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Tyler
 
What's up!

I've just come back from Seattle which was absolutely awesome.

We ventured out of Belltown and into Fremont which allowed us to stumble onto way hotter girls.  Funny enough the same happened recently in Atlanta where we got out of downtown and into Buckhead where the girls were much hotter as well.

Gotta keep exploring the city you're in!  There's always hot women somewhere!  Except San Francisco which has girls who are really SMART AND NICE!!

Anyway I've got a few events on deck I'm pretty excited about, including my first ever trip to Philadelphia.

June 28, 2012: Philadelphia
July 12, 2012: Denver
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Julien as well!  Last event of the year we both teach!
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www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I'm totally psyched to visit Philly as usually people have to drive into Manhatten to see me.  I've also only ever done Denver in Winter so it's gonna be sick to check it out over the summer months.

Finaly Honolulu is going to have Julien and I teaching the Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp, so if you've ever considered visiting Hawaii this would be a great time.  I look forward to hitting Hawaii all year.

And you want to know what else I look forward to all year?  The Real Social Dynamics World Summit.

www.rsdworldsummit.com

The Summit is coming up August 19 - 25 2012.

One of the very first video blogs I EVER SHOT IN MY LIFE was in Vegas explaining the event, so have a look and see how you can improve when you do something repeatedly -- ie: how we've evolved.

(The information about the Summit is still totally relevent.)


This Summit is THE ABSOLUTE SHIT.  A truly high value event you will carry forward with you forever.

Take the plunge into a week of full immersion, experience Vegas, get laid like crazy, change your life.  Get on it!

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Anyway I'm going to crack into 2 brand new videos today.

The first is a video where Julien and I talk MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF SHIT.

I want you to assume that this is pure nonsense and no need to take it seriously.  We're just screwing around.

Basically we give examples of some of the silly shit we do with CERTAIN GIRLS at CERTAIN TIMES.

These are HIGHLY CALIBRATED situations which if you're new to talking to girls you can just LAUGH AT THE FUNNY-NESS of the video and NO NEED TO ATTEMPT ANY OF THIS.

Note that it is NOT a "missing peice" in your game.  If you're not already getting laid this will be pure entertainment value.  A guy doesn't fail to get laid because he's not being enough of an idiot, it's because he's not a friendly cool guy.

But once you have BECOME that guy and are calibrated and getting laid, you may SOMETIMES do funny shit like this on RARE OCCASSIONS where the girl likes it, which you can gauge because you're highly socially aware.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO SEE WTF I'M TALKING ABOUT.  YOU WILL BE CRACKING UP AT THIS NONSENSE.  HAVE FUN.


This event was such a blast and I hope you enjoyed this.

The main key is to realize that there's a tiny percentage of girls who like the craziness we're talking about here, and all other girls will just think you're an idiot, and possibly get you beaten up.

Focus on the PRINCIPLE of WHO HAS THE DOMINANT REALITY.  Apply the principle in your own way!

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So that video was more for fun, and this one is a bit more serious.

Actually it's also pretty funny but the message is more important.  Basically what it's going to communicate is how in the game you are constantly EVOLVING.

And whatever helped you at ONE PARADIGM is oftentimes LIMITING YOU at the next.

Take any technique, whether humor or physicality or whatever, and consider that it makes you MORE of your NATURAL SELF initially.

You try it out and feel NATURAL with it.  It feels GOOD and this gets you more girls.

Then over time what happens is you build an "entitlement criterion" around it, where you no longer feel ENTITLED to get attraction from hot women UNLESS you are using the type of humor or physicality, etc etc.

For me personally the ideas in this are super relevant to where I'm at in the game.

Basically the zone I'm in now is I get great results, but the only way I will break my current plateau is by totally stripping away EVERYTHING and just being 100% ENTITLED NO MATTER WHAT I'M DOING.

In other words at the place where i'm at in my journey. it's' about building that total entitlement no matter where i am, how i'm dressed, or what I'm doing.

Examples...

Eye contact is GREAT!  Yet I have to be at a point where I can pull without it.  (Hint: you can).

A good voice is great as well.  But I have to be at a point where I can pull even if my voice is shot from teaching seminar.

Being funny and physical are fantastic.  But I need to be able to pull just chilling and doing shit all.

It sounds bizarre and maybe over thinking it, but also consider the thousands upon thousands of hours I put into this.  Gains in progress get hard to come by, and for me this is what I know will bring me to the next level.

(I've always have an intuitive sense of what I need to do for the past 11 years in this.)

Bare in mind I'M A HOBBYST.

I do this shit for fun.  Purely just to do it.  I already get lots of girls -- often a few a week.  And have a great rotation.

