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Hello RSDNation!

Todd here, and I’m super excited to be bringing you my first front page article EVER. Fittingly enough I suppose, I’m writing it in bed while a beautiful girl attempts to sleep next to me. I think my typing is probably keeping her awake, but she’s being quite sweet.

For those of you who might not remember, I was the original instructor from “The Game” living in the tent at project Hollywood and still managing to pull girls… I’ve been an instructor for nearly a decade.

This is actually rather appropriate for today’s video and article about relationship maintenance. I can’t believe I put some of this out on video. I’ve edited my Multiple Long Term Relationships speech out of previous videos because I thought it was TOO EXTREME, but I finally caved, so here it is!

Before I get into that though, I want to take a quick opportunity to let you know that RSD Inner circle is coming soon. Get ready because this is going to be the most incredible product ever seen in the pickup world for developing the lifestyle and habits possessed by the superstars of game!

Papa and I have been working on Inner Circle and beta testing it around the world for over a year now, and the results we’ve seen in some of the test chapters have been INCREDIBLE! We’ve since taken the model of those chapters, enhanced it, and are releasing it worldwide.

Keep an eye out for information on Inner Circle on the forums over the coming weeks as we’ll be looking for a final round of feedback before the official launch. For more information on RSD Inner Circle, check out the video I created all about it and get on our VIP Interest List by visiting:



http://www.rsdinnercircle.com

The video goes into much more depth on the components and benefits of Inner Circle, but I’ve also listed them below for mobile browsers:

1. Mission Impossibles: Specific exclusive lessons and in field assignments from RSD instructors, to be performed with your local wingmen. Post mission feedback from RSD Instructors and staff will also be provided.

2. Regional Conferences: Day long seminar events featuring RSD Instructors speaking live in a city near you. Attendance is free worldwide with Inner Circle Membership.

3. Papa’s Bachelor Bash: A special seminar featuring Todd, Papa, Tyler and RSD instructors plus an invitation to Papa’s bachelor party at the playboy mansion. Seminar will be available on DVD for those who cannot attend.

4. Video Conferences: Regular video presentations from RSD instructors along with the opportunity to ask real time questions.

5. Bar Crawls and Local Wingmen: Meet up with local wingmen in your area at structured RSD events in your city. The best way to meet up with your peers… IN FIELD!

6. Executive Retreats: Go ON VACATION with RSD coaches at some to the most exotic and exciting world events. Possible events to include Olympics, Oktoberfest in Germany and similar types of events.

7. Rewards Points: Receive points for attending meetings, bringing friends, completing missions which are redeemable for RSD products and are even redeemable for your Inner Circle membership the following year!

Okay, so on to today’s article and a bit about myself:

Since it is my first article I thought I’d take a few sentences to introduce myself:

I’ve been an RSD instructor since the days of Project Hollywood nearly a decade ago, but I’ve always gone out of my way to keep my face off the internet until NOW. From 2007-2011 I was coaching part-time and working on other businesses, but when Papa mentioned inner circle to me, I had to commit full time. The program was just too good and I wanted on-board.

I’m currently coaching in cities around the world, and you’ll be seeing more video and articles from me in the future, but my main role is as Chief of RSD Inner Circle; setting up chapters around the world and making sure that you receive the absolute best pick-up material on a weekly basis.

For whatever reason, I’ve always been extremely good at maintaining multiple relationships while being honest and open with the girls. In fact one of the things I’m known for is maintaining rotations of nine to even thirteen girls at one time and having them okay with the fact that I’m seeing other people.

In today’s video I explain, in part, how I was able to achieve this. Partly it comes down to frame control, but partly, I think, it comes down to the vibe I have with the girls who I date and with the fact that I am actively making them invest in me and in the relationship.

In this video I talk a bit about ways in which I get girls to invest in me and develop compliance. I think these are techniques that are highly overlooked in today’s natural style game, and are ideas that have never been fully understood in any case.

My game is very verbal in nature, so I tend to use language to my advantage in many ways, both in the words and concept that I use, but also in the way I structure interactions. For example when it makes sense to ask questions vs. telling stories for the tempo of the interaction.

We talk often about self-amusing in game and I think this is a truly valuable concept. Key word VALUABLE… as in establishing value. Self-amusement taken to its logical extreme actually excludes the girl, and therefore makes it difficult to connect. Self amusing too much can also lead to situations where you end up talking AT the girl but never getting any feedback or commitment from her.

The other concept I’d really emphasize as you watch this video is the concept of LEVERAGE. I discuss leverage in a variety of ways, but the main idea is to realize that you have more power than you think with girls just by the fact that they like you enough to still be talking to you, never mind if they are more invested because you have a history together.

The most extreme use of leverage is my MLTR speech, which I have used in one form or another dozens of times with great success. It is a great example of many of the concepts of game: Frame setting, leading, non-reactivity… In many ways it is my masterpiece. And I’ll probably get in a TON of trouble for putting it out on the internet, but oh well… such is the job. ENJOY!



