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Hey!

Just got back from the past week of camping and hiking out on the Napali Coast of Kauai.  I'm in Honolulu right now preparing for tonight's Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.

Gonna go grab a fish spinach salad and acai bowl up the street for breakfast and probably rest up the remainder of the day.

I managed to shoot some AMAZING content up Napali btw, here's a preview of the types of vids that Julien and I shot for you while we were there...


I did up tons of them up there but will have to choose which ones I want to release.  The one that's coming out for sure will be a 40 minute instructional video on meditation that everyone's been asking me for. :)

In the meantime I'm also getting psyched for Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT!!

It's GOING THE F#$K OFF in Las Vegas August 19 - 25!!  FIGURE OUT A WAY TO GET DOWN THERE!

RSD World Summit is the most fun you will have in your damned life, and everyone who goes rants and raves about it for years afterwards.  I seriously can't say enough about this event.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

I've also got Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp coming up in.....

September 6, 2012: Los Angeles
September 20, 2012: San Diego
October 4, 2012: New York
October 18, 2012: Chicago
November 3, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas

You'll notice that funny New Mexico date on there, which is probably going to be a really small program, so I hope that if you live near there you'll come check it out!

(I just wanted to check it out so figured I'd offer an event while I was in town, probably the only one I'll ever do, but I just think it looks like a cool place.  Maybe you want to come check it out if you're from out of town as well!)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

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Okay so today I've got a video that has had a really great response, which I think is because it ties in "universal principles of life" with the "journey" aspects of the game.

I think your PASSION for the game is really going to be re-grounded after watching this, and I know you'll absolutely love it for sure.

CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN "THE PASSION OF THE GAME"!!


The audience was fantastic btw, and the guy who dances in it (strangely...) turned out to be a super cool dude and got laid (or maybe his dick sucked or something...) the same day he applied the principles in the vid!

I may also release another cut from Philly Free Tour but I'll decide later, as I have a lot of content currently in the pipeline.

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Anyway I'm gonna shoot off for breakfast, and btw the last thing I thought I'd mention is that BRAD has been really stepping it up lately...

He's got a product he's been putting together that looks really phenomenal, and his latest video content has really blown me away.  I'll be talking to him at the upcoming Summit to figure out what we wanna do with all this, and some amazing things should be on the horizon.

In the meantime you can check out his blog at...

www.bradbranson.com

Also be sure to let me know what insights you gained from the video, and hit me back with any thoughts on your mind!

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler
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#1

Kjaye777

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Oh man. Thanks Tyler!

Just woken up, said goodbye to the new stunner I've been seeing the last two weeks entirely thanks to you, who has the most amazing I've ever tasted. Now I've off to my first job interview for 13 years since being signed off work permanently for long term sickness, again entirely thanks to your success videos 1 & 2.

From the title alone I know this video is going to be sweet, downloading from youtube now, will watch when I'm back from my interview.

Cheers for all the fantastic support you provide mate!
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This is one of my favorite videos you've done. Awesome.
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Had a few "ahas" in the video. The will-power thing and where it starts to degrade is sick.

Keep us in the loop about how your trip may or may not have changed certain aspects of game or how you see things. Vacations tend to change outlooks, for me at least.
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 Just inspirational
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 Dude, thank you so much.
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 Does Tyler even lift?
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This is a really great vid, puts things in perspective. It's kinda odd how when you get a bit more mature and connected to working on yourself you kinda start to feel like your own puppetmaster.
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watched the first 10 minutes. I LOVE  this stuff. so keen to keep watching but here in australia.... it's time to go out.... right action.
btw. went out, got laid.
NOW i can watch the vid.
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So true. Thanks for taking the time to upload it and hope you guys had a great hike.
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First!!!!!!!!
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On the ball as always.

But would you dare to get a video together about your thoughts on what a girl's "path" is?
So many girls I know are superconfused, facebook addicts that are just wasting their lifes, walking around, waiting to be stimulated. Is there no equivalent for them to what RSD is for men? Or are girls just a lost cause, LOL

I bet you have some insight through meeting tons of them even though you're not an expert on the area, beat resistance and spit it out.
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Almost made me cry at the end cause of your passion dood, this is a great vid.
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One universal truth is that Tyler is right 99% of the time ;)

Thansk Tyler you changed my life!
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I don't have time at the moment and have only seen a little bit of this, but I'm wondering right away: Why don't they show stuff like that in school? You learn so much crap you don't really need in school; there should be a mandatory Tyler class...!
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 Great, thanks Tyler.

