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Tyler
 
What's up, what's up, so much going on......

I've got three new videos for you that are probably the best I've ever released (the Free Tour one for sure, and the vBlog has infield footage).  A quick update and then we'll get into it.

I'm busy as hell right now, preparing for the launch of the HOT SEAT 2.

It may launch January 11 or maybe January 18.  I'm working on the infield footage preview videos right now and we'll see when I finish.

So what IS the Hot Seat 2?

Basically it's an event where I show a WHOLE DAY of hidden camera infield footage -- every type of opener, way of attracting women, type of girl, type of scenario whether day or night or streets, full pulls of stunners from open to close, etc -- and break it all down for you in meticulous detail.

This reveals to you the perspective that I've gained from 11 years of going out 4-7 nights a week and hitting this up.  You leave the program knowing everything secret of the game I've ever stumbled upon, and a 3D "experiential" grasp of powerful principles that have taken me years to understand.

Do you want to learn how to pull women easily and consistently?  Date the girls that you want?  Get in the relationships that you want?

Maybe you just want to be a confident mofo, learn social sklls, humor, and all that fun stuff.  Well this is the most effective and inexpensive daylong program you could ever take.

It's called the HOT SEAT 2 and I spent several years of my life recording and creating it.

The classic "Hot Seat 1" was wildly popular and reviewed OFF THE CHARTS because it was a masterpeice that opens your eyes to a universe that few people know exists.

Well Hot Seat 2 blows it away by 10 fold -- the game is better, the explainations are more powerful, and it reflects another two years of me hammering away in the field.

Here are the upcoming dates which I'll launch officially in early January -- with substantial bonuses for people who sign up during the launch.

United States
January 21, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA.
February 4, 2012: Chicago, IL, USA.
February 11, 2012: New York, NY, USA.
February 25, 2012: Miami, FL, USA.
March 17, 2012: San Francisco, CA, USA.
March 31, 2012: Phoenix, AZ, USA.
April 14, 2012: Las Vegas, NV, USA.
April 28, 2012: Washington DC.
May 5, 2012: Boston, MA, USA
.May 19, 2012: Austin, TX, USA.
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA.
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA.
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA.
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA.
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA.

Europe
March 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands.
March 24, 2012: Munich, Germany.
April 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom.
April 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark.
September 22, 2012: Paris, France.
September 29, 2012: Oslo, Norway.

Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Sydney, Australia.
June 9, 2012: Melbourne, Australia

Canada
July 7, 2012: Montreal, Canada.
July 14, 2012: Toronto, Canada.
July 21, 2012: Vancouver, Canada.

Asia
March 15, 2012: Hong Kong.
March 22, 2012: Singapore, Singapore.
March 29, 2012: Tokyo, Japan.
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina.
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil

I'll see you there!  And if you want to see the signup page for the Hot Seat 1 here it is...

www.rsdhotseat.com

The updated page for Hot Seat 2 will be up shortly, but feel free to sign up now if you're inclined and you'll still get the bonuses that are offered to people during the official launch.

I'll also be doing Bootcamps in all the USA cities, so if you want to take a program with me get on it now as there's a 3 student maximum (yes you work up close with me, 3 on 1, it's an amazing life changing experience).

www.rsdbootcamp.com

Lastly if you want to do the once a year 5 day "alumni only' bootcamp with Jeff and Julien and myself during model season in Miami South Beach, hit up the following page before it fills up...

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

Alright now let's get into it!

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So if you've been diggin' the videos today is your lucky day....

I'm about to go back on what is probably my final tour, I've got tons of really sick material backed up, and I want to get "caught up" so I can start releasing the new videos AS THEY COME OUT.

That being the case I'm going to be releasing a little extra the next few weeks.  Including THREE right now.

Can you do me a small favour though?

Whenever I release 3 videos on the frontpage people don't click them as much, and the Youtube view counts wind up lower than when I release just one.  So if you like it when I release 3 videos a way to encourage me to do it more regularly is to click the videos a few times to bump up the view count.

I don't really care if my Youtube vids have crazy views or not, but I want them to at least crack the 7000 views they'd get normally if I uploaded just the one video at a time.  Today's Free Tour video is IMO MY BEST EVER so I want people to see it.

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Anyway first up we're going to crack into a video that I shot my first night out after a month of "forced rest" after my tour.

My voice had gotten so bad from teaching 7 weeks of program after program, and then going out 7 nights a week to film infield footage as well, that I wasn't able to go out.

This sucked so bad because I was on a streak of going out 7 nights a week for the previous several months.  I finally got to spend more time "serving the rotation" during this time, and had more sex than I've ever had in my life - which was extremely cool, although a blurry haze that I barely remember. :)

Yet my true love and passion is going out to meet NEW girls.  Not even because of the sex (if I'm dating a girl it's because the sex is amazing....) but because I want to work on my craft.  So being in the house was like dying for me.

