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Hey!
Just got into South Beach for the next 5 WEEKS of non stop 5 day Bootcamps. We had our first night out last night which for a Tuesday was definitely a blast.
Weekend should just get crazier and crazier.
I'll be shooting a ton of content while here in Miami, and I've got 2 new vids this week, on the topics of information overload and getting back in the game.
Here's my upcoming schedule...
February 21, 2013: Miami
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
I've also got that 5th week opening for Miami's Model Season Bootcamp.
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I've now decided to stay a 5th week for Ultra / WMC.
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Alright so there's been a phenomenon in the pickup community since I've been in it since 2002, called THE FALLACY OF THE FIRST PERFECT APPROACH.
Basically guys learn about pickup, have no interest in truly learning the game, but want to learn every bit of theory and approach ony one girl, make her their girlfriend, and never have to experience rejection or approach again.
So they watch and watch and watch the all the videos, and think once they "get it" they'll be ready to do their first approach.
And guess what happens?
They get so much information in their heads, they get COMPLETELY PARALYZED when they approach.
My view towards this (to be fully honest) is these people are complete pussies and not taking enough action to remotely comprehend the ideas.
I love new information, but it's because I'm always on the move. I am always at an information DEFICIENCY and my Amazon bill is practically more than my rent.
But it's because I'm constantly taking action, and crank out full day after full day of rigorous work. In my spare time I'm partying hard and having sex. So any new information I can get, it's immediately put into real life.
For many people though, I guess they move at a slower pace and don't go out as much, so it gets confusing. Then after a week of sitting at home staring at their belly button, they venture out of their basement have all the non internalized ideas from the videos floating around in their minds, CONFUSING AND UPSETTING THEM. :)
What's the solution?
Assume that for every 1 hour worth of videos you watch, you want to be out interacting with women a good 2 - 4 hours in real life.
If you do this, you will NEVER find RSD videos confusing at all whatsoever. There's no way you could have that much real life context and ever be confused.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE ME VISUALLY DEMONSTRATE WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU FAIL TO DO THIS...
Hopefully that made an impact.
Look, just last night I mauled down a bunch of hot girls, and it was great.
But guess what else? I had girls brush me off.
That's after 11 years of straight gaming. IT CANNOT BE AVOIDED.
Sure I had many of the hottest girls in South Beach up on me, but I also had some girls who didn't want to talk.
Oh well!
Make a commitment to taking MASSIVE ACTION.
MASSIVE MASSIVE MASSIVE ACTION.
Doing this will make you an information absorbing MACHINE.
The reason I read so much is that i take so much action. So I have so much context, there's no amount of information that my brain cannot absorb.
I CRAVE new information. For the right reasons: I take action, I go out.
<>==============================<>
Next up we're getting into the topic of getting back into the game.
I thought that would be a fun one for anyone who was motivated to start going out again after time off, to avoid having to kill themselves like what happened to me in the previous vid. :)
This is important because breaks are inevitable if you're in something for the long haul, so you will want strategies for getting back on track.
Remember: whatever you do a LOT your brain will re-wire itself to enjoy, so once you're back into it you will begin to enjoy it!
So no matter how freaked out you feel when you get back into sometihng, recall that you will begin to ENJOY it again once you get back some momentum with it.
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER MY SECRETS ON GETTING BACK INTO MOMENTUM WITH SOMETHING YOU WERE PREVIOUS KILLING IT AT...
Anyway this was fun, and I plan to get into some very THEORETICAL videos while here in Miami.
I've got a bunch of them sketched out, not so much on pickup but on larger principles that indirectly apply.
Psyched to get out and shoot them.
Then again, watching Julien in the field last night, I may have a few ideas that directly apply to pick up as well.
<>=================================<>
FURTHER LEARNING:
Here's a video I shot last year with a giant beard, where you see me INFIELD ACTUALLY GETTING BACK IN THE GAME after a one month break.
If you've never seen it you'll absolutely want to check this out.
And if you've seen it before, watch it again with the new context of the video you just watched above, and you'll get a lot more out of it!
Great 1 - 2 punch here with the two videos on the same topic. The new one on the theory behind it, and this one here showing how it plays out in the field.
So if you've been out of it for a while, consider this motivation! :) Let's get back out there TONIGHT!
