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Brad / Julien / Derrick / and myself are up in Las Vegas for Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp this March 24 - 26.  Obviously it will be a weekend of utter debauchery as game-wise I'm the best I've been after nearly a month of romp in South Beach.  The crew will also be in Chicago on April 7 - 9 -- if you're in the MidWest we'll see you there!

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

Jeffy's book "Get Laid Or Die Trying" is coming March 29.  He's giving away "Jeffy Show 2" and a full hour Q&A Audio along with your purchase of the book as a BRIBE for re-purchasing the new version if you already got Nine Ball in the past -- and it is also available if you've never read it as long as you pick it up before April 6th.  It's about $300 worth of bonuses SO YOU ARE ESSENTIALLY PURCHASING JEFFY SHOW 2 FOR TWELVE DOLLARS (well it's 12 bucks if you pre-order off www.amazon.com now and 24 bucks if you get it after March 29).

I was at the recording of Jeffy Show 2 and it was absolutely insane.  Off the rails to the point that it's a little dark and psychotic.  I'm somewhat nauseated by the amount of value he's giving away for 12 dollars.  It's literally a FULL PRODUCT for twelve dollars, whereas Jeffy Show 1 is $269 for the DVDs.

Absolutely pickup the Jeffy "whored out package" as we did this only to satisfy Simon & Schuster that we did everything we could to repay them for pumping the book out to the mainstream.

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Laid-Die-Trying-Reports/dp/1451620896/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1300481747&sr=8-1

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What's up?!

I've just come back from Miami South Beach, and had the thrill going out nonstop for weeks on end.  What a life experience!  I reached new levels and now sit here at the internet cafe in Los Angeles as if back in a shitty dream.

(Reality is the romp.  The dream is regular, boring life.  All I want to do is be in South Beach picking up girls.  The only thing keeping me tied to this are my two sons and desire to see the world improve -- otherwise I'd quit life and just travel the world on a fucken rampage.)

Being out is being AWAKE.  So much fun.  Both for the love of women and self-amusement (the two ultimate drugs), but just as important, because I love seeing other guys getting results.  If you don't love picking up girls you don't love LIFE.  Kill yourself now and make space for the people who do.

(Oooooh I'm just kidding, kind of.)

Nearly all the 14 students we taught over several weeks closed the deal.  Those who didn't made amazing progress.  All three of our volunteer hosts closed as well, two of them twice and one of them once.  Debauchery on the beach.  Shit was intense.

I had many new insights in Miami.  There were probably 5 new seminar bits I that I think are among the most important I'll come up with while still teaching pickup.  This period of my life is coming to an end and I feel like I'm having those "10 years in the game" insights I envisioned when I first began -- really getting to the core of the game.

Jeffy is on that same level NOW.  He's just banged out 10 girls in 10 days.  Yes some hotter than others, he lives in SHITTY SAN FRANCISCO folks. :)

(Ooooooh the jab from rival Southern California.  While I sit in smog and traffic.)

He's hitting a next level.  Brad is hitting a next level (it's fucken BRAD).  It seems like everyone is hitting a next level lately.  Shit is so damned good.

Here's a video I shot at Le Sandwicherie in South Beach.  It talks about some of the realizations I experienced while I was there.  I'll be expanding on what you see here in the coming months -- for now what I want you to notice is the vicious combination of full value assumption with NO CONVEYING OF VALUE combined with TOTAL ASSUMPTION OF POSITIVE RESPONSE.

This combination causes women to view you as being "Special" -- literally like a prince.  They sit there complimenting you half the damned conversation, simply because your assumption of value is beyond any they've experienced in the past.  CLICK THE VIDEO NOW TO SEE WHAT I MEAN, THIS WILL CHANGE YOUR RESULTS WITH WOMEN FOREVER...



The guy I'm talking to in the bonus section at the end was very new to the ideas we talk about in RSD.  You can see he was confused about physical game, and also, how to convey indifference to a girl.  He's learning.

The shit isn't a "technique" folks.  You don't TRY to convey indifference.  YOU ARE INDIFFERENT.

You could truly not give a fuck.  No trying.  Not even trying NOT TO TRY.  Irrelevant.  Pure awesomeness, that's all that exists.  THERE IS NOTHING ELSE BUT AWESOME.

All that shit in your head about getting the girl -- irrelevant bullshit.  You already have her.  Full assumption of positive response.  No need to convey value.  She's lucky you're even giving her exposure to you.

