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Hey there here's the first pic I've thrown up of my second son, Dylan.

I thought it would be cool to take it beside the plants again to make it look like I'm in the jungle.  The combined elements of the hardcore beard and the newborn baby and the jungle make it look like I'm kind of peacocking for da ladies -- showing them I am a true champion with the testosterone fuelled beard, the fertility of pumping out babies, and then the wildness of being in the bush to top it off.

Now I know what you're probably thinking here.  You wish you had a beard like me.  You wish you could have all these kids and be a stud.  You wish that you had your home filled with palm trees and dracenas so you could have your own personal jungle.  But the truth is this:  IF I CAN DO IT, SO CAN YOU.

Anything other than fully believing you CAN be this manly is a limiting belief.  Does this make sense?? ;)

Anyway in case you didn't know........I'M DOING A FINAL TOUR!!!  The very epic "Free Tour 3".

We're about to get into 2 new videos as well as an article, but first I want you to check out the dates on this and get registered immediately if you're lucky to having it roll through your town.

www.rsdfreetour.com

United States (taught by me, I'll be doing Hot Seat 2 and Bootcamps in these cities as well...)
December 15, 2012: San Diego
January 5, 2012: San Francisco
January 19, 2012: Los Angeles
February 2, 2012: Chicago
February 9, 2012: New York
February 23, 2012: Miami
March 29, 2012: Phoenix
April 12, 2012: Las Vegas
April 26, 2012: Washington DC
May 3, 2012: Boston
May 17, 2012: Austin Texas
May 31, 2012: Atlanta
June 14, 2012: Seattle
June 28, 2012: Philadelphia
July 12, 2012: Denver
August 2, 2012: Honolulu

Europe (will be taught by a variety of instuctors including Brad, Alex, Ozzie, and Papa...)
January 5, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
January 12, 2012: Helsinki, Finland
January 19, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
January 26, 2012: Berlin, Germany
February 2, 2012: Zurich, Switzerland
February 9, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 15, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 22, 2012: Munich, Germany
April 19, 2012: London, United Kingdom
April 26, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark
July 27, 2012: Athens, Greece
August 26, 2012: Madrid, Spain
August 28, 2012: Valencia, Spain
August 31, 2012: Barcelona, Spain

Australia (taught by Alex and Papa)
May 24, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 7, 2012: Melbourne, Australia

Canada (taught by Jeffy and Papa)
January 5, 2012: Vancouver
January 12, 2012: Calgary
January 19, 2012: Toronto
January 26, 2012: Montreal
...and a second set of dates (two different instructors I recommend attending both!)
July 5, 2012: Montreal, Canada
July 12, 2012: Toronto, Canada
July 19, 2012: Vancouver, Canada.

South America (taught by Brad)
February 23, 2012: Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
March 1, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
March 22, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
...and a second set of dates (two different instructors I recommend attending both!)
June 21, 2012: Buenos, Aires, Argentina
June 25, 2012: Montevideo, Uruguay
June 26, 2012: Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
June 28, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil

Asia (taught by Alexander)
March 15, 2012: Hong Kong
March 22, 2012: Singapore, Singapore
March 29, 2012: Tokyo, Japan

Take 5 seconds and hit up the following site to get "in the loop" on this, the free events are absolutely THE SHIT...

www.rsdfreetour.com

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So.......

I've just shot together 2 videos from the Austin Free Tour.  I'll just throw them up here and then give you my thoughts on them below.

The first is something I put together just for the RSDN forums, so that in the future when people go down these extreme inner game and/or outer game paths that lack balance we can just post this as a response.

It's basically an outline of my views that are based on years in the self development industry, on guys who get stuck in the "inner game circle jerk" and take the GOOD IDEAS in inner game and use them to mentally masturbate and not take action.

Then I contrast this behaviour with guys who are too focused on outer game (I came up around a lot of guys like this -- back when "The Game" was written this was the major flaw in the pickup community) and how that results in "frame control addiction" and "diva behaviour" that also messes up your results with girls.

