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Hey there!
I'm just chilling here on this nice Tuesday night to have the Wednesday article out for you, which is going to be an hour and ten minute long video from the Seattle Free Tour.
I've also got some cool LIVE EVENTS coming up that I highly recommend you get onto.
The first is the HONOLULU Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.
August 2, 2012: Honolulu
Currently the Free Tour has about 20 people, the Hot Seat has around 10, and the Bootcamp has 4 (with a 5th apparently a day away from signing up). I'm pretty psyched about this cause it's the smallest market in RSD and the hardest to fill. :) Not bad at all.
And you know what? I'd recommend that YOU take a flight out to Honolulu to attend the program as well.
Here's why.
1- It's a RARE event taught with myself and JULIEN at the same time (he's teaching his Sunday day of Hot Seat personally...)
2- When we teach together it is fucking EPIC. Seriously.
3- Honolulu is WILDLY fucking fun. SOOOOO GOOD. If you've never been to Hawaii, you owe it to yourself to do this, and it's a great excuse to make it happen.
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
From there another event that's absolutely worth considering......
Real Social Dynamics World Summit -- August 19 - 25 2012 -- Las Fucking Vegas
People go absolutely nuts about the Summit, because you have every instructor in the company together in Vegas sharing their best secrets of the year at the Venetian Hotel.
Then the entire group goes out at night for FULL MAYHEM in Las Vegas. It's like being in the movie "The Hangover" but LITERALLY better. This is the type of experience you will carry with you for the rest of your life.
www.rsdworldsummit.com
The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. Get on it and II'll see you there!!
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Okay so I've obviously got a pretty amazing month coming up, and obviously WILDLY PSYCHED.
And I'm also wildly psyched to release this video today, because I think it's one of my best. It's on a variety of topics that surround the idea of how popularity is an upwards or downwards spiral of abundance.
What I love about this video is my absolute BLUNTLESS and the way I sort of captured the general vibe of my REAL OPINION about all these issues.
It's probably somewhat difficult to digest for a lot of people, but it's me just being honest and raw. I hope you get into it, because there's a lot of subtle ideas going on in here.
This is the type of video that would've saved me a lot of confusion back in the day, so I've created it to help YOU to understand many of the issues that used to confuse me. It's like a letter to my old self.
If nothing else you'll appreciate that I craft the entire seminar OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD with nothing prepared, furnishing it with stories and examples to drill the points home. The skill to create stuff like this "off the dome" has taken me a few years, and I really like how it's coming together.
Anyway.....
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO BE WHISKED AWAY ON A WILD RIDE OF ALL SORTS OF TOPICS RELATED TO RSD AND UPWARDS VS DOWNWARDS SPIRALS IN YOUR LIFE...
So yeah hope you really got into this.
I'd say the one downside of the video is how the audio is "peaking" on the high ends, which happened because it was a new microphone and I failed to double check the sensitivity.
(How did this affect your experience of the vid btw? I think it would've been more impactful if the resonance of my voice would've been coming through in the audio, but I loved the content and wanted to release regardless. All my upcoming videos have perfect audio as I've now taken to using headphones to double check at every event!)
I've also got some realy sick stuff coming out from Philadelphia Free Tour and Denver Free Tour, as well as 3 new video blogs I recorded in Denver this past weekend that are great.
I'm sure Julien and I will record some really sick stuff in Honolulu and the Napali Coast as well! Should be a lot to look forward to!
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btw I thought I'd make one last analogy on this idea of being an "ecosystem of abundant positive emotions".
I was out with a girl I met during the Bootcamp this weekend, and it was funny how our chemistry would get other girls to want to join in.
One of the hottest girls out that night was a tall blonde girl making out with a big jacked guy, and it was hilarious how I was hugging my girl and opened her (dude was like WTF??) and she suddenly kept re-opening us the rest of the night and trying to hang with us.
She could FEEL that we were having a great time together and wanted absolutely nothing from her. It was sexy and she wanted to get in on it.
