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In this article/video you will learn how to MAKE HER CHASE YOU. This is probably the biggest transition between intermediate and advanced level game.

In my most recent post I mentioned a "perfection challenge" in which I would attempt to handle my responibilities and structure my life masterfully. That has been a bit of a shitshow so far, but I am making progress in some areas such as getting to the gym more regularly. Here, off the top of my head, are some of the new goals:

1. Get in the gym five days/week (I've been lax since my two back injuries)
2. Meditate EVERY day, rather than just sporadically
3. Get and stay at least two weeks ahead with my videos
4. Finish dotting the i's and crossing the t's on the report for my hedge fund clients

All this while going out six nights/week on the clock (with hours of coaching as well) and maintaining a lifestyle with girls that is impressive and inspirational for immersion students. It seems like it should be so simple. . . .

Anyway, the major lesson here, I think, is that vague goals are meaningless, but specific goals are (hopefully) meaningful and executable.

Speaking of Immersion by the way . . . it is probably the most inspirational and transformative pickup program ever seen. The growth I am seeing from students has been out-of-this-world. Have a look at:  http://vegasimmersion.com/

OK . . . on to this week's video:

This video is on the topic of how to make a girl chase . . . which I think is a topic too often neglected in modern implementations of the game. Most guys who learn the game these days (RSD style, anyway) seem to become cool and fun and alpha, and even learn how to get physical, but they don't learn how to flip the script and really get a girl to INVEST.

Here is how I do it personally.



The key takeaways are:

1.  Be A Cool Guy
2.  Leave Space For Her To Invest
3.  Make The Interaction Relevant For Her
4.  Employ Push Pull and Teasing
5.  Get Logical Commitments

Obviously the video goes into much more depth in all these areas.

Where I'll be next...

BootcampDecember 19-21, 2013: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
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While we're on the topic of making her chase, here is a classic video that relates:



The emphasis here is on not only gettting the girl to invest, but also on adding MORE value than necessary in order to allow you to sit back and be lazy (read: Let her game you) after.

I also have lots of amazing and exlusive videos relating to my own personal game, which are available for only $10 at: http://rsdinnercircle.com/

And lastly, here are some in-field examples of me doing just this:



Hope you enjoyed that and learned a lot,
-Todd

P.S.  Have a look at http://rsdinnercircle.com/ and http://vegasimmersion.com/ if you have not already done so.  Tyler, the king of giving content away for free, routinely tells me we don't charge enough for these programs, so that should give you some idea of the value...
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#1
power_level_over9000

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First!
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power_level_over9000

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I have been really impressed with your material. It's awesome and only getting better. With that said, it comes as no surprise that, it was disappointing you didn't have any Toronto dates this past year. Alex blew the roof off accompanied by Jeff and 140 +

I hope you make it in 2014.

Something I noticed is that, ego leads to suffering. With pickup, I refuse to create an identity out of this since I am just social. Anyone can do it. Here is where I get stuck:

I want black and the universe gives me white.

I want to practice cold approach, sex no strings, and the universe provides women seeking husband or long term bf.


Another distinction, I can pull, snl, and keep momentum but, the second that I become ever do slightly invested, it comes undone. The chick flakes or gets weird.

How do you practice freedom of out come and intent without ever being invested? Indifference is attractive. Is it micro manageable? The only thing I can think of is being unattached no matter how ever slightly invested.

I am nearing my edge. I am on my path. That hero's journey in life. It feels good man.
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Gulisos

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I am glad that you are writing about it. Flip the script is really powerfull. I consider  it to be my sticking point. I am like you said Alpha, cool guy, but very often I am not making girl invest enough. It's very importnat to flip the script but still going with the basics and I think that's the value with your teachings. You teach how to be  "hard to get" but stay loyal to game principles as opossed  to be outcome dependent.
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FrameWave

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Cool todd, more on that topic please.
How do you handle it when it's a mixed set and you are alone and you can't necesserely let to much space in the interaction because of friends and chode fret0rs?
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#5

RedSeven

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Todd, this is great stuff mate!

Really liked the breakdown of how to make her chase you.