<>==================================<>
Anwyay that's it for this week, I'll see you back soon for the next episode!
I'm off to grab a bite at one of my fav Miami restaurants, and hit up the gym before tonight's events!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT THE TOPIC OF INFORMATION OVERLOAD AND GETTING BACK IN THE GAME. I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND!
Thanks for reading and have an amazing week!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
Just got into South Beach for the next 5 WEEKS of non stop 5 day Bootcamps. We had our first night out last night which for a Tuesday was definitely a blast.
Weekend should just get crazier and crazier.
I'll be shooting a ton of content while here in Miami, and I've got 2 new vids this week, on the topics of information overload and getting back in the game.
Here's my upcoming schedule...
February 21, 2013: Miami
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305
I've also got that 5th week opening for Miami's Model Season Bootcamp.
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
Hit up stuart@realsocialdynamics.com if you may want to attend. The first 4 weeks overfilled almost instantly and I've now decided to stay a 5th week for Ultra / WMC.
<>===================================<>
Alright so there's been a phenomenon in the pickup community since I've been in it since 2002, called THE FALLACY OF THE FIRST PERFECT APPROACH.
Basically guys learn about pickup, have no interest in truly learning the game, but want to learn every bit of theory and approach ony one girl, make her their girlfriend, and never have to experience rejection or approach again.
So they watch and watch and watch the all the videos, and think once they "get it" they'll be ready to do their first approach.
And guess what happens?
They get so much information in their heads, they get COMPLETELY PARALYZED when they approach.
My view towards this (to be fully honest) is these people are complete pussies and not taking enough action to remotely comprehend the ideas.
I love new information, but it's because I'm always on the move. I am always at an information DEFICIENCY and my Amazon bill is practically more than my rent.
But it's because I'm constantly taking action, and crank out full day after full day of rigorous work. In my spare time I'm partying hard and having sex. So any new information I can get, it's immediately put into real life.
For many people though, I guess they move at a slower pace and don't go out as much, so it gets confusing. Then after a week of sitting at home staring at their belly button, they venture out of their basement have all the non internalized ideas from the videos floating around in their minds, CONFUSING AND UPSETTING THEM. :)
What's the solution?
Assume that for every 1 hour worth of videos you watch, you want to be out interacting with women a good 2 - 4 hours in real life.
If you do this, you will NEVER find RSD videos confusing at all whatsoever. There's no way you could have that much real life context and ever be confused.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO SEE ME VISUALLY DEMONSTRATE WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU FAIL TO DO THIS...
Hopefully that made an impact.
Look, just last night I mauled down a bunch of hot girls, and it was great.
But guess what else? I had girls brush me off.
That's after 11 years of straight gaming. IT CANNOT BE AVOIDED.
Sure I had many of the hottest girls in South Beach up on me, but I also had some girls who didn't want to talk.
Oh well!
Make a commitment to taking MASSIVE ACTION.
MASSIVE MASSIVE MASSIVE ACTION.
Doing this will make you an information absorbing MACHINE.
The reason I read so much is that i take so much action. So I have so much context, there's no amount of information that my brain cannot absorb.
I CRAVE new information. For the right reasons: I take action, I go out.
<>==============================<>
Next up we're getting into the topic of getting back into the game.
I thought that would be a fun one for anyone who was motivated to start going out again after time off, to avoid having to kill themselves like what happened to me in the previous vid. :)
This is important because breaks are inevitable if you're in something for the long haul, so you will want strategies for getting back on track.
Remember: whatever you do a LOT your brain will re-wire itself to enjoy, so once you're back into it you will begin to enjoy it!
So no matter how freaked out you feel when you get back into sometihng, recall that you will begin to ENJOY it again once you get back some momentum with it.
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER MY SECRETS ON GETTING BACK INTO MOMENTUM WITH SOMETHING YOU WERE PREVIOUS KILLING IT AT...
Anyway this was fun, and I plan to get into some very THEORETICAL videos while here in Miami.
I've got a bunch of them sketched out, not so much on pickup but on larger principles that indirectly apply.
Psyched to get out and shoot them.
Then again, watching Julien in the field last night, I may have a few ideas that directly apply to pick up as well.