Regardless I got back out my first night and funny enough, MY APPROACH ANXIETY HAD COME BACK.  I wandered around like an idiot newbie too scared to approach, and it really reminded me of how much many of you guys SUFFER with this.

Honestly I don't know if I could go back to being a newbie again.  It would be like going through puberty and having zits and hormones and all that.  Having approach anxiety again felt the same way.  It made me really empathize with you guys who don't know how to meet girls -- I only had to feel that way for an hour, but even that one hour was BULLSHIT. :)

(Actually it inspired me to finish the damned newbie site.  For a while I was getting indignant like, "If someone doesn't get the basics of this they're just being lazy!!"  But after feeling what it's like to be a newbie it reminded me that it's like a hell most people can't get out of.  The hell is of your own making and it's all up in your head -- but it's hard to remember when you're in the thick of it.)

Anyway I was about to give up and go home, and then I decided I should at least record a "video blog" to document my challenge in getting back out there.  But then funny enough I decided after "FUCK THIS I'm gonna see if I can get something crackin' -- which I did, and included the highlights to give a lil inspiration.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE HOW TO GET BACK ON TRACK, AND WATCH ME DOING MY THING IN THE FIELD...


Fun stuff huh?

Here's what's crazy though...

I rarely read Youtube comments because I usually maintain a "no googling yourself" policy, because if you're going to be a FRINGE OF SOCIETY "pickup guru" you'd better not be pre-occupied with what people are thinking or saying about it. :)

But in this case I was all excited to see the comments because it was the first time I ever added infield footage of a pull online.  So I kept checking back on the comments. *blush*.

Well funny enough, many of the comments were people thinking the video is fake!!!!!!  They thought the ending was too short with the original version, so I even asked my editor to re-cut an expanded one because I felt the feedback was reasonable and you needed to see a lil more to get the idea.

(Here's the original that was a bit shorter...Check the comments on it if you're interested.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f6UGMaM1q7g&list=UUD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g&index=2&feature=plcp

What's crazy though?

That lil pull in there -- you can do that shit ALL DAY LONG.

I mean shit, on command just say "Owen, go do that shit again...." and bam it's on.  That's the whole point of the "demo" part of the bootcamp every weekend -- except obviously I don't bounce in the car and leave the students. :)

My life is busy as fuck.  So many tasks, so much to get done.  The last thing I'm worried about is being a 32 year old man with a full deck of life experience and responsibility being unable to attract a TWENTY ONE YEAR OLD LIL GIRLIE. ;)

(Maybe it takes a lil time to get warmed up -- some nights it's even brutal and takes a few hours to get out of my head-- but come on, I've done the same MENIAL activity over and over my whole adult life)

Ideally if you take my programs and consistently go out after to internalize what you learned, you can do a LOT more than what you see in that fun lil video.  Again it may take a night of warmup, but it shoudn't be a big deal.

Let me make a more important comment here though...

My roots are from the old school "pick up artist" community.

(Dorky term, I know.  But that's what it was called.)

I come from a background of hardcore weird motherfuckers, where you had a SIMPLE RULE as far as what you could talk about, and what you couldn't.

THE FOUNDATION OF THE OLDSCHOOL PICKUP COMMUNITY WAS THIS...

YOU *TEST* SOMETHING BEFORE *TALKING* ABOUT IT OR *THEORIZING* ABOUT IT.

In other words, on the old forums if a guy asked, "What would happen if I said / did / tried XYZ on a girl??" they didn't get the privilege of a response from a veteran guy.

Instead they'd get reemed out with, "Go try it on 10 girls and see what happens, and then report back.."  There was no tolerance of speculation and people speaking out of their asses.

(Without this one important foundation, the community never would have become the movement that it has...)

You PHRASED your language in such a way where if you wanted information you'd say, "I went out and tried XYZ ten times, and here's what happened.  Can anyone give me help on this?"

To speculate, theorize, or talk out of your ass was viewed as WEAK and NOBODY LISTENED TO YOU.

Well here's how that correlates to the comments on the video.

The guys giving their "comments" are perfectly capable of going out and trying EXACTLY WHAT THEY SAW IN THE VIDEO FOR THEMSELVES.

If they went and tried, and then said, "Look I tried the shit in the video and it didn't work for me..." we could talk about how to get them the results they're looking for.

And they'd be WAY better off for it!  Make sense? ;)

Ultimately the game is about YOU.  

YOU have to go out and meet girls, date different women, and find a relationship that works for you.  Talking and speculating is a waste of time.  Take what you can get from RSD and go out and produce the life that you want.

I want to help you, but you also gotta help yourself.  Listen to the people who go out and live this shit.  Take action.  Test things out.  Then take what's helpful and discard what's not -- create your own style and keep it moving.