So this isn't like "You have to get to this point to get laid..."

Rather it's that as a "game purist" who plays the game for no other reason than the pure joy of walking the path to mastery, this is what I'm currently focused on.

You don't need to focus on this to get a girl.  But if you want to learn what someone who is on this path focuses on at a certain point, you'll enjoy the vid!

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME EXPLAIN BOTH AT A NEWBIE-COMPREHENSIVE LEVEL, AS WELL AS ON A SUBTLE LEVEL, WHY YESTERDAY'S EPIPHANY BECOMES TODAY'S GIMMICKY CRUTCH.


Hope you got a lot of value out of this

It's something that you may appreciate if you're really walking the path, and maybe unneeded if you're more passively just trying to figure out how to get laid.

btw I noticed on the forum people kept asking about the asian girl in the front row, who is a friend of mine.

She's a cool girl who thought the social dynamics stuff is interesting -- ie: how you see at the top of the RSD Nation header "Your Hub For Dating Advice, Social Dynamics, And Self Actualization".

(The latter 2 are of interest to people, even if they're not MEN.).

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Alright so it's 6AM and I've just gotten home from another long night of gaming -- out since 9PM and totally wiped out.

I'm gonna crash so lemme know what you thought of the ideas in here.  Did you find the harsher stuff funny?  Do you have any personal experiences with this?  How have you found "stripping away the layers" of entitlement criterion to be helpful in your game?

I WANNA KNOW!! :)

Thanks for reading I'll talk to you soon!

Tyler

PS:  No more "First!  Second!  18th!!" shit.  KILLS the comments section.  It was cool.  It's done. :)  Appreciated!

PPS:  I KNOW YOU CAN RESIST!!  It's know hard.  You're the FIRST!  How can you not shout it out to the world?!  And yet men have accomplished great things in life, and I BELIEVE!!
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#51

Brown

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Join Date: 06/21/2012 | Posts: 12

Tyler you are a fucking racist. I have been following you for a while and really like your videos until you started busting on the bengali guy in the audience and on brown people in general. I was expecting more from you! Go fuck yourself - you should know better.

Namaste Motherfucker!





Tyler wrote:
Sorry, actually the second hottest girl this year for me was that model / lawyer chick from San Fran.  Then again she's from Paris and living there temporarily, but at least the city attracted her there.  Then again in Paris girls like her are a dime a dozen, but then again San Fran has Ghandi.

jlaix wrote:
"Gotta keep exploring the city you're in!  There's always hot women somewhere!  Except San Francisco which has girls who are really SMART AND NICE!!"

Dear Tyler,

Go fuck yourself

Love,

Jeff

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#52

Perfect Soldier

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Join Date: 12/24/2011 | Posts: 18

C'mon dude, let's be real ahahah!!
I was trying to write a proper answer you but i think Tyler's take is perfect (as always)
Btw, with just one beer she is more horny (or maybe she just rationalizes) and ime she fucks better ;)

OTOH I would never smoke a cigarette to get laid, just beacuse i know myself and i would start smoking after a while. It's not the case with a beer, at least for me.
kyte wrote:
So you go against your own principles/rules of not drinking just to fuck some girl? I think the most important lesson I've ever learned is to always be true to myself and do what I believe in, and never change my opinion, especially not for some girl.

I've experienced the very same thing myself, and I used to just do what they told me, which got me laid, sure, but I always felt I had let myself down afterwards. Why do I have to smoke this cigarette just for her to be able to talk to me? Is it worth breaking my own rules just so some girl can feel safe/not judged/whatever and have sex with me? Do I even want a girl like that?

Is that what this is all about for you? Just getting laid, no matter what it takes?
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#53
Tyler

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San Francisco really DOES have Ghandi!!  His name on the forum is BeastVanGhandi.  He is a small Indian man and he is the shit.

Tyler
Brown wrote:
Tyler you are a fucking racist. I have been following you for a while and really like your videos until you started busting on the bengali guy in the audience and on brown people in general. I was expecting more from you! Go fuck yourself - you should know better.

Namaste Motherfucker!





Tyler wrote:
Sorry, actually the second hottest girl this year for me was that model / lawyer chick from San Fran.  Then again she's from Paris and living there temporarily, but at least the city attracted her there.  Then again in Paris girls like her are a dime a dozen, but then again San Fran has Ghandi.

jlaix wrote:
"Gotta keep exploring the city you're in!  There's always hot women somewhere!  Except San Francisco which has girls who are really SMART AND NICE!!"

