Hey so I'm just flying from Los Angeles to Seattle with my girlfriend / baby momma Roxana and planning to post this when I land.

We're going to shoot into the mountains and hopefully I'll have the chance to record a few videos up by Mt. Renier, but we'll see.

The Seattle events are this Thursday - Sunday and I'm very psyched. Jeff will be with me and I'm sure we're going to make the city look like some burnt out warzone by the time we're done.

I've got 2 new videos today, one which is pretty mindblowing as far as location, and just to make sure you're in the loop here's a list of my upcoming events!

June 14, 2012: Seattle (taught with Jeff)
June 28, 2012: Philadelphia
July 12, 2012: Denver
August 2, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Julien)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

(The Seattle Bootcamp just had one student cancel which means there's now one spot left on it -- if you're in the North West you'd be crazy not to get on this!)

Also after the Hawaii program I'll be shooting over to Las Vegas for the Real Social Dynamics WORLD SUMMIT.

If you're not familiar with this, here's the deal...

The Summit is basically up there with the most fun weeks of your entire life. It's so good that every instructor on the team will be like "X months / days til Summit..." nearly every time we talk.

Consider that guys who are getting laid and partying in the best cities in the world view the Summit as the biggest event of their year (and this isn't me pumping it -- this is the reality of how amazing it is) and you can assume it's THE SHIT.

My natural buddies who come talk about it all year, basically anyone "in the know" about it views it as the best shit going down.

We have every single instructor and most past instructors fly into Las Vegas and spend the week going out, banging every cute girl in sight (it's obnoxious to the point of being somewhat disgusting) and partying it with the most committed guys in RSD.

The clients who come to Summit are usually our best, because they're the guys who have their shit together to the point of being able to do something like this. Typically the guys who attend are intermediate / advanced and already getting laid a lot, so there are tons of great people to go out with. Conversely there's some new guys who come too and they always have a blast and get laid as well. Usually about 85% of the room gets laid while they're there, and those who don' t always do crazy shit and learn a ton.

Every single instructor speaks during the day at the Venetian (a very good hotel in Vegas) and we all go out at night. There's so many good guys to wing with everyone has a blast. There's also every instructor in the company on hand running Bootcamps if you choose to sign up and do BC the same weekend as you do Summit.

I urge you to look into this, even if you only have one week off a year I wouldn't hesitate to recommend it. It's THAT amazing, and this is the feedback I've had consistently across the board from the people who attend.

World Summit August 19 - 25 2012

www.rsdworldsummit.com

LAS VEGAS!! I'll see you there!!!

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So this past week I was in Atlanta with Alexander~ and it was absolutely amazing. Pulling stunners nearly every night (Sunday's was best, I'm rating her "OMFG" level...) and eating at my fav restaurant R. Thomas.

It's epic weekends like this of non stop learning, hooking up with girls, and partying, that you never forget. Seriously what a life I lead, it's really insane.

At the same time I work really fucking hard. I'm always hustling to learn new things about game, and working with Jeff, Brad, Julien, and now finally Alex more recently I've viewed it like I'm taking a Bootcamp MYSELF.

From me, I think the other instructors learn the more proactive approach to game that Julien and I developed in Los Angeles over the past 2 years -- like just how absurdly aggressive we are in hitting up girls, minimizing time between appraoches, building insane amounts of momentum, and pushing every set to the further possible limit.

OTOH from Jeff I learned so much about being irreverent and self amused, from Brad I learned about picking up girls by being chill and yet extremely narcissistic and always in a good mood, and finally Alex I learned a lot about how to do it without physicality and taking your time.

The Bootcamps are always so shocking for students as well, because they get to see how WE teach ourselves as instructors. What they learn isn't just in the demos or feedback, but actually teaching themselves HOW TO TEACH THEMSELVES.

And that's a big emphasis of how I've built the content for the RSDN front page, where I allow many different perspectives from different instructors, and TRUST IN PEOPLE'S INTELLIGENCE to figure out what works for them.

Of course for some newbie who fails to take action, this doesn't give them the "satisfaction" of "feeling like they get it" when they THEORIZE on how to get girls. (Like guys on sites who just "collect" every last bit of seduction material without ever implementing it.)

But for guys who go out a lot, it's a NO BRAINER to figure out what works for them and what doesn't, because they are HITTING IT UP!! And when you hit it up, everything becomes clear.

This is basically the topic for today's video, which is getting out of "group think" and deciding what works for YOURSELF.