I think this video is gonna be good and is absolutely worth watching.  The points about frame control addiction are subtle and took me a long time to figure out.  Take 5 seconds and click this video to get in the loop right now.


Fun stuff huh?  Hopefully this gets the point across and maybe we'll see less circle jerking in the forum.

Then again....the circle jerk DIES HARD.  It is perhaps a force too powerful to stop with a simple Free Tour video.

But if I can make even one guy stop circle jerking and take action......it's worth it. ;)

Next up is a video from the same event that's a little less coherent than the one above.

Basically at this tour I'd just gotten back from a lil adventure that kept me awake the entire night and was in a mental fog -- I was failing to filter myself properly and it was like the crazyman who goes out and pimps girls at nighttime was still in effect (with all of the obnoxious views and beliefs that ARE effective to get girls in the moment, but maybe a lil over the top).

As a result I wound up GOING OFF on brutal experiences and insights that many people wouldn't want to look at.  I'm SEMI kidding throughout the entire talk -- at the same time the old maxim of "there's truth said in jest...." is in effect here and you're going to learn a lot.

Click this video now to see one of the weirder talks I've done.  It'll reveal hardcore truths of the game I would usually wouldn't have the balls (or lack of class) to get into...


I'd be very curious to know your honest thoughts about this one...

Did you like it?  What elements did you like and dislike?  I "get it" that anyone watching this shit loves RSD and learn a lot from our shit, so feel free to let me know.

My editor and I cut it together a few months after recording it -- I'm still behind on my Free Tour clips and plan on catching them up to being current by slamming them out over the next few weeks.

We were laughing our asses off at how obnoxious it is.  Also like I said at the end -- I often like to push the audience's comfort zone because I feel that being sensitive is a relic of GROUP THINK.

At the same time there's also girls I've dated who watch these videos, and women who take my self help programs who will probably see this and be turned off.  Like there's a way you can talk about having a rockstar sex life without having to be a dick about it.

Nonetheless, what can I say?  I like the element that I'm so fucked up that I just say what I think.  It's based on my honest experience of doing this for over a decade. I'm SEEN a lot of shit and DONE a lot of shit.  Although maybe on the flipside it's too rambly and unfocused -- like even more than usual.

Well.....whatever. :)

I actually decide to say "fuck it..." and post it because of marketing guru Seth Godin.

(He's a very cool dood -- check him out at www.sethgodin.com)

Seth is really big on just shooting a bunch of stuff out and seeing what stick versus what people don't like, so you can get continual feedback and improve what you're doing.  I'm generally pretty confident in my path in all this and I view success as inevitable given my work ethic.  I have video content that's more serious like the Cisco talk that provide balance, so I figured the odd off the wall video is fine.

I like to keep "switching it up" to make it hard to predict what you'll see next.  This upcoming Free Tour set I may even keep the beard for a little while, especially because I've been getting footage of me pulling very hot women with this thing on my face and it's pretty amazing to see.

My buddy was joking with me and Nick the other day that I should shoot a video where I'm sleeping in a cardboard box.  I've got drool coming down the side of my face and I wake up.  Then I check my tin can to see if anyone has left me with any change.  I take the change and use it to pay cover, go into a club and pull the hottest girl.

LOL.  I think I may well do this -- could be pretty epic.

(A homeless guy jumped into a video blog the other day and with the beard we kind of looked the same -- then I pulled a real cute girl and we recorded it for Hot Seat.  So this would be an extension of that just taking it to the next level.)

This shit is such a hobby for me and I love playing around with different stuff because I want it all to come together in my fourties and fifties to do some MAJOR big things.  We'll see what happens.  I'm just enjoying the journey. :)

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btw one last thing about some of the comments in that last video...

As I mentioned in the textbox on Youtube -- the bits about every woman cheating if you're not an "alpha male" are more for comedy and it isn't totally true. Likewise the bit about Brad saying that you can be a one dimensional loser and still get girls was more to be funny as well -- NOT TOTALLY TRUE.

Yet they're worth considering. Like these are thoughts that at some point are valuable to have run through your head.

