Todd's Blog
Hey, Todd here from Australia; and the adventures down under are plentiful.
In this article you will learn how to pull and manage logistics like a pro. All the attraction in the world typically won’t get you anywhere if you can’t get the girl home and alone with you. In this article I’ll show you how to do just that.
I’m writing this from Melbourne Australia, and it’s been an adventure to say the least. Not only did I get in the first ever fight of my pickup career, but I also have had abundant and excellent pulling experience.
At the free tour yesterday somebody said they’d heard repeatedly that Melbourne was the toughest place to game. I, so far, have found it just the opposite. The girls here are refreshingly honest. They blow you out hard rather than giving polite bullshit, but when they have a good interaction and give you a phone number, they actually don’t flake. I can respect a girl who knows what she wants!
I can see how it could be hard for someone who isn’t good at handling shit tests though… as the girls here are a bit sarcastic/testy at times. Again though, that’s what I like and respect personally.
The big personal lesson from this weekend’s bootcamp is that of pushing your limits, but of also not being an idiot. I was an idiot, which is why I got in a fight… however the traits right up to being an idiot are also the ones that get me massive success with girl and in life. And those are the traits of pushing the limits of what I can get away with.
I do a lot of things that many people would consider extreme, in order to have experiences and learn. One common example of this is with girls, but I also push situations even with legal authority figures (within reason) because I want to know exactly what my rights are and where the line is that cannot be crossed. I do this in safe situations where I know I have recourse and an easy way out… but the information gained is really eye-opening, and will be massively helpful at other times.
That said, in any situation with potential consequences, it is important to be aware of those consequences and to not screw yourself over. There is a place to draw the line. On Saturday I went over the line, and got into a fight… but it was still an amazing and educational experience, so I can’t complain too much.
Speaking of educational experiences, another great place to see my PRACTICAL IN-FIELD COACHING videos and to ASK ME LIVE QUESTIONS is through Inner Circle. I believe it’s the best program dollar for dollar (only $5/month) that we have at RSD.
For more information on Inner Circle, check out the following links:
www.rsdinnercircle.com
and
www.realsocialdynamics.com/schedule.asp
My upcoming schedule is below:
Where I'll be next...
BootcampJanuary 25-27, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampFebruary 1-3, 2013: Singapore
FreeTourFebruary 14, 2013: New Orleans, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampFebruary 12-16, 2013: New Orleans, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Nashville, Tennessee, USA
BootcampMarch 15-17, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
FreeTourMarch 15, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)
One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:
YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WIGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!
http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com
Ok. On to the video:
This one is about pulling. I mix theory and practice in breaking down three specific pulling experiences. Two are pulls I was personally involved in, one successful, one unsuccessful… the third is one I heard about from Tyler maybe nine years ago that is very instructive. I hope you enjoy.
A lot of pulling comes from experience, but the theory certainly helps. One other point that I want to make about pulling is the encouragement to “just do it”. Start seeding the pull early in the interaction and be thinking pull all night. When I was first learning to pull I would literally say the words “yeah, so ‘you ready to get out of here then?” every time I received a compliment. It was obnoxious, but it went a long way towards establishing the mindset.
And pulling IS a mindset, not just a collection of techniques.
Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:
facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd
Okay, I’m off. Talk to you soon.
-Todd
p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.
p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
In this article you will learn how to pull and manage logistics like a pro. All the attraction in the world typically won’t get you anywhere if you can’t get the girl home and alone with you. In this article I’ll show you how to do just that.
I’m writing this from Melbourne Australia, and it’s been an adventure to say the least. Not only did I get in the first ever fight of my pickup career, but I also have had abundant and excellent pulling experience.
At the free tour yesterday somebody said they’d heard repeatedly that Melbourne was the toughest place to game. I, so far, have found it just the opposite. The girls here are refreshingly honest. They blow you out hard rather than giving polite bullshit, but when they have a good interaction and give you a phone number, they actually don’t flake. I can respect a girl who knows what she wants!
I can see how it could be hard for someone who isn’t good at handling shit tests though… as the girls here are a bit sarcastic/testy at times. Again though, that’s what I like and respect personally.
The big personal lesson from this weekend’s bootcamp is that of pushing your limits, but of also not being an idiot. I was an idiot, which is why I got in a fight… however the traits right up to being an idiot are also the ones that get me massive success with girl and in life. And those are the traits of pushing the limits of what I can get away with.
I do a lot of things that many people would consider extreme, in order to have experiences and learn. One common example of this is with girls, but I also push situations even with legal authority figures (within reason) because I want to know exactly what my rights are and where the line is that cannot be crossed. I do this in safe situations where I know I have recourse and an easy way out… but the information gained is really eye-opening, and will be massively helpful at other times.