I always like to play around with the delivery of my content, so I made this one a lil off the wall. I think you'll enjoy it, as it's designed to penetrate into your brain by the emotions it's meant to provoke out of you. Have a look!

CLICK HERE TO SEE ME ON A PSYCHOTIC RANT ABOUT TRANSCENDING GROUP THINK.


Fun stuff huh?

Funny enough I usually bring a few different shirts in my backpack and see what colors line up with the environment.

Then I see what types of topics and vibes line up with it as well. So for this video I'd just pulled one of the girls from the weekend as was pretty relaxed, and delivered what I thought was some of my best content ever on "picking up girls and getting laid by being NORMAL..."

But then I looked at the background and it was all bright with these loud cars streaking by, so I thought I'd throw on a Dexter looking red shirt and just yell into the camera like a crazy person, to match up with all the passing cars.

I just psyche myself into the emotions and let it rip. I want to keep improving on my video blogging so I like playing around with different ideas and see how people respond.

Anyway hopefully you enjoyed it, and I also wanted to make another point as far as Julien's "controversial" new video about creating drama this week.

The reason I allow different instructors to put up different opinions is that I trust YOU to figure out what works. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to stop high quality content from being releasing and punishing the intelligent people, because I was afraid the dummies will misinterpret it.

You may or may not agree with this, that's up to you. Many people probably don't. But I think this constant fear of the dummies mistinterpreting ideas and running wild has held back society for a long time (although also probably prevented a lot of chaos -- so it's a mixed result).

Like with PUA ideas it's amazing how some guys are just so....dumb....that they fuck themselves up by listening too dogmatically to "generalizations" about how things work, and fail to look at it through their own critical eye.

THE MAP IS NOT THE TERRITORY.

For every time I say "be cocky and funny..." there's the counter example that you should be NORMAL and not OVERDO IT.

It's up to YOU to figure this out, not listen to instructors blindly because you're too mentally weak to think for yourself.

What if you can't? What if you just recognize yourself as being unintelligent and incapable of knowing what to do?

Dunno what to tell you. Dummies will always exist at the bottom of the barrel in life. Maybe consider pushing yourself more in life in general. Read more, learn more, challenge yourself to more new shit.

Personally I'm always looking to increase my practical intelligence. I figure I'm about 20% as smart as I need to be to get the shit done I want to get done, so I fill up my brain with the types of foods and substances that build it like a muscle, and push it DAILY.

(If you're not mentally exhausted at least a few times a week...WTF?? And if you're not physically exhausted a few times a week from working out...ALSO WTF??? You're gonna be a soft ass bitch, mentally weak and physically a push over that people can dominate like a girl.)

(Which is cool if you're a girl. But dude. Take a sec to look in the mirror.)

I grew up constantly challenging myself, and continue to do so, so if I read authors like Ayn Rand or Eckhart Tolle I don't become some right wing crazy person or a woo woo spiritual lamo. I take the good and discard the bad, pretty much effortlessly. It's soooo easy to spot biases in people's work, it blows me away that people can't do this consistently, but again this comes from decades of being mentally lazy and not being challenged.

As far as Julien's video, it's good. And guess what? There's nothing wrong with it AT ALL.

It makes sense that some guys will look at it imagine the times THEY got their heads spun out by a girl.

Or maybe they envision the sweet little "7" from their neighbourhood having her emotions played with by some mischievious "player".

But what's wrong here is they're not seeing that the "top PUAs" are out gaming HOT women.

Instead of imagining cute little Annie from your neighbourhood, look at Julien's infield footage video. What types of girls do you see? Are these the types of girls who have problems meeting a nice guy?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU

HELL NO.

(Like is the girl in the slutty pink dress doing the double-makeout with Julien and her girlfriend really some naive sweetheart who easily gets her heart broken, or is she out meeting some athlete and snorting cocaine off his cock the very next night?)

(Or hour. Or minute.)

(How about the girl who slaps him and says "What are you gonna say bitch?" after he makes out with her, or the blonde chick who likes it when he pulls her hair and makes her bark like a dog?  Are you worried that Julien has broken these girls hearts?  Is it not possibly beneficial to give girls like this extra stimulation after sex if you choose to keep them around?)

I personally don't bother creating drama with girls because I don't have time for it. Not really my style or congruent. Zero interest to me at all.

But I'm also able to think clearly enough to see reality and not get stuck in ideals, or project whatever pain I felt as a chode onto a STUNNER PLAYMATE who has endless guys throwing themselves at her like Japanese kamakazee fighters shooting into Pearl Harbour.