Okay rant done. :)

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So check it out.......

If you're one of the folks who attended a Hot Seat that lil demo was probably not that interesting to you, as you've seen crazy ass shit go down from open to close.

(Hopefully you at least liked the aspect of getting back in the game and not making excuses after time off though.....)

Well it's all good cause I've got some real sick shit popping off here today -- this new "Free Tour" video that's my favourite to date.

I actually have ones that are better already in the pipeline, but this is my favourite I've released so far.  This is going to clear up a LOT for you if you go out and apply it immediately.

It's on the topic that I think is most important in the entire game, and the speaking is exactly what I'm looking to accomplish when I only have a half hour window to open for Jeff -- just go up and RIP it.

This shit is off the dome, I just slam it out, educate and enlighten you on how to MAKE IT HAPPEN.

TOOK ME YEARS TO FIGURE THIS STUFF OUT.  IT'S SIMPLE YET DEEP.  BIGGEST SECRET FOR MY SUCCESS RIGHT HERE.  CHECK IT OUT.


Okay so I'm super thrilled to get this one out.

If you pay attention to it, your results will explode.  Here's what's crazy though.

On average I think I'm only TRULY in this zone like 33% of the time.  It's a struggle right?

But the more you go out, the easier and more natural it becomes.  It's all a process of internalizing and living it.

As I get older I imagine a day where I'm acting through my own intent like 80% of the time.  Would be totally sick.  That's what maturing is all about -- aging with some fucken dignity, making it an asset and not this ridiculous mockery that it is for most.

Make an action plan to implement these ideas.  Don't let this be yet another video you watch and forget about.  Watch it again and internalize.

I don't view this stuff as MY ideas.  It's shit I scraped around a decade to stumble upon.  I did this for myself, but also for YOU.

Internalize it.  Live it.

Not to be crass here, but your dick will thank you. ;)

And it'll affect your life in far more profound ways than just sex -- it's about the way you interact with the world.

Hit me up with feedback on this one.  I'll try to answer any questions about becoming clearer in your intent.

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Anyway the last video I wanted to show is on a topic that has a lot of personal meaning to me.

This is something I"ve watched for years now, and it's deep to me because I've watched friends THRIVE and friends become shadows or their former selves.

It's the decision of whether or not to keep growing, evolving, and living life at the fullest.

CLICK THE VIDEO NOW AND REMEMBER THIS SHIT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.  IT'S NO EXAGERATION TO SAY YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT.  WELL AT LEAST WHETHER YOU BECOME A BADASS DOOD OR AN OLD WEIRD LAMO DEPENDS ON IT. :)


So let's review again why this is so important.

I've seen friends who are passionate about life, fun, cool, funny, bad ass doods.

And I"ve watched them drop like flies, gives up on pushing the envelope, and go back to living a predictable life.

Like I said in the video, here's what's crazy....

It's all good for you to live a conservative life.  That's really more an issue of personal choice.

But what often (usually...) winds up happening is that it affects YOUR STATE OF MIND.

You get angry more easily, become petty, afraid, lame, pathetic.

It's been hard for me to watch this over the years.  It's my fear of becoming like this that motivates me, equally as powerfully as the incentive of becoming the person I feel I can become.

Honestly it's just pathetic watching this go down.  So, so, sad.  I see it in the puppydog "I'm not with it anymore..." eyes of people I've known over the years.

My buddy's mom is a seasoned veteran in business and she once told me "If you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will go floating by..."

Well I often feel like this has happened not only to people I had disputes with, but also people who I valued tremendously.  People I really loved.  People I still DO love but we've just gone in such differnet directions.  I'll never stop caring about them, but it's really tough to watch.

Again like I said in the video, this isn't about being all crazy about self development or any of that.  That's more of a personal interest to me, and if someone doesn't like it it's all good.  Many of my friends are badasses and don't give a fuck about Tony Robbins or Eckhart Tolle, right? :)

It's more about the choice to LIVE.  Like to do COOL SHIT.  Not the same old repetitious habits every single day.

This isn't just about lifestyle.  It's not about results.  It's about who you are as a person. Your ability to think clearly.  To maintain perspective.

Being a father I've begun to think that we have children to SAVE OURSELVES.......

Our children teach us how to be curious again, to experience childlike joy, to evolve. They provide a role model.  I've learned more from Vincent than he's learned from me.  FOR REAL.

Hope this makes sense.  And if you're an old buddy of mine reading this, I'm not necessarily talking about you because I've had a lot of buddies over the years.  I'm busy as fuck so pretty unreachable, I'm in the middle of the damned Hot Seat launch and hard to reach! :)

(Seriously though, dammit have I got a lot going on right now.....DOH!!).

I'm in this journey for the long haul.  I want to make my children proud.  I want to take it to the limits.  On my tombstone I want it to read HARD FUCKING CORE.  I can be the biggest dork on the planet, but god damned nobody can say I didn't try my best.