How to get there?  Build momentum.  Your brain's emotional chemistry can't maintain this level of neurotransmitters 24 hours a day unless you're on a full South Beach style romp.  In regular life you simply build up to it over the night -- part of the fun is maintaining faith that you'll get there as you go through the process of dialing it up.

Then as the lays rack up, you care less and less, and the reality only grows stronger.  So good.


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Anyway I also recorded a short video at the Delano at like 10AM after a long night.  It's on the topic of being a winner and why there's zero competition.

I gotta say that after years of reading weak-bullshit posts about "What will we do if everyone finds out about this stuff?" I gotta be nauseated.  Only a LOSER thinks like that.

Winners don't see competition.  There is no competition.  You have the girl already.  All is irrelevant -- the rules that apply to others do NOT apply to you.

WATCH THIS VIDEO NOW and then we'll discuss the importance of this idea.  It's simple on the surface but complex in it's implications.



So what are we talking about here?

First of all the idea is obviously an OVER SIMPLIFICATION.  To a newbie who can't approach a girl and hasn't had sex in months, hearing this is like living in a third world country and watching a video by a rich Westerner telling them that money is abundant.

Nonetheless I've written this entire post in a "style" that reflects the mindset I've been in during the Miami romp.  It's almost like a Chuck Norris style self parody.  But it doesn't take itself too seriously -- if anything it just sheds light on the utter irrelevance of most people's useless ongoing thoughts.

The guy who spoke about "there is no competition" was a winner.  He was a new buddy I met in Miami who has had success in past businesses and other endeavors, and funny enough, after I taught him cold approach pickup he took a girl home the same night.  He "took" to the pickup material immediately -- ie: the opposite of the whiners you sometimes read in the pickup community who have years of pain surrounding failure.

(Their failure is full self fulfilling prophecy -- they create their own reality of suckiness).

What did this guy immediately understand about being a winner?  There is no competition.  There is no excuse.  Do it.

And this applies to you, right now.

Make the decision to be a winner.  Then execute.  Love life.  Enjoy the journey.  Don't whine.  Persevere.

You can make excuses for why you can't do this, why I myself am full of shit and EVERYONE SUCKS and there's no point in trying, or you can simply accept that no matter what you tell yourself that life is short and it's ON YOU to live it.

The enjoyment you can have is ridiculous.  Utterly crazy how much fun this stuff is.  If you're not currently having a similar experience:  you're doing it wrong.

I'm here to help you along your journey.  To get you there.  Learn from me while I'm on this role -- I'll see you soon.  Thanks for reading!!

Tyler

PS some exciting news:  Full "Jeffy Front Page Takeover" over the next three weeks.

The "Get Laid Or Die Trying" whored out package is coming and Jeff will be releasing 2 preview clips of "Jeffy Show 2" per week here on RSDN (obviously if you like them just pickup a copy of the book -- this will be the best purchase you've made from RSD as it supports Jeff and gets you hundreds worth of value for the price of a meal at Subway.)

He'll also be sharing the insights he's gained from the insane tear of women he's been on lately, so we'll be moving away from any "airey fairey" ideas and into hardcore pimp game, slaying women, laying it down, etc.  And yes, even if you're in this for a girlfriend or a wife, these ideas will allow you the abundance with women to choose from among many the woman who is best for you.

Hit up this link to get this rolling right now...

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Laid-Die-Trying-Reports/dp/1451620896
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#1
Bombastic 2.0

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CHOW DOWN, TYLER
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what's the alternative? TO NOT BE US?!

that would suck.
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Love the randomness in your vids
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Brad that hair is so sexy. Jesus
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 I loved this post and the videos in it. It looks like you guys were having the time of your lives.

And I like Brad's emo haircut.
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i am wondering how your relationship is with your girlfriend because you tried to pick up that hot girl right?
just curious.
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 Double post
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 Hahah... BJ both look stoned as fuck.
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jeffy is like an AMOG who is also a jedi master with PUA material.... and also does not give a fuck.... could this be the new brand of PUAs? Routine monkey----> Naturals ------> Jeffy?
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 lol very strange ending..
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hb9: Are you using the jeffy routine on me?
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jlaix wrote:
what's the alternative? TO NOT BE US?!

that would suck.
times like 5.
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You can't get every girl in every situation.

In this one it was 5AM "creeper hour" (ie: the hour where losers who didn't get laid swarm around trying for a last chance at love) with the club empty -- a few of our guys got laid that night, but the rest are sitting there with me all alone.

