I'm the co-founder / executive producer of Real Social Dynamics, and the author of "The Blueprint Decoded" -- I was born in Ottawa Canada (1979) and majored in philosophy at Queens University. Now live and work in Los Angeles California -- My life consists of managing Real Social Dynamics, running Bootcamp and Hot Seat, going to the gym, reading everything under the sun, and a twice a week surfing habit.
Just got back from Yosemite where I recorded a few amazing new videos!
Best shots I've ever gotten, you've really gotta see these when they come out in a few months.
I've got a new Free Tour video for you today from Chicago as well! It's absolutely hilarious and informative -- a "must watch" from beginning to end, you will love it!
The www.youtube.com/rsdfreetour account just crossed 20,000 subscribers which is really exciting for a small niche like pickup. That was my goal last year for the two channels when I started them. Psyched!
Thanks to everyone who subscribed and if you haven't subscribed to RSD Free Tour yet, hit up www.youtube.com/rsdfreetour and subscribe right now while it's hot on your mind!
Just do it now while you think of it. You get instantly noticed of new vids and improve your life. Feels good no? ;)
So we'll be cracking into that video today, and I wanted to mention also that I've just finished my most aggressive set of back to back events in our biggest cities -- and am FULLY SPENT lol.
I go HARD on these events, cracking 20 hours days while runing RSD, recording new content, and running the Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamps. People will be coming up to me the entire time like "Dude are you okay? Do you need a break?" cause they see what I'm exerting, but I just want to do MORE.
I've learned to exert more energy than ever and expect to go down as one of the best ever. I really wish I could just post entire Bootcamps online because they're fucking masterpeices, far, far exceeding anything I can show in my existing vids.
Regardless my goal is to keep pushing myself harder on the free content and build on my abilities to put out better and better material. I'm always thinking where I could be at by age 50 and to get there I've just got to keep racking up hours and doing this again and again.
(And again and again...)
The process is a lot of fun, but it's just endless endless work, it's so fucking crazy what it's taken to get to this point. I'm willing to do whatever it takes.
Most recently I've recorded about 15 new videos, many of them shot in 7 locations per video, so you can be expecting those in the coming weeks. I probably shot about 40 locations in total the past few weeks to create all these, it's been insane.
This weekend I'll also be headed to Las Vegas (not for EDC like everyone else on the planet LOL) to check out the mansions Papa wants me to look at for the possible new immersion program. Email him at papa@realsocialdynamics.com (title "Vegas Mansion") if you want to learn about that -- we're on the fence about it and I'll decide after I see what mansions are available if we decide to go ahead with it.
Then I'm off to BOSTON and WASHINGTON DC for the upcoming events, which those are both really fun cities so I'm totally psyched. I also suggest hitting up myself and Julien in Hawaii if you get a chance -- AMAZING!
Here's a list of my full schedule over the coing months...
June 27, 2013: Boston (with Julien)
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu (with Julien)
August 22, 2013: Seattle (with Julien)
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
COOL UPDATE ON SUMMIT: We've just upgraded it where anyone who signs up this year (starting this year if you pay to attend) are grandfathered into attend any RSD World Summit for LIFE!
FULL LIFETIME PASS! YOU CAN ATTEND AS LONG AS WE ARE RUNNING THE EVENT IN VEGAS FOR YEARS TO COME!!
I get it that this is pretty unexpected and intense, but I felt it was the least I could do for anyone who takes so much time off of work to attend the event, and everyone makes so many friends there so it's a perfect chance to meet up with buddies year after year and reinforce the new skills.
What is World Summit, if you're not in the know?
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
Thanks to everyone to offered value to the forum! btw I'll make this observation again and again.......
While people are oftentimes justifiably BITCHING AND MOANING about all the bad posts, any time someone posts something GOOD they don't fucking read it lol!
Why?
Cause we all love to watch a trainwreck. We'll watch the Britney's and Lohan's of the world destroy themselves and bitch how we're sick of hearing about it, but fail to watch www.ted.com
So any time you look at the forum and notice the bullshit, my suggestion is don't respond to it and get into a conversation with someone who posts something good.
I used to live in the same building as Perez Hilton by The Grove (yes I'm dead serious I saw him nearly every day) and the dude NEVER looked happy at all. Wonder why? LOL. ;)
Open yourself up to good content and higher level thinking. Fuck all the bullshit, it's all signal-to-noise ratio, give it NO ATTENTION AT ALL!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
This is so good I feel almost predictable in posting it, but it's a Russel Brand interview from a recent morning show.
There's a few key points here he reveals...
1) Frame controls the mainstream media. FUCK YA! LOL. Hilarious.
2) His point at the start of the interview about how individuals are misrepresented to convey a view is bang on. I'd wanted to do a video on this a long time and plan to do so, now I"m fascinated to go to his tour.
3) He drops tons of game lines here, which you should internalize and use.
Absolutely check it out...
So many good videos to watch in the world, but hope you enjoyed this.
I'll hit you back next week with more.
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THANKS!
So like I said I've got some sick vids coming out over the coming weeks. Here's what's in the cue...
Free Tour.
-NYC
-San Fran
-San Fran HS extra clips
vBlogs. -Chicago millenium park
-NYC brooklyn bridge
-NYC all over the city at night
-NYC central park
-SF Muir Woods
-SF Bay Bridge
-Yosemite all over the park
-Yosemite half dome mountain
(Then I"ve got Boston and DC coming up to shoot new Free Tours and vBlogs, then planning also to shoot in Grand Canyon during the World Summit in Vegas. I want to do all this while I'm still teaching pickup, leave behind a great legacy of cool shit and show what I want to get across!)
But ya this is some of the best stuff I've created, so now I've just got to sit in the house for a week and cut it up, and we'll have a ton of great content over the next 3 months.
Basically I've been working harder on creating new content than I have in my life, so slacked on editing and getting it up. But it will be worth the wait.
HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT THE CHICAGO FREE TOUR VIDEO! WHAT LESSONS IN THE GAME HAVE YOU LEARNED? HAS IT HELPED YOU TO MEET A STUNNING GIRL?
Thanks so much for reading and I'll talk to you soon!
I've just uploaded a new HOUR AND TEN MINUTE video from the Los Angeles Free Tour.
The first 19 minutes is the basics I often cover at the beginning of Free Tours that I usually cut out of the full videos since it's repetitious, but I thought I'd leave it in this once just for fun since people sometimes request it.
Then the last hour is an INSANE RAMPAGE and ROLLER COASTER of a speach, probably my most intense ever released. It shocked me just to watch myself "going off" as I re-watched this the other night.
It's my "10 years deep / advanced level" thoughts on the balance between being the "fun" guy who girls can hook up with and have threesomes with, while still being responsible and successful.
Definitely a MUST WATCH.
Anyway I'm currently packing for San Francisco right now, and will be doing Free Tour and Hot Seat there this weekend!
If you're in NorCal be absolutely sure to make the drive and attend......
Here's my list for the coming months!
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston (With Julien)
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu (with Julien)
August 22, 2013: Seattle
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
COOL UPDATE ON SUMMIT: We've just upgraded it where anyone who signs up this year (starting this year if you pay to attend) are grandfathered into attend any RSD World Summit for LIFE!
FULL LIFETIME PASS! YOU CAN ATTEND AS LONG AS WE ARE RUNNING THE EVENT IN VEGAS FOR YEARS TO COME!!
I get it that this is pretty unexpected and intense, but I felt it was the least I could do for anyone who takes so much time off of work to attend the event, and everyone makes so many friends there so it's a perfect chance to meet up with buddies year after year and reinforce the new skills.
What is World Summit, if you're not in the know?
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
The knowledge I'm going to drop in here will seem simple to most people, but took me over a decade to figure out.
It's extremely nuanced and subtle, but most people will think it's simple because they don't see the deeper levels to it.
All good, but for you advanced guys, this will resonate deep.
We're going to go deep on the topic of how to be totally responsible and successful, while being able to switch it up and become "THAT FUN GUY" who girls can take home first night, have threesomes with, etc.
I had to learn this from years of balancing being a full on pimp while running a business and doing endless work. I'm really the guy to drop this knowledge so I thought I'd put it out.
NOTE: The video is a full Free Tour segment of an event I shared with Todd (he did the first few hours).
I usually cut the initial "basic stuff" and go right to the good stuff in these videos, but people have requested that I post a full Free Tour at some point so I've done it here.
To get to the good stuff click ahead to 19:20 and you'll be good to go, but if you want to see what a whole Free Tour is like as well here it is!
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN TO BE "THAT FUCKING GUY" AND BALANCE THIS WITH THE RESPONSIBILITIES YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE...
Glad you checked it out!
There is some seriously subtle knowledge in here so make use!!
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GO DEEPER - CLASSIC VID
I had to include this as a follow up to the previous video, because it's so critical to fully understanding it.