You mentioned that you like wrestling with not wanting to take action...I dont like wrestling with it, but would like to. Is it a simple reframing of your perspectives OR is it a matter of battling through the pain barrier, jumping in the deep end and getting out of your comfort zone?
Personally my way to deal with it in the past, and got relatively good results from it was to do something that is in my comfort zone, something that puts me in a good mood/state and from there pushing out of my comfort zone. 

Also you mentioned that focus on your passion and go for it, whether its game orientated or not. What do you do when you have a mix of different things going on? I work in retail, work in music, socialise (game) a lot...and I feel I should excel in one area, like you are hinting to in the video, and as mentioned by Stephen Presfield, but they all are equally as important right now and I actually enjoy them a lot, but I do not have the same passion as you. Is that just how it is or is it case of (as mentioned in your video on the beach) shut the fuck up and do it, and then from there, with enough focus, the passion emerges (i.e you give yourself to it before it starts giving back) 

Thanks man.
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 Thanks for the video Tyler. I would like an advice from educated and experienced person like you about what should my path be at this moment. I am pursuing a career and while I am doing it, I get so fucking horny often. I think that is good healthy sign and makes me believe I chose the right career for me. I have a hot girlfriend but she is not really the right one for me. I would like to find a replacement. I go out sometimes and get numbers but not really much success. Is it better to get my game with women mastered first, and then pursue my career? Or is it better to concentrate on my career? Or should I do both? I feel like I should master my game with women so I would be more confident and more productive pursuing my career. While having problem with women, I am not as confident and sometimes I dont feel like I deserve to be successful in my career. But also when I meet a woman and she is not what I wanted, or she just flakes out on me, or she loses interest in me, my confidence also goes down. I am stuck in this fucked up loop. I am wondering if I should change my environment because I am living with my mother. I really cant afford move out on my own but sometimes I think being a bum is not worse than my situation right now. I would appreciate any advice from Tyler on anyone else. 
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Awesome video, I love when you start talking some new stuff. Im glad to grow up in my life watching a guy like you
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 Hey Tyler, quick question..could you put up a short list of maybe some great books that you read or that you recommend to us that we should read? I personally love reading and I think it would help a lot of people! Great video by the way..always hitting it up..people who go out can connect a lot with your "material", it's always awesome when you put longer videos who are filled with golden advice. Keep up the work and thanks a lot!
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FlaiR_pua wrote:
 Hey Tyler, quick question..could you put up a short list of maybe some great books that you read or that you recommend to us that we should read? I personally love reading and I think it would help a lot of people! Great video by the way..always hitting it up..people who go out can connect a lot with your "material", it's always awesome when you put longer videos who are filled with golden advice. Keep up the work and thanks a lot!
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That was  very contagious. I really liked this one, perhaps the best i've ever seen, at least in terms of what I am trying to achieve. From the 27 min mark its pure gold in my opinion, especially the explanation of the game being an art.
GREAT VALUE MAN ! 
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 Thank you.
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FlaiR_pua wrote:
 Hey Tyler, quick question..could you put up a short list of maybe some great books that you read or that you recommend to us that we should read? I personally love reading and I think it would help a lot of people! Great video by the way..always hitting it up..people who go out can connect a lot with your "material", it's always awesome when you put longer videos who are filled with golden advice. Keep up the work and thanks a lot!
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“How you do it is up to you. The way you do it is not your purpose. The way you do it is an expression of your purpose. The only purpose you have is to be yourself.”