And I fucken love it.

I remember my first trip out of the little strip of 401 Highway between Toronto and Montreal.

I flew through Chicago and looked down on this huge city, bigger than I'd ever seen, and wondered what was in it.  I flew over the snow covered rocky mountains and the Grand Canyon, to California with the ocean and desert.

I travelled and travellled, met interesting people, read great books, tried new things, met girls and had experiences with them I'll never forget.  It's like being on a voyage far away from home -- I don't even know home anymore, the world is home, that's all I know.

(Was broke as a joke at the time.  Papa and I travelled on nothing.  Slept in bus shelters and floors of abandoned apartments in winter.  No excuses...)

Like Christopher Columbus or some shit, you live unhinged, no certain direction, figure it out as you go along.  FUCK IT.  FUCK IT ALL.  LET'S SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Got a bad opinion of this?  All good baby.  Watch the adventures from Youtube and chill.  I'll be doing this shit. Just gets crazier and fucken crazier.  Life is fleeting, soak it up while you can.

I'm a blessed motherfucker.  Can't wait for my sons to join the journey with me.  So much to show them, gives me something to live for.

Okay this rant is over.  HERE AS WELL. :)

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Alright so I'm out of here once again.

Hope you enjoyed this.  That Free Tour video was really a next level for me.  Since the last Seattle Free Tour it was my next "peak" along my journey, and I've got more peaks for you on deck.

Stay tuned.....

And in early January keep your head up for the red hot mega launch of the Hot Seat 2.  It's gonna be one of the big events that makes a lasting impact on your life.  IF you choose to make use of it. ;)

www.rsdhotseat.com

(The Hot Seat 2 new page will be up there in early January -- sign up now if you want, and you'll still get the bonuses.)

Let me know your thoughts on the video blog, why you're not gonna be one of these poor souls who sees something cool and doesn't at least try it, and why you're gonna go out RIGHT NOW and do this shit. :)

How about the "Intent" video.  It's my most powerful secret in the game.  What are your thoughts?  Will you make use?

Lastly -- do you have experiences with the journey of personal growth?  Friends who you've had trouble relating with as they faded out?  Experiences or thoughts to share?

I want to know!  Hit me up!

Thanks for reading!!!  See you next week!!  Have fun!!

Tyler

PS:


My Free Tour, Hot Seat 2, and Bootcamp schedule is listed on the drop-down menu right below.

Some of my programs like the Bootcamp fill up really fast, so if you're interested in getting on board, I'm X-Mas gift this to yourself as a part of your New Year's resolutions right now.

This a peak in the game where a hardcore veteran is still actively teaching small ratio programs -- people will look back one day and wonder WTF it was like to do something like this with that crazy motherfucker Owen Cook

I go very, very hard on my programs -- and they're producing the best results for students I've ever produced.  I want to work with you.  The currency of life is experineces.  Hit me up.

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
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 tyler, i know you've mentioned it before.  but what is it thats causing that girl to say 'youre so awesome' after you say 'i was bad when i was 21'.

just non flinching eye contact , presense, sexual intent in your voice/eyes?
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god damn 2nd vid is tight
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lol@the guys who think that if you pull a girl it must be fake. What do those guys think you`ve been doing for the last 10 years?
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Most (successful...) pickups I do the girls are all "You're so awesome, you're so fun, you're so amazing...." blah blah.

Why?

Because most guys are fucken LAME.  It's not what you do, it's what you DO NOT do.

Compare this...



To this (what most women deal with basically -- except by "brown guys" she should say MOST guys, just their own ethnic version of it)......



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subx wrote:
 tyler, i know you've mentioned it before.  but what is it thats causing that girl to say 'youre so awesome' after you say 'i was bad when i was 21'.

just non flinching eye contact , presense, sexual intent in your voice/eyes?


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 Lol your son kept using my leg as an arm rest through out the seminar
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 I have a funny thing happen when I'm "on" and in state girls tell me I'm awesome, that I look like one particularly famous movie star (a passing resemblance at best) and how hot I am.

When I'm feeling kind of shit, girls immediately can feel this and push away from me. On one of these nights I had a girl tell me "we're just going to ignore you now, go away. We're ignoring you." Yet I was already sleeping with a girl hotter than her, and made out with one hotter than her tonight.  I told her at the time "next time I see you out and I'm feeling it, you won't stand a chance." She looked at me intensely, saw I was serious, then went from her previous mad face to schoolgirl giggle. 

On, abundance = movie star 
Off, scarcity = creep 

I have done stuff exactly in this video, and everyone tries to rationalize it into their reality, including the girl.
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 not gonna lie to you, got a little intimidated by the second video. You might have just made the approach anxiety return again... thanks.

it was an awesome video though. just kind of deppressed to realize i'm still at the newbie stage... w.e tho... INTENT... gotta work on that.
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This is the shit, that's been happening to me of late.