This video is somewhat famous for me in that people stop me on the street about it all the time. It's on "Short Term Mating Strategy VS Long Term Mating Strategy" and explains why many people use the whole FUCK IT ALL approach in order to get laid.
Watch this for sure...
Nice!
Good job getting fully educated on this. Now go put into use!! :)
I wanted to include a promo of the movie "Spring Breakers" here because for me James Franco's character is the ultimate personification of "that guy" who girls can fuck immediately, have threesomes with, etc.
The movie completely blew my mind for it's pimpetry and I urge you to watch it ASAP. Not even for the plot or any of that, which I think is cool enough, but the PIMPING.
Watch the movie, and ask yourself "Do ***I*** have this type of effect on girls?" If not, WORK ON IT.
If anyone has a better clip of this movie please post it in the comments! Thanks.
In the meantime go watch it ASAP.
I was turned off when I saw the preview cause it looked like some teen party movie, but watch it for the aspects I talk about in today's Free Tour vid! :)
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POSTS OF THE WEEK -- STOP READING AND POSTING ON CRAP THREADS AND SUPPORT GOOD THREADS!
MY OWN POST on the topic of "Sincerirty" -- absolutely check out my sick article on this...
There was a bunch of other really good posts this week, but I failed to write them down when I saw them.
Next week I'll put out a request for good post links a day in advanced cause I know I'm missing out on a few really good ones.
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I'M THINKING OF DROPPING A FEW MILLION ON A VEGAS MANSION, CHECK IT OUT!!
Papa and I have been toying with the idea of purchasing a huge mansion that's 3 minutes from the Wynn hotel.
It would cost us millions of dollars to purchase and I'd have to dump a chunk of my personal savings into the half million downpayment, but I like the idea because it would allow us to house students for longterm bootcamps.
The mansion I'm looking at is a bit OVER THE TOP -- like something out of a rap video, total luxury, hundreds of thousands in expensive furniture that come with the house, etc. I could get a smaller mansion a lot more "realistic" and still everyone would be happy, but similar to all my products and free materials I only like to do something if it's so kick ass people are really stunned by it.
Basically the idea of Vegas is that it's the biggest party city in the world and the best to learn game. If you're a guy who wants to dedicate 6 - 12 months to learn pickup with a continual RSD instructor living "in house" as well as a group of guys regularly going out to wing with, this would be an insane option.
Conversely we've toyed with the idea of doing immersion programs for just a WEEK for guys who can't stay in Vegas that long.
Here's some initial thoughts...
-The cost would be 3 - 5K a month depending on the room you rent. This is similar to rent in a decent apartment in LA or NYC but you have a Bootcamp instructor and mastermind group live in a mansion 3 mins from the Vegas strip instead.
-You get x number of nights a week bootcamp instruction, and then go out with the other guys from the house the rest of the week
-Your goal is to spend 6 - 12 months focusing on pickup and achieve mastery with it, so you can carry the benefits forward for the rest of your life. Life is short. You'll never look back on the time you spent doing something like this and wish you had it back, it's a full on peak experience that benefits you for all your days.
To make it work I'd be looking for long term commitments, but may be open to week or month rentals as well, maybe keep a room for that purpose.
The obstacle would be people having the time and money to move in. Just like it's a stretch for me to get the mansion, it's a stretch for you to do the program. So maybe it's something that could be cool, maybe not.
I'd like to hear back from anyone with SERIOUS interest about this. I don't know if it's realistic, but it's an inspiring project we're capable of creating so thought I'd throw it out there. If we move on it, we'll do it THIS WEEK.
Email with the title VEGAS MANSION if you are serious about being a part of this or CLICK ON THE LINK BELOW:
We'll see what happens, for now I'm just playing with the idea.
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THANKS FOR READING!
So I'm off to San Francisco in a few hours, and soooo psyched to be spending time in beautiful NorCal.
Things have been so busy lately and barely had time to catch up with friends, but have so many cool things to be optimistic about on the horizon!
The next few weeks of videos will be absolutely top notch, and I hope you enjoyed this one today. I thought it was cool to get back on track with the Free Tour vids since it's been mostly vBlogs, and the Chicago and NYC videos were the funniest I've ever done.
I also shot a series of gorgeous vBlogs in Chicago and NYC and I'll have to get onto editing those when I'm back from SF. I'm hoping to shoot in SF as well, and then Redwood Forest and Yosemite National Park. But we'll see how I do for time on all that.
PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ABOUT THE TOP VIDEO!!! I'M REALLY EXCITED ABOUT IT AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!! HAVE YOU STRUGGLED TO SEPARATE BEING THE FUN GUY WITH RESPONSIBLE? LET ME KNOW!
I hope you're killing it in life and I appreciate you checking out my stuff!!
I just got back from a 2 week extended trip to Chicago and NYC!
In the past three weeks I've run consecutive events in LA / Chi / NYC and DAMN my voice is shot!
The turnouts in these cities were MONSTROUS. Seas of people in the crowds, it was nuts! RSD is getting pretty popular these days, I'm getting stopped all through the day in the streets and the reactions are pretty intense.
(Julien I bet you're gonna have a wild ride in London and Amsterdam buddy! I'd suggest you wear a microphone to avoid shooting your voice out over the big crowds, I got cocky and thought I didn't need it...)
All the while I was sleeping about 4 hours a night (nearly 2 weeks straight of this) in order to shoot about 20 different vblog locations and infield footage, which I'm going to be working into the next few weeks of videos.
I love shooting in Chicago and NYC because they're just great locations, and my goal was to step it up in those cities to challenge myself to improve.
I've honestly been borderline disgusted with myself for not producing better content than I've been doing -- not because it hasn't been awesome but cause I can do SO MUCH BETTER! -- and the hard part is simply MANAGING THE TIME to get it done.
I have so many ideas in my head I dream about every night -- last night I had hours of new video ideas in my dreams that were brilliant and insane -- but like most people I struggle with balancing the time teaching / gaming / working / parenting / reading / working out / meditating / sexing whores / living passions to get them done.
Regardless I thought I'd "start small" and up the quality of my vids, so you'll see that in the coming weeks. Then in the future I'll try to keep building on it.
Today's video is actually a pretty simple video, as I just got back into town yesterday and rushed to get it out. It's got some good stuff in it though, I think you'll like it a lot!
Also if you're gonna be attending any Hot Seat events with me, head's up it is all NEW FOOTAGE and been fully upgraded to "Hot Seat 3".
The reviews for this event have been off the charts, as people expect nothing but the best from Julien and myself and we have delivered for you.
We're going to be doing the official Hot Seat 3 launch soon, and one of the bonuses will be a FULL YEAR GLOBAL PASS to attend any HS3 events in the world with Julien and myself for a year.
While I haven't officially launched that bonus yet, anyone who signs up will get it so if you're doing an HS3 event with me you're good to go.
My upcoming event is in San Francisco so if you're near NorCal I'll see you there! Here's my upcoming schedule for Free Tour, Hot Seat 3, and Bootcamp...
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston (With Julien)
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu (with Julien)
August 22, 2013: Seattle
September 5, 2013: Atlanta
September 19, 2013: Austin
October 3, 2013: Philadelphia
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
COOL UPDATE ON SUMMIT: We've just upgraded it where anyone who signs up this year (starting this year if you pay to attend) are grandfathered into attend any RSD World Summit for LIFE!
FULL LIFETIME PASS! YOU CAN ATTEND AS LONG AS WE ARE RUNNING THE EVENT IN VEGAS FOR YEARS TO COME!!
I get it that this is pretty unexpected and intense, but I felt it was the least I could do for anyone who takes so much time off of work to attend the event, and everyone makes so many friends there so it's a perfect chance to meet up with buddies year after year and reinforce the new skills.
What is World Summit, if you're not in the know?
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
Life is short. When an adventure like Summit is available, get on it..
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TODAY'S VID
So we're going to rock into the first of the videos I shot while on the road, which is a very simple vid on the topic of "Billionaire's self comfort".
The concept: If you had EVERYTHING IN LIFE you could want, you'd be less inclined to EMOTIONALLY REACT to external bullshit.
(Is this fully true? Of course not. But just play with the concept, you'll get the idea...)
This is a topic I've kept in my mind for years, because I've had a ton of success but also a lot of bullshit thrown at me, and it's how I've basically become chill to all of it.
This is a video I've created for the RSDN forum as well, since I think this is one of the best examples of people having trouble with this.
Anyway it's got some good content and funny moments in it, so check it out!
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF BILLIONAIRE'S SELF COMFORT...
Hope you enjoyed this one!
I was actually bothered by the background noise didn't release this, but in the past people have told me "We don't care about background noise, STILL put the vid out!"
Did you notice it / find it distracting? Curious to know for future vids...
Regardless some of the best moments from the vid had audio that came out fine.
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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VID
The video you just watched is an extension of a previous vid I shot in front of the World Trade Center a year back.
