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Hey, Todd here from Australia; and the adventures down under are plentiful.

In this article you will learn how to pull and manage logistics like a pro. All the attraction in the world typically won’t get you anywhere if you can’t get the girl home and alone with you. In this article I’ll show you how to do just that.

I’m writing this from Melbourne Australia, and it’s been an adventure to say the least. Not only did I get in the first ever fight of my pickup career, but I also have had abundant and excellent pulling experience.

At the free tour yesterday somebody said they’d heard repeatedly that Melbourne was the toughest place to game. I, so far, have found it just the opposite. The girls here are refreshingly honest. They blow you out hard rather than giving polite bullshit, but when they have a good interaction and give you a phone number, they actually don’t flake. I can respect a girl who knows what she wants!

I can see how it could be hard for someone who isn’t good at handling shit tests though… as the girls here are a bit sarcastic/testy at times. Again though, that’s what I like and respect personally.

The big personal lesson from this weekend’s bootcamp is that of pushing your limits, but of also not being an idiot. I was an idiot, which is why I got in a fight… however the traits right up to being an idiot are also the ones that get me massive success with girl and in life. And those are the traits of pushing the limits of what I can get away with.

I do a lot of things that many people would consider extreme, in order to have experiences and learn. One common example of this is with girls, but I also push situations even with legal authority figures (within reason) because I want to know exactly what my rights are and where the line is that cannot be crossed. I do this in safe situations where I know I have recourse and an easy way out… but the information gained is really eye-opening, and will be massively helpful at other times.

That said, in any situation with potential consequences, it is important to be aware of those consequences and to not screw yourself over. There is a place to draw the line. On Saturday I went over the line, and got into a fight… but it was still an amazing and educational experience, so I can’t complain too much.

Speaking of educational experiences, another great place to see my PRACTICAL IN-FIELD COACHING videos and to ASK ME LIVE QUESTIONS is through Inner Circle. I believe it’s the best program dollar for dollar (only $5/month) that we have at RSD.

For more information on Inner Circle, check out the following links:

www.rsdinnercircle.com
and
www.realsocialdynamics.com/schedule.asp

My upcoming schedule is below:

Where I'll be next...

BootcampJanuary 25-27, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampFebruary 1-3, 2013: Singapore
FreeTourFebruary 14, 2013: New Orleans, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampFebruary 12-16, 2013: New Orleans, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Nashville, Tennessee, USA
BootcampMarch 15-17, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
FreeTourMarch 15, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)



One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:

YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WIGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!

http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList

More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com


Ok. On to the video:

This one is about pulling. I mix theory and practice in breaking down three specific pulling experiences. Two are pulls I was personally involved in, one successful, one unsuccessful… the third is one I heard about from Tyler maybe nine years ago that is very instructive. I hope you enjoy.



A lot of pulling comes from experience, but the theory certainly helps. One other point that I want to make about pulling is the encouragement to “just do it”. Start seeding the pull early in the interaction and be thinking pull all night. When I was first learning to pull I would literally say the words “yeah, so ‘you ready to get out of here then?” every time I received a compliment. It was obnoxious, but it went a long way towards establishing the mindset.

And pulling IS a mindset, not just a collection of techniques.

Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:

facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd

Okay, I’m off. Talk to you soon.

-Todd

p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.

p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
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#1

Gulisos

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Solid:)
I two have problems with crossing boundaries. The more you will be outer independence, the more you have to develop common sense. For me I am experimental with girls, but with situations like fighting i prefer not to push things (although I know how to fight).
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SteppingItUp

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Just Do It
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SKaizer

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 the phone problem = buy a pcoket mobile jammer
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LoveHandle*

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 Hey Todd,

Are you in NYC at this point?

Ben
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Alphamode

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Ya bro aussie dudes are some crazy cunts. Got assaulted randomly at bars in both Brisbane & Sydney just by going inside and being myself, no crazy high risk crossing the line required (prolly would've happened to me in Melbourne too had it not been a weeknight) I guess all that Krav Maga martial arts training finally came in handy huh?
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Tell  more about the fight
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Murdoc

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 Awesome video Todd!

Play to win.
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#8
Theillbehaviored

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Todd, I was posting in the forums trying to find the answer and you provided the solution I was looking for. Thanks!

I have one question though: If you are trying to pull by saying "afterparty", it's implied that its at my place (and often they ask where it is). Doesen't that violate the principle of only taking it one step at a time?
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#9
Waginator

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Pulling is about PROBLEM SOLVING.
Don't ask for permission. Just Lead.
Make it easy for her to say "Yes."
Her phone is your enemy.
The guys who get laid are RELENTLESS.
You don't have to pull all at once. Just get her to the NEXT STEP.
Get the girl to help with her friends...Coach her if necessary.
When all is lost, buy yourself a few more seconds...then a few more...then a few more.

these little tags really help!

jeez doo et!!!
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BerlinCity

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 Solid and bullshit-free as usual. Thanks.
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Tobias

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 Yeah getting to see Alex come to SF and bang a super hotty, then short time later you come and bang a hotty from the matrix. Really impressive left a lot of people here stunned! Cool to be able to hear some of the details about how you banged that girl! Thanks. 
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#12

shaun_deeb

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throwing the phone away is just a bit to crazy ;)
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#13
reason

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This is a great video! Thank you so much, Todd!
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#14

DancefloorAddict

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 Hey Todd, I was at the Melbourne free tour meetup. I enjoyed listening to all the topics discussed and it was defintely worth coming along too. Look forward to attending further RSD events in the future!
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This was a great video!!!  You mentioned having to deal with a chode in your set.  I've got some experience pulling even when the friends are interfering (mildly), but I need to get this area handled.  I've been able to open hot girls and hook.  Now I have to deal with guys coming into my sets.  I believe that blowing them out will improve her attraction for me.  Todd, could you do a video out dealing with guys (both strangers as well as her mail chode orbiter friends, who can be even worse than female friends)?
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#16

god4war

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 If you are going to get a lot of pussy you have to become  more aggressive. enuff with the weak shit, bring the fucking heat. 
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#17
GoldenGun

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wow awesome content!, you should do more free tour videos.
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#18

combinatorics

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Hahaha, Welcome to Melbourne Todd. 

