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Hey there, it's Todd.
In this article you will learn how to game the hottest girls on the planet. Tens really are just girls like any other, but they’ve had a different life experience. By understanding this and adapting, you can have incredible success with these extreme beauties.
I’m writing you from New York between bootcamp, late-night adventures, sleep, and bootcamp all over again. It’s actually physically painful how tired I am, but the show must go on, eh?
A major lesson from this bootcamp so far, has been just having fun, so here is a drill you can use to improve your success in field when you are “in your head”:
Try to fail. That’s right. You heard it. Try to fail… BUT try to fail in a funny way. Just do that for a while and see what it does to your fun and your night. Enjoy. And speaking of bootcamp:
Where I'll be next...
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
FreeTourMarch 3, 2013: Washington DC, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA (under 21 bootcamp)Wait-List
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
FreeTourMarch 28, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
BootcampApril 5-7, 2013: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, USA
BootcampApril 12-14, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)
BootcampApril 25-27, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands
BootcampMay 2-4, 2013: London, United Kingdom
FreeTourMay 23, 2013: London, United Kingdom (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMay 23-25, 2013: London, United Kingdom
BootcampJune 27-29, 2013: Montreal, Canada
FreeTourJune 27, 2013: Montreal, Canada (7pm-9pm)
FreeTourJuly 3, 2013: Boston, USA (7pm-9pm)
Pay particular attention to the Europe dates from April 25th through May 23rd. I don’t come to Europe that often, so be sure to look me up when I am there!
One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:
YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WINGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!
http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com
Ok. On to the video.
This is on a topic that I get asked about over and over again. It is simplicity itself, but holds a complexity as well. “HOW TO GAME TENS”. I get asked this all the time, and over the years my answer has varied, but here is the most up-to date version I’ve put out in seminar. The one thing I would mention in addition to this video is that social circle helps as well, so don’t neglect that if you want really hot girls.
Without further ado. On to your regularly scheduled programming:
Nice! Hope you enjoyed it, and for those of you just reading or unable to view the video, the key point is this: Any girl is basically going to respond to the subtleties of your communication… what we call “honest signals”. This is true for all girls and means that the same guys are basically attractive to all girls…
HOWEVER
Tens have had a different life experience in which they are accustomed to being told that they are hot, and accustomed to being highly stimulated by people vying for their attention. SO… with tens it is often necessary to do something a bit different or special, simply to get their attention. In the video, I explain in much more depth how this is done, and I give a lot of specific examples.
Please post your comments and feedback. I’d like to find out what is most important to you, so I can adjust accordingly.
Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:
facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd
Thanks again, and until next time,
-Todd
p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.
p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
In this article you will learn how to game the hottest girls on the planet. Tens really are just girls like any other, but they’ve had a different life experience. By understanding this and adapting, you can have incredible success with these extreme beauties.
I’m writing you from New York between bootcamp, late-night adventures, sleep, and bootcamp all over again. It’s actually physically painful how tired I am, but the show must go on, eh?
A major lesson from this bootcamp so far, has been just having fun, so here is a drill you can use to improve your success in field when you are “in your head”:
Try to fail. That’s right. You heard it. Try to fail… BUT try to fail in a funny way. Just do that for a while and see what it does to your fun and your night. Enjoy. And speaking of bootcamp:
Where I'll be next...
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
FreeTourMarch 3, 2013: Washington DC, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA (under 21 bootcamp)Wait-List
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
FreeTourMarch 28, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
BootcampApril 5-7, 2013: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, USA
BootcampApril 12-14, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)
BootcampApril 25-27, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands
BootcampMay 2-4, 2013: London, United Kingdom
FreeTourMay 23, 2013: London, United Kingdom (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMay 23-25, 2013: London, United Kingdom
BootcampJune 27-29, 2013: Montreal, Canada
FreeTourJune 27, 2013: Montreal, Canada (7pm-9pm)
FreeTourJuly 3, 2013: Boston, USA (7pm-9pm)
Pay particular attention to the Europe dates from April 25th through May 23rd. I don’t come to Europe that often, so be sure to look me up when I am there!
One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:
YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WINGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!
http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com
Ok. On to the video.