That said, again I encourage everyone to think for themselves and form their own opinions. I'd rather see someone disagree than just blindly accept something without their own good judgement.

Just consider that the level beyond that is backing up your own judgements with REAL LIFE experience with the hot women, and not idealizing your own behaviour, guys' behaviour, or women's behaviour, into something it's not.

The key to life is finding the beauty in it DESPITE some of the wacky shit that goes on -- and that we ALL do as crazy flawed humans beings.

Being positive means seeing both the "good" and "bad" of reality, and finding the beauty in it ANYWAY. Not distorting it, but just seeing it for what it is and realizing IT'S ALL GOOD regardless.

Julien has given some ideas about how girls like the "double makeout chick in the pink dress" can be kept on the fish hook after you've bounced.  These are the types of girls he pulls -- models, starlets, etc.  If you find it useful I recommend playing around with it, cause anything I've ever learned from the guy has been solid.

And of course, obviously if the girl is some lil sweet heart who doesn't need something like this, it's lame to fuck around with her head.  Everyone knows this, it goes without saying.

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Anyway the other topic I wanted to get into today was the idea of FAITH.

This is a really profound topic to me, and will be a huge element of the self development company we run in the next few years.

There's HUGE ramifications to this understanding, and it will permeate through every aspect of your life -- from the vibe you give off, to what you learn from situations, to how you evolve as a man.

It would be no exaggeration to say that this may be the single most important understanding that you can possess. No shit!

And I'll explain why. But first check out this video, which was pretty damned hard to record I gotta say.

CLICK THIS VIDEO TO SEE MY HEAD SURROUNDED BY GIANT WHALE SHARKS AND MANTA RAYS WHILE I REVEAL WHAT IS POSSIBLY THE MOST CRUCIAL UNDERSTANDING YOU WILL POSSESS IN YOUR LIFE


btw to get this here's how we did it.

I told the staff that I was going to shoot a video for my family to get her to turn on the moving floor. Then I convinced the surrounding people who would normally be walking through the section to be quiet and give me the space to record (it's normally bustling with people).

Then I had to time the seminar I was going to deliver to 4 minutes, and as I spoke it into the camera I'd try to see ahead in my peripheral vision to how close to the end of the walkway I was getting and plan and pace what I was going to say.

We shot 2 versions of it that were worth releasing, and the second video that I didn't release had even cooler fish. But there was this one group of old people who resented what I was doing and deliberately tried to speak noisy to be dicks (similar vibe to when Julien was walking through Austin) so it was too disruptive and I went with this version.

I think the main key is that you get an idea to do something, and NO EXCUSES. Don't get to the damned aquarium and find a reason you CAN'T get the video. Find a reason you CAN GET THE FUCKING VIDEO.

FUCK AN EXCUSE JUST GET IT DONE.

(If only the whinging newbies who think they're too ugly to have sex with a girl could take on this mindset. Personally I'd rather die than think like that. If you want something GO FUCKING GET IT and all hands on fucken deck til it's done, come hell or fucking high water, it is what it is....)

Anyway I'm glad I got it out, and if you ever wanna visit that place it's in Atlanta and called the "Georgia Aquarium".

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Regardless let's get onto the lessons here, because the video just sort of slightly scratched the surface of an issue that's pretty huge.

I won't really get into it fully here either, because my airplane will be landing in the next few minutes, but what would I say is the GIST of this?

Basically I've come to a position in life where I've nearly "had it all".

Fucked tons of girls, every type of chick and race and warm hole I can think of. Had tons of resources to do the things I wanna do, live in the cool places I wanna live, eat the food I wanna eat. It's been pretty sweet.

And yet I sit here BARELY ABLE TO REMEMBER ANY OF IT!!!

Seriously, there's girls I've fucked who could walk past me in the street and I wouldn't remember. Probably more than I'd care to admit.

How many lays have I had that really stood out to me? Maybe 20 or something. Like those few hot girls who were so good in bed they taught me how to be a better fuck or whatever. Or girls who I just really liked.

It was pretty cool......I guess. Again though I can barely remember any of it.

Likewise I can't really remember most BAD experiences I've either.

There was that time in the Greek islands I had really bad dehydration and sat in bed sick for 2 days feeling like I was at death's door. Or the time I talked about in the Boston video I lay on the floor in the airport with my heart barely moving.

Then there was the car accident when I was in bed for like 6 weeks, only a few days after finding out my GF was unexpectedly pregnant and I was gonna be a dad.