Did you hear that? It was the sound of all my girlfriends getting heartbroken at the same time. I literally cannot believe I finally put that out into the world. I hope you found it massively educational.

The other thing that is unbelievable is that the Inner Circle launch is almost here. I’m sure as you find out more about the program you’ll be as excited as I am. I’ll be back with a new video each week until the launch bringing you more insider secrets for pickup and introducing you to the newest program from RSD. Until then, keep building your game and your life.

Hope you found the video informative, and I want you to feel free to make lots of comments and ask tons of questions both about the video and about Inner Circle, so that I know what you care about most for future articles.

Until next time!

-Todd

P.S. Remember to get on the RSD Inner Circle VIP Interest List by visiting:

http://www.rsdinnercircle.com

P.P.S. I’ll be bringing you more information about Inner Circle every week from now until the official launch. To receive the latest updates go to:

http://www.rsdinnercircle.com
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#1
startale

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Nice!

Btw it's your second article, the first one is here: http://www.rsdnation.com/todd/blog/long-distance-girls
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 Awesome.
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#3

SEAN PUA

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 I fucken don't like you Todd!!! lol But I like RSD inner circle,,, So I guess we're cool :)
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 Todd is the man
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frenchkiss

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i loved the speech at the end of the second video!!!
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 Todd, what a promising name you have. will bechecking you out, good luck on your awwesome rsd journey 
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Mari0

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Interesting, project Hollywood failed let's see what will happen with this “program”
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Nice!

Tyler
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 How do you become a chair member in a particular city and what are the requirements?
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#10

SEAN PUA

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 RSD inner circle is cool as fuck!!!!!! It's the motherfucken real!!! 
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An "RSD Lair" has been needed in my area for a long, long time. Facebook groups with voluntary participation from Hot Seat and Bootcamp alumni would be an awesome addition to this. RSD Inner Circle could get a ton of members really quickly with that.
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awesome stuff man!
you nailed it at the right time, since i'm currently trying to set up a little harem ;-)
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I'm glad Todd was able to captivate your interest in the program. First and foremost, RSD Inner Circle is not a lair rather it is a fraterntiy and a mastermind mentoring program with RSD Instructors coordinating live events similar to the hot seat and rsd world summit; however, these are regional conferences with local meetups organized as a bonus. This is primarily a program for alumni of live programs to continue to get feedback and to be involved in RSD via live participation in programs all year round while giving newbies a chance to get to experience what RSD is. I'll post some videos and articles about the program as well to help clarify what RSD Inner Circle is about. Hope the video Todd posted peaked your interest and expect to get weekly updates with more info.
synergist'12 wrote:
An "RSD Lair" has been needed in my area for a long, long time. Facebook groups with voluntary participation from Hot Seat and Bootcamp alumni would be an awesome addition to this. RSD Inner Circle could get a ton of members really quickly with that.
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RSD Inner Circle is a brotherhood whereby everyone is considered equal and there are no gurus; however, this is a program that will thrive based on the efforts of volunteers chosen to signup as liasisons for the chapter to help organize the events and chapter activity. These people will be interviewed from among the people that signup for RSD Inner Circle and chosen from such ranks so that the people that are leaders have also made a commitment to be active in the program itself. We don't want people as members who will only come a few times and leave because that won't help the group overall so we will be interviewing everyone prior to their participation in the program. 
mazeenriquez wrote:
 How do you become a chair member in a particular city and what are the requirements?
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 That was awesome!
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smileSweet! I'm assuming the interviews will be in the next few weeks?
Papa wrote:
RSD Inner Circle is a brotherhood whereby everyone is considered equal and there are no gurus; however, this is a program that will thrive based on the efforts of volunteers chosen to signup as liasisons for the chapter to help organize the events and chapter activity. These people will be interviewed from among the people that signup for RSD Inner Circle and chosen from such ranks so that the people that are leaders have also made a commitment to be active in the program itself. We don't want people as members who will only come a few times and leave because that won't help the group overall so we will be interviewing everyone prior to their participation in the program. 
mazeenriquez wrote:
 How do you become a chair member in a particular city and what are the requirements?

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Great video, Todd, I really liked the investment part too! That relationship speech is awesome frame control!

All the best for your public RSD life!
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#18

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MORE TODD! 

MORE TODD!
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Robert Paulsen

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Great talk... inner circle now thats some dope ass news
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You got the shirt haha! Good video, glad to see you on the front page.
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oh man. that speech at the end of the second video is dynamite. explosive, yet dangerous in the wrong hands.
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Dude this is sick! Digging the variety of instructor input lately. It has been scrambling my mind to think outside the box.
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T-Boy is the shit. Im horny for moar!
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 Awesome!  I'm looking forward to seeing more material from you!
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 Todd has some great videos
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 how much is inner circle
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#28

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 teh thing is is that the mltr speech is real talk. true words from a person with good intentions. just because it was used multiplemultiple times doesn't mean it wasn't coming from a real place every time. i mean, why use it on girls that don't really interest you. shouldn't be a means for achieving some numbah or reinforcin dat ego. awesome vid. gracioso mucho

oh and also, the best part i LOVED about your video was the section on (along the lines of) "game isn't supposed to be easy." FUCKING LOVED it. love it when all the rsd crew gives those real talks (gotta love the journey and puttin in the work). personally, it centers me
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 RSD Inner Circle sounds awesome Todd! Can't wait to participate!
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Todd I am stoked for your next idea(s), I really vibe your reasoning and resonate with your views on developing yourself (mastermind).