Having just come from NYC where the new tower is almost complete (and looks cool as hell -- I shot a few flashes of it into my upcoming vids so you'll see...) I'm so psyched I shot this while it was only partially done.
The topic is, again, that self comfort and unreactiveness -- but from a frame of "assuming all attention is positive" regardless.
Click the vid and check it out...
You're now fully educated on this concept!
GOOD JOB!
Now get out there and continue not to give a fuck! :)
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
Talking about someone who doesn't give a fuck, I think there's few better examples than Mike Tyson lol.
I'm not sure if it's cause he's crazy or just cause he's "made it in life" like we talked about above, but he's someone whose unfiltered honesty is really hard not to watch,
I've included a few clips here that I loved from the amazing movie "Tyson" which everyone who sees it seems to really love.
...on how he transformed from unfocused to "buying in"
...and on psychological dominance and intimidation :)
If someone has the full length documentary please post in the comments below!
Hope you enjoyed!
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FORUM POSTS OF THE WEEK
Haze: Julien's Hot Seat 3 notes (defintely read this!)
therebellion: A post where you're forced to admit girls don't need you, and how to take on the hustler's mindset (totally aligned with how I think as well)
Thanks so much for the contributions guys! Appreciated!!!
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THANKS!
So I'm off to the gym and then getting to work on my huge editing job!
In the coming weeks you'll be seeing...
-Los Angeles Free Tour (on 3somes and being carefree)
-Chicago Free Tour (on how only pain creates the deepest lessons)
-New York Free Tour (on why it's logical to learn game)
-How to be a hard closer while not being needy
-How to avoid fucking up your professional life due to game
-How to create peak experiences
-How to create an upwards spiral of abundance in your life
It's all really good stuff, so stay tuned!
PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ON "NOT GIVING A FUCK" AND HOW YOU'RE ALREADY DOING IT . NOT DOING IT AND HOW YOU WILL INTERNALIZE IT FURTHER! I READ THE COMMENTS AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!
DAMN the program this weekend in Los Angeles was AMAZING!
It was the next time I previewed the newly minted "Hot Seat 3" and the crowds were going INSANE.
The program is off the chains -- Julien and I have been out the past 2 years nearly every night building on our game -- and if you think the little "bursts" of infield you see in the vblogs are cool, imagine a full 2 day program breaking down FULL VIDEO after FULL VIDEO in mind-expanding detail, while answering all your questions, doing exercises, and being blown away.
This is the first ever Hot Seat where we've had issues with students being freaked out the level of game was "too advanced" and they couldn't replicate it.
We've solved this with also showing a lot of SIMPLE SIMPLE CLIPS -- like where Julien and I pull girls with the simplest of small talk that anyone can easily do as well. With Hot Seat 3 we've built in amazing counter-balances between "what's possible" and what you can execute RIGHT NOW.
It's SO SICK. Do a Hot Seat 3. We're "officially" launching it very soon, but we're beginning to show it right now.
In other amazing news -- just reached 20,000 subscribers on www.youtube.com/rsdtyler a few minutes ago!
VERY COOL.
And please subscribe to it NOW while it's on your mind -- don't wait do it now! -- if you haven't!
20K was my goal when I started the channel a while back, and for such a small niche as pickup (which warrants a video in and of itself -- WTF?) it's been a huge success.
The process of knocking down goal after goal throughout the years has been a lot of fun. It's one of the things that gives me the most happiness, absolutely.
But beyond that, for me the greatest happiness is THE PROCESS ITSELF.
Which by coincidence is the topic of today's vid! :)
And as I sit here typing this at 9AM without having been to bed due to being overworked -- with a flight to Chicago that will be followed by NYC a few days later -- I better remember how much I enjoy the process!
Cause the damned process has got me up all damned night! LOL.
Speaking of which I'll be seeing you for my big trip to CHICAGO this Thursday - Sunday if you're at the Free Tour and Hot Seat.
The Hot Seat will be one of the final previews of Hot Seat 3 btw.
We're going to be comping a FULL YEAR GLOBAL PASS as a to anyone who signs up now and over the course of the "official launch" so if you're thinking of going at any point I'd say absolutely go for it.
(In other words, the official "bonus" for the launch of Hot Seat 3 will be a 1 year global pass, but I'm giving that to people who are attending HS3 during this month prior to the official launch since my travel schedule has me too busy to launch it this month and I want everyone attending NOW to get the same deal -- since it's the same program. Definitely GO NOW!)
Here's my upcoming schedule for Free Tour, Hot Seat 3, and Bootcamp...
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu (with Julien)
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
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TODAY'S VID
So KILLER new vid today, I think you'll really enjoy it.
It begins with me saying "I'm gonna jack this guy for his girl" (or something like this -- it's kinda muffled) and I proceed to do so.
Then I launch into my top secret for keeping the game SUPER SIMPLE.
Just... Do... THIS! :)
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO INSTANTLY DISCOVER TYLER'S TOP SECRET FOR KEEPING PICK UP SIMPLE SUPER!
BAM!
Hope you loved it. I think it was really great.
JUST DO THIS! :)
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GO DEEPER DAMMIT! KILLERCLASSIC VID!
Here's one of my all time fav classic vids. You absolutely NEED to watch this in it's entirety if you haven't.
It's called "The Right Way And The Wrong Way To Do Things..."
I'd also urge you to briefly RE-SKIM this video if you've seen it in the past. It's THAT important!
CLICK THIS NOW TO SEE ME IN A SIMILAR VIBE TO THE LOS ANGELES VIDEO BLOG -- GOING *DEEP* ON THE CORRECT PROCESSES IN LIFE!
Good stuff!
You're now DEEP into the concepts from the first vid.
There's a right way and wrong way to do things. And in the case of game. it means JUST... DO... THIS!
(Immerse yourself in EACH STEP of the damned process!)
That's how it's done if you wanna be GOOD!
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POSTS OF THE WEEK!
Bennn: 10 Cheat Codes To Get Through Plateaus
This is a cool, quick summary from a guy who has been going out for a while, check it!!
My buddy Tobias from San Francisco has had a great run in PUA and has gotten into other stuff like his GF he does 3somes with and motorcycling. But he's left a little preview of what to expect from pickup!
Thanks guys, and to everyone who has contributed QUALITY POSTS to the forum!!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK!
Here's a video I bumped into by hypnotists Derren Brown pumping up the emotional states of 3 strippers lol.
This is NOT a pickup.
The hypnosis itself does nothing.
But it's a good example of how BEING IN AUTHORITY creates a sense of intrigue and attraction.
The little routine could be amusing to play around with as well. What's funny about gambits like these is even if they don't work JUST TAKING FUCKING AUTHORITY will create attraction.
Girls giggle at it regardless of the result.
Have fun with this.
I obviously like posting up deeper material for the external resource of the week as well, but it's funny to switch it up! :)
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THANKS!
So It's now 9:20 and I'm posting this up! Psyched for everyone to see the new LA vid!
I'm now off to bed and will wake up in a few hours for...........CHICAGO BABY!! Man I'm fucken psyched, I LOVE it out there!
Hopefully will get some sick vblogs from Chitown that you'll be seeing in a few weeks.
Oh and btw, my Los Angeles Free Tour was both massive and SIIIICK! And fucking HYSTERICAL. Massively off the wall.
So I'll be posting it in a week. Hope you're pumped.
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ON "JUST... DO... THIS!" -- I READ THEM AND REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK! LET ME KNOW YOUR EXPERIENCES AND INTROSPECTIONS!
I appreciate you reading this as always, as posting it up is a highlight of my week!
I saw Julien off to the airport last night with a NEW HARD DRIVE FULL OF MY LATEST INFIELD FOOTAGE.
We worked and worked to have this ready before he left Los Angeles for Europe, and it was an absolute natural high to work literally up to the last minute cutting the last of the new video footage to hand off to him before he left.
Two months ago Julien returned to Los Angeles from a long trip around the world and told me flat out...
"YOU'RE FALLING OFF TRACK. WE'VE WORKED 2 YEARS TO GET OUR GAME UP TO THE LEVEL WE'D WANT TO RECORD NEW FOOTAGE AGAIN. GET THIS SHIT DONE BY THE LOS ANGELES FREE TOUR ON MAY 9!"
On some level I think he got a sadistic thrill out of pushing me to do something I didn't think I could do, but I'm always open to being pushed -- and any time someone is willing to "cheerlead" me into hitting a next level I'm always down.
(It's crazy to me how some people will DECLINE someone trying to motivate them. I view it as a GIFT! Then again I'm usually on the motivator's end...)
Anyway I really believe there's no natural high that compares to setting a large goal and accomplishing it, and I went to the gym after at 8AM and pounded out the weights. Just feeling fucking great.
Julien is going to ROCK ALL EUROPE with my new Hot Seat footage, and I'll be hitting up the States with both my and Julien's new stuff here as well.
