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Todd
 
I'm a perfectionist. I hate letting girls get away just because they live far away from me. I want them all. I used to just delete girls' numbers if they lived far away, figuring it wasn't worth the effort, but lately I've found an efficient way to improve my results both with these girls and with girls closer to home.

Call them every couple of weeks even if there's only a 1% chance that you'll ever see them again. Here's why:

1. Girls move. Especially to places like New York (Where I live). When they move into town they don't know anyone but me, so who are they going to call up to hang out on their first few lonely nights in town?

2. Girls travel. Same as above, but add that they're on vacation. As an added bonus they often have other cute friends on vacation with them so you can hook boys up.

3. Five minutes once every couple weeks is all it takes to keep a number completely fresh so the investment is minimal.

But most importantly:

Anyone who has taken time to seriously tackle phone game knows that 1. More time on the phone makes you MUCH better, and 2. last call is almost always better than first one on any given day. Kind of like doing a few warm up sets when you're at the club.

Soo... I consider my out of town girls phone practice girls. I call them up BEFORE any girls I actually care about, then I only call "real" girls up once I'm in an unstoppable state. That way EVERY call goes well, and I find myself meeting up with a different girl basically any time I seriously sit down and do phone time. You shouldn't NEED to be in state to call girls, but if you have the option available to you, it never hurts.



-Todd


Make no apologies for the past, and no compromises with present.
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#1
Full.Metal.0_0

Full.Metal.0_0

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Join Date: 06/09/2009 | Posts: 319

nice, ive been in that exact situation where i never thought a girl i would see again poped up in town.  She came to me first because i sent her a facebook message 3 weeks ago. small efforts, big rewards ftw. angel
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*JP*

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Join Date: 04/22/2007 | Posts: 73

Yeah I agree, I usually go through my phone list before going out too.

Also I can always improve no matter how go I get I can always get better.
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boreddon

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Join Date: 05/12/2011 | Posts: 69

 man, this is a wicked simple way to get out of shy mode before hitting the town, even. I still have issues with AA, and feeling comfortable just flowing in convo and coming across as natural. This seems like a good way to start breaking that habit. Nice post, man. 
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Tobias

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Join Date: 06/11/2010 | Posts: 688

 Really great concept. I always wondered what more i could do to unstifle myself before making "that call" now i know. 
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