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Hey there, it's Todd.

In this article you will learn how to game the hottest girls on the planet. Tens really are just girls like any other, but they’ve had a different life experience. By understanding this and adapting, you can have incredible success with these extreme beauties.

I’m writing you from New York between bootcamp, late-night adventures, sleep, and bootcamp all over again. It’s actually physically painful how tired I am, but the show must go on, eh?
A major lesson from this bootcamp so far, has been just having fun, so here is a drill you can use to improve your success in field when you are “in your head”:

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Ok. On to the video.

This is on a topic that I get asked about over and over again. It is simplicity itself, but holds a complexity as well. “HOW TO GAME TENS”. I get asked this all the time, and over the years my answer has varied, but here is the most up-to date version I’ve put out in seminar. The one thing I would mention in addition to this video is that social circle helps as well, so don’t neglect that if you want really hot girls.

Without further ado. On to your regularly scheduled programming:



Nice! Hope you enjoyed it, and for those of you just reading or unable to view the video, the key point is this: Any girl is basically going to respond to the subtleties of your communication… what we call “honest signals”. This is true for all girls and means that the same guys are basically attractive to all girls…

HOWEVER

Tens have had a different life experience in which they are accustomed to being told that they are hot, and accustomed to being highly stimulated by people vying for their attention. SO… with tens it is often necessary to do something a bit different or special, simply to get their attention. In the video, I explain in much more depth how this is done, and I give a lot of specific examples.

Please post your comments and feedback. I’d like to find out what is most important to you, so I can adjust accordingly.

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Thanks again, and until next time,
-Todd

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#1
besserwisser

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Being a normal dude around a 10... impossibruuu!
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Zer0.Point

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Whoa this video is bang bang bang on.

Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.
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#3

joe91

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Yo man i dont game teens. Also tom brady is hot. Cool vid though. Thx bro keep it up.
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#4

JohnnyCanada

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Great vid and good topic!

I totally agree its hard to get the attention of most 10's especially in night clubs. I also found that they tend to want to preserve their social value in the venue even more than the 7's and 8's. A 10 is very unlikely to make out with a guy she doesn't know in front of other people because she knows all eyes are on her, shes not only worried about what her friends will think but also what the entire venue will think. She's already insecure and theres no way she will allow further negative judgements.

There isn't that many 10's where I live so my experience is limited but I have had some experiences recently at home as well as some bigger cities Ive travelled to this year and I found that yes its tough to get their attention initially but by just being casual, chill and being funny, you will stand out. I don't see 10's getting hit on a lot and if they are its usually some dude trying to but them drinks or telling them how beautiful they are. Its rare they meet a guy that just acts "normal" and comfortable around them.
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besserwisser wrote:

Being a normal dude around a 10... impossibruuu!
10's aren't big scary monsters, they're just people. Like he was saying, push-pull and being a dick to them is what they fall for. Just prepared to be blown out and give no fucks. 

Mr. Todd - I have to give props when props are due. I'll be joining one of your events the next time I'm in the US/Sac town. 
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#6

Bowss

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All so true.

Going in super hard is just SO unusual for 10s. They're used to everyone slowly trying to weasel their way into their pants, even cool guys.
I do think that you CAN get those girls by just being centred though, and that's what I do when I feel bad, just keep the congruence. Definitely not as effective as when you're polarising like that though.

Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.

Loving your content (especially the IC stuff) and looking forward to meeting you at the London free tour
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TheDuve wrote:


Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.


The lower the HB the more you can compliment her looks. You should only compliment a HB8.5+ on her clothing or hair... "Those are cute heels... if you're a stripper." <nudge>
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#8

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I think everyone can train themselves to do the shock humor shit. But the whole "be careful of how much validation you give her" vs "being real" makes me feel like "shiet! what do..?". I don't think it would be THAT diffcult to seal the deal if you're already on a day 2 etc, however, how you go from getting her attention, to being a situation where she's alone with you (day2, getting her to leave her friends that night, etc)? It's not so much that I think I'm not enough, but rather, she has so much shit going on that she doesn't have enough reason to come with. Off the top of my head I guess you could say INVESTING, DRAMA, FAT CEO, I've had turbos be into me and be excited about a day2, but I've not had them actually show up :(

Like everyone who tries you get closer and closer, but if there's like a tip what is it? Cuz I feel like, it doesn't matter if she thinks I'm more attractive (make her more horny) than other guys, she will still go where the 'value' is. Like if I just had the time with her, I could pimp the shit out of her and she would stay, but how do I get in the situation where I have the time with her?