Because the truth is that you WILL wind up seeing a lot of shit if you walk this path. You'll see girls do some of the most insane shit you've ever seen and it'll rock your concept of how the world works.

Likewise with the Brad drunken confession jokes, it's nonetheless pretty accurate that learning to hit up many girls and relate to them as a "man to a woman" and attract them is generally your highest "leverage point" for getting laid. As an entrepreneur I know hundreds of guys who are in good shape and make a lot of money yet don't get laid very much. Conversely I know many douchebags who have no money and are fat yet get laid by different hot girls every week.

Again I mentioned that these were somewhat jokes in the Youtube text box, and they're meant as "thought experiments" to have run through your brain as opposed to being dogma.

Use your common sense, use your brain. ;)

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Anyway I've been back at it this week, after a month off from game due to my voice being absolutely THRASHED from teaching two months straight and going out.

It was a total bummer because I love going out so much and was making crazy improvements in my game -- but nonetheless necessary in order to preserve my voice and not develop vocal nodes and lose the ability to do public speaking over the long term.

So my quest to go out every single day until I'm 35 was put on pause, despite that I went out every night for several months previously.

Well I got back on it Wednesday. And uhhhhhh, YEAH HOLY SHIT. Every single night it was BOOM BOOM BOOM. To the point where it seems "expected" that it's gonna happen, and it would be weird if it didn't.

The only downside was I got a little insecure gamewise and wanted to show off some really crazy shit for the students on BC so wound up doing a 5 minute bathroom close as one of my first demos, and then he totally freaked out that he wouldn't be able to do the same thing.

He wound up pulling a girl at the next club but got frustrated that he didn't close within 5 minutes because he thought that that was "normal". When obviously it's something that makes a cool story but isn't something you can rely on or even want to base your entire game upon -- nor is it really all that erotic to do it in a bathroom with people banging on the door and the fear of getting in trouble with the club.

Really it's more of an amusement to brag to your buddies about, or to brag on the frontpage of RSDN. :)

Here's what's weird though. My game was actually sloppier and less solid than it was in the past. I got blown out more and wasn't really that confident. Nonetheless the fact I seemed a little less polished put some of the girls "at ease" and made me seem more "attainable" which worked in my favour to have al that crazy shit happen every single night.

Now I'm back at home in workmode, writing out this article and preparing the Hot Seat 2 launch for next week. It's not really as fun as being out and in full glory, but I'm still shooting out 20 minutes a night to hot clubs and just shooting out a few opens and getting a lil molested by girls who like me as a quick amusement for the end of the day -- then going back home and continuing on the work.

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Alright so I'm out of here.

I spent like 100 hours cutting together the upcoming videos over the past 2 weeks, so there's a TON of sick shit coming out.  I think the next video from Atlanta is sort of interesting and worth watching, but after that it's going to get into the stuff I shot during the USA tour I did with Jeff which is by far the best I've ever put out.

You'll see the next level and hopefully it'll provide insight on how by doing something repeatedly, you continue to improve.

The Hot Seat 2 launch will probably be next week if I can get it all ready on time, so I recommend you keep your eyes open for that.  And get signed up for Free Tour 3 if you haven't yet -- VERY KEY!!

www.rsdfreetour.com

Let me know your thoughts on the topics from the videos -- the inner game circle jerk VS frame control addiction (have you walked down either of these paths or had friends who did?) and the harsher aspects of the game (how did they make you feel, have you had experiences of realizing these things, etc?).

I'll check back shortly and I want to know!!  Thanks for reading and have fun!!