Why does this happen? I don't get the impression she was bi-sexual at all (although I could be mistaken...). I think what she felt was just the pure positivity and fun coming from us and she was drawn towards it whether she realized it or not.
This is how a lot of 3somes go down actually, where it's just the PURE VALUE of positive emotions and zero neediness whatsoever -- it's like a magnet as opposed to something that repels the girl away.
I try to think about this even as I physically escalate on the girl, like just dancing with her or moving her around, and generating and generating more and more of my own positive emotions....NEEDING NOTHING FROM HER AT ALL.
It heats up and heats up, the tension is out of control, and she NEEDS to relieve it with sex. It just has to happen. It feels too damned good.
Something to consider anyway. :)
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And btw here's an old video that talks about getting out of negative bullshit and into positivity, so check if out if you never have.
It's actually the first video that also relates to the "hard case newbie" topic of last week, and gave me the idea to expand on the topic
Gotta love Rockerfeller Centre it's sick!
It's funny how this video became pretty popular, I actually thought people would be into it so that was really fun to see.
Cool stuff.
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Okay so hope you're rockin' and good to go with this video and I'll see you back next week.
Julien and I are off to Honolulu for our only pure vacay per year, and then another week in Napali Coast. We'll be cracking out the Acai bowls and eating in fly restaurants, hitting up the ocean and surf, and Julien will probably be squirming at the site of frightening fish.
Absolutely LET ME KNOW what you thought of this video and the topic of cyclces of abundance!! I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!! Appreciate all the comments in the last post btw!
Thanks for reading and watching, and I'll talk to you soon!
Tyler
PS: My current plan for while I'm on vacay is to have the video content prepared and possibly pre-write the articles, or else have someone else post them for me while I'm off in the rainforest of the Napali Coast that has no cell receptIon or internet.
I'll figure it out this week, but if anything is unusual that's why!
I'm just chilling here on this nice Tuesday night to have the Wednesday article out for you, which is going to be an hour and ten minute long video from the Seattle Free Tour.
I've also got some cool LIVE EVENTS coming up that I highly recommend you get onto.
The first is the HONOLULU Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp.
August 2, 2012: Honolulu
Currently the Free Tour has about 20 people, the Hot Seat has around 10, and the Bootcamp has 4 (with a 5th apparently a day away from signing up). I'm pretty psyched about this cause it's the smallest market in RSD and the hardest to fill. :) Not bad at all.
And you know what? I'd recommend that YOU take a flight out to Honolulu to attend the program as well.
Here's why.
1- It's a RARE event taught with myself and JULIEN at the same time (he's teaching his Sunday day of Hot Seat personally...)
2- When we teach together it is fucking EPIC. Seriously.
3- Honolulu is WILDLY fucking fun. SOOOOO GOOD. If you've never been to Hawaii, you owe it to yourself to do this, and it's a great excuse to make it happen.
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
From there another event that's absolutely worth considering......
Real Social Dynamics World Summit -- August 19 - 25 2012 -- Las Fucking Vegas
People go absolutely nuts about the Summit, because you have every instructor in the company together in Vegas sharing their best secrets of the year at the Venetian Hotel.
Then the entire group goes out at night for FULL MAYHEM in Las Vegas. It's like being in the movie "The Hangover" but LITERALLY better. This is the type of experience you will carry with you for the rest of your life.
www.rsdworldsummit.com
The Summit is most people's favorite week of the year for good reason. Get on it and II'll see you there!!
<>================================<>
Okay so I've obviously got a pretty amazing month coming up, and obviously WILDLY PSYCHED.
And I'm also wildly psyched to release this video today, because I think it's one of my best. It's on a variety of topics that surround the idea of how popularity is an upwards or downwards spiral of abundance.
What I love about this video is my absolute BLUNTLESS and the way I sort of captured the general vibe of my REAL OPINION about all these issues.
It's probably somewhat difficult to digest for a lot of people, but it's me just being honest and raw. I hope you get into it, because there's a lot of subtle ideas going on in here.