I'm not pinging off my environment, and I'm in complete acceptance of 'what is'.
Self-forgetting, impulsive, I see I take attitude.

Can't believe how easy this shit is.

Im still adapting to this sense of freedom, after a lifetime of self-imposed bullshit.

Thanks Tyler
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you look a little stiff. why diden't u paly with the kid. He liked you
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 Lol your son kept using my leg as an arm rest through out the seminar
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CALBEARHOODIE wrote:
 first!!!!!!  cant wait to check this ish out tho
damn
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Jonnyjones wrote:
you look a little stiff. why diden't u paly with the kid. He liked you
zack g. wrote:
 Lol your son kept using my leg as an arm rest through out the seminar

hah, i didnt wanna distract anyone or draw any attention.owens speech was deep as fuck in that vid
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being clear in you intent ,not only socializing but also in LIFEE!

Nice second vid
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thanks for the reply, that was the vid i was lookin for :)
Tyler wrote:
Most (successful...) pickups I do the girls are all "You're so awesome, you're so fun, you're so amazing...." blah blah.

Why?

Because most guys are fucken LAME.  It's not what you do, it's what you DO NOT do.

Compare this...


To this (what most women deal with basically -- except by "brown guys" she should say MOST guys, just their own ethnic version of it)......



Tyler
subx wrote:
 tyler, i know you've mentioned it before.  but what is it thats causing that girl to say 'youre so awesome' after you say 'i was bad when i was 21'.

just non flinching eye contact , presense, sexual intent in your voice/eyes?



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 hahahah zack that kid was all around you man.   funny stuff and good stuff tyler as always.  still waiting on that relationship book ;)
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Feedback: I don't see why not cut a huge blog post like this with 3 videos into 3 different blog posts.. you can still post them all on the same day or space them out to one per day or such if you have the patience.. Should be a little better for SEO too. Personally I don't mind them being like this, but it would be a little better and could take care of the "first video gets the most views problem", at least if you don't release all posts at the same time.

A couple of questions about the 2nd video.. Ok, so you're clear on your intent on just going socializing on an advanced level.. what if you're also interested on getting to know some attractive girl in that group, and not for sex right on the same night.. or if that was your real reason to go talk to that group in the first place...?

And how can you pull of "just socialing" and yet talking like a man to a woman. And not just being friendly.. Or is the man to a woman way of talking simply not needed/irrelevant when you're in state and just socializing? (So just the mindset that they will surely be friendly and interested in you cause you're high value would be enough, with very little physical contact..)
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1. Tyler, you are great and your vids are fucking inspiring. Thank You!

2. On your vids it looks like you bend your knee to the back. Don´t do it :P
    It will feel better and give your body more space to move and express.
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Damm Tyler awesome post. You keep amazing me. Im gonna try it all out tonight muhaha.

Are you the host in Amsterdam?

Game on!
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Great article Tyler, really amazing FREE value. Unbelievable what we are receiving weekly for FREE

People around the tube at rush hour in London are my inspiration to keep holistically moving up. These guys have cultivated slight chode behaviours day by day and then WHAM 30 years later fuck there is no hope for them to turn back. And they know it. I never want to be in that situation, I know I will keep getting better and I am

The intent video was the best presented, best content, overall just the most energetic great free vid you've put out so far, IMO

Staying static is westeners luxury common problem

BTW question if you are willing to answer - how would you feel if you had had a daughter? Would you continue to have the same energy in presenting railing women
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Ok, Tyler you really motivated me with this videos - as you usally do. I know that this clearness of intent - that 3rd type of 'advanced' intent you talked about - made my peakest performance ever (4 girls in four days, with 2 days not going out in the middle; not a lot, I know, but fuck it, it's MY JOURNEY). It was out of an emotional wave of being disappointed about my two best friends going to a party and not inviting me. Usually this wouldn't even register, but this time I felt really negative and commited myself to take more care of myself or awaken my inner kign as Robert Bly put it. Thinking back, it was really funny, 'I take myself so seriously' momment, kind like when Cartman discovers that the tooth fairy doesn't exist :)

Anyways, this is the rant I wrote on my journal in case you wanna read it (I wouldn't wanna read some random's dude rant unless it made connect to my higher self, so, do whatever):