Tyler

PS:  If you look at the box below you'll see my upcoming program list.  San Diego and San Francisco are coming up FAST!  Definitely get on AT LEAST the Free Tour because they're off the hook in terms of great content (stuff I don't put out in these vids btw) and a sick networking opportunity.
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#1
BobbySatori

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Join Date: 11/29/2011 | Posts: 23

I only watched the 2nd video so far and the shit kicks ass. You cant go wrong by being yourself, it seems like your mannerisms and expression are on the constant increase. Its awesome to watch. You really have your shit together dude and give everything straight up. Its fuckn cool lol 

I'll post more about both vids soon...
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BobbySatori

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Dude, fuck yeah, that brain scramble shit from overload fucks me up and is so true.  Thats why I wrote my blog question, I feel overloaded n just want to start simple but dont know where to look. I go out on a regular basis and I find I keep starting off ok but then my brain fries and im like... DUHHH.. wtf.. ummm where you from? LOL

My success with girls has nothing to do with approach or skill but moreso with style and looks, like I win them before I talk to them, Ive always done that so I WOULDNT have to apply skill but I realise thats super fucking chode and I have ALOT to learn or rather apply.

So dude, please any advice on someone WHO GOES OUT but.. doesnt want to be scrambled yet wants to consistently elevate game. Thanks.

I've applied some of the crazier shit you share, like pushing dudes out the way and grabbing the chick, so I got the balls and confidence but am confused.

I reassociated approach with pleasure and non-approach with pain via Robbins lessons etc. 
So everything is in place bro, just being humble and asking questions from where I currently stand.

Btw dude, your sense of humor and expression is ON POINT! I learn ALOT just from watching You.
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#3
DJMarco

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Join Date: 03/21/2011 | Posts: 441

Hi Tyler .
This is a little suggestion for Hotseat.

I went to the Jeffy's hotseat. I want to ask you , for the new hotseat, can you put some videos of opening 2 or 3 ....sets and isolating girls. which is a small sticking point I face. 
I haven't seen much of that kind of videos in Jeffy hotseat.....

thank you.
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#4
Randommember

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The 2nd video took me on a rollercoaster ride of emotions brah. But in the end i think it is THE MOST POWERFUL VIDEO so far, when it comes to making you take action. Amazing and will be watching it many more times whenever i have chode moments.
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#5
~cavalheiro

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 Dude.. I had to pause. this 2nd video is the most awesome shocking disturbing shit that I EVER saw since 2002 in my life

 CHAAAAAAANGE....... CHAAAAAAANGE

and this is only me, suffering for a crazy CONVICT homossexual girl who is my one itis AHAHAHAHHAHA (that we had a discussion last nite coz i kissed her against her will)

damn you tyler! hahahahahahhahah
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#6

Bertl

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I never comment and silently watch your stuff.
With that said ... the  2nd video is GOLDEN.
This is (de)programming at its finest.

How did you become so good at it?
Do you conciously work on things like language patterns, anchors and shit?
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#7
MrCreepGuy

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the second video is seriously money. if shafts of sunlight would hit it, it would shine through all darkness like a beacon for all the chodes out there!
i really like your stuff and learn a lot from it. keep up the good work!
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#8

Waginator

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Its like the concepts from blue print get refined. This makes me want to approach the hottest chicks. Going out for approach sessions 7 days a week even if only for a little while. It becomes addictive and you can step to the girl with no hesitation. This covers so much amazing material my brain is melting.
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#9

ozbuckley

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Tyler, the 2nd video was awesome.  If ya got any more of this off the cuff, non censoring bullshit do post it up.

just 'say it how it is' type stuff is the most powerful. good shit
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#10

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The 2nd video is one of your greatest works in years, Its brain hacking shit.
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Leo1337

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i really liked the second video. tyler making out with a fat chick, doing crazy self-talk and brad being drunk all the time :)

thanks for being so honest
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#12

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Second video is powerful. More.
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#13

Hold

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Great second video, really inspiring, i also liked the quick summary at the end, no time to see the fist video today :S

At the end of the article you talk about workmode... What do you do to get into a more present and happier headspace after working a lot of hours?
I've been trying 15min meditation the last 5 days but no results yet... i allways have to rely on external things like talking to friends or the girls that i live with... but if i can't "use" them usually takes me like 1 hour to "remember that im awesome"

Thanks for all the artiles and vids.
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 The "unfiltered video" was really awesome! I really like when you go hardcore against groupthink and social conditioning, and when you are honest, even if it's brutal. For many people like myself, we know what social conditioning and groupthink is, but we still get stuck in the bullshit and not even realize it. Also your stories about the girls who want your babies, and go home to their boyfriends were really funny. I think if you told more sweet stories people would dig it. 
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I`m gonna go mace some people who don`t believe in Jesus. shades
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Rick Grimes