Bashar
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i LOVE the fact that you mention the journey and how you view pick up for youself like you wouldnt have a cool life without it because there are so many points that resonate with me soooo deeply. like pick up is not all about getting laid but more about evolving yourself, becoming a better person in general and fucking GROW. be a better man than the day before. again, i LOVED the video !
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The War of Art - Steven Pressfield
The Wheel of Time - Carlos Castaneda
The Talent Code - Daniel Coyle
Warrior of Light - Paulo Coelho
Mastery - George Leonard

Anyone catch any other books mentioned? 
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best video I 've ever seen from you..pure gold! :)
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 Awesome vid
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 damn this guy said fuck your backgrounds i got a motherfuckin rainbow bitches lmao
nice vid bro
need more examples on how to "sculpt" interactions...
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Amazing video. Truly inspiring. The quality of content has only increased since I've started at RSD. Loved the bit at the beginning about making right choices and the types of activities happy and successful people make (reading books, eating right, etc.) Quality material. Keep it up
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razorlicious wrote:
The War of Art - Steven Pressfield
The Wheel of Time - Carlos Castaneda
The Talent Code - Daniel Coyle
Warrior of Light - Paulo Coelho
Mastery - George Leonard

Anyone catch any other books mentioned? 


The Ultramind Solution by Dr. Mark Hyman
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#32
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 I feel that same manic feeling too! It's fucking ridiculous. I was trying to study and get a massive amount of work done too after a couple of crazy nights out and it was SO difficult.

I like the books idea, documentaries are good too. Everyone should go on Youtube and check out King Corn. It's free in the documentaries section.
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 Awesome Vid. Watched it twice. I really gained an awareness of how much picking up girls is part of an almost spiritual path. I pulled last night and have been experiencing that manic phase where I get little sleep as my brain is rewiring itself. I want to be on point for summit and it looks to be shaping up. See you there!
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 Dude, this knowledge is fucking tight
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 "Good job, most people think its Toronto."

Ahhh he probably got it right because he's seen some of your other videos. I think everyone on RSDN knows what the capital of Canada is. :P
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Man.  I'm floored.  Tyler thank you for doing this every week for us.

Thank you.
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 That was excellent. As a slow learner it really helps put things in perspective too...Also makes me feel guilty for not reading more!
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Vid hit home in a cold and eerie kind of way. Gave me leverage thinking about the consequences of doing things the wrong way over time in life. Like the BluePrint: as a chode gets older, his chodelyness increases. Thinking that the bullshit that is fucking me up now, will only become worse over time... idk that's just fucking scary how I slowly cripple myself by BEING A BITCH. Almost reverses all the rationalizations instantly, as though those rationalizations aren't intelligent anymore - they are just one more step on the road to bitchdom. Really motivating in a "what the fuck how do I let this shit fly, no more. NO FUCKING MORE." sense.
FlaiR_pua wrote:
 Hey Tyler, quick question..could you put up a short list of maybe some great books that you read or that you recommend to us that we should read? I personally love reading and I think it would help a lot of people! Great video by the way..always hitting it up..people who go out can connect a lot with your "material", it's always awesome when you put longer videos who are filled with golden advice. Keep up the work and thanks a lot!
Other books mentioned in recent RSD vids:

The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
First Rate Madness - Nassir Ghaemi
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People - Stephen Covey (author recently died)
The 50th Law; The 48 Laws of Power; The Art of Seduction - Robert Greene (cautioned against Robert Greene "we r stimulus responders so ima get mine" mentality.)
Losing My Virginity: How I survived, Had Fun, and Made a Fortune Doing Business My Way - Sir Richard Branson
A Brave New World - Aldous Huxley

A few books coming to mind that Tyler has noted as significant in the past are:
The 4-Hour Work Week - Timothy Ferris
Atlas Shrugged - Ayn Rand
The Fountainhead - Ayn Rand
Fight Club - Chuck Palahniuk

This little list and the other books mentioned by razorlicious and Pardi Gras are enough to keep anyone busy for a few months of dedicated reading. Cheers!
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So much posuitive feedback....Good to see:)
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 Tyler vid is awesome as usual. I really like the vids where you can just soak up that passion and feel inspired. It just reinforces all the stuff I already know and makes me excited to just DO IT.

Weirdly, Julien's video talked about something I've been focusing on subcosciously on my nights out and writing about in my FRs... Not my results but my inner process. Glad to see I was doing the right thing without even thinking about it.
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 Yo Tyler what is the right way to deal with family and friends who are stimulus junkies? Tell them there is a better way or just accept it and try to have fun with them?