This is on a topic that I get asked about over and over again. It is simplicity itself, but holds a complexity as well. “HOW TO GAME TENS”. I get asked this all the time, and over the years my answer has varied, but here is the most up-to date version I’ve put out in seminar. The one thing I would mention in addition to this video is that social circle helps as well, so don’t neglect that if you want really hot girls.
Without further ado. On to your regularly scheduled programming:
Nice! Hope you enjoyed it, and for those of you just reading or unable to view the video, the key point is this: Any girl is basically going to respond to the subtleties of your communication… what we call “honest signals”. This is true for all girls and means that the same guys are basically attractive to all girls…
HOWEVER
Tens have had a different life experience in which they are accustomed to being told that they are hot, and accustomed to being highly stimulated by people vying for their attention. SO… with tens it is often necessary to do something a bit different or special, simply to get their attention. In the video, I explain in much more depth how this is done, and I give a lot of specific examples.
Please post your comments and feedback. I’d like to find out what is most important to you, so I can adjust accordingly.
Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:
facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd
Thanks again, and until next time,
-Todd
p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.
p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList
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besserwisser
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Join Date: 07/28/2008 | Posts: 3081
Zer0.Point
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Join Date: 02/06/2012 | Posts: 357
Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.
joe91
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JohnnyCanada
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Join Date: 02/20/2011 | Posts: 516
I totally agree its hard to get the attention of most 10's especially in night clubs. I also found that they tend to want to preserve their social value in the venue even more than the 7's and 8's. A 10 is very unlikely to make out with a guy she doesn't know in front of other people because she knows all eyes are on her, shes not only worried about what her friends will think but also what the entire venue will think. She's already insecure and theres no way she will allow further negative judgements.
There isn't that many 10's where I live so my experience is limited but I have had some experiences recently at home as well as some bigger cities Ive travelled to this year and I found that yes its tough to get their attention initially but by just being casual, chill and being funny, you will stand out. I don't see 10's getting hit on a lot and if they are its usually some dude trying to but them drinks or telling them how beautiful they are. Its rare they meet a guy that just acts "normal" and comfortable around them.
muay
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Join Date: 02/25/2013 | Posts: 19
Being a normal dude around a 10... impossibruuu!
Mr. Todd - I have to give props when props are due. I'll be joining one of your events the next time I'm in the US/Sac town.
TheDuve
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Join Date: 07/22/2012 | Posts: 75
Going in super hard is just SO unusual for 10s. They're used to everyone slowly trying to weasel their way into their pants, even cool guys.
I do think that you CAN get those girls by just being centred though, and that's what I do when I feel bad, just keep the congruence. Definitely not as effective as when you're polarising like that though.
Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.
Loving your content (especially the IC stuff) and looking forward to meeting you at the London free tour
muay
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Join Date: 02/25/2013 | Posts: 19
Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.
Jove
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Join Date: 09/07/2011 | Posts: 245
Like everyone who tries you get closer and closer, but if there's like a tip what is it? Cuz I feel like, it doesn't matter if she thinks I'm more attractive (make her more horny) than other guys, she will still go where the 'value' is. Like if I just had the time with her, I could pimp the shit out of her and she would stay, but how do I get in the situation where I have the time with her?
WHAT DO??!
EDIT: I just watched Alex's video. Helped me understand a lot. However, Todd or other instructors are welcome to answer since it's not always a club situation.
dave7-
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Join Date: 05/14/2012 | Posts: 1984
The grass-fed beef is waiting for you! Moo!
Cool video. It's cool how you make the topic of gaming 10's understandable and simple, while at the same time making it legit.
Polarize
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dirtysexybandit
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Join Date: 01/03/2011 | Posts: 381
Thanks
Tensai
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Join Date: 10/09/2012 | Posts: 9
Mesteño
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Join Date: 04/21/2012 | Posts: 33
"Creepy guys are good at research"
"I researched her (Tom Brady's GF) after we broke up". LOL
Kool Kane
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Join Date: 03/03/2010 | Posts: 61
this doll scared the hell out of me as a kid, but later on I found those flicks quite hilarious^^
he's definitely assuming his value and acting through his own intentions...