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 2nd video was amazing
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#17

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Hahaha. You'll NEVER take me alive. *poof*
Bombastic 2.0 wrote:
I`m gonna go mace some people who don`t believe in Jesus. shades
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#18

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 Tyler,

I didn't care too much for the 2nd video and I'll explain why. I'm generally a fan of your videos, but this one kinda turned me off. (BTW I'm giving you this feedback because you asked for it. You've given me a lot of value and I thought I'd return the favor by trying to identify what it was that made me dislike this video)

I agree that life shouldn't be taken too seriously and I think your ability to have fun is awesome. I can definately tell that you are having fun speaking and generally I find your stuff really funny. I also agree that people are too sensitive and I know for a fact that I am also.

Here's the thing, I feel like you are teaching from the perspective that if people don't like what you say it's because they are too intuned with "group thinking", too "sensitive" or are too "socially conditioned". However, all three of these traits probably hold true for 90% of the audience you are speaking to. I might be wrong but I think when you speak like this you ostracizes these people. 

I think you have a tendency to operate from a perspetive that anyone who doesn't agree with what you are saying is just taking life too seriously. In addition, I get the feeling that you don't give a shit, mainly because you state it so many times. I don't want you to lie and say you do care, if you don't, but the lack of empathy in this video makes me want to close my ears. However I won't, because I still think there is good to be gained from the rest of the video. 

Overal, I think this aroma of not giving a shit and  taking life with so little seriousness (too an extreme) and accusing people of being too conditioned to understand your material seriously hurts your leadership ability. 

I feel that you're taking things so unseriously that it makes me feel like I cannot relate to you. I would love be able to share this lack of seriousness, but it's hard when you have people who have been selfless towards you and your behavior hurts them. If I didn't give a shit about anything all the people in my life who have given a shit, who have done selfless acts for me would probably stop for one, and lose respect for me. I could argue that I don't need their respect, but this is just silly, because I'd be breaking principle. The truth about life is that in the short term we can benefit from not following principle but in the long run it will all come crashing down. (Sure we could argue this isn't true (we don't need principles), and I'd love to hear the argument, but I believe it to be true because it's been observed for hundreds of years to be true.)

This video makes me feel like you are not seeking first to understand, before being understood. In this video in particular, I don't feel like you are relating to us guys who want to learn how to take life less seriously and instead you are lecturing us on being too serious. 

I thought I'd point out my perspective because I think you could be a better teacher and help more people improve their lives if you don't go down this route. I apologize if at times this just seems like conscious rambling.

I can easily see my viewpoints on this matter as  "taking life too seriously", but I'm really just trying to identify and analyse why I felt a dislike for you as a speaker when I watched this video. I imagine if I felt this way there are others who felt the same. 
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#19
Standza

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Greetings from Belgrade,

Maybe i should do this,maybe i should do that..  ahhaahahhaha\

Cool and hilarious videos..I love the way you are making fun of chodes,your stories and everything else..love you are so honest and sarcastic:)Are you like that in field??
These are the videos that i laugh the most so far,but they are also very valuable..good point about theory and action..i realize that i have to do more action..also good end of the 2nd video..it made me think about where i am and where i want to be..i had i lot of improvment but nearly where i want to be.

Continue to make videos like these,talking very good and smart staff in funny way:)Fuck sensitive crying guys
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Jordanfan wrote:
Here's the thing, I feel like you are teaching from the perspective that if people don't like what you say it's because they are too intuned with "group thinking", too "sensitive" or are too "socially conditioned". However, all three of these traits probably hold true for 90% of the audience you are speaking to. 


Fuck you, I`m not sensitive!!! angry
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BobbySatori

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JORDAN, I appreciate Your honesty! Thank You for sharing! It's natural and empowering to reflect what Your really feeling :)
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#22

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Jordan

Congratutations, you passed the test. You stood up to Tyler by speaking your own mind and going against conformity and group thinking. Tyler will now send you a pm and an email with airline tickets attached sending you to LA for 6 months of intense RSD instructor training.