I guess it's the last one but i was just wondering haha

funny how i know what is right but it's so hard to chose the right thing.

Making the right disicions is the hardest in life but making more of them it become more easy i guess... 

Life is fun!

back to work now!
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#42

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for the quick makeout, do you grab her head with both hands then go in? i usually dart my head in and then they turn theirs away
how do u do that shit mang!??!?
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#43

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I know this sounds like I'm crazy. But after my BC in april I read the books the "War of Art" and the "7 Habits" and as I read them I felt that I already KNEW this stuff. I was like "WTF?!!". Obviously the authors broke it down better and I understood it better, but what I feel is that I got to understand the concept, but I had ALREADY INTERNALIZED IT. 

I lost this and I'm working on getting it back. There were SO MANY FUCKING COOL elements that I temporarily internalized after BC!!! Anyway, this video is extremely helpful! Your public speaking and your CONTENT have been taking leaps lately!

As for my non-mental-masturbation progress lol. I pulled the hottest girl I ever had about two weeks ago and it was kind of effortless, and yeah I couldn't sleep at all that night. And last night I went out I made out with an even hotter girl SO EASY. I didn't even care. The night before that I had gone to this venue that I don't feel comfortable with, I sucked, but I walked the path and that one was so much memorable to me. If you're not gonna push yourself then you might as well just KILL YOURSELF! Because what's the fucking point?! And BTW, my momentum is SHIT but this is still doable.

lol, sometimes I don't wanna give feedback because I think it sounds too fucking weird, but this vid gave me confidence
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 LOL so sweet that you put ABQ on the schedule. I remember you talking about that in Denver but I TOTALLY thought you were joking. I'll try to get there and bring some dudes from Austin.

And so sweet New Orleans is on there. And Aspen HAHA. Pretty sweet low key locations, I think sometimes the home town girls are pretty amazing. 
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Big wake up call thank you 
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Revolutionary brah keep on keeping it real
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This is scarily eerie but this is exactly wtf i needed. Ive been dealing with some shit and this deals with it on point. Thanks a ton bro. 
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 Amazing how much value tyler put outs here every week through its videos. Mad props man! Keep rockin' it and I cannot thank you enough for all the value you are putting out here! 

I liked the expression "PUSHING THE ENVELOPE" you used in your video, the band TOOL dedicated a song to pushing the envelope and riding the spiral of life. The song even has some strong eastern philosophy in it's lyrics "embracing the random".  Lyrics go very deep. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awYc9xvqnv0

My buddy and me just did a roadtrip and constantly embraced the random which lead us to amazing opportunities and experiences. This combined with pushing the envelope (INTENT) is very POWERFUL.

Pushing the Envelope + Embracing the random = Guaranteed new Opportunities and Experiences in Life 

it's important to be at ease with the random and to go even deeper, willing to die for it.  

your must be willing to sacrifice your life like a WARRIOR for your chosen path of life.

Essentially, pushing and 100% willing to embrace the random deal with the consequences that come from "pushing the envelope". (PERSONAL BOUNDARIES)
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#49

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 I would like an advice from educated and experienced person like Tyler about what should my path be at this moment. I am pursuing a career and while I am doing it, I get so fucking horny often. I think that is good healthy sign and makes me believe I chose the right career for me. I have a hot girlfriend but she is not really the right one for me. I would like to find a replacement. I go out sometimes and get numbers but not really much success. Is it better to get my game with women mastered first, and then pursue my career? Or is it better to concentrate on my career? Or should I do both? I feel like I should master my game with women so I would be more confident and more productive pursuing my career. While having problem with women, I am not as confident and sometimes I dont feel like I deserve to be successful in my career. But also when I meet a woman and she is not what I wanted, or she just flakes out on me, or she loses interest in me, my confidence also goes down. I am stuck in this fucked up loop. I am wondering if I should change my environment because I am living with my mother. I really cant afford move out on my own but sometimes I think being a bum is not worse than my situation right now. I would appreciate any advice from anyone on this forum.  2 words will do
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 Tyler, when signing up for boot camp, I can not open up the terms and conditions link. http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/terms.asp  It might be working now, but for the past two days it was down for me.  Just doing my good deed for the day!  Take care man.

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