William-h-bonney
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muay
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Join Date: 02/25/2013 | Posts: 19
WHAT DO??!
You can also stop caring if you don't f-close a chick. There's 7 billion people in the world and over half are female. The odds are in your favor.
Magic90210
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Join Date: 02/24/2013 | Posts: 4
The number one thing you have to know about the 10.0 is that no one in the bar, club, et al. has the guts to approach her and the ones that typically do have no game and screw up when they say the wrong things to her i.e. they have no "game plan". This is the reason why you see celebs and super Hot Babes (HBs) with dorky loser kids, fatties (nothing against fat dudes) and ugly chumps. Its simply that they will hook up with guys with confidence and Game! If you ask most 10.0s or hot chicks they will say that they "are so attractive/hot that most men won't even approach them". This means you have to be that guy that breaks that taboo by being the guy that makes the move on her. Most Tens simply want a man to talk to them and if they are so hot no men will hit on them and they grow desperate for a man to simply approach them....they get off on that shit, you know! If you ever see a group of three girls with a "ten" then you and your wing should approach that set for sure!
What I am saying is that the Golden Rule to understanding the "Ten" is this "That they want a man to approach them". And you my man have to be that confident guy with Game that does it!
Todd
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
Whoa this video is bang bang bang on.
Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.
Todd
Instructor | Respected Member
Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
Being a normal dude around a 10... impossibruuu!
Mr. Todd - I have to give props when props are due. I'll be joining one of your events the next time I'm in the US/Sac town.
Todd
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
All so true.
Going in super hard is just SO unusual for 10s. They're used to everyone slowly trying to weasel their way into their pants, even cool guys.
I do think that you CAN get those girls by just being centred though, and that's what I do when I feel bad, just keep the congruence. Definitely not as effective as when you're polarising like that though.
Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.
Loving your content (especially the IC stuff) and looking forward to meeting you at the London free tour
Todd
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
I think everyone can train themselves to do the shock humor shit. But the whole "be careful of how much validation you give her" vs "being real" makes me feel like "shiet! what do..?". I don't think it would be THAT diffcult to seal the deal if you're already on a day 2 etc, however, how you go from getting her attention, to being a situation where she's alone with you (day2, getting her to leave her friends that night, etc)? It's not so much that I think I'm not enough, but rather, she has so much shit going on that she doesn't have enough reason to come with. Off the top of my head I guess you could say INVESTING, DRAMA, FAT CEO, I've had turbos be into me and be excited about a day2, but I've not had them actually show up :(
Like everyone who tries you get closer and closer, but if there's like a tip what is it? Cuz I feel like, it doesn't matter if she thinks I'm more attractive (make her more horny) than other guys, she will still go where the 'value' is. Like if I just had the time with her, I could pimp the shit out of her and she would stay, but how do I get in the situation where I have the time with her?
WHAT DO??!
EDIT: I just watched Alex's video. Helped me understand a lot. However, Todd or other instructors are welcome to answer since it's not always a club situation.
Todd
Instructor | Respected Member
Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
The grass-fed beef is waiting for you! Moo!
Cool video. It's cool how you make the topic of gaming 10's understandable and simple, while at the same time making it legit.
Todd
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 810
"Creepy guys are good at research"
"I researched her (Tom Brady's GF) after we broke up". LOL
Bobbafat
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Join Date: 02/24/2013 | Posts: 26
Magic90210
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I have been told by many women that I am very attractive but have often lost my target to less attractive men because simply I cannot hold up a conversation as well as I used years ago and "My Game" has gotten weak. This site and many of the books have helped me alot lately but I really need to just get back into socializing and meeting people in the field. I feel that St Pattricks Day will be a good opportunity for me to get back out there and get a few numbers, etc.
Whoa this video is bang bang bang on.
Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.
Magic90210
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Join Date: 02/24/2013 | Posts: 4
Tokeyyy3
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Kid_Ink
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SteveyP
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I like your advice and everything but until I see proof of you gaming and pulling a 10, you just lack credibility in my eyes.
Tyler and Julien have video proof pulling hotties, do you?
P.S this isn't anything personal. Just thought I'd ask because I'm curuious to see what all your 'tactics' gets you.
Courage
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