WHAT DO??!

EDIT: I just watched Alex's video. Helped me understand a lot. However, Todd or other instructors are welcome to answer since it's not always a club situation. 
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dave7-

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March 28, back in Austin! Should be warm by then.

The grass-fed beef is waiting for you! Moo!

Cool video. It's cool how you make the topic of gaming 10's understandable and simple, while at the same time making it legit. 
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Polarize

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Don't release the tension guys

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dirtysexybandit

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Good video.

Thanks
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#12

Tensai

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Thanks Todd, your videos are getting better and better. I didn't use to like your videos as much tbh, but lately I'm really learning a lot from them and enjoying them. Thanks for the content, Keep it up!
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Mesteño

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I was laughing @

"Creepy guys are good at research"

"I researched her (Tom Brady's GF) after we broke up". LOL
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#14
Kool Kane

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LOL!
this doll scared the hell out of me as a kid, but later on I found those flicks quite hilarious^^
he's definitely assuming his value and acting through his own intentions...
Polarize wrote:
Don't release the tension guys

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William-h-bonney

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Very practical advice,nice. Like you said tho after you open with something like slut, after that you really have to make sure you don't validate her and the interaction becomes very gamey.
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Jove wrote:
Cuz I feel like, it doesn't matter if she thinks I'm more attractive (make her more horny) than other guys, she will still go where the 'value' is. Like if I just had the time with her, I could pimp the shit out of her and she would stay, but how do I get in the situation where I have the time with her?

WHAT DO??!
That's easy, see yourself as high value, and you will be high value. HB10s don't go out if they're looking ugly, they have good hygeine, wear nice cloths, etc... This is all stuff that you can control. Who gets laid? Rockstars. Now you don't have to dress and carry yourself like Russell Brand or get a fuzzy hat, just be congruent with you and accessorize your wardrobe to reflect the person you want to be. 

You can also stop caring if you don't f-close a chick. There's 7 billion people in the world and over half are female. The odds are in your favor. 
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#17

Magic90210

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I can't wait to read this article. I am a below average guy and have scored a few tens in my life. Ever notice fat and ugly guys walking around with 10.0 eye candy attached to their arm? I will tell you what its not because they got money or something else...its two things 1) They got game and 2) most 10.0 are so hot that men (including AMOGs) will not even approach them i.e. They want a man with confidence to approach them and the ones that do it steathly and properly get the 10.0.    

The number one thing you have to know about  the 10.0 is that no one in the bar, club, et al. has the guts to approach her and the ones that typically do have no game and screw up when they say the wrong things to her i.e. they have no "game plan".  This is the reason why you see celebs and super Hot Babes (HBs) with dorky loser kids, fatties (nothing against fat dudes) and ugly chumps. Its simply that they will hook up with guys with confidence and Game! If you ask most 10.0s or hot chicks they will say that they "are so attractive/hot that most men won't even approach them". This means you have to be that guy that breaks that taboo by being the guy that makes the move on her. Most Tens simply want a man to talk to them and if they are so hot no men will hit on them and they grow desperate for a man to simply approach them....they get off on that shit, you know!  If you ever see a group of three girls with a "ten" then you and your wing should approach that set for sure!

What I am saying is that the Golden Rule to understanding the "Ten" is this "That they want a man to approach them". And you my man have to be that confident guy with Game that does it! 
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#18
Todd

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Ya, this has happened to me SOOO many times :(
Zer0.Point wrote:

Whoa this video is bang bang bang on.

Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.

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Todd

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Awesome man.  Look forward to seeing you.
muay wrote:

besserwisser wrote:

Being a normal dude around a 10... impossibruuu!
10's aren't big scary monsters, they're just people. Like he was saying, push-pull and being a dick to them is what they fall for. Just prepared to be blown out and give no fucks. 

Mr. Todd - I have to give props when props are due. I'll be joining one of your events the next time I'm in the US/Sac town. 
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Todd

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Cool.  You as well.  Keep up the good work in the meantime.
TheDuve wrote:

All so true.

Going in super hard is just SO unusual for 10s. They're used to everyone slowly trying to weasel their way into their pants, even cool guys.
I do think that you CAN get those girls by just being centred though, and that's what I do when I feel bad, just keep the congruence. Definitely not as effective as when you're polarising like that though.