I think you are providing a lot of great "contrast" to the ideas we've seen on RSDN and I think it'll help everyone to incorporate each of these parts.
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#31

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A question about investments.

Are high socially aware girls don't see this little tricks when you asking to pass a napkin? Isn't it is lame? ;)

Maybe some examples of more subtle ways to make girl invest? Or should I don't care lame it or not if it works?

Btw really cool stuff and glad to see another profound instructors videos!
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 I haven't heard this much outer game from RSD youtube videos in a long time if ever.. 
I am intrigued about whole inner circle thing but kind of concerned about less populated places as Prague where I live, is this going to work with smaller rsd "fan base"?
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What I've seen so far looks great, but I just hope Inner Circle addresses the biggest hurdle in game - finding wingmen in less active cities. I live in Houston and I have to drive 3 hours to Austin on the weekends to hang out with decent wingmen. It sounds like RSD Inner Circle might address this problem once and for all. If so I'm definitely looking forward to it.
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#34
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 First of all, I want that narcissist shirt.

Second of all, you seem like a super chill dude.

Thirdly, rsd inner circle sounds sweet. 

How's the rain in Boston?
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#35
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Project Mayhem is underway. Clubs will be sprouting worldwide in no time.
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#36
Freddie

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Awesome video Todd!

I really like the idea of investment, almost seems like an "underlooked" thing in the community, or perhaps I have not just paid attention to it enough. But it's obviously a huge thing to make the girl invested.

Also, looking forward to more info about the Inner Circle!
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#37

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 Only if i remembered the end  speech a lot more, I would be single and have her as a side Bitch 
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 just rolling by to show some love - keep it up 
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#39
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Interviews will take place with people who signup for RSD Inner Circle on or after August 29.
mazeenriquez wrote:
smileSweet! I'm assuming the interviews will be in the next few weeks?
Papa wrote:
RSD Inner Circle is a brotherhood whereby everyone is considered equal and there are no gurus; however, this is a program that will thrive based on the efforts of volunteers chosen to signup as liasisons for the chapter to help organize the events and chapter activity. These people will be interviewed from among the people that signup for RSD Inner Circle and chosen from such ranks so that the people that are leaders have also made a commitment to be active in the program itself. We don't want people as members who will only come a few times and leave because that won't help the group overall so we will be interviewing everyone prior to their participation in the program. 
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 How do you become a chair member in a particular city and what are the requirements?


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Full details will be given out on August 29th; however, we expect that it will probably be priced around $30/month for a full membership to RSD Inner Circle.
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#41
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Any city in the world will be able to participate in both local and global events, but the larger cities will have more visits by RSD Instructors. The schedule of programs will be determined based upon how many people signup in each city whereby cities with more members will have more benefits.
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 I haven't heard this much outer game from RSD youtube videos in a long time if ever.. 
I am intrigued about whole inner circle thing but kind of concerned about less populated places as Prague where I live, is this going to work with smaller rsd "fan base"?
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#42

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really high expectations on the program
btw the mission seems to be quite hardcore and advanced
I wonder if it would be appropriate for 'total' 'hardcase' newbies to join it
or should i at least pull myself up to intermediate level before the launch?
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#43
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This is a program that will help you no matter what your skillset. In addition to being a training program, it will also be a brotherhood. Thus, you are not judged on your skillset as there is no gurus in your chapter rather it is more of a fraternity.
SSam wrote:
really high expectations on the program
btw the mission seems to be quite hardcore and advanced
I wonder if it would be appropriate for 'total' 'hardcase' newbies to join it
or should i at least pull myself up to intermediate level before the launch?
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 Loved the bootcamp in Chicago.  Can't wait for inner circle.
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#45

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 Like a Boss
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 Like a Boss
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#47
Papa

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This is a program that will be good for people of any skillset as it will help you out regardless of what your skills are. It's a hardcore training program and a fraternity at the same time. Just like how RSD programs give you great advice and tips for people of any skill, RSD Inner Circle will similarly teach you new and useful insights.
SSam wrote:
really high expectations on the program
btw the mission seems to be quite hardcore and advanced
I wonder if it would be appropriate for 'total' 'hardcase' newbies to join it
or should i at least pull myself up to intermediate level before the launch?
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 I'd be interested in Jeffy's reaction to the MLTR speech. Seems like an excellent way to keep girls from blowing out of the rotation.
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 Liked the vid man, awesome insights thanks for sharing! 
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#50

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daaaamn i tought it was $1000,00 per month
Papa wrote:
Full details will be given out on August 29th; however, we expect that it will probably be priced around $30/month for a full membership to RSD Inner Circle.
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