"Fact: The times when I did my best performances in the game where the times when I had a strong clarity of intent on having fun, enjoying MY time, not trying to protect my self-image, but instead be experimental, and involve girls in that process. So, I need to go back to that. This makes me automatically have freedom from outcome and gain momentum as the night goes on. Or, said in other way: I had good natural instincts and Relaxed Arousal. This times I'm talking about have been refered to in this journal, although I was not sober on those nights – in fact I was focused on drinking at my rhythm so it somehow made me really centered LOL – those nights are to this they the peak of my game (4 girls in for days, with days of not going out in between) and me just enjoying it instead of engineering it. So, I wan't to reproduce that again when I'm back in the game. This post, will be my model. One really important note, that attitude and mindset worked because I did them out of an emotional way caused by feeling disappointed, really disappointed, by my two best friends, so it made me very unapologetic. What this means, and this is VERY IMPORTANT, is that I was not judging my behaviour based on the results I got. I just was more focused and not distracted by other non-important outcomes. So, I have to apply this. Stop any thought processes that lead me to question my intent, my focus or my behaviour and continually refocus on getting more clear in this intent. I have a good reason for this and it's that by doing this, I really force myself to be proactive about my state, to draw it from within, so I have incredible amounts of fun, and that's what I want. That's my motivation.

One cool thing, it's that in the last couple of times I went out, I learned the mindset for relaxed arousal. I wrote about it in my keys to control post. It's basically, do things to unwind like talk to people, act silly, etc. during the two hour rule. As you unwind, you stop being excited by things (hot girls, people's reactions, rejection, IOIs, talking to foreign people, etc.), so you become static, meaning that you don't get bored out of the environment. This is good, I've trained myself to – every time I get bored – remember that I'm feeling bored because I'm trying to draw state out of the environment, I'm trying to make the external world arouse me and amuse me. So, I remind myself that this doesn't work, that only my actions and initiatives are going to arouse me. So I start taking intiative totally for myself and continue on that. And as the night goes on, my fun side gets more bringed outside, I turn my relaxation into my arousal and by constantly focusing on the intent of having my own fun and involving girls on the process I strenghten my reality and it's all good.

So, that's it, it may evolve over time but fundamentally it will stay the same. My focus for my nights out (or really any time I'm not working and rather socializing) is how much aligned I can get my thoughts processes, my words and my behaviour in this intent:

Creating my own fun, enjoying my night out.
Remember that it's ME-time and that this means that I act on my impulses unapologetically, not because it works but because I respect myself, I'm the only one who can do this for me.
Involving girls with my time, with my movie.

How strong I can be in this intent is my criteria for success any night out.
Thoughts: The already described mindset. If I am with a girl I don't care about how it goes or if I fuck it up, I don't really, It's stupid to make an effort to get her to like me, because myself is the one person I really care about, not her. I don't care about fucking another random girl, I care about doing the stuff that I love, taking initiative for my fun and just fucking around. The reason I don't care about other people it's because they will always disappoint me, they are little bastard idiots runnning around without seeing the bigger picture, without having the necessary perspective to realize that life is short and that their petty desires, their scarcity based mindset of seeing what they can get out of the situation, how they can make the situation reinforce their stupid self image, are just absurd.
Words: Saying the stuff that I want to say because I care more about myself than about a random girl. Remember, this is not so that I say everything I want and I become extremely arousing to be around and girls will flock to my dick, but rather because that's how I want to live my life - because other people will only care abotu their little needs of getting approbal and validating the externally based reality that society gave them, for myself and ditch external influences that make me act against myself. People are not going to make my life better, they have no interest in it. And if at any time it seems like they are trying to help me, it's probably because they are getting something out of it, whatever it is. This is not being negative, it's reality. I've been working to self-actualize myself for almost for years and even I have this lower conciousness thoughts from time to time, imagine the fucking daze they live in every day. So the solution is to make myself (my joy, my values, my life, my time...) my priority and stop focusing on other people. It's my movie, not theirs.
Actions: Keep taking actions to further arouse myself. Even if I'm with a girl and I think there are chances of me fucking her. Who cares about that? Not that I'm going to feel better because I fuck her. The only one who can make me feel better is myself and the things I do, not having fucking sex. So, keep having initiative, for myself and myself only. To want to get laid, to care about the outcome - even if I'm rationalizing it as being 'just a nice bonus' - is to be stuck in lower conciousness. Higher conciousness is being focused on my movie and my path.

Let me write it in other way. My criteria to determine success in any given night is 'how true I can stay to myself'. This basically means how much can I act on my impulses without trying to get validation from it.

Anyway, just some random things that I wanted to get off my chest now that I am in higher conciousness."

The bad thing it's that I commit myself to dedicate two months to really study on work on exams. My father and grandmother died in the last several weeks and just focusing on them, obviously. People are all like: 'you should take a break'. From my point of view, this kind of things are just motivation to get more focused and step up harder. So, I'm focusing on studying. However, after that I'll be back in the game stronger than ever :) applying this shit.

This intent video is I think your best. I was laughing the whole time. Also, you son's handsome, dude! Are you sure is yours, little man? :).