It includes a few new 3some videos which are the first I've properly put out, as well as a shit ton of DAY GAME on South Beach models that Julien shot in Miami this past trip. Many different styles of game from highly aggressive and obnoxious to totally chill and conversational -- pulling hot girls with no technique at all.
It's absolutely the shit and we're going to keep building on it in the coming months.
We put our souls into this event, just hammering and hammering by going out 7 nights a week for the past 2 years since we recorded Hot Seat 2, in order to improve our skills.
What's funny about this is that from a "business end" the Hot Seat 2 was already so good that the only way to improve on it was GETTING OUR ELBOWS INTO THE MUD FOR 2 YEARS and going out 7 nights a week.
LOL usually in business you can improve on something by putting more money into it or whatever, but in this case there was no escaping us simply having to haul our asses out to the club NIGHT IN AND NIGHT OUT to make that 0.1% improvement a night that compounds over 2 years into something insane.
I remember watching Kobe Bryant highlight videos and dreaming at what a Hot Seat 3 would look like, how I wanted to build up my game so that people watching it would feel the same way. Then I also wanted to include a lot of "down to earth" style game with me pulling girls with boring conversation and no technique at all -- both to show what's possible in the long term, as well as what's attainable NOW.
It's so crazy to see the first draft of this thing done...
We'll do the PROPER "Hot Seat 3" launch at some point when we feel we've maxed out what we can do with the footage over the coming months -- but I highly recommend you get on it IMMEDIATELY for the following reasons...
1- While Julien and I recorded the footage, we may not be TEACHING it much longer as I've just dumped six figures into the new self development company and you'll be seeing a ton of new material coming out for that soon.
(Todd or someone else will likely take over the actual teaching of the event.)
2- JULIEN AND I ARE TEACHING IT PERSONALLY. ME IN USA AND JULIEN WORLD WIDE.
3- Oh shit did I *hint* at this strong enough? Julien and I are teaching this personally, and may not be for much longer. :)
So while I'd urge you to sign up when the official Hot Seat 3 launch campaign takes place, if you have the chance to take the program while we're still teaching it (NOW!) I'd recommend you get on board. Anyway here's my schedule for the coming months...
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
So as I was pouring back over an old hard to prepare the Hot Seat 3 marketing campaign, I was looking for any old footage that would show Julien and I back in the day so people could see the progression.
And I stumbled onto somethin HILARIOUS.
It was an old vBlog from when we were visiting the Getty museum in Los Angeles and got trapped inside because the train to the parking lot had stalled out.
Julien started tripping out because he was in "lower consciousness" in those days (lol) and spazzing out on the poor underpaid workers.
To pass the time I decided to try out something new I'd been working on -- recording a *ahem* "video blog".
The topic was "grounded entitlement VS gimmicky entitlement" which is one of the best I've ever done.
Have a look at this and you'll gain massive improvements. And from there I hope you'll be inspired by Julien's first ever vBlog attempt and see how "repetition is the mother of skill".
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO BE SHOCKED AT THE EARLY DAYS OF MODERN RSD AND DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF GROUNDED ENTITLEMENT!
Fun stuff huh?
LOL glad you enjoyed this, and check this next video to go DEEPER on the topic of "REAL ENTITLEMENT!"
I'd also like to point out how you can see Julien struggling just to keep a few ideas in his head.
He's trying to remember 1) it's Julien from RSD, 2) welcome to my blog, 3) I'm Tyler's assistant, 4) I'll be sharing my ideas on Tuesday and Thursday.
His brain literally isn't WIRED to handle memorizing all that.
Look at him now -- riffing off HUGE segments "off the cuff".
You can learn how to do this from the book "The Talent Code" by Daniel Coyle. It's all about how your brain adapts to that which you do again and again!
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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VIDEO ON GROUNDED ENTITLEMENT!
This video is one of my less popular and yet in my opinion among MY BEST.
What you'll learn here is absolutely vital to your game and if you want to expand on your knowledge of "entitlement" it is a MUST WATCH.
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO GO DEEP ON THE TOPIC OF ENTITLEMENT!
Funny enough that video was one of the first times I felt my brain really GO OFF on an improvisational "riff" (ie: no prepartation).
I was absolutely thrilled I was able to articulate all those ideas into a semi coherent thread, and imagined what it would be like to be able to do that for a full 2 hours in every Free Tour.
Fastforward 2 years and I'm now doing it consistently. FUN STUFF. :)
STICK AT IT! REPETITION IS THE MOTHER OF SKILL!
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KICK ASS FORUM POST OF THE WEEK!
This week Utopia5 released a new article on "RSD Misinterpreted" and why the idea of "dropping the self" is often misunderstood!
btw as a funny sidenote, this whole "forum post of the week" thing was actually an experiment that I did for my own edification.
I noticed how for years people will bitch and moan that there's no good content on the forum.
And then I'd sort of believe it myself, since I'd think back to all the crap on it and figure "Ya it's probably true."
But then I'd check and there were always some great threads. You just gotta ignore anything obviously stupid and skim over the crap without mentally registering it.
Funny enough though -- the CONTENT RICH THREADS often get the LEAST VIEWS!
The typical post of the week has like 50 to 100 views on it, meanwhile the lower consciousness "Do looks matter" or "Is RSD a cult" threads get a few thousand.
This is why I often allow the shitty posts to be left up and then add a PROPER POST WITHIN THE THREAD -- since I know this is a great way for an article by me to get read.
The truth is this: most people are BORED and LOVE being all WOUND UP!
They say "I hate the looks matters threads" but they fucking LOVE THEM. Most guys are no different than girls -- addicted to drama.
Why bother to read a content rich thread that makes you have to mentally exert yourself when you could get a quick fix of feeling "alert" by being sort of titillated and irritated at the same time by reading a TRAIN WRECK? :)
LOL on the forum it's just like how girls often complain at asshole players but fuck them again and again while ignoring the nice guys -- dudes often complain about drama but keep reading it while ignoring any good content they happen to come across. :)
Anyway this is going to lead to one of my best vblogs of all time I have planned out in my head.
It's going to be called the "narrow road" and the premise will be that society conditions us into this type of mentality and behaviour.
We're fucking ASLEEP and are addicted to either the stimulus of easy to digest bullshit or else the unconsciousness of anything that provides relief.
What do we REALLY benefit from? CLEAN PRESENT FOCUSED ATTENTION.
This is going to be an amazing vid. Stay tuned!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
I had a lot of great feedback on Elliot Hulse's video last week, and this week I wanted to share Daniel Coyle's material from "The Talent Code".
What you'll see here is how we make you get good fast at a Bootcamp, and how myself and my crew have gotten so good at pimping girls.
Daniel Coyle isn't an RSD instructor with stream of consciousness humor to keep you engaged, but if you can focus for a minute he has some GREAT POINTS!
Check this out...
The video is really just a promo for his book "The Talent Code" which I hope you check out!
So I'll be back next week with more and hope you enjoyed this!
PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ABOUT GROUNDED ENTITLEMENT AND HOW YOU'VE FOUND REPETITION TO BE THE MOTHER OF SKILL! I WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND!
Thanks so much for reading and I'll talk to you soon!
So today we've got a bad ass video that includes me coaching in the field and pulling a new girl (as usual) shot in front of a scenic city lookout point (also as usual...). :)
And as I'm writing this I've just returned from San Diego where Julien and I showed our first ever version of the Hot Seat 3!!!!!
We've been working so hard on this... In such a state of momentum with it... That we'd worked ourselves into a mode of IT'S NEVER GOOD ENOUGH!!
So we've been shooting and shooting, getting sicker and sicker shit -- from threesomes to compilations of 3 minute pull after 3 minute pull to daytime model game -- all sorts of crazy shit you've never seen.
And when we finally showed it in San Diego we kiinda realized...
"Uhhhh okay this is pretty amazing, this is a damned good working version of Hot Seat 3!"
Regardless we're going to keep shooting and shooting. The hardest part of getting infield footage is MENTALLY ACCLIMATING TO BEING CONSTANTLY FOLLOWED AROUND.
You get the creepiest feeling in the world from it, knowing that at any time you can be thrown out of a club or have the girl freak out. But with the high level of value we can deliver for very cheap with a Hot Seat event, it's simply too good to pass up.
Anyway I'm obviously very excited about it and here is the first review from a dude whose been to all the previous events.
I'm really psyched about it so wanted to share it here and urge you to check it out.
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FIRST REVIEW OF HOT SEAT 3
Before I start, I want to mention that I've been to almost every single major hotseat event. I've been to several hotseat 1 and 2 events since 2011, a couple of Julien's bonus hotseat events, I've seen many infields of Jeffy hotseat during last year's world summit, and Alex's hotseat in DC and san Francisco.
The new footage of hotseat is INSANE. I cannot contain my excitement of how much Julien's game has improved since just a YEAR ago so I must write about it first. While talking to Julien last year during the summit, I was mentioning how flashy and insane his infield footage was. Julien said "I don't think a lot of my longer infield footage is flashy at all. That's just what I normally do. Anyways, dude, if you check out my game right now, the old footage is nothing. I've improved so much since then. If I ever get to shoot footage again, it'll be insane."
YES IT IS.
Day 1 was all of Tyler's new stuff. A lot of the new footage that Owen shows is stuff when his state is at rock bottom. No flashiness, not a lot of crazy humor; just pure confidence in himself and the belief of "there is no reason I am not enough" as Alex teaches.
Honestly, a lot of the footage from the past was very flashy because RSD wanted to show people what was possible when you push boundaries. Many of the community members I've talked to have gone to talk about how they like Alex's hotseat better because he doesn't do a lot of insane stuff and seems very normal. But from what I've seen, Alex's verbal game has always been one of the best among instructors, not in a sense of funny humor (although he can be extremely funny), but his strong point is in emotional expressions where he can create small spikes of conveying positive and negative emotions and make the conversation so much more dynamic.
Tyler's new footage is even more normal than that, and I think that is precisely what he wanted to show this time to people who are new to the community. "Don't be intimidated that you're not saying anything interesting. You can say the most boring shit ever but believe there is no reason why you're not enough. Relax and just stick in there. Then state will transfer on that you are interested in what you're saying and they'll get interested too". All of Alex's principles applies but in a more toned down level. Personally, it helped me much more than the previous footages because some of the conversation Owen was having with others was the most normal, boring stuff but he STILL MANAGES TO PULL because he's confident that the interaction is going well, and he sticks in there. And a lot of the pulls were made possible just because he stuck in there. It's like minimalistic game.
Though I say a lot of his stuff is normal, of course, he still has many footages where he is fully in state, pulling within minutes of meeting girls like a true G;)
Julien's game is the best among all instructors I've ever seen. He's not a guy who became insanely good at game just because his mentality and humor is different anymore; what I mean by this is a lot of RSD members believe that Julien's game is unreplicateable for most people because of his personality traits only works for him. But now Tyler and Julien have extensively broken down his game where they can explain step by step on what he is doing and what its making the girls feel.
Julien is a master of game, a true puppeteer. He's Neo from the matrix who sees the patterns of the matrix better than anybody else and toys with it. Hanging out with him in field, I've never seen Julien get blown out from an interaction. Of course, he still gets ignored by girls every now and then, but once he starts a conversation, even the very first interaction he has during the night, they can't leave him. He is extremely self-amused. He can talk to a 55 year old woman for 2 hours, get fully into state, then pull the hottest girl right after. He TRULY doesn't care who he's talking to.
These two are the biggest improvements I've noticed from Julien's game.
1. Extreme self-amusement; his verbal game has improved 1000%; whatever comes out of his mouth is exciting, even when he's talking about the most boring stuff; you feel it, and the girl feels it. His masculine polarity, challenging attitude draws them in immediately.
2. Extreme awareness of what the girl is feeling at the moment. His empathy level is ridiculous that he knows exactly what the girl is feeling at the moment to the tee. This way he can calibrate even before the girl knows what's going on. Many times the girls verbalize this: "What's going on right now?". They can't believe the interaction is going so fast. As Jeffy puts it, they're on a water slide just getting swooped away.
With the two combined above, none of his sets are boring at all.
My favorite video is when Julien goes in for the first time in the venue, he's all out of state, and he talks to one girl just for the hell of it. He says something like "I suck. I'm really lame right now." during the interaction and he tells the girl to stay because he needs to loosen up. The girl DOES kind of want to leave him because he's not hooked that well yet. His stuff is still good enough for the girl to stay, but in a venue as busy as that, there needs to be more stimuli for her to keep being engaged.
About 3 minutes into the interaction, you see Julien's mind clicking. He loosens up; he's getting in the zone. The girl immediately gives him feedback. She tells him that he was kind of OK at first but now she's so engaged that she can't leave him now. As the interaction progresses, Julien's personality just shines with ridiculous humor and self-amusement. He leaves the girl, talks to the next girl and hooks immediately. And as the night goes by, this girl can't leave him. He pulls.
He pulls the hottest girls and only the hottest. Girls who fend off anything that comes their way can't resist Julien.
In another set, Julien gets a super hot girl to get down on her knees and beg for his affection, fingers her, all in the middle of the venue where everybody can see; He pulls her to an alley way within an hour. The girl had no chance. To her eyes, Julien is God. Julien knows this and teases her to an extent where she is so helpless that she just wants to jump on him.
Oh day game, day game, day game. Yes, there is a lot of day game in the new hotseat where the sun is shining brightly on everybody in the middle of an open mall district in South Beach, Miami. Julien's game is no different. At one point, he talks to the first hot girl outside Starbucks, hooks immediately, hooks her friend who is inside Starbucks separately, stops a model who's a total stranger walking down the street alone and merges the sets, and number closes. The club promoter who was in the mixed set thinks Julien is the coolest guy he's ever seen and wants him to come to his club. He's no doubt the coolest guy in the area and everybody's attention is on him because they're having so much fun. He pulls a stripper during day game in the street. All his number closes are solid.
He breaks down all his interactions like a strategist and conveys it so you can understand it and apply it yourself.
This is what true game looks like. Julien has the best game among all the RSD instructors I've ever seen. Even his facial expressions are hypnotizing that you can't take your eyes away from him while he's in field. The song quote: "You are a cinema" was meant for this guy, not a girl. LOL. His little comments, back handed compliments, masculine polarity, his body language and self-amusement; I don't think anyone has a better understanding of the vibe of interactions than Julien does. He is also a ridiculously effective instructor where he pin points your issues and snipes at your weak points and extensively explains it.
No company has a product that exceeds the monetary or educational values of the new RSD hotseat.
P.S. These guys are STILL taking infield footage so I believe their material will be continuously updated from now on.
I wanted to share this as it's been the project we've hammered away on for several years now.
My biggest intention in going out 7 days a week these past few years straight has been in preparation to record the Hot Seat 3, and so this is kind of a big deal for me to see it finally come together!
Anyway here's a list of my upcoming events if you want to check it out...
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the Las Vegas RSD World Summit coming up in August!
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
So oftentimes when I'm really underslept I'll be in a new city and HAVE to do a vBlog because it's a personal standard that I set for myself that any time I'm in a new city I'll record something.
This standard is extremely important, because I've learned that without it I'll make excuse after excuse to not record anything new.
I've often said that I try to deliberately add in a sense of scarcity about opportunities into my brain, and I do so in order to push myself to get things done.
Anyway when I'm tired I'll often tackle easier / simpler topics because I won't mentally trip all over myself. And in this case, I've covered whether or not pickup is a numbers game.
I'm really happy with my treatment of the topic and think it's well worth watching, but ironically I didn't avoid tripping all over myself by DELAYING AN ENTIRE FERRY BOAT FROM DOCKING while I recorded.
LOL woops. :)
The video also includes clips of me coaching and pulling from a really fun night! I tried to make the little pull clip related to the coaching I was doing about "not asking for permission" -- you also see me on a fucking bicycle cab with the girl which I think is pretty fun.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER THE TRUTH ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT PICKUP IS A NUMBERS GAME AND SEE ME DOING MORE OF MY REGULAR PULLING IN THE FIELD!
Nice!
I really hope you enjoyed this, but most importantly, I recorded the video to REALLY PUT IT IN PERSPECTIVE why it's so important to be approaching girls ALL THE TIME!
Like I said you don't have to spend the rest of your life doing this, so don't freak out! :)
Just assume to be doing it until you have the sex life that you want, and GF that you want if that's your thing.
Get it done!!
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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VID ON THIS TOPIC TO HAMMER HOME THE POINT
I also wanted to go further on your education in this by drawing your attention to a video where I talk about the importance of actually enjoying talking to lots of girls.
It's a pretty nutty vid from back when I had the FULL BEARD going! Check it out!
Good shit doubling up on the concept, now is the time to put it into use!!
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KICK ASS EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK!
I recently stumbled onto this video from Elliot Hulse where he talks about the importance of building your brain.
This is absolutely critical and he explains it in a VERY smart way.
I've read every book that he describes in the video and I'd urge you to watch it and subscribe to his channel on www.youtube.com/strengthcamp
I hope you enjoyed this and will take the advice to heart.
VERY VERY critical.
What he's said about using audio books to absorb informtion while you're walking or driving is absolutely on point.
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KILLER FORUM POST OF THE WEEK
Rocknrollpua: How You Evolve Through The Process
Super sharp article on HOW YOU IMPROVE by going out by a guy who has run the race!
I've got my first Free Tour video to come out in a while for you today...
Things have been incredibly busy here. It's tough, I really haven't had time to return the phone calls or friends or do very much that isn't related to work.
