Hey there!

Had to re-upload today's Boston video 3 times which put this article a little late on my Wednesday posting day, but luckily Alexander~ is crashing with me and helped me through the technical annoyances. :)

So we're rocking!

2 new videos today shot in Boston and Austin on the topics of how the game makes you grow up and the power of being decisive.  You're going to love them, and first an update of my upcoming live events schedule.

May 31, 2012: Atlanta, GA (Alexander~ will be with me as well!!)
June 14, 2012: Seattle, WA
June 28, 2012: Philadelphia, PA
July 12, 2012: Denver, CO
August 2, 2012: Honolulu, HI

ATLANTA is this upcoming Thursday - Sunday, so if you're anywhere near Georgia be absolutely sure to make it out to the Free Tour.  Alexander~ will also be in attendance and rocking the event!

This leg of my tour includes the smallest markets for RSD (as opposed to say LA / NY / Chicago) so they're very intimate gatherings that give you the chance to get your questions answered and benefit from the additional personal attention.

Free Tour is amazing because it's a truly KICK ASS free event.  You'd be crazy not to attend -- they are always fantastic and don't cost a dime.

Hot Seat is the most raved about event RSD has ever created, in the sense that it's dirt cheap and teaches you more about how to pickup girls and social dynamics than anything else physically possible within a 2 day period.  It will absolutely blow your mind.

And Bootcamp is the landmark 3-to-1 infield coaching that I'm most notorious for -- the program I've dedicated most of my adult life to becoming proficient at teaching -- so intense and hardcore it will leave you stunned and confused, but with a set of new skills to boot.

Get on these while I'm still doing them regularly.  They are life changing and blow away your expectations.

Do NOT screw around just reading RSDN and failing to reap the benefits of the programs I've created for you -- learn from me personally and I will open your eyes to things you wouldnt' believe and fast track you to your highest goals.  Check these pages now while this is hot on your mind!

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

And I'll be seeing you -- in person -- soon!

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Alright so let's crack into today's videos, the first which I shot in Boston a few weeks ago while staying with Papa, Julien, and Alexander.

The weather was rainy and foggy so we figured it would make a cool change of scenery for the video blogs.  I wanted to use the shitty weather to further the vibe of something we ALL go through, which is slumps and bad emotions in the game.

This is absolutely crucial to really understand because it is an OMNIPRESENT aspect of learning to get good with girls.  You MUST become at ease with both the highs and the lows to grow into a mature adult who can get what he wants.

I reveal the "keys to the kingdom" as far as the perspective I've gained from 11 years of doing this below, and applying this has been one of the aspects that's lead me to exponential progress over the past 2 years.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER THE PERSPECTIVE THAT'S GIVEN ME SO MUCH POWER OVER THE PAST WHILE, AND MADE THIS ALL MAKE SENSE.


Hope you enjoyed this!

As a funny sidenote it was so cold out (given I wasn't dressed for it) my brain was freezing, but there's a point I wish I would've expanded on and will in the future.

This sounds very subtle or maybe not that interesting if you're new or intermediate, but as a veteran in this I'm realizing more and more that our brains CRAVE to be innundated with experiences that will allow us to reach a certain level.

I've been seeing this more and more as a father, and I know this sounds weird and not overly important, but it is VERY important!

Let's say you're a teenager and your brain sort of unconsciously recognizes a potential within yourself.  But let's say there aren't enough CHALLENGES to get your brain to where it needs to be.

Maybe you start robbing and stealing and selling drugs and fighting it out with the COPs in a game of cat and mouse, because your brain WANTS the fucked up things to happen.  It WANT to get into high speed chases, evade surveillance, sneak through backyards and steal shit, get into gang fights over drugs and shit like that, because your brain NEEDS the STIMULUS in order to develop.

(This is why a lot of young kids become juvenile deliquents....they aren't sufficiently challenged by math class or the high school hockey team, and aren't consciously aware of why they're drawn towards it.)

Again I realize this is off the wall, but roll with me here.

I think the same thing happens when you get one-itis for a girl who you know will screw you up.  Your brain NEEDS the girl to fuck your head up in order to gain the stimulus to reach the level it knows it's capable of -- so it causes you to gain feelings or a girl who it knows is bad news.

The reason I see this is because I watch my kids just desperate to get into trouble and do stupid shit, not because it will even benefit them but because their brains NEED THE FUCKING STIMULATION in order to GROW.

I think business owners NEED near bankruptcies and fucked up problems with their team in order to grow.  I think writers NEED to have writer's blocks and push through them, etc etc.

We think we want this comfortable lifestyle where we become the person we're meant to become, and "that's it".  NOT TRUE.  Our brains want fucked up shit to happen so it can be moulded around it.

The fact is we need both massive highs and exasperating lows.  There's no escaping this shit.  Sorry.  People will question me on this one I'm sure (not RSD fans, but people in general...) but I see this again and again as a father and now more in my own life.

I look at where I'm at now and I FORGET that most people aren't in a similar zone.  It's weird to me when people get genuinely upset for more than a few minutes (about anything....literally anything, it's weird to me that people deplete their emotional energy on this...) or that they don't execute in life or know how to pump their own emotions or step up to the plate.

How can EVERYONE not do this?  Very strange.  I often feel like people are JOKING me with half the shit that comes out of their mouth, like me doing an imitation of a chode in a seminar.

The point??  They've sheltered themselves from fucked up shit and gone for COMFORT.  Woooo COMFORT YEH!!

At least until a fucked up situation inevitably happens and they melt down like little babies, looking for mommy and daddy to pickup the peices for them in a state of confusion and resistance to what's going on.