Doesn't mean I'm not going to delusionally sack up and approach her, rip her onto the couch while making her laugh, and build some attraction before she giggles and runs off.  But a 6 foot tall (6'3 in heels) professional model with an entourage isn't *usually* going to get fucked in that situation easily, no?

Again doesn't mean you don't sack up and try.  I do NOT mentally acknowledge the limitation at the time -- I just GO.  But I also don't walk away like "I SUCK AT LIFE!!" if it doesn't happen -- clueless that in a better situation it may have.
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I dont get it.

Another article/video where an rsd instructor says, straight out "I know I wouldnt get her" about a hot girl? WHY? I mean, what kind of belief is that, really? After 10years of doing this?
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 WINNERS FIND A WAY!
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 omg... you dont know how sad it makes me to see Brad Jeffy and Tyler haning together.

Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad... wanna be there. 

Where am I? Eath quakes in new zealand, floods in brisbane, earthquakes in japan hot blonde models in finalnd.

See you soon americanos

Alex~
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huzzah
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 I eat dog shit.
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Looks like a tasty salad but I wanna know, where are the hotter girls? south beach of hollywood?
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 have to... get..... braddd .... hair cut
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Yo Tyler eat some steak man! gawd you're the male version of those models...salad n smoothie(actually sounds kind of nice).lol
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 Haha chill. can't wait for a two weeks romp in SPAIN this summer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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When you are doing awesomeness you are just coinciding with what is true – that you are awesome.
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wow there´s something really golden with that last scene. The vibe. Brad rolls up. Tyler rests his eyes into the camera. Jeff eats sallad. 
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 Writing "in the style of the romp" is pretty educational. By writing from that frame and that mindset we learn it through osmosis. COol Shit.
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Tyler wrote:
You can't get every girl in every situation.



Klaesson wrote:
I dont get it.

Another article/video where an rsd instructor says, straight out "I know I wouldnt get her" about a hot girl? WHY? I mean, what kind of belief is that, really? After 10years of doing this?


its cause your not good looking like me bro
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Brad's hair totally made this article. Period.
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Yeah man bummed you couldn't make it.  I let everyone know a bit more last minute than probably was needed.  PLAN this for next year at the same time.
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 omg... you dont know how sad it makes me to see Brad Jeffy and Tyler haning together.

Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad... wanna be there. 

Where am I? Eath quakes in new zealand, floods in brisbane, earthquakes in japan hot blonde models in finalnd.

See you soon americanos

Alex~
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Another model season bootcamp next year???  I'ma start saving, except I'll do all 5 days next time lol   :)
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So... You're making entitlement an autopilot response, muscle memory. Like your face won't twitch and give off bad body language vibes not congruent with being THE KING.

When it comes to improving the most, is it going to be better to iron out the fundamentals and subtetlys, like tonality, posture, etc FIRST, -or- committ to having a KING's mindset and assuming positive responses / not giving a fuck??

It seems like KING mindset will be easier w/ faster results... maybe leading to reference experiences, looping itself back to more lays etc etc??
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Money videos as usual, thanks Tyler.

Just wanted to say, it's quite amazing how healthy you look now versus the old videos! I've decided to make health a priority myself after seeing these videos, because the difference is huge. Got a green tea right now, in fact. :-)
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Sounds like stuff I've read before.  I'm wondering if this is "high Tyler" speaking, and "base-line Tyler" might come along at a later date and repudiate some of what he's said.  Getting laid is great, but I don't view it as the ultimate value in life.  Not even close.
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 I think being self fulfilled and value assumption is very very important in all of this. I mean havent women said for years that confidence is what they love? Were like yea yea confidence, act like Im the shit and can do anything without failing and I will get girls. Well kind of. You have to be humble and indifferent as well like Tyler said. Really the humbleness is the being real and honest about yourself. The indifferent part is the not taking it so seriously and not taking yourself so seriously. So you can really be as confident as you want, just be humble that its not always going to go the way you want it to. Like they say, Irrelevant, bullshit, push through. Thats where the persistence and staying within yourself is key.

