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Imagine you are walking on the streets, or in a mall, and then you see a very attractive woman that you KNOW you have to go and meet her.

But, when you think about meeting her, all of a sudden, you are puzzled because you don’t really know what to do or how to do it. And then, you lose your opportunity to bring that pretty girl into your life…

Has that ever happened to you? Well, forget about the frustration of losing that opportunity RIGHT NOW! Here are some mindsets and techniques that you can employ immediately in order to meet more girls, and get them on instant dates!

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Mindsets

So you’ve seen that girl walk by and you’ve felt all of these emotions of arousal inside of you. But WAIT! Before you go somewhere, you have to make sure that you take a direction. The whole purpose of this is to know the girl on a very intimate level. In the interaction, there should be an increasing level of intimacy between both of you as time goes on. So, the more time you spend with the girl, the more of a connection that there will be between the both of you. Alex~ refers to this as “Time is your Ally”. So, stay there with her, and don’t run away when things are going fine! Push yourself to stay in there and keep the conversation rolling.

Aim to be completely honest, and express what you think and feel unapologetically.

You should come from the frame that you are in a great mood, just having an awesome day, and you decided to approach a gorgeous girl in order to share some of your positive emotions with her.

Meeting the Girl

Make the decision to meet her. Start walking towards her. Move your feet, one by one, until you get to a point where it is more awkward to run away than to approach her.

Get her Whole Attention/RAS

This is crucial. To do this, get in front of her or square up. Her whole attention should be onto you.
Tell her what you like about her. Ask yourself, what does this girl have that I like? Is it her overall looks? The way she walks? Her vibe? Hair? What is it? It could be anything, and it is okay if you like that aspect of her even to a small extent. So, pick that characteristic that you like about her, and go share your good tastes with her. For example, you like her adorable looks, so you tell her “Hi! Look, I really have to tell you this. I think you look quite adorable and I have to meet you. What is your name?”.

Get to Know Her

All human beings love to talk about themselves. So let her do that. Remember, as Julien says: You are the BUYER, not the seller. So, find out about her life and personality. Aim to be playful here. Cold readings work great here: “You look like an engineer”. Or if you want to ask questions, then do it, and you can add some funny remarks after she answers. Nobody is approaching her in the daytime anyways, so you can always assume that you are among the world’s top class men just by talking to her!

INCREASE the level of Intimacy: The Moment of Realness

Now, by this point you’ve probably done a lot of the talking, teasing, and flirting. And that usually implies that you have invested on her. At this point, like Julien says: SWITCH TO THE MOMENT OF REALNESS and let her invest in you. Cut the flirting, and teasing. Now, you two are real people having a REAL moment of authenticity and connection. A good trick to do this is to ask about her favorite places to visit when she gets bored, her favorite activities to relax, or any topic that brings more of that intimate/authentic part of her. And just let her talk! You can chill back at this part, and let her do all the talking. Listen, of course!

INSTANT DATE OR PHONE NUMBER!

She is talking a lot about herself now! What are you waiting for?! Tell her that you were going to a nearby bar/café/any-place for a while, and that it would be cool if she comes along. If she comes up with reasons not to go, then tell her that the place is just around the corner, or that you only have five minutes before you get back to work or any other activity. Then you guys have a long conversation, and you naturally take her phone number so that you see each other again.

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If she really cannot go on the instant date, then get her phone number.
www.rsdnation.com/dcampo3/blog/how-get-girls-phone-number

And that is the initial stage of meeting the girl of your dreams that was coincidentally walking near your favorite café!

Peace
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AlexV

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 That's a great article, bro
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Awesome mindset thing. Loved the article
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 daym nice
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TropicalMan

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 Thanks guys :)
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mind set is huge
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That's a great article
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 Thanks a lot guys, I really appreciate it!
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