I'm off. I'll make sure to hit you back with questions, once I'm in the field. Peace.
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that's really interesting Owen's example of Kobe Bryant cause i look at this game exactly the same way.

only my personal hero is Allen Iverson. watching him struggling with different shit and his outstanding will power and never-say-die attitude was super super inspirational to me. to the point that at times i asked myself like a total fanboy "what would A.I. do?"

even in every day life. i got few YT clips of him tearing shit up in the court and i play them when i feel myself getting lazy. i know it's in my sig but it's awesome so i put it out twice : )



damn!

it's quite a reality check cause anything and i mean ANYTHING i do that's less intense dynamic and than this makes me think i totally suck shit. kind of depressing hahaha thinking damn i know i should be killing this shit why am i beating around the bush why am i such a bitch?? i know that comparing to some high figures is not so good for self esteem but at least it helps to step up

watching iverson totally tossing his body around to win win win even the song chorus (lupe fiasco - go to sleep) gets a different meaning to me cause now it's like "if you don't go hard like that then you can go to sleep good night good niiiiight.." ughgh tough punch for self respect
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Dude the newly edited version of the infield clip is awesome, just that little bit extra makes it more sick, awesome man.

Rosco
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Dude your impressions are hilarious
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Good stuff! Tyler you mentioned you were gonna spend more time developing the brand too, I would love to see a website like rsdnation but in career and business success, a lot of the principles I see here apply to all parts of life not just pick up and a business/career related site would be really cool
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i've been browsing rsd on and off for about 4 yrs and this is my first post lol. i have to say the stuff you guys put out is always getting better and this is the best yet. thx owen

oh ya. when my diet, sleep, and fitness is on point it can really help push that max 'in the zone' percentage you mentioned. it's almost like i'm constantantly on a super clean high. i'm walking around just like, "why the fuck is everything so awesome?" :)
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Tyler man you are seriously an inspiration. I love the direction you are taking RSD in, there's alot of self-help and PUA sites whatever but what makes RSD special is your personal journey and worldview. You get it.

This is going to be the start of something really big. If not, it will always be a haven for those people too smart to fit into everyday social conditioning, too alive and awake to not be inspired by the place we find ourselves in. It's like the world is a huge amusement park with all these amazing rides. Enjoying women just being one of them. But we are too scared to go on any of the rides.

I don't blame those people who are too scared because I was just like them once and I can sympathize but once you realize that fact that life is just short, it's really liberating. if we did really live forever everyone would be so fucking lame human life would never evolve or grow.

Thank you Owen. For helping us grow and evolve. I can't send enough respect your way.
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#29

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Tyler wrote:

Because most guys are fucken LAME.  It's not what you do, it's what you DO NOT do.


Goddamn this is a mindfuck of epic proportions.

If you read it from a perspetive of playing not to lose you can read it as "Be careful not to do the wrong things!"

Read it from a perspective of playing to win and you can read it as "Not doing stuff is the lamest shit ever!"

Like, woah...
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STOCKHOLM?
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OMG, lmao... I had to comment before I even got through this.. the fucking infeild fottage made me laugh  and made me feel like a fool... I thought I udnerstood game!!!! lmaooo UGHH you killed it. ahhhhhh your a champ. that was amazing and now I have a new standard. it was just so perfect :P I thought you said "DRIVE ME TO MESSYCAR(mexico)"  oh god.
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Thanks Owen for all those valuable videos latelly


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90z4-tMX3D8&feature=related

That video with the guy asking your money haha damn you, I saw last time in the links
and I asked myself "why he don't put THIS vid at rsdnatio? (specially at the end when the girl say 'you wanna fuck me bla bla' when u guys go to her car)

;D

p.s. I CAN'T WAIT for the hotseat + my BC with brad at Rio de Janeiro! a-hul!
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*double post*
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 ahhha the rest is so fucking sexy. best iv ever seen you describe intent. Im understanding! :P
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#35

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 Tyler! Your son is adorable, I was cracking up during that entire end scene. 

Quick question. I get the impression that you need to be in the zone to get girls. Until you've built enough momentum you'll be unable to get the girl. Is this what you are saying? Are you able to pull girls without being in the zone?
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 kid is fake
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Wow You said exactly what I have been thinking for the past day or so. Having an intense passion for life can help a person get over almost anything, be it addictions or approach anxiety.

When you have something to accomplish and a set goal and can apply an accomplish no matter what attitude you gain a zest for life. Other things becomes easy to fix. Or at least easier.

Its funny because people keep searching for answers but action is the answer.
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#38

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"LISTEN UP NIGGER, YOU CAN GET BAR REFAELI. STOP LIMITING YOURSELF OVER THESE LITTLE BULLSHIT IDENTITIES. YOU'RE A MAN AND SHE'S A WOMAN AND BY LAW YOU WILL FUCK"
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Personal growth vid: When I'm really commited to a journey, I always find that the universe truly puts things to help you along the path. Imagine you're a kid watching an ant determined to get somewhere, its determination makes you want to put a twig to help bridge the ant to its destination. Sometimes what helps you was triggered by a seemingly arbitrary event of the past. I talk about this from life experience. So I don't think you got lucky Tyler, you fucking kept moving forward and the universe literally helped you.