This is the type of video that would've saved me a lot of confusion back in the day, so I've created it to help YOU to understand many of the issues that used to confuse me. It's like a letter to my old self.
If nothing else you'll appreciate that I craft the entire seminar OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD with nothing prepared, furnishing it with stories and examples to drill the points home. The skill to create stuff like this "off the dome" has taken me a few years, and I really like how it's coming together.
Anyway.....
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO BE WHISKED AWAY ON A WILD RIDE OF ALL SORTS OF TOPICS RELATED TO RSD AND UPWARDS VS DOWNWARDS SPIRALS IN YOUR LIFE...
So yeah hope you really got into this.
I'd say the one downside of the video is how the audio is "peaking" on the high ends, which happened because it was a new microphone and I failed to double check the sensitivity.
(How did this affect your experience of the vid btw? I think it would've been more impactful if the resonance of my voice would've been coming through in the audio, but I loved the content and wanted to release regardless. All my upcoming videos have perfect audio as I've now taken to using headphones to double check at every event!)
I've also got some realy sick stuff coming out from Philadelphia Free Tour and Denver Free Tour, as well as 3 new video blogs I recorded in Denver this past weekend that are great.
I'm sure Julien and I will record some really sick stuff in Honolulu and the Napali Coast as well! Should be a lot to look forward to!
<>========================<>
btw I thought I'd make one last analogy on this idea of being an "ecosystem of abundant positive emotions".
I was out with a girl I met during the Bootcamp this weekend, and it was funny how our chemistry would get other girls to want to join in.
One of the hottest girls out that night was a tall blonde girl making out with a big jacked guy, and it was hilarious how I was hugging my girl and opened her (dude was like WTF??) and she suddenly kept re-opening us the rest of the night and trying to hang with us.
She could FEEL that we were having a great time together and wanted absolutely nothing from her. It was sexy and she wanted to get in on it.
Why does this happen? I don't get the impression she was bi-sexual at all (although I could be mistaken...). I think what she felt was just the pure positivity and fun coming from us and she was drawn towards it whether she realized it or not.
This is how a lot of 3somes go down actually, where it's just the PURE VALUE of positive emotions and zero neediness whatsoever -- it's like a magnet as opposed to something that repels the girl away.
I try to think about this even as I physically escalate on the girl, like just dancing with her or moving her around, and generating and generating more and more of my own positive emotions....NEEDING NOTHING FROM HER AT ALL.
It heats up and heats up, the tension is out of control, and she NEEDS to relieve it with sex. It just has to happen. It feels too damned good.
Something to consider anyway. :)
<>===============================<>
And btw here's an old video that talks about getting out of negative bullshit and into positivity, so check if out if you never have.
It's actually the first video that also relates to the "hard case newbie" topic of last week, and gave me the idea to expand on the topic
Gotta love Rockerfeller Centre it's sick!
It's funny how this video became pretty popular, I actually thought people would be into it so that was really fun to see.
Cool stuff.
<>=============================<>
Okay so hope you're rockin' and good to go with this video and I'll see you back next week.
Julien and I are off to Honolulu for our only pure vacay per year, and then another week in Napali Coast. We'll be cracking out the Acai bowls and eating in fly restaurants, hitting up the ocean and surf, and Julien will probably be squirming at the site of frightening fish.
Absolutely LET ME KNOW what you thought of this video and the topic of cyclces of abundance!! I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!! Appreciate all the comments in the last post btw!
Thanks for reading and watching, and I'll talk to you soon!
Tyler
PS: My current plan for while I'm on vacay is to have the video content prepared and possibly pre-write the articles, or else have someone else post them for me while I'm off in the rainforest of the Napali Coast that has no cell receptIon or internet.
I'll figure it out this week, but if anything is unusual that's why!
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So I'm pumped to have another hour of you talking about an upward spiral of abundance!
I have no idea how you make any money at all giving everything away for free and even giving free tours. But I'm grateful nonetheless!
Thanks man.
