Hey there, it's Todd.

In this article you will learn how to pick up ANY GIRL ANYWHERE, and be ALWAYS ON. How to make game a habit and a part of who you are, rather than something you can only do when you’re “in state”.

Besides being a popular request for me on Facebook, this article is one that I’m really passionate about because, unlike most other instructors, I learned predominantly from daygame in my early years and I’ve always hated the idea of “state”. I’ve always thought it was exceedingly lame that someone would use their mood as an excuse for ANYTHING.

To paraphrase the video, “Thinking that you have to be “in state” to talk to a girl, is probably the most low value belief I’ve ever heard of. Even so, tons of guys, even those with excellent game, rarely do daygame and are often afraid of it. I wanted to address that and get to the deep underlying issues at cause.

More on that in a moment…

I’m frantically writing this article before the final day of bootcamp in Orlando, which has been amazing apart from the freezing weather. In FLORIDA?! WTF?! But it’s been a great time with some cute girls and really enthusiastic students who are also outstanding individuals. These are the programs I love to teach.

Also, I can’t wait to go home and see my family for the holidays after… Even icy heartless players need some family time every now and again :).

Next weekend though: REGIONAL CONFERENCE. San Francisco. For those of you who are not aware, regional conferences are like hotseat programs (showing and breaking down in-field video) but with the added element of time in field with assigned missions. So you get the theory and the execution in the same weekend! Definitely check them out in and around your own city.

For more information on Regional Conferences and Inner Circle, check out the following links:

www.rsdinnercircle.com
and
www.realsocialdynamics.com/schedule.asp

Also, speaking of San Francisco. I’ll be doing a FREE TOUR there and the rest of my upcoming schedule is below:

Where I'll be next...

FreeTourDecember 27, 2012: San Francisco, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampJanuary 4-6, 2013: Washington, DC, USA
BootcampJanuary 11-13, 2013: Sydney, Australia
FreeTourJanuary 14, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampJanuary 18-20, 2013: Melbourne, Australia
BootcampJanuary 25-27, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampFebruary 1-3, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
BootcampFebruary 7-9, 2013: New Orleans, Louisiana, USA
FreeTourFebruary 7, 2013: New Orleans, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampFebruary 15-17, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA



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Ok. On to the video.

I’m on a personal mission to add a new improvement of some sort to each and every video, and to try to make each one just slightly better than I’ve ever done before. In this case I learned transitions, and I also combined two different speaking formats in an attempt to clarify the message. I also broke down some of the key points for you in text.

Basically, I’m doing everything I possibly can to make sure that my message is being communicated in the most clear and digestible format possible. Please give me your feedback on both the good and the bad so I can be constantly improving.

Daygame and gaming without momentum are two concepts that are near and dear to my heart. Roughly one third of the girls I’ve slept with in my life have been girl I’ve met during the daytime, and more than two thirds of my serious girlfriends have come from daytime approaches. So obviously these skills have contributed considerably to my sex and relationship life over the years.

These numbers have been decreasing lately as I’m back to being a traveling bootcamp instructor again, but even so, I am a HUGE proponent of daygame and being “always on” for obvious reasons.
The biggest element to this really comes down to one word: INTEGRITY. Let’s look at that word and what it means.

To me integrity means DOING THE RIGHT THING, not the EASY THING. It means having ethics and standards and living up to them. It means keeping promises, even when it’s difficult, and mostly it means keeping your promises to YOURSELF.

I made a promise to myself long ago, that I would never regret something I had NOT done in life. This was a direct result of my choding around and never approaching girls for the first 18 years of my life. But I keep that promise to myself every day. That not only allows me to game out of state (I have no choice, so I have no reason to be nervous)… but it also puts me IN state because I am proud of the actions I am taking.

I guess that’s the crux of it. You only need to be brave, if you have a choice. Once all choice has been eliminated, it’s not bravery anymore, it’s just action. So once you get the proper leverage on yourself, taking action is easy.

I also talk a bit about scheduling daytime into your day and some finer points of technique, but I’ll leave that for the video. Enjoy!



As I said before, this is the best editing job I’ve been able to do thus far, as I am improving my editing week by week. Please give me your comments on both the content and the videography as I am always eager to learn and improve. I’d like to find out what is most important to you, so I can adjust accordingly.

Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:

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and
twitter.com/rsdtodd


Thanks again, and until next time,
-Todd

p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.

p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList