinking about the outcomes of everything. Interesting.



3)
A really great perspective on the girls that many, mainly newbies, would be affraid to even approach - the hot club girls. You really hit an AHA-moment fo me here bro, thanks. I see the same thing going on with a lot of my girlfriends, as they just seem to keep out, getting graduatly more and more unatracttive each month. Even just small things them getting a little thicker, or getting small rinkles in there face, is something that I wouldnøøt have even though about before now.
I actually get really happy when I see one of my geneticly very attractive girlfriends, actually wakening up and getting themselves together (not often, but it happens). Especially I had one girl who went from being a 7 a 9 over the summer, eating healthy, quitting smoking, working out. Great results!


Thank you Tyler once againg for some food for though and some inspiration to keep going hard. It's motivates me to do great :)
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#45
Bossco

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Join Date: 12/03/2011 | Posts: 73

Being a guy in my late 30's, the 3rd video made me laugh and was right on.  It should be compulsary viewing for all young women, however it probably wouldn't make any difference since they're such stimulus junkies; and why would they change anyway when they're receiving so much positive feedback all the time?  An interesting thing I've noticed also is how attractive 'youth' is.  Even women who do look after themselves lose hotness very quickly, so if that's all they've got to offer then they're in for a big fall.
Great content as usual.  Thanks. 
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#46
The Duck ✘

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LOL
besserwisser wrote:
REACTION of a girl friend to 3rd video:

"I know, I will become fat like my parents are. Eeveryone in our family was super skinny in their early 20s and then became fat. THAT MEANS I HAVE TO USE THE TIME WISELY NOW AND EAT AS MUCH FASTFOOD AND ALCOHOL WHILE I STILL CAN."

Facepalm forever.
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#47
Johnny Depp

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Join Date: 02/14/2011 | Posts: 77

 Anyone else found Tyler's last video really motivating? Like, REALLY FUCKING MOTIVATING?
Watching Tyler describe his lifestyle and interactions with hot chicks with such insane sharpness and detachment made be immediately think "I AM A GUY AND I WANT TO PLAY AT THAT LEVEL"!

Will rewatch many times over when I need to remind myself to take action. Thanks a lot Tyler
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#48

champ

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Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 891

Thanks for putting up the winging vids.  Free Tour was great thanks for putting that together as well. I learned ALOT. Learned ALOT from Todd as well. Felt for ya when the camera ran out of mem or whatever. Cuz that speech was GOLD!! However theres some "fundamental" stuff I gotta look into. Also hopefully that camera on the ceiling wasnt the Illuminati LOL

Thanks fo what you said too it was invaluable for lack of a better word.  It took me a while to get what you were saying. It took me a couple days. When you said it I was like I aint worried about that whenever I go out. Right now it would help for wheels so I can "close". LOL  But then I thought about it these last couple days and I realized what you were saying. And your message got through for realz. 

Alot of guys especially "newbies" are "approaching" "THIS ENTIRE THING THE WRONG WAY"  AND THEY DONT EVEN KNOW IT! THEY'RE HOLDING THEIR OWN SELVES UP!!! AND THEY DONT EVEN KNOW THAT ETHER!! They could be out there meeting girls and having sex even but their "approach" is fucking them up and straight up "stagnating them" for lack of better words. I might elaborate more on this in the future on the main forum cuz it might help alot of people.

EVERYONE'S GOT TO GO TO FREE TOUR!!! YALL SHOULDN't MISS IT!!! Thanks sir!
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#49
FrenchyCassady

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FUCK ! THAT WAS GREAT ! 
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#50
ambiguity

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5327

Tyler mate, thanks for freeing me again for the last time. Free at last. It feels good.

I posted a forum thread that got locked ages ago.  In a relationship, consistently pursuing females, stunners, SMOKE SHOWs, the works. I went onto say, I may pick up and not call. I even shouted you out in the thread which got locked shortly after people trolled it.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/225229

Their is that lure of femininity that males desire but, the toxicity is not corrected all that often by chodes since, they want intercourse. I preach looks a fair bit and yet, even then, they are still not as rewarding as a average looking girl or the attention she gets consistently.

I noticed your same discovery, that  women having a shorter shelf life then us boys
but, the toxicity of female behavior is not discovered usually in that
window of opportunity. Your video went onto depict the sort of man and
the life he must under take and at times, he must even endure to remain
on top form.

So, Tyler mate, what is it all about? I find it rather self amusing being the tease, having the stunner gf, and flexing my mad skills. There is no other way to remain on top form. I found being the tease instead since, I have absolutely nothing to lose is a thing of brilliance. More importantly, how most of these girls end up in the long run even further justifies my actions. Before you respond, check your inbox. This is how and why I can condone my antics. Females entertain me especially with their bad decisions both sexually or the disasters they embark on personally. Its a hoot!

I also notice a lot of people coining the term stunner frequently. I am liking that.
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