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Reminds me of the two biggest epiphanies from Blueprint:
1-You are enough
2-Sex is a consequence of good chemistry and is inevitable. Just an afterthought.
Thanks man.
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Really really good, thank you
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Really like that video! Even though I know about all this, I find it easy to sink into scarcity when I'm out approaching. But I know that the only way to break out of it is to keep approaching, push my confort zone and eventually get better and better. This will equal more abundance.
Kjaye777
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It really helps me see where I've gone wrong with attractive girls in the past who were clearly interested me initially, but then just lost attraction as I started trying too hard and over investing in the interaction.
What's funny is a lot of the points you make in your videos are life changing epiphany's when you first tell them, and then blindingly self evidently obvious five minutes later.
It's like I constantly find myself asking where the fuck I got my old retarded belief systems from? I'm a smart and rational guy, why did I live almost 38 years with a world view that was so fucking lame???
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- Tyler
"just be normal."
- Tyler
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Ohh & a big thing that's TREMEDOUSLY improved my day to day state of being is cherishing, getting excited and happy for every little success I have. In all aspects of my life. I think everything I do is awesome. It's fucking legit.
Abundance of GOOD EMOTIONS. I love cold approach pick-up btw & started approaching a lot more than I use to and its suppperrrr fun! That adds a large amount to my levels of enjoyment in life as well.
cupshalfphil
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It seems that "pickup" stuff, the way you guys teach it here, isn't about relating to people (girls especially) as other people, i.e. conscious beings, but rather you have learned much more about people's (girls' especially) unconscious way of living. So rather than being honest and treating the person across from you as someone who is conscious, you treat them like the marketers treat the public, i.e. McDonald's keeping the double arches when it was considering to get rid of them but deciding against it because they trigger the subconscious breasts of your mother. Its things like that. Rather than saying "I like you, wanna fuck?" which would be honest, putting yourself out there vulnerably and genuinely, you have learned ways of manipulating subtly, while having enough deniability (like marketers) that you can say you're being honest.
If I asked you, Tyler, you would probably say (I'm making this up, obviously) "You can't be honest! It just doesn't work!" And you might be right, sometimes. YOU'VE learned that most people are unconscious of their lives, and I 100% agree most people are unconscious, more so than not. It makes me sick how sheepish humans (myself included) are. However, by saying "I can't be honest because THEY are unconscious and it wouldn't work", well you perpetuate the unconsciousness, YOU get better at manipulating, they stay in the dark, because you are playing to their unconsciousness, rather than assuming they have conscious eyes behind that glazed, stupid face. :-)
I realize you just want the results (now to everyone, not just Owen/Tyler), but the goal, imo, shouldn't be just to get results... because its obvious, Owen, you have them. It might be time you went beyond "No lines" (your version of natural) to "Honest" or genuine or real, because there is a difference. When you say "Tiger is better than, its cool, he's better than me too" or use the 6-10 rating scale for women, your a smart enough guy not to believe it, its a bullshit, false, illusory heirarchy that only exists within illusory social situations. You are (I imagine) smart enough to realize with all your Tolle knowledge that we are truly all equal in the eyes of existence, consciousness, etc., so if you have this awareness, the majority of what you're teaching is pure garbage even in what I imagine to be your eyes, but you (like myself) might not be ready to go full "honest" rather than "No lines" (what you imagine to be natural).
Thats it. My shpeal. I think you get it.
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The long term mating stratergy stuff is excellent and helpful on many levels. I appriciate that 'cold apprach' is at the heart of this but I happen to, and I'm sure this is the norm, spend more time not in a club approaching or on day 2s than I do.
Looking forward to your next post
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Tyler
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I watch Blueprint now and think "Why do I even sell this it's SOOOOO OBVIOUS!! How could anyone not know all this??"
Then people I'm interacting with will make comments that reflect they don't understand the concepts from BP, and I think they're KIDDING. Like a sarcastic joke as if they didn't understand all this.