<>=================================<>
FURTHER LEARNING:
Here's a video I shot last year with a giant beard, where you see me INFIELD ACTUALLY GETTING BACK IN THE GAME after a one month break.
If you've never seen it you'll absolutely want to check this out.
And if you've seen it before, watch it again with the new context of the video you just watched above, and you'll get a lot more out of it!
Great 1 - 2 punch here with the two videos on the same topic. The new one on the theory behind it, and this one here showing how it plays out in the field.
So if you've been out of it for a while, consider this motivation! :) Let's get back out there TONIGHT!
<>==================================<>
Anwyay that's it for this week, I'll see you back soon for the next episode!
I'm off to grab a bite at one of my fav Miami restaurants, and hit up the gym before tonight's events!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT THE TOPIC OF INFORMATION OVERLOAD AND GETTING BACK IN THE GAME. I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND!
Thanks for reading and have an amazing week!
Tyler
www.rsdunderground.com
Comments
Noronha
Senior Member
Join Date: 04/27/2010 | Posts: 126
But since I'm pimping for too long, I start to get more negative, I don´t know if you understand me. I see all women as bitches, I don´t treat them very well, even after they have lowered their defenses, I get the feeling that everyone around me are weak, I start to think Im the best man in the world.
Have you ever experienced this? Could make a topic about it if you relate?
Miško
Member
Join Date: 05/03/2012 | Posts: 40
Dawinci
Member
Join Date: 04/08/2012 | Posts: 29
ApproachMachine88
Member
Join Date: 01/05/2013 | Posts: 33
I watched your video and now it all makes sense. I just need to ease myself back into everything. Since I didn't game for a week I'm guessing I will have the same experience when I go out tomorrow but now I will know how to deal with it.
THANKS A MILLION!!!!!
Supaflytntrocknrolla
Member
Join Date: 11/22/2010 | Posts: 34
There are a lot of underlying reasons why someone is a "hardcase" or avoids social contact, this also goes along very well with the fact that most of his customers are "over achiever" types like engineers maybe pre-med students etc. I know he knows this mindset because he made a video of the newb who does an approach and is destroyed by it.
The reason why these people are "pussies" is maybe they are SUPER fucking stressed out. They are wound really tight from having to attend crazy insanely tough demanding classes, and have a job. This is why they self medicate, and avoid social contact. They are emotionally exhausted, because they are not really intouch with their emotions.
A lot of my friends are having this emotional exhaustion (AKA burnout) because even taking 12-15 credit hours and working part time is turning them into this stress lowers their self esteem, and destroys their discipline, because their time as been leveraged to the hilt. Its like this one friend of mine said: "After the first month of classes is like my sense of humor just disappears, and comes back at the end of the semester."
They have been trained for many many years to do as much as they can. They don't know anything else. When it comes to pickup they treat it just like their one of their classes. They study it intently, then they prepare for an approach like an exam. Ok I will probably enounter this type of response so I need to respond this way...etc, you get the point.
For the extreme student types its not that they are lil' bitches, or pussies. This problem is multifacted. School has their emotions completely wiped out, so this makes them reserved. They are probably very logical types so they take very well to studing theory. College has got them accustomed to taking on more than they can handle, and this is also part of the reason why their expectations of themselves are unrealistically high. They will also have a high potiential to abuse themselves with caffeine and little sleep which makes the problem worse.
ApproachMachine88
Member
Join Date: 01/05/2013 | Posts: 33
There are a lot of underlying reasons why someone is a "hardcase" or avoids social contact, this also goes along very well with the fact that most of his customers are "over achiever" types like engineers maybe pre-med students etc. I know he knows this mindset because he made a video of the newb who does an approach and is destroyed by it.
The reason why these people are "pussies" is maybe they are SUPER fucking stressed out. They are wound really tight from having to attend crazy insanely tough demanding classes, and have a job. This is why they self medicate, and avoid social contact. They are emotionally exhausted, because they are not really intouch with their emotions.
A lot of my friends are having this emotional exhaustion (AKA burnout) because even taking 12-15 credit hours and working part time is turning them into this stress lowers their self esteem, and destroys their discipline, because their time as been leveraged to the hilt. Its like this one friend of mine said: "After the first month of classes is like my sense of humor just disappears, and comes back at the end of the semester."