And the infield is looking very goood. 
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Alen Ocean Sky Depth

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Love your way of explaining. Thank you so much. :) 
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This really appealed to me because of the logical steps you give.  That's what works best for me, is a step by step formula for getting a desired result.  I think this approach to game is extremely effective and takes all emotional resistance out of it.  Whenever I know exactly what steps need to be taken, I can just do the steps without feeling any negative emotions.  I really like step by step formulas similar to this that give you steps in a heirarchy of priority.  For example: first do this, and always do this first, then once you've done this, do the next step and always do this second.  This kind of approach to game and approach to anything I've wanted to get good at has been extremely effective.
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CheifBrokenMan

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Todd are you still doing bootcamp in Atlanta? see it on here but not on rsd.com
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ryanh03k

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AKA-- stop "gaming", relax, and see if she will "game" you.

Am I right or am I right?
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Euphoric

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Anyone know why it won't let me post a blog?  It says I need at least three comments on the forums and that I currently have 0 but I've left around 7 comments.  Anyone else have this problem?
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Anton_Rich

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There is a song playing in the background in 2 minites. What is the name of the song?
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JohnnyCanada

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Todd, just a few thoughts/questions on the concepts you talk about in the video

So, the first step is to get the girl to stay and chat with you aka "hook" the girl? because so many times, even before you get a chance to apply the "get her to chase you" tactics, the girls very often get distracted, run away, get pullled away by friends, boyfriends, etc. I understand she doesn't have to be giving you IOI's per say but I find it difficult sometimes with the hotter girls to get them to stay, they seem so indifferent a lot fo the time

Also, can you give another example of "leave space for her to invest"?

I find the push/pull, teasing and verbal tactics are all fine and good and they work for sure but ONLY if the girl already likes you. The challenge still seems to be setting yourself apart and getting that inital investment from the girl
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great topic. this is a big sticking point with me. It is something that I know but I tend to forget every once in a while. todd thanks for the reminder!

I have encountered cute girls that with just a couple of moves they say they want to fuck and when it is that easy although they are cute they become ugly or undesirable. 

I imagine girls feel the same way with guys. 

peace
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Really cool and creative video.

I think you should grow a beard. 
 
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duplicate
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Intro by The XX.
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Why do you want to "Make The Interaction Relevant For Her"?
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thanks todd
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RedBeard

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Awesome video Todd... I feel like the first half was inspired by me haha, guys who plow plow plow the entire set and never leave room for her to chase (it's me, Casey!). of course i've getting much better at that now since you pointing it out!!
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Awesome vid!

Very helpful.
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Todd laser precise.good stuff
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#22

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I feel like this could be 90% of a persons game!
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#23

king_kickass101

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What if i leave room for her to invest and she doesn't? this has happened before where ill flurry with the girl fora bit and then pull away and she doesn't follow.
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king_kickass101 Wrote:
What if i leave room for her to invest and she doesn't? this has happened before where ill flurry with the girl fora bit and then pull away and she doesn't follow.


Probably all this means is that your version of "Step #1" (Be A Cool Guy) just didn't work for her (yet) most likely, so in that case, just keep plowing value a bit more before trying again to "leave room for her to invest" and then just gradually wash rinse repeat until she starts complying OR you can move onto other girls if she's just not worth your time ;)
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Todd

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Hey, great to hear from you.  Your results have been looking good lately!

dud2stud Wrote:
Awesome video Todd... I feel like the first half was inspired by me haha, guys who plow plow plow the entire set and never leave room for her to chase (it's me, Casey!). of course i've getting much better at that now since you pointing it out!!
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#26

genius2005

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Hey Todd, I decided that I'm going to take your Immersion Program first, then maybe Brad Branson's Lifestyle Development Program at the same, and later, of course, Ozzie's bootcamp to learn Fear Technology.

I finally was able to reach my specific goals in 2013 with respects to my transportation business and I feel like I can test to see if I can keep-on-top of my business while living in Las Vegas and practicing my game in your Immersion Program.

Thanks for the video...and keep Mackin'
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JDon

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Todd is there any chance you can explain the third point 'Make it relevant to her'

What exacly am I making relevant? (Or maybe I should be asking how do I make 'it' relevant?)

You mention that its important to make the conversation emotionally relevant to her using 'You' and 'We ' statements, but I am confused as there were not many examples given on this. Is it just a matter of, as a very basic example, say she travels alot (a quality I look for) and I say something along the lines  of: 'I could definitly see us travelling to Bora Bora and roasting marshmallows on the beach' ?? - Travelling, Bora Bora, Marshmallows, Beach -

Or as another example using a 'You-Statement', would it be similarly along the lines of 'Ok so you are someone that like to explore the world and be adventurous & curious about new things'

Are these the sort of things that you are tyring to convey in your video, or am i completely off track...??? These are very basic examples, but hopefully you are able to read where I am coming from here.

 
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