That's what's so funny is that it's all so obvious, but the societal unconscious beliefs we get programmed with are sooooo fucken wack that we don't grow up knowing it. But once you see it, it's just so damned apparent.
Tyler
It really helps me see where I've gone wrong with attractive girls in the past who were clearly interested me initially, but then just lost attraction as I started trying too hard and over investing in the interaction.
What's funny is a lot of the points you make in your videos are life changing epiphany's when you first tell them, and then blindingly self evidently obvious five minutes later.
It's like I constantly find myself asking where the fuck I got my old retarded belief systems from? I'm a smart and rational guy, why did I live almost 38 years with a world view that was so fucking lame???
Tyler
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To be honest we basically just do this as "infotainment" so because it's all FREE and OFF THE CUFF we're not spending the time to break down all the points into actionable steps or exercises for you.
At some point if we start putting out commercial videos again we'd obvious do that, with powerpoints and exercises, etc. This would provide the separation between the free content and paid content. For now though if it's free, this is what it is. :) Fair enough right?
Tyler
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What I've been dealing with lately is that I have a small level of abundance and found that motivation to approach and find new girls harder to muster up. I thought it would fuel me to find more girls but releasing your seed has a funny effect for me right now.
Because it's the first time I've dealt with these unattached feelings towards multiple women, I just assume it's something to navigate through and find a happy medium (motivated yet at ease).
More than anything it probably just means I gotta continue going out. So that's what I'll do.
Tyler
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The one thing they do that really bummed me out was bootlegging drafts of our material before it was ready to be released. Like the Blueprint book that I never bothered to release after the draft came out -- I spent YEARS working on it, imagining how psyched everyone would be when they read the finished version, and it sapped me of motivation to complete it knowing people had read a shitty draft beforehand (yes I know people want the finished version, but to sum the energy to sit in front of a computer polishing it for years at a time is too daunting when you've lost the drive -- creative people aren't motivated by money but the excitement of birthing something into the world for people to experience and be AMAZED.)
That shit just makes you paranoid and not want to do rehearsals or drafts, when you know some asshole is recording a free rehearsal you invited them to out of good will. They did that to Jeff a few years back with Jeff Show and I thought it was the most obnoxious shit I've ever seen -- imagine being offered to attend a rehearsal for FREE and paying that back by bootlegging the guy?
LOL that's exactly what I was referring to though. The guy who did that probably thought "I'm so smart I'm getting DOWNLOAD POINTS!" But if you're a complete CREEPER who has so little regard for other people that you'd do that, what are the chances women aren't gonna notice and stay the fuck away from you? So he thinks he's moving closer to his goals but he's really just moving further.
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Yes there's a peice of GOD that connects us all and that's INSIDE us all. And everything is INTERCONNECTED in that regard. We're all made of stardust, too.
But there's also the FORM and MATERIAL aspect of our bodies and minds, which guys like Tiger Woods are superior to us. He is more focused, harder working, and has achieved better results.
I personally like having sex with fun slim girls as opposed to girls who are obese and not pleasant to hang out with. These are the realities of life.
Giving props to a guy like Tiger and admitting he's better doesn't mean I have low self esteem. It means that I'm humbling myself to be able to learn from his focus and drive, so as to improve my own life. I wouldn't want to switch places with Tiger, I love my life. But I can learn elements of what he's done and acknowledge his (up until recent years...) insane level of success.
Tyler
Thats it. My shpeal. I think you get it.
cupshalfphil
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The point I was making (after reviewing my long-winded post) was you, and pickup guys in general (as well as the rest of the world, minus Brad Blanton), dealing with people (and girls' especially) manipulatively, AS IF you thought people were unconscious monkeys who you can string along to get what you want. Playing the games you play doesn't make you conscious, it just makes you conscious of you being unconscious (I feel overwhelmed with this conversation). Basically, you know what's going on, but do nothing about it... because you continue to play the games unconscious people play.