They have been trained for many many years to do as much as they can. They don't know anything else. When it comes to pickup they treat it just like their one of their classes. They study it intently, then they prepare for an approach like an exam. Ok I will probably enounter this type of response so I need to respond this way...etc, you get the point.
For the extreme student types its not that they are lil' bitches, or pussies. This problem is multifacted. School has their emotions completely wiped out, so this makes them reserved. They are probably very logical types so they take very well to studing theory. College has got them accustomed to taking on more than they can handle, and this is also part of the reason why their expectations of themselves are unrealistically high. They will also have a high potiential to abuse themselves with caffeine and little sleep which makes the problem worse.
RezznT!
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Join Date: 04/06/2010 | Posts: 68
AndyDufresne
Senior Member
Join Date: 06/20/2012 | Posts: 164
That's what I see when I walk into every venue... A bunch of mature business chodes who are so boring that they bore themselves and every girl they talk to.
TD, I really value the videos you put out not for the content per se, but because I feel like I'm constantly reinforcing the "everything is silly" state of mind. My entire life is a constant struggle to stay on those empowering frequencies/mindsets and not give in to the bullshit mainstream consciousness.
Great video.
the_riddle
Member
Join Date: 01/21/2012 | Posts: 29
I have the same when starting to get into school mode (Aerospace Engineering).. First 1 week maybe, I hate it, my brain feels so bored, I WANT TO KILL PEOPLE hahhaha!! But then THE POWER OF HABIT takes over and i can do it all day every day, and after it gets in routine I kind of like it ;) Funny how the brain works!
And when I finish up with exams I usually go up 3-4 nights in a role.. and just take it slowly the first 2-3 nights.. talk with people.. socialize... talk with some ladies.. and usually 3-4 night is where some action is going to take place! Funny how some pattern you have observed as well!
By the way, readint the '4 hour work week' and loving it. When are you going to make a video connecting with those ideas... Quality of life vs. working for the millions :)
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
We are ALL made out of DNA that is designed to unethically "survive and reproduce".
And when you're seeing the SIDE of women that will do all sorts of selfish things to benefit itself, it's hard not to feel the way you feel.
Just remember that we ALL have this side of ourselves. Humans are humans!
Tyler
I don´t have many problems to return to pimp mode since I stopped for a while.
But since I'm pimping for too long, I start to get more negative, I don´t know if you understand me. I see all women as bitches, I don´t treat them very well, even after they have lowered their defenses, I get the feeling that everyone around me are weak, I start to think Im the best man in the world.
Have you ever experienced this? Could make a topic about it if you relate?
major10
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Join Date: 11/19/2012 | Posts: 30
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
Watch last half of this vid on "charisma VS congruence", it's on that topic!
Tyler
I can relate very well to what you said. I had many periods when I was out of the game. What makes it double frustrating its a fact that in your mind you think that you should do those hardcore gangsta pimp shit like instant makeout , fingerbang girls on dance floor but becouse you was out for a long time it just can't happen right away. In a lot of cases you feel more depressed like before - when you were newbie becouse when you were newbie you celebrated every small victory but now you are very hard on yourself becouse you are not as comfortable/calibrated in field as before.
major10
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Join Date: 11/19/2012 | Posts: 30
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
Watch last half of this vid on "charisma VS congruence", it's on that topic!
Tyler
I can relate very well to what you said. I had many periods when I was out of the game. What makes it double frustrating its a fact that in your mind you think that you should do those hardcore gangsta pimp shit like instant makeout , fingerbang girls on dance floor but becouse you was out for a long time it just can't happen right away. In a lot of cases you feel more depressed like before - when you were newbie becouse when you were newbie you celebrated every small victory but now you are very hard on yourself becouse you are not as comfortable/calibrated in field as before.
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
That shot is slightly over from Runyon actually, at a lookout point off to the side.
Tyler
Tyler
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Tyler
I watched your video and now it all makes sense. I just need to ease myself back into everything. Since I didn't game for a week I'm guessing I will have the same experience when I go out tomorrow but now I will know how to deal with it.
THANKS A MILLION!!!!!
Graham28292
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Join Date: 11/15/2012 | Posts: 19
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
I wanna REALLY STRESS that if you just GO OUT you will instantly find that all your excuses vanish.