Be open to highs and lows.  Enjoy them.  It's ALL good.

Just like the rainy day you see there, train your RAS to see the beauty in it.  See the fog and the textures and the rain on the ground and find something cool.

It's easy to talk shit about embracing the highs and lows when everything is going well, but learn to LIVE this when it's happening.  Challenge yourself the next time it occurs.

These moments are beautiful.  They're part of life.  The ying and the yang.  ALL a moment of your life.

(Which in case you forgot is ending one minute at a time....)

How COOL is it that we aren't born with everything perfect, and have to EXPERIENCE life to gain the bird's eye view?  Embrace this fact.  Happiness and sadness are just confusing concepts that make you resist situations that are amazing in your life -- it's not happiness and sadness as much as expansion and contraction, both which are necessary to a good life.

:)

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Anyway next up is a video I shot in Austin where it was a weekend of utter domination and lil Texas girls wanting to meet the hot guys from LA.

The last day was tough as the Lakers lost the series against Oklahoma, but I forced myself to get into a good mood and killed it as well.

Many adventures that weekend, I come home expended and with a smile on my face.  But the biggest lesson learned that weekend -- with such an EASY environment in which to dominate it got me thinking of the importance of BEING SURE OF YOURSELF.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO SEE ME RANT AND RAVE ABOUT BEING SURE OF YOURSELF IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT OUTSIDE AN ABANDONED TEXAS CONGRESS...


Oh yes!! :)

It's funny that both Julien and I independently shot videos on this topic, despite that we didn't confer with eachother.  I think the environment possibly responsible.

Basically I want you to think of it like "4th element" of your inner game...

1- Not giving a fuck, having no outcome, etc.

2- Knowing you're enough, entitled, the star of your own movie, etc.

3- Being present to the moment and positive, etc.

4- Being SURE OF YOURSELF in WHATEVER you do.

Ultimately these are all interconnected, it's just how you splice them right?

But yeah, hell yeah, you gotta be sure of yourself.  Whatever style of game you're doing, BE SURE IN IT!

Stop fucking questioning yourself, it's stupid and doesn't help you at all.

Let's be real.  The game is basically just getting it straight in your head that you're the shit, whether that's by delusionally brainwashing yourself like the "short term mating strategy guy" I spoke about last week, or ACTUALLY improving your life.

From there you've gotta approach the girl and be SURE about what the fuck you're doing.

Julien described anything other than this as being a "permission boy" or a "little hamster trying to peer into the group".  Fuck all that shit!  Draw a line in your mind that it is SAD AND PATHETIC.

Step the fuck up!!

That's why the game is so great.  You step up, get the girl, have sex, go out and do it again.  Getting more and more sure of what you do with each passing year.

Fun stuff.  Make it a focus and a habit.  Be willing to gradually improve.

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Anyway I'm rocking out of here and I hope you enjoyed these!

I'm working on a few new projects for RSD, namely...

1- Expanding the frontpage of RSDN to accomodate more articles.

2- Finally throwing up RSD Underground so house all the videos as an archive.

3- Redoing the homepage, which was pretty state of the art in 2005 but is now overloaded with all our products and programs.

4- Redoing the Bootcamp page with a proper little video infomercial and graphics, as well as creating custom BC infomercials for each instructor (I'm working with Alexander on his while he's here!)

From there it's about...

5- The newbie website on how to attract dot com.

6- A newbie product (long overdue!).  Both of these should help with the complaints I often see from guys who don't realize they can watch "Foundations" to learn the fundamentals.

7- A Blueprint 2 type program with the last 4 years of my most advanced game ideas (I'll definitely need the newbie stuff out first cause this shit will confuse the FUCK out of the community, and is mostly for guys in this at least 5 years and have a deep thirst for knowledge -- the shit I've learned has been pretty insane).

8- A Hot Seat 3 type program that I probably won't teach, but I want to update the infield footage with my current level of game before I focus on the self help, because I can't see my results staying at their current level if I stop going out every night (I'll probably fuck even hotter women as my profile increases, but from strict gangster cold approach pickup I can't see myself stunting like this as my kids get older and become aware of what's going on, wondering why daddy is out every night).

9- Redoing our videos to run off of a streaming video website.

10- RSD Inner Circle, to get the damned lairs situation straightened out, since in so many cities they're dying so we figure we'll just do it internally from here on out.

And of course I'll be running non stop programs and pumping frontpage content and posting in the forums and running RSD and working out and meditating and reading and attending other learning events, so there's a lot of shit to get done!

That's how it is in your early thirties.  The road to ultimate victory isn't paved in a lot of "chilling out".  I've always known we were going to the top and have been willing to put in the work.

I could give a fuck about public approval or popularity, but I want to create the type of content that I personally know is the shit.  To me THAT is the top!

There's just SO MUCH FURTHER I can go with it, and that's what I want to get done.  Wait until you see what's coming.  It doesn't happen overnight but like a weird mold that grows and grows, it eventually happens over time.  Gotta let nature run it's course.  This is how it's always been.

btw I've also got some pretty sick Free Tour videos on the way...

1- Phoenix Free Tour on "Finding your strenghts"

2- Vegas Free Tour on "Advanced concepts of Validation"

3- Washington DC Free Tour on "How today's epiphany becomes tommorow's gimmick"

4- Boston Free Tour on "Tyler and Julien talk massive shit about how they talk massive shit to girls" (hilarious)

5- Austin Free Tour on "What the public isn't meant to know" and "stepping up to the adventure"

I'll try to get these cut and uploaded as soon as I can.  The Free Tour stuff has been really stepping up as far as quality, you're going to be psyched.

Let me know your thoughts on all this!  Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon!

Tyler