ANOTHER THING THAT'S CRAZY is that I've found that the universe had been trying provide me with a tool way before I noticed it. It's fucking crazy, makes me really watch out more for when "the universe is trying to get me something."

I really recommed a book called "The alchemist", it talks about many of these things including the part where people who stagnate for too long become lost. It's only about 70 pages too :)

And that last part of the vid with your kid was the motherfucking shit. Just the feeling. You also look fucking handsome in there, no homo.
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I dig the shit out of the intent video, but I'll talk about that later. I also recommed the movie The Protector, extreme RAS focus and intent, jesus fuck....
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 So much love
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Hey, the first video was awesome and I will be watching the rest as well. One question - Why do you never show the approach right rom the begining? It looks amazing and I would like to lear how you do it but everything before you have the girl in your arms is a mystery.
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*learn
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#42
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 yo, anyone tried to take a boner pill before they hit the club???? (crass, i know) what's your experience???
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camino1ca wrote:
Hey, the first video was awesome and I will be watching the rest as well. One question - Why do you never show the approach right rom the begining? It looks amazing and I would like to lear how you do it but everything before you have the girl in your arms is a mystery.
Those are the openers.

First girl I'm all angry so I just storm up and GRAB HER FACE and hit the makeout.  That's why I'm like "Who are you?" after making out for a second.  Then we makeout for another few minutes, including I drag her behind the van so her friends don't find her and freakout, and then I"m like "Cool time to find a hotter girl" so bounce.

(This is usually how I get warmed up).

Then the second girl -- that's the opener as well.  Just jump on her in the streets and grab and spin.

Tyler
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btw as a funny sidenote, I reinforced the lesson again last night that if you want to have luck, GO OUT!  Going out MORE means you're more likely to gain LUCK!

I worked a 15 hour day yesterday, and in the last hour before bed ran over to the club to try to relax a bit before bed.  My promoter buddy has a cute girl walk up to him, she thinks my beard is cute, and she (literally...) drags me to the chair and we makeout for like half an hour.

(I'd blame it 50% on the beard, 50% on knowing the promoter...)

Her brother eventually came and dragged her off at the end of the night (although she shoved him off and we made out longer, tho eventually they all had to go home).  But she was reeeealllly cute, like to look over and see a balding 32 year old man like me to be molesting a tanned tight body girl like this is fucken FLY, and it made a LOOOOOONG stressful day a lil less stressful for me.

But again, if you do not GO OUT then you don't get lucky.  I wouldn't have met the girl in the video if I hadn't GONE OUT.  Going out more increases luck.  The game is part skill part luck.

The truth is I did very little on ANY of these girls, other than be cool and maintain eye contact and do nothing DUMB.  But the more you go out, the more girls you are statistically likely to meet who want to fuck you.
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 Tyler 

Do the I do this while you suck at home and do shit stuff

btw hot girl. 
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girls just care about hair...if not on the head then somewhere else. ass hair works pretty well.
Tyler wrote:
eventually they all had to go home).  But she was reeeealllly cute, like to look over and see a balding 32 year old man like me to be 
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#47

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 Good job getting your kid used to being up in front of crowds, Tyler. Props to you, sir.

So being from Norway, land of the worlds biggest ski-jump (246.5 m bro), I'm not too familiar with this b-ball thing.



From watching a vid on Kobe it seems to me that he has three things going for him in his game; better stamina than the pack giving him a clear mind and a body free of toxins at all times, excellent technique and an RAS tuned to scoring. The analogy here to gaming girls is obvious, but I would say that he would be pretty damned good even with only ok technique. Only thing is that it would look a bit more messy. I have experienced this myself in my earlier sporting days and in my admittedly beginners level of gaming girls. 

A clear mind from meditating and/or being massivly productive all day long plus going for the "close " as Ozzy would say and I get some results even dough I really don't have a line in my reportoire except "hi" (being physical comes really natural to me). If I go out with an unstable or clouded mind or not going in with much intent it all goes pear-shaped.

Btw my approach to killing approach anxiety is to treat it like I'm setting of a ski-jump. Once I set of I'm committed and its no turning back. Admittedly this makes my brain come up with all these bullshit thoughts of why I shouldn't even get up there, but I have learned to recognise them for what they are, set them aside and set of. Being in the moment as it were.
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infield footage is the shit.
biggest motivator ever. i see that stuff and go : nice i can do that !
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 dissapointed that you don't think you can get bar tyler. 

self-limiting belief brooooo

when you are a winner there is NO COMPETIION

swing harder
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 Is Vincent growing his hair out so he can look like BRAD?
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