I fully fully fully understand what you're trying to get across. Please trust me on this though, you can vaporize all these issues with a simple night out of hitting it hard!
The response you got from the poster above was a bit harsh, and probably not communicated properly, but what he was TRYING to say is that even though what you're saying feels real to you -- your life will be so much happier if you just go out!
Again though I fully get what you're saying here and it makes sense. Please check out that video I shot in Dallas about the 6 steps, and just follow them for a night. You'll be loving life!
Tyler
There are a lot of underlying reasons why someone is a "hardcase" or avoids social contact, this also goes along very well with the fact that most of his customers are "over achiever" types like engineers maybe pre-med students etc. I know he knows this mindset because he made a video of the newb who does an approach and is destroyed by it.
The reason why these people are "pussies" is maybe they are SUPER fucking stressed out. They are wound really tight from having to attend crazy insanely tough demanding classes, and have a job. This is why they self medicate, and avoid social contact. They are emotionally exhausted, because they are not really intouch with their emotions.
A lot of my friends are having this emotional exhaustion (AKA burnout) because even taking 12-15 credit hours and working part time is turning them into this stress lowers their self esteem, and destroys their discipline, because their time as been leveraged to the hilt. Its like this one friend of mine said: "After the first month of classes is like my sense of humor just disappears, and comes back at the end of the semester."
They have been trained for many many years to do as much as they can. They don't know anything else. When it comes to pickup they treat it just like their one of their classes. They study it intently, then they prepare for an approach like an exam. Ok I will probably enounter this type of response so I need to respond this way...etc, you get the point.
For the extreme student types its not that they are lil' bitches, or pussies. This problem is multifacted. School has their emotions completely wiped out, so this makes them reserved. They are probably very logical types so they take very well to studing theory. College has got them accustomed to taking on more than they can handle, and this is also part of the reason why their expectations of themselves are unrealistically high. They will also have a high potiential to abuse themselves with caffeine and little sleep which makes the problem worse.
Tyler
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
I like how he thinks outside the box and very independently, maybe we'll link for a vid at some point in the future.
Nice that you know how to get back on track!
Tyler
I have the same when starting to get into school mode (Aerospace Engineering).. First 1 week maybe, I hate it, my brain feels so bored, I WANT TO KILL PEOPLE hahhaha!! But then THE POWER OF HABIT takes over and i can do it all day every day, and after it gets in routine I kind of like it ;) Funny how the brain works!
And when I finish up with exams I usually go up 3-4 nights in a role.. and just take it slowly the first 2-3 nights.. talk with people.. socialize... talk with some ladies.. and usually 3-4 night is where some action is going to take place! Funny how some pattern you have observed as well!
By the way, readint the '4 hour work week' and loving it. When are you going to make a video connecting with those ideas... Quality of life vs. working for the millions :)
Tyler
Instructor | Trusted Member
Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6896
Tyler
That's what I see when I walk into every venue... A bunch of mature business chodes who are so boring that they bore themselves and every girl they talk to.
TD, I really value the videos you put out not for the content per se, but because I feel like I'm constantly reinforcing the "everything is silly" state of mind. My entire life is a constant struggle to stay on those empowering frequencies/mindsets and not give in to the bullshit mainstream consciousness.
Great video.
choochoodetrain
Member
Join Date: 08/09/2012 | Posts: 29
Kool Kane
Member
Join Date: 03/03/2010 | Posts: 61
still watching the hot seat previews "tyler pulls girl from taxi" and "pulling while being out of state" before going out. juliens and alex hot seat preview is also great to catch the fun vibe you want to have before going out.
being someone who hasn't done an approach yet, causes a lot of stress. when I read some posts here I feel the pain. we've all been there, but at some point you have to take action and you must accept that you probably will suck at the beginning. it doesn't matter, I remember after my first approaches how good I felt. only the fact that I overvcame my fears and did the approach gave me a tremendous feeling of strength. it put me in a position of power. first things first. babystep your approach if necessary, but get it done.
btw. I read "the 50th law" from Robert Greene and 50 Cent at the moment. Although, I've read a lot of self-help books. I really enjoy this one. I like how blatant and not sugar-coated the path of success ist portrayed in this book.