Dear Tyler,

Go fuck yourself

Love,

Jeff


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#54
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#55
Tyler

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LOL yes he's Jeffy's assistant.  A little Indian man who fucks girls in the van and does lots of drugs, and is amazing.

Tyler
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seriously..? tsc.
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#56
iRyan

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Random question but how did you meet Julien?? 
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#57
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He applied as an intern when I was doing interviews in Los Angeles.
iRyan wrote:
Random question but how did you meet Julien?? 


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#58

joe91

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watched the first nip/tuck lol. good shit. my 2 favorite fictional pimps christian troy and hank moody.
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Quote:
And whatever helped you at ONE PARADIGM is oftentimes LIMITING YOU at the next.


Wow, I just started saying this shit very recently, and then I see it in my Tyler email.  Guess I always saw it in very small, limited contexts, and recently a far, far, far bigger one, so its become a far bigger concept for me lately.  
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#60

Pablinov

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first. finally
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#61
player1975

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19 mins in, tyler's rant. I used to do this all the time with my ex-girl friend. However I never knew what I was doing. We we're just always argued which ain't healthy, gotta to admit it works very very well.

However if you don't know what your doing (like me) it'll fuck you up for a while :)
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#62

SteppingItUp

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That second video in Boston was such a great story, the free tour was sickkkk... Todd and RSD are giving sooo much value with their Inner Circle meetups it's ridiculous. It's a great way to talk game and meet some cool dudes that love game. Cant wait for some mission impossibles!! You guys rock!!
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#63

Kurjak

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 The practical part is the most useful! I think applying theory is more difficult than it seems, so any "direct sugestion" of "go and do that and that" can be very valuable.

That's how we train any sport. We can talk about science, sure, but the fundamental part is when the coach tells you the exercises, you perform them, and "science manifests itself".
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elcharlo

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what if the foundations becomes the new gimmick?
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#65
Dawinci

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I really relate to what you are saying about the mind. When I feel that i´m not enough, in any situation, I often find myself rationalizing WHY I don´t need to feel that feeling of lower status/value. I guess I resisting the "not enough feeling" when it comes.. 

Anyway, thank you for the words!
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#66
FrenchyCassady

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 HAHAHAHA TYLER ! YOU SOUND LIKE BRUCE FROM FAMILY GUY !!!! OH NOOOOOO 

Great Article ! 
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#67
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this fucking rocks!

ad 1st video: i just washed my nightgame jeans today after not washing it since my BC/HS weekend in munich in march. got laid with them a few times, but now the jeans were itching as soon as i slipped into them ;-)

ad 2nd video: this resonates massively with me because i felt something like this quite a few times now on a more subconscious level but was not aware of what was going on. thx man!
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 Sweet! RSD's first multi-camera angle blog video. All we need is to use a DSLR to get this in HD vid.
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#69
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Dood, that "yesterdays epiphany becomes todays gimmick" shit resonated in me as I saw the title, two weeks ago I didnt not see the video, but this line is huge. I like the fun of playing card games, and I think that you wake up each day with other cards to be played and throughout the day you draw new ones. Its like carpe diem, you get a different message each day, you learn something different. And sometimes you not even need to feel good in your own body, this also happens strong if you hit huge narcissistic highs, where you feel bad because your own standards are too high. I think its ironic how after a shit night, if you finally accept it and sometimes cry in your bed :D the next day you fucking pimpin it. I dont want to spoil the magic for myself but it could be the narcissistic hormonal rhythm or something. I read about low energy game and it fucking brought me to another level, the most important piece in this is Ozzie's "always assume that it is on", you assume that all fucking girls want to sleep with you (except that you creep out the girls that you dont really like, but pretend to do - shorter: all girls that you like, like you). And that they want to sleep with you FOR NO FUCKING REASON. That you must visualize this and that you no longer have to creep for female approval because you already have it. Its sometimes hard to actually do not combining it with your strengths, that girls want to sleep with you because of that shit (even if they say it, ladies never really know why or what they want) and after obsession with this you even no longer have to think about it, you just see it.

The most important thing is, that you have your strengths for yourself and not for your ladies. E.g. You build up your confidence not to get the ladies, but to actually execute, to do what you want. Its like DavidDeAngelos philosophy - you do it for your fucking self.

Its like all others give a shit how I look like, but actually when I style myself up, like an expression of art, then it gives me a good feeling seeing me beatiful as I am. You also see this when women makeup themselves for no other reason than to look good to others, but their makeup looks like fucking shit, because they dont do it for themselves.

Sometimes there are really hard days and there are emotions in your body when you crave for approval and that is good, it is gods message to say to you, that you are still a human beeing and not a fucking pimp machine.
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