I'm starting the new businesses and the time demands are pretty insane.
Julien and I are out recording infield footage most nights, pulling pulling pulling for the cam.
Then we're shooting down to San Diego tomorrow for Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp. It'll be the first Hot Seat with the upgraded footage.
We're calling it "Hot Seat 2.5" because while it's new footage, we have the goal of continuing to record until we have something OTHER WORLDLY and BEYOND THE IMAGINATION.
The updated Hot Seat is probably about 5X as good as Hot Seat 2, as we've both stepped up our game so much in the past few years since recording the previous version.
But at the same time, we envision something in the range of 100X as good. This obviously sounds a little over the top, but it's no different than how much the video blogs or Free Tour vids have improved over the past 2 years.
We continue to "push the goal post further" and hold as our standards WHAT IS POSSIBLE above all else.
We don't care what other people are doing or beating the "industry standard" LOL. We think in terms of WHAT'S POSSIBLE and want to maximize that creative vision to the fullest.
So if you want to attend the new Hot Seat I'd highly recommend it -- it's the most value per dollar program I've personally seen and impact your enjoyment of life IMMEDIATELY so if you value your time don't wait.
But we're going to continue to be out there every night and accumulating more and more footage ot amaze you and shatter your reality of what's possible.
What we have now is more than enough to launch a new Hot Seat with, but we want to KEEP GOING.
In the meantime, today's video is going to discuss the topic of "long game motivation" and where a lot of this motivation over the past decade has come from in the first place. It's an introduction to a topic I'm going to be covering deeply, but I wanted to get this out to you NOW to get the seeds planted in your mind.
I'll also have more Free Tour vids coming out over the next few months as I'd previously been in Miami for 5 weeks and only done 1 Free Tour, and then been doing only Bootcamps since that time (aside from Vegas, where today's Free Tour video is from...)
In the coming 6 weeks I'm doing Free Tour events in San Diego, LA, Chicago, New York, and San Francisco, which is a really crammed schedule, so you should see a lot of Free Tour vids on the frontpage.
(And vBlogs as well of course...)
To be honest I'm often SICKENED at how horriblly beneath my potential the material I've been releasing has been. I believe we have by far the best infield footage of anyone on the planet, and for me my videos are the highest quality of anything I see online (just to my own tastes, obviously, since I create the content I'd personally want to watch...).
Yet 'm capable of SO MUCH MORE THAN THIS and I live with my soul rotting out every day that I"m not bringing that vision to a reality.
What you're seeing is 5% of what I can do. Maybe 1%. And I have to live with this every day as I struggle to find the time to create what i want to create.
Part of my artform is the art of time management and making MORE TIME to get things done. It's not just about having the potential. FUCK POTENTIAL.
Nearly every dumb motherfucker has potential and goes to their grave without accomplishing their dreams. For some reason this is considered normal cause "everyone else is doing it" but to me THIS IS NOT NORMAL.
Guess what? EVERYONE "could" do this and that and the other thing, if they just got it done.
You think you're "special" cause you think you have the potential to some cool thing or other -- LOL *everyone* has the potential to do something bad ass, the only reason they don't do it is cause LIKE YOU they fail to make the sacrifices involved to get it done.
What I could've done if "XYZ" is the consolation prize of those who fail to execute. What matters is what you ACTUALLY DO.
The time management, self management, and execution is JUST AS MUCH PART OF THE ARTFORM AS THE CREATVIITY ITSELF.
The art of managing your shit is equally valuable to the creation of the art itself. No managing your shit, no art. It's the platform upon which it's all built.
Sure if every hot girl I pulled over the past 2 years was perfectly recorded, my Hot Seat would induce vomiting and shock in the damned audience it would be so amazing. Half the shit that's happened I couldn't even talk about because without video it sounds too over the top.
But what I do I have? Some amazing shit, for sure, but not the representation of what I can ACTUALLY DO.
So take this as further motivation on my part to create the masterpeice. It CAN be done, but I'll have to struggle. All creativity is struggle, sacrifice, and the pain of giving birth to something new.
You can avoid this, and watch your soul rot out from the inside as you know you've let yourself down....
Or you can embrace it, make the sacrifice, improve at disciplining yourself, EXECUTE, and go to your death with the satisfaction that you that you had what it took to run the damned marathon and WIN.
Is it worth it to you? It's worth it to me. Anyway hope you enjoyed those thoughts, and here's a list of my upcoming programs.
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added -- see you tomorrow!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
We also have the RSD World Summit coming up in August!
Imagine a week in Vegas with the whole RSD crew, seminar in Venetian Hotel all day, going out all night! It's pure fucking insanity, people die to get to this all year!
If you want an event that will MAKE YOUR YEAR consider coming to hang out with us in Vegas for the week. There's plenty of ways to do it within budget, and the program is super reasonably priced.
So we talked about motivation alot above, and that was the precursor to today's video.
This video is an INTRODUCTION to "Long Game Motivation".
it's a bad introduction, like just me mumbling some thoughts about it while in an overworked and underslept bad mood LOL. People seem to enjoy when I go on insane rants like this, so you will probably enjoy!
Make no mistake though, this is just scratching the surface of a very deep topic.
So watch it now and get aquainted with the idea, and in future vids we'll go into how to build a life of your dreams over the long term course of your life.
Not just winning the race, but winning the war...
If you've ever wondered how I've had the most longevity of a teacher in the PUA industry, stayed passionate, and continued to improve at game year after year, here's the gist of the mentalities that I have in my head...
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW FOR AN INTRODUCTION TO THE SECRETS OF LONG GAME MOTIVATION
Anyway what you've seen here is how I trick my brain into staying engaged.
Yes, my brain is only a human brain, and it wants to DISENGAGE now that I have everything I could want out of life.
So I trick it and trick it and trick it to stay passionate about life.
People will ask "Aren't you just NATURALLY passionate?" LOL let's see YOU stay passionate when you've already got everything and need nothing -- unless you've experienced this, you can't imagine what it's like.
But if you become a master of self motivating, you can eventually learn both day to day level motivation, as well as LONG GAME motivation to accomplish something amazing over the course of your entire life.
Cause let's be real -- the true accomplishments, they take decades. And if you wanna make an impact, you've gotta be in this shit for the long haul.
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GO DEEPER: CLASSIC VID
So what other video could we have another look at today than "The Truth About Success 2".
This is a video I'm approached about on the street every day. I was nervous to put it out at the time cause I thought people wouldn't be interested, but the response on this has been insane.
If you've seen this before, I suggest you put aside the time to watch it again.
And if you've never seen it, you NEED to see this as it's one of the best vids I've done.
Anyway if you've made it through all this, congrats!
Cause you've now re-centered your brain in what it takes to succeed. Have fun!
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KICK ASS FORUM POST
Gravity: Make Her Chase You
This is an outstanding article on how to get girls chasing you via having fun in the club, and putting less emphasis on just hitting up every girl and going more direct.
I'd urge everyone to read this, as I'll be building in more ideas like this into the newbie site...
This is a very powerful video that brought tears to my eyes the first time I saw it because it so accurate represented what I've gone through to get to where I'm at.
It shocks me how powerful this is.
The idea of this video is that the guy wakes up on a mattress with NOTHING, and has to sacrifice his own labor, his own BLOOD even, and take many risks that may not pay off, just to get the small amount of leverage to get the training to EVEN TRY to accomplish his goals.
There were many times I was so overworked, so overwhelmed, I thought there would never be a light at the end of the tunnel. It felt like everything was collapsing in on me. No solutions, no way out.
But I was willing to do ANYTHING, literally ANYTHING to get to where I wanted to go. And chip away at it every day.
This video represents my struggle over the years -- from leaving home at 15 to being out in 2 succint minutes, and blew me away.
Will Smith also gives some thoughts on this topic... VERY KEY.
Even if you've seen this, again I URGE you to re-watch this as it will remind you of so many important things.
"I'm gonna lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid. You do that every single day, and soon you have a wall..."
"I'm willing to DIE on a treadmill..."
Very key.
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THANKS!
So I'm off to the gym and then prepping for SAN DIEGO tomorrow with Julien, then back into the field to keep recording tonight.
PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS ON THE TOPIC OF LONG GAME MOTIVATION! I APPRECIATE ALL THOUGHTS AND FEEDBACK ON THIS!
I'll see you back next week with some very cool surprises, wait til you see these!
I spent last night cutting up this new video for you from Vegas, and am on 5 hours sleep.
Fun stuff. :)
SO MIUCH WORK to be done right now.
I've just purchased the studio to start the new self development content, have a million projects overdue with RSD, and basically work around the clock.
Loving life though. I love what I do. I have the self awareness to recognize I'm in a peak of abilities and creativity that simply cannot last forever, and I've got to make it count.
The coming year for RSD is going to be the best ever, and I'm fuelled by a massive sense of optimism about what we can achieve.