Good luck
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#23
Polarize

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 Tyler, that second video is BAD ASS. I thought you were going soft on us for a while. Thanks for throwing reality into our faces. It's very sobering. I hope you make more videos like this.
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#24
dave7

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 And also, my mom actually does go on facebook, but I don't. 
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#25
the_kenny

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Tyler that 2nd video is the best thing I've seen you put out in a LONG time. It motivated me after taking a bit of a lull lately. Make no mistake though, it will otracize. Before the start of my own personal journey I wouldn't have understood what you were trying to say. I almost think one must have "some idea" of what reality truly is before they can connect to it.
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#26
dima344

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 not to judge lol, what was the point of hooking up with the fat chick... was it to get into state, or just practice? You said earlier you would leave the 8 to go for he 10 so im curious...
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#27

steppino

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Dear Tyler,

I don't understand why you're worried.

This is one of your best videos along with the one with that girl and the russian dude and the guy who thought pick-up artists go to hell.

This is another time where i wish there really was a god. So that I'd pray he keep you alive.

Then again, awesome the dude's a mythology so that i can fuck chicks unapologetically.

The video was really funny and again thr drumming into my err... prefrontal cortex about chode conditioning was amazing. Love the story about that babe with the boyfriend. Cool stuff. Gonna try it.

The stuff about good feelings from an interaction and leaving her hanging... priceless. A real sticking point though as I've messed up after reading alex's slow things down.

Anyways, props for the video: comedy+educational content = easy listening and increased chances at internalization.

Happy fingerblasting.
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#28
furyx

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 I seriously think your behaviour in the 2nd video is that mentality when you're on "BOSS MODE" like you're the shit. It almost feels like a sober high. You're high off yourself and your energy that you created by taking massive action and going out and exactly how I felt when I was out having fun and just approaching. Like just fucking around not taking anything seriously. You see all these other people feeling all depressed and looking for validation and shit and you kinda get weirded out by them since you're feeling so awesome lmao.

My chode friends thought I was freaking weird acting all happy and crazy and shit but I think they are the ones who are fucking crazy for not wanting to FEEL LIKE A BOSS. I couldn't connect with their chodey mindset because it's so full of negative enegery and so I just feed energy off myself and it really feels like you're a fucking "BOSS".

LIKE A BOSS

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#29
randombaz

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Tyler u have to do that homeless sketch! But as walking her out the club walk her to the nearest big box and just look at her as in "after you". Would solidly the looks argument comically! Ha amazing
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Cat

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There are no good excuses.  As a result getting a little "tough" (more importantly impressing that voice into a fucking huge chode's head) is worthwhile, even if it makes you, as an audience member, actually realize that in a lot of ways you're still not doing enough.

For 99% of people a hard to hear message like this is very important, because our society tailors itself to excusing reactivity and a lack of action.  It's okay to be lame as fuck in our society.  There is very little emphasis on human virtue.  

I wish we all grew up reading the Nichomachean Ethics or something so we were all endoctornated into "worshiping" personal awesomness.  Even if we were stuck in a dogmatic 'herd mentality' we'd at least be a cooler group of people.
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#31
Neutryno

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As someone said before, the 2nd vid is so BADASS! 

Keep going with this style, Tyler. There are good guys out there that need to get slapped once in a while, cause they get drawn back to their environment's influence, losing focus. 
This kinda shit just WAKES US THE FUCK UP.

Your insight and your kind of self talk really resonates with me. Lately, there is a switch of mindsets in my head. From "Yeah, it doesn't really matter what we do.. Whatever.." to "NO! If I don't live THE LIFE THAT I WANT TO LIVE might as well not be alive, there's no point in living a chode life!".

Thank you for all that you're doing. Disregard the sleepy chodes that say u suck. Keep helping the guys that want to DOMINATE LIFE.

D.