Also I think some guys do this too much to 7s thinking they're hot enough and the girls just can't handle it because the guy's value is just too high, the girl doesn't feel entitled.

Loving your content (especially the IC stuff) and looking forward to meeting you at the London free tour
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Todd

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You answered your own question... VALUE is key, but it can come in many forms... hence the different styles you see.  Sometimes it can happen without value if logistics are managed expertly as well, but for pure cold approach, value definitely will matter a lot.
Jove wrote:

I think everyone can train themselves to do the shock humor shit. But the whole "be careful of how much validation you give her" vs "being real" makes me feel like "shiet! what do..?". I don't think it would be THAT diffcult to seal the deal if you're already on a day 2 etc, however, how you go from getting her attention, to being a situation where she's alone with you (day2, getting her to leave her friends that night, etc)? It's not so much that I think I'm not enough, but rather, she has so much shit going on that she doesn't have enough reason to come with. Off the top of my head I guess you could say INVESTING, DRAMA, FAT CEO, I've had turbos be into me and be excited about a day2, but I've not had them actually show up :(

Like everyone who tries you get closer and closer, but if there's like a tip what is it? Cuz I feel like, it doesn't matter if she thinks I'm more attractive (make her more horny) than other guys, she will still go where the 'value' is. Like if I just had the time with her, I could pimp the shit out of her and she would stay, but how do I get in the situation where I have the time with her?

WHAT DO??!

EDIT: I just watched Alex's video. Helped me understand a lot. However, Todd or other instructors are welcome to answer since it's not always a club situation. 
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#22
Todd

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Haha, can't wait for Austin again.  Love that place!
dave7- wrote:
March 28, back in Austin! Should be warm by then.

The grass-fed beef is waiting for you! Moo!

Cool video. It's cool how you make the topic of gaming 10's understandable and simple, while at the same time making it legit. 
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hahahahahaha!!!
Mesteño wrote:
I was laughing @

"Creepy guys are good at research"

"I researched her (Tom Brady's GF) after we broke up". LOL

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#24

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Isnt this basicly mystery method?
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    This happens to me alot too. I feel I just need more practice in the field and need to continue to sharpen my skills. The tension will build and some how I lose her. I have some problems in the areas of demonstrating value. I can open well when I approach but them I lose it from there in most cases. And if I actually carry the conversation through  I fail in mid-game or build the attraction to a close. Since I am just getting back into the scene I feel that more advice and practice will help out. I am a pretty good looking guy and there are times when I just shy-out. 

     I have been told by many women that I am very attractive but have often lost my target to less attractive men because simply I cannot hold up a conversation as well as I used years ago and "My Game" has gotten weak. This site and many of the books have helped me alot lately but I really need to just get back into socializing and meeting people in the field. I feel that St Pattricks Day will be a good opportunity for me to get back out there and get a few numbers, etc. 
Todd wrote:
Ya, this has happened to me SOOO many times :(
Zer0.Point wrote:

Whoa this video is bang bang bang on.

Had a very similar experience last night where I was talking to a girl and had a decent amount of tension going on so she was on me. The SECOND I decided to ease up on it a bit she turns back to her friends.


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     Also I watched the video and it was very inspriational. I got alot out of it actually. The part that stood out for me the most was actually more broad then directly toward Tens i.e. it was the reference to texting. I have often ruined some past relationships over drunk texts and terrible messaging. I realized from those few words you said what I have to do to keep the girl that I am working on taking to dinner soon. I understand more about her and what type of messaging is working what is not. We are planning a dinner date over the next few weeks and I am going to see how far I can take it with her on the first date. ;0) You know what I mean? 
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Nice
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thank you great job!!
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#29
SteveyP

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Sorry Todd..

I like your advice and everything but until I see proof of you gaming and pulling a 10, you just lack credibility in my eyes.

Tyler and Julien have video proof pulling hotties, do you?

P.S this isn't anything personal. Just thought I'd ask because I'm curuious to see what all your 'tactics' gets you.
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Courage

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Great video. I can see a lot of people trying the "slut" thing and it going painfully wrong though.
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#31

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I just come across this....in my eyes i pulled an 8.5. Blonde, busty, slim, cute looking with a welsh accent! And i didn't overthink it, i chatted to her friends and then she was like why are u drinking water...and i just made up a reason why and we got chatting....next thing you know i'm kissing and licking in between her big tits and she wanted me too. Dont overthink it is the key. it shouldnt be stressful...its not an exam. its a girl who puts on lots of makeup.
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