Anyway I want to ask you a question: YES you enjoy reading RSD Nation, but have you ever considered doing a LIVE event with myself or the crew?
The "Free Tour" is a great place to start. People love the Free Tour.
I do them so that you can observe the quality and value that's part of an RSD live event.
And if you enjoy it, consider attending a "Hot Seat" event, and have me meticulously break down infield video after infield video and answer all of your questions about success with women for TWO FULL DAYS.
People rave about it, as the best deal on a program like that you'd ever find.
Then when you start getting lthe results you want and want to improve even more, spend 3 days with me out in the field watching your every move, winging and pulling with you, going for the massive win.
These programs review spectacularly because the FREE content is about 1% the value of a live event. I'm able to "give away" so much because the bullets I have left in the chamber are so hardcore.
No matter what your skillset, I'd urge you to consider training with myself or any of the highly skilled instructors in RSD.
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"I can honestly say, that my bootcamp with Tyler was the most important event in my life. It was kind of a graduation thing for me. I was focusing on Game so much the last 4 years, that other areas in my life were negatively affected by it.
Since I had massive success during bootcamp and in the following 2 weeks, I can, with a good feeling, shift my focus away from game, going out the whole week and cutting sleep for gameprogress purposes.
I reached a level I never thought possible for me and I am consistent with it. I learned invaluable life lessons, and honestly 99% thanks to Tyler. I follow him since 2009 and he is my number one idol. This guy lives the most important life values to an unbelievable high degree and I am sure we can expect a lot more from him.
I think the number one reason I got good at game and other areas in my life, is because he motivated me to put my standard sky high. Another reason I chose to do the Bootcamp specifically, was to get a new focus in the game. I know every concept about advanced game, but to get to the next level it was hard to know where to focus on specifically.
Tyler made a very precise judgment of where Im at and what I need to focus on, and he custom tailored every idea to me perfectly. I have some very basic and few ideas now, that mean a lot to me, but bring me awesome results: Process, Positivity, Presence.
I got asked on program by a random dude how I would rate the program, and I said and still say without hesitation, that the bootcamp is a 10 out of 10 program. I would pay a lot more for it.
gogl~ "
(Thanks bro! Good to hear from you! Let me know how you like the books!)
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Anyway I wanted to really hammer on this because I'm only running these so much longer, and I often meet guys out who rave about the free content but honestly haven't considered a live event. I mention it to them, they take the event, and thank me profusely for pushing it on them.
I've created the programs that I wish I could take MYSELF. If I was doing a different job, I'd be taking these events regularly, because they are so crammed with life changing and transformational value.
Here's a list of my upcoming events. I'm an absurdly skilled teacher and have the ability to change your life for the better if you work with me. Seriously think about this, stop screwing around!
April 18, 2013: Los Angeles (BC with Julien!)
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
Okay so we're going to rock into one of the best videos I've ever made -- I've put a lot of details into it and I think it'll crack you up!
It's on the topic of "selective perception" and how your behaviour influences what the girl focuses on in what she sees in you.
You'll be whisked away to a romp through the best clubs and steakhouse in Las Vegas, and discover secrets about RAS that you never fully knew.
CLICK THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF USING SELECTIVE PERCEPTION TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!
Great I'm glad you got into this!
It's so crucial that you understand how your behaviour is continually influencing the girl's selective perception of you, so that you can feel motivated to master yourself and at ease in your relationships.
I'll hit back with a lot of related topics to this in the future!
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GO DEEPER ON THIS IDEA -- CLASSIC VID
btw here's the original video where I talk about attraction and looks.
It's pretty much common sense, but I've read bizarre strawman arguments" about of it for years -- ie: disagreeing with it based on things I never said (like that I profess to morbidly obese basement dwellers that they shouldn't lose weight and just do a RSD Bootcamp, LOL uhhh okay...)
Here's the summary of what I DO say...
-Good looks help you if you're a regular guy who has no game, because you get easy lays here and there.
-If you're a bad looking guys who ALSO has no game, that's a rough combo.
-OTOH if you've gone out and internalized confidence, social savvy, female psychology, and the ability to approach and attract women consistently, that's an even better situation than having good looks.
-If you're not good looking I'd suggest you take it as an advantage, because it gives you leverage to build up charisma and a well rounded skillset. Most good looking guys would never have the motivation to improve as much as you.
"The enemy of the bad is the good" (Tony Robbins)
-Beyond that, if for any reason you aren't getting laid you need to accept it's a personal shortcoming and fix it. It's not an excuse to do NOTHING and blame it on your appearance.
-The most popular guys are not always the best looking, so realize this and take action towards becoming that cool high value guy who gets laid.
**This is all pretty much common sense, but many guys simply have a tough time letting it land.
It's the same as poor people who get information about how to become successful, and they want to keep blaming it on the government or their bad luck or their parents.
NO.
It's not the government, it's not your parents, it's not that you were abused as a child.
Sure those things make it harder than for someone with advantages, but many of the most successful people used the fact they didn't have any of that as EMOTIONAL LEVERAGE to become more focused and motivated than the people who had it easiest.
The same goes with learning game. No advantages? All good.
Take a negative and spin it into a positive by using it as motivation to improve. The hardest part of high level success is getting focused and building momentum with it -- try to improve at ANYTHING and you see that it's very hard.
The fact it's a bigger challenge and requires you to marshal more resources means that you'll do better than the people who had it easy. Like I have. :)
Anyway here's the vid, which you'll probably have fun watching me speaking back in the day.
I've been crushing it with girls for years now, pulling and fucking hot women year in and year out.
Yeah I feel insecure sometimes in Hollywood clubs surrounded by male models and actors and the various tall / good looking guys who easily get let in the door. But I choose to MAN UP and get over it.
Sometimes I pull consistently. Other times I do poorly and it winds up being a "numbers game" of me just approaching a lot.
But one thing's for sure, I'm always getting laid, and I never allowed my looks to be an excuse. I've also never seen any of those better looking guys doing better than I am, because I take massive action.
Get over your insecurities. I did.
And my dick thanked me for it. :)
Hopefully that hammers home some of the ideas in the original vid.
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KICK ASS POSTS OF THE WEEK
I Destroyed Something Beautiful Today
The dudes in Vegas are going crazy. One of them has had a buddy fuck his girlfriend so that he'll disattach from her and continue to progress in the game.
Emotionally healthy or deranged? It's debatable. But I like it when people at least TRY different things...
Thanks to you dudes for writing these, and everyone else who contributed to making the forums kick ass!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
This week I've gotta throw up a clip of the late, great Stephen Covey.
Covey is a man who believed that there were universal truths of the world that could be interpreted, and that if we abide by those truths we can live an amazing life.
He was a GREAT fucking man and I wish he could stay with us forever. Guys like this inspire me to create something in my next business that stands the test of time.
This video is on the topic of PARADIGMS and will help you to hammer on the "selective focus" paradigm, which is a new paradigm for you to whatever extent, even if you've known it for a while.
Yes, Stephen isn't going to create weird montages of himself getting his dick rubbed by random girls or pumping himself up in the mirror out in Vegas, but his content is ultra valuable. :)
I hope you enjoyed!
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THANKS!
So I'm shooting off and I have some really interesting stuff coming out next week.
I'm not going to announce it just yet, but rather I'm going to DO it! So keep your eyes open.
PLEASE HIT ME BACK WITH COMMENTS AND LET ME KNOW YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH "SELECTIVE PERCEPTION". I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!!
Thanks so much for reading and I'll talk to you soon!
I had a blast, and am exhausted to say the least. Luckily I shot 2 videos while in Vegas to share the experience with you -- and this week's will be covering the #1 sticking point in the game...
HOW TO TALK FOREVER AND EVER!
I've just purchased a new studio to film all the content for RSD's new self development company, so if I'm gonna evolve my primary focus on pickup to the new shit over the next few years I gotta put a smile on my face and create these things -- I'm GETTING IT DONE!
(I'll also be doing this extensively in the "newbie site" but I want to make a few videos about the most important concepts as well.)
I'd say I did a great job and will entertain the shit out of you like I always do, so I know you're going to love it.
I also had to do this one to debunk the bizarre belief that Jeff and I somehow "benefitted" from the years we were taught to use canned openers and routines to get good with girls.
All the other RSD guys who were taught "natural game" skyrocketed past Jeff and I for several years by building their game on the best foundation possible. Meanwhile Jeff and I had to "unwire" all the autopilot behaviour we'd built in and stop feeling so weird about having regular conversations with girls.
On the good side, both Jeff and I are KILLER story tellers from the years of doing that, so we benefitted as public speakers in that regard. But unless you're trying to be a public speaker I'd really just learn how to go natural from day 1.
That said, can you go use the same stories or jokes again and again even if you're "natural" -- for sure.
It's just that you say it when YOU want to do so, to build the vibe, and when it happens to "arise".