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Molan

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 awesome vibe for the videos, I think its great to have more of 'in the club vibe' videos....also love those short 'life is short' 'do what you want' reminders....
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Appreciate the bluntness. Some body had to tell the truth.
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Vid 2, 3 minutes:  "This shit is easy."

Umm, yah it's easy when you have a pocket Brad giving you the best openers EVAH
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randombaz

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Both vids are appreciated but the second one is fucking AWESOME!! So funny man I loved it...prob best one yet

Do do do do! Cries*

I like it because usually your the theory that I Imagine most people read up about but a lot don't take action and you have these "I love Tyler" fans "he is a superman who knows game theory, I can learn theory" vs jeffy which is like "get out and approach fucking pussy" which is jut too much for sensitive chodes. It's time you tell them jeffys side in your own way, I like it when you add these elements of "harshness"

I have a question. To get a point across I can pull most girls I meet, it's rarely like 'maybe it goes down'. So I see a girl so easily succumb to my reality and vibe and it's a given. Like you said there is no tricks or manipulation skills, its case of being like "come here, my time now, yeh thats Great nah yeh so dont kiss me" as you throw her around and Then Inevitably make out. So don't you worry another person with great game can get your girlfriend? At least easily a kiss.. It's like when you are as good as say us we know they are not thinking logically into whether she wants this to happen. You can make a kiss happen so easily with only token resistance.

Anything to make me feel better on the subject like if the girl is going out with the king she doesn't fall for other player's game? :s
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In fact that's exactly why I believe the girl's friends are immediately wary when you do this because they can still think logically and are assessing whether it is a bad idea or not, but girls you grab are too in your trance (and control)
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I like the 'uncensored' piece a lot better. Better to just cut thru the bullshit, get to the point and share from a place of realness. Thanks for sharing!
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doublepost
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Pual

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second video was the best shit ive ever watched IN MY LIFE. back to my todo-list which involves joining the lair tonight and going out. whadup
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I loved the seond video, Loved the ballsy approach. Words of truth without any sugarcoating. World is a fucked place, you just have to push yourself out of the little zone or you get fucked!

I recommend extreme self talk to everyone everytime you dont wanna do something. It seems harsh to be so hard on yourself but you are a grown man not a little kid. Always be pushing yourself to challenges.
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#41

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 Seen only the second video,... Very Very cool video Tyler.... I identify so much with what you said in that video,.... and its so true about being in the awesome group think.... where I go find some stuff that's going to give me soo much pleasure and go out and get it while being freaking awesome... Personally I knew about the fact that 95% of all ppl are such chooodes, believing in religion or whatever the fk institutions that society comes up with..knew this from a young age like 16 ish... but im finding that as I'm progressing each year my own opinions of myself and thoughts are becoming more and more prioritised in any social situation....

what's funny is that first when I realised this concept of independent thought, I'd so some stupid stuff like get frustrated trying to explain it to girlfriends or to friends etc..... Now its like its internalized... Like you said in the example with Brad in this video..its like you just know in your thoughts of cool delusions( my reality is the only reality bitch) that nothing anyone else says, agrees, disagrees matters and that they're all chodes in any case...

just fuck the dumb hot bitches, while not necessarily showing her my awesome thoughts  and spread my seed, maximise my pleasure, learn golf, perfect the swing, perfect the guitar, get a kick ass job, and then the chodes in the corporate world as well... This is what truely motivates me now,,,, and I really do understand motivation as a function of maximizing my pleasure on the limited time we have in this colourfully brilliant piece of life that we have a chance to live out... 
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#42
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I'm not so sure you need to worry about nodules so much when you're a man. My singing teacher explained that its women, whose physiology is more delicate, that get proper fucked up by them. Men have tougher stuff down there.

I haven't experienced this myself, but a good example of a fella with vocal nodules up to his eyeballs would be Freddie Mercury and he certainly didn't have any career ending problems like say Julie Andrews. Just the AIDS.

As with anything I'd check this information out with an expert yourself. Maybe your vocal coach has told you something different.