Being honest, the only reason I'm talking to you isn't out of altruism or PUAHATE, I want your love, friendship, and approval... and your a celebrity big enough to validate my ideas, but small enough I can actually contact (vs. George Clooney, who I have nothing nice to say). Maybe, though, you might get something out of my need. I'm also fantasizing about stealing your followers and being a great man by standing up to you and supposedly giving you advice.
Cheers
See you at Hot Seat Honolulu (if I'm not banned) !
Tru_Natural
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This is like an hourlong, straight to the point, blueprint.
Blueprint 2012.
Thank you.
thekato
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You asked for honest opinions:
I have loved your last bunch of videos but this last one is not up to scratch. The thoughts seem scattered. Your speaking style is not as captivating. The core message is obviously great (abundance and the cycle of it) - just don't think the delivery is at the high level of the other vids.
Love your shit in general - See ya at hot seat in Montreal.
Peace -
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Have been having some almost F-closes recently. I am making more and more progress getting further and further into the interactions with hotter and hotter girls. There comes a point where suddently my brain like super trips out and is like oh my goddd Im so close to the end like ahhhh.. Like if im running a 100 meter dash, Ill be 10 yards from the finish line and just make a desperate dive for the finish line being as I just want to finally finish a race lol.
When you talked about that whole non outcome dependance mating chicken game I really had a good laugh. Correlates with my experiences.
Also loved how you just talk of being normal, spending time with the girl who is sexually frustrated which ends up in sex without even necessarily "trying" for it. But rather just creating a situation in which it can happen.
Really good video clarified some craziness that had been going on in my life/brain recently.
Sketchyyy
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I remember I went to a free-tour maybe a year or two ago in san fran and I heard you speak. I remember going back to my girlfriend and telling how how blown away I was by you guys and how in reality you guys were the most "normal" human beings on this planet, if anything, and thats why you guys pulled.
I remember going into the free-tour thinking you guys would have this awesome fucking vibe and that just DREW people in and would have maybe a halo over your guys' head or some shit but in reality....
You guys were just purely...normal. Thats what blew me away. Everyone else is fucking weird. But you guys were normal. No fucking creepy shit or weird personality quirks. You guys shed that off after several years in game. Just chill ass dudes expressing themselves.
Thats what was going through my head after the free-tour.
SteveyP
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Great Video. It's the same concepts said in different ways but the key takeaways are fundamental:
the most important point thing to do (if you haven't already) is to commit to an ongoing journey from SUCKING Value to ADDING value and being cool.
Once you commit, how do you make sure you're actions focus on adding value? It ultimately all comes down to the believing that you are enough.
Here are some thoughts on the topic of the cycles of abundance:
Reminds me of Jim Rohn's lesson of the seasons. There's parrallels between the farmer trusting that the sewing seeds will bring him a good harvest in the same way that the man who adds value knows that there'll always be another woman even if he's not currently with one.
It also reminds me of a book Julien recommended when he was here in Sydney called 'The Way of the Superior Man'. This book caused me to realise that relationship cycles exist at least partially because WOMEN COME AND GO (like the seasons) but a real man always has a mission/higher purpose which he values above his woman or women (the mission of obtaining the harvest).
This point is key because it’s the Superior Man's decision to CHOOSE THE MISSION ABOVE THE WOMAN which makes him the kind of man who adds value.
It's some deep shit but basically I'm fucking glad I came across it at the age of 24 instead of 50 or never at all because this is some hectically life-reframing stuff. And I'm having sex with much hotter women since 'getting it' haha
=D
Kjaye777
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Here is how I see it. Everybody is equal before God and has the same intrinsic human value. No argument from me, (or probably from Tyler) on that one. We are all valuable because we are human.
However, we do NOT have the same value for each other, in terms of bringing value to each others lives.
When Tyler talks about a HB 9.5 vs a HB 6, he isn't affirming that the HB 6 has less value as a human being than the HB 9, he is specifically stating that the more attractive girl has a higher sexual value for him, she produces more sexual emotions and arousal in him, a 9.5 in scale, compared to the other girl who only produces a 6. It has nothing to with one girl being better than the other in any sense. Just think of the score as a value of how that person makes YOU feel, not how valuable they are. A high value person makes YOU feel strong emotions towards, and the value assignment is scoring how high that emotional feeling is for you.