I really like the plane analogy and the toe in the cold water analogy, they both pretty nail the problem of newbs and also more advanced guys with getting you on the right track for mackin'.
stretch the matrix, shook the reality son!
TheDuve
Member
Join Date: 07/22/2012 | Posts: 74
Have you now dropped unstifling at the start of the night from your nightly process? If you have, just wondering why, I thought it was very helpful, really reminded me that I don't need to filter myself in that environment.
p.s. videos were awesome. So huge not to compare yourself to your old momentum-fuelled self too much and just get taking action again.
Considering a BC with you next year: you still going to be teaching in early 2013?
churlskunk!
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Join Date: 05/30/2010 | Posts: 69
GOLD as usual! That first video might be the funniest thing I've ever seen you do!
A request that might be a little off topic....I have a firend who has been pimping it and has had problems with not getting enough sleep. I've told him that it's fine to go out 7 nights a week, but, especially during the week, he needs to be smart about it, but he won't listen to me. LOL. I heard you say once that you might do a v-blog about always aiming to get 8 hours of sleep. Have you thought any more about that?
rsdvasco
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Join Date: 10/03/2012 | Posts: 100
Kobe is not ring, ring, ring. Kobe is ego, ego, ego.
Listen to this for example:
devonbobcat
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Join Date: 02/11/2013 | Posts: 18
P&P
Zack_Brawler
Junior Member
Join Date: 10/31/2012 | Posts: 8
That homeless man...you could just hear him talking about random bullshit with strangers after Owen refused to help him. And it made me realize that homeless people tend to have A LOT more game than your average chode/male. Think about it: these guys are out nearly 24/7 and they have to socialize in order to survive. That guy probably talked to hundreds of people and now he's nearly reached self-actualization where he just doesn't care about social restrictions. He'll just congruently talk about whatever's on his mind and it will sound great!
We could learn a lot from these guys. I met one last year and it blew my mind, just seeing him interact with strangers.
AlexV
Trusted Member
Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1186
fuck this shit
*totally cuts all bread etc from his diet*
done
By the way,
I'm 3 weeks into "recovery" after working non stop for months and not a lot of going out..
Only now do approaches seem normal instead of some freakishly weird thing I used to do ;)
gamer69
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Join Date: 11/26/2012 | Posts: 156
JamZx
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Join Date: 09/07/2012 | Posts: 274
*Maybe I'll jump from a mountain because I'm confurse but in the other side of the spectrum.
I don´t have many problems to return to pimp mode since I stopped for a while.
But since I'm pimping for too long, I start to get more negative, I don´t know if you understand me. I see all women as bitches, I don´t treat them very well, even after they have lowered their defenses, I get the feeling that everyone around me are weak, I start to think Im the best man in the world.
Have you ever experienced this? Could make a topic about it if you relate?
Aaron
Member
Join Date: 12/24/2011 | Posts: 61
Curtis.Slone
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Join Date: 01/23/2013 | Posts: 351
Ive been in a pissy mood all day. Love your enthusiasm and insight, Owen.
Tobias
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Join Date: 06/11/2010 | Posts: 417
Owen what do you think about guys who do nothing but go out and dont take theory into consideration whats so ever?
Knoxville
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Join Date: 05/19/2011 | Posts: 538
Jonathan Chodeman
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Join Date: 04/07/2012 | Posts: 17
Ryan2
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Join Date: 11/13/2011 | Posts: 335
RobbieTeutonic
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Join Date: 04/24/2012 | Posts: 189
Rexx
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Join Date: 10/08/2012 | Posts: 41
I prob watched the "suicide" vid 5 times..pretty funny..esp the voice at the end!
dave7-
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Join Date: 05/14/2012 | Posts: 1968
I thought both videos were super engaging.
Ideastools
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Join Date: 12/19/2012 | Posts: 20
alex=be chill and relaxed arosal work for you
juliean=create drama
ozzie=become fearless
tyler=just do it son
:D
kartman10
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Join Date: 06/25/2011 | Posts: 6
hilarious video! its just so resonate with me. ive read a lot of stuff and a have lot of confusion - maybe its a languege barrier! so we must take more actions, follow process of building momentum in life.if we dont we will end like Tyler in video.
thank you RSD!!!