I vaguely recollect riding out the economic downturn and working a lot for a few years. I happen to have a ridiculous work ethic now where I chop through months of work like it's a walk in the park. But I can barely remember how I got to this point.

There was that book "The Game" that left me paranoid I'd be punched in the head while walking down the street for a few years. I remember being pretty pissed at looking like a big idiot in it, but then I just made millions of dollars for RSD and barely remember that either.

All of this shit is like some vague recollection to me, it's all a big fat joke.

You'd read this list and assume it would be so vivid in my mind.  IT'S NOT.  I remember most of both the good and the bad about as well as I remember waking up last night to TAKE A PISS!!!!!!

I guess all this shit happened.  I dunno, I'm pretty sure it did, according to my vague memories of it.  And now here I am on this plane!!  Woooooooooooooo!!

Life is mostly just these surface level experiences that come and go, fully transient, AND THE ONLY CONSTANT IS *YOU*.

This is why I can't be bothered to put anything bad into my body anymore, since I eat it and forget about it like a few hours later. I could be fucked if I could remember more than like 5 ice creams I ever ate in my life, and yet I know I've probably eaten it like a thousand times. So whatever, why would I waste "brain cells" or make myself fat and shorten my life for something that's a temporary distraction.

Here's what IS a constant for me though. The person that I am as I sit here on this plane.

And I gotta tell you, in case you haven't noticed, I get a pretty big kick out of it.

It's to the point I have to stop myself from looking in the mirror because it puts me in such a good mood, like I remember "Oh fuck yeah, I'm that dude.... That's sooooo cooooool."

This isn't to be overly positive or whatever, but just to give a context that I think this is NORMAL.

Like if you do NOT think like this when you think about yourself, WTF is going on homie?

You think you have the best MOM in the world, right? I know for sure I think I have the best TWO SONS EVER.

I know this isn't entirely rationale based on just the odds of 6 billion people being alive, there's probably some better mom or kids. Sounds fucked up to verbalize it, but let's be real, right?

Yet the decision to become a person whose skin you LOVE living inside just makes logical sense. You should assume this is the standard, and if you're not there yet then it's gonna be a combination of inner and outer transformations in your paradigms, perspectives, thought patterns, emotional addictions, daily habits, ability to execute, and achievements that you're lucky to work towards in your life.

So realize that these surface level experiences, they're mostly only important insofar as adding the "spice to life" and then giving your mind the necessary STIMULATION to evolve towards what you're capable of becoming.

These experiences are all necessary in order to grow into a proper adult and not stagnate into a confused loser idiot.  But there's NO NEED TO CLING TO THEM AT ALL.

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The most important reason that you need to understand this is that without it, you are basically a shell of a person.  Constantly whining about things that don't go your way, and failing to gain the lessons that you're meant to see.

Change your perspective on this and suddenly you grow at a rapid pace.  So fast it freaks people out.  This is really the key.

Like Neo in The Matrix your brain is jacked into all this incoming input, and it's gaining a ton of knowledge from them and allowing you to become THE ONE. :)

Take every experience of life WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF YOUR LARGER JOURNEY.

It's all just stimulation that's sent to teach you something.

Learn from the lessons and be passionate about improving and not repeating mistakes.  Then you get deeper lessons and deeper ones, become wiser, happier in your own skin, and become the person you're meant to be.

It's cool shit.  REMEMBER TO REMEMBER IT!  Every time you feel anxious, have fucking faith!!  Keep improving and building on the back of the experiences that you're blessed to receive.

As you learn more you go after bigger ones, and like the levels in a video game they keep getting more difficult and complex.  And INTERESTING.  It's fucken bomb!

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Anyway I'm out of here for now and I hope you're having a great week!

The new "RSD Underground" video vault should be coming out around next week, so if you enjoy the videos the new site will make it an awesome way for you to peruse all the amazing content.

I've also got Free Tour videos coming out over the next few weeks that are totally awesome.  Really good content and hilarious to watch.  Hope you're psyched.

Please let me know what you thought about the topics of "Cultivating Independent Thought" and "Faith In The Journey".  I'd love to hear some personal experiences!!

Thanks for reading and I'll see you soon!

Tyler

PS:  Puhhh-leeezzze for the love of God don't post "First!  Second!  Third BITCHES!" in the thread.  We did it.  It was fun.  It's DONE.  Time to move on. :)

PPS:  I know this is tough.  You can do it.  I believe you can resist!!

PPPS:  I know you probably posted "FIRST!!" before you even read the whole article.  I know this is very tough.  It's not too late!!