Its your movie because you ultimately decide how you view everything. You decide on how things affect you. These decisions take you in different directions. So you can keep going and approaching all night because you stay within your awsome self. Really we are all awsome. We just need to see it. We all deserve a great girl. Just gotta believe it. In the end though its really just having fun and staying within yourself. The things you need to work on arent a big deal but they should be looked at from a humble place. Stay self fulfilled and keep that value assumption there because you have it. Its always been there. I have some things Id like to work on for sure, but I know I am heading in the right direction when I pull a very beautiful girl who many would say is out of my league. Self fulfilled and assumption of value. Humbly of course but in the end who gives a flying fuck?
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 Jeffy your hair looks like shit, so does mine.. Love it LOL
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double post, sry :P
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 dam tyler you scranned the fuck out of that salad! haha
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 some hints about giving up the game as an instructor?  I might be reading too much into it, but I hope not tyler!
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Eat an average of 2 HUGE steaks a day.  Very expensive but worth it.  I'm made of like 90% steak. :)

It's the excessive greens, berries, sauerkraut and other probiotics, spices, teas, 85% dark chocolate, and other fruits and vegetables that make you shed off the weight.  I eat a TON man, like people get weirded out by how much -- it's just that it's now real food.

(ie: no refined bullshit / fake food.)



DoggyStylz wrote:
Yo Tyler eat some steak man! gawd you're the male version of those models...salad n smoothie(actually sounds kind of nice).lol
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I guess I eat pretty healthy, kinda, but I drink too much. The ironic thing about that is that I never do it when going out anymore; I only do it when I'm working on my novel. I go to the gym though. When I go a couple of times in a row I can see a notable difference. I also quit smoking, which fucking sucks ass. Don't ever start with that shit. There's nothing to gain there. 

By the way lolz my post got deleted? I still stand on my opinion that posting music videos in comments is really gay. Especially that stupid gangster rap and techno bullshit. 
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Nice article, I could honestly listen to Tyler and Jeffy all day, so much info all the time, it was actually because of Tyler I started with the "Primal Blueprint" 3 weeks in at 95% effort on just diet (Gym starts again soon) has made all the difference, 16lbs so far GONE! and feel much better in life, more positive, confident. Hell I have a date tomorrow night and I'm not even nervous like usual, I'm just feeling like me, my best self all the time, if that makes sense.

Thanks.
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You literally raped that salad

Great video, love the simplicity. Ties into something iv been thinking these last few days, those social concerns that everyone has don't apply to us. We are indeed above the rules. Nice to see your article tying into that.

Thanks
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Tyler wrote:
Yeah man bummed you couldn't make it.  I let everyone know a bit more last minute than probably was needed.  PLAN this for next year at the same time.
Alexander~ wrote:
 omg... you dont know how sad it makes me to see Brad Jeffy and Tyler haning together.

Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad... wanna be there. 

Where am I? Eath quakes in new zealand, floods in brisbane, earthquakes in japan hot blonde models in finalnd.

See you soon americanos

Alex~

Well... here is some notice for you sir! Tim and I are going into the Ukraine a week or so after summit.

The girls are hotter than in Miami, and accomodation is like 30 dollars a night for beter quality clubs and hotels!

Its instructor grade only trip, and its going to be unreal. I want to lithunaia and Serbia last year.... I was a deity. Ill send out the detials via rsd email to the invittees soon!

But think about it, ukraine or LA? Ukraine or LA?...

Alex~ devil
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love the profile pic!
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Fantastic video gonna obsess over this one for a while!
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 Hey Jeff, what's the difference between Nine Ball and Get Laid or Die Trying? Aren't both lay reports? Nine Ball was awesome btw.
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Hey Tyler

Just did my first London BC with Oz - awesome! Your 'there is no competition' concept was one of the huge paradigm shifts I had. There was this moment in the club when Oz said 'What are your thoughts?', I replied '....My mind is empty!' And truly it was. It was just me in the moment, waiting calmly for the next approach, all competition gone. VERY weird and amazing feeling.

Also, really pleased to see how healthy you look in comparison to a while back. Best of all, your voice and your expressions convey what I'm guessing is a newer inner happiness - great to see.
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how do you assume value and not think at the same time? assuming thinking is the antithesis of being present that is.
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YaBoiRayDawg wrote:
how do you assume value and not think at the same time? assuming thinking is the antithesis of being present that is.
ok, after actually reading the article i've come to the conclusion that i shit glitter and piss awesome =P
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#49

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WHAT'S THE ALTERNATIVE?

TO NOT BE US?

hahAHAHAAHHA
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 0.15-0.16.. super retarded grin.. haha.. naaa just kidding love your stuff.. it is fricking tight and life changing
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