TBird
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Join Date: 10/31/2007 | Posts: 259
2nd vid relates to me so well. I was out of it and I'm back in the game.
My personal experiences are EXACTLY like you said in the vid. I am making a 2nd run for the game, and I foundt out that babystepping the process and not comparing my current results to my old results is so key, because I was setting myself up for a lot of disappointments which took a lot of mental energy to overcome. Energy that would have been better spent doing more approaches or writing more detailed reports.
When it comes to motivating yourself and building a process there is really NObody else out there that can explain it as well as you. Thanks so much for the value.
Ps: When you are doing a hard rant and you keep touching your nose while doing it you really really come off as if you are using substances :)
Iridescent
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Join Date: 08/07/2011 | Posts: 170
Recently I got so lazy, not doing school stuff, not pushing myself, not eating healthy, I was demotivated as much as it can get... it was downward spiral at it's best.
BUT when you said it the only hard part is the TAKING OFF, it finally hit me.
Now I'm leaving for some frozen veggies, gonna read books for school. do math and kick some shit again.
Thanks, have a great day!
Starchild.
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Join Date: 10/17/2011 | Posts: 292
Thank you
Frank128
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Join Date: 03/30/2011 | Posts: 80
I think that no drug can compete with THAT ................ MATUREE MATUREEE
Matrim
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Join Date: 07/12/2009 | Posts: 25
Good job Julien! You was truly hero of this drama.
power_level_over9000
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Join Date: 09/04/2010 | Posts: 820
Question: What is the best way or how would you suggest going about gym pickup or social circle pickup?
I made a thread dissecting the caliber and lack of quality. I take responsibility on my part since, this is clearly a screening process, and weeding out those not fit (literally: I won't fuck women that eat big macs or treat their body's like dump trucks). So, this is one girl. No oneittus.
3 numbers. One isn't fit so I cut her loose. Took a number the other day in pita pitt. A side note, it was empty in there. If there was a bunch of people in there, I likely might have bailed. I took another number last night so, its not like I am struggling to get it. This gym or social circle, and public scenarios is a sticking pount.
Instead of just asking for help, this is what I am doing to blow past this sticking point. I created my own Project Mayhem 2013. Simply, its a brand new year, tons of gym ads, passes, and I see opportunity. I am going around in what little spare time I have and taking out week, ten day, and month free gym passes. I am working out at these places, taking group classes, there for the purpose of training, and doing cold approach.
I got a number last night but, I also got ejected from one gym for "harrassing women." LOL Apparently, this girl is some wannabe women's right activist, get the vibe she hates men, saw me approaching lots, and I got kicked out but, not before the number close. This is diabolical but, it was my friend's idea. I can't take too much credit. At my gym, familiarity breeds awkwardness but, I will get past this plateau. A tip is helpful. I met little miss fitness working out and running cold approach between sets at my gym. Sets as in working out not sets as in women lol
Here is my approach:Take number and leave. If it doesn't fly, tell her its probably for the best. That a relationship between us would be all non stop fighting and make up sex.
MakeItHappen
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Join Date: 12/25/2011 | Posts: 204
this is pop-star-level acting here!
also tyler, i want to see annother video - blog (maybe on berating pussys who dont want to go out again) WITHOUT SMILING OR LAUGHING ONCE, that comes off sooo good! Tyler for drill sargeant!
richie rich
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Join Date: 05/15/2012 | Posts: 119
Animus
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Join Date: 09/21/2012 | Posts: 137
Its cool not even for the theory aspect but because you communicate the feeling and mindsets of WINNING and how bad you want it and I can tune myself into that mindset.
Id love for a video similar to this one where you just brag about your passion for winning, and brag about the cool shit that happens, brag about how youre disciplined and can keep your shit together, the quality of girls you fuck. and then distinguishing that from being a fucking loser, and making that DEFINITE distinction to get people focused.
I honestly think that would help get a lot of peoples heads out of their asses and see the silliness of wasting time and being unfocused, including myself. Because honestly when you lay it all out there like that, it just makes doing anything else other than winning seem fucking stupid.
I also LOVE the infield clips at the beginning.
Definately gonna watch this over and over again to train the RAS.
Thanks man :)