Peace out.
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#43

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 Dear Tyler,

I'd like to give you both my professional advice as a marketer as well as advice as a consumer. I think the fact that I'm new to RSD, so closer to someone stumbling accross your video for the first time, can give you a unique perspective.

First of all, you're projecting your personality SO much, especially in the second video, it's a pick up lesson in itself. Awesome stuff..

In fact, I think it's so powerful, I bet some guys will be going in set and doing "I went to the optometrist" and "I've been mased at 17" "routines".. :) Maybe they'll start taking some of your manerisms "cause it works for Tyler dude to pickup 10s, dude".

For me personally, the super honest, no bullshit approach is awesome, surely anyone doing proper inner game shit will agree. Next time in field I will actually have an image of you jumping around in my head and saying "YOU WANT TO JERK OFF OLD MEN IN THE PARK? APPROACH APPROACH" Damn it Owen, what did you do to my head ! :p :)

I know you're trying get people to see you as a peer, not some "guru", for New random people the videos (especially video 2) might look like a performance. Like comedy instead of a serious pick up video that can be USED in real life. 
This is also what your body language seems to be doing, you're all over the screen. Very animated, feels chaotic. They might actually be DISTURBED.

Again, awesome as a kind of demonstration of projecting personality and keeping attention and STATE and awesomeness. It doesn't feel like any kind of serious pick up teaching video. (good, bad? don't know)

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About circle jerking, yep, that's close to what I do sometimes, CONSTANT over analyzing, ad nauseum, in my head instead of approaching. Tim's stuff helped me overcome lots of that. So well on the road of improvement now.

As for the opposite, when I had just started (after reading david deangelo's shit), I was all excited, going up to sets in clubs and annoying the fuck out of them, had no intent what so ever, being blown out. I was doing REALLY well actually but guess what. I was outcome dependant and after a while, I started approaching less and less, playing to not lose and then progress stopped for like a year or more (even though i went out 5 times a week for 6 months).


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Conclusion: the videos are great for existing rsd citizens, however, you'll freak many newbies out. They might even feel like their ego is being hurt while watching this. Good for them? YES. Will they acknowledge that? Most will RUN with their TAILS between their chode little legs, that's what I think. Careful dude :)
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Fucker

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I loved your second video !!

Clear and to the point, no bullshitting around !

I have a question tho, my story is one of my parents died when i was 16, now i'm 20 and since then i've been depressed, socially anxious and therefor i stayed at home and mentally masturbated alot.
Right now i'm taking action like working out, finding a job,trying socializing everyday..
But my question is would pickup fuck me ujp more if i got these traumatic emotional unprocessed problems and pain ?

Or could it be a way out ?

I was taking action for a few months when i met a buddy in the past 4 years.
These were the BEST 4 years of my life !
Neediness, scarcity, giving a fuck.. That all became VERY numbed down and i felt really like me again !
I was pulling girls and i wasn't outcome dependent, i was happy on my own !
Independent !
Drawing state from within !

The past half year i fucked it all up again and didnt took action.. Now i'm trying again for 2 weeks taking action but it's ALOT harder without these crutches such as my buddy..

Anyway thanks Tyler !

Much love. :)
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 "chOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOode!!!....boom"
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#46
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hilarious
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Oh yeah! So goooooooooooood!
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#48
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Like this alot. your videos have grown on me more and more as time passes.

You exude a kind of certainty in your new videos than I haven't seen in your older stuff. Not that the older stuff has been bad, this just seems so much more focused and coming from a deeper conviction.

The Secrets Of Charisma And Congruence video you posted a couple of months ago has been by far my favorite video you've released so far. My favorite RSD stuff has for a long time been Tim's Flawless Method and alot of Ozzies physical stuff, but now you are pretty much taking things to a new level. Keep up the good work.
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#49

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you re fucking weird lol
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#50

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 Liked it.

You should do video/article on Vocal projection (how to keep it healthy)...Since you advocate going out everyday then there´s just one sticking point a lot of these people will experience and it´s losing their voice.

Especially when I go out for 5+ hours I lose my voice towards the end when it´s the most important for the quick pulls.

ChinaBoy
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