I've been approached and physically assaulted 3 times in the street last year alone.  It's just part of the risk you've gotta take I guess if you want to get good. 
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Todd

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Ya, interesting points.  I'm putting out another video related to this soon...
Gulisos wrote:
Solid:)
I two have problems with crossing boundaries. The more you will be outer independence, the more you have to develop common sense. For me I am experimental with girls, but with situations like fighting i prefer not to push things (although I know how to fight).

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Todd

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lol
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 the phone problem = buy a pcoket mobile jammer
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Todd

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Not until Feb.
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 Hey Todd,

Are you in NYC at this point?

Ben
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Todd

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Ya, I've seen lots of fights since I've been down here... I still hold that ALMOST all fights are avoidable though
Alphamode wrote:
Ya bro aussie dudes are some crazy cunts. Got assaulted randomly at bars in both Brisbane & Sydney just by going inside and being myself, no crazy high risk crossing the line required (prolly would've happened to me in Melbourne too had it not been a weeknight) I guess all that Krav Maga martial arts training finally came in handy huh?
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#23
Todd

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Afterparty can be anywhere, and you are not obligated to directly answer questions...
Theillbehaviored wrote:
Todd, I was posting in the forums trying to find the answer and you provided the solution I was looking for. Thanks!

I have one question though: If you are trying to pull by saying "afterparty", it's implied that its at my place (and often they ask where it is). Doesen't that violate the principle of only taking it one step at a time?



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Todd

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hahahaha
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one thing i did once, is i took her phone and put it in my pocket and walked, and she had to follow
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Todd

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Haha.  I was trying to keep some of the details unclear for plausible deniability :/ ...  Glad people liked what they saw, and also thanks for all your help with the events.
Tobias wrote:
 Yeah getting to see Alex come to SF and bang a super hotty, then short time later you come and bang a hotty from the matrix. Really impressive left a lot of people here stunned! Cool to be able to hear some of the details about how you banged that girl! Thanks. 
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Todd

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Awesome.  Thanks for coming out!  It was fun to have a smaller event where we could go back and forth a bit on ideas.  Next one will be bigger for sure though because we won't forget to promote it again...
DancefloorAddict wrote:
 Hey Todd, I was at the Melbourne free tour meetup. I enjoyed listening to all the topics discussed and it was defintely worth coming along too. Look forward to attending further RSD events in the future!
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Todd

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Here's an older video with some good tips... It was one of my first ever videos so It's not the highest video quality, but the information is good.


Diamondog wrote:
This was a great video!!!  You mentioned having to deal with a chode in your set.  I've got some experience pulling even when the friends are interfering (mildly), but I need to get this area handled.  I've been able to open hot girls and hook.  Now I have to deal with guys coming into my sets.  I believe that blowing them out will improve her attraction for me.  Todd, could you do a video out dealing with guys (both strangers as well as her mail chode orbiter friends, who can be even worse than female friends)?
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#28
Tyler

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Good stuff man!  Vid looks great and enjoyed the reports!

Tyler
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#29
TheKing

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Todd: ...and throw the fone in the bushes.
Studant: OMG! who did it??

OBVIOUSLY OUR SITH LORD DARTH JULIEEEENEE! LOL
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I actually like this video!
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#31
Anthony John

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 Don't let the situation come to you, you go to the situation.  That kind of reminds me of the Tapout XT workout slogan: "You don't walk away from a Tapout workout you run to it!"
Make it an effort for her to say no, and no effort to say yes.  
I have a relentless (former) friend who would do and say anything to get with the girl.  He would go for my female cousins, my female friends, and even girls that I would game.  Needless to say he proved to me that girls are more important than a friendship.  It motivates me to step my game up, but when I get the girl he acts like a whiny little bitch.  Choose your wingmen wisely, fellow Champions.  Play to Win.
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#32

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For example, as americans we don't usually  invite ourselves over, but last night at a club in Oslo we met some fine blondes and they said they were going to an after party. It seemed like they were hinting at us for us to come but we were hinting at it that we wanted to come, would that of been the situatioin where to be like "oh so you are going to invite us with you right?
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#33
Kaleidoscope

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Newcastle NSW is the hardest place to 'game',
in or out of Australia, that I've been to
Still waiting for someone to actually go there and try,
and say 'oh shit, you've been right all these years' :p

The only upside is like melbourne, if a girl actually likes you, you'll know ;)
I've even had a girl I met but lost later in the night, track me down off club photos, message me and ask me out!
I've also had girls push me and tell me to fuck off! It goes both ways
This is sparta motherfuckers
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#34

tommyhighlifer

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 Yo Todd, can you throw out another link, this looks hidden to me..?
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#35

alamarish

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nice post i love to read this 
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