You may go several months without saying the same story or joke again, or you may be suddenly amused by it and say it over and over throughout the night. Then you get bored of it and forget about it, like any normal human being, and move on.
You're improvising whatever FEELS GOOD in the moment, and then by the "law of state transferrence" she feels the amazing way you're feeling in her "mirror neurons" and gets good emotions from you as well.
(I'll post up a video on this topic from Daniel Goleman below...)
Anyway I've got some great programs coming up, including 2 new ones I added to the schedule in Southern California with Julien. This is one of the last times I'll be teaching Bootcamps with Julien this year so if you want to take a Bootcamp with both of us at the same time GET ON THE DAMNED TRAIN!
All my events will be ultra life changing of course, and here's the list coming up...
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
April 18, 2013: Los Angeles (BC with Julien!)
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
Alright so let's get into this video on how to talk and talk...
Hopefully this sorts this out for you PERMANENTELY as there's NEVER an excuse not to be able to TALK lol.
These are secrets that have allowed me to keep my mouth moving whenever I want -- beyond just with girls, but also on Free Tours where I go in with no idea what I'm going to say!
People are often baffled at my ability to do this, and this video will reveal ALL! :)
CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER MY 5 SECRETS FOR TALKING AND TALKING.....FOREVER!
Psyched you watched this!
Hopefully now the issue is solved. :)
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GO DEEPER -- CLASSIC VIDS!
This video is mandatory viewing if you enjoyed the one above.
It's going to explain specific exercises for "becoming like Lil Wayne" and I'd urge you to watch it immediately.
Good job adding to your knowledge base here.
I'd say try out that exercise and if you want to do more come hit me up at a Hot Seat event as well!
I also can't resist adding my first ever video blog, which was on the topic of state transference, and crack you up a bit with how far it's come.
You'll learn good stuff as well, check it out...
LOL how awesome was THAT? :)
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POSTS OF THE WEEK
We spotted 2 really good threads this week you'd definitely want to check out...
And to everyone who posted as well, I really appreciate all the input so much!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK
Given that "natural game" is all about the "law of state transference" I thought I'd include none other than an interview with Daniel Goleman.
He's the author of "Emotional Intelligence" and "Social Intelligence".
The guy isn't gonna have the same type of swagger you're accustomed to from an RSD instructor, but I absolutely love how he's drawn so much attention in the mainstream to the concept of emotional and social intelligence.
You'd definitely do well to check this out to be introduced to his work...
So now that you have this as a focus, try to keep it in your head over the coming weeks and see how you improve.
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Okay I'm out!
Off to the gym and gonna continue to work work work.
Next week's vid is gonna be pretty exciting stuff on selective focus, it's got a lot of funny moments in it I'm sure you're gonna enjoy.
I'd be psyched!
PLEASE HIT ME UP WITH COMMENTS ABOUT GOING NATURAL, YOUR EXPERIENCES TALKING AND TALKING, AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
I READ THE COMMENTS AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!
Thanks so much for reading and have an amazing day!
Sorry (said in Canadian accent) for getting this up a few hours late, I'm off to Las Vegas this weekend with Jeff and Brad to run a crazy set of Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp events -- and I've been cranking out 20 hours days to prepare.
A quick note from JULIEN about his Reddit AMA tommorow btw -- if you want any JUICY pickup questions answered LIVE or just want to be a "fly on the wall" be sure to tune in...
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Hey Julien here, wanted to have Tyler post this now since it's hot off the press.
I'm going to be doing an AMA (Ask Me Anything) on REDDIT tomorrow at 9pm EST and that YOU'RE INVITED!!!
This is your chance to ask me ANYTHING... Even the most "off topic" and "random" questions will be answered... Anything... ;)
It's going to be in the "seduction" subreddit, that you can check out right over here:
So today's video features me ROMPING through Miami and Los Angeles -- Liv, Ultra Music Fest, and Lure Hollywood -- to reveal the secrets of how to pick up girls in chaotic environments.
Loud dance floors, crazy parties, music pumped raves, you name it...
Even if these environments annoyed or intimidated you in the past, here's how to do it TODAY.
The video is really off the wall and I did this for HUMOR purposes to have a little fun. Don't take it overly seriously, although IME the advice is rock solid.
I was basically just playing around with the editing software, and tried to create something a lil absurd to make it more amusing and memorable for you -- and I think you're going to really love it.
Anyway this weekend's program in Vegas is going to be one for the HISTORY BOOKS.
I'm psyched out of my mind to get out there. OH MY GOD!
We just added JEFFY to the schedule so there's suddenly 2 more spaces open, whereas the event was previously sold out with myself myself and Brad, so feel free to jump on board.
I've also just added upcoming Los Angeles and San Diego programs that I'll be co-teaching with Julien at the last minute, because we decided we wanted to teach a few special events together like we used to back in the day!
If you've ever wanted to take a pickup program with me while I'm still teaching them regularly, NOW IS THE TIME!
I hope to be teaching pickup to whatever degree forever, but hit me up NOW if you want to learn PUA from me while it's still my most major focus. Here's a list of my upcoming events...
April 4, 2013: Las Vegas
April 18, 2013: Los Angeles (BC with Julien!)
April 25, 2013: San Diego (Just added!)
May 9, 2013: Los Angeles
May 16, 2013: Chicago
May 23, 2013: New York City
June 6, 2013: San Francisco
June 27, 2013: Boston
July 4, 2013: Washington DC
July 25, 2013: Honolulu
I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!
You're about to be whisked away on a magical adventure through the insane world of crazy parties and chaotic environments.
I've built this video to include tons of sounds and chaos to MENTALLY ANCHOR the lessons into you for the next time you're out, and I recommend you watch this multiple times. :)
By the end of this vid, you'll have a much stronger understanding of how to meet tons of hot girls out on dance floors, crazy parties, and insane environments, and I would urge you to go and FIELD TEST what you learn here TODAY!
So let's get into it...
CLICK THIS VIDEO TO LEARN THE TRUTH ABOUT PICKING UP HOT GIRLS AT CRAZY PARTIES AND INSANE ENVIRONMENTS...
Hope you enjoyed this!
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Here's a vid on the topic of what the word "intent" ACTUALLY means.
I think this is very complimentary to what you just saw as far as "raising your own emotions" because it gets you thinking about what it means to be clear in what you're doing, which is a key element to what I'm doing in the above vid!
This video is also REALLY well spoken IMO and quite the roller coaster ride to watch!
Check it out!
Good stuff!
You're now READY TO GO!
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KICK ASS FORUM POSTS OF THE WEEK!
Trig: Notes On Elite Level Game
Intriguing article by a guy whose been in the game since 2006 and done a ton of field work -- reveals the areas he's working on to reach the highest level in game.
Tyler (me!): Super Important Notes On Being CAREFREE With Hot Girls -- Inspired By "Spring Breakers"
If you enjoy my written stuff, I've created some really sick notes that were inspired by the recent kick ass movie Spring Breakers, and someday I may even make a vid out of this. For now though check out the killer written notes, and try not to get sucked into the "weed" convo towards the end of the thread. :)
The return of Bhuddagames, who I last saw wasted in NYC in a fight with Jeffy (lol love you bro), getting into the way many people LEARN! Gotta read this one.
Thanks so much guys for the contributions, and ALL the posters of killer threads I read in the forums this week.
Yes the forum has a lot of garbage in it LOL, but if you stop FOCUSING on that and tease out the useful threads you'll realize there's tons of good user generated content from guys who go out.
Check it out!
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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK!
This is a video that contains all 4 of the EPIC DOCUMENTARY by Adam Curtis on the topic of social conditioning.
It's called "Century Of The Self" -- created by a bad ass Oxford Political Philosophy professor who is extreme funny and astute.
You absolutely need to set aside the time to watch this properly, so here's the link and have a click through it, and when you can sit down and really watch this BE SURE TO DO IT!
Absolutely LOVE Adam Curtis!
"The Power Of Nightmares" covers terrorism and "The Trap" covers how politicians use the word "freedom" to pump the masses. Totally amazing, hope he comes out with more!
Rare to see such truly quality material come out like this, be sure to enjoy...
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THANKS!
So it's 4AM and I've got to pack and get up early for.... VEGAS!
Hoping to shoot some vids at the parties there, or maybe take a helicopter over to Grand Canyon to shoot a vid since I've never been!
I'm sure I'll do it eventually so we'll see what time permits.
Julien is also here with me in Los Angeles for the month to record new infield footage for the eventual release of the "Hot Seat 3" -- something we've been dreaming up for the past few years!
We'll hopefully also shoot some sick vids in downtown LA or San Diego or wherever else we're inclined in Southern California while he's here.
In the meantime, please hit me up with comments about dancefloor game and chaotic environments! I want to read what's no your mind so please let me know!
Thanks so much for reading, and I'll talk to you soon!