That said, in any situation with potential consequences, it is important to be aware of those consequences and to not screw yourself over. There is a place to draw the line. On Saturday I went over the line, and got into a fight… but it was still an amazing and educational experience, so I can’t complain too much.
Speaking of educational experiences, another great place to see my PRACTICAL IN-FIELD COACHING videos and to ASK ME LIVE QUESTIONS is through Inner Circle. I believe it’s the best program dollar for dollar (only $5/month) that we have at RSD.
For more information on Inner Circle, check out the following links:
www.rsdinnercircle.com
and
www.realsocialdynamics.com/schedule.asp
My upcoming schedule is below:
Where I'll be next...
BootcampJanuary 25-27, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampFebruary 1-3, 2013: Singapore
FreeTourFebruary 14, 2013: New Orleans, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampFebruary 12-16, 2013: New Orleans, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Nashville, Tennessee, USA
BootcampMarch 15-17, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
FreeTourMarch 15, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)
One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:
YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WIGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!
http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com
Ok. On to the video:
This one is about pulling. I mix theory and practice in breaking down three specific pulling experiences. Two are pulls I was personally involved in, one successful, one unsuccessful… the third is one I heard about from Tyler maybe nine years ago that is very instructive. I hope you enjoy.
A lot of pulling comes from experience, but the theory certainly helps. One other point that I want to make about pulling is the encouragement to “just do it”. Start seeding the pull early in the interaction and be thinking pull all night. When I was first learning to pull I would literally say the words “yeah, so ‘you ready to get out of here then?” every time I received a compliment. It was obnoxious, but it went a long way towards establishing the mindset.
And pulling IS a mindset, not just a collection of techniques.
Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:
facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd
Okay, I’m off. Talk to you soon.
-Todd
p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.
p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList



Comments
Gulisos
Senior Member
Join Date: 08/26/2008 | Posts: 119
I two have problems with crossing boundaries. The more you will be outer independence, the more you have to develop common sense. For me I am experimental with girls, but with situations like fighting i prefer not to push things (although I know how to fight).
SteppingItUp
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Join Date: 04/04/2012 | Posts: 4
SKaizer
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LoveHandle*
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Join Date: 03/24/2008 | Posts: 929
Are you in NYC at this point?
Ben
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krisit
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Murdoc
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Play to win.
Theillbehaviored
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Join Date: 12/18/2011 | Posts: 366
I have one question though: If you are trying to pull by saying "afterparty", it's implied that its at my place (and often they ask where it is). Doesen't that violate the principle of only taking it one step at a time?
Waginator
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Join Date: 02/10/2011 | Posts: 247
Don't ask for permission. Just Lead.
Make it easy for her to say "Yes."
Her phone is your enemy.
The guys who get laid are RELENTLESS.
You don't have to pull all at once. Just get her to the NEXT STEP.
Get the girl to help with her friends...Coach her if necessary.
When all is lost, buy yourself a few more seconds...then a few more...then a few more.
these little tags really help!
jeez doo et!!!
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combinatorics
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I've been approached and physically assaulted 3 times in the street last year alone. It's just part of the risk you've gotta take I guess if you want to get good.
Todd
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I two have problems with crossing boundaries. The more you will be outer independence, the more you have to develop common sense. For me I am experimental with girls, but with situations like fighting i prefer not to push things (although I know how to fight).
Todd
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Todd
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Are you in NYC at this point?
Ben
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Todd
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I have one question though: If you are trying to pull by saying "afterparty", it's implied that its at my place (and often they ask where it is). Doesen't that violate the principle of only taking it one step at a time?
Todd
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Todd
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TheKing
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Studant: OMG! who did it??
OBVIOUSLY OUR SITH LORD DARTH JULIEEEENEE! LOL
Leo-~
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Anthony John
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Join Date: 05/20/2011 | Posts: 132
Make it an effort for her to say no, and no effort to say yes.
I have a relentless (former) friend who would do and say anything to get with the girl. He would go for my female cousins, my female friends, and even girls that I would game. Needless to say he proved to me that girls are more important than a friendship. It motivates me to step my game up, but when I get the girl he acts like a whiny little bitch. Choose your wingmen wisely, fellow Champions. Play to Win.
sc00p
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Kaleidoscope
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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 2051
in or out of Australia, that I've been to
Still waiting for someone to actually go there and try,
and say 'oh shit, you've been right all these years' :p
The only upside is like melbourne, if a girl actually likes you, you'll know ;)
I've even had a girl I met but lost later in the night, track me down off club photos, message me and ask me out!
I've also had girls push me and tell me to fuck off! It goes both ways
This is sparta motherfuckers
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