Looking at it another way, clearly as you said in your post, you wanted communication with Tyler, so his value to you in this thread is high, he is a 9.5 in value. You have no idea who I am so may not even read this post. My value for is a 6, maybe higher if you read and like the message. But it doesn't mean that TTler is a 9.5 in human worth and I am only a 6, but rather that on a scale or how much you want people to reply, Tyler is a 9.5 and I am a 6. It's just about how much value (either survival or replication value when you rwally break it down) has for you in any particular situation.
Now on to the TIger Woods thing. Again, as a human being his self worth is no greater than your or mine. BUT his worth, as an example of someone who strives to achieve his goals, who has burning ambition, has acheived massive success and fame, is far greater than you or I, hence in those regards he is better.
Tyler is saying that it is important, if you wish to grow and achieve tangible results in life to recognise that Tiger is better than you in these areas, and learn from what he is doing. Rather than just hate on him for his cheating ways, or disregard his success for some other reasons to protect your ego, just be honest with yourself and acknowledge that TIger is doing things in life, in many areas and getting results that are flat out better than yours,and learn from him.
Of course Tyler does happen to phrase this stuff aggressively in his seminars, but again, clearly he is doing that to hammer points home, to energise the listener and to inspire. His jokes, self parodying and frequent expletive language and gestures are all designed to animate and entertain you, get you feeling an emotional reaction and make you inspired.
Finally, regarding Tyler having a value attitude towards people, and being judgemental etc, look at the body of his work. Look at how he addresses people on the forum. Look at how he responded to you. Does he really come across as somebody who only believes value exists in certain people? Does he really come across as judgmental? I'd say hell no! He responds to you personally, politely and gave your opinion a well though out response. He has personally replied to several of my posts, and offered helpful advice to me on diet, health and nutrition. He tries and helps as many of the little guys who post on his forum with questions. None of us are great pick up artists, or wealthy business men. MOst of us haven't taken a bootcamp with him or made him rich from buying his Blueprint and Transformations products yet he replies to everyone showing that everyone has the same value as people in his eyes.
I really think the value that RSD offer for free, is insane, and that guys like Tyler can be tremendous role models and an example of someone who has given his life meaning and purpose, who steps up and lives his dreams. And unlike Tony Robbins or George Clooney he is completely approachable to you and me. His material he offers for free. If you post on his forum and ask him something chances are that he will personally reply if he has time and I have never seen him make a rude comment to anybody on here for anything.
To try and put a wall between you and him, in terms of embracing his ideas and getting what you can from them is in my opinion ridiculous. Take the value that this site offers, don't resist everything but rather see how what they teach can help you and use the outstanding free content to motivate yourself to step up.
Nobody is manipulating anybody. Nobody is saying some people are better human beings than others. It's just a practical and light hearted way of looking at the world, seeing everything as an adventure and a journey of significance and meaning and sharing tips on how to get the best out of life!
I wish I had found this site when I was 20 years old, instead of almost 38!
Being honest, the only reason I'm talking to you isn't out of altruism or PUAHATE, I want your love, friendship, and approval... and your a celebrity big enough to validate my ideas, but small enough I can actually contact (vs. George Clooney, who I have nothing nice to say). Maybe, though, you might get something out of my need. I'm also fantasizing about stealing your followers and being a great man by standing up to you and supposedly giving you advice.
Cheers
See you at Hot Seat Honolulu (if I'm not banned) !
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its funny that tyler puts some guys in that "oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah" flow state.
Maybe game is about getting girls into the same state>?
ha!
peace
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Just hit me in so many fucking levels. It's funny because I was at that Freetour and that I understood your speech at a certain level and then after Hotseat and implementing everything, and hitting it up fucking hard
I watch this again, and it's like fucking new epiphanies and I understood it in a more advanced level.